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| 1 | Worth following up with this girl or should I just forget about it“When are you free” has always worked out well for me. I used to just name a time and place but got sick and tired of playing the game of rescheduling when she says she can’t make it then for X reason but instead proposes another time. When I ask “when are you free” it cuts through a lot of BS and makes it really simple for me to pick a mutually acceptable day/time. Both lead to the same end result but “When are you free” is on average much more efficient and I’ve gotten great success out it. I … | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Worth following up with this girl or should I just forget about itOr I'm trying to ask about a specific girl so I can learn more about a situation I hadn't encountered before in order to learn what the best TRP-advice that I can then apply to future situation. Just because I have a long text about a specific girl doesn't always mean it's solely because I want to "win" her | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Going for the first kissMy town is a literally a ghost town, I'm not exaggerating that. That's why I'm planning to move out as soon as possible but for now I'm stuck here | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Are women at or past the wall easier or harder?Damn you're 100% right. This girl brought up some philosophical questions around dating/sex (like if I would ever date someone with kids (she doesn't have one), etc) during our last date. Of course I gave her all politically correct answers. I'll wait out for one more date and see what happens, she's around 8-8.5 for me. Thanks brother | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Are women at or past the wall easier or harder?Thanks for a genuine answer man, I really appreciate it. I'm within a few months of turning 25 and this girl is 28. I understand why she might want to lock me down, but why did you put "build" in quotes. Can you elaborate on that? With this particular girl, she's showing a high level of interest in me (initiates texting, always replies back to me almost immediately, buys me drinks, etc) but always holds back when I try to escalate. For example, she'll kiss me but it's never a makeout. We've been… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Are women at or past the wall easier or harder?That's your opinion dude. But thanks for sharing it | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Are women at or past the wall easier or harder?I wasn't asking for advice regarding if I should or should not fuck with post wall women, that's a different discussion | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 10:25 PM |
| 0 | Are women at or past the wall easier or harder?Yeah I struggled in the past, but these days I feel like I'm not doing too bad anymore after being able to learn from a boatload of past mistakes. But there's always room for improvement | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Are women at or past the wall easier or harder?Who said anything about taking shortcuts? You're making assumptions that in this particular isn't true. See my response to another comment in this thread | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Are women at or past the wall easier or harder?If you want to start calling names, then I think you might be the one who's little retarded for making assumptions. I'm asking if post wall women are easier or harder to game, which does not necessarily mean I'm looking for an easy/hard lay. Maybe I'm trying to plate someone right now, who just so happens to be my first late-twenties girl, and I'm getting an unusual amount of shit tests. And maybe I'm trying to figure out if the reason behind this has anything to due with The Wall because honest… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Are women at or past the wall easier or harder?Who said anything about looking for easy ways in life? You're making assumptions here, which happen to be incorrect in this particular case | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 09:54 PM |
| 2 | On using Instagram?Cool, just wanted to check here because in general TRP seems to be very anti-social media | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 07:20 AM |
| 1 | On using Instagram?Ok cool, I wasn't sure because TRP seems to be very anti-social media | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth escalating with this girl?I’ve gotten in the habit of soft-nexting often recently because that’s what everyone here seems to recommend the second a girl stops begging for your dick | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Post-first date communicationsI’m slightly leaning towards Tuesday | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Post-first date communicationsSo I’ll actually be seeing her on Tuesday night because there’s a weekly event that both of us go to on a regular basis (it’s actually how I first met her). We went out last Friday night. Based on everyone’s responses, I was thinking to text her tomorrow but now I’m thinking I shouldn’t since I know I’ll be seeing her in person. Your thought? Text tomorrow, Sunday, or wait to see her on Tuesday? | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girl really want to get drinks but suddenly ghostsWhat should I text her now? I want to try once more before permanently deleting her number. Got nothing to lose and everything to gain | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Tinder girl really want to get drinks but suddenly ghostsIf I want to send her a text now to ping her, what's the best way to do so? I personally see no harm in texting her as I will have lost nothing. If she doesn't respond then I'll delete her number for good | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl really want to get drinks but suddenly ghostsIf I want to text her, what's a good text to send? I see no harm in trying one more time, not like I'm going to be marrying this chick | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl really want to get drinks but suddenly ghostsIf she was letting me down then why would she give me her number and text me "Let's get drinks next week of you're free!" right before ghosting? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Setting up the next date in a non-needy wayYou need to give her some space. How much more space do you think I should give her? So far it's been 3 days of no contact | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Setting up the next date in a non-needy waybecause why would you waste your time on someone who isn’t interested when there are plenty of girls who are interested. Realistically there aren't, although I still try my best to carry myself with an abundance mentality. 1) My SMV isn't high enough but it's something I'm always working on and 2) The city I live in is pretty small so the total number of women I have access to is already limited in my area. Again I'm not looking to marry this girl or even make her into an LTR so I personally don… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 06:48 PM |
| 0 | Setting up the next date in a non-needy way1) Why do you think she's not interested when it's possible she's just waiting for you to make definite plans? Not saying that this is for sure the case here, but there are a lot of girls who will do this even if they like the guy a lot 2) Why should you next so fast without even giving her the opportunity to turn you down? Even if she's not super into you, she might still be down to hang out if I put out a definite day/time to meet. It's not like I'm planning to marry this girl, just bang her. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Should I text tomorrow or wait a few more days?I should do drinks again? Because that's exactly what we did last time | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I text tomorrow or wait a few more days?Ok I see what you're saying now. Thanks for clarifying. In mind I thought it would be humorous but now I understand how that's me falling into her frame. So you think me just texting her "let's do drinks/movie at your place tmrw 7:30pm" won't come off as needy given that I had last texted her 3 days before? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Should I text tomorrow or wait a few more days?1) I'm not a newbie to TRP. I already have 2 current plates that I acquired after getting involved with TRP over a year ago and I consider my game good enough to consistently get lays. 2) Even though my game is good enough to consistently get lays I'm "obsessing" over a particular text in this case so that I can find ways to improve my game by getting different perspectives for a given situation. Now about the frame thing you brought up. I can see where you're coming from but I would argue that … | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Should I text tomorrow or wait a few more days?No I don't have oneitis as I already have 2 other plates. This girl is not cuter than those 2. I'm simply asking so I can improve my game. I consider my game right now good enough to consistently get lays, but trying to make it better by getting different perspectives on handing certain situations. I'm not going to be seeing her in person since next week I'm not going to salsa lessons on Wednesday as I have already planned another date then. Given this, do you still think I should/shouldnt text … | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good way to set up the second date or should I wait some more?No I don't think I have oneitis. Recently I've been getting successful with girls (I actually have 2 other plates, hence why I'm likely won't be free for most of the week) so now I'm working to get my game better than it currently is. I just think right now my game is just barely good enough. That's why I'm posting this question to see what other people here would do in this situation | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good way to set up the second date or should I wait some more?I would no contact for another few days+week. When would you text her then? Also, even if it's not optimal, would it be bad or come off as needy if I did text her tomorrow? Reason being is that I typically like to plan out my weekdays on Sundays and I likely won't be in town next weekend. So if I don't make plans with her tomorrow, there's a good chance I won't be free to hang out with her until the week after next week. That'll put 2-3 weeks in between the first and second date which might just… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good opportunity to set up a second date or should I wait some more?Makes sense, I'll wait. However I'm pretty certain she won't be able to meet with me during the week because classes are getting really hectic for her (that's the impression I'm getting from her Snapchat stories). The only reason our last date was on a Monday night was because it was her first day back from Spring Break. So setting up the next date in a way to get the least amount of resistance would have to be either this weekend (which would be just under a full week from our last date) or the… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good opportunity to set up a second date or should I wait some more?What does that have to do regarding texting her today vs tomorrow? I'm planning on going on that other date regardless. Doesn't change my plans for tonight | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Interesting situation, should I even try escalating or nah?seduction is a nasty business. you either get the pussy or you get bluntly rejected. if you go to this with trying not to come too strong attitude so you can remain friends Yep, exactly my conundrum. I know I can't do both, so I'm trying to see which option is more optimal. If I try to seduce her, I'm gonna go all in without expecting to ever be friends should I get rejected again. Now, what would you personally do? Go for the pussy now or go for the social proof? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Interesting situation, should I even try escalating or nah?My question is, is it worth my time to "pursue" her given our history? If it is and there is a reasonable chance she won't reject me again, then hell yeah I want to get with her. If there's a good chance she'll reject me or it'll be too much work to change her perspective of me being a beta nice guy, then I might as well preserve the friendship to get that social proof in the future | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Interesting situation, should I even try escalating or nah?First of all, if you are trying to get with her That's what I'm not sure of. Is it worth my time to pursue her given our history? If it is and there is a reasonable chance she won't reject me again, then hell yeah I want to get with her. If there's a good chance she'll reject me or it'll be too much work to change her perspective of me being a beta nice guy, then I might as well "save the friendship" to get that social proof in the future If she’s attractive She is most definitely attractive, pe… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 04:59 AM |
| 1 | What's the proper TRP way to handle this situationWhen is a good time to set up the next date? I'm not texting her today since we just met up last night (unless you think it's a good idea to say something like "Had fun last night, let's do it again sometime") But I will be seeing her tomorrow at salsa lessons (which is actually where I first met her) so I'm thinking about talking to her then and setting up the next date. Also, tonight I have plans with someone else and we're doing an activity that I made into an inside joke with the girl I met … | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What's the proper TRP way to handle this situationJust got back from meeting with her Picked her and we drove to the bar. Right off the bat I noticed she was throwing a lot of IOIs (eye contact, leaning forward when talking, being really interested in everything I was saying, etc). At the bar I didn't even try to escalate, we just talked and chilled. During the conversation I suggested we go salsa dancing in a very public spot (she's new to salsa but I'm a veteran). She said sure. After the bar (I paid both of our drinks and she offered to pay … | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 04:15 AM |
| 2 | What's the proper TRP way to handle this situationI ended up texting her: Me: "Hey, I actually have other dinner plans, but I'm still down for drinks at 7. Feel free to get food yourself though if you haven't had dinner by then" Her: oh ok thats cool. Then maybe at 8 get drinks. I will go home quick and eat. unless thats late then we can do another night also Me: 8 is fine Her: see ya then | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | What's the proper TRP way to handle this situationShe texted back asking if we could push it back to 8pm (instead of 7) so she has a chance to eat dinner beforehand. I told her that's fine. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | What's the proper TRP way to handle this situationNo I have not, that's why I invited her to drinks at a really chill bar. The bar just so happens to also double up as a restaurant. So is my text wording ok? Or should I go with fasting? With my idea, I think that gives off the impression to her that I'm talking/dating other girls | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What's the proper TRP way to handle this situationHow about I text her this then: "I actually already have other dinner plans, but I'm still down for drinks at 7. Feel free to get food though if haven't had dinner by then." My reasoning is that if she's using me for a free meal, this should put her off and cancel the date. Otherwise if she doesn't cancel, then she's potentially still interested. Either way, I won't pay for her food | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Would setting up a date be too soon in this case?I actually ended up texting "haha idk, do I get a free drink out of it?" | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Would setting up a date be too soon in this case?The first that came to my mind was this "haha idk. Looking for more free stuff after already getting free drinks/advice last night huh? 😂" (I didn't personally buy her drinks last night, she was using some random guy hitting on her to buy her shots) How would you respond? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Would setting up a date be too soon in this case?Here's the convo we just had: Her: I figured out the Google doc thing!! (in reference to something she mentioned about school at bars last night) Me: lol you're welcome. Tbh I half expected you to panic text me sometime today Her: Hahahaha well I might need to panic text you to download it to pdf to submit. Can I still do that?? I feel like I can use this threat to smoothly ask her out instead of just satin "we should grab food". However my text game sucks ass, any recommendations? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Would setting up a date be too soon in this case?Here's the convo we just had: Her: I figured out the Google doc thing!! (in reference to something she mentioned about school at bars last night) Me: lol you're welcome. Tbh I half expected you to panic text me sometime today Her: Hahahaha well I might need to panic text you to download it to pdf to submit. Can I still do that?? I feel like I can use this threat to smoothly ask her out instead of just satin "we should grab food". However my text game sucks ass, any recommendations? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Any idea what happened here?She replied back saying "Hey! sorry I didn't respond. I have work tomorrow so I can't go out tonight" She lives an hour away (yeah she drove an hour to see me last weekend) so I can kinda see why she would turns this down. Probably not going to respond back unless she either texts me again with an alternative or until it's closer to the weekend | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 01:48 AM |
| 0 | Any idea what happened here?You seem overly invested in her because you're not willing to soft next. I don't think so. If she isn't interested, I'm not seeing the problem in texting one more time. It's not like it costs me anything to send a text The reason why I was considering to text again was for a few reasons 1) We kissed so there is some level of attraction, even if it is seemingly low 2) When we hung out she mentioned that she wanted to go salsa dancing with me this week 3) She's permanently moving out of town in a … | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Any idea what happened here?Lesson learned, thanks | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 07:38 PM |
| -1 | Any idea what happened here?Ok, but is there any harm (and if so, what?) in texting her "I'm going salsa dancing tonight if you wanna come"? When I last hung out with her, she said she wanted to go out dancing with me this week The reason why I was looking to text her today rather than wait was because she is moving out of town in about a month so I don't have much time left to still potentially fuck her | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 07:28 PM |
| -2 | Any idea what happened here?If she's not into me any harm in texting her "I'm going salsa dancing tonight if you wanna come"? When I last hung out with her, she said she wanted to go out dancing with me. The reason why I was looking to text her today rather than wait a week was because she is moving out of town in about a month so I don't have much time left to still potentially fuck her | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a flakeOk cool, I wasn't sure if I was losing frame or not because now in a way she's calling the shots | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How should I handle this girl's text?True, but I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt. She just graduated school and is working a minimum wage job so I'm assuming she really needs the money. If this is the case and I was in her shoes, I know I would've done the same But I really like your response, I'll probably use that | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | What is TRP's thoughts on this interaction? What did I do good and how can I improve?I see what you mean but looking at this from her perspective, I'm just a random guy she hasn't even met yet. Very few girls will put in that kind of effort in situations like this especially when you consider that society has ingrained into everyone's minds that a man has to do the pursuing. In this case, she's obviously at least a little interested because she matched with me, responded to my texts, and even gave me her number. Her interest level isn't expected to be crazy high since she hasn't… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 07:33 PM |
| 2 | What is TRP's thoughts on this interaction? What did I do good and how can I improve?I just told her I'm going out on Thursday night and that she can tag along if she wants to. After she responded yes and apologies for last weekend I replied back "Cool, I'll text you the details later". I'll probably text her Thursday morning confirming the time and place with her | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 11:28 PM |
| 2 | What is TRP's thoughts on this interaction? What did I do good and how can I improve?Go for it in the way I describe above. Just did that and she responded within 2 min. She also apologized for flaking on Saturday night saying that she was too drunk (which makes sense since there was a beer festival going on that day) | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | What is TRP's thoughts on this interaction? What did I do good and how can I improve?She wasn't interested from the start I think you're wrong here. After talking to several other people, I just texted her "I'm going out on Thurs night, you can tag along if you want". She replied within 2min saying she wants to and also apologized for flaking on Saturday night saying that she was too drunk (which makes sense because there was a beer festival going on all day that day) If she flakes again, then I'm done with her | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Inviting a girl to hang outShe ended up bailing on dinner and said she'll just meet me at the salsa thing. I ended up k-closing tonight. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Inviting a girl to hang outis the friend who said she has a boyfriend a girl? No, one of my guy friends who had also met her the same night as I had. she could be just playing you for orbiter attention Doesn't sound like it. I ended up going to salsa with her and k-closed tonight. i would not have invited her to salsa, just cancel on her and say she should respect her boyfriend more Turns out she doesn't have a boyfriend. Or at least she never mentioned one to me nor is there any other indication she has one. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Inviting a girl to hang outOk that makes a lot more sense. Thanks for the clarification. However, I already texted her saying she's free to come to dinner if she'd like and she accepted. Should I just go with it now or come up with an excuse? This friend who said she had a boyfriend, was it a girl? No it was a guy. He had also just met her the same night I did. She never mentioned a bf to me so that's why I'm now going under the assumption that she likes me, she doesn't have a bf, and my friend was mistaken unless proven … | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Inviting a girl to hang outWhy is making her feel left out a good thing? Your advice sounds like How To Be A Terrible Person 101 | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 10:33 AM |
| 5 | Look i need to fucken vent.Nick Vujicic Nick Vujicic's pregnant wife and kid This guy Sean Stephenson Actually look through these links before reading on. If these people found success (professionally, romantically, etc) when life totally and utterly screwed them over, why can't you? I empathize with your problems and I'm not saying your problems are meaningless, but objectively-speaking you're in a pretty good place. If those people can accomplish what they did given their circumstances, just imagine what your potential … | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 09:39 AM |
| 5 | Tinder first date questionI thought by suggesting something unique I'll come off as more interesting. Also I have a lot of other female friends who salsa dance so I figured I'll easily be able to take advantage of preselection and social proof. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up or is this normal?Stop texting her and let her initiate As a thought experiment, let's say she doesn't initiate within the next 2-3 days. When and how should I re-initiate? | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 02:02 AM |
| 4 | Did I fuck up or is this normal?Doesn't matter, had sex | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 01:55 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome a potentially BS excuse?Sunday: Had sex and introduced her to my friend. We went to an event downtown and got dinner with that friend of mine. Monday Her: Hey I have a lot of stuff to get together before school starts so I probably can't do [Nearby big city she wanted to visit] tm :( Me: Ok Wednesday Me: You into hiking? Let's do that this weekend Thursday Her: Not a nature person 😞 Me: How come? Her: I'm a city chick Me: Well I'm going Sun so lmk if you change your mind [Later in the day] Me: Salsa? Her: Yes. After I … | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 12:19 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome a potentially BS excuse?I ended up texting her this last night: "All night? We can chill at a cool rooftop bar. They don't card." Never got a response back so I think I'm going to go radio silent for a week unless she re-initiates something What do you think about this? I can send you my recent texts with her if it helps out. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome a potentially BS excuse?That's a very interesting perspective. Thanks for taking the time to share that Idk what you want, but entering a serious relationship will help you find out. Maybe you do want to fuck around on the side, maybe you want a wife asap, maybe you just want a casual monogamous relationship where you're both into each other but not planning ahead. This will probably sound super un-manly and beta, but I guess what I'm looking for is some level of intimate attachment. Growing up I was never attached to … | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome a potentially BS excuse?Thanks for the your advice! I do want to go forward with making her into a serious girlfriend. Does that mean I should text her back today? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 12:00 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome a potentially BS excuse?Just saw your edit How would you respond given this context and the fact that I'm interested in making her my girlfriend (see my other response). Ignore her or push for a meetup? If I push, what's the best way to do so to further my goal of making her my GF? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome a potentially BS excuse?Actually yes, I would like her to be my girlfriend but I'm not super attached to that idea. I'm fine if she ends up being just a fuck buddy All my life I have sucked with girls but I'm finally at the point where I feel kinda good being sexual around them. I have never had a girlfriend before (even though I'm 23) so I would like to be in a relationship to experience how that feels like. I get along pretty well with this girl so so far she seems like a good candidate | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 11:45 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome a potentially BS excuse?Here's the timeline of events with her: Last Sunday: Had sex with her in the morning and then showered with her. We then went downtown to meet up with a friend of mine. I then dropped her back home and picked her up again 2 hours later to get dinner with the same friend of mine. Last Monday: Over the weekend we had made tentative plans to go to a nearby big city which is 2 hours away just to hang out (this was her idea). On Monday she said she can't make it anymore and I just responded with "ok"… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 11:24 PM |
| 1 | How to initiate sexting?What for? For fun. Because it's something new, something different. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Girl not allowing PIV even though she's very into me because she was pumped and dumped too much. What to do?Or couldn't it mean that she likes me a lot but is thinking that if she puts out so soon (as she did with the other guys) then I'll leave her just as fast as the other guys? But because she likes me and doesn't want me to dump her after getting sex, she's holding off on it in hopes of getting me to invest and commit to her because then the chances of me ditching her would decrease? If for a second we assume what I just said is actually true, that would explain a lot of her other behavior. For ex… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Girl not allowing PIV even though she's very into me because she was pumped and dumped too much. What to do?Would it be too soon if I text her tomorrow (Saturday)? I last texted on Thursday night and that was night she slept over at my place for the 2nd time and on Friday morning I dropped her off at her place. My plan going forward is this. Tomorrow (Saturday) around noon I'll invite to this farmers market thing going on downtown that I was already planning on going to. Then from there invite her back to my place again for a movie in the afternoon. About half way into the movie start making out and s… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 01:00 AM |
| 5 | Girl not allowing PIV even though she's very into me because she was pumped and dumped too much. What to do?She says she has fucked 8 guys total (both on and off Tinder). So that means it's probably actually around 20ish. She also used to have a sugar daddy. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Girl not allowing PIV even though she's very into me because she was pumped and dumped too much. What to do?I wasn't planning to hang out with her last night. She invited me out to bars and I said no because I already had other plans with some other people. I finished hanging out with those other people early so because I didn't have anything else to do I hit her up to see if that offer still stood | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl not allowing PIV even though she's very into me because she was pumped and dumped too much. What to do?I do enjoy hanging out with her even when we aren't hooking up. We share a lot of the same hobbies and tastes in things (such as music) and we can talk about random shit for hours. With the way things are going I know she'll put out eventually, but I'm just trying to get a TRP perspective on this given that I'm considering a relationship. Also, she's 19 and I'm 23 | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Almost had a lay, but couldn't get past LMR. What's next?No she doesn't think I'm a virgin. She ruled it out because to her I seemed very comfortable being naked with her and I had told her stories of me having sex before she even asked me for my n-count in the first place (these stories were like 90% true and 10% made up). I also specifically make sure that my Facebook pictures are all of me hanging out with different groups of girls (she had sent me a friend request) She keeps guessing in the 10-20 range and is begging me to confirm it | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Almost had a lay, but couldn't get past LMR. What's next?About the n-count, all of my excuses were super playful and I was making tons of jokes. At one point I even told her that she's giving me even more reason to not tell her because I was getting a kick out of all of this. She just laughed and I was an asshole | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Girl asking me for a favorBecause a truly high value guy who is talking to many girls probably wouldn't go out of his way to pick up and drive just one chick when another one is willing to come to him. Of course I'm in the process becoming high value enough to actually become this type of guy but in the meantime doesn't TRP preach that you should give off this impression at all times? That's why I'm a bit confused | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Successful first date, what's next?Any tips? What was your experience like? My time with a hooker didn't feel too bad (I lasted a reasonable amount of time). And I have eaten out a girl once in the past (this was a one night stand, not a hooker) so I do have some experience there | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Successful first date, what's next?I made up some excuses. First I said something like that'll be a mystery. Then she started guessing, starting with I think 15. I just said that's a good guess. Then she said 18? I said good guess again. At this point she was demanding I tell her higher or lower so I said that I'll give her one and only one hint. She responded with ok as long as I don't say something like 1-99. I said I won't, my hint is its between 1-98 Then she said I have to be more specific is it 0-10, 10-20, 20-30, etc. I re… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | A girl likes me but I'm running into trouble trying to hang out, any advice for an almost graduating college virgin?Don't get stuck on losing your virginity to her Right now she seems like my best option given the circumstances. My SMV is currently not that high but I'm working hard to improve that every day. However, it's going to take me at least a few months before it'll be at a level I can be somewhat happy about. Since my SMV is low right now, not that many girls find me attractive so I was actually surprised when I discovered that this girl liked me. I also have only 2 weeks left of college before I lea… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 04:07 PM |
| 1 | A girl likes me but I'm running into trouble trying to hang out, any advice for an almost graduating college virgin?How soon should I invite her to study? If I text her too soon I might come off as needy but i also don't have much time left to wait around | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 08:22 AM |
| 1 | A girl likes me but I'm running into trouble trying to hang out, any advice for an almost graduating college virgin?Are there any parties going on after finals? Not that I know of, the last party was last weekend and that's when I was making out with this girl. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 07:16 AM |
| 2 | A girl likes me but I'm running into trouble trying to hang out, any advice for an almost graduating college virgin?Yea she doesn't know and I'm not planning to tell her either | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 07:11 AM |
| 1 | A girl likes me but I'm running into trouble trying to hang out, any advice for an almost graduating college virgin?That's exactly what I was worried about. I'm low on time but I also can't seem needy, which are conflicting goals. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 04:43 AM |
| 1 | A girl likes me but I'm running into trouble trying to hang out, any advice for an almost graduating college virgin?When? She said no for tonight and tomorrow is Sunday. We have final exams starting in a few days so drinks are pretty much out of the question. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 04:18 AM |
| 1 | A girl likes me but I'm running into trouble trying to hang out, any advice for an almost graduating college virgin?The problem is that its going to be really hard to find another girl just because I don't have the time to invest in finding someone. We were talking about going to the gym last week. Should I invite her to workout with me tomorrow? I know it's not ideal but do I have any other options in your opinion? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 04:16 AM |
| 1 | A girl likes me but I'm running into trouble trying to hang out, any advice for an almost graduating college virgin?You needed to have a ticket and when I asked her it was too late to get a ticket. It was logistically impossible even if I asked her and she was up for it | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Trying to hang out with a girl that likes me but I'm running into obstacles. Would like some advice so I can lose my virginity before graduationThis was an update | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Requesting girl advice as a 22 year old virginWhat's wrong? | /r/askTRP | 30/04/16 10:43 AM |
| -1 | Requesting girl advice as a 22 year old virginFunny thing is that I was her choreographer for the past 2 months for a salsa performance that happened last weekend | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Requesting girl advice as a 22 year old virginThat's not possible because you need to have gotten tickets a week or two beforehand. Even if I wanted to invite her and she was down to go, it's logistically impossible at this point | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 12:28 PM |
| 3 | As a newbie, how exactly should I escalate from here?I was surprised too because she's also bisexual | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Would appreciate some red pill advice for this situation.In regards to meeting her, should I just tell her to get lunch with me or something? I would invite her to my place but that would have to wait until next weekend. I'm busy this week and I have a roommate (he'll be gone during the weekend though) | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Would appreciate some red pill advice for this situation.No she doesn't know. I told a few people in the past that I'm a virgin but no one believes me because I don't look or act like the type of guy who would be a virgin. I have no trouble socializing with girls but I'm just not sure how to escalate. What do you specifically recommend for this case? Also just some extra info (might or might not be relevant). I think she's bisexual. She specifically said "I think I like boobs more than penises" and she commented how she likes the boobs of this girl we… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Would appreciate some red pill advice for this situation.Can I invite her over for netflix and chill? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/16 09:41 PM |
| 0 | What can I do to overcome the big hit my SMV automatically takes simply by being Indian?Yes I understand that consciously, but how do I go about internalizing that fact? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 04:17 PM |
| 0 | What can I do to overcome the big hit my SMV automatically takes simply by being Indian?work on your self confidence Any advice how to go about it exactly? I'm a 22 year old virgin and I constantly see statistics on how girls of every race (including Indian girls) prefer Indian guys the least in the U.S. I'm just not sure how to internalize the fact that I'm worthy enough even though I consciously know it There are over a billion Indians, so some of y'all are getting laid pretty regularly. Most Indians live in India where white guys are relatively rare. Thus Indian guys have much b… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Would it be too weird or disrespectful if I make a move on her while doing work?We're both 21 and will be graduating college in literally just over a month. College project? Work project? Not quite. We're choreographing a salsa dance together for a performance held at our university in about 3 weeks. We're also teaching this dance to 10 other people who will be performing with us. This is just something both of us are doing for fun. However this project is kind of serious business though. For the past 3 weeks, we've been spending about 5-6 hours/week on this dance. It's goi… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Would it be too weird or disrespectful if I make a move on her while doing work?Last question, how do you actually go for the kiss when she's facing the screen? | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Would it be too weird or disrespectful if I make a move on her while doing work?Gotcha, I'll just say "want to watch a movie?" | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Would it be too weird or disrespectful if I make a move on her while doing work?She explicitly tried to hookup with me in the past, but that was while drunk. I rejected her because she was way too drunk. This happened twice. I think she might have shown interest while sober, but I'm not sure if she was just being really friendly. Do you think that's valid enough reason to risk doing this? | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 09:14 PM |
| 1 | What's a good response to this possible shit test?It's probably safe to assume she needs you more for the project than you need her right? Not necessarily, we're choreographing a salsa dance together for a performance at our university in a few weeks. I told her yesterday that we need to meet up today to finish the choreography, plan upcoming practices with our dancers, and send out some emails. We likely will not be physically practicing salsa together tonight. I honestly can do the choreography by myself super easily and quicker, but I asked … | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Would it be too weird or disrespectful if I make a move on her while doing work?During Netflix and chill, how exactly do you go for the kiss when the both of you staring at the computer/TV screen? I've done Netflix and chill only once before and the transition from watching the movie to going for the kiss did not feel smooth at all. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What's a good response to this possible shit test?You could've easily escalated to the point where you would know if she was actually going to have sex with you without actually having sex with her. You're 100% right, I was too blue pill back then. Thank for the perspective though Teasing, leading you on. This is worth no more than a kiss. There was a big rape that happened nearby that made headlines not too long before this incident so I didn't want to take any extra risks. Beta as fuck. Put that bitch on the couch or share the bed with her. Y… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What's a good response to this possible shit test?Here's what happened. She invited back to her place and there she came up with an excuse to get on my lap, in a very sexual position. We kissed just a bit more and then just talked for 10-15min. She positioned her legs so that I got a clear view of her panties and even part of her pussy. I found an excuse to touch her tits (through her clothes) and she didn't resist. I probably could have easily escalated to sex, but didn't because she was extremely drunk and about to pass out. I was a lot more … | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 07:45 PM |
| 1 | What's a good response to this possible shit test?But here's the thing though that I'm confused about, she kissed me on the lips right after I said ok to the race thing. Later that night, she invited me to her place and things got pretty hot and heavy. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 06:57 PM |
| 53 | What are some social games I can play to boost my confidence?Haha you should've turned around and kept looking at him as you walked backwards. That would've been funny and you would also win the weirdo game | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 06:25 PM |
| 3 | What are some social games I can play to boost my confidence?How are you getting on with the eye contact and talking to everyone? It's actually kind of funny. Most people either look at their phones or at their feet. Also, when I say "Hey, how's it going?" every time I walk past someone, a lot of people don't usually respond and just give me a weird look. I'm starting not to care anymore though. | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Why does is this guy, who appears to be needy and very beta, getting sex?I don't know about that. This year, I'm living in a completely different area from her and I haven't seen Kevin's face at all. Zoe hasn't mentioned him either. Yet I know he's still visiting her because one day as I was walking around campus, I noticed his car parked outside her new home. Out of curiosity, I began regularly checking if his car is here (it's only a very slight detour from the regular path I take to go to class) and I see it here only on the weekends If Zoe was trying to make me j… | /r/seduction | 01/04/15 05:49 AM |
| 1 | I don't have approach anxiety but I can never figure out what to talk aboutHere's how I think you should handle it. I can't even remotely call myself a PUA and I'm not saying this from experience but it's something I have read about. So take this advice with a grain of salt, but it still doesn't hurt to try If a girl is hanging out with a group of girls, you make friends/hit on every girl equally and once everyone is comfortable with your presence, then you isolate the girl you're interested in by gradually giving her more and more of your attention while giving the ot… | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 02:56 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says this, what's the best course of action?Is she trying to make herself seem attractive Not really. In fact, she just told me a story today on how she failed to attract a guy she treating you like an emotional tampon? I don't sense this either. For example, just a few hours ago she was telling me how she was hitting on a guy at a bar (we're both college students) but it turned into an awkward situation. Essentially she was telling me how she messed up herself. Other times, she would mention her random hookups. The only time I feel like … | /r/seduction | 22/03/15 02:39 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says this, what's the best course of action?Do you think she's hitting on me? We've been friends for a couple years now and I'm getting these feelings just now. | /r/seduction | 22/03/15 02:06 AM |
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