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Everyone seems to think it isn't important that she had pretty bad depression before becoming a man temporarily, in a life that she lived for a long time as a woman.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 05:36 AM
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Seriously I can count how many times I've seen people bring her up as a talking point but can't bother to use or don't even know her name.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 05:33 AM
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And there's a lot of us with a lot of that :(
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:34 PM
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Hmm as a woman I used to think calling myself a feminist was cringe because I didn't want to associate with the crazy ones. Then I learned I had to stand up for my beliefs, and a lot of them are feminist ones. I think context matters. I once knew a white knight guy who talked about respecting women like crazy, then one day he messaged me knowing I had a partner, to let me know thinking about me gave him a hard-on. It's the actions that matter, not the words. My partner doesn't identify as a femi…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:23 PM
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I'm sorry are bad things not typically reasons?
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 11:21 PM
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Maybe if you pair up with another person who similarly wants a compromise with reality. Personally it would make me feel worthless, and I'm not sure how much love I'd have for someone who would make me feel that way.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 11:19 PM
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Listen you're the one making a generalization here about a gender. I love the men in my life. Who do you think has a right to feel more shitty? The one who says "I feel worthless" or "the majority of your gender has always made men feel worthless" This is how redpill is so much of the time. "Who can I blame to feel better about myself." Why do you make up a random statistic AND pretend to know what women think? You're like...proving my point. This is literally the problem. I didn't invalidate yo…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 11:13 PM
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Every day we make choices. While I understand where you're coming from, I think a way to look at it is we can choose what we want to do everyday with similar limitations. We may want to go to the moon or want to choose to go to Hawaii at the drop of a hat and not be able to...that doesn't erase all the other choices we can make. What's more important is choosing what kind of person you're going to be, how you're going to treat others, and how you're going to take care of yourself. What you're de…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 02:20 PM
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Why do you think it's too late to tell her your feelings?
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 03:47 AM
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I understand not being able to trust as a woman for a lot of the same reasons. My parents continue to have a horrible relationship and for years I saw my dad connect with MGTOW and saw him develop more of his self while also never ever being honest with my mom, and going behind her back. It's fucked me up, and made me feel like absolute shit for doing nothing but being female. My partner is an amazing man, and I love him, and I also will always worry that one day he'll just say he was lying beca…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 07:42 PM
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Well as a woman it made me feel beyond worthless.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 12:39 PM
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Absolutely agree and even thought about putting that last part in, there is doing good, and then doing good at your own detriment which many people do. I think being a gentleman or gentlewoman is also knowing when to say no, respectfully as well. That's something I'm working on myself still hahaa.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 12:50 AM
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Also as a woman I've seen woman say some stupid shit. We're all equally capable of being WILD.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/23 09:22 PM
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Hmm. I've always considered my partner my gentle man, as opposed to gentleman in that he is very considerate and willing to get down and dirty, do whatever to lend a helping hand to friends and family in need. He is respectful and treats others, children and animals with kindness. That's always been the REAL gentleman to me. Being nice for the sake of being nice, genuinely just caring. It's like chivalry minus the part about only focusing on those weaker than you. A knight in fucked up armor. I …
/r/ExRedPill01/01/23 09:20 PM
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Are you suggesting that most successful relationships have greedy women who take the guys money? You know there are more women than men in the workforce in general, more college educated women in the workforce, and even slightly more women working more than one job. Jfc. We don't need your goddamn money, we're making our own now.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 11:11 PM
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Honestly mostly therapy, and it's helped a lot but it's definitely a process that will take time. Learning to trust and accept things as they are if I can't change them, slowly.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 12:51 AM
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I think the first thing people need for respect is to simply just actively listen with an open mind. I think this alone would fix a lot of problems.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 12:16 AM
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Oh 100% self esteem tanked lower than possible. It's impossible for me to accept compliments irl I just don't believe them, I'm working on it though. It made me feel like I could never build myself up or else that means I'm self centered and a bitch. You ever seen those videos where women will rate themselves a 10/10 or on the high end and the comments will DRAG THEM TO DEATH? That rating system makes me want to puke anyway, but it taught me women aren't allowed to be confident, and you're bette…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 12:12 AM
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No, I appreciate that! In a way I never would have expected I found myself sucked into redpill like how people just can't look away from a car crash. I just couldn't believe it at first, and part of me wanted to explain how life wasn't like this. It was a mix of wanting to help and wanting to reassure myself this shit wasn't true. Every corner I turned I found people hating women, it felt like a dream. It surrounded me though, and it started taking up most of my free time. It was like I couldn't…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:55 PM
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Well no you said they NEVER liked women before and I think there are men that used to. Hate can develop. Just like how I learned to hate being a woman as a woman. Edit: I'm getting better though 👍
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:28 PM
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I would disagree with this. Getting into redpill really fucks up everything, I'm sure it's entrapped previously wholesome people going through rough patches. The majority seems to not have gone out of their way to understand women, that's for sure.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:45 PM
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So first this isn't just a female phenomenon, many men take advantage of good low self esteem females, a lot of my friends have been through that. I do however know that this is something that happens, you're not wrong for noticing it, being bothered by it. I think a lot of people who run this type of manipulation have something wrong with them for sure, and often they desperately just want love, and have a gross fear of abandonment...so they choose someone "easy". That's why I think it is impor…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:38 PM
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Redpill has made me hate being a woman as well, based in very little logic. It's fed my depression for years. It's not even being reduced to looks for me, it's the constant thought that women are unintelligent unempathetic selfish monsters who have it on easy mode that I keep seeing over and over by so many people. I don't even know how many channels I've blocked, and I still find people who feel this way...and then they all turn around and say that feminism isn't needed and only hurts men. Even…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 12:12 AM
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I didn't say it wasn't male-dominated, just not AS much as a lot of guys think. Almost every woman near my age plays many genres, and there are thousands of women who play online without disclosing their gender, and those numbers are going to increase. I think it's crazy you've only met one IRL. Maybe it's an age thing?
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 09:16 PM
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Gaming is probably not as male-dominated as you think.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 09:30 AM
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Honestly this post seems so conflicting in that you say you have basically super low standards and all you need is for someone to be decent looking but then you also are complaining and generalizing a bunch about women, which makes me think you ACTUALLY have pretty particular standards, or that you come off as being so to others maybe? The way you complain about women in school is just majorly rough, man. More men than women party during college, and there's a large percentage of students who sa…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 09:28 AM
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A grocery store isn't necessarily the best place to seek warmth, that being said, as a cashier I often get compliments on being upbeat and kind from customers...but a lot of the people in general I know are dead inside and outside, and I've had days where I just want to get through. Trust me, unless you've said or done something actively creepy, most people at the store are going to be pretty focused on their own shit, and looks aren't going to matter that much when it comes to customer service.…
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 08:33 AM
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Also as a note if you're talking about the checkers they often just want to be left to do their job.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 08:24 AM
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I didnt mention coercion. Maybe that's just it, for a lot of reasons women don't WANT sex like men do because the risks are just greater than the rewards. So to be told it's easier just seems like a cop out, it's just more complicated than that. No many women like to cuddle with their partners, male or female, especially after sex. It's talked about often. It is my understanding that redpill are the ones that would be against cuddling, as that would be the "alpha male" thing to do, and personall…
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 02:26 AM
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Hearing "women have it easier to get sex" as a woman is just not fun. I agree with the general concept, but...socially women are shamed more for it, we have to worry about physical safety and about getting pregnant. Seriously the worrying about getting pregnant is kindof a big deal. Most of us aren't just going to pick the first guy we see and go to town. On top of this, it's harder for women to find satisfying lovers and that's a whole other conversation. So is it easier for a woman to get sex?…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 12:30 PM
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Well I stopped following all redpill content and took a step back remembered I'm a woman and that literally none of it actually applied to my life or to the many people I know. I genuinely started to hate myself for just being female and existing...but I really realized all that shit is there to feed on insecurities and to get views and money from men and women alike. There is no blue pill, there's only the REAL red pill which is studying psychology, and remembering we're all just meat sacks try…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 12:13 PM
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I just wanted to add MOST people don't have the body of a pornstar. Most sex is nothing like porn, in fact ironically some porn stars have lack luster sex lives since it's their job it can be hard to form real connections. Redpill is toxic in that it helps promote a bunch of ideas that don't exist in reality. Why do you think she's talking to guys on the side, or that she wants to use you as a puppet? If you had a sexual history longer than hers, would that give her the right to judge you simila…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 11:59 AM
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Models are tall and slim because they're supposed to be coat racks for the clothes, that's why female models are often tall as well. I would agree it's a factor in beauty but it's not equal to it. If someone said "you're not beautiful" that is going to be worse than "you're not tall".
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 02:43 AM
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This is a poor comparison because height and beauty don't always go together. It'd be more like if a woman complained about being too tall.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/22 07:53 PM
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I have a feeling you would guilt trip women for staying with abusive partners, but...my friend, that's what you're doing. What people think doesn't matter, your sanity and self hood are more important than saving face in front of people who aren't worth giving the time of day.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/22 02:49 AM
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If your religion is like most religions, from that perspective keeping herself from engaging in sex means she respects both of your beliefs. It would be a red flag to say you believe in abstinence and then just do a 180 while still claiming to hold to that faith. Also I am curious why virginity is so important for women in redpill thought when you aren't one. Is that not hypocritical? I do wish you luck, redpill has given me a lot of trust issues as a woman, in a way that it's hard for me to und…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 05:44 PM
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I am genuinely sorry that's been your experience, and understand why you wouldn't believe anything other than what you see with your eyes but that isn't good evidence for any deep hidden "truths" about humanity. The only real "red pill" is that human brains can all equally be fucking WILD, and blackpill is just depression feeding depression.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 08:17 AM
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People take advantage of other people but overall I think the majority are not dedicated to this grift. From every person, I think most women are not gold diggers and most men in red pill aren't awful humans. Even though I'm female I fell down the red pill hole and consumed so much of it's content I started to hate myself even though I try my best to be considerate to everyone, my partner thinks it's all hogwash, and I'm probably pretty average...it's a trap for people to get stuck in self loath…
/r/ExRedPill24/11/22 01:08 PM
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Being "damaged" should not be endearing. Depression or trauma is not charming, it can be relatable but please don't romanticize it. I didn't assume anyone has done anything horrible. I do reccomend maybe taking this to a relationship advice reddit instead? I personally don't know what he could do with your info, or if you're afraid of getting doxed? But do you have any evidence that would make you think that's his goal?
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 07:11 PM
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First off this probably isn't the best place to ask for help when you're judging a guy on being "underconfident and kind of damaged". It comes off a teensy bit little insensitive? Why do you think he's trying to post stuff about you? Is he able to get any important identification/have it already? If you're worried about things you said to him, that ship has probably sailed I'm sorry, but I don't think you have much to worry about unless you keep all your personal info posted online or did someth…
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 06:59 PM
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Because if I said "Men only want sex and only go for perfect, thin, pretty homemakers and never give women like me a chance." And "Men don't care if a woman with these qualities is a bitch to them" It's just not true, it's a generalization, and wouldn't it make you feel icky?
/r/ExRedPill08/11/22 01:14 AM
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