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Discussionthroaway-user/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:26 PM
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Question For Womenthroaway-user/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:21 AM
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I would say so, yeah. If I had friends who invited me to hang out and go out with them I never would have started watching Star Trek and other related things. It was a direct result of my not having anything better to do. It's also the reason why so many nerdy guys get angry when they see women who are into the same things as they are, or geek things in general become mainstream. You're dating and going out with friends and having fun and living your best life and now you wanna stick your nose i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:08 PM
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It wasn't anything very dramatic. It was just a combination of just maturing with age and also realizing that this whole relationship thing that I was trying for wasn't gonna happen. I spent years putting off formative experiences until I could do them together with a partner and we could have each other's backs as we faced down the perils of life together. I finally just decided to them by myself and eventually saw that this whole life thing wasn't anywhere near as terrifying as I was thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:19 PM
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It wasn't so much entitlement as thinking that people just naturally paired up, and you'd have to be an extremely fucked up person to not end up with another one and form a family. I didn't think I was that screwed up when I was a teen and young adult, but today I'm certainly aware that I am indeed that horrible of a prospect. And today I do understand why someone would rather be alone than be with me, and I'm kind of glad it never happened because I'm positive I would have been a pretty shitty …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:44 PM
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Well yeah, I did totally used to think that way. Lived experience has since shown me otherwise, but that was my thought process up until I was about 27ish. I certainly never tried to get the things I wanted, I know I'm incapable of actually getting them and I don't wanna fall flat on my face trying. Today I'm a bit more optimistic and I have life goals that are higher than ever, and some confidence in the fact that I'll eventually be able to achieve them. But that's learned behavior, not somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:55 PM
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I would absolutely turn down a woman I deem "better" than me any respect. I don't have the big dick energy required to hold down a Scarjo, I know damn well that I'm not someone that she could proudly introduce as her boyfriend to her friends and family. And it isn't a question of not feeling attraction to someone who's conventionally attractive, but rather knowing wether or not you're capable of getting them. Just as you tell incels that they should just lower their standards until someone accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:51 PM
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I have never seen myself as an attractive man, I've always known that I'm an ugly and boring dude. But I've also always sincerely believed that there's someone out there for everyone. And I never had any pretensions of dating a pretty Stacy type girl, but I figured that in knowing my flaws and looking for someone out there with similar flaws that would fit well with me, I would eventually find someone. I wouldn't really describe myself as much of a redpiller, but the idea that most women out the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:40 PM
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You know, typical incel. Ugly, boring, not very smart, socially awkward and timid. And my whole life I've been hearing "just b urself and someone who lives for u will come along :)" so I just kept on being myself. No one ever told me that I was uninteresting and bad looking, maybe if I'd heard that when I was 10ish or so I would have actually made an effort at life instead of just chugging along doing nothing and wondering why no one liked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:44 AM
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I would have liked for them to have been more upfront about my being a problem from the very start. Growing up reading and hearing stories about women being made uncomfortable because of creepy guys, overly-insistent men, overly-sexual men. And then I saw with my own two eyes men saying things that I thought for sure would get them slapped, thrown water on, maybe even arrested, and the women were actually being receptive and smiling behaving the same way with them. It took until my mid-twenties …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:22 AM
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Okay, let's say that a woman with a high body count inexplicably begins to show interest in me and I reject her: what harm am I causing this woman? Why is it wrong of me to reject her advances? Why am I an incel who shouldn't feel entitled to sex, but this woman's disappointment at my rejection is sad and understandable, is she correct in feeling entitled to a relationship? I care about n-counts because a woman with a high n-count is a woman who has absolutely no reason to desire me. She's had b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:13 PM
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Yes, I know what you mean. Women go on and on about how a good, ideal man needs to have his own social circle, a stable career, his own hobbies and interests, which need to be intellectual and/or fun and exciting, he needs to be focused and ambitious. What am I supposed to understand from this rhetoric if not that they want to stay by themselves and live their own lives and sometimes meet for dinner and sex and then fuck off somewhere alone again, and want a man who feels the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:04 PM
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No opinion whatsoever, they don't concern me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:03 PM
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We I never really felt much anger. Not at them, not at me. A lot of frustration and disappointment, but not actual anger. I was sure that I was right in my actions and behavior, I just hadn't met the right, compatible woman. Which was weird because they almost all seemed to me like good, respectable girls that you could build a future with. It's only now that I realize that they really were, and the reason things didn't work out were entirely on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:32 PM
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I used to be a Nice Guy. I was very much making a semi-conscious effort to be the opposite of what my dad was. I saw the pain that he caused my mom, and all of his subsequent girlfriends. He didn't beat them, or anything like that, but he was absolutely untrustworthy and unfaithful. But he was also extremely charming. So I would see him with women, with girls who were sometimes my age or even younger, chatting them up and captivating them. And I knew for a fact that he was bullshitting them to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:18 PM
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I'm the exact opposite. Stillness is the goal, for me. My unrealistic mission is to get to a point wherein I no longer have to do anything and can just live in idleness. I want to be relaxed, I want to have my guard down. I want tomorrow to be just like today which was exactly the same as yesterday. Only then can I be at peace. I might battle, but I have to know that the reward at the end will be sufficient to compensate for the work required to get it, and most of the time it isn't. I commend y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:21 PM
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I've given up. It was years of not knowing what was terrible, so disgusting about me, that no one wanted me. Then I figured it out, then it was another period of trying to mold myself into someone desirable and attractive. This both didn't work out and also made me realize that I don't want to do what it takes to win the game. I've just come to the conclusion that I'm low-quality man and there's nothing I can do about it. After years of hearing people telling me to just be myself, and me being f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:37 PM
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Yes, but that doesn't necessarily mean that there's a problem with you, or 30 year old women in general. For me, personally, it's absolutely a sincere case of "it's not you it's me." The fact is that everything I've done, I've done in service of getting that girl that I couldn't get when I was 20. Most of my 20s were spent no differently than my teens: no resources whatsoever. No car, terrible studio apartment, no spending money, bad clothes, etc. Now that I do have shit, or am close to getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:37 AM
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I just think I'm an unnatractive man, both inside and out. I understand why women dislike me, I don't have much at all to offer. And I'm working on that, but I'm also extremely anxious and don't think that anything I do might be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:00 AM
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But here's the thing, everything is at risk the moment I'm unable to provide. And I'm not at all confident in my ability to walk the walk there. I was having this discussion with a woman on another sub the other day: she was complaining about how men are generally much closer to their male friends and putting on a more serious face for their girlfriends. The difference is that with my male friends I'm sure that they love me regardless of what happens. Any one of us would have to majorly fuck up …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:51 AM
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I don't doubt your ability to feel love, what I doubt is your ability to feel love for me specifically and other subpar men like me. I'm well aware that I am not Chad or Brad, I'm aware of the physical and personality flaws that I have. Some of these are fixable, a lot aren't. Short of drastic, rather inconceivable changes such as me suddenly becoming a millionaire, or getting plastic surgery, or participating in a Flowers for Algernon type experiment that could make me more intelligent, I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:36 AM
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Family. I have a very old grandmother and a aging mother, and my main focus right now is trying for a better job that might let me sustain us without my mom having to work. My dog doesn't have much time left either :/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:09 AM
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Of course we feel it, I just don't believe that a woman could feel genuinely love for me, so I have to hold myself back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:40 AM
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It's just post nut clarity. Sex is no different than drugs. In the moment when you're doing it it's great and you feel amazing, but then the high passes and you feel bad and wonder where your life went wrong and you just wanna get away from the scene of the crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:58 AM
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I want someone that I can proudly show off to my friends and family. A terrific woman who isn't a trophy wife so much as a prize that analyzed the options on hand and decided on me. And then I can bring this woman that everyone would say is a 9/10 (looks and personality) at a glance to show others and tell them "you see this? You see this amazing woman? She chose me of her own free will. Out of every man in her life she deemed ME as being the one worthy of her!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:38 PM
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Would you have a problem with this woman making you wait for sex in order to get comfortable and get to know you first: both so that she can enjoy the experience more, and so that you can both form a bond before have sex for the first time? Yes, because the whole problem isn't the sex, but how she acquired and the number of times it happened. If she has previously met a bunch of hot, interesting guys and went to bed with them after a short conversation, maybe without even knowing their names or …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:24 PM
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I didn't blame anyone I literally said that my loneliness is entirely my fault. Well if I'm wrong for being introspective and focusing on myself and thinking about what I can do to make myself into a more lovable and desirable person, but also at the same time they aren't wrong for wanting to stay away from me, then what am I supposed to do? Just accept this current situation? That this is what my entire life is supposed to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:42 AM
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And you strike me as someone healthy and happy and who's had positive influences in life and doesn't have to worry about whether you're loved or not. Is that the case? And if so, why come here and further shit on the people that have never had that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:11 AM
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she must be either settling or she must be cheating arguments, could it not possibly be that she actually cares for the guy? It's very possible yes, but if so, then why has it never happened to me? There are two possible answers, either I am exceptionally despicable and my flaws are so grand that no one is willing to look past them, or I'm average or slightly below average and no one is willing to look past the pretty minor flaws that make me so. Now, do I think that women are evil monsters for …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:26 AM
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Why do you people always assume we're predators looking to take advantage of inexperienced women and not that we're looking for a woman with the same level of experience as us, so that we're on an equal playing field? But why don't accept a woman who has more experience than you do? Because they don't exist. As an inexperienced man I can't provide women with pleasure, so the only reason they would want to be with me for money or something else external to my self. Then I would be the one getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:23 PM
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Why is it that I feel comfortable with the idea that 95% of men will agree with the things I say, and I will agree with the things that 95% of other men say, but women are so touchy about that sort of thing? The moment you make the smallest or vaguest generalization they get all "women are not a monolith, okay?" And all I wanna say is that that's a problem to be resolved. Get on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:58 AM
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I had this same realization about two years ago. I was with a work colleague that had taken me a long time to become friends with because I always thought he was a scary dude. He's this buff guy, who is very blunt, has a deep, gruff voice. He looks like an actor who always plays a villain. And I went out to have lunch with him and the girl on the other side of the counter started flirting with him. Not this wasn't the first time we were there, but she had never behaved like that previously. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:04 AM
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Well if a woman is independent, then a man is completely superfluous in her life, right? And if I know that they're fine then what reason do I have to do anything? For better or for worse I'm content with the bare minimum, a job is a means to an end. If I can pay my bills I'm good. And if I'm going to do any more than that, then I need a reason outside of myself. Ordinarily a wife and kids would be the source of that motivation. If I'm unemployed and alone that's no reason to become desperate, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:21 PM
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Multiple times I have had female friends and colleagues introduce a guy to me and I'd get instant "would have hit me in school" vibes. I get that it's wrong to judge the book by the cover but I ended up being right about a good chunk of them. I mean, if he'd hit me, he'd hit you as well. How are these things so obvious to me but not these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:38 AM
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But how many people out there do you think are getting married to their personal 10/10s? I understand the insecurity, I have it myself, but isn't honesty the best way to move forward in these situations? I know that you didn't dream about being with someone who looks like me when you were an idealistic teen girl dreaming about your future life, but that doesn't mean that I doubt your attraction to me now, or that I would betray you with any of those women on Instagram if given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:06 AM
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A good rule of thumb is 10 different partners per year after 18. So at age 19, 10 20 = 20 21 = 30 22 = 40 23 = 50
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:31 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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