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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | DON'T DATE SIGNIFICANTLY OLDER MEN.This makes me wan cry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 02:21 PM |
| 0 | Are alpha-widowed women screwed?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Are alpha-widowed women screwed?25* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | He should always make you FEEL like you are the most beautiful woman to him.LOL i agree but as if men are capable of "loving" a woman for outside her looks. Do u believe in that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 12:38 PM |
| 2 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itSame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 10:40 AM |
| 2 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Can you please eloborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 02:37 AM |
| 2 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Most men would not date a woman if they knew she wants to fuck other men. Especially men couldn't take that. Male ego and possessiveness and all. So as long as you can say you would be with a woman who wants to fuck every hot guy she sees, you're a hypocrite and a psycho according to urself. I don't know what's so psycho about not wanting to be with someone who wants to fuck other people, that seems the most basic thing to me. And men especially wouldn't like that so stop being a hypocrite. Also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 02:20 AM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?It's a yes or no question. But i'm not gonna bother further with your mental gymnastics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 10:49 PM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?It's a yes or no question. But if you said no then you would contradict yourself on how it's insane to judge whether someone loves you based on what they think about you or in the relationship. Which is why you didn't answer the question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?If your partner wanted to kill you, but wouldn't act on it, would you believe he loves you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?People are capable of loving multiple people. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 09:54 PM |
| 5 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Well i didn't say that but i agree with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 08:23 PM |
| 4 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?...i literally said "i don't believe in that" and youre still saying i'm trying to pass my opinion off as science, (which is it btw well now i said it) while you're out here declaring "that's dependancy, not love". Gain some self awareness Y'all "polyamorous" people are so defensive. I wonder why🤔🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 07:58 PM |
| 3 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?I see. If the guy i liked was wanted by a lot of women it would probably just make me insecure. No thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 07:53 PM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?By the way, the last woman that decided that I am a lying cheating asshole may as well have delivered three of her friends to my door. Women want what other women clearly want. I don't get this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?I'm 20😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 07:32 PM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?:/// | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Think about it. I'd rather not think about it any more 😂 Don't act like i haven't thought about it, but this is how i feel about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 07:25 PM |
| 3 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Yes, but only if i have feelings for him and romantically love him. And no that doesn't happen easily at all either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Well, the idea that a man can love his partner while he wants to have sex with other women is insane to me. It's not about his thoughts, it's about the fact that i don't believe that thats love. If someone actually loved you, they wouldn't want anyone else. How can you deny that? If i was with a guy, i wouldn't ever want to fuck any other guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 06:54 PM |
| 0 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Thoughtpolice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?I don't understand how you can be with a man who wants to fuck other women. Ewwwwww it makes me feel sick . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 06:24 PM |
| 4 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?If anything the fact that men want to fuck a variety of women but will remain loyal to one is a very strong form of love. Omg that's not love. That's just self preservation. It's easier for him to get sex from you than have casual sex, especially if he gets older. I don't understand how you or anyone can be with someone when you know they want to fuck other women? Truly don't get it at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Stop putting words in my mouth. I don't think "all men are bad". Men can be great and nice people. I'm not the one answering this thread with "yes" so don't blame me when i conclude that men are incapable of love. I'm sorry but if you want to fuck other people, you don't love the person you're with. But i wonder if there are men who don't want to fuck other women. I don't think so though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 06:07 PM |
| 6 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Lol, that's even more retarded. I don't believe in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 05:59 PM |
| 3 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?I didn't ignore what you said, i responded to what you said. You ignored what i said by just calling me angry. Suit yourself lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 05:52 PM |
| 6 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Shut the fuck up. "I should be grateful because the man is making a sacrifice by being with me". I think you're the one who needs to look at this with reason instead of feelings. You're not correct. If he thinks he's making a sacrifice by being with me, i'm not gonna be grateful for that, that's emotionally abusive reasoning. He can go fuck off in that case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 05:49 PM |
| 8 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?You're disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 05:42 PM |
| 12 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?LOL. Imagine being in a relationship and the other person feeling like they are making an "immense sacrifice" by being with you. I'd rather die alone, wtf. Insane. Why would u even want to be with that person then??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?I read that as insecure at first, did u edit it to innocent? Anyway i would rather die alone than be with a guy who wants to fuck other women lmao, but that is apparently literally every guy. And no i already knew that but still. Men are incapable of love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 05:38 PM |
| 2 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?That was really clear. And yes that was useful. Thanks :). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 05:35 PM |
| 13 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?I agree. I don't understand how you can love someone but want to fuck other people.. that's not love, not at all. If you loved them you wouldn't want anyone but them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 05:33 PM |
| 7 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Thank you so much for the eloborate response and the kind wishes. That's all accurate tbh. It gives me the most trouble that people never understand me, even slightly. It makes you feel fundamentally alone. And i've actually never found a person who actually cares about me so no one has ever even tried to understand me either. And it's even hard for me to be just friends with people right now because of self-image issues. Sadly i ruined almost all my friendships but i really feel extremely bad a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Thank you a lot.🥺 But how do i know if i have c-ptsd? I definitely have other mental disorders including avoidant personality disorder, would just working on them not be enough? I just don't know if i have c-ptsd and in that case it's difficult to work on something when you don't even know what you're working on. I will look into the book though. You're also too likely to hurt others severely. How am I likely to hurt others? Also, how do i know if i actually do have bpd..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Are beta males the most jealous?What's hero worship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 12:24 PM |
| 0 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itThey are not repulsed by that lmao. Men date women with such nails all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 11:28 AM |
| 2 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itI can’t imagine a world where men wouldn’t want to feel like the world they see exists for them. This is true lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Are beta males the most jealous?True. But i think female love is posession too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 01:32 AM |
| 2 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itWhat question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 11:16 PM |
| 2 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itMy title didn't imply that at all LMAO. No i don't care, have never even thought about that, i'm also not a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:57 PM |
| 2 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itof the traditional FSM? Meaning? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:56 PM |
| 2 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itI'm not a man. But i don't think you got my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:53 PM |
| 3 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing it?? Who said that i want women to stop wearing make up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:49 PM |
| 1 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itI'm extremely surprised and proud i didn't edit my post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Are beta males the most jealous?People usually don't address what you actually said/ your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:23 PM |
| 6 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itMen care about status, women care about reputation. What's the difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:03 PM |
| 2 | How do women feel about men who struggle with mental illness?I'm glad they have helped you :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 09:36 PM |
| 2 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itTrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 08:45 PM |
| 3 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itMen say they don't like make up but still go for women who wear make up. Because muh looks. They're not taken seriously until they would actually stop going for women who wear make up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 08:39 PM |
| 7 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itBut men also aren't repulsed by nail polish!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 08:35 PM |
| 3 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itThis is true. But there are a lot of ugly low value men who still try to get with girls way above their league. It's a theme. In general women try to conform to men much more than the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 08:18 PM |
| 0 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itThat's what i mean! Good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itmen are already quite vocal about how they don’t like makeup Yes but that's the biggest joke ever. Men who say "I don't like make up" doesn't mean that they aren't interested in women who wear make up at all, it just means that they prefer women with real beauty who don't have to wear make up. But women continue to wear make up because it still makes them more beautiful to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 08:04 PM |
| 3 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itnot average men But also not average women. Fashion exists like sports exist. But the average woman would stop wearing make up if men weren't attracted to women who wear make up. This would also effect her place in the "female social matrix" if she would still continue to wear make up while men are repulsed by make up. Because then the standards for the female social matrix would completely change, which is also inherently controlled by men. Imo. There might be a social matrix within women but t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing it"Woman only want Chad" is solipsistic projection. Multiple different studies proved that men are more visual in nature than women. Really you don't even need studies to see this though. It's obvious to anyone who isn't in denial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Women who feel sexually attracted to beta traits...women are not attracted TO men What do you mean? Can you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 07:30 PM |
| 4 | How do women feel about men who struggle with mental illness?Literally nothing. What about you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 06:10 PM |
| 2 | How do women feel about men who struggle with mental illness?Agreed. Much rather lose a finger if it would cure me mentally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?For everybody involved. Yes. Yea some people like people with bpd, but i've never liked someone with bpd, i can never get along with them. And they don't like me either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 02:07 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Anyway, does feeling bad for people with bpd help them or their victims in any way whatsoever? Didn't say it helped them or their victims. I think bpd is just a very painful disorder to have. The fear of abandonment but acting in a way that makes people leave you must be horrible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Thank you very much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?I never knew i had "daddy issues" until i read a few symptom sites and i matched almost all of them. So idk. When i think about it my dad was emotionally absent and never affectionate or anything, so it could make sense. And like i want a fatherlike way of being cared about tbhh. Bu it doesn't rlly matter what name you give it to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?How are women nuts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?U can't call someone a "weirdo" in one breath and right after try to act like you care by giving advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 01:23 AM |
| 0 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?I don't have bpd though. But I feel really bad for people with bpd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?404 error | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Well, thank you for being nice, really :). I wish everyone was nice You seem well smart to me too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?So what kind of women are you with now if you can't be with the kind of woman you prefer because she's bad for you? How are you satisfied? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?:( i understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Omg sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?idiosyncratic I think that's fairly obvious to everyone. Also who said sexual molested equals to daddy issues?? Not me. But I have almost every one of those symptoms in that link, so Also how is it weird? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?This isn't daddy issues https://www.lovepanky.com/women/girl-talk/what-are-daddy-issues I have all of those except #4. this is poster child AAS. But yes there is overlap of course. Also that is exactly me. But I generally definitely relate more to fearful avoidant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?You was provided with a hypothetical girl that you already knew was mentally unstable and your answer was that you would date her just to use her for sex. who cares I mentioned that she was sensitive to abandonment so she would care, a lot, so it would be unempathetic to date her just to have sex while knowing you are going to break up with her anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?This is why i'll stay virgin till marriage. who cares Guess god had run out of empathy when he created you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Just a little bit. :) Don't be too hard on yourself. Venting and ranting does not make you insane. It is the reasonable result of pain and the need to communicate. 😂😂 thanks for your logic and openmindness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Could be but I'm the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?I might've misunderstood you. Ok she's hot. So does that mean these type of issues wouldn't bother you, or are you trying to say that you would date literally any kind of person as long as she's hot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Have you ever had a girlfriend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?I stalked your account for the past two months. Omg that's so embarrassing😂😂 u probably think i'm insane now. The big problem in the list is the initial lack of trust. If you can reduce the window of time you require in order to trust in someone then I think you will be fine. I will try but i've already tried many times and never succeeded. I really do not have control over this so it seems that even if i tried to trust someone a million times, i still am not able to because of my fear of gettin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?I have fearful-avoidant. U should look into it. Fearful avoidant has some of anxious preoccupied as well so you're right. I can relate a lot to anxious preoccupied but fearful avoidant describes me perfectly. Sometimes i wonder if dating someone like me would actually work out. But probably not. And I'm sorry you suffer from this :(. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Thanks for your answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?:((( I actually literally described myself. I'm going to die alone. 😭😭 Is that list really extreme? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Which is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Lmaooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?It's not entirely up to me. Yes I will try but i didn't choose to have these issues in the first place and they may not be able to change enough. I don't have control over this shit as much as i wish i had. I don't want to make this too personal tho that wasn't the point of this post so i will stop now. Would you date a girl like that though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Wow you are the first one to say yes. And thank you for your eloborate answer!! But it's really obvious i'm going to die alone because literally no one would put up with this except for emotionally abusive guys. And you. 🙃 But both aren't an option. If you know do you have any advice, what type of guy would put up with all of this? Is it even possible to find one, who isn't emotionally abusive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?To me, daddy issues are when a woman has some type of "center" around her father. He was usually abusive, and it created some type of void which she's trying to fill by finding others to take his (expected) place. Well i actually found out i apparently have daddy issues yesterday and it quite upset me a lot. I match all the symptoms that I looked up. Even though my dad wasn't absent or abusive, maybe he was emotionally absent, my childhood still had those same "daddy issues" consequences for me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Don't be mean please. What does tht eveb mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Wht are daddy issues to you? And can you still answer the question? Doesn't matter what name you give to these issues, but would you be with a girl like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?But this is what daddy issues look like? You're right that some things might fall outside of daddy issues though. But the reason I gave this list is because everyone has a different idea of what "daddy issues" are so if I didn't precisely described what I meant then I wouldn't get any accurate answers. It really doesn't matter what name you give it, the list matters more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman with daddy issues?Okay can you please tell me more? Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think there are alpha and beta women?I used to be an alpha girl now I'm omega. Idk why but my friends used to look at me first and only if I laughed they would laugh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 06:34 PM |
| 2 | How do you rate people looks?Wut. I thought a 1/10 would be someone who's deformed/disfigured. I don't think i've ever seen a guy who isn't deformed or disfigured who I wouldn't date. You can link me pictures of the kind of people you're talking about if you want. Depending on the severity of it I'd date a deformed/disfigured guy too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/19 08:44 PM |
| 2 | How do you rate people looks?Define horrifically ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/19 05:56 PM |
| 4 | How do you rate people looks?1-6: would date 7/7.5 or higher: wouldn't date. I have reverse looks standards. Sorry I just couldn't date a Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/19 01:54 PM |
| 11 | Do men misinterpret the root of nagging?I think men will say, “Well she’s nagging because she lost attraction.” That's BS. Usually nagging has an opportunity to take place if the relationship is more established and 2 people live together. That doesn't means she lost attraction, it just means there wasn't a reason to "nag" before. Yeah women generally want men "to get it" without them having to say anything. That's the way women feel loved and cared about. But men just don't operate that way, they won't "see it" or "get it" if you don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M in LTR] How do you cope with sex and looks getting worse in your relationship?I see. Thanks for answering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 07:52 PM |
| 0 | [Q4M in LTR] How do you cope with sex and looks getting worse in your relationship?What are the things she does that improve your life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do you slut shame women? Don’t you know that you need women to be willing to have casual sex in order to have casual sex?I like men who slut shame because it makes me feel like I at least hold some value to him bc i'm a virgin. But I still don't because I'm ugly. Nevermind I keep kinda forgetting the fact that I can't have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Which sex do you think become more jaded about love/relationships after a divorce?Also because men like women who are younger than them and women become less desirable as they age, significantly women in their 40s or even 50s. In their 40s most people aren't available and men who are will get the youngest woman they can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | If you man is overly affectionate towards you does it become a turn off?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/19 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Would you date a man who had used prostitutes in the past?and they told me they love their wife I fucking hate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/19 11:09 AM |
| 3 | How many men would actually be willing to be in a relationship with women who are virgins in their mid/late twenties?Expect too much from you in what way? Too much sex? Money? Attention? Do you think it's because the kind of women you're talking about use their virginity as a value leverage and expect a lot because their virginity has value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/19 02:00 AM |
| 2 | How many men would actually be willing to be in a relationship with women who are virgins in their mid/late twenties?I myself wouldn't want a virgin. They are a headache to deal with. How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/19 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a man who had used prostitutes in the past?If he went to a hooker because he couldn't get casual sex because he's too unattractive for that, yeah. If he went to a hooker because she was the hottest girl he could sleep with then he wouldn't be interested in me anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 11:22 PM |
| 2 | If men have higher sex drives then why are there equally as much women as men complaining in r/deadbedroomWhy are men like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 07:12 PM |
| 4 | If men have higher sex drives then why are there equally as much women as men complaining in r/deadbedroomwhy BPers always have to lie and deceit?! What does BP stand for and what lies have I told? I know married couples where they have sex till they have 2 kids then the wife goes on sex strike and the husband is forced to go with hookers! Ok? Men getting dead bedroomed exist, when did I deny that and what does that has to do with my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | If men have higher sex drives then why are there equally as much women as men complaining in r/deadbedroomMen crave to spread their seed far and wide. I believe thats the base desire for all male lifeforms. They want to have as many offsprings as possible. Its a biological imperative. So they probably get bored after a while. Yeah that's what I mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Your wife/ girlfriend tried something sexual once with someone else before you got together and HATED it. Do you feel resentful that she won’t do the same thing with you?Just stay virgin till marriage and you won't have to worry about this girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: are you willing to pay for a “mommy makeover” to correct the puffy belly and saggy boobs that come with your wife’s pregnancy?Holy shit. But you paying for her reconstructive surgery and then she leaves you for a (richer) man with the body you gave her. BROOOOOOOOOOO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: are you willing to pay for a “mommy makeover” to correct the puffy belly and saggy boobs that come with your wife’s pregnancy?I'd commit murder suicide over this Ok maybe not but still | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever blamed yourself for your dating problems?I'm irredeemably ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever blamed yourself for your dating problems?I entirely blame myself. I made myself ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do men think abortion is so easy?or arguably worse kill a kid a man wants Omg that broke my heart tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/19 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Is Misogyny Ever Justified?Would you blame a man who'd suffered constant rejection from women for feeling a bit resentful towards them, for example? Only if those women are above his looksmatch. If a guy gets rejected by women equally as ugly as him I understand his misogyny/resentment and I feel bad for him and have sympathy. 99% of the time that's not the case though. Guys who say they "love women" or "like women" because Stacies fuck them annoy me too because just like mysoginists with "women" they only mean the women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | What is considered clingy-ness?It's good to hear that you do actually love her and not resent her. I wish you luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What is considered clingy-ness?I feel her pain :( . It's over It's like come on I have my own life outside of working and our relationship jfc. I don't understand that tbh. Probably if I would be in a relationship the relationship and my boyfriend would be my whole life. Like not being able to function without him. Do you actually love her and would happily spend the rest of your life with her? I feel like her behaviour will grow resentment in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: If women are the ones who are cruel and unsympathetic to men, why is the internet so chock full of men mocking women, but not the other way around?Don't forget r/braincels. Men are more evil than women. Fact. And yet there are more mysoginists than misandrists because men are entilted pieces of shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 11:28 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Women have no sympathy for men.Women have more sympathy for ugly men than men have for ugly women. Men on average have less empathy than women, are more visual than women, and therefore hate ugly women. Let alone having sympathy. Expecting people to have sympathy for you as an ugly person will result in disappointment, you gotta live without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 11:19 AM |
| 2 | What would happen if "male thirst" disappeared?All the women whining and complaining about "unwanted male attention" would become depressed or kill themselves when no man shows any interest in them at all anymore. And they'd deserve it I have no sympathy for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a man in his late 20's with an 18 year old wife?I know a 18 year old girl who married a man in his 40s. Well we just used to play as a kid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Why ia cheating bad if they never find outEven if they will never find out, there is a thing called dishonesty and morality to not deceive/betray your partner (or anyone for that matter). Your thought process makes me sick. I would much rather find out my partner is cheating on me, than not know that they're cheating on me. Apparently you don't have empathy for that. You don't care that cheating will hurt your partner, if you did you wouldn't cheat on them, you just care that them finding out will make them leave you. You want to deceiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe having a high N-count effects men and women differently?Damn. Understandable. Did he become an alcoholic after your engagement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 07:46 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what is a "real man"?What is a "real woman"? I think men's opinion is "has the house clean at all times, always cooks, takes care of the children all on her own, submissive, gives great sex anytime he wants". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe having a high N-count effects men and women differently?Why didn't it work out with your ex fiancee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 07:38 PM |
| 3 | It’s immoral of men to have casual sex with women if the effects are as dire as they say.Men are essentially cucking themselves and each other by both wanting/having casual sex and then complaining that 70% of divorces are initiated by women. Studies show that people who didn't have premarital sex have a more satisfying sex life and divorce rates of people who didn't have premarital sex are much lower. If men value relationships over casual sex, they should refrain from casual sex. Can't have both. But men still desire casual sex over (more lasting and sexually satisfying) relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men are incapable of loving womenMay I ask which personality disorder do you have? If it is too personal please ignore this. That's okay, I post about it on the related sub too. Avoidant personality disorder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 01:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men are incapable of loving womenI thought I wasn't good at expressing myself but thanks! 😄 This one is the most confusing part. What would make you, you? (Other than personality, of course) Well I just mean my personality and my personality traits. But other things that make me me are my beliefs. But also like quirks, the way I get excited when I talk about something I love, the way I laugh (just naming random things), or how broken I am, you don't have to love everything about me, but if you don't love some things about me th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 01:28 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most men are incapable of loving womenMy clear cut definition of love is probly too complicated for me to even figure out and articulate lol. But I can give you some scenarios of when it's not love to me, if that's any useful. If you cheat on me, there is no way you love me. If I'm not your first choice and I'm someone you prefer as a SECOND choice (after your first choice rejected you), you don't love me. If you don't love me based on my personality, based on who I am as a person, the things that make me me, you don't really love M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 07:04 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most men are incapable of loving womenI disagree that loving someone for their looks is loving them for who they are as a person. With that I mean their personality, their beliefs, thoughts, whatever, everything that makes them the person they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 04:07 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most men are incapable of loving womenTrue. Most men are incapable of loving women for who they are. They just can't. Men's love is generally never selfless and always selfish. Men either "love" a woman only for her beauty. Or even if they don't care about looks as much, men only want women for what she can provide for him (sex, maid). And unlike women, there are men who play the number's game. They just settle with whoever says yes, as long as she can give him what he wants, they don't care about who she actually is. Even if a man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 03:19 PM |
| 8 | Why are there no heated debates between the women of PPD?This place kinda looks like a family to me. Or a village where everyone knows each other lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience?That still doesn't explain how men are disposable? What do you mean by disposable? Do you mean replacable? In that case women are replacable too. Men are sent off to war by other men, because men are physically stronger and other men choose to start a war. Maybe men make up the majority of the homeless population because in college there are more women than men, and that's not because women get the opportunity to attend college and men don't. Men also more often have substance abuse problems. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 12:41 PM |
| 17 | What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience?That ("desperate, low value") men will settle for "anything". No they don't. Why do men always assume this? Why does every single man say "I wouldn't date her, BUUUUT SOME desperate guy will"? It becomes a bit of a problem when every man says this. You're a man and you admit you only desire attractive women, low value men are ALSO men so they still also only desire attractive women. That "desperate, low value" guy is fapping to porn and donating money to twitch stacies. Not dating an ugly woman.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience?How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 08:14 PM |
| 6 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.People love sensationalized labels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women need to start approaching or stop complaining, and here's whyWomen don't approach because women want to be desired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4women. Why do you nag?I read "sweaty" as "sweat-y". Do people actually read it as sweety? I thought people said "sweaty" ironically and not seriously😂🙃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4women. Why do you nag?I'm actually shocked at all the people disagreeing with you! You could very well take it out the next morning, why unnecessarily give someone a hard time? And what kind of abusive person tries to prohibit another adult person from taking a shower? In general, if you're extremely cold she should care for you and try to warm you up or make you a hot shower, why are towels more important than you? I obviously don't know the whole story and if you maybe always said you would take out the trash in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4women. Why do you nag?Because rational conversations where you try to talk about it like adults sadly don't work. Men don't take your pain/issues serious or they just don't want to be bothered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Looks or HeightI don't give a shit about face. I'd rather be with a guy taller than me with a deformed face than a guy my height with a Chad face. I'm 5'4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | guys, would you rather have people attracted to your looks or personality?Your mother's/father's body with your significant other's brain inside obviously. Even if your mother's/father's body is gross, you'd just get it over with, that's an easy one. Who tf would choose to fuck their mom/dad and change the relationship with your mom/dad forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | guys, would you rather have people attracted to your looks or personality?Seeing so many guys say looks is depressing. Men only care about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people flirt as an ego boost?I think people take advantage of their good looks to get stuff from people or pressure people by asserting themselves as superior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 05:11 PM |
| 4 | Making men fall in love - Your moves?Be attractive. The rules for women are simple. The rest doesn't matter. You could even make a man fall in love with you as a person without him seeing you, but once he sees you and you're not attractive he'll lose all the feelings he had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 05:10 PM |
| 1 | What is your definition of being "too needy" when it comes to dating or relationships?Lol miss moral sounds so cute 😂 I feel the need to share a lot of time with miss moral and I crave words of affirmation as if they were water. I make an effort not to be unbearable, we reached an equilibrium. Omg I'm the same way. But I wasn't able to not be unbearable. Even though I really tried to hold myself in. I'm really that insecure.. where he feels like he has nothing good to provide to the world and any possible partner, maybe he feels that way because it is kinda true. I know some men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 09:55 PM |
| 0 | What is your definition of being "too needy" when it comes to dating or relationships?I was happy to hear this too because I'm the same. Do you think there are more guys who are like you? Who are needy? Also in what way are you needy? I've never met a guy who's needy and clingy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | What is your definition of being "too needy" when it comes to dating or relationships?My partner could never text me or hang out with me too much. I'm painfully insecure and I'm always doubting if someone actually likes me so I would like it/need it for him to want to hang out with me all the time. I think I'm pretty clingy so I would love a guy who also wants to talk to me all day so I don't feel horribly insecure about myself and rejected when he doesn't wants to talk to me all day. I also need a lot of reassurance and I would love a guy who also asks for a lot of reassurance s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Woman's consumer spending is overestimatedBillion dollar industries thrive on the shallowness of men, women have to spend money on makeup to please men and make the cut to be treated as a human being, no shit. Men aren't even attracted to how women actually look hence the "take her to swimming on a first date". If women wouldn't wear make up men would only be attracted to women who are naturally +8/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Have you dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child?but current western culture let many victims overestimate themselves. This is the dumbest thing I've heard. People who've been sexually abused as children almost always, if not always, have low self-esteem. Biologically, being raped or sexually abused as children is less harmful than as adult How do you know? Do you have a source? Because I'm pretty sure being sexually abused as a child develops more emotional problems. Childhood is an extremely important factor to your emotional development. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Have you dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child?People who are sexually abused as children usually have a sex drive as adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Have you dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What's your sexual history and how does that relate to your pill identity?Late for your country?? What country are you from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 11:59 AM |
| 2 | A guy gives his son advice and suddenly he’s breeding violence and rapeWhat was your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 11:24 AM |
| 3 | Have you dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child?She looked good at 500 pounds?? Wow. I'm exercising for nothing lol. Have you married again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 09:39 AM |
| 4 | Have you dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child?Unfortunately she replaced gluttony with greed and cheated on me with the richest guy she could get her hooks into. Damn, you stuck with her when she was over 500 pounds and she still cheated on you. The fucking ungratefulness. Sorry about your exes. How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Have you dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child?Why wouldn't you believe that out of all the (thousands?) of men on here a couple have been with a sexually abused woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Have you dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child?What was your experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Have you dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child?Stay away. I am the mess. Oof | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 12:48 AM |
| 3 | A guy gives his son advice and suddenly he’s breeding violence and rapeI wouldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Have you dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Have you dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child?That's tough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Have you dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child?What kind of issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 10:16 PM |
| 8 | Have you dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child?Damn.. poor girl :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that there is someone for everybody? Or are there some people who are destined to be alone?There is not someone for everybody. I wish more people/bluepillers would realize this. I'm already dreading the lamentations I'll get from my parents when I'm "still" single at 30 and the silent pity and maybe outcasting I'll get from my friends. If you would've just listened to me when I said I'm too ugly for any man to want me and not shut me down out of ignorance, we both wouldn't have had to go through this. "But there are even deformed women who have found a husband". There are also people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 05:54 PM |
| -1 | A guy gives his son advice and suddenly he’s breeding violence and rapeI didn't say she shouldn't be held responsible for what she does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 09:14 AM |
| 1 | A guy gives his son advice and suddenly he’s breeding violence and rapeOmg yes. Male nature is scary. I wonder what percentage of men would rape if rape became legal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 01:23 AM |
| 0 | A guy gives his son advice and suddenly he’s breeding violence and rapeLet's assume that what women do and say wouldn't align, the bad thing of watching what women do instead of what they say is that what they say is what they might want to do, but when you cater to what they do it only enables them to do that and not do what they actually want to do, because they can't help themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 01:09 AM |
| 5 | A guy gives his son advice and suddenly he’s breeding violence and rapeMaybe dad is a dedicated trp'er 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 12:37 AM |
| 6 | Guys who do not have abundance mentality in happy relationshipsIsn't op an internet stranger too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herI agree, good point! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herWhat does being purple pilled even mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herBecause in a nutshell men are after sex, love is secondary. This. Men want women to be attracted to them because men want sex and women want men to love them because women want love (in a nutshell) . Men don't care about "love" as long as they have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 11:49 AM |
| 7 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herThis is what I have observed. Women put effort into looking better because they have to attract men. After that they're "worried" if the man loves her and the man is "worried" if the woman is attracted to him. But men and women love differently And that's the reason why men are worried if the woman is attracted to him or not. Because men can't love women they aren't attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 02:15 AM |
| 7 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herWell okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 02:09 AM |
| 6 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herAdded "generally", I wasn't talking about your relationship I'm tired so that might explain the post though, I'm not as high iq as yall lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 02:05 AM |
| 5 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herYeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herI agree, so it's still projection, imo. Men are concerned with their partner being physically attracted to them because that's the way THEY love. Women should be the ones concerned about whether a man is attracted to her or not, because attraction = love for men. But since that's not the case for women, they're projecting too. Don't know if I could explain myself. Btw your flair doesn't makes sense, shouldn't it be "barely moral, so mostly red" instead of "though" 🤔😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 01:15 AM |
| 8 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herYeah attraction = love for men, like physical attraction triggers love in men and physical attraction is required for a man to love a woman, so their concern is projection on their part. Men report to "fall in love at first sight" more than women. But then in reality women should be more concerned about whether a man is attracted to her or not than the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herYeah I thought that too. Sex is love for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to deal-breakers, what are some of your more irrational ones?What was wrong with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to deal-breakers, what are some of your more irrational ones?What kind of delivery for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 10:22 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The concept of female attraction is the hardest pill to swallowBut I will always believe that instant-raw physical sexual lust and attraction are stronger and better for a mens sexual life than your feelings about how kind and emphatetic your hubby is. Yeah because you're projecting and don't understand female sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 07:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The concept of female attraction is the hardest pill to swallowYou don't get it but then again I didn't/couldn't really explain. Sexual attraction is sexual attraction. But women's sexual attraction isn't just visual like men's is. In fact women's attraction is more based on emotionality than on looks. Women can be sexually attracted to a guy she's initially physically attracted to, but women can also be just as sexually attracted or more sexually attracted to a guy she wasn't initially physically attracted to but who charms her with his personality. That's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 04:44 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to deal-breakers, what are some of your more irrational ones?Why do you despise career women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 03:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Backup boyfriends are an r-trait sexual strategy whereas mate guarding is a K-trait strategyThe thought of being in a relationship with someone and having a "back up boyfriend/girlfriend" makes me sick. It proves that you do not really want the person you're with because if you really wanted them all your eyes would be on them. You will also inevitably be less committed to the relationship and less eager to make it work. Having a back up boyfriend/girlfriend is basically cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 12:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The concept of female attraction is the hardest pill to swallowLol are you serious? Marilyn Monroe being one of the most attractive women of her time must've not had anything to do with men being attracted to her. Men don't give a shit about status or charisma. Male attraction is purely physical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The concept of female attraction is the hardest pill to swallowIt's almost like men find it hard to swallow that female attraction isn't just physical. Like they always lament about "women only being attracted to 20% of men". That doesn't fucking matter. They're too solipsistic to fathom that unlike male attraction, female attraction isn't only based on physical appearance, women are just less visual. You can be attracted to someone for their charisma/personality too. Women can and do become attracted to guys they weren't initially physically attracted to. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on "last minute resistance" "being coy" "token resistance" and "no doesnt always mean no?"Are there guys actually emotionally unintelligent enough who would stop if a girl playfully said "no" while giggling and smiling? What?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 05:29 PM |
| 5 | how do you think dating will look like 30 years from now?I actually wished that would exist irl 😂😂 looked like things would be so easy and it would spare unnecessary heartbreak 🤔 it was funny when they said "people used to do this on their own, can you imagine?" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 05:25 PM |
| 2 | how do you think dating will look like 30 years from now?Black mirror | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] Female involuntary celibates and related issuesI find it funny anytime a guy says "looks are just as important to women as they are to men" because it's pure ignorant projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 05:18 PM |
| 2 | If you could remove all desire to be with women, or men sexually or emotionally would you do it?Absolutely. Wanting a relationship when guys don't want me is only suffering. When will a scientist invent a pill that makes you aromantic and asexual PLEASE 😭😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a man to only be attracted to you?Though it's you lying to yourself right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a man to only be attracted to you?Okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a man to only be attracted to you?But knowing that he WANTS to fuck other girls already makes me insecure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a man to only be attracted to you?This is an absurd belief and far away from reality. No, men wanting to fuck every hot girl they see is the GENERAL reality. You're just in the minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a man to only be attracted to you?Over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a man to only be attracted to you?But there's no difference between a guy being attracted to a girl and wanting to be with her. Male attraction is inherently only based on looks. No hot girl is insufferable enough for no man to want to be with her still. So when a guy wants to have sex with other girls, you also know that he would want to date those girls, and it feels threatening. Basically I see new women as "sketchy," so they can't compete with the rapport and comfort the gf has earned and established with me. Yea you're in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a man to only be attracted to you?Okay but that's why I asked how other women deal with this. How would you feel if your girlfriend WANTED to have sex with every hot guy she sees? Wouldn't you be bothered at all by your girlfriend wanting to have sex with other men? Men are generally even more "protective" in that sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Is pornography for men the equivalent of emotional cheating for women?I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend watches porn as long as he is attracted to me too. If he masturbates to just pictures of girls that's already stretching it to me because then I feel like he'd rather be with her than with me and he's not really satisfied with me. But it depends on the situation. What I WOULD mind is if he masturbates to a girl he personally knows. Yeah that would be a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How do you feel about TRP's claim that women only love conditionally?A disabled partner isn’t going to be all peachy or grateful for your presence 100%. Neither is a non disabled partner. There will be bad days, where they lash out at you, when they are absolutely miserable and in their own ways, grieving for their losses. Yeah exactly, they're grieving their own situation. You would probably do the same thing. Love is understanding the deeper meaning of why someone acts a certain way and of their outbursts in relevant situations instead of using that as an excus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How do you feel about TRP's claim that women only love conditionally?I think I love unconditionally, but I can't know unless I'm in that kind of situation. I thought about the guy I love murdering my parents and that literally didn't make me feel any less love for him. Does that make me insane? I actually got sad and felt hopeless that I loved him like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: How do you feel about TRP's claim that women only love conditionally?Ask yourself, if your spouse is horribly disfigured and disabled for a long period of time, will you stand by them the rest of your life or will you move on? I'll stand by them, and I think that should be the norm. I'm disturbed and hate it that it isn't and that most people's "love" is fake and worthless. I fucking hate people. How can you leave someone you claimed to love when they're already having such a hard time and when they need you the most? People are disgusting and cruel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Water is wet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/19 03:15 AM |
| 2 | What are the best theories/explanations for male disposability?most victims of violence are men. And most perpetrators of violence are men, men commit 93% of murders, most homicide victims are men, yet women are more likely than men to be killed by a spouse or intimate acquaintance. It's always disingenuous how people lament most murder victims are men but ignore the fact that they're most often killed by men too. Not to mention your claims about there being more support systems for women doesn't make any sense and your arguments for your claim that men are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think women love men who are sociopaths?Men love attractive pedophile or women who committed murder too. That's even worse cause men who want these kind of women have a healthy state of mind, they just want them cause they're attractive, whereas hybristophiliac women have a history of child abuse, low self-esteem and aren't mentally healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 08:21 PM |
| 7 | Irrefutable proof that the dating scene is far better for women than men:You don't hear women complaining AS MUCH because women are happy with that they can get, only generally women who can't get anything complain. Men complain because they demand more than there is supply, they all want a woman at least 6/10, not to mention the ones who want a gorgeous woman only. God this place is retarded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Ohhh my bad🤦♀️🤦♀️😂 I was like wtf is he talking about lol. Yeah I said mentally ill woman cause I'm a straight mentally ill woman so I was personally interested in men's answers only. But neuroticism isn't a mental illness. I get what you mean though, it's not an ideal personality trait either. Mental illness is just more crippling and debilitating/harder to deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/18 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Wait what? What're you talking about? As you can see it was a "question for men" so I'm only interested in the opinions of straight men. I never suggested only women can have mental illness or that I wouldn't date a mentally ill guy? I'm specifically attracted to mentally ill guys. I'd have a hard time relating to a normal person and a normal person would have a hard time relating to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/18 09:16 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel if you found out that your SO had significantly more sex with their ex than they do with you?Insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/18 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?What was your experience? Seems like most people's bad experiences with dating a mentally ill girl was a BPD case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?I don't get why men act like all women are "crazy". When men commit far more murders and violent crimes and are more impulsive and agressive. But women don't call men crazy like men call women. Is it because women are more neurotic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Having a child who is likely to develop such a debilitating and torturous type of disease is...of questionable ethics IMO. I agree. Mental illness doesn't really run in my family, but considering how mentally ill I am, I think I shouldn't have children and have them suffer, even though I'd want to have children. I don't want a child who ends up committing suicide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?What about cluster C personality disorders? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?People with personality disorders can be good people and can love. Also definitely depends on which personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder comes with lack of empathy for others so they probably aren't good people and seeing their selfish nature it's questionable whether they can love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?I guess BPD/NPD are the type you particularly don't want to be closely involved with. Why did you marry someone who you knew had BPD and NPD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?I guess. I didn't want to be specific and make it a personal question cause I thought that would be selfish and I wanted to give people freedom to express their views or something. This overthinking is part of my mental illness lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Well let me clarify. She's trying, she wants to, but she's not able to make it a healthy, mutually invested relationship on her behalf because of her mental disorders. I was wondering if and how many men would put up with that as long as the woman had a good heart, loved him, and stayed faithful to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Good point. Does it matter to you if her mental illness would be chronic though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?For example severe depression, body dysmorphic disorder, avoidant personality disorder, social anxiety. Basically she's too consumed by her disorders to be able to invest in a healthy relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 02:59 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Dating just means being in a relationship to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 02:54 PM |
| 4 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?The obligatory comment 🤦♀️😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 02:54 PM |
| 4 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?I meant the hypothetical man that would "love" the hypothetical woman for keeping his stomach full and his balls empty, which is loving her for what she does instead of for who she is, which is not loving her unconditionally either because if she stopped doing those things, he would not want her anymore. That's why I said men don't love women the same way they wish to be loved by women, i.e. they don't love her unconditinally and for who she is. This is easy. Most men love their partners for thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Yet the man in your scenario loves the woman for what she does for him instead of for who she is. Men don't love women the same way as they wished to be loved by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 01:33 PM |
| 6 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Yeah exactly. Hypothetically she can fulfill sexual intimacy but not emotional intimacy. She can not express that she loves you, so for you sooner or later it'll feel like she doesn't even loves you/likes you/has feelings for you, which are requisites for a healthy perceived relationship. I think in the long term most men don't want to be in a relationship where they're just having sex with the girl without the emotional aspect of a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?How do men wish to be loved and idealized? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?What if she's sad and down all the time? What if she has paranoia? What if she has agoraphobia and is never able to leave her house? What if she needs constant reassuranc but has a hard time returning the affection? To what extent can and is someone willing to put up with all of that? I think some people are so mentally ill that no one can and wants to live with that even if they aren't a danger to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Because she loves you and stays faithful to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 12:53 PM |
| 7 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?What if her disorder like avoidant personality disorder caused her to have a hard time with showing affection to you? Basically she needs constant reassurance, yet has a hard time returning the affection and you aren't happy with how much affection and love she shows? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?I get what you are saying so you'd have to specify what mental illness. Like depression, body dysmorphic disorder, avoidant personality disorder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?But severity in mental illness varies and some people's behaviour is less affected by it and some people are more neurotypical than others, that's why I asked if you'd want to date someone whose behaviour you specifically weren't happy with because her symptoms are more severe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?But you are talking about divorce raping here "They won't marry some billionaire, but they'll still be able to destroy average Joe local manager." And no they won't. Ugly women can't be golddiggers in practice. Like I said ugly women are beggars, not choosers. The average guy wouldn't marry an ugly woman when he can get an average woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?What did I quote that the other guy said and telling you you said it? You said "women initiate most divorces, and they're more likely than normal to initiate divorce if their husband makes less money than they do. So they obviously care about money." That's what I went into. What proof do you need? Proof like how attractive women are obvious golddiggers and men still marry them Are you seriously implying ugly women simply can't be gold diggers? Yes. They can be a golddigger in the sense that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?No I'm not. But I don't get how you countered that. I don't get how you proved that ugly women are golddiggers too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?It has to do with the point you made because you acted like women initiating a divorce means they do that to get half his money. You implied that again when you stated women initiate most divorces, that doesn't mean they do that to get half his money, there are or could be a lot of other explanatory factors. That's the problem with the concept of divorce raping, it's just an accusation. I'm sure the average woman doesn't get into a marriage with the plan to divorce rape her husband. You're using… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 09:32 PM |
| 5 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?Every woman who initiates a divorce is treated as if she's divorcing him just to get half his property and is written of as a divorce rape. Why do you see every woman initiating a divorce as betraying him, how do you know? How do you know she didn't divorce due to relationship issues or due to him cheating? It's not women's fault how court divides marital property at divorce. The only cases where women are obviously just in for his money is when the woman is attractive and men still voluntarily … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Is there a female equivalent to that disappointed feeling men have when they see an innocent girl get into porn?You're right! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 12:38 AM |
| 4 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?What? As far as I know no agent can recruit you if you're not interested. Classic men thinking their out of control shallowness should be left alone and then suddenly they shouldn't be treated as people capable of rational thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?So? Men put themselves in that position because of their shallowness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?It's always attractive women that are obvious golddiggers, but men still marry them because of their attractiveness. In these cases it's an obvious deal of marrying for the other's money and marrying for the other's beauty, but even then it's still only the women who get berated and men get to freely act on their shallowness without anyone batting an eye forever. But if men wouldn't get allured by beauty, they wouldn't get divorce raped | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:08 PM |
| 14 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?Yes. But somehow wanting beauty is less shallow than wanting money. Women always get shamed and berated for being "golddiggers". No one ever blames men for being "beauty diggers" even though it's just as shallow if not more shallow cause how you look is out of your control and beauty fades. Basic bias towards men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Is there a female equivalent to that disappointed feeling men have when they see an innocent girl get into porn?How are you a red pill man but don't like young girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Is there a female equivalent to that disappointed feeling men have when they see an innocent girl get into porn?Many girls care about and want to protect their boyfriend. Maternal instict and girls mature earlier than guys. It's not that I feel the need or desire to take care of guys in general, but if I see any kind of vulnerability or mental or physical struggling/pain, I feel the need to care for him and help him. With friends I don't feel that way as much and don't have that maternal instinct, only with a guy I'm attracted to and/or love. That's exactly what triggers it: attraction and love. When I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you rather date a man who has hired hookers/escorts/prostitutes, or a man who has had one night stands?Idk who that is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you rather date a man who has hired hookers/escorts/prostitutes, or a man who has had one night stands?I don't know, maybe. I've never talked to her about this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you rather date a man who has hired hookers/escorts/prostitutes, or a man who has had one night stands?Yea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you rather date a man who has hired hookers/escorts/prostitutes, or a man who has had one night stands?Wut? No. u/mossiness is snaily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 01:46 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Would you rather date a man who has hired hookers/escorts/prostitutes, or a man who has had one night stands?I'd choose a guy who hired prostitutes cause he's low value/unattractive and when I'm the only girl who has sex with him voluntarily maybe he wouldn't leave me. But guys who are able to get casual sex would never date me anyway, so it's purely a hypothetical question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: What Can Women Do For Men?because men don't have a laundry list of things they expect bar, be nice, be young and be pretty. SO EZ. Just be young and pretty. Men have such low standards!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | An ugly personality will make the hottest person uglyIf looks only matter initially, than why are men less happy with unattractive wives? Because coincidentally all the unattractive women have bad personalities and all the attractive women have good personalities? If personality truly mattered more to men than looks in the long run, they wouldn't be less happy with unattractive wives. A husband's marital satisfaction is a function of his wife's attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/18 11:57 PM |
| 3 | How would BP respond to these images of CDC divorce data?There's a study that suggests premarital promiscuity causes lower marital sexual satisfaction, which causes general lower marital satisfaction and could be an explanation of the higher divorce rates of people who had sex before marriage compared to those who didn't. People who had sex before marriage also have affairs more than people who didn't have sex before marriage which could also be a cause of the higher divorce rates. There are undoubtedly more findings and correlations but that's all I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: why do men marry the woman who is boring in bed and then get surprised when they land in a deadbedroom a few years later?Who says virgin women cause dead bedrooms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | What's the deal with cunnilingus?Thank u next | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Sex isn’t a marital dutyIf he really loved her, he would accept not having sex. You can also love someone who doesn't loves you back. And I know if she really loved him she would care about his wishes and needs and have sex with him arguably at least most of the time he initiates it. But my point is not about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Sex isn’t a marital dutyBut my point was "a man doesn't loves his partner if he leaves her because they're not having sex" if the relationship is otherwise healthy and loving and caring, doesn't matter for what reason she doesn't wants to have sex, maybe she just has a low sex drive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Sex isn’t a marital dutyI know. I was talking about his actions though. I didn't know discussion relating to the op's topic wasn't allowed lol. You didn't actually address my point though, I was curious lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Sex isn’t a marital dutyWhen? You just said "if he really loved her, he wouldn't ask her for sex she didn't want" but that's not leaving her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Sex isn’t a marital dutyI agree. But at the same time if HE really loved her, he wouldn't leave her just because she doesn't wants to have sex. If his sexual desires are stronger than his love, it's not true love. Love is emotional, sex is physical. If he leaves because he doesn't gets sex, it means his emotional bond/attachment/love isn't strong enough. He's just looking to fuck and just settled with a woman he can stand to be around just to have continuous access to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | A Man's Experience Of Falling In LoveThis only works for average looking girls or if she's lucky slightly below average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Men should have to control their sexual urges.But women wear revealing clothing BECAUSE of those sexual urges of men. They know exactly what they're doing by wearing such clothes and they like that validation, attention, and being desired But it's true that mostly men who don't like women wearing revealing clothes are men who can't get casual sex from women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/18 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Q4W How much does red/purple talk about "the wall" affect you emotionally, if at all.If aging and hitting the wall doesn't bothers women who are interested in men, it's because they don't know much about men. I guess they're blissfully ignorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/18 10:52 AM |
| 2 | What would you say is the worst dating advice YOU have been told and why?Yeah but for how long can you fake yourself? For the rest of your life? That's not suitable. But if you stop faking, they'll lose interest in you. I'm tired of hiding how I really feel and am, and faking my personality, but I don't think anyone would want my real self cause I'm extremely insecure, emotional and need constant reassurance. Who would want to put up with that and why would they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/18 10:41 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs?So they often aren't able to be anything a guy might find fun to be with. Some might call that masculine but its definitely boring. I'm like that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Having low emotional intelligence is not the same as being “rational and objective”True. Well explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: You find out that your girlfriend was ugly 3 years ago. She shows you an old picture of herself and tells you “you wouldn’t have liked me back then, I wasn’t pretty”. How do you react? Additional questions inside.So? That's the way it is and will be for every man. Physical attraction is a prerequisite for men. Finding out whether they like the girl as a person or not comes after physical attraction. If he's dating you he probably does like you as a person, (depending on how attractive you are, men date 8/10 women even if she's a literal psychopath), he just wouldn't have even given you a chance to find out if physical attraction was missing. You just have to accept this. That men can't love, their "love"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 10:53 AM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Brolaf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 09:07 AM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Do you think 2 insecure people can date? I don't mind dating an insecure guy and reassuring him. It's not unattractive to me. Also I would love to make him feel better and feel loved. But I'm really insecure myself, so as long as he can reassure me too when I need it, I'm fine. Otherwise it won't work out. But it might be hard to find a guy who is insecure, but also able to mitigate my insecurity. So I guess he can't be too insecure, although it has nothing to do with attractiveness, but with co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 08:50 AM |
| 3 | What's something you don't understand?You're wrong, I know both of them, and u/theiamsamurai is my boyfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 03:52 PM |
| 3 | How to love a polygamous man?You're right. I want to cry:)) All I can do is try to delude myself into thinking he loves me. But that's not gonna work. I want to date a physically deformed guy so he has lower chance of leaving me or cheating on me, and MAYBE he would be happier with me since he's just grateful to have a girlfriend, but I'm ugly too so he'd still not be attracted to me and satisfied with me. I've seen guys in wheelchairs say they want a pretty girlfriend. It's fucking over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a girl you find ugly?Is that what you did? Why were you with her if you weren't attracted to her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you be happy if your partner/SO/husband did not find you sexy or hot but had just settled for you?If I don't make him happy and feel loved, and only drain him with my mental baggage, he has no reason to be with me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Can we please ditch the concept of "true love"?Some people do just love more deeply than others. It has to do with your level of sensitivity (how intense you experience emotions), personality, some people get more attached than others, and mental health, for example a psychopath isn't going to be the most loving person. Environmental factors play a part too cause they can shape you into a kind of person, some people get abused and traumatized and become emotionally withdrawn, angry or detached. You're obviously one of those who doesn't loves… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you be happy if your partner/SO/husband did not find you sexy or hot but had just settled for you?I just did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you be happy if your partner/SO/husband did not find you sexy or hot but had just settled for you?Yeah, but that can only get me so far if I don't show him enough love and affection, which is hard for me to do. I won't be able to make him happy. Eventually he'll realise I'm worthless. I try, but it's hard to become vulnerable, risk more brutal rejection, and its hard because I still feel like he actually dislikes me and despises me, and he probably actually does. And subconsciously also cause I don't want to get even more attached because I think in the end he'll reject me or leave me anyway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you be happy if your partner/SO/husband did not find you sexy or hot but had just settled for you?I do. We're dating, but it's just not a real ascension and legitimately dating because it's not known whether he'd be attracted to me or not, and you know how I think about it. The only chance I maybe could have is him finding me ugly and not being attracted to me, but being attracted to my personality, and to how I make him feel, and therefore loving me despite lack of physical attraction, kinda like how you love a pet. But I don't have a personality to make up for it either, I'm not nice and l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a girl you find ugly?How can you have a sexual relationship with someone you aren't physically attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do fangirls display such hysterical excitement in front of their favourite celebrity?Straight girls display the same hysterical excitement in front of their favourite female celebrities too. It has nothing to do with your dumb theory in which you want to push your narrative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you be happy if your partner/SO/husband did not find you sexy or hot but had just settled for you?I would agree to it and be as happy as I can be with the situation if he is empathetic and nice enough to at least (try to) act loving towards me and not act disgusted or withdrawn during physical intimacy. Since I don't have any other options. But he probably won't be able to do that. And men in marriages are unhappy with unattractive wives and treat them worse in contrast to attractive wives. Men despise ugly women. In that case I wouldn't be happy I'd feel rejected and be sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Would you be happy if your partner/SO/husband did not find you sexy or hot but had just settled for you?Women are every bit as visual as men; they just don't get all randy for guys that look like a Randy. No, women aren't as visual as men. That's why women don't lose attraction to their husband as he ages and his physical attractiveness decreases. You're the one projecting. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2004/03/040316072953.htm https://www.jstor.org/stable/352666?seq=1#page_scan_tab_contents Get rid of your ignorance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you be happy if your partner/SO/husband did not find you sexy or hot but had just settled for you?Men lose attraction to their wife as she ages and her physical attractiveness decreases, which negatively effects men's sexual and overall relationship satisfaction and they get more likely to be unfaithful. The same is not the case for women. Men are the only ones who lose attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 12:08 PM |
| 2 | All women are born with innate value while most men are replaceableNo one wants inferior and low quality genes for their offspring, and since physical attractiveness displays health and gene quality, men compete for the attractive women to ensure superior genes for their offspring (one of the reasons of men doing this). Women do not have any value except for their attractiveness. Attractive women do have innate value, but this is what makes it more brutal for ugly women, because ugly women can not attain value in any way. At least all men can make themselves va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Intercourse is degrading towards women.Fair enough. "Love" and respect is only for attractive women, if you're not attractive you're worthless and despicable to them and will be settled for until they can leave you for a better option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Intercourse is degrading towards women.Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Intercourse is degrading towards women.Why do you hate men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a girl you find ugly?How did you even know I'm a mod of trucemcels? Still, the point that most men (and the bottom few % of women) do need to work really hard when compared to most women (and the top few % of men) still stands. No, most men just need to lower their standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a girl you find ugly?😥💔 I'm not gonna lie, it's probably because of your height, at least that plays a major role. Maybe you could look into leg lengthening surgery. The girls you are attracted to and your female friends are most likely just a little below average though. I'm a truly ugly girl and I've never had a guy interested in me and I've been rejected by a 5'3" guy. I've been dismissed and been shown disinterest much more. Even by ugly incel looking guys. It's not fair that half the population has to work thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a girl you find ugly?Jokes on you, studies show that men are less satisfied and happy with ugly wives and treat them worse in contrast to attractive wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 05:55 PM |
| 3 | "Incels don't exist" - Females rate himOver | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Men Cannot LoveSource that men cheat more often? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?Over. It replaced men with women and Chad with boyfriend lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:16 PM |
| 5 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?What | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/User_Simulator throwaway-637 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?Don't know what the first sentence is supposed to mean, but accurate:) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/User_Simulator throwaway-637 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Lookism is copeCope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Hahahaha how the fuck is femcels realBrutal. Personality can not help you if there's no physical attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 10:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If women actually loved abusers, rapists and serial killers incels would get laid all the time.Hybristophilia is nothing more but a sexual devation which mentally unstable people have. It is not a common paraphilia. Mysoginists (like incels) just overblow the minority of women who have this paraphilia, like what happens with shark attacks, and just act as if the average woman or even all women are this way. And men are still attracted to attractive women who commit rape or murder, more so than therr are hybristophiliac women, not BECAUSE they committed such a crime, but because they're at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do women think dating is hard?Would you date a girl who you find ugly, and are not attracted to, even while she has make up on? No? There's your answer why dating is hard for UGLY women, retarded ignorant "JuSt WeAr MAkeUp" invalidating shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 12:48 PM |
| 6 | Study request - facial attractiveness and employment successYeah lmao. There's a beauty contest ridden in about every aspect of life. | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/09/18 11:40 AM |
| 8 | Study request - facial attractiveness and employment successA newer study found there's no correlation between intelligence and facial attractiveness. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4415372/ | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/09/18 10:37 AM |
| 7 | Study request - facial attractiveness and employment successCallbacks are 54% for attractive women, 47% for attractive men, 26% for ugly men and 7% for ugly women. The average was 32% for men and 28% for women. https://c-5uwzmx78pmca09x24ux78zix2ecjx2ecvq-ucmvkpmvx2elm.g00.medicaldaily.com/g00/3_c-5eee.umlqkitliqtg.kwu_/c-5UWZMXPMCA09x24pbbx78ax3ax2fx2fux78zi.cj.cvq-ucmvkpmv.lmx2f27170x2f0x2fUXZI_x78ix78mz_27170.x78ln_$/$/$/$?i10c.ua=1&i10c.dv=14 | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/09/18 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Sex Differences in the Attractiveness Halo Effect in the Online Dating EnvironmentSource? | /r/BlackPillScience | 15/09/18 11:46 AM |
| 1 | to all women and emasculated "men"(cucks) that lurk this place...Yes, I got so much thrill and such a dopamine rush from this comment of yours, you have no idea. This is the most thrilling thing I can possibly experience. Honestly I can't even take you seriously. You're clearly mentally retarded lol | /r/MGTOW | 12/08/18 10:12 AM |
| 2 | to all women and emasculated "men"(cucks) that lurk this place...Cope And you're a whiteknight for defending men lol | /r/MGTOW | 12/08/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | to all women and emasculated "men"(cucks) that lurk this place...I have a bmi of 16 but keep making things up. Female whiteknight lol | /r/MGTOW | 11/08/18 10:05 PM |
| 1 | to all women and emasculated "men"(cucks) that lurk this place...I already told you the reason. | /r/MGTOW | 11/08/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | She thought she had him trapped. Boy was she wrong.😂😂😂 | /r/MGTOW | 20/07/18 12:19 PM |
| 0 | "Why aren't you married yet?" question from parents. I've had enough.Pls be my bf | /r/MGTOW | 13/07/18 10:39 AM |
| -1 | Not worth itLol, and then you say women are incapable of love, it's clear that you are. | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 05:11 PM |
| -1 | Not worth itMaybe women initiate more divorces because men are bitter with an unattractive wife and they're being treated poorly? It's proven that men treat attractive wives better than unattractive wives. I don't know if women cheat at higher rates, even if that's true, that doesn't mean that all women will cheat or use proxy violence. I am a woman and all I want is love and happiness that comes from that. Too bad that men don't want this. | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 11:45 AM |
| -3 | Not worth itThe bible isn't the word of God, most of it is written by humans. | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Not worth itMen, from a biological standpoint no religion crap, are supposed to impregnate as many women as they can (aka spread their genes). but I believe that the ideal state of happiness and fulfillment is unattainable because of woman nature. This is kinda contradictory, isn't it? You're saying that men are supposed to impregnate as many women as they can, and then you say that happiness and fulfillment from love isn't attainable because of the nature of women. Because you're right, men can only be tru… | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 10:24 AM |
| -1 | Not worth itshould be lapidated in public No, he didn't say that. But cheating and sex before marriage are sins. For both men and women. | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 09:51 AM |
| 0 | Not worth itGreat response for if you don't have anything else to say | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 08:45 AM |
| -4 | Not worth itYou realise that humans aren't meant to be alone right? Both from a religious and biological perspective, humans aren't meant to go without a romantic partner. God says "We created you in pairs", and from a biological perspective humans are meant to raise their offspring together. Humans have an inherent desire for loving, being loved, and intimacy. Maybe unless you're truly asexual and aromantic, you can't be completely happy and fulfilled without sharing love, care, bonding, and intimacy with … | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 07:54 AM |
| 1 | ScumThen it's in the nature of men to rape, that's what they do. What you're saying is the same thing and just as delusional. Women aren't machines that operate a certain kind of way, you make it sound like that. Imagine being so retarded you somehow believe that every woman would ask a stranger to pay their rent. As if that's a scientific fact. | /r/MGTOW | 24/06/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Scum"I know more about you than you know about yourself, even though this is the first time I've ever talked to you, I know you would do what the woman in the post did". Lmao, yeah, you keep believing that. | /r/MGTOW | 24/06/18 01:45 PM |
| -1 | ScumDating is not like russian roulette if you actually emotionally connect with someone. Maybe you can get to know a woman, and proceed things with her if you actually have an emotional connection with her, and therefore also trust her? Have you ever trusted someone? Do you think every woman could rip off money from you or falsely accuse you of something? If you can get close to a man, and trust a man, why can't you do that with a woman? | /r/MGTOW | 24/06/18 01:13 PM |
| 1 | ScumNo, not AWALT. In this specific case: I strongly dislike people like her, and I would never ask a stranger what she's asking. | /r/MGTOW | 24/06/18 12:58 PM |
| -2 | ScumBecause one woman is representative of all women? | /r/MGTOW | 24/06/18 06:17 AM |
| -2 | ScumWhy do you guys post one girl doing/saying something? What is supposed to be the point of this? | /r/MGTOW | 23/06/18 08:57 PM |
| 3 | I lurked trufemcels for a few days and this is what I've learned.Lol, you going MGTOW doesn't affect us because you only gave attention and were interested in +5/10 women anyway. | /r/MGTOW | 23/06/18 02:42 PM |
| 2 | I lurked trufemcels for a few days and this is what I've learned.I have lowered my standards to the point where I would date a physically deformed guy who is also deaf or spastic. Stop making retarded, false accusations. Try again. | /r/MGTOW | 23/06/18 01:53 PM |
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