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Well before we got together the first time we both agreed that we were not going to get married and this is just fun. We're both older, so it's not like we're going to start a family. It's not like I'm dating some hot 24 year old with unlimited tinder matches at her beck and call.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 08:05 AM
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Why is she doing all this for me though? Would you attempt to shame her for being too nice if you knew her? It seems that women get shamed by other women for being too nice these days like they used to get shamed for being promiscuous. I really like her. She's totally great and I wanted to share all the great stuff she does for me. Instead I get insults... why?
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 07:38 AM
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You can delete it. I couldn't think of anywhere else to post this. I give up. I am telling the truth, not trying to shitpost or be mysogestic. I think this lady is really great and I just wanted to share all the things she does to make me happy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 07:19 AM
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If you are young and good looking, I could totally see how you would have that attitude. You don't have to be nice for anyone to like you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 07:15 AM
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I think she's grateful to be in a relationship with me and she's just expressing that. She is not hot, but she's very intelligent and that's something I find highly attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 07:13 AM
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Do you think a doormat would be so motivated and proactive? I am not telling her to do these things, she does them all by herself and is constantly suprising me with new nice stuff she thinks up to do for me. It makes it a total joke to date anyone else because she is so damned nice. There are a couple other women I've dated who ping me ocassionally about getting back together, but why bother with my current FWB around. It's not even worth sleeping around becsuse the marginal cost/benefit of ano…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 06:47 AM
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Very high SMV differential. If I was poor, I could be her sugar baby, but I don't need the money. She's also very professionally successful and not poor by any means.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 06:35 AM
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We have a very high SMV differential, due to looks and professional status, so that takes care of most of it. I do focus on making sure she has a really good time when we sleep together because she is so damned sweet to me. I also quickly reply to emails or any texts she sends. She also just has different values from most women, and since we don't advertise the relationship, her friends aren't giving her shit for being too nice and making them look bad.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 06:28 AM
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So you want to know why there are more STDs floating around and men are having less sex? This guy. I mean good job and stuff. It's just kind of weird though thinking about it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 03:11 AM
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The wall is when you get older than 70 your hormones get so trashed you just aren't interested in sex anymore.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 01:25 AM
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Semen has hormones in it. Some girls get addicted.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 05:45 AM
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One thing about bpd is your only control over them is ultimately the threat of abandonment. This gets really dull because arguments don't work. You have to threaten to leave every time to get them to do or stop doing anything.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 04:14 AM
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I think Borderline Personality Disorder is the extreme version of this. I learned a lot from being married to someone with this, reading up on her and learning the ins and outs of her fuckedupedness before the inevitable divorce. I learned her emotional landscape so well that she still says she's in love with me and will still sleep with me any time I want even though I've told her she'd be a terrible mother because of her awful mental health and I can barely stand her for more than about 5 hour…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 08:56 PM
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I never double text. If they ghost, they ghost. One time a gal who was interested in me texted me two days later cause she legit forgot to check her messages. I told her I never double text. She always replies promptly now.
/r/seduction14/05/19 09:37 PM
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Honestly, if a girl showed me this kind of setup in her basement, I would think she was a bit of a weirdo and it might even be a red flag.
/r/seduction10/05/19 11:33 PM
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If you are short, it's probably a good idea to go to Latin America or South East Asia to meet women. They are much shorter there on average. Also, being a European will make you stand out positively too.
/r/seduction04/05/19 10:12 PM
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Yeah, probably. I'm also fucking her for other reasons. Mainly to make the divorce go smoothly because she still thinks she can get me back.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 01:33 AM
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I get regular great sex from my HB9 nymphomaniac ex-wife whenever I want it. Besides the sex, she is otherwise an emotionally abusive awful person to spend time with, so I limit my interaction with her to fucking as she is still deeply attracted to me. Even though I get as much as I want from her, I still meet and hit on women all the time, but I have abundance mentality because I am happy with non-sex part of the relationship with my lady friends and I can avoid any moral or financial obligatio…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 07:35 PM
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Yeah, women want to show up to their friends party with a buff handsome guy to show off. Showing up with a robot isn't going to do it.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 10:45 PM
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/r/tefl_sexpats is a whole sub devoted to this.
/r/seduction10/03/19 05:25 AM
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My wife is mental, but the sex is very good and often and she's faithful. I tried really hard to make it work.... but the mental part. It would be really hard to have kids with her. She gets pissed off at way too much stuff way too easily. It's a long story. Needless to say, spending time with mentally normal women, strictly platonically, showed me how messed up she is. If your wife is not a headcase, she's probably a keeper. If you have the emotional connection and the sex is good, then you can…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 05:19 AM
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She's a lesbian and this guy is her relative trying to set her up with guys to try to convert her back to heteosexual. That would square with her lack of enthusiasm.
/r/seduction01/03/19 10:58 PM
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Date super short Latin chicks. Import from South America if you have to.
/r/seduction26/02/19 02:35 AM
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How about you lower your standards? Your SMV is low, so try dating ugly chicks.
/r/seduction27/01/19 04:07 AM
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I met a woman by chance, who is good looking, has a graduate degree, and is in her early 20s with great career prospects. Anyway, I'm 20 years older than she is. It's going pretty well. Anyway, she told me Tinder notified her she has had a total of 25,000 matches and she has 3000 messages in her ok cupid inbox. All her dates so far were through online dating. I probably wouldn't have met her that way if I had to get in line after thousands of other guys online to meet her.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 01:25 PM
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How many female friends do you have? Just try having female friends while not trying to fuck them. They don't even have to be pretty since you are not just trying to fuck them. You don't have to spend money on them or see them more than once or twice a month. They will make you vastly more attractive to women. When you tell a woman: "So and So, who I was hanging out with last week who I play tennis with from time to time, she said the funniest thing..." it will make you seem like a guy who has s…
/r/seduction11/12/18 11:43 AM
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That's why you should get a therapist that's a guy in his 40s or older. They still remember the world before political correctness.
/r/seduction11/12/18 11:16 AM
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Fat is ok if she has big boobs.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 08:11 AM
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What percentage of the time that they fail to get your number is due to the reason that you don't find them physically attractive and would never date them no matter what they said?
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:00 PM
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Yeah, pretty true, as a good looking Chadlite you still have to be able to talk a bit. I do it for the ego points of women chasing me though. Most women aren't really worth it, even as plates... or even lady friends. A few are though. Nice to be able to be picky.
/r/BlackPillScience20/07/18 03:24 PM
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The whole point of every thing that has gone wrong in gender relations for the last 30 years is population control. To counter this I propose Sciencemaxxxing, from a darwinian perspective. This is maximizing for darwinian cost/reward. The ideal being that dude from Tennessee who has 30 illegitimate children with 11 different baby mommas and makes minimum wage. It's like winning by getting the lowest possible score on certain metrics society wants you to get the high score on, but the highest on …
/r/BlackPillScience15/07/18 12:15 AM
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As someone who used to get laid at bars and clubs, the old fashioned way, before Tinder, it works like this. Go to club, talk to girl using any opener, see if she likes you, if not, move on. Try to avoid talking about work and focus on anything open ended and personal. Like what she did earlier that day, or tell some of your stories or get her to tell hers. Anything that triggers positive emotions will do. If she likes you, ask for her number, give her a bit of physical contact to show you're no…
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:48 PM
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80% of guys are rated below average attractiveness on OkCupid. Women's looks are evenly distributed. Having been fat and flabby and skinny and muscular, the difference is really amazingly dramatic. This biggest misconception in modern dating is that men's looks don't matter. They matter a hell of a lot, even more than woman's looks. Being muscular makes dating ridiculously easy. There are tons of great anecdotal stories about this on /r/theredpill. Lift brothers!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/18 04:39 AM
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Also, back in the day, it was accepted for older women to slut around as Ben Franklin will tell you. Younger women were supposed to be having babies and families.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 09:53 AM
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I got into pickup in the late 90s when I found Ross Jefferies stuff in the bowels of the internet. It really worked well back then since nobody had even heard of it or believed it worked and the way you met women was going out to clubs and you had limited competition from the other guys there that night. Now with hookup apps and what not, it's much more about how you look than anything else and the top 20% of guys have a whole automated supply chain of women to fuck and the rest have to get the …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:12 PM
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Women are all along the adult to child spectrum with the children being full blown borderline personality disorder with tantrums and extreme fear of abandonment. Some female managers I've had on the other hand have been ice cold emotionally and utterly inscrutable. This is on a separate axis of mental health from the AWALT traits of course.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/18 04:03 PM
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This post should be titled: "why you should take steroids".
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/18 10:05 AM
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OkCupid did a famous blog post where they analyzed their data and found out that 80% of men are considered by women to be below average attractiveness. So what you're really saying is be in the top 20%.
/r/seduction21/05/18 05:03 PM
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Lesson here seems to be be highly attractive and then get on Tinder. Lol.
/r/seduction21/05/18 06:42 AM
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No risk of reinjury, just a back surgery to correct the i jiry made it difficult to bend over enough to do proper deadlift form. I'm fine otherwise, just limited mobility.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 05:29 PM
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Let's say I had a surgery that makes me unable to bend over and touch past my knees. If I'm that inflexible and thus can't do proper form on deadlifts, what should I substitute?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 05:17 PM
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Sex with my wife was not the greatest until I just decided to completely stop initiating. After a while she asked what was wrong and got all upset. I told her, you want to have sex? Tell me what you want me to do. It broke through a barrier and the sex was awesome after that. I guess if you stop initiating and nothing ever happens then it's probably not fixable.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 06:28 AM
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Rich women are weird. Some think they can't date poorer guys because the poor guy gets money and sex, and half if they get married and split. It's too good of a deal. I was at a party once and a rich woman I know had her ex-husband and current boy toy there and they were acting like total bros. It was weird. No jealousy or anything. The ex was living large with a new gal and so was the new boy toy with the rich gal. The two guys had both been poor previously. It was like the "sugar momma" sharin…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 01:21 PM
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Hmm. I wonder if there is a version of that sub for guys? Maybe a sub dedicated to picking up extremely ugly, trashy or crazy women as a means of indulging in self-loathing behavior?
/r/seduction13/03/17 01:48 PM
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So what rule did I break that caused that post to get shadowbanned? That sub is the closest thing to /r/seduction for chicks. However, instead of getting laid with one girl from the club, their goal seems to be how many totally random guys they can have sex with at the mall on any given weekend. Yeah, there isn't a whole lot of technique involved except how not to get caught by mall security. I guess it's a bit disturbing to read some of the posts and might shatter some illusions about at least …
/r/seduction12/03/17 12:07 PM
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They do something. Whether it will actually make a woman sexually interested is another matter. It made my LTR's body think I was a different guy, so this is probably not something that's particularly useful for dating, etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 01:54 AM
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She goes off about, hell yeah I'm down you're hot, but how big are you? I say I'm only 4 feet tall, but she say's no, I mean your cock, how big are you, I'm very picky. One thing I've learned about women: if the sex isn't good they get very upset. It comes from all the way down in the bottom of their lizard brain. The standard for if the sex is good or not is the best fuck they've ever had. If they're polite they won't get pissed in front of you. This is why women who are sluts are terrible LTR …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 03:59 AM
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Chikara. I wouldn't use it though, except for experimenting with the female brain.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 03:25 AM
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Hmm... so the body relationship and the mind relationship with a woman can not be both active at 100% simultaneously. The key to seduction is getting the woman's mind relationship to be bored, distracted or frustrated so the body relationship can seize control of the woman. Maybe this is the essence of romance even. Now I see why women get crushes on professors.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 08:09 AM
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I was thinking it might be good to give it a few more data points. very high x, zero y: bad boy / hate fuck mid high x, low middle y : plate threshold middle to low middle x, high y : the valley of the pity fuck very high y, zero x : her younger brother, emotional tampons negligible x, high y : nice guys
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 07:58 AM
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Therapy is just having a tutor for cognitive behavioral therapy(CBT). If you can teach yourself CBT you don't need therapy.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 06:40 AM
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True story: Me and a friend brought two girls back to my parents house. We were in our early 20s. Parents live in a really nice place. I mean exceptionally nice. Girls were playing it cool. As soon as this one girl sees my parent's place she is immediately down to fuck and non stop fucking happens for the next month with her. I decide she's sketchy and break up. Turns out she just wanted a rich baby daddy as I later found out. Bullet dodged. After that I was much more careful in telling people I…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 07:45 AM
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Yes, this is important to keep in mind. But don't overestimate other people's intelligence or wisdom. Some people have really simple ideas about the world.
/r/seduction09/11/15 06:52 AM
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It got deleted, but I saved it. I removed all the personal info too. : CL hawaii > kauai > personals > rants & raves post [ account ] reply x prohibited[?] Posted: 2 days ago ◀ prev ▲ next ▶ print Warning to women on the island (Hanalei) image 1 image 1image 2 We are the women of Kauai, a timeless, nameless collective....This is a public service announcement to all my sisters out there on the islands. The motivation behind this post is in sharing women's wisdom and life experience, as sisters we…
/r/seduction09/11/15 06:24 AM
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