| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 250 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questions | throfosho888 | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 11:49 PM | |
| 22 | 29 year old virgin - update | throfosho888 | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 10:27 AM |
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| 1 | 29 year old virgin - updateThanks for your reply and yes, please recommend some good vids | /r/seduction | 04/07/15 12:38 PM |
| 1 | 29 year old virgin - updatewhat sort of dance is good for a beginner? there are a lot of different styles | /r/seduction | 04/07/15 12:35 PM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks so much. I think you have provided a really positive way of looking at things. I'm so used to thinking of myself in terms of a deficit, like I'm not fit enough, not good-looking enough, not A or B rather than what positive things I might be. To be fair to you, I struggle trying to improve too. I have spent a lot of time feeling sorry for myself because I thought that if I didn't do it, no one else would. I needed to feel sorry for myself, because if I didn't, then I would be 'accepting' s… | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 10:56 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:52 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, Ive never thought about it that way. | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:51 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthanks, will try | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:51 AM |
| 2 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, I hope I get a look like that one day. | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:50 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsAt the moment I really only read and do general sorts of things everyone does like going to the movies. I used to be into video games but I quit as they were such a time sink. A new hobby is something to work on for me. | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:50 AM |
| 2 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, at the moment I have stalled in my lifts and the numbers aren't that great. I don't have a lot of muscle at the moment, only a bit. I'm going to get as lean as I can and then focus on hypertrophy. I'm probably a very long time from being happy shirtless. | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:48 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:47 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, I think i spend too much time trying to make sure people like me rather than being dominant. | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:42 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:40 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:39 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:39 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:38 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:37 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthat makes a lot of sense, thanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:36 AM |
| 2 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsWill do, thanks and well done btw | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:36 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:35 AM |
| 2 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsYou know, I have never seen a James Bond movie with Sean Connery. I'm going to fix that. thanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:35 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsYou have given me a lot to think about, thanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:32 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionswill try, thanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:31 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionscheers | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:30 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:30 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsI'm gonna keep going with the lifting. I have been doing it for a long time (since the initial weight loss) and have kind of stalled, but I will keep at it thanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:30 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, just wish the new body didn't have loose skin etc but I can't change that | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:28 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, well done on your weight loss man. I find meditation to be difficult because my mind wanders so much, but I guess it is all practice. Counselling works a bit man. Sometimes I'm not sure if it is just the catharsis of just getting all the stuff troubling you out, or whether what they are saying helps. Either way, I do feel a bit better after going. | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:27 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:23 AM |
| 2 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks friend | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:23 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, I am often distracted by my own issues, so focus is something to improve on. Will practice next time Im out. thanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:23 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsMost of the time I look to others for what I should be doing. Leading by example is something I haven't thought of. Thanks, I have some thinking to do | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:22 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsOk so questions: Some things yes, but i need to work out career and stop comparing my life to others. I'm in a financial job, I'm pretty good at it an people have told me so. I have an OK time depending, most of my friends would say they enjoy my company, I'm frequently invited to things that they could easily not invite me to without repercussion. Thanks man | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:20 AM |
| 2 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsCareer is something I'm still working out, at the moment I'm good at what I do, but it doesn't really interest me or lead to me using any of the good skills I have. The most motivational thing I think are the replies I've gotten here and also progress I've made in other areas. I also have to not give in to self pity as I have in the past. Like that Stephen Fry quote says, it 'will fulfill all its prophecies and leave only itself.' | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:17 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsI've been trying a sort of variation of this (the wuss kind lol) where every-time I see an interesting woman in a social setting I smile at them or talk to them | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:08 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsIm gonna get as lean as I can, thanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:07 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, can I ask you how she became your girlfriend if she said that she didn't find you paticularily attractive when you met? I don't mean this question to have any sort of subtext like sarcasm etc btw | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:05 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthanks, will have to focus more on myself in future. | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 11:12 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, will look into that book too | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 11:11 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsYou have given me a lot to think about, especially regarding projecting. thanks | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 11:10 AM |
| 2 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthanks, will keep trying | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 11:09 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthanks, will do my best | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 11:09 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsHi, thanks. Career is something I'm still putting thought to. I have done a number of jobs, a couple have been well paid and the current one I could continue to do for a long time. The issue is that it is easy and I dont get to use my best skills and talents. Its another area of my life to work out haha. | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 11:08 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsHi, thanks. I'm not sure what you meant by you know a tonne of people that have an awesome success rate? it seems confusing paired with the sentence before and after. Anyway, the kind of women that I want are ones I can talk to about stuff like science, history, world events. I'm drawn to more feminine women than say tomboys or 'one of the guys' types. | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 11:06 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, I really need to start looking at new things to take up my time. I easily get bored so its tricky to find things lol, but I will have to keep an open mind. | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:48 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, improving and growing are really the things that distract me from being down and interest me. Hopefully in time it will lead to more. | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:46 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsSorry, kind of want to keep that private | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:44 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:44 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsI'm going to try, thanks | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:44 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:42 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsValuing myself is going to be tough. The reason being that a lifetime of being of no romantic value to others is a lot to ignore. I value a number of things about myself, It just doesnt seem to be enough. thanks | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:41 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks for your post. In regards to non-neediness, I have read 'models'. Its something I have to work on, because at this point its very hard not to want something when you have worked so hard to get it. I'm going to try to be more like you in not putting too much power in other people's hands in terms of my worth. Its gonna be tricky, but so far they have been unfriendly lol, so its my only good choice. Thanks | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:36 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsWill give it a go, cheers. | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:30 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsWill have a look into this stuff, thanks. | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:29 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questions-I have read a lot about body language and have watched a lot of the signs with others, so to me it seems like there are no interest when it comes to me and women. To be fair though, there is the possibility that I have missed something. It just seems to my mind that if I don't see what I think I should have seen + coupled with my experiences thus far, there is likely no interest. Again though, you are correct, I cannot be sure I am right. The anger is both broad and at times specific: -anger at… | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:27 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsthanks | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:12 AM |
| 2 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, Im gonna try | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:12 AM |
| 3 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThat is really motivational, I may have to re-read it every now and again to stay on track. I'm good at communicating with women, I am a pretty good listener and know how to hold a conversation. I think the thing is though that I don't communicate attraction well. It is mostly because I look for signs of interest when I talk to them (based on body language etc that I have read up on) and don't see any. It's not like the conversations I see when attractive people are in conversation. I think as w… | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:11 AM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsThanks, at the moment it can feel kind of silly to suppose that things with women could change so that I did find someone that was for me, that the tide would turn like that. Who knows tho? This post gives me a bit of hope. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:02 AM |
| 2 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsI'm really shocked at the response. Thanks so much all of you who replied. I really didn't bargain on so many people taking the time to put together some really well-thought out posts and be so understanding. It means a lot. Only one comment about being a wizard soon as well (which is a depressing title to gain and kinda worries me, but its just another thing to get past). As soon as I can (its a little late where I live) I'm gonna try and respond to as many posts as I can. I really want to hear… | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:09 PM |
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