thoughtfulandthotful Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old?	Lifestyle	thoughtfulandthotful	/r/seduction	24/08/20 06:44 PM

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2	Girl with holding sex? “Women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas.” As much as I hate the alpha-beta terminology, this statement is 100% true. If she’s as physically attractive as you say she is, she is likely accustomed to using this to manipulate thirsty (aka most) men. I think she has you on the simp training plan. If i you like her, I see no issues with waiting until she’s comfortable. But I would make it clear that you will be having your sexual needs met elsewhere. If she reacts negatively/possessive…	/r/seduction	04/01/22 06:24 PM
2	CMV: A major reason women are more attractive than men is because it’s not socially acceptable for men to work on their looks A lot of people think it’s cultural appropriation when white people wear dreadlocks. It’s a long running debate. Here’s an article about it: https://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-trending-35944803.amp	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/21 05:00 PM
5	Why is being the “prize” such a thing in dating/relationships? Yes, but they don’t think they’re being lazy/low effort — they think they’re behaving in a manner that corresponds to their “value”. And therefore their needs and wants should be prioritized and catered to. It’s all about ego and power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/21 12:36 AM
2	Why is being the “prize” such a thing in dating/relationships? Because being “the prize” means you have leverage in the relationship, and with leverage comes power and privileges. For example: The ability to remain passive during dating while the other person is expected to pursue, plan, and pay. Or the ability to forgo courtship “rules” and have sex virtually on demand without being forced to “wait”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/21 12:10 AM
0	CMV: Women are far more entitled than men and don't expect to do even the bare minimum 100% agree. FDS and TRP are very loud minority groups. I do think there is some useful knowledge to be gained from each communities that ultimately gets poisoned by misandry/misogyny — which leads to hateful and exploitative ideas getting conflated with “empowerment”. It’s fascinating yet kinda scary to observe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/21 05:34 PM
4	I’m relation to two recent posts: Is TRP and FDS toxic or do they merely have a common toxic element? Both communities have aspects that can be constructive (ex: how not to get taken advantage of by materialistic women, how to screen out men who aren’t interested long term matches, etc.), but these aspects are often overshadowed because a significant number of the followers TRP and FDS attract are angry/bitter/jaded individuals looking for an outlet to bash the other gender and find a community to commiserate with. And when a bunch of these kinds of people get together they go so far down the ra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/21 06:55 AM
65	How 'Golden Penis Syndrome' is ruining dating for university women: Deficit of male students means men develop inflated egos and become 'Casanovas' who 'cheat' - despite a 'lack of social and sexual skills' This whole article sounds like it was written by women who are salty about losing some of their dating market leverage and the privileges that come with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 01:03 PM
1	Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore? Many people never believe in love before sex in the first place. Casual sex just more socially accepted and acknowledged today than it was back then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 07:23 PM
2	Question for men: Do you take the time to prioritize your partners orgasm, even if that means continuing to work on them after you’ve already finished? Yes. It’s the right thing to do, plus because a lot of men apparently don’t put in this effort, it virtually guarantees she’ll be coming back for more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 03:12 PM
4	Men really underestimate the power of emotions decreasing sexual attraction for women Not a simp or a dancing monkey. I used to think like this. To this day, I still get a little irked when I read "MaKe Me lAuGh!" in women's online dating profiles. But of course, there's a big difference between simping and simply leveraging value. Men who simp are operating from a lower value position relative to the women they are targeting. They overpay for what they're getting and further diminish their standing in the process. Men who have value simply leverage it to get what they want. If y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 03:53 PM
5	Men really underestimate the power of emotions decreasing sexual attraction for women Then they should get tickets for a comedy club. I'm not here for their entertainment. You are there for their entertainment, whether you like it or not. When there's little to no emotional connection, a woman will only continue fucking for two reasons I can think of right now: 1) entertainment value and 2) material or social gain. When women decide they want to hoe around, most of them can fuck new guys every day if they really wanted to (I know women who do this when they're trying to get over …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 02:35 PM
13	Men really underestimate the power of emotions decreasing sexual attraction for women Yes — as a man, I can have sex with women I’m not emotionally connected to, and regularly do so. I prefer having some kind of connection, but it’s not required for me to enjoy myself. Most of my guy friends are the same way. Also, with many of the women I have sex with, it seems less that they need an emotional connection to continue giving it up to me, than it being a simple matter of them requiring more general effort/maintenance not to get bored and move on. Most women can get sex every easil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 02:45 AM
2	Guy on the left will help with household chores, comfort you, listen, nurse you when sick, and is loyal and loving...guy on the right will cheat, gaslight, abuse you but is really exciting and the best sex you'll ever have, who do you pick? Damn can y’all stop using regular people’s pics for these posts? Just brutal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 11:19 PM
3	To all men in this subreddit Nobody should take anything posted on Reddit dating/gender relations forums too seriously. Especially the loudest people/communities. There are way more bitter/unhappy/scorned people posting opinions on these topics than thriving/well-balanced people. It’s a cesspool of delusion, misandry, misogyny, and pessimism. I only stick around for entertainment purposes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 02:25 AM
5	Women slut shame each other more than men Alpha men are also humans who experience illness and fail in relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 07:27 PM
4	Women slut shame each other more than men Kanye is professionally accomplished, famous, and a billionaire. He is in the top 1% of all men in the world. The thot he married is also a billionaire 1%-er. He’s clearly not a beta, he’s objectively a rich and powerful alpha that proves your theory wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 05:47 PM
7	Women slut shame each other more than men I think most people would consider all of the accomplished, wealthy, and famous men I mentioned in the examples above to be “high value”, so we can agree to disagree. In my experience, “hoes be winning” and tend to land on their feet — IF they are attractive enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 05:22 PM
7	Women slut shame each other more than men Hot sluts also get wifed up often by higher value men who may be wealthy, but physically unattractive, old, or inexperienced. Young stars/athletes do this all the time with IG thots and socialites. In PJ Washington’s case, he is a NBA star who took a known thot as his girlfriend and got her pregnant. Then she dumped him. Michael B. Jordan, booed up a known industry thot Tori Harvey, who’s been smashed and passed by many famous men. Kanye married Kim K, a known thot who came to prominence from a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 05:14 PM
6	Women slut shame each other more than men From what I’ve seen, many men will wife a well-known slut that’s really into them, if she is good looking and alluring enough. The Brittany Renner/PJ Washington situation is a prime example of this. Most men claim they wouldn’t get caught up with a hot slut because 1) they probably never had a shot at one (sour grapes) and 2) they are speaking as a rational outside observer, and not as a person who’s in the midst of a sexy, emotional “love affair” with one of them. At the end of the day, hot tho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 04:44 PM
12	Women slut shame each other more than men As a man, I’d say the slut-shaming from men and women is about even. Average men (who want to limit competition from higher value men/Chads) and women (who want to continue reaping the rewards of women-centric dating scripts and hypergamous maneuvering) both benefit from enforcing traditional social norms through shaming. It’s tough using Reddit as a barometer because I’m pretty sure many of the people here skew toward the more inexperienced/undesirable/bitter/socially awkward end of the spectru…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 04:34 PM
6	Is securing a Betabux more of a status symbol for 30s women than securing (non-alphabux) chad? Exactly. Asking women what they want is not the best way to get a clear answer. They often say one thing and do another. Observe how they behave. From what I’ve seen, most women in their 30s get way more social status from securing a betabuxx who is at least decent looking. They still lust after Chad but they know they can’t compete with 20-something Stacys forever and their biological clock is ticking, so they are ready to exit the game and land on their feet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 02:10 AM
9	Women tend to downplay their dating advantage The reason we should maintain this “advantage”? The rest of the current world and all of human history This is a great example of the point I made above: "usually when asked why they should continue to have this advantage, they will defer to tradition and social norms . . . They value tradition for tradition’s sake when it benefits them." It is what it is, enjoy it while you can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 05:44 PM
0	Women tend to downplay their dating advantage Edited because I see you added more to your comment. I don’t disagree with what you wrote there. Changing dating market dynamics requires a big shift in male behavior on the macro level. It would be led by innovators and early adopters — men changing their dating behavior because the risk/reward math makes sense for them. It makes sense for me, because I am successful enough in the dating realm and maneuvering on the apps that I have the leverage to push back against the norms and reject women w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 04:49 PM
8	Women tend to downplay their dating advantage In this specific case, if men are the ones giving women an advantage in the first place (by throwing the dating supply/demand dynamics in their favor), men shouldn’t then whine about women having an advantage. Women aren’t going to give up their leverage — it has to be taken back. This will only happen if men stop simping and acting thirsty to the degree they are today. Which I doubt will ever happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 04:28 PM
51	Women tend to downplay their dating advantage In my experience most of them will acknowledge they have an advantage — it’s just that they don’t really care about men being upset about it (why would they?). They plan to hold on to that privilege as long as they can. Usually when asked why they should continue to have this advantage, they will defer to tradition and social norms (“it’s always been like this”, “real men don’t mind”, etc.). They value tradition for tradition’s sake when it benefits them. It is what it is. I blame simp culture/t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 04:18 PM
13	Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates." I would never choose to spend my time with women like this, but if other men choose to jump through those kinds of hoops, it doesn’t bother me. Superficial and materialistic people aren’t going away — better they mingle among themselves and out of my way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 03:18 AM
4	I don’t get mad at woman for their nature. Men should understand the rules of the game and play to win. Exactly! Too many people on here seem to think that getting women and getting sex is THE goal. No. The point is to be healthy, happy, and living a full life that you look forward to everyday. When a man is focused and on his path, the other things naturally fall into place, including women and sex. What I see here everyday is that most people don’t want to work on building a life they love… they want to cut corners abd skip to the part where they get girl and live happily ever after. This is mis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/21 11:23 PM
1	Can average men state what they want upfront and get it? You’re right in that there’s always women out there who can be victimized by fuckboys. But reputational damage is real and def slows guys down. Women talk and eventually word gets around about men being assholes, making it harder for them to continue fucking women over in the same area. The attractive ones will still get attention/flirty energy from women but the pussy parade slows down. It happened recently to a buddy of mine. He does all his womanizing out of town now, which slows him down, bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 11:58 PM
2	Can average men state what they want upfront and get it? Stereotypical fuckboys are indeed shunned in words and actions — the lying, manipulative, villainous ones (once they’re caught). Guys like me though, who are “honest fuckboys” will always be welcomed because we’re fully transparent about our intentions — and girls love fully consenting casual sex too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 09:55 PM
2	Can average men state what they want upfront and get it? Dude is living on god mode it seems. I do well with the ladies but your boy has the juice like Thanos with the gauntlet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 07:42 PM
2	Can average men state what they want upfront and get it? You guys are living in different realities. No use in debating him, his lived experiences have led him to different conclusions. I happen to live in a reality that aligns with the observations you’ve mentioned, though. And it’s fun as hell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 07:40 PM
1	Can average men state what they want upfront and get it? How did he pull it off?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 07:29 PM
6	Can average men state what they want upfront and get it? This is the definitive answer. Well said. Also: Average SMV women have access to sex with higher SMV men (because men will fuck almost anything that moves), so average men hoping for easy sex need to have realistic expectations. They’re only going to have shot at women at their SMV level and lower.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 06:09 PM
2	Plausible Deniability I agree with you. I also find that most inexperienced and/or “average” SMV men are unwilling to believe that other men in their league are getting results like this, because it challenges the defeatist narrative that they have. It’s always easier to say “a guy like me could never get results like that because the world isn’t fair”, than it is to say “I could get results like that if I tried harder and/or adjusted my approach”. I’ve witnessed all kinds of guys winning like this, but I’m not here …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 05:30 PM
3	Plausible Deniability Can’t argue with your lived experience. All I know is in my lived experience, this happens all the time for me and guys I know. Also: Context matters. She’s less like to be in that frame of mind at a coffee date than she would be at 9pm on a Friday night at a sexy bar, or while flirting with men on a dating app, or especially while on vacation: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thrillist.com/amphtml/travel/nation/women-have-more-sex-on-vacation-study-says. Most people aren’t 8+ and most of the pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 04:20 PM
1	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? From what I’ve seen, women have the greatest capacity to garner attention, commitment, and resources from older men. As they age, women become less attractive to men in their own age group, because they now have to compete with younger, more attractive women. So they have the easiest time with older men, who may still find them attractive enough to invest in, and are perhaps “tired” of the dating game and ready for something more long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 02:52 PM
2	Plausible Deniability Yeah, also I can tell a lot of the guys commenting have little to no experience in this area to begin with. Which is to be expected in a place like Reddit. Even still, I enjoy the following some of the conversations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 02:32 PM
1	Plausible Deniability Yup. I try to tell guys about this shortcut all the time but most of them seem to prefer taking the long route. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 01:52 PM
1	Plausible Deniability Yeah, there’s too many women who are “DTF” at any given moment, so most guys I know (who only want sex) would rather spend time finding those women instead of seducing women. To each their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 01:32 PM
3	Plausible Deniability I disagree, I encounter women using the “plausible deniability” card to this day. Many of the women I deal with still try to keep things ambiguous to give themselves more wiggle room to maneuver for more time/attention. Ex: A couple weeks ago, a woman I met on Bumble under “DTF” pretenses came over and after we started making out she switched up on me. She said something along the lines of, “Oops, I didn’t know we would be fucking tonight… I thought we would be getting to know each other tonight…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 11:31 PM
3	Plausible Deniability For this to work, you definitely need to match or exceed the SMV of the woman you’re dealing with. Ex: If she’s a 6 based on how women are evaluated, you need to at least be a 6 based on how men are evaluated. If she considers you ‘on her level’ or higher and you catch her at the right time (just broke up with a bf, going through a hoe phase, on a girls trip and looking to do hoe things away from home on the downlow, etc.), your odds are very good. Timing is everything though, because most women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 05:30 PM
22	Plausible Deniability I get 10x more casual sex now by telling women straight up that I just want sex, then I did before when I went through all the traditional motions. Being upfront and honest with intentions is like the biggest cheat code for hooking up (assuming you have your shit together). There’s a lot of women who only want to fuck too — they just want choose this outcome and not be duped into it through game or whatever. And once you make your intentions known, many of them feel more comfortable revealing th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 05:54 AM
1	Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender. Exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 06:38 PM
6	Do men want traditional relationships anymore? Man here. I don’t want a traditional woman. I like modern, cosmopolitan women who want to be my copilot in life (instead of a passenger), and are capable of taking leadership roles in areas that I’m traditionally expected to 100% manage (and vice versa).	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 02:32 PM
0	How hard is to get FWB? In my dating app profiles I explicitly state I’m only looking for ‘friends with benefits’. I end up hooking up with women who state in their profiles that they’re only looking for relationships and/or marriage, but are actually are down to mess around with someone they find attractive in the meantime (on the low).	/r/seduction	09/08/21 08:25 PM
2	Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMA OP, where do you live? In the cities I’m in the most (NYC, CHI, LA), “9/10” means “exceptionally attractive” and is essentially interchangeable with a “10/10” rating (depending on the personal tastes of the rater). Do you or the people where you live consider you to be “exceptionally attractive”?	/r/seduction	08/08/21 12:17 AM
10	The average guy you see in an LTR is NOT getting her best and most men here know that because they've seen both sides Well put. The nuances of this asymmetry should be discussed more often, it’s the root of much of what I see people complaining about on here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/21 03:35 AM
3	“Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys. Withholding sex is used for both purposes. In my experience, women give up sex quickly for me and get their rocks off, while simultaneously making the more average/beta males in their pipeline wait, wine and dine them, jump through hoops, etc. They give up sex because know they have to compete for the attention of higher value men and hate to admit it. As the saying goes “fuck boys are the guys women actually fuck”. Women only label men like me fuck boys if we lie about our intentions and make t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 02:21 PM
3	Straight men will not spend a significant amount of time/are not close friends with a straight woman in whom they are not sexually or romantically interested. I agree. I’m a straight man and one of my top 2 closest friends is a straight woman. We are both “conventionally attractive” and many others believe we’ve fooled around on the low, although in reality nothing sexual/romantic has ever happened between us. My friendship with her seems to be an anomaly (we bonded/act like siblings), as most of my straight male friends only have (non-familial/professional) women in their personal lives that currently/previously have/had some level of sexual/romantic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 08:18 PM
1	Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man. Came here to say this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/21 12:59 AM
2	What gives a young man more clout, sleeping with a bunch of women or having an attractive gf? If young men are evaluating: Sleeping with a bunch of women. If young women are evaluating: Having an attractive gf even though a bunch of women want to sleep with him. If older men are evaluating: Having an attractive gf yet still having the freedom to sleep with a bunch of women. If older women are evaluating: Having an attractive gf even though a bunch of women want to sleep with him. If average onlookers in mainstream society are evaluating: Having an attractive gf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 03:36 AM
1	Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another? The majority of tall, hot, successful men are not fuckboys. Hey, whatever you say. Your experience is your experience and people will ultimately believe whatever it is that supports the reality they've constructed in their minds, whether it be real or not. All I can say is my lived experience as an actual man (lol) and those of my peers who fall into this category directly contract almost everything you're saying. Perhaps you're living a different dimension than we are (lol). the ones who are fu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 05:13 AM
1	Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another? the REAL problem with TRP and their "philosophy" is that they assume that ALL physically attractive, successful men are rampant fuckboys who don't want anything serious. Agreed. Not all of us are fuckboys. My point is that the majority of us are, because we can. Similar to the way most women are hypergamous -- supply and demand dynamics in the dating market (now supercharged by dating and social media apps) gives them the leverage to do so, so they will. we WILL hold out for a hot, successful,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 03:09 AM
1	Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another? Many aspects of Red Pill ideology are indeed toxic AF (like FDS) and filled with bitter, cynical men. But to claim that 1) “the wall” doesn’t exist (lol) and 2) that physically attractive/successful/sophisticated men on dating apps are primarily looking for monogamous dating/relationships (lol) and not exploiting their abundant sexual options, is delusional at best. I speak from experience as a stereotypically attractive man with many cosmopolitan peers (both men and women) in major cities in th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 03:20 AM
1	Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another? Exactly. I am typically considered a “catch”/LTR material by many women I encounter so I have to deliberately and gracefully destroy all hope in their minds that I would everrr choose them for a LTR. As a result I get to reap the benefits of abundant sex with them because while they finesse the simps (with fewer options) to wine and dine them for months, they would rather be giving up the buns to a sophisticated fuckboy (like myself) who treats them well, than one of lesser status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 02:46 AM
1	Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another? Sexlessness among men has increased because of negative trends in the labor market and the introduction of dating apps and social media platforms that supercharge hypergamy among women (which negatively impacts average men). Red Pill ideology has very toxic aspects to it but it has soared in popularity as a response to the aforementioned forces, because some of its basic principles help clueless guys understand the rules of the game they didn’t know they were playing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 02:25 AM
9	Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another? Exactly. I left the nice guy approach behind years ago when my friends and I realized it was 100x more advantageous to be a fuckboy. Now I refuse to give any woman who wants to engage with me in a romantic context any attention whatsoever unless she’s DTF almost immediately. If the sex is good, and we get along, I may actually consider her for a LTR. But The same women that are coming over to fuck on the first meeting are often coming from or heading to dates where some nice guy is wining and di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 10:27 PM
1	Men Respect Women Who Like Sex More Than Those Who Withhold It My guy friends and I don’t “respect” women more that have sex early, but they are definitely the only women really we pay attention to, spend time with, and possibly couple up with. Very few of the celibate women I know have consistent prospects (that they are actually attracted to).	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 02:48 AM
18	For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him? "Legit" high value men don't benefit from dating FDS women. Legit high value men can benefit from dating legit high value women. There is a significant difference between being a "legit" HVM (in the real world) and the kind of man FDS women consider to be of high value (as it relates to achieving their lifestyle goals). There is also a significant difference between a FDS woman and a legit HVW (similar to how being a Red Pill man isn't what makes him a HVM). FDS women consider themselves t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 11:31 PM
3	You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-off Well said. Hit the nail on the head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/21 10:29 PM
1	Is it possible to be monogamous ? One girl for life? It’s definitely possible, but you have to want it bad enough and be willing to put in the work to keep things interesting.	/r/seduction	15/10/20 12:44 AM
4	Unpopular Opinion: Whoever asks the other person out should pay for the date, regardless of gender Nah, this is actually a popular opinion. Women love this rationale since men do the overwhelming majority of “asking out”. Therefore men will continue to do the overwhelming majority of the paying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/20 10:36 PM
3	Here's the god honest way to stop being needy and have girls chasing you Because there is a lot of good shit on Reddit for people at all levels of mastery.	/r/seduction	25/09/20 12:51 PM
17	Here's the god honest way to stop being needy and have girls chasing you I'm one of those guys who "kills it" with women, and I can say that this guy knows exactly what he's talking about. Surprised the post doesn't have more upvotes.	/r/seduction	25/09/20 12:18 AM
3	Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriage Guy here. I disagree. Today’s high-value men who have options aren’t necessarily afraid to commit and invest — they simply don’t have to, and don’t want to. They don’t see the ROI the way previous generations did. Wealthier people do still do get married more often, because marriage/couples-centric culture is still a part of the status quo, and wealth tends to entrench people further in the culture of the status quo. But the status quo is eroding. By the time Gen Z reaches mid-30’s, the conversa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/20 09:36 PM
2	Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth? It’s a myth perpetuated by women to justify why men should do all the approaching.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/20 10:45 PM
7	Low effort first dates are based FACTS! The majority of the girls I smash with ease will make other guys jump through all kinds of hoops for their most basic levels of attention. Guys really need to wake up and stop putting girls on a pedestal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/20 03:21 PM
1	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old? I’m no ‘expert’ but I definitely think you should take some time and just focus on yourself. When your mental health and self-esteem are in poor condition, if affects every other part of your life. True confidence comes from self-love, not external validation from stuff like getting women. When you love yourself, your confidence and sense of self worth don’t shatter to bits when you face the inevitable life rejections — you just keep it moving and take more good risks. And as we all know, gettin…	/r/seduction	25/08/20 03:31 PM
1	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old? Yeah, I follow what you’re saying. Thanks.	/r/seduction	25/08/20 01:04 PM
4	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old? Be attractive and good at sex.	/r/seduction	25/08/20 03:17 AM
6	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old? Short answer: I 'grew up' to be attractive guy with an attractive lifestyle and that's good in bed. I'm not some super-rehearsed PUA/Casanova type and wasn't always a ladykiller. I figured things out the hard way over time through trial and error and by putting myself out there. My 'success' with women now is largely due habits I formed, knowledge/experiences I acquired, and things I put into place for myself when I wasn't even focused on women. This will probably sound corny, but I really think…	/r/seduction	25/08/20 03:08 AM
1	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old? This is good stuff. Companionship, growth, purpose, next-level sex. Will definitely be considering what these things might mean for me now and in the future.	/r/seduction	24/08/20 10:41 PM
1	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old? Thanks for chiming in. What you say a "real" connection is for you?	/r/seduction	24/08/20 10:29 PM
1	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old? They were great, but not great enough, so you discarded them and moved on... LOL! Damn, playboy... Sounds like you're way more of a perfectionist than I am. I don't think I even have an "ideal"... I'm more into variety. And I've yet to grow tired of having a strong rotation of fun, attractive, DTF women to tap into. I suspect the allure will wear off at some point... maybe? We'll see.	/r/seduction	24/08/20 10:28 PM
1	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old? Thanks for sharing. Reading other folks’ stories with this is helpful. At this stage in my journey, I’m trying to re-learn how to be in a long-term relationship. As a result of having so many options for sex (I’m ‘good’ with women) and companionship (I have strong friend/family connections), I’m struggling to find value in the romantic monogamous relationship model (unless maybe I want to have kids some day and raise them in a ‘respectable’ fashion). My cup runneth over — my needs are already me…	/r/seduction	24/08/20 09:55 PM
1	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old? Thanks for sharing. What exactly about seeing 3-5 girls at the same time started to feel old, though?	/r/seduction	24/08/20 09:05 PM
2	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old? Thanks for sharing this. Do you think you would value being with just one person right now if you hadn’t already ‘slayed all those dragons’ over the years?	/r/seduction	24/08/20 08:34 PM
1	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old? Thanks, this was helpful.	/r/seduction	24/08/20 08:15 PM
0	Does sex with hot, new women ever get old? Thanks for your thoughtful response. So is the complex, challenging nature of the relationships you mentioned primarily what makes them so rewarding for you? Also, would you consider yourself a romantic person? I ask this because since most of my external emotional intimacy needs are met between family and friends and because I’m no longer a very romantic person, my relationships with (new) women are primarily sexual, since most women in my life don’t really want to be “just friends” with me the…	/r/seduction	24/08/20 07:52 PM
9	This Is For The "You Have To Be Good-Looking To Get Women" Crowd The short version: You don’t have to be good-looking to get women. But you do have to be attractive. Work on yourself and stay optimistic.	/r/seduction	18/08/20 09:14 PM
1	STOP OVERTHINKINNG WOMEN You wrote a wall of text just to say ‘be confident and approach women’... uh, no shit captain obviousss And the pick up line recommended? The caliber of women I smash would eat your corny ass alive lmaooo Stop all the posing, the real ones can see right through this shit, I can smell the incel on you	/r/seduction	15/06/20 12:32 AM
2	STOP OVERTHINKINNG WOMEN Shut your corny ass up	/r/seduction	15/06/20 12:13 AM
17	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance This is false. Average looking dudes with 'basic' personalities, get laid all the time, if they are confident and know what they're doing. That being said, I agree that actually being an interesting guy does go a long way, obviously.	/r/seduction	12/06/20 03:03 AM