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Teens don't suddenly stop being horny just because they go to a conservative school. That being said, you might have to fake some purity yourself up until the coitus.
/r/seduction07/01/15 09:44 AM
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Either way, you can't teach confidence. There isn't some magic confidence potion. As Mystery says, its more important to be competent, than confident, which is something you can improve through practice.
/r/seduction20/10/14 03:24 PM
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I just give her my phone and tell her to type in her number and call it. Since she's calling herself, she won't type in a fake.
/r/seduction13/10/14 05:57 PM
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If you get the boyfriend objection, it means you fucked up, so move on. You should be the one disqualifying yourself, not her.
/r/seduction14/04/14 11:14 AM
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Don't listen to some of the people on here, saying that you wasted your time on one girl. Not every fish in the sea is the same. Some people are just worth it. You're shooting for greatness my friend, keep it up.
/r/seduction06/04/14 11:39 PM
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Question, why do they have to combine those two things? If you like cheetos, does that mean you're a Marxist-feminist-cheeto-lover?
/r/seduction09/03/14 03:28 PM
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I don't think they are. Being attracted to your partner is great. Granted there are some seductive tactics that are very vain and short term solutions, so you shouldn't use them if you wouldn't want them done to you in a long term relationship. So just use the more positive ones.
/r/seduction10/01/14 12:21 AM
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Laws of seduction, lol
/r/seduction09/01/14 10:42 PM
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To keep things fresh I do things like: Write my girl sexy or romantic letters while I'm at work Make mixtapes Give little gifts/presents Give back massages/relax her Do whatever you can to create space (have your own life/interests/hobbies) Don't depend on her completely for entertainment I'd say seduction gets a lot tougher after you get the girl you want. You can't just slouch and sit back. Show her you still care and find her attractive. Work for her, and she'll stay intimate and interested.
/r/seduction09/01/14 09:23 PM
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Introversion is just a concept thought up by Carl Jung. Its just an idea, thought up by one guy. It has basically no foundation in evidence, and is nearly impossible to prove, because Jung argued that everyone is both introverted and extraverted. Everything we can measure about human behavior tells us that no human is an introvert: Everyone desires social interactions, forms groups, relationships, friends, etc. Humans are pack animals; if we weren't, then you'd see a lot of people choosing to li…
/r/seduction05/01/14 10:57 PM
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As I said above, I agree that you can't compare what people feel, but you can compare their behavior. And you have just stated, that you don't know a single person who behaves in a completely introverted/anti-social manner. Yes, people are different. But they pretty much all want/need social interaction of some form.
/r/seduction05/01/14 08:56 PM
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How do I know you, or anyone else, actually enjoys human interaction? Its anecdotal, but I have personally never met someone who doesn't enjoy some form of human interaction. There might be an asexual hermit living in a cave somewhere who flees at the sight of another person, but they'd probably fall under the statistical minority. I'd say nearly all people want a lot of human connection: physical, emotional, sexual, being part of a group/community, respect. People like having friends. Humans ar…
/r/seduction05/01/14 08:15 PM
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Haha why are you getting downvoted when all you're suggesting is talking to other people about what they like?
/r/seduction05/01/14 07:57 PM
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Why do you believe introversion exists?
/r/seduction05/01/14 07:31 PM
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That is a very common definition, but it doesn't mean it actually applies to human behavior. I'd pretty much guarantee that a self labeled introvert could be very stimulated/gain energy from an interaction, as long as it's an extremely comfortable one, such as with close friends. So in that case introversion would be more of selective label... I get to label myself an introvert when I'm uncomfortable, yet at the same time enjoy being among friends.
/r/seduction05/01/14 06:57 PM
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Finally someone who gets it here. I'd go one further and argue that introversion doesn't exist. It's just people claiming a title to protect themselves from the possibility of having negative social interactions. Why be interested in other people if I'm an introvert, who can never change and as such is allowed to ignore other people?
/r/seduction05/01/14 05:10 PM
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Can anyone here prove that introversion exists? Many just seem to accept it as a given, without any debate. Introversion/extraversion are just ideas from Jung, they aren't necessarily true in any way. Maslow argued that everyone wants social interaction. The so called introvert still wants social experiences, as long as they are positive ones. IMO, Everyone needs/wants social interaction of some form. The emotional expression and warmth you get from sex is a part of that.
/r/seduction05/01/14 05:04 PM
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Agreed. The first thing out of his mouth is about her looks? This isn't good game.
/r/seduction21/11/13 05:56 PM
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Haters gonna hate. I think there are basically two camps here. One says that you should not date within your social circle. No dating through work, friends, school, where you live, etc. Examples would be guys who refuse to ask the girls in their group out, or girls who likewise refuse to date people they interact with. The other camp says that its okay for you to do so, as long as everyone can handle the repercussions of potentially fucking up those areas of your life. Personally I'm in the seco…
/r/seduction28/04/13 09:56 PM
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Even with the possible repercussions from her job, I still think its worth it over a vibrator or a random drunken stand-in cock. Life is short, and she's only human.
/r/seduction28/04/13 05:00 PM
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This is pretty terrible advice. Three of my coworkers met their spouses through work. All have healthy relationships. If you work a full time job, your work becomes your social circle. What better choice for a person to become close to than people you interact with every day?
/r/seduction28/04/13 03:49 PM
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If they initially refuse it, then take it on your persistence, that's a huge win. There's actually a lot going on there. One is reciprocation, you've given them something, and they're likely to feel like they should return the gesture at some point. But more important, you've started what's called a pattern of compliance. You've requested that they do something small, and they did it. Now they're in a more suggestible mood, because they don't want to conflict with the pattern of action they've a…
/r/seduction15/04/13 04:01 AM
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There's lots of cues like this that work in groups or one on ones. One for a group of guys is to lock your hands, and put them on top of your head. If the other guys do it too, they trust/like having you around. Another one is offering someone a piece of gum, and keep holding it there till they say yes. Another one is putting your arm on their shoulder or arm, if they reciprocate, they like you.
/r/seduction15/04/13 12:46 AM
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I've always thought that all this stuff, in general is about raising your value. But value is not limited in supply or traded around. You make your own value. You can have a group of high-value guys, all with something cool and interesting about them, and women would find every one of them attractive.
/r/seduction29/03/13 03:22 AM
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I have one-itis with a girl I've cared about for years. Problem is, our only contact currently is through video-chatting(we live far away from each other now) a few times a week. I can flirt and raise my value a bit by disqualifying, but I can't really escalate because I can't touch her. Its pretty frustrating because the more we talk, the more we are becoming friends, and the less it becomes possible to escalate things romantically. I'm totally out of moves at this point except for just agreein…
/r/seduction21/03/13 01:29 AM
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Women, and men for that matter love psychological tests, its like holding up a mirror. A huge majority of women believe in astrology and horoscopes. If you get called out for using 'that game stuff', then you probably were hitting on someone way out of your league and forgot to disqualify. Otherwise, most girls would LOVE this test.
/r/seduction09/02/13 03:32 AM
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A better method is to use two persuasive techniques called lowballing and consistency. Early on in the conversation, get her to comply with a minor request of yours. "Show me your hands", or, "spin around in a circle". Once you do this, you'll have started a pattern of compliance. After that, they will want to be consistent, even if they didn't really like you initially. If you did this right, when you ask for the date, it would make it so much more powerful if it was her idea. So you could say …
/r/seduction20/01/13 04:02 PM
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Practice talking to yourself, about your day, with a mirror for 5 minutes every day. This is a method actors use to practice their expressions, but it is extremely helpful for anxiety. If you have very low self esteem, you may even cry the first few times doing it. After a while, it gets easier and you find things you love to talk about with yourself, and use that as a starting point.
/r/seduction29/12/12 07:24 PM
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Right on brother
/r/seduction29/12/12 06:45 PM
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I certainly see where you're coming from, but you've made one big assumption: that she likes/thinks you have value within the first 3 seconds of talking to her. You're only giving her a chance to assess your looks alone, while using a line literally every other man she meets uses. If you say what everyone else says, and not something interesting or unique, why should she think you're any different from the hundreds of other boring guys that use the same line? You have effectively placed your val…
/r/seduction29/12/12 04:27 PM
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You could use one of the canned openers, which you can find hundreds of on here.They are canned but they do work extremely well if delivered directly. Better yet, start talking about something interesting going on with your life, and spend at least a little while conveying your personality before you let her get a word in.
/r/seduction29/12/12 04:03 PM
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but its not interesting. You could also say, 'I like playing magic the gathering and masterbating to internet porn'. Its also not gimmicky, cheesy, creepy, or canned. It's very honest. This is a performance art, not a lie detector test.
/r/seduction29/12/12 03:31 AM
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Same with the hi, my name is _____. You're not displaying any value, getting her attention, or standing out from the crowd. Engage their attention with something interesting, your name isn't interesting.
/r/seduction29/12/12 02:30 AM
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I think most women know they're being gamed, considering they invented it. I doubt they'd blow you out unless they instantly didn't like you. Also, not that I am one but I think most puas would probably stick around for the challenge, and probably win out much of the time because they'd be attracted to his confidence and unwillingness to take a beating without a fight.
/r/seduction28/12/12 11:46 PM
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This exemplifies two schools in seduction, oddly representing part 1 and 2 of the 'art of seduction' by robert greene. The first school focuses on seductive personality traits, magnetic personality types, etc. The second school focuses on the process of seduction, building rapport, creating triangles. The second school is usually the dominant one, especially online. That's because it's just more definable, testable, and reproduceable. You can tell a guy to DHV, but you can't tell him to be as co…
/r/seduction28/12/12 11:30 PM
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This argument is interesting, but a subjective vs. objective argument isn't really needed here. We should really talk about what women and men desire, not about what energies they project. Broadly speaking, women desire the survival value of a man, his ability to care for her needs, and the needs of their future(possibly including a family). He needs social status, social ability, wealth, respect/admiration, etc Men desire the reproductive value of a woman, her health, beauty, warmth, ability to…
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:37 PM
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Wow. 97 whiny upvotes from men who think they have it bad. Imagine what women have to deal with, where looks for them are 30x more important. Looks don't matter for men. I can prove it with a simple statement. If an ugly girl tells you she owns a lamborghini, the guy would likely not care. If an ugly guy tells a woman the same, he will be instantly attractive. Good looks signifying health, are important for a woman, while survival/social status, is important for a man. Women need looks, men need…
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:30 PM
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He insulted one of your interests, and you are offended. Its not like I don't like or play videogames either dude, I'm just not as easily offended as you. But I didn't come here for someone to stroke me for playing video games. I came here for seduction advice.
/r/seduction28/12/12 06:19 PM
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Why do people think that social skills are something you're born with? It's a skill like any other, swimming, playing frisbee, dancing, walking, etc. And your assertion that since different people have different capacities or time spent requiring learning a skill, then this is an excuse to not do it at all? So because I started walking later than other babies then I should've just gave up on it?
/r/seduction28/12/12 06:08 PM
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You're better off finding self improvement in r/selfimprovement. With your temperament, you're better off in r/relationships, not r/seduction, which is amoral.
/r/seduction28/12/12 06:00 PM
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If people's days were entirely ruined just due to a difference of opinion.... maybe they should just get off this subreddit. If it bothers you, just ignore it, don't complain, man up, and follow your interests. I've just been seeing way too much white-knighting/affirmation of antisocial behavior on r/seduction recently. People are getting butthurt way too easily. This is r/seduction, anything not devoted to seduction should get out.
/r/seduction27/12/12 08:05 PM
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then please get off this subreddit
/r/seduction27/12/12 07:56 PM
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Agreed. All these, lets put 100 people in a room and see who wins analogies are just false. If 100% of men had the social ability to attract women, they would find a way. Women are not more monogamous than men.
/r/seduction27/12/12 04:39 PM
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You're obviously a smart and thoughtful guy, but you're posting in the wrong subreddit. If you want to carry the torch of video gamers, then it's best to do it one of those reddits. Lets keep this focused on seduction techniques/mindsets, not defending lifestyle choices.
/r/seduction27/12/12 04:34 PM
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I've always disliked this advice. Most men, including me, need to work on building their desire rather than hiding it. If I don't care about getting laid, then I won't. Women want guys to desire them too, they just want to be respected, which you did, and made to feel special. You gave them an opportunity to have fun and be the center of attention, but if you had more desire, you could have gotten any one of them easily, which they were probably secretly begging you to do.
/r/seduction29/09/12 10:46 PM
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