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I completely see where this is coming from but I personally get a lot of enjoyment from being "pretty". I completely acknowledge that it comes from male fantasies but some part of it also comes from my admiration to other women. Maybe it comes from another place but I see it in a "what can misogyny do for you". Men are slaves to their fantasies and using them to use them benefits us imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:45 AM
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If withholding sex is a thing, so is withholding money, resources and effort. Yet we dont see people screaming about men who withhold effort in their marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:05 AM
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Men need to be taught to not rape. It's seen over and over across so many cultures. And this disgusting glob of facial hair and spit is admitting it too, men need to be taught to not rape but he just wants women to do it, because a rape positive culture benefits him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:03 AM
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Jesus christ. That's insane!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:38 AM
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Men are overgrown angry children. They want to complain, they want pity and they want us to feel sorry for them. Their whole purpose is to make us the bad guys. The truth is men overwhelming run after a wife. They might not when young, but nobody is as desperate for a woman in their lives as older never married men. They're so miserable on their own that it causes them health issues. Women otoh do far better single than married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:35 AM
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It's so stupidly transparent too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:31 AM
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Does anyone else get a kick of knowing it bothers them enough to tweet shit like this about it ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:24 AM
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Yes! They want to hear themselves talk and they're incapable of mustering up something else to talk about that's not centered around their egos. Most of the time, they will let their ideologies slip, if not because of lack of IQ or EQ, because of a deep need to be validated in their "masculine success". Sort of like a "gotcha" but that serves as a warning to everybody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:19 AM
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It has been so liberating for me to have my intuition validated by their twisted disgusting words. Reading their forums and their comments and how they're so open with their depravity has only made me trust my gut a thousand times more. They are laying out their manipulation games, like you illustrated above, as if only men can read it. We don't exist as beings in their worlds and it's only hurting them further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:15 AM
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How I love that book! Eye opening read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:20 PM
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Yeah, there is no satisfying men in a secure commitment. He has to value you and feel extremely lucky you are even looking at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:18 PM
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This is my daily self-care routine : 30min of yoga or pilates, or both if im feeling it, followed by a hot relaxing shower. Out of the shower I apply some lotion, my very simple skincare routine (hyaluronic acid, a moisturizer, hemp oil if my face is very dry that day), get into some warm pjs and have some chamomile tea while watching a show or reading a book. (I'm currently reading "Why does he do that" from the FDS reading list) and then I go to bed early. When I need some extra pampering : I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:26 PM
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That's a great mindset to have ! I think you're approaching this in a great way, good luck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:58 PM
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That's a good sign, but I'd advise you to not get too excited because if you're anything like me, I get myself into situations where my own excitement and projections sabotaged me. It's really important to not chase a man, the easier you make it for them, the least they respect you. It's absolutely mind-blowingly nonsensical but that's the reality. So it's better to be cautious and move slowly, you're doing future you a favour! Let him come to you, he knows how.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:43 AM
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That's better. I'd be cautious and ready to block, but I'd also see how he'd reach out. Don't text him first and let him come to you. Don't text back instantly either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:25 AM
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I love that he got notified that she got a screenshot of his embarrassing meltdown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:20 AM
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All red pill gurus look like extreme weirdos and spoiler alert, NONE, absolutely 0 of them live the life they promise their """philosophy""" achieves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:18 AM
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I stop all texting at 9pm. I'm still tolerant of the 7-9 window because that's the only one that really works for me since I work till 5 and then I'm busy working out and eating dinner. After 9pm though, I'm done. It's time for my night routine and a nice time relaxing alone, without my phone. All texts will be returned, if needed, the next day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:28 AM
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SAVING HIM ? I will always be convinced that men actually have the lowest opinion of themselves and other men. They simultaneously view women as inferior and superior to men. Men are the logical, rational gender but they're also incapable of self-control and emotional management. Men are the achievers but they're incapable of doing anything for themselves, a woman has to save them. In any case, whatever their irrationality, I'm not saving anybody from anything as I don't want anyone to save me f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:21 AM
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It's good that you didn't text first and make yourself unavailable, it allows him to pursue you and chase. If he's always been flaky with texting, did he pursue you in other ways ? What do you text about, normal conversations or just logistics?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:14 AM
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Jesus fucking christ. I need help pulling the plug but it seems I have cockhold syndrom, and I haven't even gotten the cock to be this addicted. I have meditated on it and thought about it a lot. It's not him that's getting me this addicted. It's my own stupid mind and my own lack of self love. It's how much I'm physically attracted to him and how much he is attracted to me. He adores me. He is in awe of my body and he loves it. He truly acts like I'm the most beautiful woman he's ever seen and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:43 AM
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How long have you been talking to him? I'd say block and move on, as a sure measure, especially if you have been talking for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:19 AM
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Absolutely. Even in my before FDS days, with a lvm ex, I knew the importance of my sexual pleasure and I knew that I didn't have to care about his if he didn't care about mine. After I told him that I'm just not down for sex anymore if I get no pleasure from it, suddenly he was all about finding what I liked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:00 PM
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JustnoSO is my favorite sub to read when I need a reminder of what I DONT want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:01 AM
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Disgusting, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:15 AM
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Never ever get near a man's dick before he made you cum. Put yourself first and discard the scrote if he refuses foreplay and oral. Demand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:09 AM
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He is so......I have no idea how to describe this, other than the smug but rock dumb kid in middle school. How do you proudly advertise to the universe you're the worst in bed ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:07 AM
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I did too, so fucking hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:53 AM
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Following because I'm so interested too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:12 PM
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Absolutely. Only entertain the friendship with the dumb fox strategy if you need them for their usefulness too. Get YOUR benefits but definitely don't count them as a real friendship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:08 PM
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Yes, I really think I'm just following lust and validation here. He adores my body, and I keep coming back to that. Logic is telling me we're not a match once attraction is stripped. It's lust, I think. Lust, boredom and the easy validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:39 AM
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Yeah, it's really not a cycle I didn't want to be in in the first place and that's why I cut contact with him the first time. I felt like I moved on now and I'm not missing my ex or the intimacy of a relationship like I did at first. I really wasn't thinking to be honest, he could very well be putting on a show. He's older, at the end of the day, he has done this many times. His age really bothers me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:37 AM
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I met this guy right after my breakup and i wanted him as fwb to "wean" myself off from an intimate relationship but i ended up changing my mind at the end and stopped talking to him. He got back in touch with me and I decided to give it a real chance. He's really sweet, I'm insanely attracted to him. But he's older than me. I'm 22 and he's 29, turning 30 in December. He shares family values with me and we get along very well when we have something in common. We don't have much in common. In tho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:09 PM
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Always, without fail. And they turn around and complain about racism against them after saying the most vile stuff about other races. They're also consistently mommy boys who feel entitled to a new wife-slave-mom. Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:30 AM
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Money is the motivation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:15 AM
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I agree. I think Fiona was somehow attracted to Shrek too, even if he was a stinky ogre, because of his down to earth ways. We either seek familiarity or differences and she picked the difference ways. Also she was never the stereotypical self sacrificial spineless princess who let go of everything she loved for her ugly but good man. She already wanted and pursued out of royalty and luxury BEFORE Shrek, and found him on the way. She didn't give it all up for him, she gave it up before him for h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:12 AM
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None of the disney princes are HVM who loved the princesses. They all just fell for their beauty and none of them even got a chance to get to know her before even proposing or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:07 AM
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They need to shut the fuck up. Just shut the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:00 AM
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I'm so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:55 AM
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They do. They're predatory animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:53 AM
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Exactly! It's an important part of the handbook to never make a man do something he doesn't want to do. He does it on it's own or we move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:46 AM
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This is so relatable. When you take the ability to provide for them (ie become the breadwinner), they get resentful and it will come back to bite you in the ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:42 AM
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Me too, it's really affecting my mental health and it's exhausting me.Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:38 AM
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Purple pill debate is a cesspool of trash, you don't need that place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:37 AM
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Thank you for this ! The stripper analogy is all I needed to convince her !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:32 AM
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The way she looks at him. She's on her limit, it shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:58 PM
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I vomited in my mouth. This guy needs to be arrested and thrown in jail. His fellow inmates need to receive a copy of this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:55 PM
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It's truly my worst nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:31 AM
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Seems like wild love bombing and then a hardcore crash. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:29 AM
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They're men. That's what's wrong with them. Male depravity has no boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:05 AM
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What normal person even thinks about a celebrity's eggs ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:59 AM
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Yeah, it's a whole mess. It needs better regulation for it to be a trustworthy solution. I can think of an alternative, which is to flat out ask a healthy attractive tall man to be a sperm donor but that would be legally complicated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:57 AM
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I like looking at marriage as a strategy to have healthy children rather than the great love story society makes it to be. Finding the best father, genes, and provisions rather than society's caricature of "good" men. It's also really important to me to be know I'll be okay on my own and know my worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:55 AM
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The amount of fat, disgusting, alcoholic middle aged men with a gut twice the size of a full term pregnant woman who complain about their wives getting fat is astonishing. The amount of those men complaining about dead bedrooms is even more astonishing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:52 AM
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Yes!!! I thought the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:46 AM
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she's 22 and he's 24. She says she isn't looking for anything specific but she still wants a relatively long term boyfriend. No, she doesn't know what he wants at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:02 PM
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Yeah, full circle of darkness!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:01 PM
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I need some FDS advice for my friend. Distant friend of a friend "approached" her by giving her his number without saying a word. She texts him, text conversation is going well and he asks her out on a date. He pays, but he is a full time bartender currently working on his youtube channel, and that's all the ambition he has for now. They've been a thing for a couple of weeks and he vlogs sometimes when they're together. She doesn't see anything wrong with it but is bothered by his lack of...adul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:28 PM
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Breaking mom, that netflix documentary and seeing how most marriages turn out definitely made me so unsure of it all. It is a misogynistic institution that needs so much promotion from society. Till date I have never seen a successful marriage in real life where a man truly respects his wife and treats her right. Me neither. Not one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:20 PM
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I feel you, I miss pink pill so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:17 PM
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That's absolutely how I feel. They have nothing if value to give, only take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:37 PM
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There is no logical progression in this LARPing, the lack of social skills is shining through it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:35 PM
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A man is only as faithful as his options in the end. Most of them are weak-minded depraved scrotes so that's not surprising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:33 PM
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I want her to reject him in the cruelest possible way. If only this was real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:30 PM
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It shook me to my core too. I can't risk that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:25 PM
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I'm so sorry for what happens, that seems like a very rough situation. Good luck on getting back on your feet. Yes, it's a huge gamble. I don't want to be a single mother either but I also don't want to be a childfree person. It's something I think about a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:18 PM
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What do you mean by consolation prize? Adoption seems like an option I could consider but would they approve a single woman for adoption? I'm not sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:15 PM
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I feel you. It seems exaggerated and it seems to end really badly very often. Either a miserable marriage or a divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:14 PM
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I've watched the Netfix one too. It was like a wake up call. It's all really making me wonder if having kids is a good idea at all even if I want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:07 PM
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When men stop killing and beating us, we will stop treating them like potential killers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:47 PM
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The ones who prey specifically on young girls are the worst kind of them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:45 PM
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It's true. You're so right. Their ego runs their lives. But it is still something to keep in mind, and to reinforce that you are the prize and they know that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:03 AM
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Never make a man do something he doesn't want to do. Men are disposable. If he isn't overjoyed to be with you, discard him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:13 PM
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Do these women not have any dignity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:04 AM
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OH my ex did the same ! HE broke up with ME over the stupidest thing and was shocked that I didn't oppose his breaking up. He came back with dozen apologies, and proposed directly when I gave him another chance. He is still not over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:26 AM
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THIS IS WHY. THIS is exactly why you don't date someone 10 years older than you at 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:45 PM
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...This is planning rape ? He is saying he already raped him oh my god. And he is saying that in public. My goodness. This is horrifying, I hope #3 is okay and can get away from those monsters soon and get help. My god, the horror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:55 AM
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I miss PinkpillFeminism and GC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:45 PM
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The soft shirt thing!!! Out of nowhere, grabs my arm, and says wow your sweater is so soft. I only had a "what" moment but didntrealize it was about touching
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:00 AM
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The depravity, my god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:39 PM
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So what ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:16 AM
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How are they so sensitive ? How can scrote hurt them so much when they have words like that for us ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:13 AM
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Men are the masters of projection and the manosphere and the red pill gives them a space to blame their projections for everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:22 PM
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We do NOT want them. I know one girl my age who consistently goes for old men in their 30s and she is as toxic as them. She's even lower than a pickme, she thrives on the toxicity of her relationship and when it eventually ends because we all know no 35yo man actually marries the 21yo girl he fools around with, she turns into a destructive stalker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:56 AM
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I think Amy definitely is. Jake is on the right track to being a HVM, but he's still not quite there yet. Love him, but I would NOT date him. Captain Holt 100% is. Boyle is, in his own weird way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:08 PM
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Would you recommend this if still looking for a long term relationship at some point in time but not right now ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:39 PM
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So today I went on the cursed unpopular opinion sub and there was a dumb scrote ranting about how we should "incentivise" men into fatherhood because they are "shamed" when they are alone with their kids. They need an incentive to be parents apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:06 PM
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FDS is based on The rules. A 20+ years old book, get it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 10:21 AM
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It happens, attraction is important for a good loving relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:47 AM
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Okay but please don't shade me, but I feel like the ocean does have some eroticism in it. Would I ever tell a man that? Never but the sound of the waves, the beauty of it makes me feel funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:42 AM
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I also need to know if they're the brown on brown everything type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:35 AM
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When my ex moved in with me, I decided to sell my twin bed and buy a frame for the queen mattress he owned. He was shocked that that was my plan. He thought I'd just live with the matters on the floor, like that was the normal thing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:34 AM
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This is not about me, but i see that around me and im wondering if it is pick me behaviour since the women i see doing that are HVW with high self esteem. But they often give a man that is pursing them a chance to feel needed and help them and be the "man" of the situation, while not really needing him. Kind of a "mission" to complete. The example I have in mind is my friend recently hinted to a man she's been seeing for a few weeks, that her car is being weird (the car is perfectly fine), the m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:29 PM
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Do you feel attracted to them ? I had this friend who told me some golden advice: picture you making out with them, deep tongue heavy making out. If it makes you feel even slightly uneasy, then you're not attracted to them. If not, and you feel that they could "grow on you" and win you over, then I'd give it a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:12 PM
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Is playing mind games to make a man more interested in you pick me behaviour?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:12 PM
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Unbelievable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:08 PM
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Remember that men would have sex with anything. Say it again, it's important. Sex doesn't have the same importance to them and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:18 AM
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It's time to start shattering egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:16 AM
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I think so too. I wonder if this is the cause of all the men who completely let themselves go after marriage. I guess the easiest way to spot the obvious ones would be talking about other people's marriages with them and see their answers? If it's always on the woman to "compromise", they probably view it like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:01 AM
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True!! He truly was convinced old men would be attractive to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:58 PM
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Not a movie but I'd run away from any Rick and Morty fan, despite being a fan myself. You can't trust men who idolise shows like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:44 PM
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My ex and I cried together at La La Land, and it was cute and a cute memory until he decided he was the connoisseur of the movie every time it was mentioned. Ruined the movie for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:30 PM
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Yes!!! it's such a cool movie but lvms consistently obsess over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:27 PM
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I was listening to a podcast with the 2 authors of The Rules. One of them was asked about the dynamic of the courting period and the dynamic of marriage and she said something like "While dating, he is courting you. You hold the power and you lead the relationship. When you get married, he is the boss and he leads the relationship." It rubbed me the wrong way. It put me off of reading their books about marriage advice. Does anyone have a book recommendation for marriage dynamics?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:06 PM
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I want kids very badly. In 15 years I want to be the mom who shows her kids what a good relationship should look like. I feel so concerned with how flaky men are, if I'll ever be able to find a HVM who will stay high value for kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:36 AM
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What I don't understand is how they never connect the dots. They shame women for their high standards and are not happy to realise that the default female reaction to most males is "I would NOT sleep with him". But, at the same time, the same people in the same breath, complain that women are "easy" and "sl*ts".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:07 AM
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Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:55 AM
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For 1 : I'm physically attractive, and take care of myself very well. I maintain a healthy weight and have high standards for my appearance. I've always been like that because it makes me feel better and it gives me more confidence to lean in my femininity. I offer genuine caring interactions, and it attracts a lot of caring genuine men BUT this is only possible if you have the emotional strength to walk away immediately once they are not caring or genuine anymore. If you don't feel like you do,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:13 PM
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Oh, I see what you mean! But this seemed more "anti party culture" rather than "not like the other girls" to me at first glance, which doesn't seem like a red flag to people who are not into party culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:14 AM
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I love the weirdness. There's something satisfying about towering over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:37 AM
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I am floored. Who has the mental space to notice pores on legs ??!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:28 AM
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I am confused about the red flags too ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:22 AM
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I don't think so ? This sounds like classic negging, because she's the one feeling doubts and he is basically telling her that she's replaceable and not special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:33 AM
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Why do they waste time like that wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:46 AM
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wtf What are these compromises you're even talking about? Doing what men want ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:38 AM
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No, I would dump him on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 08:06 PM
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Mine wasn't so extreme, fortunately. I'm sorry yours was. Mine is much like the poster above, he had no regards for my personal standards and deemed his the golden standards. If my standards didn't fit his, he made it known that I was disappointing him. I learned quickly that he isn't the person I should come to for advice about relationships, and that he will take the side of a boy he never spent more than 1h with over mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 08:05 PM
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A nice slippery slope into what nobody wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:37 PM
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To me too, ironically I'm just putting myself in his shoes. Lots of people seem to not see the issue with restricting freedoms as long as it benefits them, and it is the root of many problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:24 PM
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Yes it is evil, but I'm guessing his line of thinking is along the lines of "If I can't have it, nobody else should" so it doesn't register as that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:18 PM
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I removed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:15 PM
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Is the classy the issue ? Or the whole comment ? 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:14 PM
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Better ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:13 PM
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Oh, sorry, didn't think that would count. Can I edit it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:11 PM
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It's pretty normal, human nature makes us want what we were deprived from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:10 PM
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Jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:08 PM
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" Women won't do what men want so they should be treated as subhuman"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:06 PM
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So....eugenics?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:04 PM
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If you do that, no woman would risk getting close to a man. Celibacy for everyone. Why marry a man when you'll be stuck with 15 kids and no life ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:02 PM
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yeah mine too. he had this idea of what women should have been for him, and he tried to mold me into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:00 PM
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Omg that is hilarious. How is he still talking about "comfortable" 2 weeks later? Why isn't he investing in the other girls ? The hoops men jump through for their ego is embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:37 AM
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It sounds like you have more leveling up to do. This man stuck with you and loved you at your worst, you would be low value to hold it against him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:52 PM
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He's not into you. Move on and don't get invested so quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:43 AM
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Exactly! The hurt overpowered all the crushes iI had who did this for more than 6 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:15 AM
17

Most of the manosphere is downright projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:11 AM
24

This is insane! Even preFDS, there was no way I'd be happy with an almost relationship for years!!! years !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:09 AM
1

Blocked ✔ I didn't think about him for the rest of the day and found out he sent 20 other texts that went from "I'm sorry" to "Dont be a bitch I said sorry!" as well as "It's not even that rude", good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:35 PM
18

I am so ashamed that I used to watch her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:30 PM
9

She is the best, such a HVW and he is the best, such a HVM. I love them 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:09 PM
5

Im just too forgiving? How do I fix this ??? This guy I've been talking to and going on dates with for a while texts me every day and we have a cool convo every day but sometimes he just makes me roll my eyes. I've decided a little while ago that if I ever crossed into relationship territory with him, it would be a short term low investment thing. But yesterday he called me crazy after we had a random talk about diets? Not in a haha you're a crazy person, but in "what is wrong with you? why are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:40 PM
5

Good god PPD is still a cesspool of trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:41 PM
11

That's what it seems like. Otherwise, what is so wrong with having standards and boundaries ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:24 AM
23

Why is FDS hated so much ? I really don't understand. Nothing FDS promotes is...harmful to our dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:19 AM
16

This is so spot on. My LVM ex loved, loved making me angry, it actually made him smile. I am an incredibly calm person and it takes a lot to anger me and he did everything he could to get me there. I learned very very quickly that anger meant nothing to him, and I started to retaliate to his provocations or mistakes that hurt me with withdrawal. I stopped talking to him, touching him and stayed out of the house as long as possible to signal my actual anger. I wish I was smart enough to just fuck…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:01 AM
2

INCEL VIBE!!! YES that's the perfect description Oh my god, he is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:22 PM
3

I can't stand them, like at all! They're both so cringy. Imagine having her as a grandma ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:27 PM
3

Absolutely disgusting!!! The woman is batshit crazy, no wonder he turned out like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:19 PM
4

I fucking hate Colt ! What a prick, the way he moves, talks, and his fucking eye rolls, how can you lack so much self awareness?? My god, why would any woman let alone someone like Larissa, put up with him but a green card? Lmao I didn't notice haha But yeah, his whole neck looks very bready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:04 PM
2

Right ? Like what is the point of getting offended by that ? You wanted it ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:29 PM
7

I'm watching 90 fiance and my god my god, I am disgusted at how low value these scrotes are ?? Like Colt being so cheap, because he wants her to love him for "himself" ? Did he think she was attracted to the symmetry of his face and his cringy neckbread attitude?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:59 PM
16

Red pillers are absolutely utterly pathetic. They built themselves a whole asshole and fool themselves into thinking they're respected and attractive. Look at the TRP "Founders" old crusty men who produce the cringiest shit ever. They're all like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:28 PM
39

I notice that sometimes in myself. It's time to fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:14 PM
25

I don't understand. I don't understand at all. He looks like uncooked chicken breasts. What poison did he put in her water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:12 PM
3

If I were her father, I swear I couldn't have had the same calm. He is so trashy, he never thinks things through, ever. He's so stupid. The whole season 2 was a giant facepalm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 06:47 AM
1

My god. I felt so angry for his wife. I would have killed him right then and there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:22 PM
5

Me too!! I hated her throughout the whole thing but what she told him really resonated with me. He deserves what he got, he is the very definition of a NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 10:15 PM
10

It's...cognitive dissonance. Makes for great entertainment when you see them as the tantrum throwing toddlers they really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:24 AM
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She should ruin one of the skillets and pretend she did her best and didn't know how to do it properly...like NVM pretend to not know what a shallot is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:18 AM
13

"sexually devalued" as if he is a walking sex god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:04 AM
21

My favourite part about lurking their subs is seeing them congratulate each other on "resisting" "the evil female imperative". A new level of hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:58 AM
26

Her and Jane Fonda are proof that you should put yourself first before any man, at all time all your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:55 AM
42

Exactly. I felt like that when on PPD, after explaining my point of view, some guy told me that women are always lying and doing PR for their gender, so we should never listen to them. I deleted my account tied to those subs right then and there and stopped reading it. It doesn't matter anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:36 AM
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TRP is cancer. Do not read it, stay away from it and try to stop yourself when trying to reason with it. There is no reasoning with men who think like that, they say it loudly in black and white written words that they only listen to themselves "Women are children". Let them sit in their misery. After reading TRP, and being active on subs discussing it and interacting with its believers in PPD, which led me to FDS later, I have lost all hope faith in men (and women). That community is full of so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:27 AM
5

I do agree, he needs concrete steps to show me he is working on it. I really would have liked a more thoughtful proposal, something I would have seen coming and prepared for and anticipated. It felt so off and forced. I thought so too, I thought he proposed to lock me down and prove to himself that he won me over for good. That's why I broke up with him. But in his letter, he accepts that it was a shock for me and that I won't marry him anytime soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:42 AM
5

Video games are an addiction for him, and I never got him to actually acknowledge it before. But he admits he is way too invested in them in his letter and says he is willing to work on it. It is clearly a coping mechanism for him, he shuts down and plays. I was so taken back by his proposal, we never talked about marriage. Maybe once or twice in our first months but as in "would you want a family later ?". Never talked about marrying each other. He did put effort in it, but since it was quarant…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:32 AM
2

We lived together. Tbh I'm the slob one of us and he is kind of a neat freak. But I did all the cooking and grocery shopping. The lease was mine since day 1, and he had to move in with his father in another city 6h away before quarantine so when we broke up, he stayed there and then when his father was doing better, he moved back in with his mother in my city.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:10 AM
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My god ladies, I am lost. I had already realised that my ex was a video games obsessed LVM when he dumped me and did my best to move on. We had been dating for about 2 years and we've known each other for longer. Our first year was a dream, our second not so much. He ended up dumping me for the most stupid reason. I wasn't that hurt or angry because I realised that if he could dump me for something so small, he never loved me like I loved him. However, I was weak and took him back when he came b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:03 AM
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There's a clear difference though. Mid 20s is not old by any means, and I don't think that's what OP is saying. But in your mid 20s or late 20s, marriage is something you are more likely to consider, isn't it ? A 26 yo would more than a 20yo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:49 AM
6

Where I live, in flower shops, they do have big pots of decorative kale. But they come with a little sign that it is indeed decorative kale and not flowers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 10:20 AM
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And incels are out there calling HER a goddamn 6.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:27 AM
4

I didn't really take it as a condemnation of Beth, more like a condemnation of Jerry who is the definition of a LVM/NVM, and what a bad marriage can do. However men who idolise R&M, and particularly Rick as a person are to be avoided at all costs. I think they have some kind of admiration/closeted attraction to the vibe Rick gives, they want to have that same vibe. Of course, since they're not geniuses or even funny, they're just gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:24 AM
5

I definitely plan to be single for a while. I feel like my ex drained all my romantic energy from me. I feel like a rebound will get him out of my system. Forever break the bond we had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:43 PM
2

What do you ladies think of rebounds ?? There is this guy who keeps dming since he got words of my break up and so far, I've entertained the conversation because he was funny and interesting but it is getting more flirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:52 PM
9

My mom raised me old fashion and that the guy should come to my house and knock on the door to pick me up, but im confused on this situation! I wouldn't do that if I didn't personally know them! Imagine if they're a weirdo or worse, a stalker, and now they have your home address.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:45 PM
1

Honestly I was still an idiot and took him back after that, I should have taken it as the red flag it is and blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 10:12 AM
49

Oh my god. I remember how much my ex guilt tripped me for not following him to another state and leave my family alone during a fucking pandemic. Don't do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 04:00 PM
10

Yes but at 40, he has more experience as a predator than a 20yo, he's more powerful and more resourceful and it can make all the difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 11:42 AM
1

I did block him for a few days but I had a few bad moments and went back to talk to him about my feelings. I should block him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 11:01 AM
36

Where do I sign up for a free scholarship and a free job???? Where is the form ??? I'm ready, show me the way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:32 AM
6

I'm still very attached to him, and he does text me long paragraphs about his feelings that I can't bring myself to ignore tbh. I try really really hard but I still end up texting him paragraphs back, and I regret it every time tbh. I completely ignore his casual texts though, I'm not going to tell him about my days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:48 PM
6

My ex is like that too, he just can't let go. We ended things amicably but he can't phantom that I do NOT want to talk to him now, or any time soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:57 PM
13

how dare women have one standard !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:59 AM
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So I dumped my boyfriend after some shady behaviour from him (you can check my own dumb self doubt in my post history) and boy he did not take it well at all. I've been lurking on this sub for a little while now and ladies, thank you for giving me the confidence to value myself more and see right through his bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:00 PM
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