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Dude, you're just mad because you used to get dates off OLD and now you don't. It's an obvious skill issue but instead of looking at yourself you blame "people attitudes" and "one company having a monopoly on the market". Typical redditor indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:58 PM
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Good on her for asking him out though. I feel like most women are allergic to making the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:46 AM
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Because it's highly unlikely that a kid only two years older than you has the sexual experience to know what they are doing and sexually assault you. Let's say she put your penis inside her mouth for fun, well it's absolutely not comparable to a grown up woman doing the same knowing exactly what a fellatio is. The way she acted was almost certainly childlike and innocent, not adult and predatory. That changes everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:27 AM
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I have never used dating apps. Met my ex and my current fwb on Reddit. I wouldn't put much value on personal anecdote though. OLD got harder for you, sure, but it doesn't necessarily mean it got harder for every men. Perhaps it did, but we'd need actual data to prove that and not anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:21 AM
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Pedophilia is an adult sexually assaulting a prepubescent child. Not two kids fooling around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:08 AM
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I think part of the reason it has changed is again due to the skewed gender ratio. Women started to realize it more and more (even if subconsciously) and act accordingly. They don't act like employees looking for a job (a boyfriend) anymore, but more like an employer who gets hundreds of CV and filter them in a few seconds. It's only natural though, if the gender ratio on the apps was reversed, men would act similarly after a while. I'll say though that all this can vary tremendously depending o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:32 PM
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There is a reason most guys limit themselves to the apps though. For a lot of men, approaching girls IRL is like handing your CV door to door to find a job vs sending applications online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:58 PM
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The only thing that matter on the apps is how skewed the gender ratio is. It may not seem like it, but even a 60/40 gender ratio with similar degree of activity is pretty bad for men. So something like 80/20 or even worse 90/10 is playing on absolute hell difficulty unless you're literally top 1%. OLD is just a very, very hard game for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:54 PM
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labeled shallow, and a slut. Not by me that's for sure :D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:30 PM
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Holy shit 6 years ago, I didn't think it had been that long. Thank you 🫡 I love how wild my first comment on PPD is too :D I really wish playing with dudes had been more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:28 PM
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My roommate got rid of her dog (not exactly, she just gave it to her mom :D) when she got into a relationship so that checks out. If she break up, the doggo is coming back which would be cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:13 PM
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One thing I like about gay guys is that they can be very forward sexually and nobody bat an eye. For example if we have someone coming over at the office, my gay colleague will usually say something like "I hope it's a hot dude" and that's no problem at all. When obviously a straight male saying "I hope it's a hot girl" will instantly be labelled as misogynist or sex obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:12 PM
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I kinda want to dig in my post history to see when was my first post in PPD. I think it was a bit over 4 years ago. But I have work today so probably will do that next week instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:36 AM
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At the office, it's my "busy" week of the month which is kinda annoying. Can't wait to get home to play some more PoE. Also my roommate is in vacation in her home country so the house is very quiet which I don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:10 AM
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That is very true. I'm only thinking of going 40/40 because I haven't played in so long, in the past I'd stop at 36/40 too. But yeah way too many games... I'm pushing for WRs in Slice and Dice, finishing Against the Storm and I saw that Darkest Dungeon 1 is releasing a DLC in august so will do a new full run at some point. I'm also waiting for PoE 2 1.0, Sts 2 1.0 and HoMM Olden Era 1.0. That's too many games and definitely not enough time for all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:48 AM
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Any goals for the league? I kinda want to go big and go for killing all ubers, 40/40 and level 100 but we'll see haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:39 AM
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SRS guardian. I hadn't played PoE for a couple years but this build made it very easy to get back into the game. What's yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:27 AM
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Feels good to nolife on a game (Path of Exile). Can't wait to get home after work so I can play some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:04 AM
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95% of the time this is a man pretending to be a woman and trolling people online
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:57 AM
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Early weekend for me guys. I'll see you next Monday, enjoy the rest of your week 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:35 PM
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If you're remotely attractive, there are men who have jerked off not only thinking about you, but directly while looking at perfectly vanilla pictures of you posted on insta or similar. They might have ejaculated right on their screen too. That's male sexuality for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:12 PM
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If only you could choose sexuality life would be much easier. I'd probably pick either gay or bisexual to have way more options. And I'd want to be into vanilla sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:42 PM
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One my colleague brought her daughter to work today. I remember two yeas ago she was telling how her daughter grows up fast and was already almost as tall as her. I remember it well because she gave the weight of her daughter and I was like damn she weights more than my roommate even though she's only 11 which was wild. Well turns out she's not even overweight, she's just one of those kids that seem to grow up so fast. At 13 she's already taller and heavier than me lmao Every one of my colleague…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:38 PM
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I think very few people are truly ugly. The issue a lot of men face is having an appearance that seriously lack masculinity (and similarly for some women that don't look feminine). So while they are not ugly, they are still going to struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:19 AM
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Yeah as soon as I realized I wouldn't want to date my fwb, the casual sex lost a lot of its appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:14 AM
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i think a reason a lot of males stay in relationships that's "eh" or not good but also not abusive is that if she leave he'll lose his access to sex. it's that simple, he'll put up with whatever as long as sex is still on the table. Even without sex lol Most men have a hard time finding a relationship (not impossible, but can be challenging and take some time) so of course they are on average more inclined to stay in a mediocre / bad relationship than to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:08 AM
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I met my ex and my fwb on Reddit so I do know their account. They both barely post tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:00 AM
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Never too late to figure out that you're not! I got my autistic diagnostic this year at 32
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:59 PM
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Do you genuinely believe you're neurotypical?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:57 PM
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If you're real, you're definitely neurodivergent (not a bad thing mind you, but obviously can throw people off)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:54 PM
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I wouldn't be living with my ex if I didn't think she was an overall good person, but she's also a weirdo for sure :D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:52 PM
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Could be projection ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:51 PM
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Some people online are real meaning they are genuine and don't lie about basic stuff such as their gender, their age, their job, their appearance, their relationship status etc. and some people are pretending to be someone else or are often lying. It's not always easy to figure out who's real and who's fake online, but usually you can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:50 PM
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It's hilarious because normie women don't speak like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:44 PM
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Yeah I really didn't expect that my ex would be the type to date such guy. It was a big surprise for me. She even broke up with him over it as he insisted so much, but she got back with him after a few days
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:41 PM
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That's what I'm thinking as well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:40 PM
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Q4W: how much of a red flag is it if a guy you're dating is pressuring you into sex acts you're not comfortable with? Such as anal for example. I'm trying to understand how much of a pos a guy doing that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:21 PM
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Sounds like you're not that interest in her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:11 PM
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Aren't you going to call her again / meet her irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:06 PM
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I'll always remember my first call with my fwb. We stayed on the phone for 9 hours lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:02 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/AskWomenNoCensor/comments/1v1nifx/what_are_your_standards_for_a_relationship_vs_a/ hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:54 PM
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It depends where you live and how long you think you'll stay in the house you bought. I live in Paris and buying vs renting is really not worth it usually. But even in most cities in my country, you need to stay minimum 5 years in the house you bought for it to be worth it. That being said, most people don't care about the financial aspect and prefer owning vs renting for comfort and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:29 PM
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You can have whatever standards you want obviously. But if your standards are even slighty above average, you don't get to complain about struggling to find a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:24 PM
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In my case I've done the maths and it would be advantageous if I stay at least 10 years in the home I bought which is unlikely to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:22 PM
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Yeah I don't think it's wrong unless you'd feel ashamed of admitting it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:16 PM
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Q4A: is it wrong? In your opinion, is it wrong to hook-up with someone the day before a first date with someone else? Tomorrow commences my first date in 10 months. I have no communication with him, as it's a date from Breeze, but I'm very much looking forward to it. The thing is, I took a break from dating for so long and instead, mostly saw a casual sex partner weekly for hook-ups. Tonight, we are to have sex on a beach with a bonfire. I'm horny and it sounds like fun, but I have this weird fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:42 PM
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Yeah but rich kids are not working minimum wage jobs to support themselves while studying. I've always knew that I'd rather kms than work retail full time. I kinda feel bad for people working those kind of jobs, similarly to when I see a homeless person
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:41 PM
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Yeah working part time while studying is pretty common here, especially if mommy and daddy are not rich enough to support you financially until you finish your studies. I wouldn't have been able to work retail though, with my autism I wouldn't have lasted long.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:23 PM
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23 yo is probably about average here to start working full time. The 5 years NEET is not standard though :D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:14 PM
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All I'll say is that my future wife better be ok with hiring a maid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:10 PM
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I started working at 23 after being a NEET for 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:03 PM
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Nah I don't know him, but my mom wants me to meet him soon. Apparently he's a nice bloke
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:10 PM
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Holy shit my sister's boyfriend is absolutely jacked. I knew he went to the gym but I didn't think it was to that point. He's a 5'6 baldy so it kinda reminded me of Tyler1 except he actually looks bigger. Not sure if he is natty tho Anyway, I've told about their relationship before because it's a bit of an unusual one. He's 18 years older. They met at work when my sister was 23 and he was 41. Funny thing is that when they met he was still living with his parents and had never been in serious rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:34 AM
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I don't think most of them are aware of it. As I said, they do it out of desperation and yes it is pathetic but I'm just explaining what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:03 PM
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The most insane passport bro story I saw on Reddit was a white dude, mid 20s, average looking, autistic that was getting zero play at home (I think he was from Norway). He went on a 3 weeks vacation in Uganda and the attention he was getting on Tinder was crazy. He basically got laid every other day and women were throwing themselves at him. We can discuss about the morality of this or how it must have gotten old quickly but nonetheless the reality is that this man went from being a kissless vir…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:44 PM
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Women get so much attention online that some of them take it for granted and put very little effort when they interact with a man. Especially if they don't find him very attractive. Most men will quickly lose interest talking with those women or they'll match that low effort energy which means it'll go nowhere. But some men are so starved for attention from women they'll push through and put an insane, totally disproportionate amount of effort into the interaction hoping to get more than a few c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:34 PM
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I only post here when I'm at work. My actual hobbies aren't much better from women perspective though... I'm a hardcore gamer. I put way more effort into gaming than my actual job which isn't exactly considered attractive haha. But it is very fun ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:27 PM
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Actually yes she's 5'10 so that does make her height preference a bit less ridiculous than when a 5' woman states that she only dates 6'+ men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:28 AM
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3 weeks out of a 2 months “relationship “ and still have some moments where i’m deep in the tranches. I’m sure he’s already moved on. I’m scared he’ll find his wife soon. I don’t want him to move on. I just have to remind myself why it didn’t work and with what chest pain i went to bed last 3 nights we were in contact. I sound pathetic i know. This shall pass. I just need another hot 6’5 man but sweeter Edit: i’m ok with him seeing what’s out there and hitting me up to try again. I know i sound …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:26 AM
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Back to the office. The AC is turned on to the max so I'm cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:13 AM
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Got curious about your post history because I'm also into femdom and damn girl you post so much on PPD it's genuinely impressive 🫡 Btw I saw the comment you were talking about and normies don't know much about BDSM
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:11 AM
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I started fapping daily at 11. Is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:03 PM
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I'm going to miss you PPD. Not going to the office until next Thursday. Have a good week guys 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:01 PM
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Do not call the creep police on me please 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:11 PM
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Speak for yourself. Some people like to stare
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:46 PM
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She simply doesn't believe in it and doesn't think it brings anything to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:25 AM
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My mom's manager is a woman in her late forties. She has a kid. The father of her child broke up with her 7 years ago. To this day she still hasn't gotten over it and hope that after he breaks up with his current gf they'll get back together. She goes to therapy once a week too. This is so pathetic you can't help but feel bad for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:24 AM
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My dad proposed to my mom twice. She said no both times. They still aren't married. Brootal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:19 AM
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You realize Europe has nuclear weapon, right? Weapons that are 1000x more powerful than what was used in Hiroshima. And you think they'd let China and Russia invade them without using them? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:15 AM
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Love her songs. Don't follow her personal life tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:11 AM
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This means I could fit inside you easily ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:06 AM
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It should be illegal unless you have a 6 pack in which case it should be mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:02 AM
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Embrace the loneliness sister, normies are not your time 😤​
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:37 PM
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Never tried alcohol in my life. Not even one drink 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:33 PM
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Having a fwb is fun, but comes with some headache as well. A LTR with mutual attraction is definitely the best imo. For most men at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:28 PM
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They are honest with their actions. You just need to see data from online dating and see that a small % of men receive most of the attention from women to understand that physical attraction is something they value as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:25 PM
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If you could get laid on demand, woud you fuck with baddies or with mid to below average girls? I know my answer captain 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:10 PM
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I have a lot respect for veteran punters. Some of them have been doing it for over thirty years with well over a triple digit n-count. All for the love of the game. It's an expensive hobby though, but more enjoyable than grinding Tinder imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:02 PM
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Working can be much worse than neetdom, it depends. But yeah the bottleneck is usually the money
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:42 PM
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Men trying to cope with the fact that they aren't getting laid is a tale as old as time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:28 PM
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Damn you've been a NEET for 9 years? Respect brother, it's unironically a tough but honest life 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:20 PM
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I don't think I will be able to assimilate into work place, especially after these NEET years. I will always remember my first day of work. First monday of September 2017. My sleep schedule at the time was going to bed a 6am and suddenly I needed to wake up a 7 to go to work. That was brutal af. The first few days I felt like a zombie lmao But yeah if you're neuroA maybe work is not in the card for you. Hopefully your parents are cool with it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:11 PM
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Funnily enough it's only when I started to work 10 years ago that I started to shitpost on Reddit. During my NEET years (18 to 23 yo never forget) I was a hardcore no-life gaming 10 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:09 PM
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Keep looking brother. Dating as an autistic man is dating in hard mode. But I believe in you 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:59 AM
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Too bad. Well I guess you can still jerk off at least
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:53 AM
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I would never mask while dating either. But with autistic women it's more likely they won't be weirded out by all my autistic traits and can even relate to them / find them appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:43 AM
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You should go on a couple dates and get laid a few times as well. Always good to practice your game and bedroom skills
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:36 AM
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Try dating autistic women. Usually they are cool with it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:25 AM
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Internet showed women they have options, though a lot of women don't really like their options and prefer to opt out. For men, Internet showed them that they don't have much options and some got frustrated with this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:40 AM
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I'm a former FA man (lost my virginity at 28). My issue was simply being autistic. An autistic woman in my shoes would have tried online dating like I did and would have gotten very different results. Not necesseraly better ones mind you, she might have gotten assaulted / abused or worse for example, but very different results nonetheless. It's not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:19 AM
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That's not a reliable source
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:31 PM
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Yes but there are many more reasons that can make someone lose attraction to their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:09 PM
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Sexual attraction is far more complicated than that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:03 PM
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There are many reasons that can make your partner lose attraction, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:13 PM
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Dead bedroom is a clear sign that either your partner is not genuinely attracted to you or that they have such a low libido that sexual compatibility is impossible. Either way, it's a very valid dealbreaker and something people should try to vet as early as possible into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:59 PM
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Your whole post history is focused on one single topic. You often copy past your AI generated messages. This is 100% a larp account
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:37 PM
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Tbh on PPD women usually don't deny it. I've even seen women on here outright say that they'd dump someone if their dick wasn't up to their preference haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:26 PM
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I have to admit I had a good chuckle looking at your post history. You're the most obvious case of "man larping as a woman" I've ever seen haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:48 PM
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Attractive men gatekeep commitment. A lot of women struggle heavily with dating because they can't get the men they date to commit long term (usually this is due to them not being attractive enough to lock the men they are attracted to). The work analogy would be a company that pays like shit and can't find good employees as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:20 PM
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Redpill doesn't only says that looks matter. Redpill says that as a man if you want to become more attractive and attract women, you need to hit the gym at least 3 times a week, lift weights, eat well and get strong. This is definitely not something that is very mainstream or easily observable. In fact, a lot of people would totally disagree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:38 AM
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Lost it at 28 which is definitely pretty late even these days. But better late than never and it was great
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:30 PM
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Right I checked and the 2-3% is if you take into account people who die young (not taking into account infant mortality) so like someone dying in a car crash at 20 before having had the chance to have sex. If we discard those people who die young before getting laid, it depends on the country but yeah about 0.5% of men and women who die after the age of 35 die as virgins which is way lower than what I thought. So really even having a severe handicap doesn't necessarily mean you're going to die a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:00 PM
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Lost my virginity at 28, I was close of wizard status but didn't quite make it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:38 PM
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Lost my virginity in a LTR and even got a fwb afterwards as an autistic man. Not gonna lie I'm fairly proud of that, the tism is a serious handicap when it comes to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:38 PM
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Q4A: do you know someone 30 yo+ that has never been in a relationship? According to data around 2%-3% of people remain virgin all their lives, probably a tiny bit more lose their virginity but never have a LTR in their life. Anyway, I'll start. I'm penpal with a woman 41 yo. She is a 3/10 at best (not straight up ugly, but zero feminine feature). She identify as asexual + aromantic. She's also AuDHD. She work as a caregiver in a nursing home. She has never been in a relationship and has never di…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:25 PM
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This is the data for France. It's old data though but already shows the trend where more young women are in a relationship / have been in a relationship vs young men. What's interesting is that they do that kind of studies so rarely that the last data we have is 15 years old...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:58 PM
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Glad I clarified that for you then 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:39 PM
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Yes if you're dating them. I was talking about being uncomfortable talking about your sexual history with someone you're dating. Not a random first date, someone you're actually dating and exclusive with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:21 PM
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That's worse. This means you're dating someone that would shame you for your sexual history. Someone doing that must have atrocious self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:16 PM
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Please try to find an immutable characteristic in the future if you want actual fair "I wouldn't date you if you were ugly" but I mean, that's a given
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:17 AM
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It wouldn't bother me. But I'd tell her that I wouldn't date her if she was heavier. Fair is fair
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:55 AM
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People who are uncomfortable talking about their sexual history while dating are ashamed of it. Change my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:13 AM
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Appalling reddit interaction: user 1 (virgin): I've never been in a relationship, I can't seem to pick up women, there are no single women in my line of work, and I'm already 30. Should I give dating apps another try? No matter how hard I've tried, I've never had the chance to meet anyone. user 2 (delusional blue pill): This is an awkward question, and I’m sorry to ask, but: Are you working on yourself? Who are you? What makes you interesting? Relationships involve a whole set of social norms th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:18 AM
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Plenty of people like you. Check up /r/wallstreetbets you'll feel right at home!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:50 AM
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Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:49 AM
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How can you be poor when you spend so much time on PPD? Are you telling me Reddit isn't paying you for all your hard work? You gotta sue bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:11 PM
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Bro you should have went to the blind school... (sorry I had to :D)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:09 PM
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I wouldn't be pissed no. Not everyone fantasizes about "going nuclear" with the person they spend their life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:41 PM
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Still not illegal. If a man recognizes a children as his, it's on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:30 PM
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On the contrary, people finding dates and matches mean good publicity + a lot of those are just casual hookups so they won't delete the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:27 PM
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Lmao cheating on someone = being a legitimate psychopath? Haha you know that cheating isn't even illegal, right? Listening to you, you'd think cheating is as bad as raping or murdering someone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:24 PM
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Why would they be pissed?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:20 PM
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If my partner accused me of infidelity, I'd laugh it off knowing it's not true. I wouldn't go "nuclear", but you do you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:18 PM
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Sounds like a perfectly reasonable and appropriate reaction. Your husband is a lucky man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:09 PM
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Obviously, I was talking an accident that goes on the news. Even someone dying probably won't be enough, it'll need to be multiple people at once or a pregnant woman or something. But it will happen eventually especially as livestreaming gets more mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:18 AM
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You're on PPD so while you may not be autistic, you're likely to have some neuroA traits. Nothing wrong with it though. I'm very proud to be autistic, but yeah it makes dating harder for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:25 AM
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Hyper agency is everywhere, not only dating. Can't find a (good) job? Skill issue. Can't get laid? Skill issue. Unhappy? Skill issue. Struggling to date? Skill issue. The list goes on. We live in an hyper individualistic society so basically every problem someone has barring health stuff like cancer is a skill issue. When the reality is, we actually have low agency because 90%+ of someone's life is genetics + environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:22 AM
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As a man, I'm 100% in favor of extra paid leave days because of periods. The more days the better. It will make it that much easier to be hired as a man. Sorry ladies, but capitalism doesn't care about biology, only how productive you are and if you can't work a few days per month, you're not getting hired over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:12 AM
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I've said this before, but I think financial abortion should be a one time thing for every man. You get a suspended sentence, if it happens again, you're on the hook for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:09 AM
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Driving while livestreaming + reading chat is allowed where I'm from as long as the driver is not touching the phone with their hand when they drive. Obviously this shouldn't be allowed though and I'm sure the law will change at some point (probably after an accident involving someone livestreaming if we're being honest).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:00 AM
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It's easy to cum from masturbation too. If I fuck my fleshlight and orgasm, that's not my fleshlight "making me cum".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:15 PM
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If I have sex with a woman, I don't expect her to "make me cum". I expect us to discuss about our sexual preferences and then to have a good time with no pressure. If I have an orgasm that's the cherry on top, but not something I expect beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:07 PM
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I can feel insulted at someone "looking at me the wrong way". Doesn't make it rational. This woman didn't get used for sex. She had consensual sex after three dates, the man realized they were incompatible afterwards and broke up. Nothing wrong about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:51 PM
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this is why we tell women to not sleep with males unless she made him work for it. If you act like a sex worker, you can expect to be treated like one (fully transactional, no real feelings and unlikely to have a good time on the woman's part)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:45 PM
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She wasn’t looking for sex. She was looking for a relationship. Sex is important in a relationship so it's a totally reasonable deal-breaker. "Filtering" after sex makes much more sense than filtering before. Rejecting someone after sex is not treating it like a handshake, it's realizing a major incompatibility and acting like an adult about it (breakup).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:44 PM
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Yup and for some reason, women feel terrible after getting rejected right after sex. Which is my initial point; it's just sex. If he doesn't like you afterwards it's not personnal and there is no need to feel bad. On to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:34 PM
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Sorry to inform you, but there is no "connection" after only 3 dates. Just two strangers getting to know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:19 PM
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That's a pretty normal reaction among women, yes. No man is going to go on three dates with a chick, get laid, get rejected and feel terrible about it. At worst he'll wonder if he sucks in bed but that's about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:16 PM
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I was going to delete hinge about a month ago because I was getting so sick of seeing the same profiles… ended up matching with someone and we hit it off- or so I thought. After 3 dates, we slept together. Was that smart? No, but I’m 37F and was tired of the whole process and waiting. It had been literal years for me and this was a huge step I took. Now it’s over. I couldn’t match his sexual energy which was a dealbreaker for him. I feel so dumb for letting the feelings get me. and then: I regre…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:57 AM
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Buying when in a LTR where you think it's going to be lifetime is a no-brainer for me. Buying when you're single though I think you have to think about it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:09 AM
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As soon as I find my future wife, I'll buy an house in which we can grow old together 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:59 AM
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So I did some napkin math and if it's correct, if I buy an house and sell it after 5 years I'd lose about $35k vs renting whereas if I buy an house and sell it after 10 years I'd gain about $40k vs renting. Probably the breakin point is at around 7-8 years to have buying > renting in my case. This makes buying not worth it for me I think as I can't imagine staying in the same place on my own for the next 7+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:53 AM
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“she’s got another man on the line dude have some self respect.” lmao "she" isn't fucking with her orbiter hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:37 PM
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Nothing wrong with liking sex 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:58 AM
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Sure I don't disagree here. I'm only saying this is a totally different dynamic / perspective compared to men's dating approach. Like, can you imagine dudes talking about "avoiding fuck girls"? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:56 AM
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I think a lot of people don't really know what they want. More often they'll know what they don't want though. And in women's case they don't want "being used for sex". The problem is that it's very vague because well you need two people to have sex so it's not easy to see how one is being "used" and the other is not as long as everyone is consenting ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:40 AM
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Yes any woman can easily get at least one "quality" date per week with minimal effort (only signing up to one dating app and being on it like half an hour a day). For a man to get similar results you'd need to be either extremely attractive or to put an insane amount of effort (signing up on multiple apps, multiple hours per day + paying for it) on top of being above average (below average men don't get matches on apps). This is common knowledge though, but always a good reminder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:43 AM
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The assumption is that "sparse texting" (and still being "engaged on the apps" whatever it is) means the guy is only interested in sex. Yeah it's wild to make that conclusion so quickly, but that's how most women's experience on that sub (all 5 comments who replied to her to drop him) is which again is totally different compared to men's experience who basically never complain / worry about those things (instead as I said they'll vent about no matches / dates)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:21 AM
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It's wild. This is the latest one I saw: Looking for advice: We're 5 dates in across 6 weeks, and had sex on the 2nd date. When we're together, the chemistry is off the charts. Our conversation flows easily, sex is great, we get along well.... but he rarely texts between dates. I'm not a huge texter so I'm not expecting much, but he never initiates any convo except to plan a day to see each other. He'll reply with a genuine answer if I text him, but sometimes it's 24 hrs before he replies. We ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:05 AM
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Yeah that's what I meant by: (though it's still Reddit people ofc). Still the sub is way more "normie" and less bitter than PPD. But it definitely isn't representative of irl that I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:50 AM
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Been browsing /r/datingoverthirty lately when I'm at work (they have a DT just like PDD). The biggest difference I've noticed on that sub when it comes to dating between men and women is that women will often complain / worry / vent about being used for sex / attention whereas I've legit never seen a man complain about something similar (men will often vent about not getting matches / dates tho). It's a totally different dynamic / perspective. I know, water is wet. But still I find it interestin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:44 AM
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I ain't having sex with a woman before discussing at lenght sexual preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:31 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:29 PM
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And it's a deal-breaker if she isn't into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:26 PM
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Obviously. Sex with someone you don't want to is at best very uncomfortable, at worst straight up torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:24 PM
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would you say present parents are a need? parental love? Yes that's a need as well. If you have no parent / shitty parents, you'll have to find substitute(s) otherwise good luck for your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:17 PM
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Sex is definitely a need. It's not a vital need obviously, but good luck having a good mental health without access to quality sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:39 PM
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Yes. She's hot. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:54 AM
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A quick glance at your post history shows that your obsessed with your appearance so you'll probably fit right in once you get past the initial shock. Welcome to PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:47 AM
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I should see my fwb next weekend which I'm pretty excited about as we haven't seen each other in almost a month. The plan is as usual: playing some games, eating some food, maybe watching a movie and lot of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:38 AM
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I don't like work either, but you gotta pay the bills. It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:53 AM
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Considering the size and age of the universe, you can see being alive as a miracle and akin to winning the lottery. Or you can see being alive as being afflicted with a very rare form of terminal cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:52 AM
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She uglo?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:45 AM
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Probably way outside the norm haha I'm autistic, my ex isn't French and she's a weirdo (love her tho) and my fwb is autistic as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:02 AM
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Going on a vacation with my ex for a few days tomorrow. She told her bf that she's going alone and alreay he was pretty pissed, if he knew she was going with her "roommate" (she didn't tell him we were together), he'd be livid haha But at the same time, when she told him a month ago that she loved him (they've been dating for 6 months), he said "cute" lmao. Their relationship is a rollercoaster. As for myself, I'm feeling pretty good since I met my fwb three months ago. Turns out when you're not…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:44 AM
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The more degenerate, the better. If she's more degenerated than me, I'll want to marry right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:58 PM
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I think she's still a bit attached to him hence she wants to move on with talking to someone else. She didn't really like him as a person, but she really loved his dick haha And yeah she really wants to be able to filter any man that is looking for anything but a "long term-relationship" which I think Tinder lets you do if you pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:17 PM
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Pretty much yeah. It's refreshing that she's honest about it at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:59 AM
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Even if you tighten it, it's fully available online on Arctic Shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:50 AM
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She does strictly 50/50 in a relationship. She's looking for a man who is good looking (minimum 8/10), works out regularly, is active, has a decent salary and who wants to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:49 AM
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It's funny because there aren't many women who pay for OLD. Also she's usually extremly stingy (she saves 80% of what she makes) so it's extra funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:42 AM
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My ex is breaking up with her bf. It lasted like 6 months. She seems keen on being back on the market soonish, she's even planning on paying for Tinder lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:18 AM
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Thanks! If someone had told me this would happen at the start of 2026 I would have never believed it haha Faith in life restored
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:01 AM
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That's including the foreplay ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:46 AM
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Haha didn't time that but probably around 1h30 of pegging though obviously she wasn't actually fucking me the whole time. We did ton of sexual stuff though, basically it was a full weekend of fucking, playing video games and sleeping / eating. I only left the house once to get pizzas
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:39 AM
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That's the autism speaking. I like to time stuff a lot. It wasn't actually 48h but more like 46-47. She arrived at my place Saturday at around 5pm and left Monday at around 3pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:34 AM
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Yeah it's mostly about life stages. My sister is pregnant with her partner who is 18 years older (met when she was 23 and he was 41, now 28 and 46) but they were both working (they actually met at work) so it was kinda fine. With my fwb I'm 32 and she's 23 but she's still in school and never dated before so the agegap feels bigger and probably one of the main reason she wants us to stay friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:01 AM
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I'll never approach a woman irl not because I feel like I'm riskying anything, but because it makes me uncomfortable. On the other hand, having sex with strangers is risky yes, but it doesn't make me uncomfortable so I can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:54 AM
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Spent 48h with my fwb this week-end. She fucked me in the ass and took my anal virginity, that was pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:52 AM
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Yes. 3 months ago I wasn't and maybe next month I won't be anymore so I try to stay grounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:49 AM
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Thanks! Still can't believe it all started from an ad I posted on reddit. Especially as it's the second time this happens to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:44 AM
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Slept!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:33 AM
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Update. We spent 30 hours together. I splet during only two of those. It was preeeeeety crazy. She's coming over again this weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:12 AM
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Tomorrow is the day girls and boys. After talking non-stop with a girl for two months I'm finally meeting her irl for the first time. We saw each other butthole already so hopefully it goes well. Wish me luck PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:03 PM
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We met on reddit on /r/femdompersonals after I posted an ad. Less than a week after meeting online we already had a 7 hours phone call. We're both autistic which I'm sure you can imagine helped us bond quickly and makes our connection way hotter. We've had video calls, sex calls etc. We interacted for well over 300h at this point (yes it's been quite intense haha). Basically we both got very lucky and we both would like to have a FWB relationship to explore femdom together. Obviously I'm very ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:05 AM
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Hope so too! I'll update PPD afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:27 AM
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I'm submissive as fuck (my ex was saying I was 99% sub) and it hasn't been so easy to laid, but I might I've finally found someone who wants to fuck the shit out me and take my anal virginity which is very exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:23 AM
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11 more days before I finally meet irl this girl I've been talking to daily for the past 50 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:21 AM
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TIL you can easily see someone post history including deleted comments. Ngl I probably wrote some embarassing shit in the past that I wouldn't want some close people I know to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:20 AM
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Bro I'm on PPD, isn't it obvious? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:11 AM
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Thanks! Yeah I also don't like big gathering, the max amount I can tolerate is like 4-5 people at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:34 AM
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Autism happened, I stopped talked with her when I was about 14 and she was 11. But I wouldn't mind getting back in touch now at 31, we'll see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:27 AM
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Haven't talked to my sister in over 15 years. Looks like this might change this week and we might go for a coffee or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:05 AM
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Hmmm I see... As I said in another comment, I actually just started seeing a psychiatrist right now to get a formal autistic diagnosis. I've never tried therapy but maybe I should give it a try one day. My hurdle is struggling to date due to being autistic and I wonder if therapy could help with that. I suppose it wouldn't hurt to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:04 PM
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Hmmm I see. I just started seeing a psychiatrist right now to get a formal autistic diagnosis. I've never tried therapy but maybe I should give it a try one day. My hurdle is struggling to date due to being autistic and I wonder if therapy can help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:02 PM
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So that's a no, right? The thing is psychiatrists are actually fully reimbursed in my country whereas psychologists you usually have to pay from your own pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:57 PM
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I've always wondered whether seeing a psychiatrist is considered therapy or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:50 PM
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We're both full autistic, she's younger though so she doesn't have as much experience and wants to wait a bit before meeting irl which I'm very happy to (not hard when we're calling multiple hours every day and when I love everything about her).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:33 PM
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I agree brother. I hope my autistic queen will like me enough to give dating me a try, otherwise I'm already forever thanksful for having meeting her and I'm pretty sure we'll stay good friends regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:29 PM
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Damn you read this and feel no sympathy for the dude? The guy was a kissless virgin at 23, got with the first girl who showed interest in him because deep down he knew he had zero option. He stayed 6 freaking years with her despite probably being in a hardcore deadbedroom with zero mutual attraction and when he finally deluded himself that maybe he'll find something better and broke things off, he got hit by reality full force and has gone on only two dates in the past 8 years. When I read this …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:24 PM
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His post history is available, if you find a single comment that indicate he actually is a piece of shit I'll reconsider (I know you won't bother), but in the meantime I'll just assume you're making shit up especially as your account is 12 months old and this dude was a regular on PPD for way more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:14 PM
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He used her for 6 years and she stayed for that long and even got dumped in the end? Damn that fatty must have some insane rizz
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:09 PM
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Looking forward to that very much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:59 PM
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That's not the backstory I have. Props to him if he admitted doing such a massive fuck-up though, that takes guts (and not the litteral kind which he has plenty).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:58 PM
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Was browsing reddit on stumbled on a former PPD regular: https://np.reddit.com/r/ChatGPT/comments/1r1k5oz/openai_executive_who_opposed_adult_mode_fired_for/o4q91e0/ Sad to see my man is still struggling hard. He started Ozempic though, hopefully that help him out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:18 AM
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Autistic dating is pretty funny. We know everything about each other, spent over one hundred hours texting / calling, we've had phone sex, saw each other naked live... All that without meeting irl yet despite living in the same city. We'll meet for the first time end of march unless a change of plan happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:20 AM
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Well done. When is second date?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:42 AM
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How many dates have you done in the past year? Seems like you did a lot, doesn't it get tiring?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:58 AM
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Thanks for the encouraging words. Much appreciated 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:43 PM
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Thanks 🫡 I hope so, she lives 30 minutes away. But I don't mind taking it slow, we only started speaking one week ago
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:24 PM
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Same for me before yesterday. Blew that old record out of the water.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:59 PM
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Extremely fond memories (we broke up 2 years ago though, we'll see how I feel about it in a few years)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:50 PM
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I had a 7 hours phone call yesterday with a girl I met online. Wish me luck guys and girls, this actually looks promising.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:50 PM
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Trying to not get my hopes up with a girl I've been talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:02 PM
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I find that stuff mild. I can link you some truly degenerate profiles if you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:45 PM
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Thanks, I'll keep trying to make honesty prevail 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:39 PM
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I told her as much. I think deep down she kinda feels guilty about it, especially as she started dating a guy seriously a few months ago. But out loud she says that it's her life and she's not entitled to share that information, akin to someone saying they are not entitled to share their sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:13 PM
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She lies about it, I'm honest. Needless to say she's having more success than me so far :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:09 PM
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I broke up with my ex 2 years ago and we still live together so I think that answers the question :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:04 PM
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Lot of frustrated people on this sub, men and women. People tend to be delusional when they think there is no "incel" equivalent for women. There are absolutely women who are total losers with irrational hatred for the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:03 PM
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"I have literally 0 standards. Not a single woman has ever shown interest in me." It does deserve downvotes. Having "literally 0 standards" shows very low emotional intelligence and lack of self awarness. "Not a single woman has ever shown interest in me." --> this is also problematic for several reasons. First it's normal for the average man to never have woman show interest in you, as a man you have to be the one showing interest first. That's how it is. Second, this is a typical self-victimiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:56 AM
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Asking for a DNA test is not about that. It's about some men having an irrational fear. Women can't understand that fear since by defition they are the one giving birth so it's not even a question to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:36 PM
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Sure, as I said you should feel free to break up with a guy if he tells you he'll want a DNA test if you two have a baby. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:28 PM
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It's 2026, we do joint custody so he's not paying anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:26 PM
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If she asks me about it? Not an issue at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:32 PM
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It's just women taking it personally. Yes it's an irrational fear, but if you genuinely love your partner it's really no big deal to do a DNA test to reassure your man. Regardless it's a conversation to have before pregnancy and you're free to leave the dude if it's a dealbreaker then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:28 PM
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This has nothing to do with our conversation. Both men and women want a partner they find attractive, that's a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:48 PM
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Yes I understand that's what you think and I'm telling you I disagree. Men who struggle with dating tend to think it's because of their appearance when in reality it's usually something else. It has nothing to do with their own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:44 PM
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delusion is a false belief or judgement about external reality, held despite incontrovertible evidence to the contrary, as a symptom of serious mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:41 PM
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Disagree, it's delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:39 PM
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It shows what men thinks women value you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:36 PM
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My record was 3 months without going outside. That was quite a few years ago though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:36 PM
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takes care of me ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:33 PM
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You can enjoy something while realizing the other party enjoys it even more. For a woman to get off as much as the man during sex, a lot of things needs to go very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:38 PM
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Both are hot as fuck, but I'd prefer left to sit on me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:19 PM
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Lol "DNA test" is a famous PPD topics :D Personally I wouldn't care and I don't want children anyway, but I totally understand men who do care and want one. If a woman genuinely love a man, she won't get offended by this and will understand he just needs that reassurance. That being said, this is a discussion that should have happened way before pregnancy so the man fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:56 PM
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I mean it can be both. But it existed before as well, people paid for cam girls instead. Lonely + horny has always been a combination a lot of men experience (sometimes even while being in a relationship) and something easy to take advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:22 AM
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I've been going to a board game club for the past two years. It's a small group, about 20 regulars. We play "expert" games so almost only men. Funnily, two of the women who came semi regularly very quicky got in a relationship with someone from the group. One couple broke up, the other is more recent they are still together. But yeah just to say if you're a nerdy woman into stuff like mtg, heavy board games, dnd, warhammer etc. you're not having dating on tutorial mode, you're having dating on g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:05 AM
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She told her that she has a hard time coming during sex and to not bother with it and he listened. He's probably a bit selfish in bed but not more than the average attractive man I'm guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:59 PM
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The ones that post on PDD for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:57 PM
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That's true actually, but some are so autistic it's not as much of a turn off. I do agree that autistic men are basically cooked when it comes to dating though. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:40 AM
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Both ideally. I imagine myself as a bi switch girl to get all the fun :D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:12 AM
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Another reason why as an autistic guy I'd much rather date an autistic girl. Normie women get turned off quickly by the tism
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:01 AM
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Probably works with women who are submissive enough. But even then it probably only work once, just to confirm to them that they hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:58 AM
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Tbh I think if a guy is truly the nagging type he'll keep nagging regardless of what you say. I don't think her bf is super mature, but maybe he'll grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:13 AM
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Haha good one, but if there is something my roommate would hate even more than anal on herself is anal on her bf. She finds it totally emasculating and repulsive, she'd lose attraction right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:43 AM
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My roommate's bf really wants to do anal even though my roommate told him a few times already she'll never try it. She told him "I'll think about it when you manage to make me come". He said "well bring out your toys then". She said "that's your answer? you need to learn to use the tools that you have" Love the banter :D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:15 AM
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The blonde is hot tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:02 AM
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If I was a girl I'd be a massive slut and sleep around for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:56 AM
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I don't have access to degeneracy so no FOMO for me. If I had access to it (if I was into men or if I was a girl), I'd probably go nuts for a year or two and then settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:47 AM
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I think they are. They found a cheat code to get laid whenever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 04:08 PM
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We're rooting for you. How does it work for gay men tho? Those can easily have casual sex, does it mean gay men are superior to straight men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:57 PM
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Are you a superior man mister?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:53 PM
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Yeah she said she ate a lot of fast food. Still it's crazy to gain that much weight. Another colleague said she gained a similar amount during her pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:44 PM
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My colleague who gave birth a few weeks ago came today to show us the baby. She went from being 165 lbs to being 235 lbs. Pregnancy is brutal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:26 PM
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Props to them honeslty. I never would have been able to do a shit job, I just don't have it in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:18 PM
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I have long accepted that the only realistic way I'll ever meet someone is online. There is 99.99% chances I'll meet my hypothetical future wife on the Internet and 0.01% irl. Just how it is when you're a hardcore introvert that is also autistic + socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:51 PM
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It absolutely is a pretty good result for a woman because most matches actually interact with you. For men, the average match doesn't even reply let alone lead to an actual date yeah so 1 hour of work for not even 1 match is a terrible rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:32 PM
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Make a male profile on OLD someday, it'll be eye opening
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:52 AM
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Not really sure what you're talking about. We're talking whether it's worth it for men to to swipe randomly vs putting in the work. But again it's not really something a woman can understand unless you made a male profile before because the experience on OLD is so vastly different between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:39 AM
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It's simple really. You can do like this dude and get 6 matches with women you find attractive in 7.5 hours. Or you can get 50 matches in few hours and out of them there will be more than 6 that you'll find attractive. Hence swiping randomly > doing the work, especially as it require less effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:28 AM
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And if you're not having fun while doing it, you're doing it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:26 AM
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Gaining time. You really think it's worth it to spend 7.5 hours to get 6 matches ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:19 AM
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You could say the same about working tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:18 AM
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Findom is a cheat code :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:17 AM
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If I was a girl I'd be a pro domme. OF sounds fun at first but I'd get tired of it quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:12 AM
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With IA I'm not sure OF is a very promising career choice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:06 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1qaj5tb/i_34m_tracked_my_tinder_sessions_for_45_days/ Very good example why men on OLD don't bother and just swipe randomly. This guy does the work, is picky and his reward is 7.5 hours of work to get 6 matches. Not even 1 match per hour of work is insane, especially when you have a 3% match rate with right swipe (clearly above average)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:56 AM
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Intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:15 AM
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OLD is for three type of people: women men who already have success with women in real life delusional men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:12 AM
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Pretty good. 4 days weekend incoming in 1 hour
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:05 PM
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6'2 and 180 lbs. He'd have to be disfigured to justify staying with a 5'6 450 lbs landwhale
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:58 PM
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Exactly. Like my manager could easily check on the logs and see that I never connect on our work software during remote days because I don't work during those. But he doesn't do it because what matter is that the work is done in the end and the clients are happy. That's a good manager right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:58 PM
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It is a curse, I wish I could be happy priestmaxxing but alas
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:15 PM
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It sure is and it's equally crazy that the dude doesn't seem that bothered about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:08 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/casualiama/comments/1pz3yar/my_girlfriend_is_450lbs/ Men like this are why women have dating on ultra easy mode. Don't get me wrong I'm pretty desperate myself as an autistic guy... but this is absolutely next level
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:03 PM
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Doesn't surprise me at all. I'll never be able to go back to a manager that does any kind of micromanaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:42 AM
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Grok is absolutely based for writing erotica. So much better than chatgpt
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:50 AM
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One thing I've learned about work is how important it is to have a good manager. My manager leave me the fuck alone completely. He could easily notice that I don't work at all when I'm remote working but he doesn't care to check because as long as the work is done in the end, that's all that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:18 AM
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Nudes will soon be irrelevant since you'll be able to generate anything with IA anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:57 AM
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I spend 1500€ / month average and live very comfortably. I make 3000€ / month so I save half of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:53 AM
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Total. +18k€ from saving and +10k€ from stock market (I invest in MSCI World and not SP 500 so the returns were a bit better this year, usually SP 500 performs better)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:32 AM
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+28k€ net worth for me this year. Last year was +32k€ so a bit worse this year but still pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:17 AM
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My options are limited so I can't be too picky. It's not such a massive dealbreaker for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:16 AM
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I'd much rather date someone who is experienced but once again I met someone who is totally inexperienced rip
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:37 AM
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Good job!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:35 AM
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Nope I got laid in 2023 and 2024 (lost my virginity at 28), but 2025 nothing happened except a few sessions with sex workers though I don't count those because getting laid with sex workers is incredibly easy and also not fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:30 AM
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Happy new year PPD. As always my usual question to you guys and gals: Did you get laid in 2025? Do you think you'll get laid in 2026? In my case I didn't get laid in 2025 :( But I'm rooting for myself to get laid in 2026, I think there is a real chance it'll happen. I'll keep you guys updated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:13 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/LivestreamFail/comments/1q0awtw/idubbbzs_wife_tells_us_why_she_doesnt_want_to/ Lol she's absolutely unhinged and that dude is the biggest BB on the planet lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:37 PM
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I'd assume most men don't care if the girl doesn't orgasm during sex as long as the girl says she's ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:20 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/1pz2z7m/oc_dating_statistics_of_a_30yearold_female_in_2025/ More dates in a year than 99% of men will have in their life. Some women are so incredibly picky it's mind-blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:03 PM
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Shhh don't tell her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:31 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:31 PM
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What's to not believe? That's a pretty funny way to say you're into tall guys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:58 PM
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He's going to hell for sure. Let's pray for him sister
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:56 PM
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He asked permission to the husband. As long as you ask for permission, fucking around is allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:51 PM
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You don't ask daddy for permission when you want to fuck your hot autistic roommate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:49 PM
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I was tested a few years ago, but the results were inconclusive on whether it was ADHD or bipolar. So they said bipolar and put me on a med that made me got from 270lbs to 400lbs in a year. This sums it up pretty well too :D Can't say her husband is a lucky man despite the bjs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:36 PM
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Oh damn you're right. When I made my comments I was able to see multiple posts where she posted her face (obese, terrible haircut) but not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:23 PM
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When you see someone talking about their sex life on reddit, remember that they usually look like this (check her post history)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:12 PM
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If a woman rarely initiate sex and get offended if she ever gets rejected then she isn't worth dating tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:19 PM
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It's possible but I doubt it considering he just moved out from a city that's 800km / 500 miles away and he also hasn't told us that he has a partner. I wouldn't even be that surprised if it was the case tho, I'm turbo autistic and still managed to be in a LTR once so anything is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:31 PM
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This would imply the woman initiates sex regularly which is something most men never experience in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:28 PM
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My new colleague is my age. He's pretty friendly and seems like a nice dude. Has "young people energy" too with how he speaks and what he eats. My god is he ugly though. Perfectly regular skinny body, but his face is legit 3/10. Dental work would help a bit but overall he definitely got fucked over by genetics. Based off his looks alone I'd venture that he struggles heavily with dating and I feel for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:51 AM
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Why would a man never want to go in vacation with a platonic friend of the opposite gender unless he's some hardcore redpiller? :D On the other hand you totally have men who offer vacation to women they don't know much either in a "nice guy tm" fashion and those ones will expect sex and men who offer vacation more in a "orbiter / beta male" fashion and those ones will be hoping for it. I'd be willing to bet the woman who was asking this question on Twitter was talking about something like that, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:09 AM
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There was a Twitter post where a woman asked if you go on vacation with a man should he “expect” sex? Women who ask this aren't paying 50/50 for the vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:53 AM
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If the vacation was paid 50/50 it was your friend. If he paid for it, it was your orbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:49 AM
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Men can't imagine feeling pressured for sex so they can't relate to women who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:48 AM
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I wouldn't go as far. Many women won't do anal just because they are sleeping with a guy they find hot. But I do think women are willing to experiment much more in the bedroom and even do things they don't particularly enjoy (but don't outright hate) if they are attracted enough vs with a guy they find less attractive. Overall, being attractive is an insane privilege. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:06 PM
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We were both virgin when we met. I had some experience with sex workers but mostly bdsm stuff. She had zero experience whatsoever. Well for the break up to be totally final someone has to leave and move somewhere else. I don't want to move out as I don't want to live alone and she doesn't want to move out as she is quite stingy with money and she's saving quite a bit by having a roommate. But the "final" breakup will probably happen in sometimes during 2026 so I don't see any harm getting entert…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:01 PM
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That's like, your opinion man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:52 PM
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No I ask questions and she answers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:34 PM
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You're obviously illiterate since you can't even read that I've mentioned several times how she goes to his place...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:26 PM
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I love how all those people who obviously never had an ex are calling me a cuck :D
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:15 PM
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We broke up close to 2 years ago so I'm fine. If anything it put our relatonship in perspective and allow me to reflect positively on the good times while also realizing how not compatible we were.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:55 PM
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She's my ex there is nothing cuck about it. If it makes you feel better, we'll replace "ex" by "roommate"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:29 PM
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Sure but it's still not cucking, I have zero sexual attraction toward her neither does she. From now on I might just call her "my roommate" to avoid the tiring cucking jokes tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:23 PM
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Because it's entertaining to me. I don't have much experience with dating so hearing in details how normies date is very interesting / fascinating to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:13 PM
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Another cucking joke, how original... she's my ex bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:11 PM
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Update. TW: a bit sexual. So last update I was saying that my ex was starting to lose attraction for the chad, but that didn't last very long as she went to see him anyway on saturday 6 and spent the night at his place. They fucked again, this time he came while she sucked him off. That was a first for her and while she almost gagged on the cum and she did spit it out, I think she'll get used to it though even if she says she'll never swallow. She thought it was better than first time, she just …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:06 PM
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She sounds like a fun girl :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 11:07 PM
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I'm aware that reality accommodate normies but I'm not going to accommodate them on the Internet and if people don't believe me because they have a hard time understanding that neurodivergent brain is very different than their normie brain then again Idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:37 PM
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That sounds reasonable. That dude definitely isn't reasonable on the other hand
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:35 PM
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Oh I know normies will find it weird but I've long stopped giving a fuck about what normies find weird on the Internet. Already IRL I have to mask so I'm not going to make any effort online
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:32 PM
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Did you fuck her raw within one month of meeting her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:30 PM
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She only fucked once with him so far... they've just been texting this week and since she was supposed to meet him tomorrow she told him about her not really wanting him to come inside her everytime. And that's when he showed his true colors (in my opinion, I'm not sure what will happen next)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:26 PM
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She's on the pill but it's not 100% and she could forget to take it. As for testing it's my ex who had to insist on a HIV test at least... that dude is definitely SUPER careless and if I was a girl I would definitely not let him fuck me raw lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:22 PM
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I know you have bad memory despite being here 24/7 but I've told many times that I'm autistic. I'm not exactly 'normal' brother
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:16 PM
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I'm the one who's asking about it, I find it extremely entertaining. People rarely tell in details their dating process because they are too normie so this is fascinating to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:04 PM
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I know right it's crazy. It was hard to keep a straight face when my ex told me this...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:03 PM
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She's my ex brother, we broke up almost two years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:00 PM
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What's rage bait about it? But no it's a 100% true story that I find very entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:58 PM
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Update. I know I wasn't supposed to update so fast but something hilarious came up so I had to. Basically my ex told the chad she wasn't keen on him coming inside her everytime they fuck. I kid you not, the chad litteraly told her 'to me this makes the experience whole and the fact that you don't want to do it makes me think you're not that into me' LMAO!!! I know I've called him a chad from the start, but this dude is more like a high tier normie. He is barely 6'1, doesn't go to the gym so whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:53 PM
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Still not cuckolding.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:06 PM
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Uno reverse: "You don't look like you could handle a successful man."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:16 PM
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How is it cuckolding if we're not together anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:58 PM
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Yeah apparently his exes didn't treat him well... right. I don't think the dude is a massive douchebag though, but he is also no saint. We'll see, time will tell for sure. Haha she does joke about wanting to have a 'hoe phase' but I don't think she has it in her. She's definitely the LTR 'sex once a week' type of gal and she just need to find her chad who feel the same (easier said than done I know).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:48 PM
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For a LTR that makes perfect sense. But for something more casual I see little reason to not go for someone as attractive as you can get if you have the option. With unlimited choices I'd like my friend with benefits to be a solid 9/10 perfect body and good in bed whereas for a LTR I'd probably be happy with someone around my looksmatch that I find attractive, low maintenance and with similar interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:29 PM
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For LTR I agree. But for a fuck buddy or a hookup I see no reason to not fuck someone you find insanely attractive if you have the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:26 PM
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It's really a wild demand in planned encounters for hetero stuff. (not that its wise for gay stuff but PrEP gives a false sense of security) The reason a lot of hook ups lack it is substance use. That's my thought on it as well especially when it comes to seemingly educated people. I even asked about it on /r/datingoverthirty and most people were agreeing it was a red flag for a dude to ask this. He's her second? No offense but in that case I doubt it was even good lol she's just telling herself…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:25 PM
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Perhaps, so you would agree the average man is 'mediocre' and not worth dating whereas the average woman is a better prospect?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:04 PM
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You're kinda burring the lead that this guy is having trouble finding a woman to go along with his rawdog thing. That means most women are actually staying away from him. There was another dude who argued it's actually not hard to find a girls who want to fuck raw but I totally agree with you. Especially considering that while the guy is certainly above average, he is not gigachad level that women would throw themselves at him. Your ex sounds like she lacks enough experience to safely and wisely…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:01 PM
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Vast majority of the population doesn't go to therapy so that seem pretty marginal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:56 AM
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Yeah that's because attraction is a given for a woman. They have so many options that they don't even register the men they aren't attracted to. Again you can see how those women call men 'mediocre' is not the same how you call the average woman 'mediocre'. For you a mediocre woman is a 5/10 with a regular job and education. For them a 'mediocre' man is someone they find attractive at first, but that they quickly realize is not worth dating due to being a 'mediocre' bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:43 AM
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In what way were they decribing men as mediocre? There was a comment that got upvoted that went into details about this. Basically the tldr was mediocre men are: not emotionally available don't do 50/50 on household chores because of either laziness or being bad at it are source of 'mental load' for the woman who has to take care of the majority of it are misogynistic with women they are not close of, often without really realizing it Would you describe 'mediocre women' in a similar way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:21 AM
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Better in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:05 AM
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That's the difference. You'd be willing to date a mediocre woman. Those women would never be willing to date a mediocre man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:05 AM
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What about the average woman? Do you feel like the average woman is mediocre and not worth dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:00 AM
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Do you also believe the average woman is 'mediocre'?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:58 AM
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I don't go on /r/AskWomen but we have an equivalent in my language (/r/AskMeuf) and I find it fascinating in a disturbing way how the women there are totally fine calling men 'mediocre' (specifically how most men are 'mediocre' and not worth dating). I know reddit is not reprensative of real life, but even irl I wouldn't be surprised if more and more young women share this sentiment that the average man is 'mediocre'. Idk I find it pretty shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:46 AM
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I mean, I assume the peasant was envious of the nobles and felt like life was unfair the same way we feel it's unfair how low value men struggle with dating. Perhaps the peasant wasn't fully aware of how much he was getting fucked over and I do agree that ignorance is bliss. But overall I'd still take my life over his every time. I see your point though and I think it's a fair one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:27 AM
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Probably yeah. But tbh if you had unlimited options on OLD, would you fuck a girl who's your lookmatch or would you go for an instagram babe? I know my answer lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:19 AM
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I'm willing to bet guy 2 is her looksmatch but guy 1 is better looking than her, gets to nut in her for free Honestly she's pretty cute, I'd say 6.5-7 with potential to be an 8 if she put some more effort into her appearance, mostly by gaining a good 10 lbs. She also didn't pick a gigachad, the guy is more like high tier normie. But yeah it's good enough she's letting him nut in her for free whereas she definitely wouldn't allow that with an average looking guy :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:08 AM
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Yeah she started her AF journey kinda late tho, she's almost 30 with a n-count at 2. I think she's not into sex that much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:01 AM
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If I'm reading this correctly that's still a lot of people who use condoms? I thought it'd be much lower tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:58 AM
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Yeah I share that feeling. But tbh if we're being rational for a second, we're still pretty fucking lucky to be born in the 90s rather than Idk 100 years ago and having to go to ww2 or some shit. Basically: it could have been way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:54 AM
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I mean when it comes to my ex she would 100% rather fuck with condoms but the dude basically told her it's not an option. Let's be honest, no condom benefit the man more than it does the woman (though as a guy I'd be so afraid to get hooked on child support I'd never do it with a girl I just met).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:48 AM
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Yeah that's kinda mind-blowing to me because women have unlimited options so why go with a guy that wants raw sex? The dude told her he hasn't fucked anyone in the past 3 months, but obviously he could be lying. I do agree she's taking unnecessary risk, but well she's clearly horny af :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:42 AM
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I'm calling him a chad but tbh he's more like a high tier normie. That + the fact that he wants to have raw sex I'm guessing he doesn't have that many options. Probably why he seemed more than willing to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:33 AM
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Update. So she ditched guy 2. She told him something along the lines she was getting more serious with someone else but that she was open to staying friend. The guy didn't reply lol She did end up seeing the chad last week-end. They made some last minute plan and she spent the night over. Then this week-end she spent the night over again at the chad place and they had sex for the first time (so after about a month of meeting each other). She had a good time but nothing mind blowing and she didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:24 AM
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Sorry to hear about it bro. It can be a brutal quest, no shame in pausing it for a while to focus on other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:01 PM
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Happy thanksgiving to my american bros yeah. How's the wife quest going btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:53 PM
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Never said it was surgery. Horrific results though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:50 PM
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I've been catfished before and tbh looks like a lot of green flags so far. If you want to be 100% sure before meeting her you can just have a video call. Very hard to fake that. But otherwise just go ahead and meet her, worst case scenario it's a dude who won't show up. Otherwise sounds like you hit the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:47 PM
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What's the backstory here. You met a girl on reddit who wanna hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:39 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/comments/1p5doj0/then_vs_now_wicked_cast/ Many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:38 PM
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There was a dude on reddit who did this and he was very happy about the results. He started with self medication and then his doc went along and prescribed him the meds. IIRC it's not too risky from a health PoV but there are some side effects such as body hair growing much less, possible man boobies and just in general it can change the way you think and act. But again the dude was very happy about the results so for some it can be positive, but it is a pretty extreme solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:26 PM
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I've been on PPD DT for over 4 years now and there are definitely been virgin women on here. But the DT is basically completely dead these days. At some point we had 2k+ daily comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:49 PM
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I wouldn't be opposed to this. But tbh on this sub you have as many virgin women who are clueless so it definitely goes both ways :D
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:54 AM
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Hot men are (just from what I've seen) harder to bag and "settle down." If women could turn super-fuckable idiot into husband , they probably would, but you realize quickly that the desired outcomes are untenable. So it's not that women are trying to get their reckless fucks with the hottest men before finding a man that's less attractive (to control or use or screw over). It's that you realize that a decent-looking guy who isn't trying to party forever is just...way better. A normal person who …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:36 AM
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As long as you're alive it means you haven't given up. People who have truly given up are no longer with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:34 AM
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I've rarely seen women argue that being an average joe is better than being a chad lmao. It'd be like arguing that making average salary is better than making bank haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:27 AM
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Was this written by you or a quote? I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:13 AM
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Ah I see. Well in that case doesn't hurt to try again for a few weeks. You never know. Just need to get lucky once.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:08 AM
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Understandable. So you haven't had a date out of it so far? I also tried OLD twice and lost interest quickly. I know I'll try again in the future though, but without much expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:01 AM
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What have you been your results on OLD in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:54 AM
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It's tall enough. As long as you're taller by 10cm than 90% of girls where you live, you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:35 AM
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There is a switch and it's called chemical castration. The issue is the side effects that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:02 AM
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You'd be doing fine in the west as well. Dating is not particularly hard for tall dudes that look somewhat masculine. Average nerdy guys on the other hand tend to struggle a lot especially on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:00 AM
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My dad was a virgin until he met my mom at 28. He had also read close to 2k books by this time. He couldn't make a meal to save his life tho :D
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:09 PM
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When it comes to money, I'd rather be born in a rich family than in a poor one. When it comes to job related stuff, I'd rather be a man than a woman. When it comes to dating, I'd rather be a woman than a man. Just some common sense stuff really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:44 PM
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I'll be doing better in 3h when I'm home from work. But other than that doing fine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:35 PM
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When men divorce, they lose their maid, their housekeeper, personal cook, nanny, project manager, and sex object. When women divorce, they lose their older, balder, fatter son. Imagine having dating on ultra easy mode and still ending up with such a one sided relationship. Hard to feel bad for those women tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:05 PM
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Depends what you mean by paid sex. If it's allowed to take a flight to Uganda and to download Tinder then I'm 100% confident I could easily get laid that way. Getting laid in my city if my life depended on it within a 6 months frame though? That one would be tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:48 PM
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Not a virgin, but I can't blame myself for being autistic. If anything I'd blame my parents, but they had good intentions so I let it slide.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:58 PM
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Matured? The dude looks like he got out of a concentration camp lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:34 AM
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I understand that not everybody can have a success story like PewDiePie, but that Idubbbz guy obviously fumbled HARD. The fact that there is even a slight chance it was due to the girl he married is kinda funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:22 AM
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You can find a few like him on /r/FA30plus Back during my lonely days I was browsing /r/SanctionedSuicide a lot (has been banned a long time ago). That sub was grim af, but there was also a lot of very smart people on there. You shouldn't feel angry about people rage baiting on the Internet though. That's exactly what they are looking for. Just ignore it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:54 AM
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The first time I met my ex 5 years ago we booked an Airbnb for two weeks. I think it was in the 18th. We saw quite a few asian hookers in the street and during one of the last few days she got her credit card stolen by romanian girls and they emptied her bank account. RIP the Paris experience
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:22 AM
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If I was a chad, I wonder if I'd be confident enough to cold approach and flirt with women I meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:18 AM
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A PPDer in my city. We'll be at least two
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:14 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/LivestreamFail/comments/1p58q29/idubbbz_begging_his_viewers_to_subscribe/ This dude is a OG youtuber, I remember watching some of his videos like 8 years ago. Apparently he has completely fallen and is now a total loser. What's interesting is a lot of comments are suggesting his fall is due to the girl he married. Some funny / insightful comments: His first crumb of pussy destroyed this man. ; Was an edgy content creator who made some of the best golden age YouTube conten…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:46 AM
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Can't answer because I know who the girl on the left is but don't know the girl on the right so my judgmement is biased. For what it's worth though, I'd smash both
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:39 AM
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Sounds a bit sketchy. I'd rather have a regular sugar baby arrangement, but that shit is expensive af
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:38 AM
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My take has always been that hiring escorts doesn't increase your n-count because of how easy it is. Or at the very least, we should differentiate between n-count with regular girls and n-count with sex workers. Like fucking a hooker is like playing GTA with unlimited ammo and invincibility on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:36 AM
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I think people assume I'm normal when in reality I'm autistic af lol I'm really good at masking, mostly by staying extremely quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:28 AM
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Update. She met guy 2 today and it confirmed for her that she has zero sexual attraction towards him. She's getting strong autistic vibes from him and overall he's way too subby for her so she's going to go with the 'let's be friends' line. As for the chad, apparently he's been acting a bit distant, she's not exactly sure what he wants. She's kinda down to fuck him and leave it at that, but she's not really sure how to proceed. Probably she won't see him this weekend and she'll go see her friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:26 AM
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Fuck I have 7h to kill before the weekend and I have nothing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:06 AM
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Agree. A man who has slept with dozen of escorts in the past doesn't have to tell that to a potential partner. It's none of her business
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:09 AM
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I don't really think I do tbh. I do glaze over chads and baddies though. Like if I'm out walking with my friend and notice one, I'll definitely point it out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:38 PM
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Lost my virginity at 28 and only been in one relationship so far. I have zero regret and in general don't really care that much about the past. I'm more concerned about the next ~30 years and how much success (or lack of) I'll have in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:50 PM
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It's not really a yellow / red flag for me, but also it kinda depends why she is an older virgin. Like depending if it's due to trauma, religion, social anxiety or very low libido / being asexual it might not a be an issue at all for me or a slightly yellow flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:47 PM
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Yeah agree but she's new to this OLD thing and I think she's a bit too nice to reject guy #2 yet. And keeping him as a second option in case the chad let her down probably brings some comfort though I'm just speculating here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:23 PM
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My ex did medical school so she's a bit more educated than the average girl I guess lol And after doing some research on STDs she's even more determined to get tested before letting a random dude put his dick inside her. But good to know hookup culture often doesn't involve condoms much less testing. Can't say I'm too surprised though, the average person is a moron haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:21 PM
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You wouldn't get tested before fucking raw? My parents definitely did that after fucking with condoms for a while though to be fair back then everybody was super scared of AIDS
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:16 PM
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She actually doesn't want him to nut in her and will ask him to pullout. And yeah that's exactly the kind of stuff I find entertaining lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:10 PM
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To be fair I can somewhat understand that. I'd probably go crazy as well if a top percentile woman acted like she wanted to fuck me. Difference being of course that this doesn't happen to men like it happens to women haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:10 PM
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The other guy she really clicked with him on a friendly level, but no attraction yet. I think she's keeping him as a second option in case it doesn't work out with the chad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:07 PM
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So? We broke up a long time ago, she's free to fuck whoever she wants. I find it entertaining if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:00 PM
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To be fair that's pretty uncharacteristic of her. Meeting a chad for the first time seems to have dickmatized her. OLD is one hell of a drug for girls I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:56 PM
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I thought ntr means having your partner taken away
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:54 PM
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We broke up almost 2 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:37 PM
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Update. She met the chad on saturday and they spent about 10h together. She's extremely keen on fucking but since the dude wants to fuck raw she wants them to get tested first and she hasn't dared to ask him to yet lol Other than that she'll probably meet guy 2 on thursday again. Next update most likely end of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:30 PM
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I wonder how many of those lead to a LTR tho... I bet no many haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:51 AM
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Yeah she takes it at the same time every day and she almost never miss it because then it fuck with her period. But still it'd be crazy to fuck raw from the first time lmao though she might consider it as she's quite in a horny phase right now :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:49 PM
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For sure I'd be very surprised if she went with guy 2. She's already talking how she'd like to be friend with him lmao But guy 1 I think there is no chance she'd have a LTR with him, at most it'd be a FWB situation. We'll see tho, I didn't even expect she'd jump into OLD like that so she might surprise me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:48 PM
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Here abortions are free, but yeah she probably would rather avoid that. She's on birth control tho and I'm not sure how likely it is to get pregnant when you take the pill. I think it's pretty low
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:44 PM
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I agree the 2nd guy is doomed to fail, but the first one seems like a fuck boy tbh. Who ask a girl to fuck raw after two dates? They haven't even had sex yet, just some kissing. I think she should keep looking, it's not like she has any risk to run out of options lol But also she can keep dating both for a while and see what's up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:43 PM
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I think she's more worried about STIs though it's true that getting pregnant would be just as bad if not worse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:41 PM
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Update. So she met with the dude and he is indeed short, but not too bad. So right now she's not sure who to go with between: guy 1: chad, 6'1, master degree but apparently not a super good job, into motorcycle (did some competitively), confident, masculine, want to fuck raw because apparently he doesn't feel anything with condoms guy 2: nerdy, 5'7, PHD and going to start his own company next year, very smart, seems nice but maybe a bit too nice (as in too subby), very similar interests I do adm…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:36 PM
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I make 66k / year and I pay 14k / year for retirement alone. After all taxes, my take home is 3k / month. Tfw when you live in a socialist country
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:03 PM
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Comparison never made sense to me. It always made sense to me as in a lot of women are turned off by short guys like a lot of men are turned off by fat women. The fact that you can easily fix being fat seems totally irrelevant to me since the topic is attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:18 AM
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My ex is a hot girl in her 20s so that makes her options quite good. Also the fact that she doesn't speak the language is a pretty good filter as the only men who speak English here are educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:25 AM
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From what I've seen, a surprisingly high amount of men would love to get pegged by a hot girl. Unfortunately for them, there doesn't seem to be many women who are keen to be the one doing the fucking :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:55 AM
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Kinky as fuck and a switch (which probably rule out like 95% of women already :D)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:29 AM
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My ex got on Tinder last week. Although I know about OLD dynamics for a long time now, it's the first time I get to see it happen live which is quite entertaining. So far she met a chad twice and today she's meeting an average dude. She's afraid he is going to be shorter than her :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:21 AM
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Ofc is it. Annual average growth of the stock market for the past 70+ years is about 7-8%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:10 PM
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Damn, insane story
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:09 PM
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Damn, brutal data for american men. Large gap between US men and US women too (25% vs 18%)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:06 PM
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/r/LivestreamFail
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:14 AM
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Ah I knew he wouldn't last long, though maybe he'll be back who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:44 AM
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Yeah this came up a few times on LSF as well and is totally true imo. Hasan having an army of women defending him is 100% due to him being insanely attractive and certainly not due to his (awful) personnality lmao. Too bad nobody made a thread about it because it is quite interesting - though not surprising. Also I didn't know before, but he is a nepo baby and his parents are rich rich. Dude got absurd genetic luck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:43 AM
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After the Hasan drama we're getting the Mizkif drama. That one even made his way on PPD :D
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:22 AM
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Where is the indian conservative dude, is he still posting?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:18 AM
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Hot it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:18 AM
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No clue who is this, but looking at google he looks quite younger than his age? A bit like Tom Cruise. I assume he got some work done
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:16 AM
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Depending the gender of who sent this: low key hot or low key creepy :D
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:14 AM
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Also it sounds like there's a backstory, why is she accusing him of emotional abuse, stalking, harassment and threats of blackmail. It wasn't just a kiss They were in an actual relationship for a while after that (yes she dated him despite the red flags lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:12 AM
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Abortion is not illegal in first world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:31 AM
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My dad had read close to 2k books when he met my mom. He was also a 27 yo virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:16 PM
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So am I. 30 years and some left before retirement, rip
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:52 PM
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Account created one month ago You won't stay on PPD for long
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:50 PM
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What you linked is talking about violence in general, including sexual violence. Yet you said: Something like 1 in 3 women have been sexually assaulted in their lifetime. So what you said was incorrect? Because while getting beaten black and blue is assault and a traumatic experience, it is NOT sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:28 PM
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Only someone incredibly privilegied would say no to this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:45 AM
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Open AI will apparently allow users to generate "sexually explicit" content on ChatGPT from december 2025 (will need age verification). Curious to see how far they'll go in what they let people generate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:04 AM
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Yeah that's fair, I've heard other normies tell that this sub is a bit like going to the zoo and I can see it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:41 PM
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I really don't see the appeal of this sub if you're not on the spectrum. But I'm autistic so I'm biased ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:30 PM
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Haha that's cute. Well now you can tell your partner that you've heard Faker won today and that he doesn't get sent home from the first day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:19 PM
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Most men are not overweight, deformed or mentally ill. They are normal and healthy. Stupid comparison. But most women who have never went on a date from OLD (aka the majority of women) don't feel any attraction toward random guys on OLD the same way you don't feel any attraction toward men or 250 lbs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:17 PM
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Have you guys been following the Hasan drama on LSF? That shit has been so fucking entertaining lmao. Peak content since the PirateSoftware drama
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:14 PM
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My partner is a big Faker fan Who isn't? And yes Faker has been the face of T1 (and LoL esport) for the past 10 years+
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:11 PM
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Me going on grindr would be if I put someone else pictures on tinder and or lied about height. No you can totally tell that you are straight and lonely and not sure what you're looking for and I guarantee you that you're going to get a lot of matches and offer for dates on Grindr Rejecting your matches is not the same as having no matches. If all my matches were 250 lbs women, I'd feel exactly the same as if I had no matches so I disagree with your argument here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:08 PM
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T1 won. Worlds are saved
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:55 PM
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So you do agree that getting a date is pointless then. What matter is getting a date with someone you find genuinely attractive and where that attraction is mutual and sincere. And guess what? A lot of women struggle with that. Is it a skill issue especially considering they have dating on ultra easy mode compared to men? Sure, but that's another topic to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:51 PM
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I'm pretty sure men can get a date for the next day as well if they want to. They just need to use Grindr instead of Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:42 PM
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T1-0IG that was a pretty big throw from IG, if they couldn't win that one, can't see them having any chance to win the series tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:57 AM
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I checked her twitter and she went from a 1 to a solid 7-7.5. Pretty impressive indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:24 AM
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If I could edit her, I'd make her kinky as fuck and a full on degenerate like me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:39 PM
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Accurate. Saw a girl on GW the other day, she legit gained 2 cups from pregnancy (while staying hot as fuck)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:38 PM
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I have an important question Mr Dickpiller: does it also apply for anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:35 PM
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The goat. And it's not close
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:32 PM
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Trust me brother, women don't see guys like you and I as threatening at all haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:18 PM
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Reminds me of one of the most epic thread I saw on reddit. It was on /r/sex Mom (OP) is your typical open minded woman in her 40s. Her teenage daugher is 16 and OP let her invite her boyfriend (also 16) and OP give them privacy so they can fuck in the daugher's room. OP even provides condoms. Then one day her daughter comes home with boyfriend AND another boy. Turns out she has TWO boyfriends (and they obviously know each other) and mom is VERY uncomfortable about this throuple. Hence the post o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:12 PM
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Why do men have to turn everything sexual :/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:16 PM
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OJ + bacon. Nothing else I like on this list for breakfast
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:41 PM
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Just be honest with him about all that. If he's a guy worth dating, he won't mind at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:22 PM
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Turn around. I only date short kings
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:55 PM
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I never blocked, never upvoted and never downvoted anybody on reddit. I can tell you the last time someone blocked me on reddit though. It happened a few days ago. A guy on my country sub got triggered because I asked him who was the person that caused him to have a nervous breakdown at work and when he deflected the question by making a stupid joke, I asked him if that person at work was a female colleague and if he had a crush on her (I had hints from his post history). He blocked me after tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:53 PM
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There is "caring" and there is actually changing your habits to not support "exploitative inudstry". The former might be common, but is totally pointless. The latter is extremely niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:49 AM
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How long did you two text for? Either way, if you didn't feel chemistry irl, nothing wrong with moving on to the next match. I'm sure you have plenty of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:48 AM
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Go for it bro. Worst case you lose a bit of money and best case you have a great time with a hot girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:45 AM
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"exploitative industry" lol do you think people feel bad for the employees when they go to McDonald's or that they feel bad for the children who made their Iphones? So why would they feel bad about having sex with an escort who has a higher hourly rate than a neurosurgeon haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:44 AM
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Totally valid question and he should go for it. If she's genuinely attracted, she'll either be more than willing or at least flattered and tell him she prefers to take it a bit slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:41 AM
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Yeah I think that's the excuse he used
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:24 AM
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Idk my grandpa is born in 1940 and strangely he didn't have to fight for ww2. No idea how he managed to avoid getting drafted. He did have to fight in Algeria tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:55 AM
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I've always found those thread kinda retarded because it's absolutely impossible to say how you'd have done if you were born at a different time. Maybe I would have done better if I was born during the 40s or 50s, maybe I would have done worse, I'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:20 AM
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I'd date an asexual girl though that's not my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:00 PM
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I'd fuck on the first date but I'd be perfectly happy to wait for as long as she wants, even if it means years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:59 PM
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Totally agree. There is definitely a lot of simplicity that comes with being unattractive and thus having so few options which makes being happy with what you get very easy. I'm not actually ugly, but I'm autistic which is a similarly very off putting characteristic when it comes to dating women. But it also means that if a woman is willing to date me despite my autism, she is very likely to be a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:57 PM
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You disagree because you don't understand how much pain and despair not being able to find a partner can cause. Be glad to be in this very privileged position.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:00 PM
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I didn't they were similar. I said each gender have a main distinct worry when it comes to dating. For men it's being afraid to not find a partner who is genuinely attracted to them and for women it's being afraid of getting hurt. I would absolutely not try to argue which one is worse, both are very valid worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:51 PM
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And I would argue being abused is worse I wouldn't. "who have it worse" debate are not very productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:46 PM
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Men are afraid to be settled for when it comes to physical attraction. Women are afraid to end up with someone who will abuse them. Both worries are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:43 PM
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No need to take birth control, just take it up the ass instead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:30 PM
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Honest that he'll struggle and that as you said he'll have to make up for it in the bedroom by being way better than the average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:24 PM
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Because it's a way to "get back" at someone for "upsetting" you. Pretty standard human behavior though obviously not one to be proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:07 PM
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They obviously don't see groping boobs randomly as physical affection. And tbh I can't really blame them, groping boobs is just horny monkey brain. That being said, I totally think men should strive to find a gf who like having her boobs randomly groped :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:44 PM
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Chads with porn addictions probably exists, but for sure they are getting laid regularly too so Idk how lonely they really are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:36 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/casualiama/comments/1nwnnbd/recently_got_diagnosed_with_a_micropenis_at_21_m/ Bro got gaslighted and made fun of so much, pretty brutal. Having a micropenis is definitely going to make it way harder for him to date and most women would absolutely care about him having a 2inches dick and yet almost nobody in the comments was honest with him about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:10 PM
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Are those AI generated? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:57 PM
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Normies don't really care about dating and genders dynamics. Even if they struggle with it, they won't put much thought about the whys and just carry on their day. The average human doesn't care much about understanding the world. This sub attract a very specific subset of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:41 PM
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It's funny because in english it's not so weird to use 'females' or 'males' to refer to humans. But in my language it's something absolutely nobody ever does haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:04 PM
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But during vacation it's so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:06 PM
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My ETF was 400€ / share when I started investing 4 years ago. Now we'll cross the 600€ / share point soon. Can't beat capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 12:47 PM
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He's a 27 yo virgin and apparently he's been trying to get laid since he is 15 yo. He's doing the whole dating thing really wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 12:32 PM
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My dream holiday definitely involves a loooot of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 12:27 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1nv9d8g/cutting_my_losses_with_old_nuking_all_my_accounts/ Data from a 27 yo virgin. I love tinder insights because they are a brutally accurate representation of how attractive someone is and where they stand in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:49 AM
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Snails are so tasty. I have them once a year during Christmas holidays with my parents. Looking forward to it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:41 AM
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Building the anticipation I see. Hopefully the climax will be satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:40 AM
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Idk being gay sounds pretty dope honestly. Access to casual sex on demand. I'd be happy if my (hypothetical) son was gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:38 AM
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You're waiting for him to make the first move?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:35 AM
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3rd date? It's getting serious. Have you two banged yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:31 AM
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She used you as her human dildo. Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:58 AM
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I have a sexual fetish and while I wasn't born with it, it developed from such a young age it might as well as been the case. Human sexuality can be quite weird and I don't think you can prevent someone from "becoming" gay no matter how much you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:57 AM
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Are you fit and muscular? Think Brad Pitt in fight club. That's step 1
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:33 AM
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Or they can become OF models and make bank. That's 100% what I'd do if I was a 10/10 girl at least
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:32 AM
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I've never taken any meds, drugs, alcohol or even coffee. I have a mild addiction to sugar tho, this one was too hard to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:31 AM
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I thought she was a baddie
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:19 AM
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Going raw? My man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:16 AM
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Bring a condom
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:50 AM
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Are you still a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:50 AM
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I wish I could fast forward my life to the point where I have a nerdy gf
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:49 AM
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I'm into stuff that are painful and gross and but I steer away from any illegal shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:48 AM
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Why act like platonic friends for months when we both want more than that? To build up the anticipation. You've never edged? You go straight to orgasm asap?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:43 AM
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Q4M: do you think vaginismus is a condition that can happen when the woman is truly attracted to her partner or do you think it can only happen if she's not really attracted to her partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:46 PM
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Maybe they are into hate-fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:42 PM
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People usually don't last very long on this sub, especially when they are very active right from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:35 PM
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Ah you probably won't last long then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:10 PM
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Have you really been on PPD for only 2 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:07 PM
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And PPD is a sub for the chads of society
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:59 PM
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'it's not about the destination, it's about enjoying the journey'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:45 PM
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Of course no lol But tbh I'm pretty sure if you're good friend with a dude, he'll tell you he's cheating with his gf knowing you can keep a secret
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:44 PM
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I wish I had that much certitude about anything in life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:34 PM
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Never say never. Sex without love can be fun too, just gotta be in the right mindset for it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:25 PM
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Ideally my future wife regularly post on /r/antiwork
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:19 PM
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No need to be poly to have some three-way action. Maybe you'll change your mind one day
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:15 PM
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My man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:10 PM
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It's not as long as you'd be fully supportive if they decided to become trans
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:09 PM
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A nice progression. First threesome at ~28? Or perhaps that's already done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:07 PM
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Absolutely and I'm glad it is. Makes it much easier to find someone I'm compatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:05 PM
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A lot of men are competitive and again if you want to actually be good at a game, you definitely gotta be a "gamer". When I'm invested into a game, I put in way more time, effort and energy than I ever do at my actual job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:01 PM
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The reason is to have fun, but yes I understand how that's a turn off for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:56 PM
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If you say you enjoy sex but only fuck with women and never fuck with men... Then you don't enjoy sex. You enjoy fucking women. You're goddamn right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:49 PM
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She caught you posting on PPD for sure. You're cooked brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:45 PM
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Q4A: at what age did you lose your condom virginity (first time PiV with a condom) vs your raw virginity (first time PiV raw). I lost my condom virginity at 28 but haven't lost my raw virginity yet. That's something to look forward to which is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:15 AM
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It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:38 AM
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I'm autistic so I guess I would have ended up with an ugly one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:31 AM
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I don't think it's always the gaming tbh but more what's associated with it. Gamers tend to be quite nerdy and not the most active people in general. Ofc that's a stereotype and it goes without saying that some huge gamers are also total chad, see Henry Cavill for example haha In which case I pretty sure most women wouldn't give a shit that the dude is a geek and likes to game in his free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:09 AM
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Something I realized is that there is almost no chance I'd be compatible and have a good time in a relationship with a woman who is turned off by gaming. It's a straight up total incompatibility for me I'm pretty sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:01 AM
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It's the "gaming lifestyle" that is a turn off for women. I don't even game that much these days, but I have 70h of free time per week and 90% of that is spent doing nerdy shit in front of a screen. That's a huge turn off for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:00 AM
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If you want to be good at something you gotta put in the hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:57 AM
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Sounds amazing on paper. Your parents helping you out to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:47 AM
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Fuck man I wish I had been born in a country where arranged marriage is the norm. Would have made my life much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:44 AM
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On average, it takes over 285 matches to find a relationship and 57 to land a meetup. But here’s the kicker—only 1.8% of men make it to the finish line, while women cruise ahead with a 36% success rate. Wow does that mean only 1.8% of men get a relationship off Tinder? This can't be a real stat, can it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:15 PM
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Interesting, I thought it'd be worse. Though if you exclude matches that are bots and matches that don't respond to your opening it might be closer to 1 per week for the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:07 PM
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Why do you write like you're having a stroke? Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:06 PM
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Average man is a guy who gets 1 match per week on Tinder. Top man is a guy who can get laid regularly from OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:03 PM
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There is a man equivalent for this btw and it's men who hire escorts regularly. Almost all of them will tell you that their wife isn't their best sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:00 PM
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Biggest difference is that the guy who became a chad (most common scenario is a hot dude who was overweight, Hasan Piker is a good example of a guy who became a chad) will be much more aware that people treat him totally differently now that he is good looking. The implication of that might be that he is more prone to pumping and dumping since he realizes how shallow people are, but that's probably reaching too much. In reality it's more likely that there are no significant difference how both t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:41 PM
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No most girls aren't into hooking up. Anybody with two brain cells knows this. But a girl who is not into hooking up wouldn't say to her bf that he's not the kind of guy she'd hookup or be fwb with. It wouldn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:17 PM
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It's a fake story, but if it was real, the only reason a woman would say that is if she's not really attracted to her bf in which case yeah they probably aren't banging often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:15 PM
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Obviously the assumption is that the girl is into hooking up or having a fwb. If she's not then there is no point to be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:13 PM
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That story is obviously bait, but telling your bf he's not the kind of guy you'd hookup or be fwb with is definitely an insult. People tend to get upset when they get insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:10 PM
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There are dudes I've played with over 20 times at my board games club and I have no idea whether they are partened or not. Imagine spending over 100 hours with someone and not knowing: their age / their job / if they are in a relationship or not. Peak autism right there but it is a true story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:02 PM
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Depends what kind of board games. The heavy ones you mostly have nerds. Very similar to the MTG demography from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:00 PM
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What future husband? Where is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:56 PM
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I've calculated and my very rough (and low) estimation is that I've spent ~35k hours gaming in the past 20 years. Which amount to about 5h / day on average. I'm gaming less these days though, probably something like 3h / day average. It's not as addicting for me. Back in my WoW and LoL days I could easily play 10 hours straight no problem. Nowadays I rarely have more than 2h gaming session. It's still fun tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:25 PM
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Je voudrais putain avec vous. 'Coucher' or 'faire l'amour' if you're classy 'baiser' if you're not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:58 AM
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Wish me luck. I'd like a french gf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:21 AM
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My ex is considering moving out. At first I was kinda panicking but this could actually be a good thing. For a start, it would improve my odds of finding a new gf for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:51 AM
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Dude, she's actually 1000 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:15 AM
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No particular reason. I'm autistic and those don't appeal to me. And yeah being autistic is unfortunately a big turn off for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:46 PM
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Yeah. Never tried alcohol in my life. Never went to a party in my life. I'm 31. Just from those informations you can be sure I struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:13 PM
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It comes from The Matrix
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:07 PM
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Lol that's pretty embarassing. That mod should feel ashamed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:03 PM
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I'm only active when I'm at the office. It's the antiworkpill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:01 PM
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Would smash either way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:00 PM
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Nope worse that happened to me was getting money stolen when I was 15 by two dudes that caught me in an empty street and told me to empty my pockets or thet'd beat me up. I wouldn't call that too violent or traumatizing, I think I got over it quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:13 PM
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If I got fired for posting on reddit at work I wouldn't be shocked, but I for sure would be happy. I don't hate my job, but I'd happily take 18 months unemployement benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:10 PM
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On the french sub when a rich person says / do something very offensive you always have comments along the lines of 'we need Mario's brother to step up'. Cracks me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:07 PM
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You'd be wrong. In most cities the demand for pro domme outweight the supply hence why they are able to charge basically as much as escorts who have to 'sell their pussy to old sleazy men' while remaining fully clothed and not doing anything considered sexual (it is not illegal to be a pro domme in the US as long as you don't do penetration stuff like pegging).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:07 PM
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I admit that being a hooker is a pretty mediocre job even if you're getting paid $500 / hour. A pro domme on the other hand seems like a cheat code. Getting paid a similar rate to spit on dudes or kicking them in the balls? Or even better, the ones that do findom and are litteraly getting paid for free (highly exploitative though, but that's another topic).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:01 PM
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Sure, why not? Older virgin men tend to be beta as fuck and totally harmless. Worse case scenario you're not into him and you broke it off. There is the 1% chance that he's actually a crazy dude who will go full stalking mode and shit, but this can happen with anybody really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:55 PM
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ironically it's actually another dude rating dick behind that OF account That or it's the woman, but she has already five answers pre-typed that she just copy paste depending on what she thinks the guy wants to hear so 0% genuine which honestly might even be worse than to get an answer from a dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:46 PM
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I mean, that'd be hot ofc, but not arousal inducing. Now if she told me something along the lines of: "Mm, let's take these off... wouldn't want to break them when I sit on you" Now I'd get hard faster than the dude died when he took that bullet yesterday (too soon?)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:42 PM
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I'll be honest, I find it hot as fuck when a dude is hooking up with his female teacher. Reverse the gender and it's highly predatory, but the m/F variant is just... ughhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:30 PM
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<image> Finally finished my Chinese Lego the other day. Took me a while because I took a break. Very fun build tho. Thanks capitalism for allowing me to buy it for 25% of the actual lego price.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:19 PM
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That's a beautiful ass dayum
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:14 PM
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I meant, for sure it's a downside to date a single mom, but if she's hot, fun in bed and our personality matched I'd be able to overlook that I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:11 PM
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I'd date one, but for sure my requirements (looks / sex / personality) would be much higher then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:05 PM
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My boss makes a dollar, I make a dime. That's why I jerk off on company time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:00 PM
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Or the jedi vs the sith. A tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:26 PM
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having children: don't care about it financial independence: easy to achieve and achieved fulfilling job / career: don't care about it, I just want a chill job (achieved) being married: don't care about it, I just want a fulfilling LTR (failed so far, but working on it) having money to do things you want: easy to achieve and achieved owning own home: don't care about it, way overrated being grounded spiritually: wtf this means, is this some weird murica religion stuff? making family / community …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:03 PM
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starving dating wise That's because they haven't tried grindr yet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:54 PM
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Not into fighting / action games either. In general 3d games are not really my thing beside a few exceptions such as WoW and PoE. I'm more into 2d games or turn based games.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:53 PM
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I mean, apparently reddit has over 100 millions daily users. If you make a fake profile pretending to be a 14 yo girl, I'm sure you'll have some creeps contacting you. The lower you set your age, the less creeps you'll have contacting you I assume -like if you pretend to be a 10 yo girl, you'll only have the true pedo contacting you. But yes it'll happen, that's just how it is when we're talking about millions of people. Sure reddit should try to fight that, but it is an international website so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:48 PM
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Not into shooters. But I'm excited to start playing Marvel Champions soon. Seems like a very good game. Marvel Snap on the other hand was hot garbage. The gameplay was alright but the economy was awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:32 PM
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So you're talking about some dudes making porn and contacting teenagers on subs like /r/teenagers for example? First how do you know this happens? Second, I'm not sure what you want reddit to do about it. Age of consent in my country is 15 yo meaning a 15 yo girl can totally sext and even meet a guy and have sex with him even if he is 2x or 3x his age. Gross, yes, but totally legal. Age of consent is 14 in countries like Germany or Italy btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:27 PM
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That's a green flag for me, dog. On that note, I've been living with my ex for 4 years and have never heard her fart a single time which is hella suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:18 PM
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Been active on reddit for 11+ years. Seen all kind of fucked up subs including many that have been long since banned. I know pretty much all nsfw subs out there. Haven't encountered a single time anything that could be labeled as pedophilia. Either it's all in your head or you're purposely looking for that kind of content in which case it's time to ask yourself the right questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:15 PM
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PPD is rooting for you. Put that bitch in her place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:10 PM
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<image> This girl came back into my life yesterday after two months away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:40 AM
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Sounds pretty reasonable. The average woman never has casual sex in her life and has only sex within a relationship with long term in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:24 AM
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Gone Girl is the best imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:18 AM
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For men it's a bit different as it's easier for them to have a great time right from the first time they fuck with someone. But yes it only gets better from there and I was more referring to a fuck buddy / booty call situation where you're having casual sex with someone regularly than a one night stand. And yes I imagine if things end up abrubtly with a fwb it must sting pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:17 AM
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Being more masculine = easier to get laid / find an LTR for man Same thing for being more feminine for a woman It happens that women have an easier time getting laid / finding an LTR either way so less incentive to be feminine than men have an incentive to be masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:10 AM
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I'm more onboard with people enduring the same kind of pain they inflict upon others This was tried before. It was pretty mucht the policy before Ancient Greece. But we're a bit more civilized now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:07 AM
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Never got the chance to have casual sex, but I can easily imagine how easy it is to catch feelings if the sex is good. Good sex is addictive and the best way to make it long term with someone you're seeing casually is to turn the relationship into something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:01 AM
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I'm sunphobic. I absolutely hate getting exposed to sun and avoid it as much as possible. Probably an autistic trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:55 AM
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Are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:40 PM
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They don't know it due to lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:35 PM
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Look up the data, most autistic men struggle heavily with dating so their options are limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:32 PM
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Autistic men don't pick women lol. They get what's available. Beggars can't be choosers and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:27 PM
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Weekly sex? Brother I've been an adult for 13 years and have only had yearly sex (at least once a year) in 3 of them. I know it's decreasing fast, but the fact that 37% of adults are fucking every week is wild to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:18 PM
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I'm autistic and Idk doesn't seem like the kind of women I'm into? I'm definitely into gently assertive women though which yeah is very common among autistic guys. I think the majority of men who are autisitc are into the /r/gentlefemdom kind of stuff tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:14 PM
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Throw the products away and then have a discussion about it. Gotta show you're serious about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:49 PM
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I think low smv people are fine dating their match for the most part. And that's why I think low smv women tend to not really struggle dating because their match are low smv men who have almost no option and who will be happy with what they get. On the other hand, high smv women might struggle more because their match are high smv men and we know that high smv men have plenty of options and might prefer to just date casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:29 PM
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Eh I think when women experience arousal it's similar as when men do. The difference is that they experience it - on average - less often / for way less people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:17 PM
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I'll ask her for an update
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:12 PM
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And it's killing me, so on one hand this guy is a walking red flag and would never compare to my partner who I entend to marry and on the other hand it literally took him one glance to unlock my whole sexuality that years of therapy , and of trying in bed with my partner and with previous partners failed to unlock. A tough choice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:11 PM
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Inside Man The Social Network Gone Girl Three Billboards Outside Ebbing, Missouri Joker
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:10 PM
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Well smv is not only physical appearance. I think it's hard to find someone who is both ugly AND stupid, has mental illness / handicap etc. The few unlucky people who combine both tend to never really date. But someone who is 'just' ugly, should be able to find someone and be fine sleeping with someone who is similarly physically unattractive. Perhaps some women don't want to date a dude who is equally ugly as her, but it doesn't really matter. A 2/10 woman can find a 4/10 dude fairly easily. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:05 PM
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Are you more likely to find women who just can't find the men they can land attractive enough in the bottom half of the SMP? I don't think so. I think women with low smv don't struggle more finding a partner than women with high smv. If anything, I think women with low smv struggle less on average because their standards tend to be pretty low. Whereas some women with high smv even if they have fair standards (for example wanting to date a man with a similarly high smv) can struggle because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:44 PM
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Just gotta find a woman who's into teenagers. How hard can that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:34 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/interestingasfuck/comments/1n6d7cc/john_cena_and_jason_earles_jackson_from_hannah/ This made me laugh haha I'm actually 31 as well and yeah I do kinda look like the dude on the left :D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:16 AM
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We developed friendship, he tells me Abt his love life and adventures (despite the elephant in the room) and he came to mention that he didn't have penetrative sex yet (we're in a conservative county where ore marital sex is a Taboo)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:08 AM
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My coworker unlocked my sexuality and it's running my life I'm 26F and I've never had an orgasm in my life despite years of trying on my own and with my partner , during therapy last year I discovered it's mainly because I have a very low to a non existent sex drive ,and that I've been having sex only because it represents intimacy and it can be fun but not because I'm horny orhave a desire to fulfill Things changed few months ago when I met this coworker who's not even my type but we have this …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:37 AM
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Do you need to look at your keyboard when you type?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:05 AM
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Pretty fun honestly, I was 28
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:12 AM
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I think every man should be allowed one financial abortion in their life. Beyond the first they'd have to pay up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:07 AM
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Ngl, sounds like a mix between /r/ImTheMainCharacter and /r/im14andthisisdeep
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:20 PM
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Lesbianmaxx + sperm donor + assisted reproduction is all you need Lily
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:17 PM
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Manuel Ferrara
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:40 AM
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Makes sense if you put it that way, but where you live sounds fucked up ngl. Where I'm at my rent hasn't increased in 4 years and owning the place would just bring more expenses. In my case buying makes zero sense and I'd much rather save and invest my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:06 AM
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If you're 22 you should just enjoy life tbh. At your age I was a full on NEET living in my mom's basement. Plenty of time to buy later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:00 AM
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Either way, it's only a marginal economic gain. Not owning an house is very much a first world problem. It's perfectly fine to just be renting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:48 AM
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A telling slip of the tongue indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:39 AM
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But then you're stuck having to live in the same place for 15 years. And all the money you're saving on interest, you could just invest it in S&P. The only scenario I'd consider buying is if I'm in a relationship for at least 5 years and I'm confident it's going to last for much longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:38 AM
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With a house you at least get to keep your equity in the value of the house. At the price of paying thousand to the bank in interest. Somehow that's not extortion? Owning an house is a comfort purchase, not a particularly good economic investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:31 AM
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I don't understand why normies care so much about owning an house. This never made sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:24 AM
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First time he's living alone for over a month
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:19 AM
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It’s unhygienic because it does in the wash with other people’s clothes. What the big deal about that? Is cum toxic or something? Lol No way my dad would have been comfortable talking to me about this haha, but good on your partner if he would. Still if the kid just says 'I don't know where the stain is coming from', it's a bit awkward to go from there I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:21 AM
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I would have definitely lied if my mom called me out on it. Of course if she pressed I'm not sure how I would have reacted, but I think it's not a conversation a mom really wants to have with her son. I don't even think it's that unhygienic as I'd always change brief in the morning. And it's very convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:09 AM
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Possible. My mom is pretty low-maintenance though so probably he is starting to miss her. She's getting back at the end of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:02 AM
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Probably yeah. I'm thankful she never called me out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:58 AM
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dealing with teen crusty boy socks and wet dreams When I started fapping at 11 and pretty much ever since I would just orgasm inside my briefs before falling asleep. My mom would tell me how the stain came from sweating. Obviously I'd just nod along. Of course she must have known better, but I do wonder if she thought it was from wet dreams of if she realized I just didn't give a shit haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:55 AM
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My dad has been living alone for over a month. Fist time in 30 years. I wonder how he is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:43 AM
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No worries!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:40 AM
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Being a man is usually a lifelong disability as well (unless you transmaxx) so I wouldn't blame you if you terminated the pregnancy and tried for girl #2 afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:33 AM
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I mean, people abort kids who have down syndrome so I can understand aborting because the kid has an Y chromosome...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:22 AM
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Raëlism, also known as Raëlianism, is a UFO religion founded in 1970s France by Claude Vorilhon, now known as Raël. Raëlism teaches that an extraterrestrial species known as the Elohim created humanity using their advanced technology. Learned about this over the weekend. The dude became a millionaire thanks to this and slept with thousand of women who genuinely believed he was Jesus half brother. He is still alive, living in Japan and never risked anything legally. Religion is fascinating to me …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:14 AM
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Too late to abort?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:52 AM
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Can you call someone your best friend if it's your only friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:25 PM
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The two nice things about getting old are libido decreasing and getting closer to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:18 PM
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Yes sir, every day. I'm lucky she's very cuddly like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:12 PM
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With my roommate we're always using that quote: 'I'm here for a good time, not a long time'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:12 PM
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Yeah I've also heard this a lot. I can see it being accurate either for men who interact with a lot of women or for those that a meet a certain threshold of attractiveness. I'm far from either so it didn't apply for me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:04 PM
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I mean I can't speak for lonely men, but back when I was lonely I didn't care about getting laid. I just wanted someone to cuddle with. And now I haven't gotten laid in almost 2 years, but I get daily cuddles so I don't feel lonely :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:47 PM
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What's your point? Lonely men don't get access to cuddles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:44 PM
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Tbh my first time with an escort we didn't do much sexually and she kept her panties. It was mostly cuddling, snuggling, touching each other etc. Still was very fun. So even if you don't go all the way it can be a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:24 PM
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God speed brother. First time for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:06 PM
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Yeah women who date abusive men are probably not women you'd ever want to date anyway. If a woman told me her ex was abusive, it'd be a pretty big red flag ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:59 PM
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For sure. That's why I'm only here when I'm at the office.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:39 PM
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Where did you go?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:33 PM
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Tbh I don't think even 'abusive' men reveal that they aren't nice until way later. The default in society seems to appear nice and it's only down the road that people show their true colors. So with that in mind, being 'nice' isn't going to give you much advantage in the dating market, you gotta stand out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:30 PM
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Totally accurate. Obviously looks play a part, but that's implied in the 'are we sexually compatible' question. Men are much less picky than women and for 99% of men it's really as simple as this dude explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:16 PM
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Does the girl come with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:53 PM
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Oh so you were just flexing about your great genes? A bit weird, but ok :D What's selfish is having kids when you have terrible genes, not the other way around obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:33 PM
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There was this dude on 4chan that was getting financed by other degenerates so he could fuck escorts and record himself giving them a massive facial to post it online. Peak internet right there. He fucked 50+ girls and you can find all the vids to this day. His pseudo was litteraly 'Epic Cumshot Guy' lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:30 PM
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I'm not sure I understood your point tbh :D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:22 PM
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True. With the former you gotta pull out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:18 PM
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I couldnt give two shits about my son's dating options. Let's be real, this is peak selfishness. Bringing another human being on this planet without their consent and not caring that you might pass some shitty genes is truly selfish. Don't get me wrong, I'd do it too without feeling bad about it, but deep down I'd know that it's a dick move.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:16 PM
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Oh dear. Nobody told you yet how we make children?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:12 PM
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I meant for religious people. No sex before marriage and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:12 PM
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Isn't the whole point of marriage that you can finally get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:09 PM
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fasting for thier husband What's the point of this? Why can't it be a blowjob or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:58 AM
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You can always ragebait people on PPD, it can work very well :D See https://np.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/w0vqwt/energy_vampire_colin_robinson_drains_energy_in/ for inspiration
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:10 AM
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IIRC last time PPD did a poll, almost 50% of people who replied were virgin. But yeah I think most people who have never been in a relationship are too shy to participate so they are just lurking. Tbh that makes sense, before my first relationship I knew about this sub but would have never dared commenting lol so instead I was active on FA.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:50 AM
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Got my first relationship at 26 and lost my virginity at 28 which all things considered isn't so bad considering I'm autistic. You have a couple dudes on here who still haven't been in a relationship despite being late twenties / early thirties, but it's pretty rare. Most PPD virgins are in their early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:43 AM
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I've never understood men complaining about having to pay on the first date. Like how many dates are they getting that it's something they care about? I'm assuming the average dude is getting one first date a month AT BEST.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:54 AM
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OP wrote this 3 months ago: its still splitting. before and after i ran into my wife. before i was 25 and had a clear career path that i was following and was on a good track to have a successful future. I participated in my hobbies often. I was single and lonely, but content And hopeful for the future. Then i met my current wife. She was very well off and assured me she could afford to Have kids right now and her biological clock was ticking and she didnt want to wait. i stepped out of my caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 08:19 AM
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What is it? More work? Yes, milord.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:11 PM
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Misandry is becoming more mainstream indeed. I think it's only natural though and more and more women will start hating men until they get real pushback for it. The reality is - regardless of gender - a lot of humans are shitty and if you allow terrible behaviors they won't hesitate to partake in it until they face consequences for what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:42 PM
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My man. Such maturity already.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:37 PM
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She'll get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:36 PM
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Don't go in public taps head
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:34 PM
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Depends on the circumstances. If it happened while they were traveling for work or something + the celebrity made it very clear they just wanted a one-night stand with no way to contact each other afterward, then I would assume the % would be quite high. And honestly you'd have to be pretty stupid to not take such a once in a lifetime opportunity. And yes, I wouldn't be mad if my hypothetical wife had a ONS with Henry Cavill or something (inb4 I get called a cuck, but it's just common sense real…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:31 PM
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Damn you're right. On new reddit or mobile, it clearly shows the account is suspended. Yet if you use old reddit, you can still have access to the whole user history with no issue. It's wild I had no idea new reddit / the mobile version was so restrictive. The day old reddit dies is the day I'll quit reddit I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:59 PM
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Men die younger yet they have to retire at the same age as women. Unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:02 AM
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The therapist quote I can kinda relate tbh. There was this dude I met in middle school, we became gaming buddy. We went to different high school, but still would play every day together, we spent easily thousand and thousand of hours gaming together. Then I started becoming exhausted by it and cut all contact. He tried to renew the friendship several times over the years but I was never interested. I say all this because since that dude I haven't had a real friend and it happened more than 10 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:56 AM
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I was talking about the people who post in regular threads. If you stick to the DT, that's a bit of a special case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:45 AM
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Let's be real. The people on this sub that are happily married / in a healthy LTR are only here to flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:24 AM
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Thoughts on which comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:03 AM
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Unironically, dream relationship right there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:56 AM
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Not sure which one is worse tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:40 AM
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https://reddit.com/user/Fixed_Assets/ This account is pretty fascinating to me. The true story of a 44 yo virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:29 AM
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Ah so you were just hoping for something casual then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:28 AM
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Maybe you two can be friends at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:16 AM
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The other day at the board game coffee I go twice a week, I witnessed what was obviously a first date. The opening question was "how old are you?". Idk found it funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:13 AM
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Majority of people are in fact against 50/50 relationships if there is an income gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:08 AM
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Probably yeah. But it's not like men get to choose their level of testosterone and I don't think anybody is seriously suggesting to lower those levels with medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:13 PM
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If women didn't have access to casual sex with mutual desire on demand, you'd have women paying for sex as well. Though of course men having much higher testosterone makes them hornier and more likely to crave sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:57 PM
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For some men, the mutual desire isn't that important. You don't really care whether the person giving you a (paid) massage is enjoying it or not, do you? Well some men don't really care whether the girl sucking their dick is enjoying it or not, as long as she's hot and does a good job at it. Keep in mind that most men don't have access to casual sex like women do, so it's not like they have another option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:26 PM
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Have you ever had a ONS / casual sex with someone you just met? If the answer is no, then there is no way you'd be able to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:09 PM
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I don't know about you bro, but my nuts have been pumping cum daily for the past 20 years. Masturbation is great and I'd never get rid of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:45 AM
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Obviously, losing your v-card is incredibly easy if you have a few hundred to spare. I lost mine a in a loving relationship and that's what I was referring for you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:38 AM
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As I mentioned in another comment, only ~3% of men regularly hire prostitutes. So at least it shouldn't be the main reason to go full out misandrist :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:36 AM
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Hold on brother, your time will come as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:34 AM
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I know and I ain't complaining. Are you still a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:33 AM
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They can control it, they choose not to because they don't see anything wrong with paying for sex. To them, it's like paying for a massage, except they get to cum at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:28 AM
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You're anti prostitution, ofc you'd think that :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:20 AM
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True. Sadly she wasn't the one. But we had a good run and she's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:00 AM
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She's the only woman I've had sex with so far. She still sleeps in my bed sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:57 AM
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Kinda crazy reflecting on the fact that I lost my v-card at 28. 95% of men lose it earlier than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:53 AM
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Tfw my throwaway is older than your main
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:22 AM
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Very true. On that topic, I think I can only recall two or three times women around my age being genuinely nice to me. Granted I don't meet a lot of women, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:09 AM
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No that ~3% figure is pretty consistent even in EU countries where it's totally legal and easily accessible such as Germany etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:32 AM
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As a completely side issue, I’m fascinated that men can even enjoy sex with someone who will only do it for money. Sex is a craving. A man with high libido will have this craving often and if they can't satisfy it over a long period of time, it will leave him frustrated. Paying for sex can help appease this craving so I find it pretty easy to understand why some men (a minority of men actually) find it enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:31 AM
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If there was some sort of prostitution that was as convenient as uber eats or DoorDash women would march. In a lot of countries, hiring an escort is extremely easy. But the majority of men don't see any appeal in having sex with a woman who isn't genuinely attracted to them. For those who do see the appeal, it's usually not worth it at all from a price / benefit point of view. A bit like if you had to pay hundreds to eat at Mcdonald's. So that only leave a tiny % of men who both see the appeal a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:18 AM
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That and also only ~3% of men regularly (at least once a year) hire prostitutes. It's very niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:05 AM
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Believe it or not, but the average woman doesn't get 'the itch' very often. Median lifetime n-count for women is 4 when ANY woman can easily get laid that many times in a single week if she wants too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:01 PM
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Give it a try anyway, maybe she's a domme and you're perfect for her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:32 PM
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I think most men would happily date a woman who makes significantly less than them if they are otherwise compatible. I don't think the same is true for women at all. But that's just my opinion and I know some people disagree about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:29 PM
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Yup. Testosterone is one hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:08 PM
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That sounds so american :D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:50 AM
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You got a bag out of it? That's badass
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:46 AM
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Give an example because I can't quite picture it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:44 AM
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First is practice, I agree it doesn't really count
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:41 AM
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Never two without three
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:30 AM
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The difference is massive though. 72% vs 28% is wild, it clearly show a difference in how women and men approach relationships imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:16 AM
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my point is simple, women frame incels as guys who are misogynistic and hateful which is the main reason they are sexually unsuccessful To be fair, men do the same as well, you can easily see that on normies sub. The fact is, incels (men who can't get laid AND complain about it) are considered to be total losers in life and get as much sympathy (if that) as homeless people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:10 AM
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Very interesting stat (french data, but I assume it's similar in most countries). I had NO idea about this so I'm sharing: Good evening, It is true that 70% of divorces among heterosexual couples are initiated by women. Among homosexual couples, the divorce rate is 72% for women and 28% for men. I find it very interesting to see how surprisingly stable the figures remain, so I am sharing this information. edit: just to be clear, the data I find interesting is the gap in divorce rate between homo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:52 AM
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Pointing out someones autistic / displaying heavy autistic traits is considered offensive, even bigoted. IRL sure, but online Idk to me that just seem helpful. It's possible this dude doesn't realize he is actually autistic (took me a long time to figure that out about myself) and if he did that might help him. Agree about the rest. Also I was only on the apps for a short while, but there seem to be a few autistic women on them though not on the popular ones such as Tinder / Bumble / Hinge I agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:45 AM
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LMAO. Good catch :DD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:39 AM
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Good luck. Don't give up, you only need to get lucky once.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:19 AM
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The narrative is that women who are single are less likely to be unhappy about it and less likely to be looking for a partner. See for example (from your link): Single men are more likely than their female counterparts to be searching for romantic experiences. Half of these men are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates, while 35% of single women say the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:16 AM
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There is no solution on a global level. Women - on average and for various reasons - desire a relationship less than men which create an unbalance in the dating market. If you're a dude struggling to find a gf, you either need to keep trying until you get lucky or become attractive enough you won't struggle anymore. Or you can give up, that's an option too. But hoping for a macro solution is pointless because there is none (except if you believe AI gf will be happening within our lifetime).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:40 AM
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Maybe give a try to Boo. The other two apps where I had some matches were french only app. But yeah, getting litteraly zero match within 3 months there is definitely something going on. Either it's your profile or location and you need to figure it out before anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:26 AM
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The one million swipes guy is pretty hopeless from what I remember. This dude I linked I think has potential, but he gotta learn how to NTmaxx
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:43 AM
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You've got to figure it out. Also try more than 3 apps. Hinge / Tinder / Bumble I had zero match, but I got better results on other apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:27 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1mrai12/my_decade_on_tinder_as_a_guy_my_1st_date_was_in/ After reading most of his comments, I'm fairly sure this dude is autistic af. I find it interesting how nobody else is pointing it out though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:16 AM
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What's the reason you're having such bad results?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:48 AM
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Email girl has finally said hello to me. I am beyond ecstatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:46 AM
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Would be good enough for me. I'm not too picky tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:48 AM
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Depends on her libido and how fun she is in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:44 AM
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"Your son made the right choice."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:05 PM
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I have more in the bank than 90% people my age, but it's pretty useless tbh. Might be useful one day tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:59 PM
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Saw an accurate take about this: Murder, torture etc. = fine Sex = bad Also drives me crazy how censored most LLMs (ChatGPT etc.) are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:48 AM
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Eh, we live in an hyper individualistic society. Most people care about their friends and family and that's about it. Can't blame them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:56 AM
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That sounds exhausting not going to lie. But I guess you can't help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:55 AM
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People, men and women, don't hold other people accountable for not caring about world's suffering. Do you really think less of someone that doesn't seem to care about say, children having to work in thirld world countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:38 AM
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Yeah same in my country where we don't have much data about this topic. Impossible to tell what % of men and what % of women who are single are currently looking for a relationship or dates where I live. This is the most interesting data that I had found on the topic in my country, but it is very old at this point. It showed how for example 25.8% of men aged 25 to 34 said they had never been in a relationship vs 14.4% of women. It reads like this: In a relationship living together In a relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:29 AM
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Women are told from a young age that they live in a patriarchal society where women as a group are discriminated against and that a lot of men are dangerous and can hurt them. With that premise, you're never going to have many women caring about men struggles in life. Just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:16 AM
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Sure, but keep in mind this is US statistics anyway, it can vary quite significantly depending on the country / the year so I'm not putting too much weight when it comes to the exact figure. My point is that there is clearly a difference in how many single men are looking to date vs how many single women. And again 50 vs 35 is absolutely massive, definitely not a small factor in my opinion. Though yes these small factors can add up, another small factor is that there's approximately 105 female b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:45 AM
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I googled and found another source who gives a very different figure: Men are far more likely than women to be on the dating market: 61% of single men say they are currently looking for a relationship or dates, compared with 38% of single women. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ But even if it's really 34 vs 43, that's still a big enough difference to cause a huge unbalance in supply/demand. Even a relatively small ratio difference has a big impa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:18 AM
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Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratio How are there people on PPD who still don't know the answer to this? It's extremely simple, out of 100 women who are single, maybe 40 are 'actively' looking to date and most of those won't even try very hard. The rest aren't looking. Now out of 100 men who are single, maybe 70 are 'actively' looking to date and most of those are trying pretty hard, at the very least they active on dating apps if they aren't approaching wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:49 AM
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I'd need one example to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:52 AM
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I've done a poll before, roughly 20% of men sometimes (at least once a year) masturbate at work. So pretty uncommon, but not as rare as say hiring escorts which is something only 3% of men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:47 AM
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Fapping in the toilet at work feels great. Litteraly getting paid to jerk off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:18 AM
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Pretty sure if they are doing it it's because that's what bring the most profit. At the end of the day, OLD is an industry trying to make money off men, 95%+ of the money generated by online dating is from men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:43 PM
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He said he isn't. Tried with a girl friend by setting distance to <1 mile and she could see him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:22 PM
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Again it's simply a location issue. This dude would definitely have at least 2-3% match rate in a big city or even in a rural area that has a better male / female ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:27 PM
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Lol 40% swipe right is EXTREMELY reasonable, especially if you're not looking for casual sex which is pretty obvious this guy isn't interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:15 PM
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He has a 40% swipe right ratio which is very reasonable, he's definitely swiping on average chicks. And you can't really compare men and women experience on OLD haha, it's really totally different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:12 PM
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As I said in another comment, must be a place with a really bad female / male ratio. His profile is probably barely being shown to women, not much he can do about that unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:56 AM
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Because it fuck up your profile. Tinder (and every dating apps since they are all owned by the group Match) use an algorithm to match people. If you swipe right on everyone, there will be even less women who are going to be shown your profile so it's not recommended to do that. Swiping doesn't take much time anyway, it's like 5 seconds per swipe so OP with 4000 swipes probably spent about 5 hours total which amount to less than 5 minutes / day as he's been on Tinder for 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:55 AM
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He says he knows it can be off putting, but that he wasn't getting results when he didn't mention it anyway. I think it can cost you a couple matches, but overall I wouldn't underestimate nichemaxxing and a girl who is a Christian will probably find his profile VERY appealing so ultimately it could land him a LTR so not all that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:21 AM
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I don't think finding an LTR is that much about luck if you have realistic standards. If you can have about ~20-30 dates with different women, you're extremely likely to find an LTR out of that. So I'd say success on OLD is when you can average 1 date with a new woman per month. And that guy he's definitely in that zone if he was living in a big city, especially using more than 1 app (which is what most guys do and something OP said he does in the comments).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:12 AM
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succesful on OLD Depends how you define succesful on OLD. If you mean having casual sex regularly then sure, but it's obvious that this guy doesn't give a shit about that. Succesful on OLD for most men is simply finding an LTR and he's definitely good looking enough to achieve that, just not where he lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:58 AM
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I think he looks fine, he has some pics in his history with facial hair where I think he looks pretty good. Maybe he should include one or two in his Tinder profile. He could definitely grow a bear and look a bit more masculine if he wanted, but I don't think it's necessary in his case. He has a good jaw and looks masculine enough already. But for sure he has potential to look better if he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:46 AM
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6'2 is top 10% or top 5% height can't remember exactly. He's also in shape in a country where like 50% of the population is overweight lol. He's definitely above average, but yeah location is fucking him over
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:41 AM
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Regardless, he's aware of it: my profile is on my reddit profile. The only thing that can be considered off putting is stating my faith. But I added that because I didnt get matches when I didnt, so why not include that I am a christian?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:22 AM
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Well maybe he's living somewhere where the male / female ratio is very bad. The issue with dating apps for guys is that your profile is shown to almost nobody (due to the massive gender and activity unbalance), especially if you don't pay. It's totally possible for this dude that only 50 girls or something have seen his profile and location plays a part in that, in some place it's particularly bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:19 AM
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Eh I highly doubt he would get such horrendous results living in a big city. I've seen dudes that looks worse than him have a regular 3% match rate which with 1600 right swipes would translate into 48 matches and probably a date or two at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:14 AM
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I've checked and looks like around 10% of young people go to church? I highly doubt most of them wait for marriage lol. Where I live, almost everybody that's religious fuck way before marriage. Sometimes they do pretend otherwise to their parents, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:07 AM
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You can't clean out the germs? Like even with disinfectant and stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:04 AM
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He could be shadowbanned but apparently he tried with a girl friend (setting location at <1 mile) and she could see him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:00 AM
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What's neeky? Is it like geeky / nerdy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:52 AM
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Wait, going to church = I'm not fucking before marriage in murica? That's wild lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:50 AM
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You won't meet then on Tinder tho, 1624 swipes zero match is brutal for an above average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:33 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1m04g8e/well_this_sucks_insights_for_26m/ This is a very good example of how important location is. OP is a good looking 6'2 dude, he just lives in the middle of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:22 AM
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We still live together for now, but yeah it is finito. Hoping to date a french chick next.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:01 AM
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I really think vast majority of women don't give a shit https://np.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1cgx2f5/would_you_still_use_sex_toys_previously_shared/ I've googled one thread, looks like you're right for the most part: The highest upvoted comment: Yes, just as I'd use the same bed an ex and I slept in. Why wouldn't you use the items you paid for and enjoy? There is another one with a lot of upvotes though: Hell no. I think it's unhygienic, rude to your current partner and brings back bad memo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:59 AM
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I'd totally be ok with it. Kinda similar: I wonder how many women would be OK to use the sex toys a dude had when he was with his ex. I feel like not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:45 AM
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I clean up my post history regularly because my ex knows my account and I'm too lazy to make a new one / am weirdly attached to this account. I don't think she checks it tbh, but still I'm kinda paranoid about it. I should just bite the bullet and make a new account one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:40 AM
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Back to work after 2 weeks off, disappointed to see that PPD DT is still dead :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:19 AM
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This is pretty subjective. I genuinely think a lot of sexless men with high libido would happily give up many years of life expectancy if it meant having a fulfilling sex life for the rest of their life. Personally I'd be very happy to die at 50 if it meant being able to get laid regularly in the next 20 years. So while lack of sex might be “a first world problem” it's also something I'd be willing to give up a lot to be able to fix so clearly something I think is highly important to my well-bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:39 AM
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Women who have sex as a job on a high end level (ie not being hookers in the street, but rather charging $300 / hour in their perfectly comfy home) tend to be fairly sympathic for men who struggle to get laid (or are in a sexless marriage) because they see that most of them are perfectly respectful and willing to spend a lot of money just to get an hour or two of intimacy, sometimes enjoying more the cuddling part than the fucking. Women who have casual sex with attractive men for free on the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:24 AM
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Because it generate clicks and money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:26 PM
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The dead queen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:17 PM
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I think we shouldn't make laws based on an individual case, yes. Btw, the US is pretty much the worst example in the world when it comes to their prison system so definitely not something other countries should strive to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:12 PM
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I mean I know nothing about his case. I'm just pointing out that prostitution is legal in many countries and I don't think we should make laws based on how it would affect a guy named "diddy"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:00 PM
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? Just pointing out that prostitution is legal in many countries and even in the US it's not like there is a huge risk for hiring an escort Pedophilia on the other hand is pretty much illegal everywhere in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:49 PM
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Not something to be proud of, you can always be better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:37 PM
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Still quite rude and something people should try hard to not do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:35 PM
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Prostitution is legal in many countries tho. Legal brothel in Europe can get pretty wild (look up fkk germany)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:32 PM
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Ghosting is pretty rude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:27 PM
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Was just curious if it was a legit reason or some bullshit guys say when they don't find the girl attractive :D But seems like you believe him so that's what matters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:23 PM
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What are the reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:19 PM
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Have you guys seen the news about the death of a soccer player? Dude was totally winning in life: young, rich, famous, attractive, married a few days ago, 3 kids and then today car accident, dead on the spot along with his brother. Life is brutal that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:05 AM
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I'm happier as a 34-year-old single man than I was as a 29-year-old engaged man who used to look forward to getting alone time. Difference is you've had experience. OP is a 27 yo kissless virgin which is debilitating when it's not by choice. Just look at his post history or even username, it's obvious that he is hurting. I don't think the way he is trying to cope with unhapiness is an healthy one, but that's just my 2cent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:57 AM
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Sure. If you genuinely believe that the best way to cope with the unhapiness that comes with never having been in a relationship is to truly give up totally then you should feel free to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:10 AM
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When someone estimates his/her chance for relationship as low as winning national lottery It's obviously way higher. There is an opportunity cost in truly having no hope and totally giving up on every possible opportunities and I'm arguing that this cost is way higher than the one of keeping some hope and being open to meeting a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:56 AM
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It's low cost unless you have unrealistic expectations. Do you think you're going to win the lottery every time you play? Guess not, well it's the same when you swipe on tinder. Don't expect anything out of it and you won't be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:46 AM
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Even if they are, it’s settling. I don’t believe they are truly happy. This is cope and you know it. Are you happy as a 27 yo kissless virgin? The only way you'd be worse off in a relationship is if it was an abusive one. Anything else would be a massive upgrade compared to your current situation and deep down you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:11 AM
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It's an option, but there is an opportunity cost in totally giving up. You can put yourself out there without much effort. Posting once a month on r/r4r or something takes 30 seconds. Sure there is almost zero chance you're ever going to get a serious reply, but it's not like it's taking much time or energy out of you so might as well give it a try. Like everything in life, it's better to find some of kind of healthy balance. Totally giving up is not a good strategy and neither is dedicating eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:03 AM
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So basically you're comfortable fucking a girl who is only interested in your money (fair enough, lot of men are like that as well), but you're reluctant to do it because of how people get judged for having sex before marriage in your country? No solution here, it'll all depend if your desire to fuck a hot girl is greater than your fear of being judged for it afterwards and only you know can decide wheter it's worth it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:24 PM
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Some men are very comfortable dating / fucking girls who are only interested in their money and some men aren't, simple as that. No point asking reddit about it tbh, it's totally a personal preference kind of thing. It would be like asking reddit to choose for you beween vanilla and chocolate ice cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:54 PM
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It would be like if I told my bf I stalked him prior to us dating and found out his exact place of work and what his salary range was, so that I knew he made enough money for me to want to date him long term. LMAO. It's genuinely hilarious how you equal masturbating to vanilla pictures (= showing great sign of physical attraction) to stalking and gold digging. Again, if a girl confess to her bf of 6 months after sex that she used to masturbate to vanilla pictures of him before dating that would …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:29 PM
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How do you decide what is sexual in nature and what isn't? People don't control what makes them horny and it is obviously totally harmless to masturbate to vanilla pictures. If a guy is fantasizing about his colleague / classmate and thinking about her when fapping that's totally ok but if he opens her insta and jerk off to her pictures in bikini that's crossing a line? Give me a break. Yes, most women by virtue of simply existing will have men sexualizing her. Obviously it would be incredibly r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:47 PM
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He is painting himself as some kind of deranged porn brained weirdo Lol that's a funny take. Everybody masturbate, right? Almost everybody masturbate to some kind of content, right? So somehow, a dude masturbating to vanilla pictures of a girl he finds insanely hot makes him appear as "some kind of deranged porn brained weirdo" when it's expected that the average dude is routinely jerking off to all kind of actual hardcore porn out there. If anything, it's a very innocent type of content to jerk…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:13 PM
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I remember the redpill guy who used to say "bro" 5 times in each comment, shit was hilarious lmao He was 100% trolling too but so committed to the bit that it was genuinely entertaining, miss him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:09 PM
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I mean, isn't it pretty obvious why a man would say such a thing? Sure it could mean that he "is mentally deranged", but the alternative option is simply that he is looking for a woman that react positively to him jerking off to vanilla pictures of her. For the vast majority of men that would be such a major green flag when it comes to long term sexual compatibility. And you have at least one in this thread so it's not completely unrealistic either: Honestly, extremely flattered. The only thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:40 AM
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So unless he spends a lot of time or money coming here Is he in a relationship too? If he's single, chances are he'll be interested to travel to you if he knows for sure he'll get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:25 PM
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How far away is AP? When are you guys planning to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:20 PM
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Yes women's libido doesn't compare to men's when it comes to casual sex. In a LTR with a partner they find genuinely attractive women might want to fuck often, but outside of that there is no comparaison with men's sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:44 AM
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15 years older and she has three children, a bit much for me :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:33 AM
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One of the person has to be willing to relocate, if she was my age it could be a consideration but the gap is too big
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:19 AM
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We broke up like one year ago now but it was a long process.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:12 AM
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I've been texting with this chick for like 10 days now and it's been pretty fun. Too bad she lives so far away and is much older than me, otherwise it could have been a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:03 AM
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Staying in my city, I don't like going in actual vacation. Just not having to go to work will be a nice change of pace which hopefully will motivate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:52 AM
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The thing is I don't listen to music much these days, maybe 1h / day on average so it's more than good enough for me to listen to mainstream stuff. When I was younger I would listen to music several hours a day and was much more passionate in general about finding as many artists / songs that I like as possible but that's not the case anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:34 AM
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Alright two more days at the office before vacation. I'll try to be productive during my time off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:19 AM
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I'm into whatever is mainstream tbh. When I was younger (spotify wasn't really a thing back then) I used to spend a lot of time researching the music that I like, but these days I mostly listen to popular artists without putting much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:18 AM
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Just got done with a 1 hr 45 min phone call with a female friend Off this alone, you'd make a better boyfriend than the average dude who is totally incapable of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:26 PM
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We've split up a couple months ago already, but still living together for now as it's more convenient that way. Probably not for too long though but we'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:29 AM
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I didn't choose the good stats at birth. I want to reroll, but apparently it's not possible in this game
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:25 AM
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I went on a website, picked a girl that seemed cute and chill, sent her an email and one week later I was at her house having fun. #lifeoneasymode (if you conveniently don't mention the part where it cost me 10% of my monthly salary).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:23 AM
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So I did get laid this weekend, first time in 2025 let's go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:18 AM
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I'd totally date an OF girl even if she does content with other people. And if we start dating, I'd be happy to help with her content. Probably I would ask her to stop doing content with men though, but I'd volunteer to replace them. With girls she'd have my blessing and I'd be glad to participate, either behind the camera or during actual scenes (obviously without my face being shown though).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:58 AM
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There is no new girl, if there was I'd be spamming this thread all day haha. I'm getting laid with escorts and by getting laid I mean getting spanked until I have pretty marks if everything goes well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:05 PM
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Haha no that ship has sailed, there is less than 1% chance we'll ever do anything sexual again together
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:52 PM
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We still live together but we haven't done anything sexual for well over a year now so it's basically a roommate arrangement
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:48 PM
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We did it, it's the weekend and I'm getting laid on Sunday. First time this year so wish me luck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:34 PM
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What's your experience on Tinder like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:20 PM
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It's funny because she didn't want kids before but now she is excited :D A lot of people think with their emotions not their brain
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:59 PM
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My colleague is having an accident baby right now, she got pregnant 1 month after meeting her new bf 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:56 PM
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I'm still talking with the girl I sexted with the other day, it's pretty fun. She's mid and way older tho so I'll probably get bored quickly but we'll see
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:51 PM
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I'm sure you'll find whatever you're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:50 PM
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That's too bad, but I'm rooting for you to get your 7.5 inches chad fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:47 PM
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Reddit didn't deliver?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:46 PM
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Time to switch to women then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:37 PM
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Same reason some women don't enjoy sucking dick, you don't have to like every sexual act out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:27 PM
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Being yourself when you're autistic is a good way to get weird looks or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:17 PM
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Sure. The comments were mixed tho IIRC, some happy for him others didn't approve that he had to resort to such an extreme approach
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:11 PM
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Yes much better, he pretty much had no more libido which was a huge relief for him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:49 PM
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Somewhat related, one of the wildest post I've seen after 10+ years on reddit was an incel in his mid-twenties that went ahead with chemical castration and was seriously considering going abroad (Thailand I think) to get castrated. The post was very long, he answered every question and even provided proof of the meds he was taking as well as the medical prescription so I have every reason to believe it was legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:38 PM
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You probably can get answers on a sub with computer nerds such as /r/buildapc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:00 PM
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Saying that you want to get laid right out of the bat is probably not the best strategy, especially for an older kissless virgin haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:31 AM
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Easy to have to mindset when you have prior experiences and know that there are women out there who can genuinely be attracted to you. If you're a kissless virgin past a certain age it's going to be really hard to have that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:26 AM
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Normies won't relate, but I find it kinda fascinating how easy it is to have access to casual sex with hot chicks as long as you're willing to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:22 AM
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As long as you still have some social time probably should be fun. For me it was real lonely because I had zero friend and would rarely go out of the house. A lot of times I didn't even know what day of the week it was unless I was checking it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:07 AM
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I have the house to myself for a couple of weeks, going to be real peaceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:04 AM
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I was a NEET for 5 years between 18 and 23. Wasn't all that bad and I have some good memories about it, but overall wouldn't recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:59 AM
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My cheatcode to avoid this: I don't speak to my coworkers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:05 PM
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Probably because I don't have friends and live in a 10 millions people city so I can't really relate to that scenario in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:54 AM
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This is such a wildly unrealistic scenario it's hard for me to answer. Something that seem more realistic would be dating a woman and learning that she is a former sex worker who has a triple digit n-count or a nympho that had casual sex with dozen of different men and to that I say yes I'd be totally ok dating such woman proving she is genuinely attracted to me and is looking for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:44 AM
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For instance what is your point of telling her that. No point really, just sharing my genuine experience with dating apps. She shared her experience, I'm sharing mine and we can discuss it further from there if she wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:33 AM
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So if a woman had casual sex with a chad who was incredible in bed, she's ruined forever? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:27 AM
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I mean I'm insecure about how attractive I am (being autistic and all), but I don't think filtering women by n-count is a good way to find a partner with whom I'm going to have a fulfilling sex life, that just seem like a dumb approach to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:26 AM
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I've never understood why men care about n-count. Personally all I care is that the woman likes sex and that she's attracted to me, everything else is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:14 AM
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You can adress the topic without arguing with them. If a woman told me that: Like a woman told me she got on a dating app for one day. And got soo many matches and texts that she was overwhelmed so she turned it off I would simply say: "I tried a dating app for a couple weeks and didn't get a single match so I also turned it off"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:57 AM
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It's not hard if you're attractive and have realistic standards. People who struggle with dating don't meet either (sometimes both) of those criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:48 AM
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You really think the average man making let's say $100k a year is not ok dating a woman making $50k a year? That's totally incorrect lol And yes if you reverse the gender it is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:04 PM
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they just haven't found a guy attractive and sociable enough for it. So they don't, which is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:03 PM
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You can easily meet anybody online these days. A dentist can match with a cashier on tinder no problem. And yes that's the point, a lot of men are totally fine "paying for everything" or rather sharing both income in a "your money is my money" kind of way to manage finance within a relationship. Women on ther other hand? Not so much though ofc there are exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:41 PM
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Good. That is the first step...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:36 PM
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Something you should explore ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:31 PM
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Again, a dude at minimum wage will heavily struggle to date women who make twice as much as him. On the other hand, a woman at minimum wage won't have any issue dating a man who makes twice as much as her or more. There is definitely a difference in how (most) women have a strong preference for dating a man who make a similar amount of money as her or more vs (most) men who don't have such preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:25 PM
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Cuckquean arc when?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:18 PM
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Obviously, it's just a general trend. Like most women prefer to date men who are (slightly) older, taller, stronger than them. But you always have exceptions and there is no hard rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:09 PM
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A lot of women wouldn't date a guy who makes less than them so that's why being at minimum wage isn't ideal for a guy (though I agree he can still date, but most likely his prospects are almost only going to be girls who earn like him). For women it is quite different where a lot of men don't care or even prefer dating a woman who make less than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:49 PM
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I've invested a lot in my 20s but yeah that's because I had very boring years haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:46 PM
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I don't like to go in vacation at all, but I'm also autistic as fuck and it's too much out of my routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:07 PM
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Meanwhile my grandpa at 85 is planning a two months trip in Japan next year haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:01 PM
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Recently I've read how if you invest money with a ~30 years goal in mind you can expect roughly 4x net return considering inflation. So for example you can decide to go in vacation for a week right now or instead you can invest that money and with the returns you'll be able to go in vacation for a month in 30 years. Idk I found that perspective interesting and to me it kinda made investing not as appealing. I feel like for most stuff I'd rather have it x1 right now than x4 in 30 years. So perhap…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:44 PM
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I think money 'governs' many more things than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:34 PM
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Is it normal for your wife to not even react when you're walking around naked? I get up in the morning and I feel good about myself. I’ve been working hard, staying in shape, and I feel strong, confident—like a man should. I’ll walk around the house for a few minutes without anything on while I’m getting dressed, not to show off exactly, but... I don’t know, maybe hoping she’d notice. It just seems like she doesn’t even blink. Maybe she’s too used to seeing me—but I don’t know. I woke up this mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:45 PM
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Pretty good keep it going
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:41 AM
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Masturbation gets repetitive after a while. I've fapped 15 000+ times in my life already. Sure it does the job to satisfy that immediate craving, but it doesn't fully replace sex with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:18 AM
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Idk about other men, but I definitely wish I didn't have a libido. That shit is so annoying when you're not attractive enough to be able to properly satisfy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:14 AM
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I could have made some good money this weekend playing mtg but didn't feel motivated enough. I think I need some vacation to chill (have 4 weeks off coming this summer).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:48 AM
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It should get you compliments from your partner is she's loving enough, but yeah there is a reason most men don't put much effort into their looks beyond staying fit and strong (if that...) Gay men actually tend to compliment each other way more so it makes sense that they care more about how they dress and such
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:28 PM
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The way dating works is men approach women, not the other way around. So men tend to approach women they are attracted to and it's up to women to reject or not. From there, it makes sense that a man might have an incentive to improve his appearance to increase his odds of not getting rejected when he approaches a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:10 PM
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To increase his chances of finding a gf. Most men tend to stop putting much effort into their looks (aka going back to looking average) once they've locked down a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:59 PM
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Cheating = hiding something from your partner they would be very upset if they found out about it So hiding that you got a $20k bonus is only cheating if you're dating a gold digger. If my partner hided that from me I wouldn't care at all, it's her money, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:51 PM
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Nice thread thanks for sharing. And yes that's exactly what I'm talking about. I can totally get behind that being good in bed is about having very good social skills and intuition about what the girl like. And of course her being genuinely attracted to you. So that's why when women say that all it takes to be good in bed for a man is to know where to find the clit, eat her out and be a good listener I can't help but think they are totally skipping the hardest part by far, either not realizing h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:01 AM
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Do you think your neurodivergence obstructs you from understanding her body language and responding in a way that feels natural. Or picking up on subtle emotional cues? Yes pretty much that. Also, back when we were having sex, the way I was moving my body and reacting to what was happening didn't feel natural for her. So despite me being genuinely attracted and enthusiast about it as well as trying my best, it was a turn off for her. The fact that I have a fetish as I mentioned didn't help eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:50 AM
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Yes ofc I'm totally biased. I guess I'm in disbelief at how easy it is for normies to the point where I can't truly believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:27 AM
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As someone who genuinely feel like they aren't good at sex due to being autistic + having a fetish that makes vanilla sex not super appealing to me (but still appealing enough that I don't mind doing it) I really have a hard time believing all you need to do to be good in bed as a dude is to know where to find the clit, enjoy giving oral and listen to what your partner likes. That sounds way too easy and the bare minimum and yet sometimes if you read what women say it's apparently all it takes. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:18 AM
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What I meant by accident is something akin to: you're fucking with no condom, either because your girl tells you she takes the pill or because you do the pull out method or she does the "I track my cycle and we don't have sex when I'm ovulating" method (which yes is fucking retarded, but people are retards it is what it is) AND you have every reason to believe that in case an accident happen, the girl will be getting an abortion no question asked... except when the accident does happen, she want…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:04 AM
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Eh you could make it so that you are only legally allowed to financially abort once in your life. I would totally be willing to pay taxes so that fellow men who get a girl pregnant by accident (or get baby trapped) can wave off any financial responsabilities if the girl doesn't want to abort, but only as a once in a lifetime thing so that it's impossible for a degenerate chad with a breeding fetish (send da video) to get multiple girls pregnant with no consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:38 AM
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given that every hetro-sexual relationship involves one male and one female, it makes zero sense why the chances of male being in a relationship isn't equal to that of the female, (for example the ratio of likes on female vs male on tinder), or even the treatment of male vs female in the dating world given supply and demand. Actually it makes perfect sense if we look at how many women who are single desire a relationship vs how many men and how strongly they desire it. On average, men desire a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:35 PM
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I never said it was a money thing, you can be broke and still get laid in many countries as long as you're seen as 'exotic' enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:59 PM
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My parents didn’t need to tell me that men like skinny hot young women. It is EVERYWHERE. Any boy who thinks women don’t like hot guys never bothered to interact or even pay attention to women. You have to never listen to what they say, never look at who they crushed on, and never looked at the shows they watched or the books they read. Those who claim they were lied to are telling on themselves - they don’t actually like women. Trust me when you're autistic it's easy to miss those 'obvious' thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:54 PM
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No one is entitled to anything in life. Don't wanna work? Have fun living on the streets. Not attractive enough? Have fun staying alone for the rest of your life. I see one caveat though: pretty much as soon as you start going to school, your parents start telling you how you should get good grades otherwise you're going to be working at mcdonald's. They rarely tell you that if you don't work on your appearance and personality you might struggle with dating though hence the 'feeling lied' to par…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:21 PM
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I can't tell you, it won't be funny anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:37 PM
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And PPD helps fighting that urge for you? Remarkable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:33 PM
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PMDD Perpetually Misreading Dating Dynamics? Why do you have to call yourself out like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:16 PM
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Even the most attractive man in the world won't get near 50% of women liking him on Tinder. What that dude is doing is actually very smart and there was a top comment in the thread about it too: This guy is trying to appeal to a very specific kind of girl, and is most likely succeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:42 PM
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It's a Tinder profile, ofc he is going to spend some time taking the pictures lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:16 PM
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Plenty of women would too, that guy is definitely getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:08 PM
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day 1 on hinge. 150 likes. not one of them valid. So that's what they mean when they say online dating is hard for women too uh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:03 PM
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There is this very famous twitch streamer who was keeping a spreadsheet of the dudes she was sleeping with including dick size lmao. And the worst part is she was sharing it with friends LMAO Link: https://np.reddit.com/r/otvandfriendsrumors/comments/1armje9/extraemily_has_a_very_detailed_bodycount/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:18 PM
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Yeah that's pretty standard, I think most men myself included are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:12 PM
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A lot of men don't need mutual feelings to have sex, just mutual attraction. For women it's different as most of them require mutual feelings on top of mutual attraction to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:56 AM
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My man was keeping a spreadsheet: Of course I have a list. How else would I be able to track: Name, nationality, age, location where we had sex, if they did anal or if they swallowed. EDIT: not sure why getting downvoted for sharing that fact that I documented this data. Without this data this post wouldn’t be here to begin with. Now I don't blame him because as a fellow sperg I'd do the same, but yeah I highly doubt it was 'game' that got him results lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:30 AM
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He perfectly put it himself: Gunna get this out of the way before I continue: “Why was mentioning you are a gay man important?” Because if I say I’m just a man, I’m going to assumed to be straight, and my opinion dismissed as when straight men normally express dissatisfaction with how they are treated and perceived in online female spaces. And he is 100% right about that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:23 AM
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The thing is, even if you're a chad, it still takes quite a bit of effort to get laid regularly with hot girls that are fun in bed. The OP talks about this briefly: It looked like sunshine and rainbows for younger my. Was in no way possible to combine with work. Hence the burnout. It was not fun in the end, full on addiction. Whole day consisted of looking for sex. Now if you're an NBA player or something and girls are litteraly throwing themselves at you then sure I could see it, but otherwise …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:57 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1l2lfu7/29m_half_year_of_fun_after_breaking_up_from_a_7y/ Interesting perspective from a chad. He tells how he had a sex addiction and ended up burning out from it. I can totally see it tbh. As much as I'd like to have access to casual sex, I think if I did I would end up enjoying it a lot for a couple months and then start getting bored of it. Maybe it's just cope tho, impossible to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:05 AM
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I mean I guess the argument is that as the kid gets older and he has more opportunity to turn to screen instead of real life interaction, he'll pick screen over it. This is 100% what happened for me tbh, I started gaming a lot from 11 yo and the years went by it kept increasing as I was getting more and more freedom to play. I remember vividly in high scool when I was like 17 there was a school event to see a theater show on a Friday night. I was the only one that didn't go in my class because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:26 AM
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On a grandma it's funny tbh, on an underage girl Idk it seems a bit hardcore to me 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:21 AM
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Something mildly wild happened yesterday (to my standards lol) so I'll share it with you guys. I was at the grocery store waiting to pay and just behind me was this seemingly underage girl, I'd say between 16 to 18 yo. She was looking perfectly innocent, girl next door type. As I finish putting my stuff in my bag and paying, the girl gets next to me and that's when I notice she is wearing a bracelet with a custom word formed by little cubes, exactly like this example except the word she had pick…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:08 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/nbacirclejerk/comments/1l1r33a/luka_doncic_1225/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:32 AM
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He obviously isn't very invested. He swipes 20 times a day on average. Maybe does that on the shitter or 5 minutes before bedtime. Probably has a terrible profile and no game as well. A lot of times, the main reason for inceldom / lack of success in dating is simply not wanting to invest time and energy into something a lot of people get naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:30 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1l25w7r/almost_10_years_as_a_casual_swiper/ Maybe just let it go? response from OP: Window shopping is still fun even if I can’t afford anything inside! I’ve made my peace long ago Good to see he kept his sense of humor at least :D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:09 AM
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Haha I can't believe this is getting upvoted in the comments: No no no no. Don’t get it twisted. Getting matches is easy. Dating is just as shitty and hard for us as for you guys. and then from the same user: We have to sift through disgusting men who will send vile and creepy messages who make us feel hella uncomfortable. Also men who just swipe right on everyone and later decide that your ugly and will tell you without any nuance. Datingapps and dating in general is hell. For everyone. The str…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:38 AM
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Sounds like the sex went well, congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:10 AM
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Happy to help
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:37 PM
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Yeah so you've never struggled with dating at all, but thanks for being honest at least. I lost my virginity at 28 and had sex less 30 times in my life. And you have a lot of dudes on there who (unfortunately for them) have it way worse than me too. It's expected that you can't relate to guys like me, like I can't relate to the cashier who's been doing that awfully boring, repetitive, physically and mentally exhausting job for 30 years for barely minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:30 PM
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When did you lose your virginity / got your first relationship? Since that day, what's the biggest amount of time you went being celibate (no sex / no relationship)?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:49 PM
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A blowjob should help him relax
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:58 PM
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If you've never struggled with dating, this sub is for entertainment only. It's like me when I go to /r/antiwork even tho I get paid to be on reddit all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:57 PM
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Yeah tbh I've noticed that a lot of girls on reddit are into gaming which makes sense since that website attract a lot of nerds. But in general it's not a particularly attractive hobby for a man when you look at some polls on the subject. And btw I met my gf on reddit and she's not into gaming at all :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:48 AM
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Staying at home to raise the kids is a privilege. My mom was a sah mom for 6 years to raise my sister and I and she didn't consider it work in any way shape or form and has always considered herself extremely lucky that she had that opportunity in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:11 AM
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I'm fortunate that my job doesn't require a lot of hours. I work roughly 10h / week on average. A full week is 168h and I'd say I spend my time roughly as follow: 56h sleeping 40h mandatory activities such as work, showers, groceries, cleaning, commute, cooking, eating etc. 72h free time which most of it is spent gaming and the rest is either spending time with people or on reddit / Internet in general The 56h and 40h are pretty high estimation to be on the safe side, in reality it might be clos…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:49 AM
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Technically yes. Like you can meet girls on reddit (that's where I met my gf). But realistically it's pretty unlikely, especially if you play solo games.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:53 AM
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I love gaming, been a hardcore gamer dude for over 20 years now. I easily spend 50h gaming per week, sometimes a bit more sometimes a bit less depending if I'm really into a game or not. Anyway as much as I love it, Idk lately I'm starting to realize how pointless it is. But again most activities people do during their free time are pretty pointless. Gaming won't get you laid tho so I wish I had been crazy into fitness or something instead haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:41 AM
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Solid advice from a chad. Pretty standard stuff ofc that everyone should know here, but still doesn't hurt as a reminder
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:54 AM
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It's a slow process, we might still be together at the end of the year at this rate, but we'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:35 PM
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Ah I understand now why there is so few comments in the daily
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:21 PM
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Yeah putting that you write smut in your Tinder bio is like a cheatcode. You'll be drowning in pussy in no time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:35 PM
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Idk maybe it's correct from an historical pov, but nowadays we can easily see that it no longer apply in Western countries where women are free to pick up the men they want to reproduce with. And despite that, you still have only around 20% of men who don't reproduce, meaning the vast majority of men get to reproduce despite women now having total free choice (including the choice of reproducing without a man at all with IVF needing just a sperm donor).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:12 PM
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Work at the office so misery. Thanksfully I won't have to go again until Monday
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:56 AM
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Link to the comment? Sounds unhinged in a PPD way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:55 AM
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I know that, but in this case I think it’s AI porn. Oh yeah that's totally something that is going to become more and more widespread in the future. People will definitely make AI porn with the vanilla pictures of their school / work crush etc. they find online to fap to. And yeah it's probably already happening. The fact that it's illegal won't matter much, I have a hard time seeing the authority enforcing it even if the ones who do it share the AI generated porn unless it's particularly egregi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:08 AM
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Idk but there must be a way, the other one that was linked looked much more human-like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:00 AM
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That one is way too AI looking to be any attractive tbh, doesn't look like a human at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:56 AM
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Everything you post online can be easily saved by someone and then shared to other people / stored somewhere. If you're a remotely attractive young woman posting pictures of yourself on TikTok / Insta or what not, I can guaratee you that there are people (overwhelmingly men, let's be honest) who have both fapped to them and saved them. Just something to be aware when you post content online, even if it's totally vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:55 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/1kvribr/emmanuel_macron_the_president_of_france_was/ Thoughts? My bet is they have a D / s relationship and Macron is the sub but I'm a degenerate so probably not very relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:33 PM
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OP is a 28 yo autistic dude who lost his virginity at 26 with a sex worker. I'm a 31 yo autistic dude who had his first sexual experience at 24 with a sex worker. I can assure you that for guys like us it is not obvious that there are women out there in the world who would throw themselves at us and be genuinely attracted to us. It's something that took years for me to realize and that to this day is still hard for me to wrap my head around sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:07 PM
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Yes that was mentioned in the thread I bought HIV test kits for the both of us every time, and i of course used condoms. Not sure how effective the HIV test kits are tho. They seem to be dirt cheap to buy where I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:33 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1krpwbo/my_tinder_insights_from_a_16day_trip_to_uganda_im/ Very entertaining / informative thread. OP seems legit, crazy to think there is a place in the world where women would throw themselves at you because you're exotic to them when at home you get no action (OP said so himself) Don't get me wrong, I know about passportbroing in sea countries, but usually that involve the women being interested in your money whereas here they purely wanted to fuck an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:28 PM
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Ah that's normal if it's your first job then, especially at 20. Just don't stay in that company for too long
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:40 PM
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Who is she? Famous actress?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:29 PM
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Sounds like you have a shit job. It's possible to find a better one though like finding a good relationship it isn't easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:27 PM
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That's why I prefer metrics with a more straightforward question such as 'have you had (penetrative) sex in the last 12 months?' Last time I checked, 10% more young (20-29 bracket) women than men answered yes to that question which is brootal if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:13 PM
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I wouldn't call her stupid. As a woman, you can definitely get money or goods off men if you wish to. It will almost always require to offer your body or some kind of services in exchange though which most women don't find appealing at all, but for the few that do then I don't find it stupid to partake in that kind of transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:38 PM
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If simply being a good person made dating effortless life would be far too easy for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:57 AM
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Probably yeah and everyone knows that cumming is good to decrease your odds of getting prostate cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:40 AM
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I've decided to stop watching porn and only use my imagination to fap in the foreseeable future. I'm not anti porn at all and also didn't feel like I was addicted or anything, I just didn't found it very exciting anymore but would still watch out of habit. I think after nearly two decades my brain was simply too used to it and only a long break could potentially reset it and make it truly exciting again for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:36 AM
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Yeah people just feel obligated to say when they find a sex act disgusting / nasty. Like 99.9% of the population I'm not into poop, but I don't really care about the 0.1% who are and I don't feel obligated to shit (hehe) on them every time I'd get the opportunity. Eating ass is super vanilla for me as well, but I understand that it's already too kinky for the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:14 AM
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Eating ass + facesitting + the girl is stroking my dick = I cum in less than 2 minutes GUARANTEED. Hasn't happened in my life nearly as much as I'd have liked though, but it did happen a couple times so there that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:58 AM
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90 minutes before I can enjoy a 6 days weekend. Will have to take care of my gf's dog though as she goes back to her country for a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:35 PM
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Wait I thought you were an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:51 PM
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I think we can all agree here that heteronormative courtship dynamics are still very much enforced to this day which mean that it is expected that men approach women and not the other way around. For some men this a real challenge which makes dating extremely hard for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:50 AM
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I've heard that swiping right on everyone is actually detrimental as it mess with the algorithm and then your profile is barely shown anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:40 AM
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the rest gets 3-4 matches a week. Being generous here I see
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:37 AM
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It's data from PPD then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:12 AM
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Where is this data from? https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm Here the data (median) is 4.3 partners for women vs 6.3 for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:02 AM
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It's not because there is a goalkeeper that you can't score bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:00 PM
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Most men I don't think it applies to most men, I'd say 20-30% but probably depends on the country too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:59 AM
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I have a gf yeah. Met her on reddit 5 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:37 PM
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As long as I have this job, I'll keep posting 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:34 PM
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She's hot enough that 90% of straight men would fuck her so doesn't really matter what her level is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:29 AM
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As my fellow PPD degenerates would say: 'would'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:32 AM
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She isn't bad, but yeah the dude is giga chad level so not quite the same level haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:31 AM
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I spent my saving on an 'elite' matchmaking agency Interesting way to say you got scammed haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:14 AM
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Tbh to me gender isn't really relevant for this topic, it's more about how people manage their finance and their 'relationship' with money and it's important to find someone you are compatible with when it comes to money otherwise it will cause issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:01 AM
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This is an extremely common topic on reddit and there is no clear 'right answer'. You basically have two camps on this matter. Camp 1 believes that when your partner move in with you and you own the house, you should NOT make them contribute towards the mortgage because that would be unfair to them since if you break up, they'd have helped to buy your house with nothing in return. So instead, you should only ask for them to contribute toward shared expenses (utilities, groceries etc.) and not to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:33 AM
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It's no secret that the dating market is much more favorable to men in thirld world countries like in Southeast Asia. From there, you can't blame men who decide to live there, either entirely for dating reason or partially. Women don't really have to ever make that choice because the dating market is already extremely favorable for them in their home country.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:05 PM
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Not everyone is into casual sex. But for the people who are and don't have access to it (like myself), I definitely think it makes being content in an LTR easier. But at the same time, if you have access to casual sex, you probably have much more options for an LTR and can find a good fit if you look hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:59 PM
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You don't need friends to find a gf. Sure it'll increase your odds of finding one, but it's not a prerequisite in any way. As for wanting friends, the easiest way is to find an activity / hobby you're passionate about and to want to find people who share that passion. Even if you achieve that, there is no guarantee you'll make friends unless you approach those people regularly. But tbh it's perfectly fine to not want friends. I haven't had a friend in the past 15 years and I'm totally ok with it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:39 AM
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I always find it mind-boggling that virtually every man in western countries has access to on-demand sex with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:27 AM
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Agree with you, but tbh I haven't heard that argument very often. The one that I hear often is 'Reddit isn't real life' and actually usually related to politics which is true. If you only knew about Reddit, you'd think Bernie Sanders was going to be president before every election or that Hillary had no chance to lose vs Trump which of course ended up very wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:23 AM
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I call my gf 'brother' all the time. She does too :D
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:18 AM
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Interesting how everyone is saying 3. For me I feel like it was definitely older, and closer to 5. I truly have no memories of when I was 3yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:48 PM
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Boobs are too big for me, I'd have to pass
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:55 PM
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Sounds like something easy to confirm... just saying ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:46 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/LivestreamFail/comments/1k3yqm1/pokimane_goes_on_a_rant_about_rich_people/ I had a good chuckle out of that one. Btw I think it's similar energy when men who have no trouble with dating say they might be above average, but that they are certainly not chad :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:29 PM
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Talking about looks: Dina in The Last of Us season 2 is smoking hot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:22 PM
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Less than 5% of the money generated by online dating is from women, the rest from men so yeah it's not zero, but not far from it. And I wouldn't be surprised if those 5% are mostly lesbian / bi women trying to date women like in your case lol OLD is genuinely fuuucked for avg and below avg men, huh? It is and that's why a lot of men check out from it. If you're an an average of below average dude, you have to go on OLD with the mindset that you're playing the lottery: almost zero chance of winni…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:04 PM
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And then I remembered that Hinge frontloads the most attractive/compatible people so that you run out of likes faster, and then you're more likely to pay for premium features. That's not really what it's like. Women don't pay for online dating. The reason Hinge (and other online apps, almost all of them being owned by the same company anyway) front-load Chads to women is simply because of how the algorithm works and because that's what is most likely to keep women engaged in the platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:53 PM
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My gf is much better looking / fit than me (she's actually stronger than me lmao). We're in a dead bedroom tho so not the best example :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:43 PM
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Children of a PPD parent, they are already fucked from birth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:07 PM
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Let mommy handle it. Tbh I don't think I could be a parent, I'm too autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:04 PM
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Gotta foster that knife play kink amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:03 PM
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Yeah all my grandparents are alive, all having a good run so far. My gf on the other hand all her grandparents died fairly young, except one who is 70 and hasn't left the house for the past 40 years due to medical reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:57 AM
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I was thinking of recommending The Father to my mom but I think that'd be too much of a brutal watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:53 AM
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My grandpa is losing his mind unfortunately. Since the start of the year he is convinced my grandma is cheating on him. He had to be put in a retirement home a couple days ago when he threatened my grandma and himself. It's probably dementia. Poor dude, but he's 90 including a 60 yo marriage so he had a good run.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:39 AM
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The biggest downside of working 10h a week is that I get paranoid and feel like I could get fired anytime which wouldn't be an issue, but my fear is that I would then have to find a job where I'm actually working full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:32 AM
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Winter is over, PPD users are touching grass
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:01 AM
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Is that the start of a cnc roleplay?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:00 AM
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Are there really that many people that go into parenting completely blind and think they can just figure it out, and if they fail - no biggie? Being a product of such parenting myself, shit feels crazy. Yep and the worse part is that it's praised by society. My colleague left her long time boyfriend of 5 years which is totally fine (apparently he was kinda toxic), but then just a few months later she got with another dude and within ONE fucking month of meeting him she got pregnant ('an happy ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:56 AM
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Pretty funny, I bet a lot of people took the bait
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:19 PM
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Again, the whole premise is about a guy who is not sexually fullfiled (and his partner knows that) and yet his girl is asking him to not watch porn. Being sexually fullfiled is obviously going to be important for the man as well so if he is not getting that, then it's expected he's not going to feel that bad lying about watching porn. I guess the main point is that if a man is not sexually fullfiled, his partner should not be trying to control his sexuality. Or if she is, she should at least put…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:19 PM
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There are levels to lying. I've "lied" to my partner a couple times saying I ate chinese at lunch when in reality I went for a pizza, hardly something to feel guilty about. The average dude who is not sexually fulfilled is not going to feel too guilty lying about watching porn. For a lot of men, that's a 5-10 minutes thing they do during the day to relieve some pressure, we're not talking about having an affair over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:06 PM
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If I was making twice as much as I'm making right now? Yes definitely. There is absolutely some content I'd be buying. I don't find it worth it given my current income, but if I had much more money then sure why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:58 PM
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Then he should break up? Men don't have an abundance of options like women have. So yes he should break up rather than lying about watching porn if that's a boundary for his partner. That's "the right thing to do", but the reality is a lot of men in such situation will just lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:53 PM
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Where do you draw the line? What if she has a pretty average libido and his is above average? (obviously he can still masturbate) Obviously it's a case by case thing, but if she has a lower libido than him and still want him to not watch porn, I would expect her to put effort to compensate. So that might mean taking nudes / videos her man can jerk off too or letting him masturbate looking at her naked, that sort of thing. Btw, I'm talking about a fairly significant difference in libido level her…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:44 PM
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Because buying stuff feels good. We live in a consumer society where we're encouraged to buy all kind of shit. People enjoy buying exclusive content from a girl they fantasize about. It's not that complicated imo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:34 PM
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Totally fair if she fulfill him sexually. If she doesn't though, that's laughable and just asking to be lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:28 PM
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I mean, we're on PPD. Being retarded is kinda the name of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:17 PM
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Start dating as in sign up on OLD and try to find a gf. I'm in no rush because I don't think it's going to go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:49 AM
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I want to start dating around that age as well, 35 yo perhaps. I'm 31 right now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:22 AM
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No I'm in Paris, the price to buy are ridiculous in this city. What people like me do since buying is too expensive is that they save a lot of money each month (I save 50% of my salary, my gf who is more frugal save 60%) and invest in ETFs. If everything goes well, I should have enough money when I retire to buy something, but yeah it sucks that buying when you're young is basically impossible unless you're ok with buying a tiny apartment for 250-300k.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:38 AM
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But still it's worth it to buy? Where I live it's not really worth it: A decent apartment is 500k minimum so cost is about 2k5 / month for the mortgage. We barely make 6k / month with my gf so that would be 41% of our salaries that goes for the mortgage which is too high and not allowed anyway. But even if it was, considering that on top of the mortgage we'd have additional taxes and expenses it's just much better to rent and invest money. Kinda stupid how people are priced out from buying tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:25 AM
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That's what we pay each month :D You guys must have very high salaries
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:12 AM
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If I was gay life would be much easier. Alas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:10 AM
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I don't have a cuck fetish. My kink is spanking. What I said back then was probably something along the lines that I wouldn't mind to see my gf getting fucked by someone else since regular sex is not a big thing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:10 AM
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