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It maybe that she is preparing for the branch swing, beware
/r/askTRP09/03/21 09:45 PM
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Great post. But I think we come here because we are skeptical people in the first place. For example I first realized that my religion was a lie when I was 14. Then when I was around 18, I realized nationalism was dumb. When I was 20, I saw that what I knew about women was a lie. Around 23, I realized that capitalism and the whole system is kind of a lie. I'm not in anger phase or anything, but most of these can seem grim frequently. It is weird to me people are still happy getting married, espe…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/21 01:58 PM
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I guess they are right as far as dating and casual stuff go. At the end of the day most people are not necessarily looking for LTRs. If people were to marry (or just were serious), 6s would be with 6s. But in current situation no girl owes a dude anything, so they might as well go for the best option they can find
/r/askTRP28/02/21 10:05 PM
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I started to use Instagram as if it is Tinder. Randomly adding girls I actually like and send them a message if they follow back. It is pretty funny, I tell my friends that I matched a girl when she follows back 😂 It's a bit like cold approaching in that you can select who you want to have a convo with and it is much less anonymous
/r/askTRP28/02/21 09:30 PM
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This subreddit is like roastme but better lol
/r/askTRP20/12/20 01:25 AM
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Feels really tough man. Sadly if I know anything about females they are much dumber than us and decide their lives based on simplistic judgements like how popular a guy is or how good he fucks. Basically what TRP preaches. I've seen various stories where the guy gets ghosted after a bad sex session. Sadly all these don't seem too hopeful for your situation. I heard people talking about getting a dog for bonding kind of stuff. Maybe you could also do charity work with a good purpose, or just find…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:04 AM
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Sounds like a blessing to go your own way
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:09 PM
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Seems like you reacted good to me. It's all good. Keep your head up and try not to question "what you done wrong" because either you didn't do anything wrong, or it doesn't matter anyway.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:13 AM
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I live in a 3rd world country, so probably not the entitled type you are talking about. I'm all for working hard on stuff but at certain points nothing seem to make sense and you ask yourself what's even the point of bothering. You start to lose the your initial, naive will to achieve things and learn to live a more mediocre way. If you don't accept it you kinda go mad and start to go deeper down the rabbit hole.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:25 PM
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I'm from another part of the world and I don't think fucking is worth having STDs. My take is to have either someone trustable if you don't like LTRs, or just simply have a hot gf instead. It is similar to the fitness industry imo. Most of those cool looking lifters use roids to get that look. In the end is it worth it? Maybe, maybe not. I tend to prefer to be safe than sorry.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 08:02 PM
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Call me gay but I love you man. Here's to an enjoyable now, and a brighter future. Also I'd like to drop this here: https://youtu.be/byQrdnq7_H0 What we perceive as failure could lead to a huge success, and vice versa.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 04:26 PM
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PM me or better write a comment here.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:43 PM
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Just go and tire yourself, don't stress about it. You'll feel like a regular in 4 or 5 workouts.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 06:17 PM
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Do you have before after pics? I am curious about your progression if you don't mind.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:40 AM
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Praise. Been reading these words over and over again since you wrote them. Even backed up the comment on my drive. Makes so much sense. My fallacy was that even though I was RP aware and mission focused, my happiness and comfort became too dependent on her. Next time I'll be much stronger mentally. Thank you for every word you wrote. If there are any (other) books specifically about this mindset that you suggest, I'd definitely like to have a look.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 10:31 PM
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You have serious oneitis. Christmas doesn't exist. Sidebar and lift.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 10:18 AM
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Hey man, thanks for the great write-up. It sooths my soul looking at things from this perspective. I have a question though. Backstory: I am going through a breakup right now. Frankly, she was the best thing I ever had in life. We shared a lot of good memories together. Slipping off RP one too many times I lost her love. That had been okay, until I learned that she is with someone else just after 2 months. This totally destroyed me to pieces because any kind of potential future of us is destroye…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 05:12 PM
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One of them recently KO'd me emotionally after a 5 month relationship. I am not hopeful for future relationships with similar girls considering how tiring it is, but it is still what attracts me. I can't feel fulfilled with average girls.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 08:22 AM
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Excuse me if this is a silly question. But from the looks of it the value of the good times seem to outweight the value of times when it sucks. And most things in life are like this, even your dream job and hobbies. Sometimes something just sucks and you have to endure it. With this perspective, marriage doesn't seem that bad of an idea. Obviously I am assuming no divorce rape and no getting cheated on. But how could one know one of those won't happen anyway.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 03:45 PM
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Lol'd
/r/MGTOW20/12/19 11:38 AM
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Definitely need to max out my SMV, one way or another. Sad part is I was always working on my SMV. Just had to endure a couple months of boring lifestyle, but that lowered my self confidence, which in turn lowered her interest in me. Her new dude doesn't have many things I had including looks, but he rather has things that were missing from me. Feels discomforting to think about it. Trying to make peace with that in my mind. You might wake up every morning the first thought being the wrenching p…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:19 PM
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I was you and this is how I lost my gf whom I loved so much. Now I am trying to recover from the pain. All I can see is we should have a social life as well, otherwise the relationships collapse one way or another. Not the way I prefer, but the way I feel I am obliged to adapt to, at least at the moment.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:01 AM
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I completely feel for you, I am in the exact same spot. Could you check out my last post and drop a comment on what you think? Would very much appreciate it.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:46 AM
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You know I was like that at the time. Life been hard on me this last year, I had to live more conservatively to move forward in my career. Meanwhile I loved every moment with her. But hasn't been enough for her apparently. I comprehend most of it, but it just hurts, physically due to hormones. I am a human too.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:20 PM
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Amazing post. Imo TRP ultimately comes down to this, unlike those dudes who base their life value to their N count. Sad part is still, even if you become this person, girls are still girls and there is no ultimate good relationship. Always alone in this life. And capitalism is dull af. My end goal could be to excel at a creative area. Long way ahead though, living in a 3rd world country, doing a boring ass tech job.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 08:41 AM
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She has A job tho. Online prostitute.
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 06:03 AM
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All it takes is one bad day.
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 02:36 PM
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I'm from Turkey and most core TRP logic heavily applies here, and imo everywhere in the world. Only difference is that people dont treat sex the same as kissing, it happens much much less frequent. Doesn't change the girl vs alpha / beta dynamics at all though.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 10:33 AM
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Unfortunately girls dont work with logic, so they wont bother thinking about 10 years ahead even if you show them what there is to come.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 10:29 AM
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I know how helpful lifting is. In fact my last gf probably fell for me due to my muscular(as in fit, not big) photos when we met online. I was still creating time for gym despite I was spending 10 hour for work/commute when she decided to break up. I'm not in my best shape, far from it, and I ll keep on working; but that is not why I feel demotivated. I tried acting like a bad guy but honestly that doesnt make me happy or fulfilled. I prefer a healthy relationship and care about virtues like hon…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 12:14 PM
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Man life is so dull. I no longer have the will to go after another girl after living through this. There is just no point chasing something that don't exist. Not really feeling horny either. Maybe I should become a religion man or something.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 11:34 AM
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But then you risk stability of your business. STD is a problem.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 03:18 PM
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Cheers.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 11:32 AM
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I find it funny that this is tagged Red Pill Example. 😂
/r/TheRedPill07/10/18 09:31 AM
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So well put. I derived the exact same ideas from TRP on these stuff, but didn't put them into words before. Going to archive the post to remind myself in case I slip out of reality at times.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 03:38 PM
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I don't know who owns the site, but the sidebar pdf would be much better with an index.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 08:30 PM
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Why would you make 5 children? Honest question.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 07:27 PM
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Not sure which extreme is the better. I live in country where people mostly don’t fuck due to cultural norms. Even people who date rarely do because virginity is perceived important until marriage. As such, you could be thinking that this is some kind of heaven, unfortunately though it is very unpleasant to live as you always feel sexually frusturated (and hence our nation is known for horny guys).
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 12:21 AM
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So American girls pretend to be housewives for strangers? Is it that easy over there?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:45 PM
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This is more like how to die sooner to me. How come you can eat a whole day’s meal in an hour dude, I can barely finish a normal meal with 2-300 grams of chicken.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:39 PM
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Yeah, even after being here for more than a year, I am still making the same classic mistakes from time to time. But it is relieving to be able to look back and understand what happened and why, and what to take as a lesson.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 02:03 PM
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Man, idk about this "west is bad in terms of women" idea. I live in Turkey, by your standards it should be good (not necessarily western, slightly religious) but it's far worse. Women have the same validation tools in the form of social media. There is an army of horny men in any slightly attractive woman's door. Even worse, people hardly ever fuck, if at all. Sex is a dogma and girls are taught not to yield their virginity until marriage. Yes it is better if you are looking for the one. Though …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 07:19 PM
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lly awkward coders to handle the dirty work for me while I take all the credit. Evil genius man. Do you not feel guilty about it?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 10:16 AM
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Just add references if you claim what you tell is scientific.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 02:49 PM
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Dont give advice unless asked for it
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 09:13 PM
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We like disney too but you gotta move beyond that when you grow up.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 09:07 AM
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You are just too full of hate.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 06:15 AM
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Why could I be getting butthurt when someone flakes on me and fucks up my plans? Messes my frame and I lose the dgaf attitude when this happens.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 11:15 AM
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This happens to me too, girl seems down, but if I act too assertive they shy away. Note that I live in another country. Not sure what is the best way.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 11:36 AM
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Dude, she didnt want you, and you are saying she ticked all the boxes. Improve yourself and be more attractive next time. Stop thinking about someone who gives 0 fucks about you. There are so many other women out there, really. Get out before the EC's come and kick your ass.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:51 PM
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Except he won't because of his already fucked up psychology. Another example of importance of education. Sadly, not all have the same opportunitiaes and upbringing. But it is what it is, some win and some lose at the end of the day.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 12:58 AM
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Is there a chance you can ask them for honest opinion?
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:03 PM
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Absolutely, the OP does not get it.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 10:32 PM
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Good to see you with the tag my man, have been enjoying your posts more than anyone else's for long time. You have this brotherhood spirit which I like and I always relate to your thoughts, while the others can be weirdos at times. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 09:55 PM
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It is not even about money. There is a certain hiearchy between countries. West > East, everyone sub-conscicously acceps that.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 03:26 PM
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You always need to tease, flirt and even mock in a friendly way. Again, I am not that bad at this, my problem is more like I am not interacting with girls in my daily life due to unfortunate restrictions such as going to an engineering school and not living on campus. To make up for this, I always have my eyes open and keep checking girls out, but at this point I feel like a creep who keeps staring at people for no reason. I´m not sure you can do those things in your culture due to the differenc…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 09:49 AM
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Not OP, but since your answer is reasonable and helpful (which is sometimes lacking here) I'd like to ask you for advice. I have been working on my SMV for the last year. I got my clothes fixed, lifted regularly and am now in shape (have a baby 6pack, but i am not big though), I did many career and confidence boosting things and I am so far ahead of my past self, its no joke. I always feel I am one of the coolest guys in the room if not the best one. I can walk up to a girl I like and be direct,…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 12:05 AM
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Why aren't you working on ABS? Post a pic of yourself if you are here suggesting how one should train.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 06:13 AM
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It doesn't matter. I do computer science and feel awesome af.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:06 AM
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Might also be an age thing. Being a young male on Tinder does not help, assuming you are not Chad. I matched about 250 girls there in total, maybe 1 or 2 of them were older than me, and I am 21. Among the other matches, I could only get 4-5 dates. It really isn't worth the time and effort under these circumstances for me.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 10:09 AM
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"I’m sorry, I’m just not interested in talking about work drama. I’m hanging out with you to have fun, and that kind of stuff isn’t fun for me." Sound a bit autistic tbh. There are better ways to convey your thoughts than this.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 09:52 AM
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Great points dude. Took a while for me to realize this in my TRP journey. Most people will overlook this but if anyone happens to read my comment: you don't need to follow the standards. Be yourself, as in, be good and passionate at what you do instead of trying to 'fake it' at something you don't enjoy. Frame and confidence naturally follows.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 10:16 PM
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It is indeed sad that how little understanding of science most TRPers seem to have.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 07:11 PM
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Why do you care about her personality?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 08:43 PM
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Men compete, women wait at the finish line and fuck the winner. Take this imaginary reddit gold sir.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 04:07 PM
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Some of you guys are really fucking naive (resisting the urge to use a stronger insult). They don't divorce because they can't. It is not in ther reality or control. They are literally objects of their men.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 10:20 AM
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The latter is 3500 times sexier in my eyes
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 09:35 AM
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TBH if you are lifting to feel better you have a boring life. I lift, I enjoy it and I look forward to lift. But there are shit ton of other things I'd do if I wanted to "feel better". Stop the hamster.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 07:02 PM
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This is kinda hilarious... IDK what I'll do with my sister when she grows up, she's 12 now.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 06:55 PM
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Maybe because not all are American?...
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 12:09 PM
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Seems cool man, I'll try music production as my next hobby. I play the piano a bit so should be easier for me to get started. Any advice on how to start?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 03:13 PM
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You are cringy. Your friend does not give a shit about you and you are being a Nice Guy™. You have a long way to go.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 11:54 PM
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From the sound of the way you write, you have the victim mentality and won't make an effort to fix things. You don't need a special advise, you are just a regular loser in today's world where there are many people like you. Read sidebar material, and related stuff. Only things we can say are 1) you are not alone and 2) you can slowly change yourself. Rest is on you. Take control of your life. Stop playing the victim.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 06:32 AM
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There was a MGTOW-sub discussion Why do you even read that sub is my first question, and why do you bother writing this whole post is my second question.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 09:00 PM
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So what to do about wanting affection? I mean sex is good but I also just like those feelz when you are with a good looking chick and I feel better. Do I have mommy issues?... Does it go away with experience? But yeah, this makes me look less valuable for them and I know it is bad. What to do about it? Also I've seen some dudes just getting chicks thanks to their body. As a 3-4 year old TRPer, did you lift properly? How does the way girls you look at you compare now? Because if you are 6-7 looks…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 02:45 PM
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Fuck man, is really hard to not be attached for me too. I've been around TRP for about 8 months now, there has definitely been self-improvement in the form of physique, hobbies and career, and also a little improvement on ladies... But the last one is no where close where I want it to be - I'm in scarcity and thus having scarcity mentality. Whenever a hot girl and I date or sth, I just get attached and be needy, they can just smell it. I am just hoping this will change as I acquire more power - …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 10:38 PM
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TBH I don't get the hate for curvy women - some of them like in that subreddit are pretty appealing to my eye. Keyword is curvy though, not flat out disgustingly fat.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 11:56 AM
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To me you seem like a passive aggressive asshole who can't communicate and hates women. Why do you even talk about her gender in this case? She might as well have been a guy. Just be a decent humanbeing and help her properly instead of hamstering here with your negative and useless thoughts.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 10:18 AM
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This is really different to accept completely. Every time you have someone, you believe they can love you like you love them, but nope, one way or another they find a hamstered excuse and go fuck someone else. Live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 11:59 PM
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Maybe you should improve your learning methods and be guided by someone who knows the subject well. Don't let your mind trick you to believe that you can't do it, the mind just does that so you dont spend your calories thinking, and have a fatter ass.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 08:53 AM
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I love how enlightening TRP is. I was a Harry for the first 20 years of my life. So much changed since this year. Thank you for the post.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 09:24 PM
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You say this even if you are not actually going to do the said activity, right?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 08:01 PM
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haha man your "explanation" made my day!
/r/askTRP31/03/17 12:11 AM
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Not necessarily related to TRP - but on learning instruments: I am trying to learn the piano (well I first started 4 years ago when I was 16, but it was hard and I had no money for lessons and I wasn't confident for self-study so it didn't really work that much). But with discovering TRP my mindset started to change and I am more than willing to work my ass off to be decent at this instrument. It's a really fucking hard instrument though, so many things going on at the same time. I question my b…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 08:39 PM
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The thing is I really dont care if I never see her again, or she fucks someone else or whatever. But I have this different desire for her, and from my perspective there was some potential for good times. This is rather about "my desire for her" than her. I know I am not completely neutral and kinda BSing but still this is not a classic case of stupidity.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 11:20 AM
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Be content that it will only get better for your next ones.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:46 AM
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Mind writing down the steps for us?
/r/seduction19/01/17 09:41 AM
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In the near future I don't have an option to change it. Maybe after graduating and settling somewhere, if I am not content, then I will see. The main problem is that the environment is competitive (I am not about getting a job in my country, that would probably be a lot easier) and students who seem to love the classes do better than I do. I also feel like classes are just classes, I always learn what I need to do good on exams but nothing deeper. I never say oh this topic is too interesting let…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 06:58 AM
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Especially when it comes to university work I always get things done barely, at the last minute, with unpleasant feelings. How can I overcome this? I am afraid what I am majoring in is not something I am deeply passionate about. I just picked the best available option (given the socioeconomic place I was in) but I am still struggling. It's not like I am a mess, I so far have an above 3.5 GPA but I always feel too much stressed and worried when it comes to assignments and exams. I am from a shitt…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:49 PM
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I've read some existantialist books including The Myth of Sisyphus... Can't really internalize them though. It is honestly of no help when you are feeling down. One solid idea I agree on is existence precedes essence. Do what you want, what you think is important, what you feel like. But when it comes to loss of all hope and depression, this stuff seem really irrelevant and meaningless. Who cares the stupid guy rolling the stone is happy or not? Who cares if I think about certain things and feel…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:23 PM
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Any example of such a place or an activity?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:15 AM
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