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One thing I’m always confused about in these n count discussions is who is actually sitting up discussing body counts with people they are interacting with sexually or romantically irl. I understand maybe discussing exes and actual previous relationships but I have never been asked my actual body count by anyone I’ve dated & I have also never asked someone this irl like are yall actually having these conversations in real life laid up with your partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:38 PM
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Just got into my first ever real relationship today at the age of 21 I made it official with a girl I really like we are both girls and it’s both of our first ever real relationships. Both of us come from really homophobic backgrounds and both of us just recently came out as bisexual my parents are unfortunately more violently homophobic so that’s something we are both navigating. I want this to work and to be a healthy relationship as she truly is an incredible person both of us are being hones…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:07 AM
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This guy said he had a daddy link I instantly knew we were incompatible I’m not calling nobody daddy during sex I have a good relationship with my father & that word & him are the absolute last things I want in my head or coming out of my mouth during sex. I’m moaning your name & screaming it if the sex is good that should be good lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:11 AM
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Welp then I’m wrong I don’t consider someone anything in my life unless we have been on at least one date & plan to go on more. Before the first date/meet up they are just potential. I’m 21 so I’m kind of surrounded by people who will be saying they are in a talking stage for months on end which is annoying lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:45 PM
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Talking stage is such a childish term that is someone that you are seeing & getting to know on a romantic & or sexual level who you have not established commitment with. If I’m not official with someone I’m never saying oh we are talking or in a talking stage lol I’m saying oh that’s just someone I’m seeing talking stage sounds like we are in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:33 PM
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I never lie but when I trust them & sex is about to happen or is happening I am open with men that most of my experience sexually has been with women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:24 PM
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I have feelings for people and I express them I’m not a robot lol but I choose not to let them be the main things that guide my decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:07 PM
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Never been in love so I can get this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:55 AM
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Nope I don’t do that I don’t have the time youth does not automatically mean stupidity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:51 AM
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21 felt this way ever since I actually tried to start dating which was the beginning of college
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:38 AM
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It makes complete sense though obviously I won’t tell them but I’m not going to risk sex and all that comes with it if that man Is not going to benefit me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:37 AM
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I feel like this about men ever since becoming aware of male nature
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:51 AM
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I work a night shift 40 hours a week and during the day I’m in school full time at a very rigorous school where I have tests and quizzes weekly I tell the people I’m talking too and like that my responses will be a bit sporadic. My job also doesn’t allow phones
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:17 AM
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Is it bad to want to be pragmatic about dating and relationships as a woman ive been called cold and unfeeling when I don’t think I am at all and I was hurt I definitely feel and have feelings but when dealing with men I don’t see the use of going off a tingly feeling when it comes to my dating and relationship decisions I think it’s unwise. If I take an objective look at my life and a man cannot fit into it in a way that makes sense & will benefit me currently and in the future I don’t see the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:05 AM
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Haha and I hope you’re having a great time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:22 PM
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It is for some people but not all I’m just speaking for me I don’t care whether I’m with a man or a woman if I’m in a relationship with them I want complete monogamy I don’t want any other person in that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:22 PM
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That is perfectly valid you have a right to that preference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:13 PM
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Bisexuality does not immediately correlate to polyamory, open relationships, or promiscuity it’s a sexuality not a relationship model. While they are bisexual people into that there are just as many straight & gay people in it too. I’m a bisexual woman who is actually pretty sexually conservative waited until I was 21 to have sex and believe in monogamy regardless of whether my relationship is with a man or a woman as I believe that once a commitment is made (being single & uncommitted is differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:58 PM
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No I meet and date people who I like & am attracted too regardless of whether they are a man or a woman. I never dated women or men because I got bored with the opposite sex I was just living life and met a person I really liked who happened to be a guy or girl and we dated/saw each other. I see people as individuals and I also desire marriage one day and I’m open to my spouse being either a man or woman but that doesn’t matter to me as much as me loving that person & me being dedicated too them…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:51 PM
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Bisexual women can still value monogamous relationships I’ve dated men and women and every serious relationship I was in I only dealt with that person only whether they were a man or a woman. People have misconceptions that bisexuality correlates immediately to polyamory or open relationships when sexuality & the type of relationship model someone prefers are two completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:44 PM
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Is this dick cure also for non straight women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:58 AM
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Craziest love story I’ve ever heard is from one of my parents friends they met and got married within a week. They met on a Monday went on a date on Tuesday on Wednesday he proposed she said yes on Thursday & Friday they met each other’s parents who somehow agreed on Saturday they got a church & got the people they wanted to be there & bought a wedding dress and suit and then on Sunday they officially got married. 35 years later they are still married with three kids and live a great life the wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:02 PM
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Um this is bait lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:28 AM
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This might be an unpopular opinion & im a woman who is very pro woman & girl but I’m just going to say it you can’t claim to be pro women empowerment & for supporting all women & promoting sisterhood then be a knowing & proud side chick & knowingly mess with another woman’s significant other. I’m not saying that the fault should not be on the cheating man it should 100% be on him but if you willingly participate just be honest & say that you are pro self & your own desires which is perfectly fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:35 AM
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There are some states not allowing exceptions for rape or incest only emergency contraceptives in those cases. This is very sick there are about to be cases of women & girls being forced to carry a rapists baby
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:54 AM
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I’ve seen men & women be jealous of their partners career success for example you would be surprised how many women have experienced of men being very hateful towards them in a relationship if they start to make more money than them for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:51 PM
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People will be in relationships with people who are jealous of them and it’s crazy to see imagine your biggest hater being someone who claims to love you & who you lay down next too regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:30 PM
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I’m bisexual and I felt genuine attraction and lust for the men shit was passionate same with the women I slept with same for the women I just don’t understand why my attachment style is so different when it comes to when I have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:49 AM
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With women I get more attached after sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:45 AM
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You’re right which is why I think I waited.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:39 AM
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I don’t feel ashamed during it nor do I feel disgusted or weird afterwards I even enjoy the experience in a way. sex is natural & a part of the human experience I had my own reasons for waiting. Its just that afterwards i feel like completely detaching from the person for no reason at all i feel bad as the people i slept with dont deserve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:31 AM
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I was told that when I started having sex I would become attached to the men I slept with afterwards that was the message I got my my entire life well I waited 21 years to have sex & after sex I don’t feel attached at all. Everyone from family , church , friends , media and everyone told me I’d feel this attachment & connection & well I don’t feel that. In fact I have an urge to act cold & distant afterwards not because I don’t necessarily like the guy it’s just something inside of me wants to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:04 AM
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I feel numb one week till graduation and yet another romantic situation has fallen through once again nothing bad happened they just got a big job and are moving to DC and I’m moving to Pittsburgh to pursue my career too. Pittsburgh is only an hour from where we both live now so that wasn’t a big deal but this dc news means any real hope for any actual relationship is done unless we both want to do long distance which I don’t think either of us want to do. On top of that today was already a bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:45 AM
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Had a conversation with friends lately about the types of people we know that we attract and it was interesting and kinda hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:29 PM
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Yes unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:57 AM
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Unpopular opinion don’t cry to me constantly about you being cheated on if you aren’t going to leave or cheat back. Because one thing about me I’m going to get my lick back on a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:40 AM
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I’m a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:36 AM
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Graduating college in less than two weeks looking back at my college dating experience it’s been nothing but countless failed talking stages & almost relationships that never worked out too many what ifs if I go down memory lane with good people That I was just never on the same page with. Maybe I’m just being nostalgic and emotional as my mom is on me about still being single lol. I’m very happy about graduating tho I pretty much got almost a full ride only have $6k in loans and I accomplished …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:30 AM
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Made it a goal to graduate college with no student debt at all but due to crazy circumstances my last year of college with my family I had to take out a loan of $6,000 dollars that I will be graduating with. I was so close to achieving my goal and I failed and it’s dawning on me the reality of it all. I know $6,000 is not a lot in the grand scheme of things especially compared to others who are graduating with war more debt but still for me the goal was $0. The first goal for me is paying this o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:55 PM
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The pussy is good what can I say im going to be upset the whole time and it’ll probably be hate sex and I’m going to insist I get more head this time for all my troubles lol. But im going to go out with a bang and block her right after and she’ll know exactly why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:41 PM
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Found out on of the main girls I’m having sex with had a whole man when she posted him on her Snapchat story yesterday on Valentine’s Day. She posted a picture from the room I was fucking her in last week shit in front of the bed too taking about she’s been in love with him for two years this shit feels very scandalous to me and I feel bad that I’ve been complicit in something like this.I am a woman btw and she said she was all about being private and linking on the low I’m a very private person…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:20 PM
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Found out on of the main girls I’m having sex with had a whole man on her Snapchat story yesterday on Valentine’s Day. She posted a picture from the room I was fucking her in last week shit in front of the bed too taking about she’s been in love with him for two years this shit feels very scandalous to me.I am a woman btw and she said she was all about being private and linking on the low I’m a very private person too when it comes to this stuff too so I thought she was on the same wave but nah …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:16 PM
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In old dating typically no which is why I don’t use bumble and on apps like hinge the most I will do is like a picture or rarely/occasionally comment first. However irl I’ve only ever done it once and it was because the guy made it very clear he liked me and I would not have done it otherwise because tbh unless a man makes it very clear he is feeling a woman I don’t get why she would make a first move randomly to a guy she has no idea likes her that seems kinda dumb tbh. This man was making me f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:52 PM
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I can’t believe I’m saying this in 2022 but apparently it needs to be said in light of the west elm Caleb situation and D.C. safe dating registry situation. But here it is Ghosting is not abuse if you are not in a committed relationship with an individual and you are just talking. It’s not good behavior and it is pretty shitty and shows signs of poor communication and willingness to be upfront with a person but it’s not abuse and saying it is really takes away from a lot of legitimate abuse peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:16 PM
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I don’t ever plan to tell them unless I end up marrying a woman one day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:39 AM
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I have finally come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual and damn my African parents are going to be pissed now that they have two of us in the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:02 AM
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The traditional 1950s mad men ideal being portrayed as what everyone was doing is historically inaccurate and the reason is because it was a very specifically white middle class ideal. Poor and working class women always worked throughout history even if they were white just look at the industrial revolution and who was working in the factories and rich and wealthy women did not do housework they employed maids , nannies , and cooks to do domestic labor and help with child rearing so the traditi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:57 PM
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it sucks because we both made it clear that there is nothing wrong with either of us its just not the right time because of a major move for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:24 PM
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Exactly if she’s hot she’s got serious prospects but not serious enough to delete the apps for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:48 AM
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Just had an hour and thirty minute complex conversation with one person im seeing about us no longer seeing each other for now and we were both broken up about it over the phone like both our voices were breaking. Truly one of the most honest and real vulnerable conversations about the complexity of feelings I’ve ever had there were no lies nothing was held back no false pretense. We were even honest about us both seeing other people but still catching feelings for each other like we both are yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:44 AM
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We gotta get rid of the societal lie that it’s only women who catch feelings after sex like that lie has caused so many issues in friend groups especially in college and when you are young like stop the lies admit that both men and women can catch feelings for someone after sex especially if the person is attractive and a cool person men will try and pretend that they don’t like the girl and then literally go crazy and wild out when she moves on or gets with someone else.Men we see the texts and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:14 PM
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What qualifies as an older virgin I mean I just turned 21 and I am a virgin woman because I honestly don’t think I’ve found someone worth having that experience with yet. I’m not waiting for marriage or anything it’s just not happened yet with the right person even though men have certainly tried. Btw I don’t think 21 is too old to be a vrigin it’s still very early 20’S now trust I dont plan to be one much longer. I think an older virgin is someone who is still one past early 20's like 25 plus b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:41 PM
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She was a dummy she should have gotten a mix of white and blue nails and you would have never known you would have thought she was being creative lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:05 PM
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Getting my nails done today time to ask the two or three favorite dudes that I’m seeing what color I should get and then getting a mix of all their answers😊.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:34 PM
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The same can be said for women with bad boys men and women are more similar than we like to admit so I don’t understand why people are questioning
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:13 PM
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The same reason some men like bad fast women some people are drawn to excitement and uncertainty more than actual good decisions in who they choose to partner with in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:59 AM
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I think he did the ex wife dirty in this whole situation though apparently she went to rehab herself to deal with his infidelities and apparently got her tubes tied in the marriage the optics do not look good at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:00 AM
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What’s this subs take on the whole John mulaney situation I never knew until this week that so many people were invested in his love life lol. With that being said the whole getting your new chick pregnant only a couple months after leaving rehab and divorcing your wife is pretty damn messy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:54 AM
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I completely agree I’m also looking at him sideways because the man is literally a millionaire he could have at least paid some one to do a thorough background check on her if he was going to wife her. Like sir you got too much money to be getting played like this. Also he could have asked about her in rich nyc circles because other than a trip to China she was mainly sleeping with other rich guys in nyc like there are only so many rich men in nyc he could have asked friends or associates about …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:45 PM
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What do y’all think of this juicy story this handsome Asian spinal surgeon from nyc who was making 3 million a year married a white high school dropout beauty queen who was actually leading a whole double life as an escort all through out the relationship and marriage and got 700K from wealthy men throughout the entire marriage and thats just cash and does not include all the gifts , assets , and other expensive things she got from them. Apparently she was being sponsored and sleeping with other…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:09 PM
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Celebraties set trends in what is considered attractive I’m in college rn but even in high school the guys that were considered super attractive along with the stereotypical alpha jocks to like the entire school were the talented artsy theater and choir boys who started bands or were photographers who were not stereotypically masculine and wore more feminine clothes they had all the girls as well and it was crazy them dudes had like groupies especially when it came to freshman girl. One even loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:48 AM
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I am too the man is very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:44 AM
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The two biggest heartthrobs in the world right now that thousands of young women and girls are falling over themselves about are Timothee Chalamet and Harry styles and they don’t portray stereotypical alpha bad boy masculinity at all so these generalizations don’t make sense I mean they portray everything that Is the opposite of that in their masculine presentation (Harry styles wore a whole dress) and are still considered to be very sexually attractive to a wide range of women and girls. All th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:27 AM
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The funny things is that people make statements like this like young teenager girls and young women don’t also have access to the internet to see the same information and protect themselves against it and in turn become more ruthless. I am Gen Z and a lot of women and younger girls my age know about red pill and black pill talking points from online discourse and people bringing it to the forefront on platforms such as YouTube , Twitter , and now tik to or even worse encountering men who believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:15 PM
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Nah it’s the same I don’t understand women who are not fit or into fitness expecting a man who is into fitness to be with them and that is a similar hypocrisy that makes no sense. Or a woman who doesn’t value actual legacy or wealth building expecting to be with a rich man who does value those things. Accountability is for everyone and men aren’t accountable in the specific aspect highlighted above. Saying that I am saying that people should only want what is identical to them is a straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:08 PM
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Well it would start with men understanding that a majority of women’s trauma and messed up experiences regarding sex and sexually related matters from men start way before women are even actually women and start when a lot of women are actually girls and way before they even start dating. Ask women when their first encounter with sexual harassment and creepy men was and a lot will tell you it started when they were very young as in when they were children who had not even hit puberty like 11 or …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 04:17 PM
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This is my dad right down too the letter I’ve him so much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 03:20 PM
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It should keep women on their toes and remind them to be be perceptive about how manipulative men can truly be and how twisted their true intentions can sometimes also be. The way they view women needs to be seen and exposed so women can stop playing as if relationships,dating , & sex are frivolous TRP shows that there are men willing to completely break down who you are to get what they want. The misogyny and dehumanization that consumes TRP is what women should take from it and be exposed too …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:02 PM
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Nope conservatives only support it when it’s people they agree with the NRA & Ronald Reagan supported the Mulford Act one of the strictest pieces of gun control legislation in California history as a response to the Black Panthers lawfully carrying guns to the state capital. The act was specifically crafted as a response to black people taking up their 2A rights to defend themselves. Conservatives are not at all in favor of racial minority groups using their 2A rights against prejudiced discrimi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:35 PM
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One of the best political subreddits that I found in 2020 was r/liberalgunowners where I found a community of left leaning pro gun people who approach supporting the 2A from a lot of different left leaning perspective political perspectives. It also solidified that echochambers are very much so real and especially echochambers on the right that truly believe that all left leaning people are anti gun and are soft and don’t know how to blend their left leaning , liberal , or progressive politics w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 04:33 AM
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It reminds me of the nature of a lot of men and to not trust freely it’s a wake up call for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:06 PM
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Girl me too a lot of them just willingly admit their terrible ways and I’m not about too put myself in harms way dealing with them when that darkness and manipulation can ultimately hurt me as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 06:33 PM
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Well it wasn’t until PPD that it sunk in for me just how much men as a collective value sex , how much it defines them , and ultimately how much of a slave to their sex drive and horniness they really are like a lot of men predicate their entire self worth around how much sex they are having and whether they are gaining it which is still pretty crazy too me.Like yes my parents warned me growing up that most boys/men would only want one thing but as usual I didn’t take it seriously but now after …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 05:12 PM
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So it’s not doing a good job on both ends the victims are not getting any justice and due process isn’t happening
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 01:30 AM
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Considering I’m in college rn and actual rapes and sexual assaults have happened on my campus and the university has played a role in actually covering them up from my experience Title IX is not doing a good job at all. One friend I know who experienced sexual assault said her experience with the Title IX office was terrible and retraumitizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 01:15 AM
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Well conseidering Dr. Dre has a history of beating women that would point to why he’s not successful in that realm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 08:27 PM
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I was 11 or 12 the first time I was cat called by both boys my own age and yes grown men it wasn’t a good experience. I’m Gen Z so I had social media by the time I was 13 and in 7th grade and grown men would regularly use their social media accounts to try and hit on me in a sexual way it was not good at all. One really bad experience was when one grown man threatened to put my selfies and pictures on a child porn site unless I sent him nudes and I was 13 at the time. I immediately blocked that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:31 AM
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Because men are way more thirstier and hornier than women on average it’s a fact that even they admit too which leads to them having a lower threshold for looks when it comes to women that they are willing to duck given a chance. It’s kind of embarrassing like I’ve seen dudes cheat on their beautiful wives and partners with women who are not at all as nice looking as their partners it’s crazy. Look at Arnold Schwarzenegger and the maid. You’d think if they were going to cheat it would be with an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:44 PM
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Men who try messed up behavior on women who have healthy self esteem and are aware of how manipulative men operate always get their ass handed to them. I’ve had men try and neg me when it came to things like my looks and even thing like my intelligence and personality and I actually call out their behavior and tell them that I know that they are trying to do. I have literally spelt out the manipulative negging self esteem lowering behavior that they are trying to pull to their face and they all …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:02 PM
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This is so true I have seen it with my aunt as well financial leeches and users are the worst kinds of men to be involved with. Often times the man will also use the woman’s money that he was given to go and spend it on women he actually wants which is also a double slap in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:48 PM
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There is a term for that called hobosexual where a man fucks a woman for a place to stay. Whew I’m not around a lot of woman who do this but it just seems very manipulative and exploitative of low self esteem women which alas is just how it goes in dating and relationships unfortunately both low self esteem women and men get used as tricks and it’s sad too see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:33 PM
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That’s a terrible situation for a woman to be in and no woman with healthy self esteem would entertain it. The woman is basically a trick in that situation and that is super embarrassing the way men look at men who trick on only fans with disdain is the same way any women who is tricking on 30 year old grown men should be looked at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:22 PM
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The women on my twitter timeline were clowning them and I was too never have I had a man have the audacity to do such a thing and I looked at those women like they are crazy for even entertaining that kind of behavior. It depends on each individual woman and if her self esteem is in check. As a black woman it was embarrassing too as pretty much all my black girlfriends and I have much more sense than that. I wish one of them would tell me that they entertained a grown man who is 30 playing on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:00 PM
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Nah more like can’t fathom women are also human beings it’s dehumanization
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:35 PM
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Seriously I saw photos of Elliot Rodgers he actually didn’t look bad at all too me. I’ve seen guys who look way worse than him have girlfriends irl. But when I saw his videos the moment he opened his mouth I immediately knew why no woman wanted to be around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:15 PM
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Literally no smart woman is almost every woman I know has stories of how the moment they hit puberty both boys their age and grown men were hitting on them and at times making disgusting comments. I’m Gen Z so in middle school and high school boys would consistently play porn out loud in the back of the bus and just in school and be very explicit about their sexual urges and desires.That didn’t color male sexuality in a fairytale light for me. It’s not even redpill it’s just reality having grown…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:19 PM
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Yup totally agree everytime a girlfriend of mine asks out a guy I always remind them that it means that it’s on them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 08:55 PM
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A culture and people being conservative which is true of Africans doesn’t mean that everyone is going to be completely conservative in all actuality conservative hypocrisy especially in the area of sex is well known. Look at all of these conservative icons like Jerry Falwell who get exposed for his sexual escapades
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:10 PM
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They have the same college and university culture that fosters hook up culture in the west. that my parents went to college in Africa in the 80s and while they did not participate they did mention casual sex happening on Their campus. I also live among a lot of African grad students now while their culture is definitely more conservative they are more than willing to talk about the party culture that happened in African undergrad universities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:37 PM
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I don’t think you have been anywhere If you believe that sluts and hoes have been everywhere since the beginning of time read a history book about it, travel , or talk to people my people are African and my cousins have told me about the hoe activities that are happening at their schools and institutions over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:22 PM
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Fellow 19 year old here and yes no rose colored glasses when it comes to how men operate and think about women none at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:43 PM
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I’d be ok with everything except giving up my career as I am very passionate about it. I grew up in a traditional type household where my dad lead the household but both of my parents had flourishing careers. I wouldn’t give it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:39 PM
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I like the good aspects of the nature of men that I’ve been exposed to by my dad and grandfathers men who were and are genuinely good men in every sense of the word. They truly give me hope and they are living proof that good and amazing men exist.So I would say that I truly like and value good men especially the ones in my life that are in my family , friend group , and of course any significant others. However I of course dislike the bad parts of the nature of men that I’ve been exposed too fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:41 AM
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I’m not pink pilled but reading the extremely messed up things said about women in this sub and multiple red pill spaces has made me way more cautious of men than I already was. The constant dehumanization , hatred , and misogyny has made me not to be too trusting of men until they prove to me that they are worth me trusting. I’m not an asshole to men or rude to men for no reason but I’m definitely cautious and apprehensive about trusting them freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 06:07 PM
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Marilyn Monroe probably never even said it that’s the real gag. I know her spirit must be perplexed at how many things get attributed to her that she probably never even said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:00 AM
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Conveniently forgets that not everyone on the left is an “sjw” , “feminist” or “wokescolds” as us left leaning people call them. I get a lot of flack from these groups for disagreeing on methods and priorities as well as not being PC or nice about certain things. Not non pc in the typical cringy way that shields bigotry but in a way that tells pure unadulterated truth. Most sjw’s and wokescolds lack solid political and social education that grounds their beliefs which is annoying most have not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:38 AM
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Well some fds types might want that but it’s not realistic given the fact that polygamy is not practiced widely in the west and monogamy is the most accepted relationship set up. Rich men will always have access to more women but under a monogamous system men who are not rich have way more of a chance of being with a woman that is a fact men who are upper middle class , middle class , working class , and even poor are able to get women and even get married a lot of the time if that’s what they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:30 PM
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Nope I come from a country and culture where legal polygamy is practiced and it’s practiced under the pretense that a man MUST provide for every wife and household. Thus the man must have the means to provide financially for every single wife and household that he has. It was the norm for centuries and just stopped in the last 50 years but it is still heavily practiced by more traditional tribes and people of my home country. A lot of men don’t have that kind of access to resources and money to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:03 PM
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Because the whole philosophy is a scam from the jump the saying “you will know them by their fruit applies here” if your movement is producing scams and scammers then it tells you all that you need to know about the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:38 PM
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Yup no sex for me until a long term relationship commitment and significant investment has been established I’m not waiting for marriage but I am not at all comfortable with having sex outside of a relationship so causal sex is a no for me. Thing is I’m not even a traditionalist in any sense I am an Episcopalian Christian and firmly so , I am a womanist, and my social and political views are a mix of very firm left leaning viewpoints which are the majority and moderate view points which are a mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:29 PM
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This is why I personally believe that a whole lot of men don’t deserve pussy a lot of women are way too forgiving of mess and bs. If y’all view women this way you don’t deserve anything from women especially sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:26 PM
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I hope it is but the people especially guys I’ve told have always been in disbelief because according to them “I looked to good to be one” then would try and be the one to break it which would make me not deal with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:44 PM
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As a virgin who is a woman these comments makes me want to almost never have sex ever. God forbid I run into a man who thinks like this. I’ve seen a comment of man saying that he would not believe any woman who says she is a virgin or has a low n count and that we are all Pornhub sluts wtf.This is why I have high standards for men there are a number that view women as disposable trash and treat women like they are not even human beings I’m not about to get used in that manner screw that. I’ll be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:17 PM
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Yes people might complain about it being a game but if it is why not study up get knowledge and win. I don’t think it’s cynical it’s realistic get the goal of the kind of man and relationship type you want and make sure to set yourself up to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:09 PM
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Yup sex in the “juggling” and multi dating process makes things too complicated. I make it clear that I want to enjoy myself and have fun getting to know the other person and yes some physical stuff can happen but I make it clear that any actual sex of any kind will not be had by me unless I’m in a committed ltr relationship with a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:53 PM
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Yes maybe it’s just me but I think it’s essential for women to have some sort of game and knowledge of men their psyche and human psychology in general in the realm of their love lives. Reading books that are actually good on the subject about attachment styles , emotional and social intelligence, seduction, psychology in relationships, and how to make a ltr work are good too. Also reading about the ways men play women is essential as well. You need to be wise enough to sort through which men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:49 PM
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Fds strikes me as a bunch of women who found out about the dark side of the nature of men too late which I’m guessing would make any woman upset. I don’t understand it though if you just observe men online and irl they will reveal themselves their true nature and intentions. I’ve seen how they behave since middle school just sitting back and observing separates the good from the bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:32 PM
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You said the truth I often damn near get a heart attack at what some of those women put up with like wow I could never.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:26 PM
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If you are single and are honest about what you are doing and not in any sort of commitment with anyone I see no issue. Once lying gets involved then I can see the shame but if there is none then I see no issue. Also if you forgo sex in your "juggling" process I don’t see that as shameful at all. You are seeing all possible options it makes perfect sense to me for anyone of any gender to see all prospects before finding the person they truly want to be in a ltr with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:58 AM
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Interestingly enough from my parents story of how they met fell in love and how I have observed them through marriage my dad was in a way high status and so was my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:45 PM
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I’ve only been alive to see my father when he has been a married family man and he has been consistently strong in who he is. From my mother’s descriptions of him previously he seems like he is was the same just a heightened younger version of his previous 20s self.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:11 AM
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Your exact description of what a good man is exactly what my father is and he and my mother Have been in a healthy and good marriage for 20 years. The same goes for both of my grandfathers who have had good healthy marriages that have both lasted over 50 years. All three built long term legacies with their wives and families. That description is what I am attracted too and what I entertain when it comes to men. Stop with the generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:59 AM
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The issue is that Jada preyed on a much younger person who was vulnerable and that’s wrong it’s especially fucked up that it was her sons friend too. However let’s not pretend that they both aren’t in an open relationship which means that Will as well as Jada both have their side pieces will even alluded to it in the end that what had gotten back at Jada a few times which if you look deeper that is definitely alluding to his own sexual escapades. No one is being Cucked in this situation both Wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 10:34 AM
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All that yelling and hollering and misogynistic men will still not value you. You can see the desperation on her face these men dgaf about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:40 PM
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I’m Gen Z and what you are saying is true only to a certain extent. There seems to be a clear divide in people in my generation when it comes to this stuff. There are people who are all up in this kind of lifestyle and then people who haven’t touched it. I’m in college currently and I have a diverse friend group and have always been a floater socially even in high school. A good amount of the people I know and hang out with do all of the things mentioned above and more while the other good amoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:55 AM
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