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I feel like I've a combination of experiences that may prove helpful for your perspective. The first is, I lived with undiagnosed Major Depression and Bipolar Disorder for decades, so I was one of the people who fucked off with jobs. I then started in mental health volunteering and advocacy work because I wanted to help other mentally ill people recover. But, that sort of thing doesn't pay worth a shit, so I also freelanced as a marketer and writer, most of my clients being small business owners…
/r/MGTOW02/02/19 12:14 PM
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I avoid them. I've watched way too many people get fucked up over nothing because of pride and ego. Laugh if you want, but do it from a distance or you can wind up shot or with a wired jaw. You never know what anyone is capable of, regardless of how they posture or act.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 09:25 AM
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I should certainly clarify when I say that I mean when it comes to getting what you want out of life. Like if you want sex/relationships then you'd want to find ways to get what you want the best way you can. There are doctors who know smoking is bad for you. Yet smoke ciggies during their lunch break. But they don't care because being healthy (despite their profession) isn't something they deep down want/care about. Absolutely. And I think the main thing is, a lot of the TRP stuff about the sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 01:17 PM
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Well, first of all, is your idea that if something works really well people will flock to it? Because I find that to be questionable at best. Hey! It's a good idea to eat well and exercise! It's a relatively simple thing you can do to be healthy. Yet, how many people do that? Something like 60% of Americans are overweight or obese. The core of TRP, to take good care of oneself, embrace things like weight lifting and self-care, were mostly about being the best version of yourself. A lot of people…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 01:02 PM
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Yeah, probably. Nature is just organized chaos as it is. Morality is a structure we impose on that chaos. And then you have the question of, who gets to decide what is morally correct? And why should we listen to that standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:48 PM
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Nope, not at all. I would say it's more about accepting that most people aren't going to have the life they envisioned or a happily ever after. You can choose to do that in a relationship or you can choose to do it single. I can think of three other guys off the top of my head who tick several of those boxes but don't want to get married. Hell, I do myself. I had my problems but got my shit sorted and now live a gainful life, but I also strive to stay well below the radar. I don't think the numb…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:46 PM
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Just wait until you realize that a lot of those people who appear put together and have everything under control are not as put together as they appear. It is super easy to fake that everything is fine to someone that doesn't intimately know you. And even then, plenty of people still manage to do that with their closest friends and family. Everyone's expectations are too damned high. Humans are messy, dirty creatures. And the number of good men or women, no matter how they look from the outside,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:53 PM
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They're small glass pieces used for things like crafting or I've seen them used in the bottom of like aquariums. Example. I really don't know what the creator of the image was going for by including them.
/r/MGTOW07/12/18 06:53 PM
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Relevant article.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 01:44 PM
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I would say so. Looking back on my past relationships, it was clear that they were right for that period of time but they weren't meant to go the distance. Not everyone is meant to be there forever and that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 04:51 PM
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Lack of communication. You have to talk to understand where each other are coming from and work through the ups and downs of life and the relationship. No communication means the relationship will crash and burn. In my relationships, it felt like it creeped up as the relationship went on. Just got wrapped up in living life, grinding out work, and stopped giving each other the same amount of attention and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 10:36 PM
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Shooting one's shot is to take a chance. In this context, it's approaching her with romance in mind. Foot that ain't afraid, I'm guessing, is someone who is ugly with too much confidence. I don't think it's common slang though. Just a guesstimate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/18 08:54 PM
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Mansplaining used to be when an uneducated or inexperienced man would talk over or explain something over a woman who was actually qualified or knowledgeable. Now, it's mostly used as a weapon to silence men who express any contrary opinion that the woman in question doesn't like. They can just call it mansplaining and dismiss it outright.
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 11:05 PM
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Pretty much. Same goes for women. Most everyone is a hypocrite and trash once you peel beneath the surface of their finely crafted social veneer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 12:55 AM
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Don't forget the inevitable book deal and speaking circuit fees!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 10:05 PM
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Ah, I see. I haven't read it yet. Doesn't surprise me. Trump seems like the kind of person you could just pander to and get on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 09:59 PM
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Get money and it's not complicated at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:36 PM
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Yeah. I watched the hearing when it aired. I'm sure there were moments when he was genuinely overcome with emotion, but by and large, I still found him disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 10:23 AM
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No? I'm not familiar with that book so I don't understand the connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 10:19 AM
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I don't believe that Kavanaugh's emotions were genuine. I believe he was pandering to Donald Trump. Everyone already knew that he had the votes for confirmation. The only thing that could have potentially screwed up his confirmation was Trump dropping his support. Prior to the hearing, Trump had made the comment that he didn't feel like Kavanaugh was showing enough passion or ferocity in defending himself or his family. But in his opening statement, he touched on a couple strong points that Trum…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 11:56 PM
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Yes, they absolutely are. The way you say something is vastly more important than what you have to say. If you trip over something that causes an emotional reaction in the person, they will generally dig in to resist. "Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks" is crass and in your face, which is fine for crass and in your face people - but most people aren't. My day job is in copywriting, so I'm constantly examining how to best use words to convert people to a course of action. The way you choose to express an id…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 08:09 PM
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I realize that may sound sarcastic, but I meant it as an earnest statement. Supply and demand. They are just selling what people want to buy. Between Amazon and Google women can find plenty of options that aren't "sexy". Hell, there's plenty of non-sexy options in brick and mortar stores.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 07:52 PM
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Because that's what they buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 07:09 PM
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Being attracted to it and viewing it from a distance - via books, media, and social media - is a whole lot different than it unfolding right in front of you. They can close a book or turn off a device. That's not an option when it's unfolding in front of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 06:56 PM
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I don't believe much in the power of MeToo because I think it ignores an important part of human nature - we are extremely self-interested creatures. It may expose some of the things happening in dark corners, but it's not going to improve the character of those actors or the people that don't believe assault survivors - or the people who are willing to throw assault survivors under the bus to achieve their own goals. And I don't just mean the Ford/Kavanaugh thing. Social media is just an easy, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:26 PM
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I agree with both of those sentiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 02:11 PM
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I wonder if it also depends on what kind of people they are hanging out with in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:00 PM
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no u
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:42 PM
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Relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:44 PM
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I think that link actually broke my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 05:16 PM
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Keep your distance so you don't get sucked back in. If you feel you have left over emotional and mental baggage from the relationship, I would encourage you to speak to a certified therapist about it so you can process those emotions in a safe place, where they can't be used as a weapon against you. A lot of people let the wounds and hurts from heartbreak build up and fester, which damages one's ability to trust and forge new friendships or relationships later. Even if you decide to GYOW for the…
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 12:17 PM
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Love is not about brilliant feelings and happy endings. You can have a good time with literally anyone if you're not an asshole and you try hard enough. Love is about who is willing to sit in the gutter with you, and who you're willing to do the same for. Who is going to be worth the suffering that you will experience in your life? Because even in a best case scenario, one of you are going to die sooner or later and that pain will be crushing. Who gives a fuck if you can have a good time with so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 07:21 PM
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Shitting where you eat is a terrible idea. It was a terrible idea years ago, it's an even worse idea in today's social climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 02:30 PM
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"Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do." Abide by this little piece of advice and you can see straight through the manipulators and gaslighters. They count on you believing their words so they can take full advantage of you.
/r/MGTOW24/09/18 12:35 PM
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It was never moral. It was always built on the misery, suffering, and exploitation of someone.
/r/MGTOW22/09/18 11:49 AM
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And that's where you're wrong. I'm not bitter. I'm the happiest I've ever been after finally accepting the way people are. Sure, I've been hurt by women, also have been betrayed by men too. I've also watched the women I'm related to do the exact same things to their significant others that mine did to me. And yes, I did carry that bitterness for a long time, but I'm not anymore. What changed my perspective and allowed me to find my peace was working on a fundraising campaign for a charity. It wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 10:53 AM
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Men are not petrified of women's minds and never were. That's just blue pill bullshit they're telling themselves to vilify the other side. Women fought to be treated more like men and they steadily are. Part of that is - nobody gives a fuck how you feel if you're a man. And if you're dumb enough to show your weaknesses to another man or woman, they will probably use them against you in the future. Women aren't worth the headache. They're never happy no matter what you do or how much you break yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 10:07 AM
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That's my point though - it was the same then as it was now. Men have always been in indentured servitude except for the rich elite. The difference is now we have a 24/7 news cycle beating those messages into our heads constantly now. Instead of insta-thots there were moms fucking the milkman or mommy's special friend. People are the same, society is just window dressing for it.
/r/MGTOW18/09/18 09:51 AM
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You're welcome!
/r/MGTOW18/09/18 09:47 AM
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There you go!
/r/MGTOW18/09/18 09:47 AM
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Thank you, and you're welcome!
/r/MGTOW18/09/18 09:46 AM
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Sounds like you got it. One of the most important lessons I've learned in life is to not bother trying to help someone that doesn't want to be helped, whether that goes with general life circumstances or sharing what I've learned in my own life. People are emotional creatures for the most part. That can't be navigated with cold logic and rationality.
/r/MGTOW18/09/18 09:46 AM
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Glad you enjoyed it! I agree with you on the exercise front, whether it's long distance running or something else. The usual red pill wisdom is to lift, which isn't terrible. Certainly nothing wrong with running either if that's your thing.
/r/MGTOW18/09/18 09:44 AM
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What do you feel was great about that era? That's the era of famine, the great depression, union organizing from worker exploitation, and two world wars. Wasn't exactly a great time to be a man, I don't think.
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 08:55 PM
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When do you feel they were in our favor?
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 08:31 PM
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It depends on how people use it. I'm highly recovered from Bipolar Disorder and I can't stand when people use their mental illness as an excuse to gloss over or not take responsibility for their bad actions. On the other hand, sometimes you can't help it when your brain is feeding you a false perception of reality that you're reacting to. But, in this case, mentally unstable with firearms and making those kinds of threats is most definitely a police matter.
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 07:54 PM
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Yeah man, if it were me, I'd report it. People like that should probably be on the police's radar if not stripped of their weapons. You can't just up and threaten people. It's illegal.
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 07:40 PM
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I'd take that to the cops, man.
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 07:15 PM
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I don't disagree with your perspective at all!
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 07:01 PM
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I'm glad you enjoyed the post! Thanks for reading. It takes time to get over the anger and find your peace, but you can get there. Be patient and kind with yourself.
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 07:00 PM
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Nah, I won't wish you luck because I know you'll make it. It just takes time to come to terms with the way things are as opposed to how we wish they could be. Be patient with yourself and keep working toward it. I can't stress enough that it is a long journey to find peace with oneself and the world. Don't expect it over night. Keep chipping away, piece by piece, and eventually you'll get there.
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 07:00 PM
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Glad you enjoyed it!
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 05:38 PM
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Thank you.
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 04:44 PM
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Glad you enjoyed it.
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 04:44 PM
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I'd agree with this. Women don't understand what it's like to be a man in this world. I have had a woman therapist and she helped with some things, but it was more self study and reflection that led me to where I am today.
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 04:44 PM
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That's the way I go too. It's not like they have live with the consequences of my life choices...I do.
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 04:43 PM
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They're mocked because they're in a position where they can be mocked. People are generally selfish and really only concerned with their own perceptions of the world. They don't care or think about your feelings. I feel like women have this massive disconnect about that because they're surrounded by orbiters who just tell them what they want to hear and other women encourage dialogue amongst one another while trashing each other behind their backs. The people who genuinely care how others feel f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 03:52 PM
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People often hate to see others do better than they are. It reminds them of their own insecurities and failures in life while they completely ignore the fact that everyone has insecurities and failures in life - some people are just courageous enough to keep going after the things they want regardless of their set backs. If you want to improve or change your life, you will lose people. But do make sure to make a mental note of the people who were supportive or down for you when you were at your …
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 03:09 PM
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Because they're pedophiles and they can. It's always been happening. Male sexual violence has always and will probably always be taken less seriously.
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 12:45 PM
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I agree with your premise for the most part, but I do disagree on the "never googling chances of getting pregnant at 39" thing. I've known quite a few people who were absolutely brilliant in their fields that couldn't look past the nose on their face. People can be incredibly short-sighted. The worst example I can think of was an ex's 60ish year old upper management mother who blew up her engine after the father passed. She didn't know you had to change the oil because he had always taken care o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 11:27 AM
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My life journey is a convoluted one. I feel like I've been on both sides of the spectrum and finally settled in the middle. On the one hand, half of the stuff that comes from TRP is limited to a small part of people. A lot of their beliefs are just manipulation and sociopathic. There is some good stuff throughout, but it's not as dire as they like to claim. On the blue side of things, I feel like they encourage men to be more feminine in general, and I don't think that's a good thing. But that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 06:43 PM
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"I haven't met anyone I want to marry." Shrug, and walk away.
/r/MGTOW14/09/18 12:01 AM
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Congrats on getting your Crohn's under control! I know a couple people with it and it seems like a lot to get a handle on. I have Bipolar Disorder and lost a couple decades to the chaos that goes along with it until I found my own stability and wellness. I have a similar priority for my mental health so I don't wind up in jail, the hospital, or dead; which was a very real possibility for a long time. I suppose that having it all depends on how a person is defining "all" in that particular contex…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 12:42 PM
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That sounds like a pretty solid approach to life to me. Think it would be for anyone that has the discipline and dedication to stick to that kind of regimen. However, you also need to balance that as well. My ex lived a similar life and managed to work herself straight into a debilitating anxiety disorder. There are plenty more things that can rob you of time past death - accidents, bad or abusive relationships, chronic illnesses, family problems, friend problems, kid problems, the death of a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:45 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 07:42 PM
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Time. Want to have a loving, healthy family instead of just existing in a space with some people you're related to? That requires time, effort, and energy. Want a good, fulfilling career and to make a lot of money? That requires time, effort, and energy. Want to pursue your dream in an atypical lifestyle? That's going to require discipline and resources to make work, which requires more time, effort, and energy. And then you factor in taking care of yourself and keeping yourself well, healthy, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 07:18 PM
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My bad. Looking back at it, it doesn't communicate clearly. A not party guy who's only slept with 4-5 women in his life just assumes she's easy or has low standards, which is interpreted to mean he's easily replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 05:54 PM
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Third wave feminism encouraged sexual liberation under the assumption that because men do it, they should do it too. What they left out is that there are really two camps of men when it comes to sticking your dick in whatever moves - there's the party dudes and then there's the not party dudes - and they don't really mix in an oil and water kind of way. Yeah, they'll be friends, they'll work together, and laugh at the stories...but you always have to keep a skeptical eye on those dudes with your…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 04:09 PM
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I don't know how many women are actually "miserable," but basing your observation on the way people look is pretty strange. People are fantastic at faking that they're happy or fine. Be that as it may, I feel more sympathy for women than anything. Advertisers and Leftist propagandists sold them the idea that they could have it all in life, but the reality is that no one can have everything. It's created drastically unreal expectations and a whole lot of women are going to learn that the hard way…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:12 AM
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Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck no. Family (or former family in this case) and money NEVER MIX. And if she decides to just say "fuck it I'm not paying rent" are you willing to go through the legal avenues to try to recoup it? Or swallow the shovels of shit that will go with paying whatever you can't pay because of not having that money? Terrible idea. Absolutely terrible idea.
/r/MGTOW12/09/18 01:04 AM
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I work in marketing. The fun thing is - you don't have to try to keep people from not being fulfilled. They do that themselves by constantly seeking external validation. It's not some Machiavellian scheme because it doesn't have to be. It's human nature. People have always wanted more, more, more and they always will.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/18 10:43 PM
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Do you mean narcissism as selfish and self-centered? Or do you mean narcissism as Narcissistic Personality Disorder? NPD is a much more vicious beast than selfishness. Most people (men and women) are selfish, only interested in their own feelings and convenience. It takes actual effort to think outside of oneself and a lot of people just don't care enough to do that. That's different than NPD, because a lot of people do have empathy and if they feel bad enough about something, they'll take actio…
/r/MGTOW11/09/18 08:55 PM
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Or maybe it's because 30-35 year olds are just more attractive and it's all marketing to get clicks. Older, but not ground face first into the wall yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 08:51 PM
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It doesn't matter what women and naive men think about the way I conduct my life. Why am I red pill? Because it was forcibly jammed up my ass by reality when I used to be a far left leaning blue pill progressive when I made the mistake of showing emotional vulnerability to a woman I loved deeply, and she promptly used it as a weapon against me. After that, I sat down and I really thought about the women I've known over the years, from those I've dated to the ones I'm related to. Even my mother d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 07:07 PM
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This is a throwaway for me. I work with and around bluepilled people.
/r/MGTOW10/09/18 02:14 PM
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We used to call this the "Fat Girl Angle Shot" or FGAS round the turn of the millenium. Fuck, I feel old now.
/r/MGTOW10/09/18 01:46 PM
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Yeah. Men are nearly as bad, in my personal experience. This society has made a lot of people soft.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/18 05:18 PM
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If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you. Equally applicable to both men and women. Just sounds like you two just have incompatible views of what sex and intimacy means. People can certainly have sex addictions, but there are also plenty of people out there that don't associate sex with intimacy for a variety of reasons, like trauma. Personally, if I were in your shoes, I'd make it clear that I wanted no real commitment or relationship with her. I'd never be able to trust her. Her opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 02:57 PM
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That's not as unusual as people tend to think. Plenty of men are spineless, disloyal bitches too.
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 02:12 PM
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It's really amazing how the smallest bit of attention to a woman can have her treat her man like trash, someone who is presumably dedicated to her and their family. Not an ounce of loyalty, respect, or dignity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/18 11:44 AM
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People, in general, don't respect one another. Genuine respect is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 09:15 PM
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Plenty of men are flaky and inconsistent without feminine influence. He sounds like a bitch. Don't surround yourself with weak, fragile people and call them friends. You'll find yourself utterly alone when you actually need them.
/r/MGTOW06/09/18 07:08 PM
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Most self-help places are filled with negativity and bitter people. People who are doing well in life and happy usually don't need self-help. And the people who are doing well and happy in life usually don't spend much time in places overrun with negativity and bitterness, because it drags their mind down to that level. Regardless, I think there's really two dominant camps of men when it comes to the sleeping with lots of women. There's the side who want to stick their dick in anything that move…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 11:40 AM
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The best way to deal with manipulative people is to not tell them everything you think. That goes for family members, friends, or loved ones. If you have a plan, do your research, and execute execute execute. A LOT of people love to trash your ideas and plans because they've either fucked up their life or they want you to stay comfortably miserable so you're not holding up a mirror to their failure. Fuck them. Their opinions mean nothing. And don't make the mistake of thinking it's only women. M…
/r/MGTOW05/09/18 12:06 PM
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You're not being a bitch. You basically have your entire perception of your relationship, of life, of whatever happiness you had with that person ripped out from under you. It stays with you for a long, long time. And you'll see there are plenty of guys on this sub that have gone their own way exactly for this reason.
/r/MGTOW04/09/18 01:59 PM
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The eyes of the one on the left though. That's not a stable person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 01:11 PM
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If I were looking for marriage, I wouldn't reach two years of dating someone if I was unsure. I firmly believe that "happy" love is the most minor of considerations for long-term relationships. I want to see quality of character, how she handles hard times, what her worldview is, how honest she is with me. And it's never taken me that long to figure out. In my mind, it's the same thing as consent. If it's not an emphatic yes, then it's a no, because you're looking for someone to enter into a lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 01:01 PM
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