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threefishies/r/RedPillWives16/06/18 01:45 AM
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He didn't night feed between 3-6 months, but now he's gone back to it (which I don't mind, as a SAHM it's no trouble to wake up once or twice at night) does that mean that dropping the night feed won't be the trigger for my return of ovulation when he STTN again? I've had no issues getting pregnant, thankfully, but the ovulating is the hard part as of right now!
/r/RedPillWives28/09/18 08:32 PM
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Congratulations!!!! Honestly, I found breastfeeding clothes to be the most helpful, but I have a tiny waist and hourglass shape that was only accentuated by breastfeeding and I did NOT want to attract attention to that area... So turns out that for me, fitted pregnancy clothes are perfect for making it clear that I have lost the baby weight whilst preserving my modesty.
/r/RedPillWives23/09/18 10:59 PM
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Yall who have had babies, when did your cycles come back? We are 7 months out and I am still not ovulating, and I get that it is likely my body telling me it isn't ready and I am NOT willing to end our breastfeeding relationship early, so it is likely not going to change, but I would like advice and experiences!
/r/RedPillWives23/09/18 10:57 PM
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My husband is 33 and I am 26 and we have a young child, and we opted for a very inexpensive wedding (Other than the 2,3k rings for me as per his wish if not demand though) because we wanted to pull the trigger on a little baby as quickly as possible. I would never say we regret it bc we met later in life and together chose building a larger family as a priority, but had we met earlier... We would have had a larger wedding, because it unfortunately hurt a lot of people we are close to that we elo…
/r/RedPillWives31/08/18 02:57 AM
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Congratulations! My labour was quick and easy and to this day (only 5.5 months later but still haha) one of the best days of my life, right up there with my wedding. Many great years to your baby. <3
/r/RedPillWives28/07/18 07:16 PM
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Yes, absolutely. And even as a very self-motivated woman with high expectations for myself and for my home, once the baby came, there were a good 4 months of me needing my husband to be patient with me because some days, all I could do was to keep my child and I alive and happy and keep the house acceptably clean. We had a colicky baby that turned into a velcro baby and only now at 5 months are we finding our footing so that I can once again take EVERY chore in my hands. My husband knows me and …
/r/RedPillWives24/07/18 12:38 AM
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I would second this advice- it is great and the resources given will be very helpful in bettering yourself and preparing yourself for the relationship you are hoping for. :)
/r/RedPillWives24/07/18 12:26 AM
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Thanks for letting me know! :)
/r/RedPillWives27/06/18 02:20 AM
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Thank you for letting me know! :) I will make sure to write something down when I have time. :D
/r/RedPillWives27/06/18 02:19 AM
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Russian Orthodox here too! We go to a Greek parish here though because it's 20 minutes away whereas the nearest Russian or even Ukrainian or Carpatho-Rusyn Church is 1h-1h30 away. Definitely miss the feel of my home parish a lot though! :)
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 08:53 PM
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Hi, I had a baby! I don't wear heels because I'm barely shorter than my husband and although he doesn't care at all, it feels weird to me to tower over him, but I recently realised that pregnancy had changed my centre of gravity and caused me to ''tuck in'' my tailbone. It's a common phenomenon dubbed with the ever-so-flattering name of ''mum bum'', if you'd like to google it and see if you may have this issue- I did suggested exercises and squats for a few weeks postpartum and am now back to wa…
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 06:27 PM
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I absolutely love the tradition of veiling oneself in Church and even sometimes consider wearing it fulltime outside the house as several women do in our Church- my husband supports me either way and it's not necessary in our Faith so it's really up to me but we live in Texas and it does get really warm here, so idk! :P I was raised Catholic and have a lot of love for the Faith and Church, but I really did find my home in the Orthodox Church and would love to help yall get to know us more. :) Th…
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 03:38 PM
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It does! I'm Christian Orthodox, and everything about our Church encourages women to be feminine, submissive to God and to their husband and trusting that he knows best, etc. We have an unbroken tradition as well, and as a more traditionalist RPW, this speaks to me as well. We have to veil ourselves in Church and wear long skirts/cover our shoulders and sometimes elbows depending on the Parish, and modesty is encouraged outside of the home as well. Our Priests marry and have children and thus ha…
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 01:51 PM
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We did do a class! It was a one-day class at the hospital I delivered in, when I was 36w. I found it very helpful in that it helped my husband and I understand what was offered to us as far as pain management, suites to labour in and recover in, etc. It also helped us understand the progression of labour, and the latter half was dedicated to pressure points and pain relief by the partner through pressure points- it was a bonding moment even though my husband and I still make fun of it to this da…
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 01:42 PM
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We definitely have a little bit of a hierarchy going on, where baby's ACTUAL needs come before my husband's needs, but my baby's WANTS come after my husband's. That's what he said he was most comfortable with anyway- he would never be so forgiving if he didn't see how high-needs our baby is, is my presumption. :) When I look at my situation from an outside eye, I am much more forgiving than when I look at what I was doing before baby and what I am doing right now. I think it is because I know ho…
/r/RedPillWives20/06/18 12:15 AM
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I would love to read posts about astrology or MBTI btw! I don't put much stock in either but it's still fun to think about and you can always extract good lessons and relationship advice based on who you are and who your SO is even if it doesn't match with your sign/type. :)
/r/RedPillWives19/06/18 04:35 PM
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We're definitely making sure that our relationship is great and he feels positively about us and not like it's all about the baby, and we still make sure we have plenty of intimacy. Baby is still young so his actual needs (feedings, diaper changes, etc) come first, but my husband is very understanding of this, and we have a very good balance with baby needs vs his needs, which I'm thankful for. What I'm having the most trouble with is balancing the homemaking with baby tasks during the day whils…
/r/RedPillWives19/06/18 02:54 PM
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Thank you for the recommendation, I'll be sure to check it out. :)
/r/RedPillWives18/06/18 01:29 PM
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LOL, I would love to see my husband's face if a man, including his father or best friend who he thinks the world of, let alone some internet rando, required me to act submissively towards them. I will treat anyone with kindness and respect, but deference only goes towards my husband (and father in a sense, but not in the same way nor to the same level as my husband) and we would both not want it any other way. I am pretty sure he would rightfully have a problem with it if I gave another man the …
/r/RedPillWives18/06/18 12:22 AM
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We are definitely hoping for a few more! Thank you for your insightful comment. I was colicky and so is this baby, but now at 4 months he is SO MUCH better than before, but still a velcro baby which makes good housekeeping harder for me than I wish. Slowly getting it under control though, but it'll be nice when I can set F down for a minute without him crying. ;)
/r/RedPillWives17/06/18 10:09 PM
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I haven't, but I'll keep it in mind- I've been listening to a lot of podcasts lately whilst baby is eating. Thank you for the suggestion!
/r/RedPillWives16/06/18 11:40 PM
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Thank you for responding! Looking forward to having everything back to my standards- my husband is very understanding that I have a lot on my plate with the usual and getting used to life with a baby, but I'm not quite as kind towards myself as he is unfortunately. It'll get better and it's nice to get word of that from the other side! :)
/r/RedPillWives16/06/18 02:00 PM
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Thank you! You are correct that it feels like he's been here forever- I can't imagine life without him now and neither can my husband, but there's still so much to learn and he's brand new. :)
/r/RedPillWives16/06/18 01:59 PM
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Thank you so much! :) I might, if there would be any interest in such a post of course. There are lots of wise words about women and femininity in Orthodoxy, and great models to be inspired by, but I know religion isn't everyone's thing so I wouldn't want to step on any toes!
/r/RedPillWives16/06/18 01:58 PM
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I'm 26 and my husband is 33 and we've been together a bit over 2 years, and I definitely don't regret my decision to date someone a bit older who knows what (and who!) he wants, and at 24, my friends used to think I was silly for not dating around- now that we're just this tiny bit older, they come to me for relationship advice because they see what my husband and I have built and they want the same for themselves. It is not a waste of time or effort, and if they don't see it now, they will late…
/r/RedPillWives15/06/18 08:03 PM
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Hi! Just made this account to participate here, I only just found out about this sub but have been in traditionalism/homemaking circles on other social media for years. I'm 26, married a year (when we bridged our LDR gap) but together two, and have a beautiful 4 month old son. I'm a law grad turned SAHM, and slowly but surely getting back to my full-strength homemaking since we've adjusted to life with an infant by now. We would like to TTC2 as soon as is physically possible, since we want a lar…
/r/RedPillWives15/06/18 07:41 PM
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