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This. I feel like a lot of mgtow guys make it sound like a woman goes from 10000+ online matches to 0 matches when she turns 30 and now she’s going to spend all her time trying to get a beta to settle. They’re so out of touch with the current dating market. An attractive woman can take good care of herself and she can look attractive well into her 40s. Ofc she’s way past her prime and will not be nearly as attractive as she was in her early 20s, but she can still be very attractive. She’ll alway…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:22 PM
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What the fuck?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:01 PM
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Similar to my red flags. One I would like to add is “playing the victim”. These women will blame everyone else but themselves for all the problems out there. They’re always the victim. These are mentally ill women you must avoid at all costs. There’s like no attractive women these days who don’t have these red flags though...
/r/seduction18/11/20 05:53 AM
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It’s not weird. Some girls do like being the dominant one. It’s not common but they’re out there. My first experience with a dominant girl was this skinny short 18 year old I met online. She wanted to be on top and hold me down. I was like nah wtf? I’ve had a bunch more experience with dominant girls since then. But yeah I ditch those girls.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:14 AM
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I agree with that. The best we can do is minimize the odds.
/r/MensRights29/10/20 06:39 AM
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Agreed with all except 3. Women don’t think that far ahead. If they’re gonna accuse you, then they will. It’ll be your word vs hers. You will always lose.
/r/MensRights29/10/20 06:35 AM
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Just a reminder that “pence rule” doesn’t always work. A lot of men are falsely accused by their wives, whether it’s for rape or domestic violence. Sometimes even falsely accusing the father for sexual assault of his own children.
/r/MensRights29/10/20 06:31 AM
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My scale: Like....to fuck once? 5 Fuck multiple times? 6 Date? 7 Commit to? 8 Marry? She has to be filthy rich. If not, then no. I’m never marrying based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 03:04 PM
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This. 80% of women are aiming for these top 5% men. How do they expect this to work for all the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:28 PM
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What does that even mean “to Chinese people” ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:28 AM
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It’s not about casual vs bf. It’s about women treating hot guys better than ugly guys. And usually, the hottest guys that women can get are casual because those guys have a lot more options and are much less willing to settle. That’s where this misconception comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 02:51 AM
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Nah. Men want BOTH, just like what you’d get in a normal relationship. I wouldn’t be satisfied if I was ONLY getting one of the two.
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 11:55 PM
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Ok I wasn’t sure if you were talking about TRP in the early OP. And I never said “be attractive” was just physical. It includes personality, career, etc. Being abrasive and being awkward are included in rule 2 - Don’t be unattractive. The 2 rules are very broad. And yes the point of TRP is to get you something short term. You NEED something short term before you can convert that into something long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 02:55 AM
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It’s super useful to have female friends. You do have to be a bit more careful when talking to them though. I don’t like that. I’m a very straightforward and honest dude and I have to always remember to soften my words when talking to them.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 02:38 AM
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I don’t think you know much about TRP. TRP tells you to go lift and talk to girls. They don’t tell you to work on your personality and love yourself. Wth are you talking about? Dating strategy for both genders is simple af: 1. Be attractive 2. Don’t be attractive TRP hits on both strategies by telling men to lift and dress well (Strategy #1 - be attractive) and not to be needy/desperate (Strategy #2 - don’t be unattractive). The strategy that you claimed as TRP strategy is the blue pulled strate…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 02:07 AM
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Pretty much this. The amount of attention hb 8, 9, and 10 get from social media and irl is fucking insane. 30+ unread msgs in each social media app, 100+ msg requests from strangers, etc. They’re just tempted too much for vast majority of them to not cheat. Ask yourself if you wouldn’t cheat if you had 100s of girls wanting you constantly.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 05:38 PM
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I’d try to figure out the details of what’s required of you and how much you’ll receive. If I’m getting paid like $10 to spend days with her, I’d gtfo. If I’m getting paid $5k/month just to grab dinner with her a few times a month, I’d jump on that real quick. Also I’d do some research to see if it’s a scam or not. Sugar mommies are extremely rare. She’d have to be rich and believe she’s really unattractive.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 04:15 PM
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Blue pill is following the commonly spread beliefs without vetting them against empirical evidence. Basically, the opposite of science.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:20 PM
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Money is not a poor SMV strategy. My SMV went up by insane amounts after I started making good money. Spend your $ on a good gym membership, healthier food, better clothes/shoes/watch, bachelor pad, etc. Having good $ and a good career also boosts your confidence as well. The key is to spend your $ on yourself. Don’t spend it on women.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:10 AM
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She may have seen your pics on ig after replying to you and saw that you lifted or something and became more interested. Who the fuck knows? If she’s consistently talking to you and making conversation with you, then that’s high enough interest. Meet up with her by suggesting something actually fun to do together. And I hope you didn’t give boring straightforward answers to her questions... And yeah you’re overthinking this shit way too much.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:05 AM
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I’d personally prefer a better chair + laptop and no tv but that’s just personal preference. Looks great to me.
/r/MensRights25/09/20 07:09 AM
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Ditch BPDs. Don’t come crying when you get #metoo’d. They can ruin your life overnight. It’ll be too late by then. Go to support the accused subreddit to see how fucked up the legal system is when you’re accused of rape.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 08:21 PM
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Ditch BPDs. Don’t come crying when you get #metoo’d. They can ruin your life overnight. It’ll be too late by then. Go see the supporttheaccused subreddit to see how fucked up the legal system is when you’re accused of rape.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 08:20 PM
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Yeah I definitely see that. A lot of it feels cultural and economic as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:25 AM
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Ty ty. That gives me good insight as to the declining birth rates in the US and the seemingly increasing number of people advocating for a childfree lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:22 AM
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Holy fucking shit.
/r/MensRights23/09/20 05:04 AM
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I agree with the guy who said sex is a need. If you think about it, all animals spend their whole lives trying to eat and trying to fuck. Everything else is sorta secondary. I do feel bad for unattractive men in 2020. Holy shit it’s really brutal out here. I have a bunch of friends who are average looking and they desperately try to meet women but can’t. They’re really nice and fun guys and it makes me a bit sad. Online dating has really fucked things up for the average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:01 AM
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Agreed. She would have said “I never slept with anyone else since I started dating him so there’s no fucking chance whatsoever it could be anyone else’s” or something like that but instead she phrased things in a very open-ended way, leaving a way out for plausible deniability.
/r/MensRights23/09/20 03:49 AM
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She gave no indication that she was acting like a weasel in her story. But ofc that’s just her story. Who knows what she was acting like?
/r/MensRights23/09/20 03:44 AM
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God damn. Did not know that people viewed children in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:30 AM
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It’s safer now than ever to have kids though. Are you saying that the fact that we’re more knowledgeable about the effects of pregnancy is what’s causing the increase in women not wanting children?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:20 AM
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Blame for what? The current media never blame women for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:18 AM
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Well said. Although I do feel like modern western women do have it better than men. But yes I agree; women have it a lot worse in certain aspects of life, even in the western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:12 AM
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The world needs more people like you. Men really do have it shitty in the western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:50 AM
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I can see both points of the view. If she’s legitimately worried that he’s got some anxiety issues and she wants him to go to therapy for him AND she’s going to let him get a paternity test after the therapy, then she’s not the asshole. People with extreme anxiety can ruin relationships and she has a right to ask him to go to therapy for his issues. But if she’s just always against the paternity test even if he goes to therapy, then yeah it seems like she’s hiding something. I love the wording s…
/r/MensRights23/09/20 02:10 AM
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That’s because you’re reading red pill / mgtow subreddits. Go to gynocentric subreddits and you’ll see them blaming men. Men get zero sympathy there even in situations where they deserve it. M
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:00 AM
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Lmfao I had no idea they did this. Holy shit that’s kinda funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 11:32 PM
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Depends on how they became a single mother. If they were in a happy long term relationship and/or marriage and had kids, but the relationship didn’t work out for some reason, I don’t blame the single mom. Same for the men who got divorced. Depends on who they married and why they got divorced. I don’t see why we have to generalize and put all single moms / divorced men in one category.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 11:28 PM
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Did you still have to pay child support tho?
/r/MensRights21/09/20 03:40 PM
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Women simp ALL THE FUCKING TIME lol. I’ve had women buy me clothes, take me out on nice dinners, buy me gifts (I’ve even had a previous fwb who literally fedex’d me a gift + a card for valentines after I moved to a different state), drive me / take me places, come fly out to visit me from a different state/country, etc. I even have female orbiters who dm me whenever I post nice pics on ig. These women aren’t even ugly. Some are attractive and have a bunch of orbiters of their own too. Focus on i…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 10:38 PM
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Ah yes. That makes a lot of sense. Ty!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:35 PM
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My question was more towards the reason for women having narrower physical preference than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:23 PM
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Huh? Why is this considered an incel post? I’m not saying that looks are the only things that matter. Personality matters too. But I just wanted to discuss why women have a much more narrow physical preference than men. I don’t think this is an assertion that most reasonable person with good amount of dating experience would deny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:12 PM
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People are still conservative when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 10:05 AM
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Are you a lawyer? You qualify every statement with a “probably” or “can see”. I do the same and your comment reminded me of myself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 10:04 AM
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Sorry for the hyperbole. I don’t believe that people actually have a “Puritan” mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 10:01 AM
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Are you talking about a first date or dates in general? They’re very different things. If I was with someone for years and vast majority of the dates we went on were just grabbing drinks, I don’t think I’d be happy with the relationship. But for first dates, I almost always try to do drinks. Grab a quick drink, chat, and if we don’t vibe, we can take our exits pretty easily. There have been some women who tell me that’s “boring” lol. They’ve suggested doing things like arcades, hiking, dancing, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:59 AM
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I don’t think any reasonable, educated, sexually experienced person is going to disagree with you. A lot of people are still stuck in the traditional Puritan mindset. I also agree with you that monogamy isn’t for everyone. However, I do believe that more would people prefer monogamy over polygamy. Idk what your thoughts are on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:47 AM
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Red pill strategies have improved a lot in the past 10 years. I remember when The Game first came out, we had a ton of people peacocking, wearing dumb shit. Also, it was preached that looks don’t matter and it’s all about your “game”. Well now we know that those things are all bs. Red pill has moved to become a lot more about self improvement and the “game” has become a lot more refined. However, the environment has become a lot worse. Online dating + social media has had a tremendous impact in …
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:06 AM
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Definitely agree with majority of the points you stated. One of the points I wanted to discuss was your statement about majority of people wanting children. Women are the gatekeepers to sex, so if majority of women do not want kids, the population tends to decline, which is what we’ve seen in countries like Japan, and what we’ll start seeing in the US. Population growth in the US has been on a steady decline and I believe it’ll just accelerate, as more women are trending towards wanting to be ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:38 AM
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Lmaooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:27 AM
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31, but dating women in their mid to late 20s. I guess no one wants kids in their 20s now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:10 AM
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I generally agree. I have the most experience with 2. Dated this one woman who had hella baby fever because the women in her office were all having kids. Wanted sex without condoms, etc. we had only been dating for a month. Experienced it several more times after that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:06 AM
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Makes sense. Another thing I found a bit frightening is the number of women who talk about how they’re going to “kill” the baby if they were to get pregnant rn. I’m pro-choice but god damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:46 AM
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Yes I have also stated some women do and some don’t. But it feels like the majority don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:39 AM
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Wait what? Consistently approached for sex??? I never knew that pregnant women got hit on so much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:37 AM
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Ok so you were in the “definitely want kids” zone while she was in the “maybe in the future” zone? That’s kind of the trend I see now. But it just feels like most women are ok with having no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:19 AM
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Makes sense. Women in the US now have the freedom to pursue whatever they want to do, which isn’t something they had 50 years ago. They were basically forced to have kids because it was the only thing to do. Now that there’s no societal pressure, they don’t want to. Since it is A LOT of work and you basically lose majority of your freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:17 AM
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That sounds very much like my dating life. Mid to late 20s white women wanting to enjoy life as much as possible before deciding if they want to have kids or not in their 30s. So my perspective might be just selection bias. Has it always been this way or is this a new trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:11 AM
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The only trope I’ve noticed lately is the infallible female leads who don’t need no man. Probably confirmation bias on my end.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:07 AM
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I ask every woman I date if they want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:02 AM
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Maybe it’s just the type of women I date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:01 AM
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You gotta tell me if you’re m/f. And yeah I thought it definitely would be men who wanted kids. Why else would they ever want to get married? Marriage is a death sentence to any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:57 AM
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How did you feel about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:48 AM
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This. Anhedonia can be caused by low test levels. Or you could just be depressed for other reasons. Human beings were not really meant to live in the current state of the world so we’re all bound to face some levels of depression.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:43 PM
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People are giving you the right advice but you keep hamstering. When she is a bit older and she finds the guy who she thinks she can introduce to her parents, she will dump you with 0 remorse. Remember that women are fucking ruthless.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:40 PM
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Didn’t say I was unattractive. Just not top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:18 AM
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I generally accept it but I haven’t fully accepted it tbh. My reasons: 1. I date attractive women quite often and that means that I fall within the top 20%. I don’t think I do. I don’t think the bottom 50% of women are sleeping with the top 20%. I don’t sleep with anyone I’m not attracted to. The women I sleep with are far above 50%. And I very very rarely see men who fall within the top 20% sleep with bottom 50% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:12 AM
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Don’t risk jail for pussy
/r/seduction08/07/20 11:52 AM
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It says “From Oxford” dumb ass
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 05:55 PM
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Holy shit this Tarun guy hahahaha
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 10:46 AM
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Dating one right now and it's been pretty nice so far. I don't see a reason to not date them as long as you don't plan to marry.
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 08:31 PM
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Buying a cow would be infinitely more financially sound. Cows can't just leave you and take half your net worth with them.
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 08:09 PM
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"nautral" confidence is the same as "trained" confidence. Just like everything in life, you learn by doing it more. The people who are "naturals" just got lucky with the right combination of genes + environment while growing up that allowed them to practice it more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 08:08 PM
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RP doesn't think women have complete control over relationships. It's the opposite. They believe that men are the gatekeepers of relationships, hence "plate spinning" and dropping them if they want a relationship. And women do literally get away with everything in the western society right now. Women are getting away with murder. Literally the other day in the news, a woman killed her newborn and buried it but was acquitted. Edit: I do agree that RP does discriminate against women. It's more of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 07:41 PM
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Nah. This is the real difference: Blue pill - thinks women are wonderful super humans and attribute unrealistically positive qualities to them Red pill - thinks women are human
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:30 PM
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Went through every sidebar link but I couldn't find a good compilation.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 06:26 AM
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