throwAway_MensRights Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How men were treated in classic sitcoms Yes watch them all the time, and that's not the takeaway I get at all. For example the entire premise of the I Love Lucy episode was that Lucy and Ethel wanted equal rights for some things and wanted to be treated better in other areas. Essentially what women today want. Equal rights when they want and pedestal when they want. They had to open their own doors, light their own cigarettes, get their own coats, they did not order first at the restaurant, and they had to split the bill. This was a p…	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 08:30 PM
44	Being "Cancelled" STILL two years after an incident and 2 months after I won my trial. I'm sure there's a joke in there somewhere about cancel culture and yogurt cultures... Nothing you can do unfortunately. She is correct you plead guilty to the charge. It is public information and she is allowed to shout out from the rooftops. The part about someone else and you threatening then with litigation if true, means they're talking. So cut them off. If it's a big problem, then block them all. Cut them off. Do a legal name change and don't tell anyone. Now when future employees do a che…	/r/MensRights	11/08/23 06:48 PM
0	What's wrong with staring at women? Yes because big cities don't exist outside the west? What kind of idiotic comment is that. China has more big cities than anywhere. Middle East cities are often 3million+.	/r/MensRights	07/06/23 06:16 PM
3	What's wrong with staring at women? To give a slightly global perspective, there's nothing wrong with staring except in the west where it was somehow denormalized. Go to the middle east for example and everyone everywhere, any gender, is stared at. This whole pretending to not notice someone thing is stupid. Someone walks in front of you and you have to purposefully look away. Walking down a sidewalk and you have to avert your gaze. Or what? We burst into flames? Stare if you want to stare. Most people aren't staring at you becaus…	/r/MensRights	07/06/23 05:53 PM
6	I was locked in a room against my will by woman I was dating, called the police, they came and just left me there locked up Cops are useless. Hopefully you've learned that lesson now, they are not your friends. ACAB. Additionally if trapped in a room, you should be able to remove the door pins and the door will just fall off. Or remove the handle since presumably you're on the inside	/r/MensRights	06/05/23 05:18 PM
-3	Woman will feel alone in the future I don't understand this thing everyone shiting on men, especially on extreme left websites like reddit. Reddit isn't "extreme left". Only if you're American where the right is extreme right would societally normal be considered far left. The whole point of reddit is that it is everyone around the world. Men might be more lonely than woman right now,but when woman get to age 40-50 the femcel epidemic will be 50 times worse. They say I'm happy checking out but I don't feel like of enteral lonelyne…	/r/MensRights	06/05/23 01:42 AM
4	I am so so very tired from the overtime I need to work because of women in the teams I work with who aren't functioning. I'm working until midnight day after day and into the weekend week after week. It's all a lie. Almost no woman I work with who has a demanding position actually works. I do it all The "I can do anything you can do" attitude is just wrong. Different jobs require different skills and different people don't have equal skills or abilities. The few women that graduated in my class were idiots except one. She was brilliant and is rightfully working doing DoD stuff for guidance systems. The rest were getting by because the other guys did her work on the team projects and her own homework since everything was "study grouped". These other women are barely employed, not doing tasks…	/r/MensRights	06/04/23 11:11 AM
18	Police and CPS Illegally Enter Home and Remove Children from Father without a WARRANT OR COURT ORDER Doesn't work like that. You just get retaliated against and rack up hundreds of thousands in legal fees until you go away. If you do win a decade later it's for peanuts. And you'll still get retaliation from the thugs in blue. And yes I speak as someone who has also had their civil liberties violated multiple times, more damage to property than most people earn in a lifetime, and zero consequences for those assholes. It won't change until there's big change.	/r/MensRights	15/03/23 07:50 PM
4	Burnout is on the rise worldwide—and Gen Z, young millennials and women are the most stressed I agree with the click bait title. But it comes down to usefulness. I say to my wife all the time that it's not how hard you worked. It's about how much work you produced. Just like it doesn't matter how stressed or anxious you are, it's just weak mental strength if you get scared by an elevator/car/plane/racoon/functioning-in-society/whatever. If you spend 10 hours putting together an IKEA cabinet you did not do 10 hours of work. You did 1 hour of work (generously!) and faffed about for 9 more.…	/r/MensRights	14/03/23 03:00 PM
1	Media’s bias on adoption Where? I think the stigma is still the parents giving up for adoption because they don't want it are evil and those giving it up because they can't raise it, are being selfless. Both are bullshit stances, but I don't see it as gendered. If Bill and Melinda gates had a child tomorrow and gave it up for adoption, there would be an outcry against both of them. If a couple that lives in a trailer park on disability has a kid and gives it up, they're usually considered idiots but doing the right thin…	/r/MensRights	22/02/23 08:40 PM
1	Women are mad at men going abroad Too bad so sad?	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 07:03 AM
8	The War on Masculinity is a precursor to the totalitarian subversion of Western Civilisation Uhhh... No. This is pure bullshit article. You can be totalitarian with female or male leaders. Both have happened in human history. You can be good totalitarian or bad totalitarian. That's the whole point. A political system where one person or family makes the rules doesn't give a fuck about what you want singularly. If the person or family is corrupt, you're going to have a bad time. DPRK comes to mind. If the leaders are good and care, you're going to have an awesome time. Look at the UAE an…	/r/MensRights	19/01/23 07:42 AM
3	Got Permabanned from r/offmychest for commenting once on this subreddit. How is reddit supposed to be a mainstream platform? You need a separate account for this sub. Reddit is run by a bunch of whiny babies and almost anything can get you a ban for no reason. Simply participating by voting, posting, or commenting and your whole account is flagged. You can't really blame them. The idea of the game is to get an IPO probably and cash out. For that you need to meet certain social standards or else investment firms won't invest. They aren't in the game of being canceled. Doesn't matter the reasoning, they are in it for mo…	/r/MensRights	04/01/23 05:55 PM
44	Scantily clad girls playing guitar are getting millions of views on their videos while talented guys struggle to get traction from the Youtube algorithm Well yeah... Oldest profession and all. It's not the women (not close to a majority) who are streaming and clicking. Pick any social platform, sexy sells. YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, it's all the same influencer model type. Who gets the votes on "American Idol" type shows? The pretty ones. That's the way it is, and let's face it. The men are the problem.	/r/MensRights	17/12/22 06:06 PM
-10	How many of the slaves who died in Qatar were men? That number is pure bunk. The actual figure is 37 over the decade plus, but that is all deaths on the sites. Car accidents, heart attacks, whatever. 3 were actual work place injuries. Those 3 were men. Those 37 are believed to be men. Construction is almost all male. The 6500 number is western propaganda based on ALL migrant deaths for all causes, including natural, over the entire multi year period.	/r/MensRights	24/11/22 01:07 AM
2	Can you buy love with money? The real answer is yes. Dating is all about quick decisions and shallowness. To find love, you need to find companionship and relationships. To find relationships in general, someone has to be wanting to spend time with you. If you're an underwear model, you have no problem. You can get any woman you want into your inner circle. From there, love may or may not cultivate. That's the easiest method. Just be beautiful. But for the 99% of men that aren't, you have to posses a quality that is wanted.…	/r/MensRights	07/11/22 03:53 PM
-3	What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish (21) dating Jesse Rutherford (31)? Because most of the comments on Twitter and Reddit have already made him gross, even predator and paedophile. Don't care who either of them are. But the standard half plus seven rule is broken. Therefore societal no no.	/r/MensRights	20/10/22 01:32 PM
1	Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how? Should be noted that French/Napoleonic Law is very weird and different than almost everywhere else which is British Commonwealth Law. I'm not sure at all what protections or traps exist in Napoleonic law so I can't comment.	/r/MensRights	18/10/22 04:22 PM
11	Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how? This is exactly where it is down to specifics. Assuming you're in the US and not in a community property state, a prenump or postnump plus separate finances is one of the safest ways. If you continue to show and maintain the separation. If you ever mingle, then they're mingled. Just like a business. But with enough of a battle you can argue that the income stream itself was marital and therefore any money deposited during the marriage, even into a separate account, may be communal. Which is exac…	/r/MensRights	18/10/22 01:47 PM
167	Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how? Not in the Western countries like the US or WEurope. A prenuptial is the first place to start. In the US and Western world those can be used as a guide but are NOT fully bound contracts. All it takes is for the judge to say it is unfair to one party and then the whole thing, or the majority goes away. A postnumptial is almost always thrown out if contested. The best is to have completely separate finances and have no joint assets.	/r/MensRights	18/10/22 12:16 AM
2	Towards an Equitable Redistribution of the Fruits of Sexual Labour 1) Unfairly? How do you measure that? If I pay $50 or $50k for something sexual, what's the difference. We negotiated a contract. Just like how women complain all the time that their salaries are lower (they aren't per work unit output) the easiest is "you get what you negotiate". Want to be paid more, demand it or don't do the job. If you enter into an agreement, and it isn't under duress, why should a court reverse it because it was unfair? Negotiate better. If you really really really want it…	/r/MensRights	10/10/22 10:12 AM
1	How do I find some one who can manage my bank account for me while I'm in prison? Oh. Well for $1k in any of the "dollar" currencies, that's worthless to protect legally like that. And it wouldn't even pay for a month of management. Just go open a new account with only you as the owner and the address as a PO Box or address trusted elsewhere where the statements go. Put the 1k in it and be done with it. You'll have internet access to check on the balance and such.	/r/MensRights	06/10/22 07:27 AM
1	How do I find some one who can manage my bank account for me while I'm in prison? You absolutely want a lawyer to do it. Does not have to be the same lawyer you're using now. It would be a bad idea for that as they are completely different fields. Nobody dealing with criminal prosecution is a good choice for financial setup. Setting up trusts is different per country. And if in the US or Canada, it varies by state or province. Just like a POA, the wording needs to be explicit and local. It is usually reciprocated elsewhere once valid but it must be valid wherever in the world…	/r/MensRights	06/10/22 06:54 AM
5	How do I find some one who can manage my bank account for me while I'm in prison? You setup a trust and have your lawyer or appointed "accounts manager" do the details. Requires setup in advance. Should also give them POA personally so they can do stuff like file taxes, renew car registration, pause your cable bill, etc. You don't have to tell them you're going to prison. People do this routinely when they go on long holidays or have multiple homes to manage in different protectorates.	/r/MensRights	05/10/22 11:02 AM
11	Asked a legit question in a legal advice sub, question taken down as trolling Yes but that's meaningless unless you create a record and make it historical record. The default is it is a gift. Prove it wasn't. That's actually pretty hard to do in a normal relationship. Hence the contract, insurance under his name, purchase into a business, etc.	/r/MensRights	19/09/22 03:55 AM
53	Asked a legit question in a legal advice sub, question taken down as trolling If you give it to her it is a gift, it's hers. She can leave the second you give it to her. No consequences. To not give it as a gift make it clear. That's what the contract would be. The same as a rental or lease with no option to purchase. These contracts actually exist quite readily because high end jewelers consistently loan out there wears for people to wear and subsequently be photographed in, etc. So the contracts are rather standard. I let you wear this for free, you must return on x dat…	/r/MensRights	18/09/22 03:20 PM
1	ONS pregnant - UK Even if you both were on the same page, and fully agreed to custody, visitation, payments, everything, you can still be screwed later. Sounds like you're there. But remember child support payments are not for the mother. They are for the child. The crown can make you pay to support your child even if both parents don't want to. The crown can order many things unilaterally and change in the future.	/r/MensRights	08/09/22 12:33 AM
106	Would you like to see more female construction workers? I personally don't care as long as the jobs get done. If a man, woman, or godzilla wants to pour concrete and weld beams then cool. Do it. Now if there was a quota that said 33% of concrete pourers have to be godzilla creatures, I wouldn't be for that.	/r/MensRights	02/07/22 06:12 AM
1	Dissertation for University help! What are you basing your increase on? Pandemic Era only? Last 5 years? 10? 20? If you look at the actual data, there isn't an increase during normal times. COVID has changed many things, and the reasons aren't well known yet. People are more hostile and violent in general, coupled with being locked in an apartment with someone for a year or two with no escape. These things have been studied in the concept of long voyages like submarines or spacecraft missions, and the SAME outcomes happen. Viole…	/r/MensRights	22/05/22 12:52 AM
1	Dissertation for University help! Yes I'll give a response but I have low hopes. Your introductory statement is your conclusion. You're trying to get data to prove your conclusion versus getting data and forming a conclusion. I'm fairly sure any insight you get here will not be taken as a true data point. I'd also say your conclusion conflates topics and areas. The correlations you're attempting to draw do not show causation. They are a symptom of a societal problem but not as framed.	/r/MensRights	22/05/22 12:19 AM
6	Thoughts on the Way Women will now Fear When Walking Past a Man? You could also be hit by lightning at any time. Hope you carry a lightning rod with you everywhere. If you want to be insanely stupid and fearful, I don't care. But I'm not feeling bad because you are irrational and too stupid to understand basic probabilities and risk assessment. It's obvious you're a troll.	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 03:53 PM
10	Thoughts on the Way Women will now Fear When Walking Past a Man? Now learn what those statistics mean. You didn't comprehend any of what I posted obviously. 100% of people that eat beef die.	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 03:47 PM
5	Thoughts on the Way Women will now Fear When Walking Past a Man? Bullshit. The word rape is completely overused. Additionally how many of these are people that are completely random strangers? I'm not going to argue with idiots, so show yourself out.	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 03:36 PM
34	Thoughts on the Way Women will now Fear When Walking Past a Man? There are some very famous quotes on fear that fit right in. If you are terrified of whatever, men, spiders, snakes, lightning, that's sucks to be you. But your irrational fear shouldn't change my life or environment. If you were terrified by dogs in purple sweaters, I would not support you trying to ban all dogs from wearing purple sweaters. It's a you problem, don't make it an everyone problem. Your actual chances of being violently attacked or raped as a woman are very very very very low. You…	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 12:39 PM
1	Greetings from a confused feminist Disregarding your statement about toxic masculinity because it doesn't make any sense, on the surface you will have many people agree with your basic premise. Equitable society for all, that's what many people want. The issue is going to be "define equitable". You highlight issues that affect someone or group of someones. I highlight issues that affect someone else or a group of someone elses. Who decides which to prioritize? Who makes the decision on which gets the focus? That's the real issue.…	/r/MensRights	09/03/22 06:01 AM
8	Realizing I may not agree with this sub That's certainly a viewpoint and it's shared by many. Not everyone here is a homogeneous idea blob. I'd say I agree with you except for drawing the line at men and women. I'd say whoever is best. 99% of the time, that's going to be the same as the men vs women line. But there are some ripped women who are great shots that could absolutely defend a country better than the 400lb dude that runs out of breath getting off the couch. For me it means allowing everyone to do what is best for them and to…	/r/MensRights	09/03/22 05:47 AM
7	So my friend wrongly accused of something by his maid. Why would the maid still be in the house? Kick her out, cancel her visa/sponsorship, and get a new one.	/r/MensRights	21/08/21 11:16 AM
7	USA Men's Olympic fencers favor verdict first, trial later This is the US now. You are absolutely guilty until proven innocent. And after you're proven innocent you can continue to be slandered with no repercussions. Good luck with defamation, you're already evil in the eyes of the public. This guy may be the Scranton Strangler, but he's not guilty of anything until proven so in court.	/r/MensRights	31/07/21 05:53 AM
3	Utah is now making men pay for women's pregnancy I mean Utah is basically a different country of Mormon-Land. If you aren't Mormon, you're a very small minority. This is more of a separation of church and state issue as in these communities it is already how it works. It just wasn't legally enforceable. Now it is.	/r/MensRights	08/04/21 02:43 AM
4	The "absent black father epidemic" is anti-male (and racist) The prettiest one with the most visual representation is Pew data. pew research center calculations of the 2006-08 national survey of family growth	/r/MensRights	27/02/21 02:52 AM
9	The "absent black father epidemic" is anti-male (and racist) Well no... But yes. And no. Black fathers aren't statistically more likely to leave their child, just more likely to get a divorce. False. They are statistically less likely to live with their child and divorce isn't part of the issue. Most black children are born out of wedlock. Seriously, it's a weird statistic. 72% of black fathers have non-marital births as of the study I know. This is compared to 37% of white and 59% hispanic. Even black fathers who live in different houses from the mother …	/r/MensRights	27/02/21 02:15 AM
4	Protecting assets before marriage when it comes to finances, so what are legitimate ways to "protect" your assets before getting married? Prenups and religious following of divided assets the entire marriage AND being child free. The reason is once there's a child, the child can't be bound to the agreement, it wasn't there or legally of age to consent. No joint bank accounts. No joint anything. Any large expenses should be paid half and half or whatever split your prenup determines. Any small expenses are gifts, always. Another …	/r/MensRights	24/02/21 06:29 AM
4	If men workforce in dangerous jobs was lowered from 57% to around 9%, how could it affect the economy? Nothing would get done because only 9% of the workforce would actually do anything.	/r/MensRights	05/02/21 11:58 PM
1	Fernando making a good point A great comedian will use modern issues and their platform to make things that are ridiculous look ridiculous inbetween laughter because people's guard is down. Comics have been doing this since court jesters were a thing. On the other side or the fence, female comedians in the 50's and 60's, which were rare, that talked about modern issues, which was even more rare, generally hid their more insightful data in the middle of a set and most never saw it. Great video game though lol	/r/MensRights	02/02/21 07:01 PM
3	Women complaining men are avoiding them at the workplace Unfortunately doesn't work when the mantra is "believe all women". A male is automatically wrong or guilty until proven not to be whereas a female is automatically correct and innocent until proven not to be. And when a male is proven to be innocent, the damage has been done and it really carries no weight. Again, see Johnny Depp as one high profile case of something that happens all the time.	/r/MensRights	02/02/21 06:57 PM
2	Women complaining men are avoiding them at the workplace It's much easier to tell, at least for me or with the female coworkers of mine, when they are old school or not. They tell jokes that would make sailors blush. Now of you piss them off, like not complimenting the potluck food they bring in or then overhearing you complimenting another woman's potluck food that they don't like, it's game over lol. I've bought "essential oils" and kid's bake sale goods and crap like that from them over the years because it's important to them and you need literal …	/r/MensRights	02/02/21 06:55 PM
24	Women complaining men are avoiding them at the workplace Absolutely. I as a male am not alone in distancing from women in the workplace. It's a no win scenario. Give attention to one or any, and you'll be accused of bias and favouritism by at least one of them. Have a closed door meeting, and your entire career can be ruined by a false claim of nearly anything from rape to bullying. Just ask Johnny Depp how's that going. Tell a joke and you'll be fired for being insensitive. I have no problems with the older ladies. The ones who grew up and worked in …	/r/MensRights	02/02/21 05:13 AM
1	What would you consider are the main similarities and differences between Feminists and Male rights movements? I think it's bit of a separate thing. I completely agree Eastern cultures have much better family units and the ability to know what is private and what is public unlike the West. Oppression is just someone else telling you that you can't do that when you want to do it. Pretty simple. In those Eastern cultures you are not allowed to do many things. The reasons are debatable and in my view not actually bad. But it is still oppression and if everyone is happy with it, it isn't a problem. In my per…	/r/MensRights	17/01/21 09:07 AM
1	What would you consider are the main similarities and differences between Feminists and Male rights movements? Between a quarter million miles and half a million miles per year before covid. Usually spend most of my time "abroad" wherever that is. Spent almost 2 months in the middle east before lockdown. And I go pretty much every year. Also spend 1 to 2 months in Asia and 1 to 2 months in Europe. Remainder in Central America, islands, etc	/r/MensRights	17/01/21 08:11 AM
3	What would you consider are the main similarities and differences between Feminists and Male rights movements? You can be happy and oppressed. In the west I'm pretty oppressed compared to my female counterparts. But I'm overall pretty happy mostly because I have wealth and can buy privilege that is taken away in the name of equality. When I go the middle east or Asia, I'm much happier, and less oppressed, and wouldn't need as much wealth to be as happy. Oh well.	/r/MensRights	17/01/21 04:49 AM
1	What would you consider are the main similarities and differences between Feminists and Male rights movements? Not at all. The women that want to do whatever they want in places like the middle east, which are very few, cannot. That is oppression. The men have oppression in that they generally cannot stay at home themselves, but it is doable. Working women are very rare and frown upon. That is the oppression. I have spent considerable time in the middle east. I'd say they are much much happier overall. The very few women whom I've met that wanted to do more than allowed were unhappy and wanting to move t…	/r/MensRights	17/01/21 04:22 AM
6	What would you consider are the main similarities and differences between Feminists and Male rights movements? Both fight for perceived fairer treatment of individuals and groups based on sex. That's it. The problem is deciding if you are oppressed or the other group is oppressed. Or if you believe both groups can be repressed or even should be repressed. In Western worlds where there have been screams of equality for so long, it has been reached and overrun. Men are now oppressed. In Eastern cultures women are still more oppressed as in Middle East cultures. But on the other side there is a social norma…	/r/MensRights	17/01/21 01:53 AM
2	Motherboards are sexist. I see your comment that it's just a joke/meme, but this is really starting to impact real life now. There are gendered terms for many things in engineering and it works very well. You have male and female connections and polarities. You have motherboards that are full of female sockets to accept male parts. You even have master and slave relationships! Oh my! But they all have English meanings that work and people just get their job done. Nobody cares that the socket is female. It doesn't make t…	/r/MensRights	11/01/21 11:04 PM
0	How do we get equal reproductive access for men? Abortion should be a OR logic. If either parent wants an abortion, it's an abortion.	/r/MensRights	28/12/20 06:17 AM
34	Here's another study "proving" women are superior (doctors) while basically debunking that theory with their own findings. "Women physicians have a kind of a laundry list of skills and attributes that are different statistically from male doctors," she says. "This includes being a good listener, showing empathy, being supportive, being able to talk about emotions and psychosocial issues." Yeah if my doctor's greatest skill is to be empathetic, I'm leaving. I don't need that crap. I need a doctor who will use their skills to diagnose and treat the problem. Making you feel like everything will be OK when you're close …	/r/MensRights	02/12/20 08:15 PM
8	How do I as a woman, go about protecting my rights in a way that doesn’t also oppress men? Fight for equality and this isn't a problem. When you fight for equity instead of equality, that's where you have issues. Because if you don't agree that equality is equitable, then you are fighting non-equality biased in some direction to correct issues, real or perceived. This is true for racial issues, socio-economic issues, gender issues, etc. And then on a continuation of that, when you identify an inequitable situation you have to follow through. Take for example physical fitness tests for…	/r/MensRights	16/10/20 04:12 AM
1	Some men are privileged, but just like everyone else There is a difference to be made by social privilege that is mutable vs immutable. Racial and gender privilege for example is very different than geographic or wealth privilege.	/r/MensRights	10/10/20 10:29 PM
3	I just heard of RBG's death, but I also heard some people call her a "feminist icon." What are you guys' general opinions of her? She was all for EQUALITY and that is rare today. She fought hard for women's rights and men's rights but mostly equal rights. She was a sneaky lady, she'd argue a case brought by a man to make her point it was unfair to women. Argue a case brought by a woman to say it was unfair to men. Brilliant scholar and a real activist for equality. I believe she's the reason waaaaaay back in the day that women now have to do jury duty. It used to be men had to serve. Women could opt-in. RBG argues this was…	/r/MensRights	19/09/20 05:16 AM