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| 1 | What are you guys opinion about nice guy, bad guy trope?you need both to keep them around. | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 08:21 PM |
| 0 | People who are good at cold or warm approach, how did you get better?How I got good? Literally >3000 cold approaches over years. being open with sticking points to mentors willingness to try anything even if it sounded dumb. I have fear that getting rude response if cold approach, how common u guys get rude response? more likely she makes an excuse "i have to pee" "back to my friends" "nice meeting you" truly rude ones...maybe 10/3000? As for warm approach, i will go to college next year, what would you guys suggest me to do socially at the first days of college?… | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Noticed something regarding attention receivedWelcome to one of the easiest attraction triggers. Its crazy how this works, like even if you warm up on some 3s, if one of them reopens you while you are talking to a girl you actually like and much higher quality, that causes an attraction spike. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 08:44 AM |
| 1 | No attractionWon't get attraction that way | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 08:41 AM |
| 1 | What should I say to an older woman when she said she worried that I am too young?Cougar/boytoy/sugar mommy framing and role play. "please, I bet you say that to all your boytoys, but if you want to me to be your sugar baby, I need a bentley and biannual trips to the maldives" that short of shit | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 08:40 AM |
| 3 | People who are good at cold or warm approach, how did you get better?or right away? now. Go do 10 today. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Do girls like it when a guy is checking her body out during flirting/vibing?yes. the more obvious the better. Works great as a reward after a qualification hoop | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Am I too old for this? 47 y/o trying to game girls aged 30-37nah. you just can't bring 'old man energy' to the interactions. It will disqualify you from some immediatly. But you just gotta push through and find those who are neutral on it or you are their fetish. Apps suck because many will have you filtered out of their target range. Better to do it cold approach. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Suggestion on how to improve the quality of banter and flirtingThis is seems great, but also risky in a little social circle. This is why you need clubs or daygame to calibrate to, then discover the lines, and play more conservative in social circle. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 07:25 AM |
| 1 | What do you think are the factors that facilitate the cold approach?Not making excuses. Force yourself to enjoy all of it. reframe blowouts as funny. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 11:17 AM |
| 10 | No attractionDid you try? | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 11:13 AM |
| 1 | No attractionDescribe the conversation in depth. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 11:12 AM |
| 1 | No attractionThere are three phases of seduction, first attraction, then comfort, then seduction 2001 called rofl | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 11:11 AM |
| 2 | What is it about good fashion that makes you more attractive?Just get jacked and go out in a tshirt everywhere. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Suggestion on how to improve the quality of banter and flirtingExercise for you, consider what you learn about girls in the first 5 min in your last 50 approaches. common jobs, places from, etc. For every 'trigger word' come up with some -teases -dig deeper -misinterpretations -normal shit(probably does not need work) -rewarding -advanced(disqualifications...save for later) | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 11:05 AM |
| 5 | Suggestion on how to improve the quality of banter and flirtingConsider game as normal-normal-normal-spike-normal-normal-spike. Spikes are teasing, sexualization, deep connection etc. Probably what you are currenyl lacking If its all spikes you are a fucking standup routine. If its all normal she will 'have to go to the bathroom'. Adhd helps you in the first 5 min. Its gets you attention. Switch conversational threads, go on random tangents, even critique your own game in front of her for entertainment. If you don't excite emotion your spikes suck. learn so… | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 11:02 AM |
| 6 | Give 4-5 short bullets on what you think it takes to be successful with women, or to be successful in general. No paragraphs.-Put yourself and mission first -Entertain yourself -Escalate fearlessly -understand body language. -do what you can to make logistics work in your favor. | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR)I can tell you are new at this. Body language and escalation is more important than verbal. Humans have millions of years of being mute grunting cave men and a lot less history with developed language. Body language and touch acts more primal than speech. You can do entire pickups without saying anything, you can get girls who you don't have a common language with. | /r/seduction | 20/01/21 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR)Let me introduce you to what you needed: PHYSICAL ESCALATION ASAP This is why she walked away. | /r/seduction | 20/01/21 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Was on a date, it went very well, lots of typical IOIs etc. During the date she twice made remarks about how she gets interest from guys - what does this mean?Game recognized. | /r/seduction | 20/01/21 03:36 AM |
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