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throw_away_today_932/r/askTRP24/06/17 06:17 AM
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And here I thought I was just unnatractive. Turns out I'm wholly inadequete.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 07:19 AM
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Happy to oblige
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 08:33 PM
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As a guy, I love cuddling and being really soft and affectionate. I'm 6'4", 210 Ibs with 12% bf but all I really want are short mousy girls to hold and play with their hair and shit. It's nearly impossible to do this without a sexual context though, and it seems like girls get bored of this and prefer rougher sex with little affection after.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 07:29 PM
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Autism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 05:11 AM
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I propose a PPD cocktail party during which talking about gender politics is strictly forbidden. Then at the end we all try to guess what pills people are by how they act irl. I feel like it'd be full of suprisses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 08:38 PM
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I still strongly disagree with this sentiment. Yes, you can be wrong be wrong and should be open to updating your opinion of people in light of new information, but to hold off on making ANY moral judgements because you might be wrong is absurd. I'm sure we can make sympathetic stories for a serial killer for why he ended up that way. And we can look at saints and tell ourselves that they aren't good people because they are being charitable out of guilt or something. "Good" and "bad" are abstrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 08:26 PM
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Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 04:38 PM
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There is quirky levels of social awkwardness, then there is "fuck me, why do I even try?" levels. You don't know where he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 04:12 PM
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In my experience, this has actually been true. Every time I've gotten a girlfriend/ fwb and have sex regularly, I become less bitter and stop caring about gender politics and focus more on my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 03:57 PM
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I think it's disengenuous to put Billy who spends every Sunday working at the soup kitchen and always helps his neighbors but maybe loses his temper here and there, with Steve who is a convicted sex offender and beats his wife. There are still shades of grey, but at the same time there is a point where you have to say "ok, Billy is a better person than Steve". Extreme moral relativism removes incentives for positive behaviour in society by saying there must be 'something' wrong with you so you r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 03:48 PM
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I always find this wisdom funny in a way. I think I had way more women attracted to me before I ever started approaching since I just assumed most were attracted and it showed in how I carried myself. Then I thought I could get laid more often if I approach women myself instead in of waiting for them, but the failure rate of being the initiator shattered my delusions. Now I think I have a more grounded self-perception, but I still want to tap into that delusion when needed, even when facing cont…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 02:02 PM
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I'm Irish and I hate myself. So, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 02:35 PM
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I don't ever think in terms of "deserve". If someone showed interest in me I just try to evaluate whether dating them would be a net positive or negative on my quality of life or just be a worthwhile learning experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 06:47 PM
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Sleeping eith low value guys = eating dogs shit in your eyes You don't see the power imbalance? If you're starving for affection, you're looking for anything evendors slightly edible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 01:01 PM
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Eh. It's just a definition, you aren't obligated to care about it unless you suscribe to the stereotypical stigma that comes with the label.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 10:05 PM
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Well then using that definition you'd be a virgin all of that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 08:28 PM
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Stuck your beenis in a bagina. Or vice-versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 06:25 PM
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Society. People.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 06:10 PM
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Why is that funny? We've already made a lot if progress since the middle ages, where beating cats to death in bags was considered great entertainment. Our capacity for empathy across society can grow, increasing quality of life and making a deeper sense of connection and shared sense of purpose between its members.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 04:25 PM
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Similar reaction for men to women's sexuality. But isn't accepting reality and the parts of each others biology that we don't like a step in the right direction for creating a more compassionate, understanding society?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 01:17 AM
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Similar reaction for men to women's sexuality. But isn't accepting reality and the parts of each others biology that we don't like a step in the right direction for creating a more compassionate, understanding society?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 01:17 AM
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Similar reaction for men to women's sexuality. But isn't accepting reality and the parts of each others biology that we don't like a step in the right direction for creating a more compassionate, understanding society?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 01:17 AM
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Make that red/black. Rakdos guild.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 12:46 AM
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Male, red. 18
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 12:42 AM
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Yeah, but I thought most of the anger was about having been lied to. I personally can handle harsh criticism much more than I can take being lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 06:36 PM
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This is like saying the reason you aren't in the top financial 1% is all your own fault. It's partially true, but it does't acknowledge the fact that perhaps it's extremely difficult for people with certain circumstances. Yeah, there probably is something about them that repels women, but that's not a contradiction with a claim that perhaps the average guy has at least one or two things about him that is unattractive and hard to change. How do you know how much effort men already put in improvin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 01:15 AM
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Yeah, but the line can be blurry between when it's done in good spirits or not and it's really only fun if you're comfortable and can keep up. Plus a lot of guys have experienced something like the following: Imagine you hanging out with a bunch of witty, smart-asses, and they go around ripping on everyone and it's all fun, but then they start to pick on you. Maybe your tired and your comeback game is weak, so you just laugh to not be a buzzkill and go along with it. Then they start escalating w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 11:27 PM
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Bought me the 4x4x4 master cube, which I was really excited about. She kept asking me if I solved it, then when I finally did she busted out the 5x5x5 professor cube. I was smitten. She's also the one I mentioned in the worst thread. People are complicated. I don't think I'd hurt as much if people were at least consistently assholes, it's when they make me catch the feels beforehand that it stings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 04:04 AM
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Stream-of-consciousness, bizarre conversations I suppose. Like two people thinking out loud and not even addressing each other directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 09:12 PM
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The free market decides. How much are people are willing to pay for your products or services?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 07:51 PM
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I don't think a lot of girls' planning intentionally conscience, but the end result is the same. At the time she might have just wanted me to hit her so that she felt less guilty about cheating, but after relaying this story to her friends while conveniently forgetting to mention the part where she egged me on you don't think her friends and her will create a reality-warping feedback loop until she convinces herself I've always been secretly abusive? It only took her about a week to rationalize …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 06:42 PM
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I don't think women are overall more evil than men. I'm just afraid of them due to learning how scary good at lying they are, and how a lot don't show remorse and are even proud of how clever they are when it comes to manipulation. When I found out one of my gfs of a year was cheating, she immediately starts crying and getting upset. I was pretty angry and she senzed this and reacted by pretending to act really understanding, but then started encouraging me to slap her because she "deserved it".…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 03:36 PM
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I'm not trying to justify their behaviour, I was just describing it as I see it. They don't do anything for the sole purpose of making people happy, they probably just do the minimum amount of good to appease the masses to prevent a revolt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 08:09 PM
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I mean I've gone through phases where I forced myself to be social and take lines of conversation that are more "normal", but none of it is natural or seems to stick long term. It pretty much has to be the #1 priority in my life to be maintained.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 07:58 PM
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Having more options is psychologically empowering, even if you don't use them. It gives you a sense of autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 04:21 PM
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I act pretty weird? Idk. I don't think I've ever had success at really changing my personality, and believe me, I've tried. It seems pretty set in stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:13 PM
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The easiest way to not be hungry is to already be getting it though...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:04 PM
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How do you get a decent personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 06:15 AM
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I'm not looking for something specific, my goal since starting TRP is more to become attractive enough to establish myself as someone who can consistently get dates (which I am not even close to reaching). I actually have had in the past a number of girlfriends, but I was kind of a doormat and played what I'd call 'cute, shy guy' game. I was also pretty gullible and naive and I think it attracted more manipulative girls. After TRP I started sticking up for myself and established stronger boundar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 04:21 AM
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I'm not looking for something specific, my goal since starting TRP is more to become attractive enough to establish myself as someone who can consistently get dates (which I am not even close to reaching). I actually have had in the past a number of girlfriends, but I was kind of a doormat and played what I'd call 'cute, shy guy' game. I was also pretty gullible and naive and I think it attracted more manipulative girls. After TRP I started sticking up for myself and established stronger boundar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 04:20 AM
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Yeah, but they still throw a bone here and there to the demographics that vote for them. They're only as corrupt as they can get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 03:53 AM
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Bad example, prison actively selects the worst men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:44 AM
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Just to add my 2c for all the people criticizing guys of "not trying"... Yeah, a lot of the guys trying aren't going out and trying, but you have no idea how much they have in the past. It's just a convenient way to make it their fault. I'm sure there are guys with high standards who whine and don't try, but there are also a ton who put the their nose to the grindstone and receive nothing but a continuous stream of negative reinforcement for their efforts. When I first started reading RP, I had …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:20 AM
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How do you know he's not trying? Do you follow him everywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:50 AM
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I just realized what I proposed would actually make it science. I played myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:36 AM
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I agree with your criticism of the field of evo-psych today. You can make up any explanation for a behaviour, and there is a lot of bullshit clogging up the field. My point was more that in principal it doesn't have to be that way, and the field doesn't have to be entirely dismissed due to some theories that make way too many assumptions. I think there is a lot out there that is subtle, but not unknowable. A better practice would be to use theories that actually try to make predictions. Example:…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:30 AM
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Woman vote for those men. They vicariously hold power.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:10 AM
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Yeah, it's not science, but it's at least making an honest attempt to explain something with a theory that can be openly challenged and criticized. There are also plenty of theories that have very little evidence, but have a lot of support due to a strong logical foundation. Lot's of people spend careers trying to figure out how to test these. You can also use your imagination to come up with a completely retarded theory that's tailored to perfectly fit all the given evidence. "Lol, this is a wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 10:46 PM
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You mentioned you got a lot of positive swipes on Tinder and PoF, which means you have options and abundance. If a guy acts weird or annoying, you are less likely to put up with him because you know there are plenty of others. Even if you decide that you don't currently like any of the guys on there, you presumably have an easier time being alone because for you it's a conscious choice and in the back of your head you know that there will always be guys on there for you if you really wanted them…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 08:33 PM
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I still think the abundance effects your mentality, even if not conciously making you feel good about yourself. I don't think much about having enough oxygen to breath, bease for the most part I take it as a given. I have oxygen abundance mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 03:06 PM
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No, being aware of a psychological tactic doesn't automatically invalidate it. Plus women will never call you out, because you can just pretend to not know what they're talking about and make them look like paranoid idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 03:14 PM
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I used to be really honest and affectionate when pursuing girls. Over time, the number of flakes and cancelled dates after investing time in energy in to meeting and attracting some girl has made me feel stupid for ever getting excited and having my hopes up. Being bitter and angry doesn't work more, but I think is a mark of being in the SMP awhile as a non top-tier male, which also correlates with more experience and hence success.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 02:37 PM
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This is now a BP hate thread. Fuck those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 12:33 AM
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If any ladies reading this on the east coast want to have casual sex, please pm me to exchange pics and logistics. There are apparently plenty of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 04:53 AM
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And if alphas all stopped having casual sex than there would be plenty of girlfriends to go 'round. The thing is neither is going to happen because it's not in their interests. You are assuming the girl here would prefer to be attracted to her husband instead of having someone docile and easy to manipulate. If every guy was AB women would lose a lot of social capital since their husbands wouldn't put up with nearly as much as betas do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 02:54 AM
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This would actually NOT be in her interest, because then other women would be attracted to him and he'd be a less secure option.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 12:55 AM
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Yeah, I totally agree with your last point. I secretly recorded myself in conversations before and listening to them was pretty eye opening. There was so much mumbling and making references to my own internal thought process that I thought it was a wonder that people are even as nice to me as they are.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 12:20 AM
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I'm less direct now, I only did direct approaches to get my feet wet and become used to telling someone I find them attractive. It was more of an exercise of me trying to get more comfortable in my own skin than expecting success. You're right, I should do more approaches and go out more.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 10:48 PM
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Well, I started out this path not thinking about autism as an excuse, but felt like I was hitting some sort of hard obstacle where I couldn't further improve no matter how much effort I put in. I largely overcame fear of approaching and shyness, but I still think even at my best I give off a weird vibe. I actually think I can be pretty good at chatting up strangers (for a short while), but I start to really fall behind when trying to integrate into a group or make closer connections. At this poi…
/r/askTRP24/06/17 05:26 PM
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That's how I do think of it already. I've gotten pretty good at short interactions but it's a pretty exhausting game to keep up when you are essentially acting and focusing on a bunch of details to come off as cool and composed.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 05:01 PM
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