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| 3 | Trying to find the easiest way to get a threesomeIn my experience its easier to find one in real life than on the apps unless the apps you are on are specifically for hookups For example go out to some nightlife venue with a girlfriend you are also sleeping with and approach people for threesome, I have had plenty of success doing that | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 01:45 PM |
| 0 | What made Dennis Rodman so attractive to high status women?What kind of stupid question is that? Popular, attractive, rich, top 1% athlete, how could all of that not be attractive to women? | /r/seduction | 01/06/26 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Strategies to prevent having your time wasted when meeting women for datesI usually invite my first dates to places which are within 10 to 15mins walking distance of me and I am still usually the one who is late lol | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 09:58 PM |
| 70 | 10 keys to hot chicks in your bedYep, its really that easy and I like how you put it. Its so funny to me when people write paragraphs about this stuff here lol | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.I think saying something like “promise not to be naughty” sounds weird and fake af, I usually just invite my dates to the closest bar, have a couple drinks then ask her back to mine, works almost always on first dates | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Men with high bodycount. Your experience?True in my personal experience, my body count 100+ or even upto 200, I have no idea, now I am in my early thirties and I feel like its so difficult to commit to one person, which I think is also pretty expected, when you keep doing the same thing over and over again it loses its value | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 12:12 PM |
| 2 | American dating advice is useless in europeI thought it was already obvious | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 10:55 PM |
| 1 | A detailed guide on how to set up Instagram in order to utilize it as a secret weapon in datingUnder no circumstances should any man ever have to read a book about this stuff | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How much does being muscular actually help with attraction?I am sorry but I feel like guys are such losers these days, like how are you around women, 6ft, get occasional compliments and never had a kiss? What do you think is going to happen after you put on some muscle? Do you think women are going to undress infront of you because you are muscular? Lol you have to be the one to make a move dude | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 09:06 AM |
| 3 | Why is getting into a relationship significantly easier than finding a hookup.Other way around for me | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 09:11 AM |
| 1 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Bitch and dog are also same by that definition, you are only embarrassing yourself now | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 11:55 PM |
| 42 | Forget Porn. This Is What Actually Made Her Soak the Sheets (Follow up to My Earlier Post)Cant believe this AI slop has 30 upvotes 😂 | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 02:19 PM |
| 2 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?From whore to promiscuous? Lol | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 04:05 AM |
| 4 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Doesn’t make any difference and very predatory mindset | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 03:38 AM |
| 0 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?People who are passionate about dance music and the scene care about that stuff, like imagine thinking of the people who came to your gig as whores!?! Pretty low in my opinion | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 02:56 AM |
| 1 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Like you can be a bartender at a very hot nightlife spot but if you are not good looking, it wouldn’t do much for you. So it always a bunch of different factors combined in my opinion | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 04:07 PM |
| 4 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?I have been highly involved in the nightlife years before starting to dj, which means clubbing almost every weekend, lots of connections in the local scene and even in other nearby big Cities, throwing my own parties, after parties every now and then in my apartment, on top of all of that, being decent looking, nice physique and heavily tattooed also helps. So even before starting to dj it was easy for me to meet women, I would say its more about being involved in the scene than being a dj | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 04:05 PM |
| 22 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?People in nightlife are normal people, I wouldn’t talk about them in this derogatory tone | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 02:06 PM |
| 21 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Dj but after a couple years it kinda gets boring. Source: I dj in a big city | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 01:48 PM |
| 9 | Spending the night at FWB’s house .. focusing on the friendship!Let me guess, first fwb situation? | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 12:45 PM |
| 40 | Kissing and making out on date is rookie moveIts really not that deep dude | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you go out to bars/clubs alone and still meet women without looking awkward?I genuinely enjoy music and dancing, getting lays from nightlife have always been super easy for me | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 09:38 AM |
| 2 | The dude getting all the girls wouldn't give a fuckIn my personal experience (100+ body count), thats really really bad advice lol. Less is always more with women | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 03:30 PM |
| 15 | At what point can you confess your feelings to a girl you've been hooking up with?Never, she should be the one doing that stuff | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel empty after ons ?Over time you stop feeling anything, so no emptiness, nothing | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 07:23 PM |
| 54 | Post-Sex Shit Tests?Is it common for women to pull back and test you after you have sex for the first time? No its not if you pipe her down properly then go on about your day like it was a casual Tuesday and dont contact her at all, let her initiate contact. When you give a woman good sex and act casual about it, they do extremely embarrassing things just to see you again, at least that has been my experience | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 03:40 PM |
| -1 | I don't think race that matters when it comes to seductionBeen saying that on this sub for years. Chads are chads regardless of where they are from and where they are located. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 07:38 PM |
| 1 | been thinking about moving to thailand and making one night stands part of my daily routinePakistan, I have lived in several big European capitals and also traveled a lot and had more or less the same results | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | been thinking about moving to thailand and making one night stands part of my daily routinePakistani | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 11:45 PM |
| 4 | been thinking about moving to thailand and making one night stands part of my daily routineI am a brown man in my early 30s from South Asia living in Europe and my body count is 100+ And from my experience I would say if you have any type of insecurity regarding being attractive to women, then this is the right time for you to do it. Even though it sounds stupid af but you are only in your early 20s so its not a big deal for you if you are not really doing anything for a few months and living in Thailand just to shag. And you would also gain massive confidence from an experience which… | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 10:08 PM |
| 3 | If you want fast results, the club is the only realistic optionI thought this was common sense | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Sex in Europe as a backpackerPretty easy, probably would happen naturally with you if you have done this in other locations | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 05:44 PM |
| 17 | Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it?Being decent looking, funny, extroverted, outgoing, muscular. All of that helped me | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?Done it countless number of times:- eye contact at a club/bar dance makeout sex in the club toilet or back my place I normally avoid bringing women back to mine when I am out clubbing because if I out partying then I also wanna enjoy the party, you dont always have to have a hookup | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 07:50 AM |
| 18 | (M22) Girl at the club chose my soft bulge over an big guy's wordsI didn’t read it but believe me its not that deep, it never is | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Is it worth it to have sex with a woman if your not that attracted to her?M31 with 100+ body count here. If you are young like in your early twenties and you wanna get good with women, sleep around as much as you can even if you are not super attracted to whoever you are about to be with:- you will get good at sex you will get good with women your confidence will be through the roof And all that good shit. Even down the road when you are looking for a long term girlfriend, the confidence you would gain from your sleeping around period will help retain the hot women or… | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 05:16 PM |
| 1 | What are the best cities in Europe for getting laid?I was able to get laid in every big European city I travelled to. Chads get results regardless of location | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 07:10 AM |
| 4 | Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not?My body count is over 100, I am 31 now and have a gf so not so much anymore. But I still have a little flirt, dancefloor romance/makeout here and there. Its not really something I am explicitly looking for anymore, but if something happens naturally I go with the flow, although if its leading to sex, I say no because I am in a relationship | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 12:02 AM |
| 2 | What is the best career for game ?I mean, I would assume they dont make a lot of money and their workplace is mostly men so I dont see how | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | What is the best career for game ?I think that’s pretty expected, all artistic stuff like that has plenty of sex, drugs and partying | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 12:42 AM |
| 2 | What is the best career for game ?Firefighters? I highly doubt it | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 12:40 AM |
| 4 | What is the best career for game ?The entire bar staff is usually fucking each other so no need to warm anyone up or if thats not the case then take the ones home which stay till last drinks, they are the most drunk and wanting to continue the party anyway | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 12:37 AM |
| 44 | What is the best career for game ?Bartender | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Is it a coincidence that the women I treat like a second thought, generally care more about me than those I apply pressure on?No, thats how it works | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?I can | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Has this sub became full of sh*t?Thats the right answer | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Single men, what drastically improved your sex life?Something I learned from personal experiences of long dating history and a high body count | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Single men, what drastically improved your sex life?Sure, I have definitely been there when I faked confidence, had a hookup with a 10 from the club and next day she could see through me and I fumbled her. However I learned a lot from that experience and that turned my fake confidence into real confidence, making me believe that I can pull 10s. So once again, fake it until you make it | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 11:41 AM |
| 81 | Single men, what drastically improved your sex life?Fake confidence over nervousness any day of the week. What you are saying only works in movies not in real life | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 01:50 PM |
| -4 | It’s easier to pull a hot girl who is way out of your league in in a big city than a smaller oneIf someone needs to be taught that it would be easier to pull, for example in New York compared to a small town then they have bigger issues to work on | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 12:46 PM |
| -3 | It’s easier to pull a hot girl who is way out of your league in in a big city than a smaller oneThats common sense | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 12:43 PM |
| 45 | I match with apparently every Ukrainian/Russian girl in the North East, is it because my profile gives sucker energy?Adult looking, domestic, potentially family oriented man and genuine attraction | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 08:27 PM |
| 77 | I match with apparently every Ukrainian/Russian girl in the North East, is it because my profile gives sucker energy?They come from a relatively conservative culture this is something they look for in a man | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Best European city for partying and getting hot girls?Only correct answer. Any big city as long as you are attractive | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 07:59 PM |
| 2 | How to get laid while travelling?Easiest lay ever | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 05:17 PM |
| -15 | What’s it like to date a woman who constantly tests a man compared to one who doesn’t?More like she is walking out Edit: lol wtf are these downvotes? this is not even a joke, if you are continuously getting tested then she thinks you are weak and planning her walk out strategy. Chads dont get tested. | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 06:10 PM |
| -2 | What's your favorite way to make someone crave you before anything even happens?Good sex - gets them hooked everytime | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys approach looking rough or you try to look your best?Its all about confidence and get my confidence from looking so I only approach when I am looking good otherwise I dont | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 08:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you pull girls in clubs ?I also dont genuinely understand how and why men these days even have these questions? At least to me as a man pulling women at a club comes really naturally to me, its almost like a mating ritual where I as man have to defeat my competition to get the women. I am 31 and have had more hookups from clubs than I can remember. Simply eye contact, smile, dance, physical contact, lean in for a kiss then go from there. And it should go without saying but always be very respectful and move on to the ne… | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 02:40 PM |
| -1 | She's a "10" but she doesn't suck D and hard to satisfy in bed. | She's a "6" easy to please, but prefers pleasing you. Which one you keeping?I am good in bed, my body count is 100+ and never had a woman who didnt compliment my bedroom performance so I am taking the 10. Also, in my opinion, there is no such thing as “she doesn’t suck d” when you properly fck a woman, the d sucking slut comes out of them naturally without you ever asking for it. | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Sex anxiety is real how do i get over it?Have lots of sex, you will get over it soon | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 03:12 PM |
| 6 | Do yall think you can date 10'sI have been with lots of 10s, insta models, influencers, OF model types. And for reference I am about 174cm, brown dude from Pakistan living in Europe. However I am decent looking, heavily tattooed and in very good shape. In my personal experience banging a 10 was never a big deal for me however in my younger years it was always difficult for me to keep a very attractive woman interested in me for a long time because with very hot women I would always lose my frame at some point. However I am 31… | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Why women reject even the most attractive men and how romance fixes itHow to get dumped asap | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 11:36 AM |
| 13 | My Learnings from Dan Bilzerian, StirIing Cooper & Michael Sartain’s ProgramsYou are learning from the wrong people | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 10:58 AM |
| 7 | How to Trigger a Woman Emotionally (And Why Most Men Fail at It)You being annoyed doesn’t make it any less true | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 06:38 AM |
| 3 | Rather than maximizing your looks, do this insteadyou don’t gain confidence by spending hours in the gym. Well I do | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downNo | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 07:42 AM |
| 8 | How often do you think 6 and above women get approached?Whats the point of this question? What would you do with this data? How would it help guys on this sub People would say things like such women get approached x number of times(even though there is no way of knowing if its accurate) and the guys reading the comments would only get insecure about how much women are getting approached lowering the guys chances. So all in all, you are focusing on the wrong stuff and it doesn’t help anyone | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 11:21 PM |
| 4 | How often do you think 6 and above women get approached?You are focusing on the wrong things | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 08:15 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?I have done it a few dozen times | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 09:55 AM |
| 3 | Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matchesIf you as a guy live in a big western city, there is literally no reason for you to be using a dating app other than maybe looking for a long term relationship. There is tons of shit going on all the time in big cities, just go out and meet women. Dont understand why anyone would want to go back and forth for days messaging on a dating app with a chance of being ghosted while they can simply go out on a weekend to some nightlife spot with a chance of pulling a woman back to their place and have … | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 04:41 PM |
| 7 | The fumble of a lifetimeThere is no such thing as ‘fumble of a lifetime’ when it comes to this stuff, she was just a girl | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 01:30 PM |
| 11 | Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man.You are right but I think the underlying message of this post is to not make this stuff the most important thing in your life | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 01:28 PM |
| 0 | What to do after coffee date?The only correct thing to do after any and all sorts of dates is: ask her back to yours | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 11:12 AM |
| -3 | He Thought Women Would Always Chase Him... Until This HappenedIf you dont care then just move on with your day lol. Why are you even replying to my comment | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 04:49 PM |
| -3 | He Thought Women Would Always Chase Him... Until This HappenedYes because all of his posts are nonsense and thats not how it works in real life. And I say this with over 15years of dating experience including long term committed relationships, fwbs and a body count of over 100. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 04:38 PM |
| 28 | He Thought Women Would Always Chase Him... Until This HappenedThis guy should be banned from this sub. Cant believe he also thinks of himself as a dating coach. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 12:04 PM |
| 3 | Does it help being arrogant / having a superiority complex?Short answer: yes absolutely Anyone who says otherwise hasn’t been around long enough | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 11:59 AM |
| -2 | Are guys that work in porn good at pick up/game?Came here to say this | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 10:44 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop feeling jealous of dudes that don’t have to put in any effort?A good rule to have in life is to not worry about things you can’t control | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 02:10 PM |
| 6 | Safety tips on inviting girls over or going to their place.Idk where you are based and how things work there but where I am, I have pulled dozens of girls from the clubs back to mine. It happens a lot | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 04:28 PM |
| 2 | We talk about how to seduce a girl, but how about keeping her interested in the long run?good sex roller coaster of emotions | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Do guys do shit tests, or is it predominantly a thing women do?Its a women thing. If I wanna reject someone, I either do it when a girl initially approaches me or if something gives me an ick I just ghost them | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Should I tell a woman I’m dating my body count if it’s low?From a mans or a womans pov? If a guy has a high body count it doesn’t matter. But if a woman has a high body count, she is most definitely fucked in the head | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Should I tell a woman I’m dating my body count if it’s low?You are going to fumble it, reason: you are taking her too seriously and asking the internet what you should say to her when you haven’t even had sex with her. Just say whatever you want | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 03:41 PM |
| 5 | Getting laid with tourists, is it a good idea or not really?If you give her the pounding of a lifetime and you keep in touch online, there is a high probability that you will see her again. Nothing in the world gets a woman hooked like good dick. I live in a very big and touristy European capital and plenty of tourist women I had sex with visited the city where I live again at some point and we fucked again. And even the ones that I didnt see again still send me reels and shit to keep in touch and keep saying that they wanna visit again or I should visit… | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 11:22 AM |
| 52 | Getting laid with tourists, is it a good idea or not really?It is so fucking easy to have sex with women who are travelling, literally every woman need some travel dick story to tell to her friends when she goes back. I dont even sugar coat stuff, for example if I meet someone at a club who is a tourist in the city I live and there is some sexual tension between us, I simply say something like “lets go back to my place and I will be your summer travel romance”. Have had sex with tourists, and also while I was travelling myself many times | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 11:19 PM |
| 2 | What’s the best way to tell my fwb I want to see her more often?Ignore her and date other women, she will want to see you more | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 12:29 AM |
| 10 | Anyone ever recovered from LJBF / no romantic feelings?Story as old as time and they always comeback as long as you keep improving yourself and stay in strict no contact and make sure to not block her or anything so she can watch your stories/posts etc | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 04:18 PM |
| 12 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.5, 10 years ago yes maybe. But now, in this superficial and materialistic world? I dont really know any couples where the guy is considerably lower in terms of looks from the girl Also if you notice ig male models and their gfs, I always see that guys most of the times have a bigger following than the gf. For example 20k for the guy and maybe 1k for the girl. Once again shows us that women always date up | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 02:17 PM |
| 34 | Horny in periods?How is this relevant to this sub? | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Thigh orgasm? Weird or normal?I actually do this a lot when I am dancing with someone at a club and I want to make it sexual. I put one of legs in the middle of the girl’s legs and try to grind my thigh against her pussy and girls definitely love it | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Guys who pull..How common is it for women to equally keep the flow of conversation going.I believe it depends on how attractive the women is to you, personally I have seen women starting to act like complete clowns to keep me entertained when they are highly attracted towards me | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you manage 2+ girlsAll of my sexual partners know that I have other partners as well. If you take care of yourself it just happens naturally without you having to lie to anyone | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 05:10 PM |
| -2 | 7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the roadIf you had put all that effort into looks maxing and night game then 3000 women would have approached you without you having to do anything | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Why do women think it’s weird to sleep with their friends?I as a guy also think its weird to have sex with my friends unless I am mixing a lot of drugs with sex | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 02:39 PM |
| 2 | How unusual is it for a woman to be very forward when it comes to asking a guy outNot unusual at all if you are good looking. I have had women approach me many times even though I consider myself average or maybe slightly above average looking | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 10:50 AM |
| 5 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?If I look hard enough, I can probably get laid every time I am out clubbing | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?I have had A LOT of hookups at the clubs/bars, so many that I am not even that interested in casual sex anymore. I think my reasoning of success is I am probably in the top 10% of guys if you compare all the guys at the venue. I am never the best looking or with the best physique or the most fun but I am definitely in the top 10% in all those categories. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Clubs are the worst place to start conversations. I'm sorryLol | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details belowI move on to the next one, there are plenty of women out there. It has happened with me many times that I entered the club with one girl and left with another | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Finding love…I would disagree, in my opinion for one night stands mostly attraction matters but for keeping someone interested and building attraction pull push works better. Although of course there is no fit for all and these tricks does not work on everyone | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Slept with 20 women in one year: Truing to deal with bad effectsSame boat. I have had a lot casual sex over the last two years and its not really as exciting anymore | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 09:35 AM |
| 4 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himSome of you really make it more complicated than it actually is, for me getting laid is a simple few steps process:- go to any place where people are dancing and drinking (bar, club etc) try to make eye contact, smile and if you get a smile back then dance with her, grab her waist or hold her hands or anything read the room and go in for a kiss Getting a smile back is your opportunity to get your foot in the door and that totally depends on your looks. Once I start making out with someone, I spe… | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 12:29 PM |
| 23 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himBeen saying that for a long time, looks maxing > all other pick up tricks Edit: pretty privilege is more prevalent now than it ever has been. Good looking people get compliments out of the blue, free drinks, free drugs, guest lists on clubs, hookups, after party invites, better job opportunities and whatnot while average looking people are ignored left right and centre in social interactions. Look maxing is not only important for your dating life but its important even in your everyday life. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 11:09 AM |
| 1 | How many guys here actually approach?Who said its something I wanna do? Lol | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 11:55 PM |
| 2 | How many guys here actually approach?I hear what you are saying man, I have friends who are not conventionally good looking and its definitely difficult for them. Fuck pretty privilege I guess | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 03:00 PM |
| 3 | How many guys here actually approach?I have been clubbing regularly almost every weekend for around 4 years now, when I started in the first few months I couldn’t even make one approach. But after some trial and error, at this point basically anywhere where there is some good music and dance going on, I can find myself some sexy action if I am looking for it. Clubs just feel like natural habitat to me now. I have hooked up while travelling in several European cities in clubs, I have exchanged contact information with girls that wer… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How many guys here actually approach?In general I dont really communicate too much online with anyone I am sexually or romantically involved with and specially not with fwbs because its purely sexual, I dont even know much about them in their personal lives so mostly its just like, “hey, what are you upto this weekend, wanna come over?” Or maybe an occasional meme/reel once in a while | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 12:19 PM |
| 0 | How many guys here actually approach?I would be having sex every night and a ton of mmf threesomes if I was bisexual hahaha | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 11:17 AM |
| 7 | How many guys here actually approach?Lol, I have had nights outs when I made out with 7~8 girls, making out with someone isn’t even a big deal, you are just casually dancing and the next minute you are making out. Also I live in a city which has one of the best nightlife in the entire world and also has a big drug culture. And on top of everything what would I get by lying on reddit, where nobody knows no one | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 12:02 AM |
| 7 | How many guys here actually approach?Yes, I love clubbing, I have a huge social circle that go to clubs regularly and its just a part of my regular weekend/life. So luckily I have a hobby where its easy for me to meet women, I dont have the hobby to exclusively meet women. And the point I am trying to make here is if you are doing pickup 4 days a week, I am sure you are slacking in other areas of life. Career, making money, gym, having an interesting life, fun social circle are all more important than pick up at least to me | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 07:23 PM |
| 4 | How many guys here actually approach?You can do 100 approaches in one day Well maybe you can, but I cant and I wont, even the sound of it sounds exhausting to me, as I mentioned, I mostly go out on the weekends to clubs/bars to have fun. Approaching is not the primary focus, its just a small part of the night. And in my opinion women are very good at detecting bullshit, if you go out with the sole purpose of getting laid, women can pick that up and its a big turn off for them. As far as hours are concerned, when I go clubbing it co… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 06:31 PM |
| 88 | How many guys here actually approach?This post cant be serious???? Sorry but doing this 4 days a week for hours is not possible for everyone and it’s absolutely not worth it, in fact I would call it a waste of time. Last year I had 100s of make outs and around ~20 hookups and I only went out once a week on the weekends, mostly with the intention of having fun and not really looking for anything. Also after sometime all of this gets boring, I have a few fwbs in my rotation now and I only have time to do anything on the weekend so it… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | So if it’s standard practice to get rejected in 99+% of approaches you make. What can you do to make your approaches more meaningful?Women give you choosing signals, you need to get good on picking those up. I can instantly tell if a woman is interested in me by her body language and only then I approach. So most of my approaches are successful and Idk where you came up with the 99% number | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 10:39 AM |
| 3 | First Time Having Sex with New Partner…. Advice?As a guy I can always tell if the girl I am with is expecting to have sex doesn’t matter how much she is trying to hide it and I find it hot tbh | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 11:10 AM |
| 1 | SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’.how to get the baddies What does that even mean? Do you mean hookup or have a committed relation with one or casually date one? Honestly when you have been with enough baddies you understand that the best way to be with one is to just treat them like any other girl. And when it comes to dating one long term, dont forget that such women have very high body counts and they have been with guys like me who have fucked them for hours and given them the best sex ever so in her head you will be always … | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Why am I scared of younger “alt” girls?Thats my usual type and its so easy for me to approach them because I am alt myself, have a bunch of tattoos and piercings and I dress very alt and live in Berlin lol | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Do women have one night stands sober/tipsy/drunk?Of course yes. I have had many | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 10:51 AM |
| -3 | Guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smilesI can’t believe someone has to say this, this is really just general knowledge | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 09:01 PM |
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