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You can't rely on someone to be your savior, but you should look for friends and relationships with people that aren't going to abandon you when you go through hard times. Likewise, to be a good friend, you need to be able to be present with people wen everything isn't fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:42 AM
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Yeah, I am. Though, I was single for about ten years up until two years ago, and met lots of women on apps. However, my current partner was my neighbor. You can thank Covid for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:31 PM
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They aren't necessarily safe places for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:00 AM
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I broke up with a woman on the spot who hit me. I don't tolerate that from anyone. Keep in mind though, that there are some men that are extremely controlling, and can make it very hard to leave. Maybe he pays all the bills, and she stays home and takes care of the kids. In parts of the country where rent is very expensive, it can be very difficult to save the first and last month's rent, especially if you don't have a strong social safety net around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:59 PM
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If you've prioritized raising children over a career, that's a worthwhile decision, but it's your choice and you need to accept responsibility and consequences for that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:35 PM
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Citation required
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:30 PM
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When women work the same job, it's almost the same. Women make different life choices which leads to lower income. There's nothing wrong with those choices, but they do contribute to lower income. I believe if you take the CEO class out of the equation which most of us don't fit into, the disparities are lower. Truth be told, I don't make much money, and I've never had a problem. But when dating, you are constantly being sized up based on your income. If you don't make a lot there is constant pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:29 PM
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I was surprised, but according to Pew earn 82% of what men earn. I thought it was closer. According to Payscale.com when women are working in the same positions with the same amount of experience, etc.. the "Controlled Gender Pay Gap" is only 1%. This is what I was thinking of. From what I understand, the overall pay gap is largely accounted for by time away from work to rear children and fewer women in top executive positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:19 PM
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"I want a man that will allow me to maintain or increase my current lifestyle". A female friend of mine said this exact thing. Since women earn on average 82% of what men earn, technically it should be 41% (.82*5).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:04 PM
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I want to but have enough self-control not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:47 PM
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This is a totally racist comment and not founded in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:20 PM
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The issue is that women choosing men who make the same or more money as them in a world where women earn roughly the same as men create greater class stratification and less class mobility. It also means that fewer families have a mix of working-class, middle-class, and upper-class members. Overall, it leads to less societal cohesion, but this is really a larger topic. My point isn't necessarily anti-feminist but that feminists haven't put enough focus on the responsibility of women now that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:06 PM
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The impact of women's partner selection is socially profound. Men will marry women from lower socio-economic backgrounds but women are much more reluctant to do the same. Of course, the issues that you raise are of critical importance, but it's also important to think about the broader responsibilities that come with increased wealth and social power.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:38 PM
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Yeah, that's hateful. The other side of that would be the male "loser" character that's in a lot of media where a man going through hard times in life is ridiculed and demeaned and is portrayed as having no redeeming qualities. Like this guy in Love
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:28 PM
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This was true thirty years ago, but it's not true today. There are areas that are grittier looking, but they aren't particularly dangerous. Some of the highest-priced areas are pretty ugly to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:16 PM
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Washington Heights is actually safer than a lot of the upscale neighborhoods in Manhattan. Flatbush isn't a high-crime area either. https://maps.nyc.gov/crime/ For the record, NYC is a relatively safe city. Don't believe the propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:13 PM
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Dating is easier but forming a solid relationship is harder. It true with friendships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:54 PM
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I think its because a lot feminism focusses on gaining rights for women but not responsiblities that come with rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:51 PM
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I think your getting at what I'm talking about. There are a lot of unresolved issues and partial adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:48 PM
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There is a lot to dislike about this city, but people who make comnents like this usually don't know what ghey are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:45 PM
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Nope, not true. They do split rent. I guess my point is that a lot so called "modern" women are "modern" when it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:42 PM
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Well, I did, and found women in other borroughs to be more traditional. Large parts of Brooklyn in particular have large immigrant populations that are definitely more conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:28 PM
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Sometimes women walk around practically naked on the street where I live. We are all animals and attracted to sexual stimuli. I don't really want to be sexually stimulated when riding public transit or in a professional context. I find it disrespectful to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:40 AM
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I don't think it's good taste to flaunt wealth either. When traveling abroad, I try to keep my appearance in keeping with those around me to not solicit resentment or envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:35 AM
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I've dated a broad range of women from different economic, educational, and cultural backgrounds. The more traditional women I met had post-secondary degrees and came from middle-class families. It's just that they valued family relationships more than expensive restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:35 PM
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Judgemental are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:19 PM
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I think that there is such a thing as an alpha male, but it's not what every woman is into.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:48 PM
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You'd be surprised how far being empathetic and considerate can get you. Empathy can also help you avoid problematic women because you can sense what they're up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:46 PM
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I wouldn't, especially if it was a close friend. I'm not into the FWB thing. If I had a female friend (and I were single) that asked me how I felt about dating her, then would consider it. I wouldn't want to jeopardize the friendship unless it seemed like the relationship could go somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:30 PM
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