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| 7 | [FR] First F close, sober evenDude you need to buy some condoms that fit properly. If you're losing your erection because of it, those are not the right ones. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Girls losing interest after successful first dateI'm having the exact same issue right now, with a girl from okcupid - amazing first date, kissing, even scheduled a second date at the end. After the first date, she texts a few times, I respond a bit when I can, and then I texted her to firm up that second date and she hasn't replied back. One thing that it could be is something the girl said to me during the date - I was basically her first online dating experience, and she was complimenting me on my interesting message and whatever else, but … | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 09:12 AM |
| 41 | Asian stereotypesOh we sure as hell own I.T. all right. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Flaking is damn frustrating, here's a way to cut it in halfFrom the sounds of it, fish. Or ... lack of fish? | /r/seduction | 19/03/14 07:26 PM |
| 3 | If you don't hear back for a couple days, always send a follow-up text.a) I wasn't trying to impress you, I was voicing my disagreement. b) Read the story - it was a Facebook invite. Maybe you don't have this experience but I tend to get a ton of Facebook invites that I never respond to from either people mass inviting or just random spam. It's totally understandable. c) I didn't have to "act" happy to see her again because I was genuinely happy to see her again. What I got out of the interaction was I met her cute friend, got her number, and I didn't have to start… | /r/seduction | 07/03/14 06:53 AM |
| 2 | If you don't hear back for a couple days, always send a follow-up text.Ehh I'm not sure I agree with this. For example, I invited this girl recently to my birthday shindig. Instead of saying no she couldn't come, she just ignored the invite (it was a Facebook event) and never sent me a message saying why or anything. I didn't really care since there were other people going and I had my close friends there. Next time I saw her, just randomly in the pub, what do you think my first response was? It wasn't "oh my god, where the hell were you on my birthday??" I just we… | /r/seduction | 06/03/14 11:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Novice thursday night out. F-closeWhere in Denmark? I'm going to Copenhagen in a couple months and would love to know some spots to go to :) | /r/seduction | 02/03/14 01:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First FR - Easy night out 2 #-close 1-K close (bar games and trick to entertain a set + easy kino tricks)Haha awesome man, nice work. I remember one of my nights out at university, this really awkward lanky guy was going around to everyone drawing on their arms with invisible florescent markers + shining a black light to show them what it looked like. I think people were receptive to his drawings which were kind of cool, but the guy himself gave off a really eccentric vibe and I never saw him close. I suppose he was having fun though. But it seems like you've got the right vibe and have no issues c… | /r/seduction | 02/03/14 01:29 PM |
| 2 | I have naturally sweaty hands, always. There is no remedy other than short term (5 minute) fixes. How could I go about gaming like this, its hard to advance because people usually think it's gross.One thing you can do in bars is hold a drink, and use the back of your hand to brush/bump a bit against her body while you talk. I doubt the back of your fingers will be sweaty - also because it's not the palm of your hand girls kind of see it as indirect kino, so you can even graze against her boobs and she'll think of it as incidental in a way. Aside from that, use the rest of your body. You could stand beside someone and have your arm lazily resting behind/around them, with your hand on a rai… | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Strange city. All alone. Hotel room to myself. What do?Yeah, to a point. Puking out their guts? Yes, stay home. Feeling terribly ill? Yes, stay home. Here are excuses that do not fly that I have to sometimes consciously reject from myself or friends, along with what I think/say to try and get rid of said excuse: 1. I want to play video games - Yes, because virtual numbers are soooo valuable! Not! Besides the games will be there tomorrow, and the next day, and the next... 2. I don't have the money. You don't have to spend money when you're out, just … | /r/seduction | 23/02/14 11:37 PM |
| 7 | Good lines for when girls compliment your accentJust turn it into something playful and keep the conversation going? ie: when people comment on my Canadian accent I might say, "What are you talking aboot, I don't have an accent!" and just tease their accent back or whatever. | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 01:16 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/20/14Looking for recommendations for getting someone's number while they are working customer service. Seems consumed by her work/strictly professional, and I want to break through that barrier. | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 05:15 PM |
| 7 | Can we do a date idea megathread?in Canada, we call that balmy. | /r/seduction | 06/01/14 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Concerning the current reputation of the PUA/seduction community, and cold approaches in public or "Daygame".bwa-haha one of the comments on the meetup: "I have enough to eat at home. Thanks Junaid" - Ian from Etobicoke Actually I think one important thing we can take away from this is that one girl's comment on how the people who approached her seemed to just be pitching something, and they didn't seem genuine. Genuine interest is something we advocate strongly here, I think. Actually listening to what girls are saying, just treating them like human beings. They're not sex machines that are going to g… | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 04:36 PM |
| 15 | Dating Is Over - AskMenWell if the girl felt like you were going to judge her, I feel like the solution would be simply to make it clear to her that you're non-judgemental about casual sex, and that you prefer sexually liberated women? | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Question about opening 2-sets at a barCurious as to why this is the preferred method - I thought it was preferable to open them so that they are standing back to back, such that they don't feel judged by their friend for any behaviour that could be slut-shamed (kissing, giving their number, etc). Does that make them more uncomfortable? | /r/seduction | 20/12/13 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Advice for PUAs sarging it up in the clubsLook, don't be some fat slob who thinks you can go to the club dressed in a shirt that's one size too big, ruggedy jeans, and stupid ass shoes and that women will still be attracted to you. Hahaha, stupid ass-shoes. | /r/seduction | 15/12/13 02:52 PM |
| 2 | What musical instruments do girls find the most attractive?The "i don't give a fuck"-bone. Honestly, do a hobby for YOU, not for anyone else. I play guitar because I want to play guitar, and (maybe a bit hypocritical but...) I play violin because my asian parents are stereotypical asian parents. But in the end, I ENJOY doing these things. If you're passionate about your hobby, girls are going to pick up on it and be infected by your passion for it, whether that hobby is writing dungeons and dragons campaigns, or gigging it up with a band. | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 07:32 PM |
| 3 | How a man does an approach!It doesn't matter WHAT you say, it's about HOW you say it. You shouldn't be worrying about whether an opener is "good" or "bad". Or "jank", which is not a word. | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 08:42 PM |
| 1 | I just finished a boot camp with Julien, Tyler, and Todd of RSD, AMAHey, thanks a lot for doing this. I was wondering, did you drink when out, or do everything sober? | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 08:25 PM |
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