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| 204 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man. | General | thrillskr | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 10:04 PM |
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| 1 | Separating the art from the artist when it comes to men’s issuesIt depends on what they meant by "toxic masculinity." If the podcast is otherwise sensible, they're probably using the mainstream definition. I also dislike the term because it is usually misapplied. But it does exist, and it's a bad thing for boys and men especially. I am not a father, but if I were, I would not teach my son that it's "weak" to cry or that showing genuine emotion is somehow a liability. Those are toxic beliefs that cause a myriad of psychological and adjustment issues in men. M… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | How can men learn not to need women?I don't think anyone was offended. Thank you for the clarification! | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 10:20 PM |
| 3 | It’s wild how normalised the hate is.Or cater to her every emotional need, upon demand. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 03:23 AM |
| 1 | How can you improve your life as a man?Nothing you say is even remotely disturbing. This feeling is rather common, in fact, and it's not surprising that you're experiencing it right now. Ten years ago, I was in a situation even worse than yours. After running a very profitable business for 17 years, and making big money, things suddenly went against me and I lost everything. Although I was once dining in five-star restaurants, I had to go to the soup kitchen at a nearby church for lunch each day. I also thought that there was "no poi… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 03:07 AM |
| 1 | How can men learn not to need women?This is a forum for "sensitive men" who are in touch with their feelings. In this case, they are working through and processing the issues, often emotional ones, that they have with women and relationships. Many women comment here. They are treated with respect because they discuss the issues with that same respect. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 01:39 AM |
| 0 | How can men learn not to need women?I think your mistake is imagining this in the "world," as you say. That isn't going to happen. It CAN happen in your life, though. You have the power to choose who you allow in your life. Keep your eyes open for an eligible woman who "gets it" and proudly maintains an independent, self-sufficient life, even when in a relationship. Avoid liberal women no matter what you do, because they make their men miserable. If you ever do meet that special woman, maintain seperate residences for at least two… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | The "Women And Children" RhetoricYes, here is an article about it: https://nationalpost.com/news/world/gabby-petito-should-have-been-cited-for-domestic-abuse-by-utah-police-review-finds | /r/MensRights | 04/09/24 04:33 PM |
| 32 | The "Women And Children" RhetoricThe murder of Gabby Petito was a perfect example of this. The media framed it as one of domestic violence perpetrated by a male, but the lesser reported fact was that she also hit him, and often initiated the physical contact. May she rest in peace. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.I'll give it a try. I'll stand still AND smile at the same time. ;-) | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.Thank you for all of this exhaustive research! | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 11:08 PM |
| 1 | I come in peace…Thank you for your fine post. I'm a gay guy who is kind of in the same boat, although for different reasons. One thing that got my attention: you mention the "dating scene." Personally, I look for a potential partner by going to things that interest me. I avoid venues or activities where dating and relationships are the stated objective, because I have rarely seen it work. I haven't given up, but I have stopped actively looking. I keep my eyes open, however, in my daily life just in case I meet … | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.Agreed. Sadly, they will attract men who have personality disorders. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/24 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.Thank you! | /r/MensRights | 01/09/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.The crime rate isn't too bad here, but the statistics don't capture the full picture. There are a LOT of erratic homeless on the streets who intimidate people. As for the migrants, they are not much of a problem, but there are a lot of them. Many of the Hispanic women cook at home and then bring a large cooler with about 20 lunch trays to construction sites, where they sell them for $10 each. Uninspected, unlicensed food. I spoke to the owner of a licensed Mexican food truck, and this man, who i… | /r/MensRights | 01/09/24 05:30 PM |
| -1 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.It is a fact of life in my neighborhood. A lot of people talk about it. Some young women even put up videos on TikTok, etc., calling it the "sidewalk challenge." The lack of maturity is astounding. Others here suggested NPD, and they are right. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/24 03:08 AM |
| 5 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.I am sorry that you (and she) had to go through this. :( | /r/MensRights | 31/08/24 12:56 AM |
| 5 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.Beats me. My family is friends with a journalist who travels the globe. Her daughters have it made. University degrees, the whole bit. One just bought her own condo. And yet, when they all met at a recent graduation party, the 24-year old talked non-stop about (--drumroll--) "the Patriarchy." She bemoaned that we were "ruled by men." My younger brother disagreed with her, and it ended with her leaving the table in a huff with her nerdy boyfriend. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/24 12:18 AM |
| 9 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.Agreed. And even with the reversal of Roe, it would not have been possible without Amy Coney Barrett's vote. (The decision was 6-3 on a larger issue, 5-4 to specifically throw out Roe, I think.) But these "small" facts get lost in the discussion. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 11:54 PM |
| 8 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.I understand. I was punched in the face by a random homeless guy two years ago, and I felt the same. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 11:51 PM |
| 10 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.THAT was an assault! You should have called the police. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 11:48 PM |
| 14 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.I think it started with Hillary's loss in 2016. That's when I noticed it. There is resentment. However, Hillary only got 54% of the female vote, an embarassment. Why are men to blame? | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 11:48 PM |
| 6 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.I used to say it more than anyone. Then, I realized it and stopped. That's why I bring it up. I am against cussing and I hate alcohol, too. :) | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 11:45 PM |
| 11 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.I have done that. In those cases, they go around. But I don't make it a practice. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 11:16 PM |
| 20 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.Last month, I was walking on 57th Street. I noticed a guy in his 30s was standing on the corner, watching everybody. As I was about to pass him, he noticed me. On that day, I had on my dark Ray Bans, my Hugo "BOSS" polo shirt and had my hair slicked back. After I walked by, I heard him say, "FINALLY, a real man." I was amazed. The media may not cover this subject, but everyone is talking about it, including women. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 10:53 PM |
| 15 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.When I leave NYC, I have no problems with any females whatsoever. It's like, "Finally, normal people!" I have actually considered leaving the city because of everything you mention. In all fairness, the men have problems, too. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 10:48 PM |
| 19 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.In my neighborhood, it is extremely common to hear the dreaded "f-word" coming from their mouths as they walk around the neighborhood. I've heard "mother -----er" on more than one occasion, too. It's actually made me cut down on my profanity by 90% with an eye on eliminating it completely! | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 10:36 PM |
| 28 | Life in NYC for a 53-y.o. man.I think you're right. I've studied NPD and it seems central here. In my case, the "ex-" friend would cry when the subject of politics arose. I'd have to take seriously a "discussion of (her) views" that was literally incoherent without a shred of rational thought. When I pointed out something that was common knowledge and contradicted her, irrespective of political beliefs, the tears would start to flow. How I don't miss dealing with THAT! Five years ago, at 54-years old, she decided she wanted … | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 10:33 PM |
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