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/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 12:53 AM
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Marriage was strong in the times when women insisted on it to protect their economic status. Now they don't need it so much anymore. I have yet to see the study outlining that men are more in favour of marriage than women are. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 08:14 PM
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Very true. I like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:23 PM
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lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:18 PM
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Lovely description 8). From my observation there is a lot of truth in that, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:17 PM
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Did these wifes feel their expectations fulfilled by you or were you just an adventure on the side?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:11 PM
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Good point, all the media around us, advertise a life drenched with complete romantic fullfillment. Real life can only fall short against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:54 AM
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Copied from where? Interesting! Copying ruins it all!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:57 AM
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He's honest, has humor, knows life and maybe and most importantly he's good looking!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:44 AM
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No view to change here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:27 AM
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There absolutely should!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:23 AM
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Agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:55 PM
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Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:51 PM
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No worries I'm doing good. Some people as least got it. I though this mindset is entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:18 PM
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Not my thoughts! Read Wednesday Martin's "Untrue". You still may be confused though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:10 PM
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And there is nothing wrong with that, but it's a choice and not a law of nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:05 PM
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Oh an investigator trying to distract from the topic. :) I'm honored to be stalked. Your post have a very bitter tone, why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:54 PM
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Both genders have the same interest and capability to cheat. Just don't invent bs rectifications to give a pass only to one side!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:49 PM
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Haha. Just informing you about the latest trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:47 PM
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Exactly - you understood it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:45 PM
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Got your point, it's not hard to understand indeed. If they for example refuse to be with her for any other reason or because they don't feel like having a relationship at all, that is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:48 PM
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Isn't that what she has done over and over, sleeping with a lot of guys and not wanting to be in relationships with them? If that is what she wanted to do, that's her choice and should be completely fine with everyone, but your argument is 100% unlogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:04 PM
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How can it be his problem if he just walks away?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:11 PM
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If you communicate that upfront, I think it is fine. It is your life and your choices as long as they are not harmful to others. However you must also understand that the guy to settle down with may feel as n+1. How can he know it's not just his "turn"? The settle down guy for sure wants more than just being the next kick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:24 AM
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Sorry to hear that. Didn't happen to me. Always been a happy realist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:58 AM
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I am one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:34 AM
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It's a real phase. Take it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:52 PM
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Complete truth here!!! 😂😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:39 PM
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Sorry, nonsense. No matter how much you are working on the best version of yourself, you will be compared (for sure). In obesity of male attention and competition you rank somewhere, which is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:35 PM
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Laughing about the same jokes and talking for hours without getting bored can also mean nothing in the end! Eventually and ultimately there is no togetherness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:30 PM
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There never can be any ultimate commitment between people and marriage does not change that! A sudden change of mind can change everything. You live your life alone. Accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:26 PM
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To the point!! Stop haluzinating and realize this is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:19 PM
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Yes, easy. At any time you can decide not to jump through the hoop, even if you are not Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:39 PM
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What does a Chad on your own definition get you, when it is not anybody else's definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 10:51 AM
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As a guy I can tell you that it is known and very logical. Being below the "talk dark and handsome" Chad line applies to most guys. It is a sad and dark reality. Now you can be bitter and resentful about it for the rest of your life, you can try the creepy desperate nice guy tactic (making your situation even worse), you can go your own way (feels like wasting lifetime), distract yourself with RP thoughts (thinking it would make any difference). Nothing will change anything. There is only one re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 10:47 AM
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You have a very valid point there! Relationships definitely have a (very) validating effect as well. However the amount of people is still significant. If one person says you are smart - nice, but maybe one off. If 10 people say you are smart you are more inclined to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:27 AM
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That's why I mentioned honesty. Even then - telling her, that you care about honesty instead of insulting her, is why more powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:53 AM
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No one should be shamed or insulted for the way they tried to enjoy their life, if they always acted honestly, consent- and respectful. If their lifestyle is not for you, you definitely have the right to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:39 AM
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But fundamentally men know that women have the upper hand in life Until they happily just go their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:30 AM
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Not sure. Always difficult to generalize. Some also know that people are wired to maximize their own happiness, are highly exchangeable, everything is temporary - can end any minute and marriage is highly overrated. (Notice I was not using any gender specifically.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:17 AM
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It is very easy to understand if you don't think of sex as the physical act but as the consentfull validation through another person. You never experienced this validation you feel worthless. You experienced a lot of this validation, there must be something valuable about you. A worthless feeling person and a valued feeling person can never have a balanced relationship on eye level. I'm not saying I like that. It's just the way it is - a broken system.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:01 AM
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Game is like gravity it always exists, no matter if you believe in it or not!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:02 PM
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We run on caveman software. Strong, tall, good / healthy looking are good criteria for the same kind of offspring. Smart, funny, charming are nice to haves for friend zoned people. Edit: makes me want to be neither no1 nor no2!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:03 PM
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... outlier. Shush. Doesn't seem you want CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:17 AM
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Oh yes! Better watch out. She breaks a finger nail, the dude goes to jail, no questions asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:09 AM
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That is a healthy approach to make the best out of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:05 PM
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Yes and maybe he has the same approach!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:59 PM
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Non-celebrity I like that. B). I guess you cannot tweak your man into these certain things?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:46 PM
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Would you still be capable of crazy sexual chemistry with the right person?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:36 PM
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True, but sad either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:27 PM
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If there is the slightest suspicion of being betabuxed, just don't go there at all! Fortunately this is very easy to detect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:21 AM
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Isn't that infinitely sad. Having to live supported by the fantasies of your past sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:43 AM
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Men always had to do and represent something to attract women. First they have to be rock musicians and DJs then investors, politicians, artists, ... (men are human doings). Women just have to be to attract men (women are human beings). Women that are attracted to bare money (that can be lost at any time) instead of potential, are short sighted and not too bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:38 AM
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Sorry, BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:25 AM
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I'm so proud of the heavy object lifting advantage!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:24 AM
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What do you think - do they mature and grow out of it, or do options to fuck the hot, good looking, young men drain out as they age? Then the average, desperate and kind Joe is a good compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:12 AM
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There is no view to change here. Totally accurate. Couldn't have said it any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:07 PM
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Beautiful women are used to getting everything they want from an average dude in exchange fore a fake smile. So I focus on supporting the ugly ones. Guess it's wrong, should treat everyone equally well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:12 PM
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As a man you are obviously more attractive if you attract other women. Hijacking the swam intelligence here. I saw a post of a women bragging, that she locked her Chad (n count 100 or whatever) down. That is probably what number 99 thought as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:33 AM
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Do women enjoy the competition / comparison? Chad who decided to change his lifestyle (he used to hookup with 50+ "Bond girls" before), now shows serious interest in you. Not an issue at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:20 AM
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I believe you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:30 PM
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Yes, probably, but why bother, avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:22 PM
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The only thing I see here is hypersimplification. My (m) friends (m) and I are looking for smart, humor!, Character + looks and we see a lot of women who are looking for just status and $$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 09:36 AM
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Seriously very sorry to hear that!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:26 AM
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Any thinking women would explain the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:18 AM
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Analogies always fail at some point, but fact is that being fuel efficient is very easy for a light car while it is very difficult for a heavy car.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 08:31 AM
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There are also men who happily have LTRs with escorts. I find this super fascinating. It shows that concepts like intimacy, sex and connection are so completely different depending on who you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:32 PM
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Seriously?! That reminds me of the witch prosecution age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:24 PM
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And there should be no reason not to feel comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:20 PM
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Seems so. The future is uncertain (feel free to prove me wrong here). One of the few things that help to predict the future is the past. We are all the results of our past as well as our character and mindset has formed our past. So, if you are interested in someone, but not in their past, it would not be plausible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:11 PM
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Have you found people (men or women) with 2, 20 or 200 to be indistinguishable in behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:02 PM
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Except the number is an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:58 PM
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A long and scary post. Use condoms and just get intimate when you are certain the guy is a gentleman - maybe impossible on the first date. Problems solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:07 PM
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Women don't want casual sex? Interesting. I think it's a mistake to generalize. I met many women who are into casual sex. And I (m) am not really wired for it. Women and men have the same capability, interest and right for whatever sex they favour as long as it is consensual, respectful and preferably protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:01 PM
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Facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:01 PM
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Not a believer in online dating. People present an idealized image of themselves. If you really want to get to know someone, don't plan a candle light dinner. Instead drive with them into the next big traffic jam. Hanging out in places where it is likely to meet people with my interests - concerts, galleries, theater. Getting into a conversation about the venue, the peace, the artist. Never about myself! Sometimes having a 2. or 3. date for a dinner or drinks. No. 1 learning - don't show honest …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 06:21 PM
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That is unfortunately the only advice you can give to ugly Billy!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 08:10 PM
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So far it has been amazing with her. Maybe the guy before me has heard "you are THE one!" as well. I will never know so there is no point in asking. I will know, she could not stop the train, when me+1 is already lurking around the corner. Let's call it "sceptical" or "un-confident" and not insecure. That describes the situation way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:58 PM
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You are sooo right! We all kind of fear the future, but the truely dangerous time is our past!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:32 PM
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It's an enormously powerful gift!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:16 PM
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If I would always go the easy way, I would never learn. Maybe she is worth it. If not I can still wish her good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:47 PM
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And that happens more with high n?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:06 PM
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"No longer" means, that it was. Will read.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:05 PM
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So why do you think they divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:12 PM
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Super interesting! What were your findings?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:10 PM
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So you confirm that high n is a driver of this. If mutual, even more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:47 PM
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You run studies with a very large sample population and find that high n correlates with a high split-up rate. Would you agree that the past is a good indicator to predict the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:45 PM
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Divorce rates are much higher with high n-count people. I'm not into marriage b.t.w. but you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:51 PM
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The math discussion is distracting from the actual problem, which is loss of bonding capability and interest. The coin flip statistics are entertaining but have nothing to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:48 PM
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A great relief to read and very funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:38 PM
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Interesting. Do you have a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:36 PM
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It just is!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:56 AM
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What I'm reading here is, that it does not matter at all. So a lovely caring former sex worker is just as good as anybody else. Why do you make a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:41 AM
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With higher numbers the capability and interest to bond and to connect goes down - factual human nature. Connection is the real magic. That is precisely the problem! I fully agree to the mind-blowing part.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:33 AM
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Spot on. Thinking, feeling and living it is the hard part.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:24 AM
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That's what I'm doing anyways. I don't think it's a performance thing. It is just very likely she had guys she was more attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:21 AM
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Can you please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:18 AM
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I don't and she is the best I ever had. That is also b.t.w. what she tells me. Unrealistic to believe. I just have to avoid thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:17 AM
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I'm absolutely not into virgins (no offense, but I happily leave these to younger men).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:09 AM
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I think I know and I should unfortunately not bother what she thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:07 AM
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Let it go is the key and as well sooo hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:03 AM
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Very true, very helpful. I think you are right in many points. Would you say that n-count is not indicative at all and should just be dropped?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:56 AM
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What exactly? People don't want to be special to their partner? Or ... ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:50 AM
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Then I don't have a problem. I get your point and I see it the same way. Still I want to be more than a nice provider. And I think everyone wants to be special to their partner. Special goes down with high numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:44 AM
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It is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:37 AM
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Now we are getting to the point! How can I know, if my thoughts are irrational or factual. To me they are definitely plausible. If I can be confident I'm wrong, I can and will work on it. N-count is a mediocre indicator for someone's attitude towards intimacy, privacy, connection relevance, etc. To my mind, someone sharing the most intimate actions with 100 people (that is not the case here) is a different person that someone doing the same with 10. If intimacy, privacy, connection relevance are…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:35 AM
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So you need to take care that the overall package that you provide is a good enough offer to keep this person at your side. That is terrifyingly sad! Being with someone can have multiple reasons, among them convenience, security, practicality - I wouldn't enjoy if these were the reasons! I rather be alone then. I don't see it as a sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:19 AM
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Yeah maybe, if this should not work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:59 AM
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Someone said, if you have to work too hard to make it happen, it might just not have meant to be. Maybe stay friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:58 AM
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I've been banging for 20 years as well. (However not to the level of my girlfriend.) If you thinks about it, these thoughts become more relevant when you are older.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:52 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:37 AM
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I don't dismiss it. It is just about the probability of were you land in the spectrum - statistics. Statistics are about the probability of how thinks could be, but not about how they actually are - which could be anything. She seems to enjoy sex with me - physical indicators (not words). She never mentioned exes with regards to sex. Guess I'm thinking too much, but nevertheless these thoughts are valid!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:32 AM
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Not sure turning gay would help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:24 AM
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8)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:23 AM
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I think some women keep a ranking of some guys. With very high numbers this obviously gets blurry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:22 AM
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Of course I consider this. And thanks for admitting the comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:16 AM
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Your husband is lucky, because he seems to have a giant ego and definitely no clue about statistics. All good for both of you. (It is statistics and not insecurity)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:13 AM
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I always strive to be better! And you are right, there is no way of knowing if she says thing honestly or in order not to hurt my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:07 AM
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The first time, someone is not trying to give me BS! Thank you. You seem to understand to some extend. It would be a shame for this wonderful person. You don't see a chance to invalide these thoughts. The problem is, that they are true. Maybe the solution is to condition yourself to not think them. What did you mean with "Next"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:55 AM
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Be assured, she would definitely have skipped you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:42 AM
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Of course, with casual intentions this all is not a problem. Serious is where it gets hurtful. I always try to be the best person and lover I can, because I think it is important. And I already know a lot about how to "fuck a women good". All my points remain valid though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:34 AM
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Don't agree and if so, it would be deeply sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:23 AM
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She is not a slut. She is a fine person who was not as dum as I was to miss out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:22 AM
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Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:09 AM
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My lady never complained.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:07 AM
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So, with 200 she cannot be a good person? Sure 20 is not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:04 AM
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Would be more fun - true. Who needs facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:45 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:42 AM
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There is one significant difference a man has to do in order to get laid - he has to be successful, confident, smart, humourous, popular, eloquent, fit, ... Women just have to be, in order to get laid. Maybe that is one big difference!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:41 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:25 PM
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Thanks for this extensive description! Sounds like a lot of men out there. In summary you could say that being hyper agreeable and opportunistic gives them the illusion of attracting women and the illusion of safety in a relationship. That is very funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 09:18 PM
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That is as sad as it is true. I should print this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 05:06 PM
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Lol, that is explaining a lot!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 05:38 PM
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That sounds very unreflected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:56 PM
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Oh yes, I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 12:34 PM
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That usually ends with her leaving him because he's not a character on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 12:17 PM
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Seriously?! Maybe that is why info about them is so sparse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 12:06 PM
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I expect many women happily enlisting attributes here. B)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:50 AM
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Autch!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:27 AM
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I demonstrated some empathy for OP. I'm another person. We are not all alike. B)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 11:41 AM
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You are absolutely right. Everyone has their past. If they treat you great now, why worry. (And it is probably the wisest not to have a partner at all.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:32 AM
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I don't have his problem. I'm just empathic here. Admitting you are envious and resentful does not mean one can not make an effort to understand why. While she can compare him to 50 other men he can not compare her. To her he is just one of many. To him she is closer to unique. What do you want to be for your partner - unique or one of many? Just make an effort to feel yourself into this position. Maybe he has all the reason to be insecure. "Not my problem" is the easy way out. A luxury men don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:54 AM
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Good point and therefore no reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 01:39 PM
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Insecurities is such an overused standard reply. What if every time he sees her or talks to her, he is reminded about how miserably he failed to accomplish the same experience and validation through others! Of course it is jealousy and it stays to torture you for the rest of your life. Can I ask for some empathy here? Men always need to be empathic. It is time women develop this skill and keep their f..king "just insecure"!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 01:33 PM
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You are a smart person with a survivor attitude! For me being resentful is pointless and the hardest thing not to be at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:41 PM
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OP's arguments are not logical. Men do all of this because they are emotional and logical. Women who are attracted to CEOs just because of their status and money are like prostitutes with one long-term customer. There is a 15 years age difference in max SMV for both genders. Men understand und use that. Women complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:59 AM
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N-count is only indicative with outlier numbers like 0 or 1 on one end and maybe 30+ on the other. Everything in between I would consider a normal life including a mix of relationships and experiments. In the end you want be sure you share the same sense for intimacy, connection and exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:27 PM
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Sooo true!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:10 PM
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In what sense? They tell you your rank on their smart, humor and lover scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:10 PM
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I wish I could feel like you, because I know you are right! What the heck is my problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:53 PM
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First people say their n-count and other experiences like threesome's are cool, fun and nothing to worry about and then they are scared as hell to tell anybody. Isn't that hypocratic in a way?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:14 PM
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It is a loose correlation indeed, but when when you have no further indicators, that is what you hold on to.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 11:47 PM
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It is self-confidence through validation, but now this attention is all yours!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 11:44 PM
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I'm very happy this works out for both of you, because in the end that is the only thing that should matter. It is very interesting that what you value in him, is quite the opposite of what he values in you and that is obviously why it works for the two of you. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 11:38 PM
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It seems that ladies are less worried about their partners n-count. Is that the case and if so, why? Or am I completely wrong and the issue is evenly distributed?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 02:21 PM
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What you actually want to know is, how tiny is your place in someone else's vast experience/memory?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:39 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:21 PM
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Do you have a link or other reference for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:18 PM
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It would be amazing if it would just be our egos! What makes you think, that is the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:13 PM
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Seems men are just not that smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:06 PM
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Of course if you own the single truth for everyone you can enlighten others. B) Never the less it may be perceived as arrogant. I'm with you w.r.t the tests. Do you think there is something like emotional inflation or jadedness with high body-counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:04 PM
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Obviously the more you've slept around the less n-count matters to you. It is called inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:30 PM
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It does for some people and we can actually never suggest what should be important for someone else on their behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:01 PM
1

The problem with n-count is way deeper than most people think. One obvious concern is being "one of (too) many" and therefore having this feeling of insignificance and disposability. However, you will find that people with a high n-count have this aura of self-confidence through the validation they received from so many people. So any opinion to this aspect (true story): A couple with a very unbalanced n-counts in their relationship and marriage. She had 50 guys before, he had 2 girls before. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:36 PM
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There is a funny study in which a couple of hundert women ranked 80% of several thousand images of men as below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 01:58 PM
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Do you relate that to your high standards or to the sparse distribution of attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 01:57 PM
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I don't expect exclusivity after the first dates until you mutually agree on exclusivity. I don't know the person well enough after a few dates to even judge if it would matter to me if they also date someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 09:56 PM
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