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| 6 | CMV: Autism is a death sentence for men.Forgive me for asking... But are you actually autistic or just one of those people that says "BRO I DID A GOOGLE TEST I GOT 17/30 AUTISM SPECTURM TRAITS!!!" Because a lot of lonely men like to use excuses like that, when they're actually just normal and not exactly socially skilled. Also, yea, people are cruel af, nobody wants to date people with disabilities, physical or mental. It sounds very bad but it's true. And when you do meet someone that does, don't be surprised when it's not your dream… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 01:37 PM |
| -1 | "Women like assholes" is a projection. Men are the ones deliberately putting up with "asshole women".Men put up with it. If they're lonely (most are). Women seek out bad behavior, which is coincidentally often tied to confidence and masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ?Pretty much reasons you listed. Lack of security as well, since not having a guarantee of sex and emotional support is difficult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's dating woes are due to the factor of imbalanced male-female ratios in their social environmentsYou're mistaking an ideal guy for a "sufficient and happy to be with guy", which are more common and totally acceptable for the overwhelming majority of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Most of men's dating woes are due to the factor of imbalanced male-female ratios in their social environmentsIn a way, there's a high chance of a nerdy guy being physically good-looking since it's such a heavily male dominated social space What? That made no sense. It's even stereotypical that people who take part in nerdy activities don't move around much, since a lot of the involve sitting down... trying to get a woman to like you if you're not in the top 10% of looks is like being a door to door salesman and trying to sell people a shitty product they don't want No. It's like saying "This product is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?If the girl is boisterous in public. My god I can't understand how NOT self aware some chicks can be, wilding in public and embarrassing you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Most of men's dating woes are due to the factor of imbalanced male-female ratios in their social environmentsThere aren't going to be nerdy hot guys around you 100% of the time. Jesus christ people really do try and make it seem like it's IMPOSSIBLE to get a woman to like you unless you're top 10% of men. It's not, and you're wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:57 AM |
| 9 | Most of men's dating woes are due to the factor of imbalanced male-female ratios in their social environmentsWoah woah. What is this "then the woman will approach you"? Women don't approach unless they're absolutely hooked on your looks. That's not how most relationships start. The overwhelming majority start by the guy initiating. I knew a guy on here that claimed if the girl doesn't approach you, it's over... Like... Women don't approach, ever, just think like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Most of men's dating woes are due to the factor of imbalanced male-female ratios in their social environmentsYou don't have to be the best by some arbitrary standards. I had been in plenty of situations where if I was around basic girls, and some of my "chad" buddies were around, I'd have no shot, since those girls value excitement and physical attraction. But if I'm around some nerdy girl, that's a bit shy and has some obscure interests I happen to share, then my friends would have no shot against me. If you're not the best for her, by whatever metrics, it wasn't meant to be anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 10:49 AM |
| 0 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherVirgin, submissive, good natured, wants kids, loyal, grateful, bubbly and feminine in behavior, way she dresses and her appearance in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:15 AM |
| 0 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherThis isn't true at all. I'm just not the type of guy women fall for instantly. I'm not hot, nor rich, nor famous. All I am is a good, stable guy that is fun when you get to know him, and willing to love and care for my partner. Those qualities take time to be recognized. So I can't just jump a girl and hope she knows how good I am. I play the long game. Where a person gets to know me and slowly develops attachment. So when I make my move, she's already used to my looks and who I am as a person. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Women who have cheated: Did it feel good?I never said it was valid as an excuse, and I agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Women who have cheated: Did it feel good?When men cheat it's oftentimes because he wanted variety. When a woman does, it's often dissatisfaction in a relationship. I'm not saying it can't be boredom, which can be the woman's fault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 09:06 AM |
| 7 | Women who have cheated: Did it feel good?Most women cheat because of unhappiness in the relationship or lack of attention in general. Or dislike for the other person or as revenge. Women, typically, don't cheat because they're super in love but horny that one time. That's what men do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 04:29 AM |
| 8 | If all good people are "taken" by their 20s and 30s, why do so many relationships that start early tend to fail?People hopp in and out of relationships, you gotta nail the timing which is mostly luck and uncontrollable for the most part. But who told you it's over if you're not taken BY THE TIME YOU'RE IN YOUR EARLY 20'S? That's the time you wanna experience all sorts of relationships and casual sed, not necessarily marriage... Have fun in early 20's then look for someone more long term in your mid 20's. If you're not taken by 35, that can be alarming tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 04:27 AM |
| 6 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherWell it all depends how you approach the women you date. I never cold approached in the past or in clubs or concerts. Either friends of friends or social circles. That's the best way to get women... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Do men lie about their physical preferences in women?Every guy likes large boobs. But, sometimes, you can fall in love with a smaller pair if it fits the bill. If she's all dainty and cute, and has smaller boobs, it's also just cute. And guys totally fall for that and like that. And sometimes fantasy takes over and you wanna see some blondes, some big fake asses and titties. But that's not what guts expect, sometimes not even what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 04:22 AM |
| 15 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherThis advice might be ok for people who are trying to get laid. If you're looking for a LTR, this advice is useless. Sometimes you just have to play the long game. Not talking about being a fake friend of hers when you just really wanna fuck, but rather remain in the same friend group and when the time is right, make your move. That's what I did with my wife and it worked like a charm.just show the best of yourself and don't give her TOO much attention during that period. Just see if you have thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Confidence is almost entirely a result of external factors not an internal decision to be confidentMales really need to set up way higher demands than women to make them feel the sexual-romantic struggle, in reversal. Should men care more about intelligence and the aspirations of their woman? Yes. Even if you're not attracted to it, you shouldn't date someone that isn't ambitious and aspires to do nothing in life. So many men just care that their girl is hot and somewhat nice. That's the male standard. When you get deeper into a relationship, like myself, you'll understand that it takes much … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 05:42 AM |
| 2 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.I generalized when I said "men" because from what I observe men literally knock their head against the wall and think the only way to attract women is to work out and get good at talking to women. Which is definitely NO way to become a solid, attractive man in a relationship... It might serve you for ONS, but even that is questionable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Men don't try to get an understanding of women. You pretend to know how all women operate, then you act in a really exploitive and misogynistic way towards women and hope one naiive girl falls for your false sense of confidence and "game". Red pill guys don't try to understand women. They try to get the knowledge of how to best exploit women. Myron from F&F constantly talks about how he can never find a "good woman" so he just fucks random girls he has access to. Meaning, he doesn't understand w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 03:53 PM |
| 3 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Men will do anything besides actually trying to gain a better understanding of women, by not looking at them as holes to fuck, but rather human beings you can befriend aswell, not just use for sex. Passing that, talking to women about your emotions is also a good way to normalize opening yourself up to women. Or opening yourself up in general, in front of men too. Exercise, yes, but also stop doing things that kill your drive to live... Like over 2 hours a day of video games, or doing drugs, get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 10:51 AM |
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