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| 1 | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.Thank you so much for all of this. I really resonate with everything you are saying. Every day I am more and more certain of what I have to do. I'm starting to love myself more and more everyday and value the fact that I am deserving of a healthy and loving relationship. I gravitated towards the opposite because although the dynamic is toxic, it is what I am familiar and therefore comfortable with. But NO MORE. NO MORE. I failed to mention in the comment that my breaking point happened last mont… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 05:38 PM |
| 1 | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. It really means a lot to me. Thank you <3 I know I want my needs to be met. He can be a HVM on paper but I don't care about any of that. With my dysfunctional upbringing, this situation between him and I has made me realize that what I want most in a partner is consistency and empathy. He has proven so many times that he cannot do that for me. He's so stoic that I always feel like I'm the dramatic one making a big deal out of stuff and overreacting… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 07:19 PM |
| 4 | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.Please please please i need so much support and help of any kind right now. I don't know what to do. I thought I was going to get married to my high school/college sweetheart I've been with because I feel like I've convinced myself for years that he is/was a HVM: he's intelligent, faithful, economically stable (going to be a doctor), respectful, and handsome. However, our only and recurring issue for the last seven years has been lack of emotional support. It's so inconsistent. I am capable of s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | You don't need emotional fulfillment from a man or validationhonestly i am not doing okay but thank you so much for your answer and honesty. I had therapy today and she had me list all the times he had been inconsistent with emotional availability the past seven years and i was triggered remembering how my mother was also very inconsistent with emotional support and had a mental breakdown when i got home when i realized everything he wasnt there for. He is there when it is convenient. I can't handle this pain anymore. I will continue perusing this sub for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 02:13 AM |
| 3 | You don't need emotional fulfillment from a man or validationPlease forgive me for my ignorance as I am new to this way of thinking, but at what point does the lack of emotional support from a relationship classify my partner as a LVM? I know deep down I can stand on my own two feet as my own individual, but recently I was physically violated by one of our friends, and my boyfriend provided zero emotional support when I went to him for comfort. Several other incidences have happened like this too (I’ve been borderline suicidal, told him I’m not doing alri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 11:49 PM |
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