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It's been extremely common for me over the years, but the dates that don't do this make it completely worth it. They most likely were talking to more than one person and they thought it clicked with them more, or they might not have been feeling it that night.
/r/seduction09/03/26 04:00 PM
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Never pay for the boosts or anything like that. I've never used that and from what I hear, that doesn't help. Feel free to DM the pics you've put up and the words from your profile and I can give you a few quick suggestions or even just the words. You could also try Bumble or Hinge, they have a different setup. Your profile might be too descriptive, it's good to make it broad enough that it lets them know about you but there are still questions to ask when you meet up. I've met so many women tha…
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:45 AM
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You might want to try Tinder. It's not just a hookup site. I've had long-term relationships off there. Just post some complimentary pictures of yourself, include at least one or two with you with some friends or you doing an interesting hobby or at an interesting spot. It's way easier on there because you know for sure that they are interested in you or else they wouldn't have swiped on you. Makes the first date much easier.
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:22 AM
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Not necessarily, as long as you have a car or easy transportation to get there. It's always been way easier for me living in the middle of a big city than when I lived in the suburbs but it shouldn't be a major factor for you. The living at home thing should be fine but it might limit your opportunities a little bit if they're still living with an ex temporarily or have a kid or some other reason where they don't want to host but I'd say it probably won't matter a majority of the time. Plus, if …
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:06 PM
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You can still shed when it's not active. It's way less likely but not impossible.
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:20 AM
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Not in my area, it's the complete opposite for me.
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:16 AM
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Honestly, it sounds like she wasn't feeling a romantic connection after the first date. Probably still thinks you're a cool person but doesn't want it to go further. This happens sometimes. The older you get, the more likely a woman will just be straight up and honest about this but yeah, it just sounds like she doesn't want to tell you bc it either seems awkward or she's had guys react poorly to this in the past. If someone is really into you, they'll make time for you no matter how busy they a…
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:30 PM
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I've met a ton of quality women on dating apps. It just depends on your preference. You can showcase your personality and confidence once you meet a woman off a dating app in person after talking to them for like a day or so, at least in my experience.
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:04 AM
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I would just go out by yourself sometimes or just approach these women anyways. You could also use a dating app since if you match on there you already know they're interested in you. I'm an introvert and that really helped me with dating.
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:07 PM
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You don't consider girls that have had more than 7 sexual partners gf material but you've had more partners and consider yourself bf material? It's fine to have that opinion but the older you get, the less likely you'll find someone that has that few partners unless you start dating like 18-year-olds or something.
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:53 PM
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I dunno, I've a ton of success on tinder. Not everyone is going to talk to you, it's basically if you're one of the first people to respond.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:06 PM
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My point still stands. I've never met someone that had BLM in their profile and refused to date black people. We're not even talking about white people refusing to date black people. We're talking about people that say they support black rights not wanted to date black people. Maybe you live in a location where that happens but that is not norm.
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:13 AM
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It's common for anyone that has every had sex ever. She's just being responsible and it shows she's having safe sex
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:09 AM
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Who cares if she sends this to every guy if you're the one she's interested in? She probably doesn't. She sent them to you, that's all that matters. Don't overthink it.
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:01 AM
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I've personally never met anyone that had BLM on their profiles and were also racist and have never had someone not know where Ukraine is. Maybe it varies by area.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:12 PM
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Because Trader Joe's is awesome and basically everyone loves Trader Joe's...
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:11 PM
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This just means she likes you. Stop thinking a woman is 'easy' just bc she wants to go to bars with you. She doesn't sound slutty at all. I've had sex on the first date multiple times and dated them for quite a while. SHE LIKES YOU. Just go with it lol
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:55 PM
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That's not being a hoe. She's into you. I've had women exchange nudes with me on like the first day we started talking. That's just part of dating. Three weeks is a long time to not have exchanged nudes. edit: also, I think about 95% of any woman I've talked to has sent me nudes. If you think the girl you're talking to is a hoe, then you're basically saying almost every woman is a hoe lol.
/r/seduction16/06/22 01:44 PM
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It varies, I've had first dates that lasted a few hours and then we had a second and a third before we slept together. I've had first dates that lasted like an hour or two and we went home and slept together almost right away and then dated for a year afterwards. It really varies on the person, their experience, how long you had been texting before, if the other person works the next day. Good conversation is what goes the best.
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:25 PM
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30 minutes? I've never had a single date that short, even bad ones.
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:23 PM
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Huh? I normally always hang with friends lol. Sometimes people just want to catch up with friends, it's weird that you don't do that tbh.
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:02 AM
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Lol, well then scratch that idea.
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:07 AM
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This won't apply to a lot of people because everyone's body is different, but I find smoking weed before talking helps lol, as long as you don't get too high. Women get bored if they don't feel you're interested and women have way more choices than men due to guys being more thirstier a lot of the time. It takes some time to be able to read the room, but you'll get there.
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:21 AM
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This is not true in my experience at all. I've dated many women and while some do go for the bad boy, most of them want someone who isn't a dick. You may be hanging with the wrong groups or something.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:31 AM
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Honestly, she probably assumed that was what was happening and got jealous.
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:38 PM
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Usually I meet them for drinks near one of our places or just go straight to their house/have them over at my house. I've had all those scenarios happen many times, it just varies person to person.
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:09 PM
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Same reason why a lot of women at clubs are simply there to talk to their friends and not be hit on. Sometimes guys already have partners and are there just to hang out with their friends or are just not interested that night, no matter how hot you are.
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:32 PM
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I'm fine with someone ghosting me if we only went on a date or two or hooked up once or something, but I've been ghosted by women I was full-on dating for months, with no explanation. That's just childish.
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:24 PM
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Yes. Don't go into the night assuming you'll get laid though. Sometimes it happens, sometimes not. Go with a group of friends and you might hit it off with someone in a group of women if it's a club. If it's a bar, it's just building a friendship/repoir, just like you would with someone platonically but if there's an attraction, you'll feel it.
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:46 AM
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