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| 7 | Where did this meme come from that men who can’t get dates apparently never shower and have bad hygiene? | Discussion | thowway99999 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:21 AM |
| 5 | There is nothing more or less empowering about “sex work” | Discussion | thowway99999 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women would do if men worldwide suddenly lost their sex drives for 2 months? | Question For Women | thowway99999 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 08:33 PM |
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| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingYeah your emotionally charged anecdotal evidence doesn’t permit you to tell us what the experience of all women is. I said that to point out being hyperbolic in that sense of “All women have been catcalled/sent dick pics unsolicited” is just flat out false and not true. It’s fearmongering. If I can add “black” in front of every “men” in your sentence and it sounds like something I’d find in a far right leaning sub then I know you’re not coming from an honest place. “Things like this normally hap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingThis may just be the area I live in, but you can literally lose your life over some shit less significant than rejecting someone. I won’t say guys in general but there’s a subset of guys out there who 100% can’t take the L. Like if you’re a guy and someone wants to jump you/try you, you just better hope they don’t have a gun in their possession or know anyone with a gun because dudes don’t even get their ass beat anymore. They’ll come back and shoot you or set you up for making them look bad, ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 04:15 AM |
| 4 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingThe point is dying by a mans hands is far more likely if you’re a man and men aren’t constantly on guard like women claim to be. Yes that goes for the short, skinny, out of shape, wimpy, and any other non physically imposing man out there. I’m sure they know they’d get their asses beat in a real altercation but realistically they’re not in that “clutching your purse” mode while walking down the street. I will say on average a woman would be right to fear an altercation with a man because of her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Study: "Confidence is sexy and it can be trained." This is a huge part of what PUAs / TRP mean by "alpha".“Cocky” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Gen Z is going to do better in hookup cultureThis isn’t true for me. While a lot of guys (myself included) do their best to dress well and take care of themselves that doesn’t suddenly make girls wanna fuck us more. Since most guys dress nice that ended up just being something that was a given so they still go for attractive guys the other girls want. Aka “When everyone’s super, no one will be.” The only advantage we have is that we probably can find someone attracted to us they’ll just be out of our state/country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Why don't men care about a girl's social status or money as much as women care about a man's social status or money?I’d at least just want her to be of same social status and make the same money as me. I’m not at all into judging someone cause they’re more or less liked than me. I’d also give someone a chance even if they were poor because I grew up poor. Growing up poor in a semi wealthy neighborhood makes you automatically lower on the social scale than everyone else. I wouldn’t want to put someone else through that so I don’t particularly look for it. Your social class won’t make or break the attraction or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | OLD likes distribution among men is more equal among those aged 20 and underYou’d think this would be the case but I unironically got more matches on “Yubo” which is basically teen tinder. In a day sometimes than I’d get in a year on tinder. The moment I turned 18 my matches fell off and I was bombarded with single moms and women asking me to buy their nudes. That shit sucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?Ngl you could sit back and just wait for guys to approach you. You’ve gotta try pretty hard as an unattractive woman to get NO dudes. If you’re in shape and ugly as a woman most guys will want to hookup but there’s always some lonely dude who wants to be loved. So I’d probably start talking to guys myself because that was always an option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Many men here seem to underestimate or downplay the role “charisma” and “presence” plays in female sexual arousal.Ugly people don’t have confidence because some people will legit be angry you have the nerve to have a higher opinion of yourself than they do. It’s the same type of thing when you see entitled girls crying about ugly guys asking them out, because to them they aren’t even on the same level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Many men here seem to underestimate or downplay the role “charisma” and “presence” plays in female sexual arousal.Idk how true this is but I used to have friends who’d get told “You’re so funnyyyyy but you’re short/ugly” like to their face. Or I’d hear girls they knew say it behind their back. Id say it increases their chance by 1% but all the effort they have to go through would make me want to give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | The reason PPD men don’t believe women who say they’re attracted to “personality” isn’t because we’re wired differently, it’s because they actually misunderstand which personality traits said women are referring to.Category 2- what women actually mean by “attractive personality” is some combination of a few or all of the following: fun, interesting, funny, smart, passionate about/skilled in a hobby (music, art, a sport, cooking, a trade, etc...), mysterious, confident/self assured, eccentric, independent, playful, sensual, adventurous. I feel like this falls apart because if you applied this to any group that women like to straw man men as then it wouldn’t suddenly make them successful. Let’s say there’s s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 07:48 PM |
| 5 | The reason PPD men don’t believe women who say they’re attracted to “personality” isn’t because we’re wired differently, it’s because they actually misunderstand which personality traits said women are referring to.Umm the way someone dresses/looks isn’t indicative of their personality at all. I once started talking to a girl who looked like one of them Puerto Rican Instagram models (no joke) and I sat there wondering why she wasn’t wifed up. 2 mins into our convo sue was telling me about how masturbation is a sin. But I guess you just described the halo effect cause it assumes people who are well dressed and have fun have good personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | The reason PPD men don’t believe women who say they’re attracted to “personality” isn’t because we’re wired differently, it’s because they actually misunderstand which personality traits said women are referring to.This is what I believed since my teens and this is kinda what most incels believe too except I wouldn’t let a hot chick do anything to me as long as I fucked. I’ve had to break it off with too many girls who say racists shit it’s fkn unbelievable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 07:29 PM |
| 21 | What’s the most annoying relationship ritual to you?I don’t even know if I can call it a relationship ritual but that shit with online dating apps where you have to come up with something witty or funny with every match is annoying asf. For one most of the people you match with don’t have an appreciation for any type of humor besides the shit they see on the office. Two, they don’t even have profiles where you can make a good joke out of something, it’s all poorly taken selfies and group pics on these apps. I’m not about to turn myself into a jes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing more or less empowering about “sex work”It’s not a made up straw men cause for some reason a lot of girls I know in their early 20s up and created onlyfans and they constantly post about how sex work is empowering. I ended up getting into an argument in a group chat about this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Men face real issues that have nothing to do sex. It's insulting to men to suggest sex is the ultimate solution.I think they do know it deep down but “I’m single because women don’t find me attractive” is apparently a very radical stance outside of this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Still no women in STEMNowadays more women overall go to college too so why their aren’t more women in STEM I honestly don’t know. I used to think it was a meme but I really really hope there aren’t women out there wasting money on gender study degrees to complain out women not being in STEM fields. I really hope that’s a meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:32 PM |
| 2 | What is special about you females?Im ngl I was thinking about this shit the other day. Like there are an awful lot of women on FDS and honestly on online dating in general who really think they’re the shit that doesn’t stink. If you took away men’s libido for like 2 months I honestly have no idea what some women would do cause as of rn a lot of them are relying on porn addicts to pay for their rent through onlyfans and some have chosen being a hoe as their career. I don’t even mean that as a joke I mean the women that actually g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Women should give all men a chanceI won’t say all men but there’s a few things that are dealbreakers for girls I’ve talked to that have just blown my mind. Some of these girls never deviate from whatever idea of a man they’ve built in their head. “I only date guys with blue eyes and blond hair.” “I only date men over 6 ft.” “I only date lightskins.” “I’m only attracted to white guys.” “I’m not attracted to guys with classes.” “I’m not attracted to guys who wear jordans” Like wtf did you build your sexuality in a fucking lab or s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | George Floyd's death sparked change all over the world and them white women been with us through all of it. They love us darksins, keep your head up king 🤴🏿You unironically think white women are on your side? Don’t let one catch you having a BBQ bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever, just for fun, try to start debates about these issues on other "normie" subreddits just to see whether the conversation will go in the same direction as it does here?Yeah I used to on alt accounts and most of the time it would end up with someone just giving generic blue pill advice or I just get downvoted with no replies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What’s in it does the women?The question is kinda a false premise cause that “hate” isn’t just coming from nowhere. Most guys that don’t like women have been repeatedly burned over and over again. Plus tbh women play WAY too many fucking games and kinda act like high schoolers a lot of the time. At first you think you have bad luck but man it’s looking like every girl out there is a user, is selling nudes, is a closet racist, has a shit personality, is entitled af, or is just stuck up in general cause she’s so used to simp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:03 PM |
| 2 | What’s in it does the women?Yeah he had me before this one but the comparison fell apart after he said this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Being racist will get you canceled quicker today then being sexistFuture is the only way you can get away with misogynistic memes fr. Plus there’s no way to be racists and funny unless it’s not directly hateful. It can be dark but if it’s hateful it’s probably in bad taste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Can men and women just be friends?Yeah they can but in my case I inevitably end up with some sort of infatuation that I can ignore. Usually when I’m friends with them they have a few major flaws that remind me why I shouldn’t get with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Are guys really not attracted to women over 30?Ngl brody, when I set my dating apps settings to 30+ all I see is single moms and women lying about their age and none of them were attractive. Almost all of them are fat or don’t know how to take pictures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:49 PM |
| 10 | Men face real issues that have nothing to do sex. It's insulting to men to suggest sex is the ultimate solution.Yeah I can’t stand this either tbh. I can’t stand when people over simply a mans complaints with “Wahhh I can’t get my dick wet” or some other straw man. But then again shaming someone’s sexual value is a lot easier than telling that person majority of women probably won’t find him attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Where did this meme come from that men who can’t get dates apparently never shower and have bad hygiene?So are we just saying nerd tournaments represent men now? Because I’ve never seen either one of these tournaments in a real life setting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:45 PM |
| 5 | Incels are always “Women hate us, because we have T H E T R U TH!!!”, but men hate you too.Yeah I won’t lie I really don’t think anyone genuinely wants to see an incel succeed or better themselves. That “inceltears” sub cherry picked the worst of the worst of the posts and ignored the weekly suicide threads and real life story threads that got posted in incel spaces. They’d rather sit back and poke fun to feel like they have some moral high ground. I’ve said it before but incels are basically the ostracized “he’s a school shooter” type kids who people, for some reason, love to make fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Why are there no race threads?Because Alt righters are delusional. Trust me dude I’m black and I essentially have a black supremacist for a mother and she spouts the exact same bullshit amount black men dating outside of their race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Poll: Are you guys attractive?She did kinda and unfortunately she was a really nice person but somehow she too turned into a racist female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Poll: Are you guys attractive?Nah they wouldn’t say it in a public setting but they would sometimes say it to their friends or say it to me over text. There was one girl who got radicalized by her boyfriend and we went from being fwb to her calling me the N word on Facebook messenger when I tried to say hi to her. It was kinda sad but the girl was a dumbass so I could see how it happened fr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Poll: Are you guys attractive?It depends on the city and which part of the city fr. I’d say in my state it’s like 25% are receptive instantly to white guys. And I can kinda tell which girls sorta have that “I only date white guys mentality” because they always act stuck up af and act like you’re beneath them. Unfortunately for me when I put these white girls in their place my hypothesis ends up being correct and I end up getting called the N word with the hard r. I looked this up while typing this comment and ngl im pretty c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Poll: Are you guys attractive?I’d say it’s polarized but it’s not that huge of a difference. If we’re talking dating there’s not that big of a difference. But like in raw attraction? Yes it’s polarized. Girls who are into black guys break their own “rules” for themselves cause they think you’re cute or something. Also girls who don’t like black guys are like that for more than one reason that they may or may not lie about. They actually don’t like you because you’re not of European decent. Example: I used to be addicted to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Poll: Are you guys attractive?Man tbh the white guys on this site really overestimate the amount snow bunnies really like black dudes. I think they like the idea of media’s portrayal of black men than what black men really are. For example I knew a girl who claimed to be into black dudes but refused to date any guy under 6 ft. The black dude I saw her posted with 100% is worse looking than me. So it’s essentially the same female shit applied to black guys except their attraction is more afrocentric than Eurocentric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Small businesses are comparable to beta males, Chads are comparable to Wall Street,Big Tech, Big Oil, Big Pharma..I’ve seen someone make the same comparison between capitalism and inceldom except they missed the point completely. Capitalism is inherently flawed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 04:40 AM |
| 2 | If sex isn't a big deal to you cumbuckets, then why don't you give it to an incelHere we go again with this straw man that incels are somehow lacking in personal hygiene and it’s totally not their looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 04:25 AM |
| 1 | George Floyd's death sparked change all over the world and them white women been with us through all of it. They love us darksins, keep your head up king 🤴🏿That’s just not true. Out of all the races I’ve talked too while women have the highest rates of saying racist shit to me when they reject me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Would you sell out all other men's rights issues so you, personally, could have more sex?Never. I received abuse through childhood and my parents justification was that I was a man. It made me depressed and actually made me suicidal. This shit is like 60% of the reason I have horrible relationships with women and nobody takes it seriously because I’m pretty sure most people haven’t heard of abuse from mothers let alone against their sons. Plus I kinda think people taking more mens issues seriously would aid a little bit in the sexlessness fr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Poll: Are you guys attractive?To myself? I’d put myself at maybe a 7/8 To white girls? 4/5 unless they like black dudes then I’m a 9 To most black girls? 8 To the average girl walking down the street? 5 I’m a black dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Most men should be chemically castratedWho gets to decide which men are chemically castrated? Either way the answer is retarded because chemical castration solves nothing. I’ve read enough about rape to know it’s not caused by out of control sex urges. And if this really happened how would your precious “sex workers” pay their bills? Cause they sure as fuck don’t have any real life skills lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Why are people so obsessed with sexIf you’re not getting sex why not just make yourself more attractive so people want to Dude if you’re not rich just think of a product that people would want to spend thousands of dollars on bro lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Women are only attracted to the top 20 (Read - 5) percent of men....SO?!Multiple reasons. For one people somehow think men are the shallow sex that puts too much focus on women’s appearance but the actual reality is that women are more picky when it comes to looks. Despite this you have no shortage of media pieces that criticize this apparent opinion of women’s looks that men as a whole hold. Two, this really just shows that women have sex with the same type of men. It kinda makes a lot of blue pilled advice look obsolete. It confirms a lot of what incels said for a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Why are there no race threads?I honestly think it’s because majority of this sub is white and has no experience dating outside of their race. Hell even the blue pilled advice falls apart on basically all levels if you’re approaching someone that’s not their race. Plus white women have the lowest rates of interracial dating so they can’t give any disingenuous advice on why they don’t like black or Indian men. Same goes with white men who just for some reason like to claim black women are the worst race of women. I think it ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:30 AM |
| 2 | In all honesty: What do you want ? If you want a relationship do you really think sitting in an echo chamber that hate women will get that for you? If you want to go your own way, why are you are in an echo chamber that clearly shows you're just obsessed with the injustices?I only spent money on dates but I just made sure I wasn’t the only one spending money or getting gifts. Cause everyone I spent money on spent the same amount of money on me give or take 30 bucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:27 AM |
| 3 | "Intersectionality" is white women associating themselves with the struggle of people of color and of non-cis/heteronormative people, and is thus a kind of "colonialism of grievance."I’ve been trying to say this for so long and it’s why I can’t stand seeing all these white hoes on twitter talking down to everyone. Like bitch if you wanna play the oppressor olympics you’re in second place right behind white men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Where did this meme come from that men who can’t get dates apparently never shower and have bad hygiene?Yeah I’ve experienced this too and it threw me off ngl. There was a time after I worked out and my ex was all hugged up on me and touchy feely and my closed smelled ODIOUS. Like if I was her I would’ve at least waited till I showered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:23 AM |
| 2 | In all honesty: What do you want ? If you want a relationship do you really think sitting in an echo chamber that hate women will get that for you? If you want to go your own way, why are you are in an echo chamber that clearly shows you're just obsessed with the injustices?I mean I guess the most “beta provider” thing I’ve done is when I was in 8th grade I gave a girl lunch money multiple times cause I had a crush on her. But like realistically I don’t because I don’t spend money on women that I’m not dating or are family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Question for men: why do you stink?I just made a post about this but this is essentially a meme at this point. There’s no dramatic difference in either sexes hygiene habits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:04 AM |
| 2 | In all honesty: What do you want ? If you want a relationship do you really think sitting in an echo chamber that hate women will get that for you? If you want to go your own way, why are you are in an echo chamber that clearly shows you're just obsessed with the injustices?If you want a relationship I think if someone wanted a relationship they’d be here mainly because they got their time wasted trying to find one. Hell I’m sure being some girls beta provider is a lot less productive than spending 1 day here cause at least you get to keep your money and you at least see some jokes get cracked. If you want to go your own way I don’t know why being obsessed with the injustices is framed as being a bad thing. It might be bad for YOU but most people see being mad abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:03 AM |
| 7 | Incels are always “Women hate us, because we have T H E T R U TH!!!”, but men hate you too.I don’t hate incels because I know how they’re created. If someone got bullied majority of their life for their looks or just straight up had horrible experiences with women for majority of their life then hating them and ostracizing them more isn’t finna fix the problem lmao. It’s like beating the shit out of a racist white dude for calling me the N word. I mean the racists guy will learn not to call me the N word but he won’t learn to not be racist. Hell “black people are violent” could be one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | The jerks of PPD almost entirely consist of salty fucks who were treated like crap by the opposite gender at some point in time and now think the entire opposite gender is to blame for their tough luckAt some point It’s never stopped for me man and I don’t even search these people out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Where did this meme come from that men who can’t get dates apparently never shower and have bad hygiene?I don’t know where you got this from but it might just be me cause I’m black. But lotion is the bare minimum for most black guys (and me too cause I have eczema) but I still don’t know why we’re pretending a guy who hasn’t moisturized for weeks is somehow representative as men as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Where did this meme come from that men who can’t get dates apparently never shower and have bad hygiene?Yes I’ve had to work places before and funnily enough women’s bathrooms are way nastier. I’ve had to clean up period blood before and I’ve seen 2 women shit on the floor inside of the place I worked. The worst thing that happened in the men’s bathroom was some dude got head in there. I’ve had other women tell me that women’s locker rooms and bathrooms are filthy cause apparently some women just don’t know what to do with tampons. The worst part of the men’s bathroom is probably the piss on the t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Where did this meme come from that men who can’t get dates apparently never shower and have bad hygiene?No but is that really representative of the male population? Think about that question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Lol at you manbabies think a woman’s n-count lie will “eat away” at her “the guilt will become overbearing”I’ve seen too many posts over in /r/relationships to think that there are women who’s body counts aren’t ticking time bomb. Plus I’ve met too many girls irl who are apparently proud of their body counts yet are ashamed or feel shame at the mention of the word slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:25 AM |
| 6 | Women hate the Black Pill because they hate Incels. NOT because they don't agree with it.Hmmm this is true to an extent. I’ve never seen anyone on reddit swallow any sort of pill that came from an incel community besides that time the “Atomic Blackpill” blew up. And even then there were a million and one excuses to why that profile had the success it did. Nobody addressed the topic at hand. But basically what you said is true because anytime someone brings up dating and how looks actually matter more than they thought with women someone just ends up over simplifying it with that cor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized“I know from experience, not as an incel, but just as a weird person who didn’t give a fuck about being weird and got a lot of shit for it growing up. People don’t give a fuck about your confidence if they think you’re a loser; in fact, they’ll probably just think you’re arrogant for daring to have a higher opinion of yourself than they do.” Truest thing I’ve seen in my life. Reminds me of that post in /r/teenagers where that dude asked that girl out and caught her later crying with her friends … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 05:02 PM |
| 2 | The attractiveness gap is a myth. Men are not less appealing than women because they take less care of themselves, women are just hypergamous.I mean a quick google search will tell me that’s flat out not true. https://today.yougov.com/topics/lifestyle/articles-reports/2014/07/14/united-states-bad-hygiene Simple survey from yougov shows us both genders have similar hygiene habits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 04:50 PM |
| 3 | The attractiveness gap is a myth. Men are not less appealing than women because they take less care of themselves, women are just hypergamous.Honestly I’m starting to think this is a straw man cause who is out there not showering, getting haircuts, or brushing their teeth? Do you have any idea how many rashes and shit you’d get from that? You’d have serious health issues. Why do women on this site keep pretending like the majority of men just don’t know how to take care of themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | The attractiveness gap is a myth. Men are not less appealing than women because they take less care of themselves, women are just hypergamous.Can you imagine if guys actually started having standards? People already say that men have unrealistic expectations of attractiveness in women yet somehow they also fuck any and everything? Idk man sometimes people just seem like they wanna have their cake and eat it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 1 | The attractiveness gap is a myth. Men are not less appealing than women because they take less care of themselves, women are just hypergamous.What’s attractive to people isn’t necessarily good for survival. Pretty sure that’s why Sabre tooth tigers went extinct. Teef was too big | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Is the truth becoming politically incorrect or controversial?Yeah honestly I’ve always felt that answer was kinda disingenuous. Especially with how brutal I’ve seen some rejections go. If you’re out here screenshotting dudes and clowning them on social media you obviously don’t gaf about their reaction or their feelings. Same with girls who laugh in guys faces after he makes a move, slap guys for saying something they don’t like, and so on. If the threat of a man becoming violent was so terrible then why are you acting like that toward men? If anything, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 02:51 PM |
| 0 | If men stopped fucking fat/chubby chicks would they lose weight?Not how muscle growth works. Most guys who even want to get as big as Hollywood actors have to do it over 2-3 years or get on juice. If it was really that easy to “look like they bench” for women then guys would already be swole af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Men, why you so thirsty?Cause to certain guys it’s a numbers game and if a woman attractive enough hit them up like that they’d be 100% down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?I get the sarcasm here but the opposite would be not letting your mood be controlled by the behavior of other people. Which is essentially the stoicism most men try to incorporate in their behavior unless it’s anger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateableIt’s more than this tbh. You ever see those screen caps of those guys who think streamers or onlyfans thots really love them? That’s the type of shit OP is talking about. These guys are obviously lonely or at the very least emotionally starved. It doesn’t really surprise me though because nobody cares about lonely men, especially young women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateableI know at least 5 girls I’ve known since my sophomore year of HS who have onlyfans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Dating in the North is much easier than the South/Sun BeltI’d honestly say it’s easier in places like cali. They’re more racially diverse and progressive which means they’re open to dating people of different religon, race, cultural background, etc. I live in ohio and I’ve literally heard chicks parents telling them not to date black guys or Mexicans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Is there such a thing as AMALT and if so, what are some examples?Honestly the way fathers are approached (at least where I live) is pretty toxic. Everyone always has an abusive father story but when it comes to mothers it’s “she gave birth do you bro she’s your mom” as if mothers get a free pass on stuff like that. A lot of times when fathers are out with their kids they either get weird looks or the “babysitting” comments. It’s no wonder men look at having kids as a hassle due to a combo of not being able to live up to what the mother can offer and not seein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 5 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?100% this Idk of these people genuinely think having people fresh out of high school doing porn is a good thing, or they just wanna jerk to some pretty young things. One thing progressives on reddit will never accept is that people in the real world don’t care about “supporting sex workers” or “not caring about body count”. The men and women I meet in real life would not date someone who did porn or sell their bodies in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Where is the line between pushing and coercion when initiating sex?Oh yeah definitely I was joking tbh. I will say this, i wouldn’t put it past some women so say they were lied to because the guy they fucked said they were mixed and they turned out to be black or something. I’ve seen people in real life get angry over shit like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | If women are innately more valuable, then why are male gender roles considered to be more important and necessary than traditional female gender roles?I saw someone say this in MensLib but I guess when gender roles were first being established men got hit with the label of being someone who would today be like a selfless upstanding citizen. Someone who’s self sufficient, sacrifices themselves for others, is a hard worker, is resilient. They cited that example of that boy getting mauled by that dog when people were calling him a “real man”. Since the boy sacrificed himself for his sister, he gets slapped with the real man label, yet that’s not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Where is the line between pushing and coercion when initiating sex?Being lied to or being promised things that weren’t true to trick you into having sex “I promise you I’m 6 ft, I just got a physical yesteday” the following morning “You’re 5’11.5?!?! I’m calling the fucking cops that was coercion which is rape!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 05:25 AM |
| 1 | What are your proposed solutions to make dating fair?1) Get rid of online dating, it just makes everything harder for men, and finding a committed relationship harder for women 2) Somehow get men to stop dating/fucking down. Part of the problem is that majority of women are sharing the minority of men. If we fixed that women would be forced to date/fuck the guys they’re equal to in terms of attractiveness. This could result in women just dipping out of the game in general, or gradually starting to date men at their level. This will probably never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Is there a difference between having a height preference and having a weight preference?Height can’t be a view into what the persons lifestyle or personality is like. Weight very much can be. It can reveal whether someone is athletic, into sports (and depending on the body type, which sports exaclty), and what their eating habits are like. One thing I’ve found out about bigger girls is that they tend to be insecure, they tend to mislead (because they’re used to doing that with their weight) and they tend to not take anything seriously. I’ve had too many fat girls tell me their heal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a misconception that men want sex, women want relationships?Somewhat. I personally can say that I’d rather have a meaningful relationship over meaningless sex any day of the week. Being in a relationship almost feels like a drug tbh, and a breakup feels like withdrawals. I can have an orgasm by myself but I can’t date myself. I can’t say the same with women wanting relationships though. I know a lot of girls who actually are loyal (or claimed to me and were as far as I know) but nowadays I’m seeing more and more who post their boyfriends every other week… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Women create "nice guys".I wouldn’t say women alone create nice guys, but blue pill ideas create nice guys. Nice guys are basically the middle ground between a Simp and a modern day incel. They end up latching onto the idea that women care about personality, aren’t shallow, don’t care about looks that much, etc. I mean it was probably true at some point but all that shit went out the window with the introduction of online dating. But yeah they go from putting women on a pedestal, finding out that women care more about l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Women create "nice guys".It never looked that black and white to me. I understand what the tweet thing was about, but my problems with that are: 1) Given that these women don’t give the “unattractive” guys a chance, they have no way of knowing whether or not these guys are just as misogynistic. 2) It teaches these nice guys that if you’re at a certain level of attractiveness, then you can get away with being a misogynist because the women will put up with it. Point number 2 is where I think this nice guy problem (if you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Where does this idea come that male sexuality is inherently disgusting rooted in?So women who are naturally petite and flat chested shouldn’t have partners because their boyfriends will be seen as pedo’s? Fucked up if you ask me. Plus aren’t women the ones with the crazy ass rape kinks. There’s a whole sub dedicated to that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 04:33 AM |
| 3 | Women invented and promote "Rape Culture" as an idea because they like being victims and find the idea erotic.I always say this too but nobody ever acknowledges this. It’s always a “women can’t walk around at night” type thing. While I agree it’s scary for anyone to walk around at night, majority of sexual assaults happen inside or near your house by someone you know. At least for women. At men get assaulted more in every category besides rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 02:13 AM |
| 1 | To men who aren't interested in LTRs, do you care about women being promiscuous?Not really cause at that point I’m just another number | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Why are you surprised that looks matter?I’m not surprised tbh. For the guys that are surprised though it’s probably because they were told “Girls care about personality” growing up when it’s clear even back then that it wasn’t the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Why are males always the ones who end up isolated and lonely in society?I wouldn’t say always because I’ve met a few lonely females. I will say it’s a lot harder for women to actually remain truly lonely. When I was in my teens I knew a few lonely girls who got a little bit attractive and then totally switched up. They started posting pics with guys and saying generic basic bitch shit. I’d say the only truly lonely women I’ve seen were disabled someway, mentally or physically. On a weirdness scale of 1-10, with 10 being like some serial killer shit, I think women ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do white bitches lie to white men about how to get pussy?I get what you’re saying but I’ve never in my life seen a girl past the age of like 10 do something to spare someone’s feelings. Especially when it came to guys and shit. In my experience if they lie they’ll lie to their friends about you asking her out and shit, hyping up the story for no reason other than to make her seem desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 06:35 AM |
| 2 | A tactical retreatThat should say incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 01:57 AM |
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