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| 3 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsIt was a joke..cause they're not in the EU... They rejected "europe" for exiting the EU. The UK friend-zoned Europe, blah blah blah... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsNot in spain or the rest of the EU to my knowledge. Didn't know about UK....but didn't they reject Europe, lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsYup hinge doesn't exist in Europe, so tinder is the main thing that people use there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:07 AM |
| 5 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsThats cause you live in Dallas. I guess men drink.. beer there? I guess you never been to Spain and Italy. The men drink wine more than the women! In Germany, the woman prefer beer though ;) Its funny how in Texas wine is considered feminine! Speaks to how crazy gender norms are when you can't enjoy a good Chardonnay without being labeled a pu**sy in some cultures. Edit: I've never considered wine bars or wine to be a woman's activity. But I come from a different culture, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:03 AM |
| 7 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.Continue this thread Seems like you are friends with the wrong people or are in high school or something? Cause this ain't how my friend group works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.IF someone is bitter cause they can't get a GF, guess who they are gonna take out their bitterness on? The gf, when they finally get her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 05:35 AM |
| 2 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.It doesn't help that society tells us "they're just not that into you". Women experience the same too on the other end, they're told if the guy bounces that means they're not "physically attractive enough." Many times it has to do with fears / insecurities / emotional unavailability / childhood trauma from the other party. I'm sorry you internalized it, I used to do the same. I recommend the youtube channel "personal development school" by thais gibson she gives great explanations about why pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?This is about reason. How is it reasonable to brush off any insecurity as "irrational", have no empathy and compassion for those that struggle, and try not to discover a root cause through psychological studies and evaluations? Isn't discovering a root cause through scientific evaluation the most reasonable action one can take? How do you propose we eliminate insecurity from human-beings and in that case, are you even human if you can erase self-doubt? Hypothetically, if everyone believes they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:18 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?You can have compassion and empathy for people that are struggling even if you disagree with their viewpoint. I can have compassion and empathy for murderers whom were abused as children, even if I disagree with their murder and think they deserve punishment. You seem to think insecurities are irrational and toxic behavior, but how is an insecurity a behavior? An insecurity is a feeling about oneself not a behavior, though it can be manifested in behaviors and actions. I do not understand them? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?I don't even want to talk about you or your emotions! And clearly you don't either. I get it, it's a sore subject that I will avoid. I rather talk about my post and the philosophy of what I wrote. Way to change the subject, dude. Good curve ball, there to avoid the discussion and defer the topic. Somehow, instead of addressing my points you choose not to read my post, , derail the ENTIRE conversation, and instead make up a bunch of silly reasons why you must, you cannot, you refuse, to read my p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Women do not have diverse tastes.I feel like dick size is some weird measure of masculinity and status and not a sought after trait in reality, perhaps from porno which created this erroneous culture of "big dick === most manly." In ancient Greece small dicks were preferred. How times change based on the medias ever-changing beauty standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Women do not have diverse tastes.I think it's because male bodies are not as sexualized and objectified. If you think about it, "the penis" was objectified in ancient rome look at pompeii art, but it isn't so much anymore. Womans bodies are objectified, which is probably why straight men are able to objectify a vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?Nah dw. I'm just too tired to care about a wall of fallacious text where the person starts by pushing their projection of my state of mind. That's unfortunate you feel that way and are angry at me. This could have been an interesting discussion had you bothered to read the rest of my text and I was interested in hearing your side and opinion of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?It's okay to have emotions you know. Most people infuse writing with emotions as its difficult to detach your emotional state and write objectively. Nothing wrong with that. I mean, you blamed insecure people and looked down on them. You said it yourself! This to me is anger / disgust towards them and anything but objective writing. It's okay to feel anger. it's okay to feel disgust (even if its not healthy and misplaced). It doesn't make you weak. It is what it is. EDIT: I looked back on my pas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:12 AM |
| 2 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.You're assuming most women marry for money. According to statistics, Rich marry other rich people, poor marry other poor people, middle class marry other middle class people, excluding outliers like Melania trump cases, and those obviously exist as well. Obviously, transactional marriages exist but they are not the majority in the USA at least (maybe the stats are skewed in other countries). If stats say women marry men with a higher income --- and the difference is like the woman makes 75k and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?That's funny because my post was very deep and complex, and I was very classy and didn't attack you, didn't attack men or women, and instead advocated for compassion and empathy --- it's strange you said my call for empathy for insecure people was a "personal attack," I must have struck a chord with you and you have no idea how to respond. I mean, I sensed you placed blame on insecure people, you said it yourself in your own post that insecure people are at "fault" for being "too sensitive", and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:49 AM |
| 2 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Crazy you think like this. Marriage happens when peoples hormones overtake any rationality. It's a feeling of attachment, an addiction. They can't live without the person. Something about the person makes them feel the feels... its a result of a deep emotional connection and intimacy shared between two people that they never experienced before with anyone else. Yes, I agree that marriages like Ivanka Trump is a "transactional marriage" but most marriages are not, especially because most people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:40 AM |
| 2 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.A lot of people prefer rebels over "jocks" because they are rebels themselves and don't find jocks attractive. The girls sound like avoidants -- they ditched you before they got too emotionally attached cause they didn't want to get hurt first, rather than because they saw you as "lesser" status. I don't think you were a novelty, girls that feel a "little out of place" have problems with emotional intimacy, and once it gets too intimate they bounce. They woulda done the same with a jock or "alph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.The likelihood of her swiping across this guy again is very very low, unless she lives in an extremely small town. I don't buy this story --- I think she said this to him to manipulate him a bit. But it was very smart for her to say this to him --- because it probably gave him a dopamine hit / ego boost and now he feels more connected to her and probably wants to see her again. When you compliment people it gives them a dopamine hit and makes them feel more attached and connected to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?You seem to place a lot of blame, anger and disgust at people who are insecure about something? Ever think that somebody (male or females) can be conditioned to be insecure by abusive parenting, school, and/or media? It's hard to outgrow insecurity and it seeps into your subconscious. It doesn't make you a "weak" person, everybody has got insecurities, it just means you were not raised correctly and didn't have the correct influences growing up. Men and Women's insecurities run deep and it's har… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?Yes --- but thats the thing. Sex is not just about physical attraction. The person I was most "connected" and "attracted" to kissed me in the same rhythm. I can't even explain it but they felt the same. And the best sex in my case, wasn't with the most "objectively" attractive person, our vibe and chemistry just matched which attracted me to them, the way we liked to be touched, and our love languages matched. They said the same about me --- it's like our kissing styles just matched. I agree tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?I think you underestimate that attraction is not just based on the physical, but many many subconscious things --- including, body language, the way the person looks at you, the way the person makes you feel, the way the person touches you, the way the person dresses, the way they have their hairstyle, the way their voice sounds, the way the person walks. It's all a matter of personal taste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 08:06 PM |
| 0 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?You can be in LTR and still not be emotionally vulnerable and still be emotionally unavailable. This is the case for men and women. I don't believe in beta billy or reformed "sluts." I value people on how they make me feel and if I connect with them. I was in a marriage once, both ME AND my partner were emotionally unavailable and we both didn't even realize it! Sometimes you don't realize these things until after you experience it. I didn't know what true intimacy was myself. Now, I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:33 PM |
| 0 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?I don't think TRP is the problem itself --- according to numerous studies, around 80 percent of people have difficulties with emotional bonding and are dysfunctional, and only around 20% of people in general are emotionally "secure", this is largely due to fears and insecurities (probably brought on by society) and childhood trauma and trauma from being in dysfunctional relationships. TRP doesn't seem like a healthy outlet, but its not a CAUSE of the dysfunction, merely a symptom. Edit: I think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?This doesn't make sense because we (all humans) are all bombarded by standards and images from a young age on what is 'ideal.' It's not about the media we actively choose to consume that determines our tastes and if society has a standard, then most media is going to adhere to that standard regardless. Basically we are all brainwashed from a young age with the constant barrage of images around us. We have less control over the standards than you think by "choosing" media to consume, cause at the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?TRP is the statement that the patterns of behaviors of men and women in dating, sex and relationships are fairly predictable and universal across cultures. It seems you have not traveled extensively or at all. You'd be surprised how different the standards change from country to country. I've lived in 5 different countries and speak a few different languages and even among western countries that are great differences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:44 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?athletes and popular kids getting all the perks This is only in American schools. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:36 AM |
| 2 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?You already consider yourself less valuable and inferior to an NFL player or 6'5 guy and women less valuable to a model. I'm not gonna lie, billionaire status and model looks makes life easier, but it doesn't make you inferior of a person if you don't have these things. It's like Empathy, intelligence, compassion, humor, emotional intelligence, don't matter to you. Personally, I judge a person on how they make me feel. Do I feel good in their presense? Are they enjoyable company? Do they make me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?On a side note, truck driving is gonna be made obsolete by self-driving vehicles so we don't need more babies for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:30 AM |
| -1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?..you do realize.. there is more to a partner than looks or being a high status victorias secret model or 6'5 dude. Like, I dunno about you, but I look for someone that understand me on a deep level and who I can have deep conversations with. People that are not superficial look for these things. The vast majority of relationships are based on a deep emotional connection and compatibility. There's more to life than fucking random hot people... Dating apps suck for everyone. Not sure where you ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:26 AM |
| 0 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?This is not true at all and shows a gross misunderstanding of basic psychology. For the love of god, allah, buddah or whatever, read a book on attachment theory. People (including women) have sex "without anything in return" for all sorts of reasons including: Childhood trauma Being Pressured Pressured by society low self-esteem Just got out of a long term relationship and emotionally unavailable anxiously attached and doesn't want to lose the person ego boost Pure attraction Attracted to thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:16 AM |
| 2 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?Anyone who sees sex as a "transaction" is not gonna be good in bed, lol. Let's be real here. Passion is passion and words like "transaction" and "sexual market value" turn sex into a capitalist commodity. Theres no mathematical formula for attraction, sex and chemistry. Its a magic that is still not understood by science. Fucking Americans. Taking all the pleasure outta sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:08 AM |
| 0 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?You do realize that men and women who are in relationships is due to the feelings, emotional connection, and vulnerability they receive from their partners right? This explains why women AND men who are not in the top 20 percent of looks are in relationships. Looks will get you in the door, sure. The hotter you are, according to societies ever fluctuating beauty standards (which change drastically when you travel countries), the more "options" for shallow dating you have. But actual relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 08:56 AM |
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