thornsandlace Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Just got my black card removed Out of curiosity I just checked and rule 2 is "no spam/self promotion" 😂	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/24 05:24 AM
10	How can I help my boyfriend deal with his ADHD without mothering him ? Absolute nonsense. People who aren’t self-aware have difficulty communicating their needs, neurotype aside. My husband has ADHD, and while I absolutely handle more administrative tasks than he does, that doesn’t mean I “wear the pants”, any more than the CEO’s personal assistant is the one running the company.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/23 12:11 AM
6	Red Flag We’re a minority for obvious reasons, but there are women in open/ENM/polyamorous relationships who are RPW. It’s a toolbox, not a ruleset. OP absolutely needs to have a conversation about expectations, especially if she entered the relationship with the (logical) assumption that he was monogamous. FWIW, in ENM circles it’s expected that you disclose by the end of the first date that you aren’t monogamous. Bait and switch is completely unethical. I’m not saying that’s what happened here—he could…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/23 04:20 PM
18	for the SAHMs: what does your husband do for work? My husband works in the casino industry with an annual income of about 45k. I went on maternity leave at 39 weeks pregnant with the intention of returning after 18 week (because I loved my job)…then the pandemic shut down my employer. We’ve since realized that we save so much money with me being home that it doesn’t make sense for me to go back to work elsewhere. We live very modestly, have 3-6 months expenses in savings, and our only debt is a car payment.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/21 06:52 PM
2	When did you decide to quit your job after you found out that you were pregnant? I worked until I was 24 weeks. I had planned to work through my entire pregnancy, because I loved my job and wanted to create as smooth a transition for them as possible, but was put on bed rest. Definitely wait until your 2nd trimester.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/21 09:25 PM
20	(please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case? On the contrary, a man who knows he wants biological children is better off not pursuing a relationship with someone who doesn’t want or can’t have them. Just like we should vet for common life goals, so should they.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/21 08:18 PM
3	Where do I go from here? (I'm a man) Stop loitering and giving bad advice here and in RPW, and start participating in the men’s subs. Sidebar, lift, get yourself where you want to be. Then worry about whether you want to get married. And for the love of God, stop asking women for advice on how to be a man.	/r/RedPillWives	09/09/21 01:06 AM
14	Is an ex-fat girl at a disadvantage? Don’t bother with the chest you’re not a dude. Chest exercises will improve the appearance of sagging breasts from weight loss. Only up to a point, but it makes enough of a difference to at least throw in some push ups.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/21 05:44 AM
3	Boyfriend Update I would encourage you to find an Al-Anon group for yourself. Their meetings were instrumental in helping me handle my father’s (and my ex’s) addictions. Nowadays you can even find discord or zoom meetings. Having the support of people who’ve been there can make all the difference for your ability to handle a difficult situation.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/21 03:33 AM