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8	Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocrites And then they complain women don’t want to be with them. It’s insane they cannot comprehend that the literal usage of women’s bodies is not comparable to taxing the ultra wealthy	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 01:14 PM
-1	What are the effects of women increasingly attending college more than men and them being on the path to start earning more in the future? I think it’s more not wanting men who only want to be a SAHD, which is a fair expectation to have in a partner. Wanting your man to be involved in raising their children is also a fair expectation. It doesn’t have to be one or the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 01:00 AM
4	Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so. Yeah well there’s a lot more to your life so you never know! My soon to be husband was homeless at 14, a dad by 19, and went thru a slew of women who cheated, manipulated, and took advantage of him. He was sure that he’d never marry or have kids. He’s still shocked (and giddy) that he’s going to be a husband and how different his life has turned out. We both have issues we work on together, but he fully trusts I’ll never intentionally hurt him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 01:30 AM
-1	Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so. That’s something you have to work on for yourself. Trauma responses don’t have to be lifelong battles you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 01:17 AM
2	Are there any feminist or blue pill solutions to the male loneliness epidemic? The slope of what? Unemployment skyrocketed to 10%, the wealth gap widened, middle class jobs were lost, small businesses shut down, exports quickly fell to the negatives for the first time ever, housing prices increased, school costs increased, incarceration increased, the deficit nearly tripled, unions became weaker, wages stagnated, welfare was cut, medical costs rose… How direct of a line do you want? Funding. Was. Cut. So the places were forced to find new funding by either philanthropy or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 02:49 PM
2	Are there any feminist or blue pill solutions to the male loneliness epidemic? The question is not if they should be funded by state and federal governments. It’s what happened to them. What happened was Reagan cut funding for them and our economy was not in a position to support small businesses or private spaces. By definition, a public good is a nonprofit commodity that’s provided, usually, by the government and accessible to everyone. So that means that spaces cannot be both funded by private memberships, and classified as public. Rich people rarely ever give back to s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 06:56 PM
3	Are there any feminist or blue pill solutions to the male loneliness epidemic? Libraries, rec centers, parks community centers in urban areas, after school community center, theatres, music halls, public transportation, plazas.. They were all reliant on state and federal funding and grants. During the New Deal and Great Society was when a lot of these opened in order to integrate society into a community after the wars. We also had civil rights movements and post war money, so a lot of these spaces opened up in the booming economy. Also that’s how public spaces work. Eithe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 02:39 PM
3	Are there any feminist or blue pill solutions to the male loneliness epidemic? He privatized everything which means no more public third spaces funded by taxes. It was the state and federal governments that kept these places open. State governments were forced to find private donors or charge fees to cover their costs and many of them lost their jobs anyway because again, they were funded by the government. They’re not funded by taxes anymore, and that’s why we have to pay membership fees for everything, which is privatization.. He didn’t simply say “shut them down”. Also …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 02:26 PM
9	Are there any feminist or blue pill solutions to the male loneliness epidemic? Taxes were commonly paid for third spaces when people had a lot more respect for public places. Reagan stopped funding these places to save money and privatize everything because we were in the midst of the '80s recession. Some of the first people to get fired were those who maintained these spaces. Because of the free rider problem, no one was willing to pay for them (also because of unemployment and inflation), and many eventually closed. They never reopened because the government didn’t value…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 04:05 AM
1	Men doing the first move, chase, and men kneeling to propose, exposes the power trip. You’re only looking at it from a man’s perspective. Women are expected to be submissive the entire relationship. That’s why the man chases and pays for dates and she gets dressed as expected, shows up where he decides, and only gets married when he wants. A man getting on a knee (in a trad relationship) is an expression of mutual respect. It’s lowering his guard and showing her that he will be soft for her. He’s showing that he doesn’t only expect her to submit to him, but that he’s willing to s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 06:49 PM
8	How many people here are happily married/in longterm relationships? If so, what is your perspective on the common themes and posts in this sub? I always get accused of being obese and ugly when I mention my short husband. Then it’s that he must be a millionaire and pay all my bills. Then it’s that he must have a huge dick or “swan like” social skills. It’s always an excuse of why they don’t have something they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 06:15 PM
0	Female bodies are respected more than male bodies Exactly. Allies. Not start the fight for you. I don’t think it’s morally wrong to circumcise infants. It’s not a morality issue. We don’t agree and I’m not going to continue arguing with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 10:51 PM
0	Female bodies are respected more than male bodies You’re really not getting that this is a man issue than men need to advocate for themselves. You’re mad at feminists because we won’t fight your battles for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 10:35 PM
1	Female bodies are respected more than male bodies The point is that you’re trying to offload your responsibility onto feminism when it should be men fighting men. I know you say you’re redpilled but wanting true equality between genders is what feminism is at the core (obviously biological differences are accounted for). I would absolutely give fathers the sole right to choose their sons circumcision. But if we do that, we have to also give mothers the sole right to choose an abortion. The problem a lot of women have about red pill is that it p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 02:28 PM
1	Female bodies are respected more than male bodies We fundamentally disagree about voting rights. I don’t think personhood should be split. More women would be able to vote than men anyway? Rule of thumb is just a term for a common practice. It’s so common to hear about our grandmas experiencing violence in the home. There are no statistics because it wasn’t reported because abusing your wife wasn’t a crime. Circumcision is also a common practice that women don’t know enough about it. It’s not a problem if you don’t know anything about it. It’s …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 03:03 AM
6	Female bodies are respected more than male bodies Then why bring up the draft? Again. Men uphold that cycle. The patriarchy keeps the cycle going. You agree with feminism that the patriarchy causes pain for both men and women. How is not being drafted equal to not having any responsibilities? Pretty sure my car will get repossessed the same as a man.. or get fired, or overdraw my bank account, or be affected when prices rise.. we literally have the same responsibilities for the rights feminism won. It doesn’t make sense to sense to bring up ‘me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 05:39 AM
8	Female bodies are respected more than male bodies And the rest of my questions? Also that’s was from 1480-1913 in England only. The only thing that source shows is that women leaders are not as peaceful as assumed. It’s not saying women have started more wars than men, it’s that women leaders are 27% more likely to start a war. Plus we’re only talking about the wars women “should” have fought in in exchange for rights. I know what the draft is. It was started and continued by men. A lot of women did join, just to be told their contributions wer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 04:15 AM
13	Female bodies are respected more than male bodies Who started the wars? Who didn’t allow women to fight on the lines? Who forced young men and boys to fight a war? Who forced women to become pure? Who made women’s only purpose having and raising kids? You can’t expect women to follow men’s rules then when we have rights, clean up men’s messes. Btw I’m a veteran from a family of women veterans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 03:22 AM
9	Female bodies are respected more than male bodies And the chauvinists wanted women to bear all the responsibilities of the home, new generation, and wellbeing of the family and society in exchange for.. protection against other men? How does feminism giving women the right to vote or to have a bank account an issue?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 03:08 AM
10	Finances, career and success are overrated for men He’s just trying to give young men advice who may get sucked into thinking their value lays in their pockets. It’s easy to say “pick yourself up from your bootstraps.” It’s the same as telling young women their value goes beyond their looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 07:50 PM
1	Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes? I didn’t take a “class” but I read books, blogs, watched YouTube videos, and listened to podcasts to be more attractive, gain confidence, and to understand men and women. I don’t know of many classes for women where you pay for courses. A lot of it is self help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 10:06 PM
–	Whats wrong with modern women I agree with this. At least for me, my friends and family (all married), and the people around me. I think when in the dating scene, you have to be a lot tougher and mentally disassociate with the men around you. I never treated men like I hated them but I would immediately shut down situations that could lead to them thinking I liked them. It doesn’t have to be all men who abuse women, but after being physically and sexually assaulted multiple times over a decade, it really starts to have an ef…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 01:46 PM
1	Women are actually too nice when rejecting men, and should directly tell them exactly what they find unattractive about them when saying no Bro no one is going to tell you what facial reconstruction surgery to get upon first meeting lol. You again already know to lose weight, build muscle, get a better haircut, and upkeep your skin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 01:50 PM
2	Women are actually too nice when rejecting men, and should directly tell them exactly what they find unattractive about them when saying no But you still know the standards that separate becoming more attractive and being attractive so you know what needs to be done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 12:32 AM
3	Women are actually too nice when rejecting men, and should directly tell them exactly what they find unattractive about them when saying no No it’s not. No one would turn down a billion dollar job with great benefits and work life balance if offered it, but that’s not the same as only applying for those positions. You apply to a high level position and expect me, the hiring manager, to tell you WHY you’re not qualified and give a life plan to be prepared next time? And that makes me hypocritical because I would accept a job I wasn’t qualified for?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 03:45 PM
16	Women are actually too nice when rejecting men, and should directly tell them exactly what they find unattractive about them when saying no That’s neither hypocrisy nor a double standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 07:45 AM
29	Women are actually too nice when rejecting men, and should directly tell them exactly what they find unattractive about them when saying no You clearly already know your insecurities, so why are you expecting her to verbalize it for you? You are not my responsibility. Yeah guys! Let’s aim for the top 0.5% of the population, get discouraged, then blame women for not rejecting me the right way so I could be that alpha bro!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 07:37 AM
33	Women are actually too nice when rejecting men, and should directly tell them exactly what they find unattractive about them when saying no How is that women’s responsibility? You all have access to EVERYTHING you could possibly need to become more attractive. Also, I have never and would never do that to a man unless he kept pestering me and asking why I don’t like him. Even then, I wouldn’t criticize his entire physique because I don’t want my subjective opinions to ruin his self esteem. It’s uncomfortable for me to be mean to someone and it’s weird for a man to put that type of responsibility on a random woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 07:17 AM
8	Do the Women on the Female Dating Strategy to 4B Movement Pipeline Never Question Why the "Handbook" by Definition Didn't Work for Them? No one said any of that and I’m sure most women know the first thing to change is your appearance. Sometimes it’s not worth it tho. Not everyone wants to lose weight or get dolled up. I know you guys will say those are the ones who want 6ft 6 pack guys but it’s usually not. They want to be treated respectfully and will give up looks (as long as they are still attracted to the guy) for more respect and partnership. Obviously this doesn’t apply to all of them and some women are upset regardless of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 05:43 PM
8	Do the Women on the Female Dating Strategy to 4B Movement Pipeline Never Question Why the "Handbook" by Definition Didn't Work for Them? But a lot of red pill men do end up mgtow.. Also I said it was the basis of the creation of the sub. Again, some people don’t listen, some people rant about men. It’s a space for women to talk all things dating and get reassurance or advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 05:39 PM
6	Do the Women on the Female Dating Strategy to 4B Movement Pipeline Never Question Why the "Handbook" by Definition Didn't Work for Them? Sooo a dating strategy (hold out for better men and don’t date the men you currently are), followed by an unwillingness to settle into relationships that don’t meet their standards. That’s what I said in my first comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 05:12 PM
13	Do the Women on the Female Dating Strategy to 4B Movement Pipeline Never Question Why the "Handbook" by Definition Didn't Work for Them? You can call it whatever you want but that’s the basis of it. Some people use it for other things but it was made to talk about how to date better	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 05:04 PM
10	Do the Women on the Female Dating Strategy to 4B Movement Pipeline Never Question Why the "Handbook" by Definition Didn't Work for Them? The sub female dating strategy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 05:00 PM
13	Do the Women on the Female Dating Strategy to 4B Movement Pipeline Never Question Why the "Handbook" by Definition Didn't Work for Them? I don’t think this is a fair question because there isn’t a handbook, it’s just a group of women trying to help one another out in terms of dating. There are a lot of different opinions on there and people tend to seek reassurance rather than change their ways. 4B isn’t because of the woman not being able to find a relationship, it’s because they disagree with the relationship dynamics and don’t want to participate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 04:56 PM
–	Red Pill advice for women is conveniently to make your life as limited as possible, while for men, the sky is the limit I want you to explain why it matters without an analogy that makes people objects. But this is my point entirely. You see women as objects to be controlled and “tainted”. This is what I assumed from your initial comment. Took a while to get here but I’m glad you finally admitted it. Goodbye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 11:48 PM
–	Red Pill advice for women is conveniently to make your life as limited as possible, while for men, the sky is the limit The entire point of TRP is to provide generalizations about men, women, and how they operate best in relationships and society. To have a wide range of nuance is to ~not~ be TRP. Anyway, the only action you gave for women is to have as little sexual partners as possible. My question again is.. why? If we agreed before that actions have consequences on par with the amount of value the person puts into it, why is the number of partners you have valued for women but not men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 09:15 PM
3	Red Pill advice for women is conveniently to make your life as limited as possible, while for men, the sky is the limit My guy. Name specific things women should do to “find” a good man. You keep disagreeing but providing nothing more than “consequences have actions”. What hedonistic lifestyle would lead a woman to finding less than the ideal man? What are these actions that have the consequences of not finding a man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 08:48 PM
3	Red Pill advice for women is conveniently to make your life as limited as possible, while for men, the sky is the limit All actions have consequences if the person enforcing them finds value in them. So if TRP warns women against the things OP said, it’s because they value women who the opposite. Why do they value women who don’t have experience? What does TRP mean then if they think men and women should do as they please? That’s a normal person	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 08:32 PM
4	Red Pill advice for women is conveniently to make your life as limited as possible, while for men, the sky is the limit You just proved OPs point. Why do these actions like traveling or going to college have consequences?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 08:25 PM
–	The idea that age-gap relationships are problematic is a modern social construct My god I’m so sick of these posts. Date your fucking teenagers and shut up. You have the right to be a creep and we have the right to call you exactly what you are. If you’re actually asking, dating younger is fine IF you both happened to find each other. People will think it’s a little odd but ultimately mind their business. If you’re seeking out people far younger than you to date, you’re targeting that demographic for a reason and that’s what makes it weird, no matter how you approach it. I w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 04:08 PM
-2	I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives No one thinks that tho. Mainstream society treats women as people. Infantilizing them is still objectifying them but on the opposite end. Women created a tighter network in response to the patriarchy just like how men are now doing in response to feminism and I’m glad it makes people realize their worth outside of traditional relationships. Idk maybe we live in different areas but I don’t understand why you need someone to tell you to not cater your life to another person and treat everyone like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 10:14 PM
-1	I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives Do you know how hard it is to start a business with no experience or education??	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 09:59 PM
-1	I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives So wouldn’t that just be a regular person that doesn’t subscribe to pills at all? Like seeking happiness instead of “leverage” or self fulfillment over hustle culture are things I’ve seen men be called “beta/woke/soy” over..	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 09:01 PM
2	I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives Isn’t a core part of RP that women date up and men need to accept that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 08:46 PM
1	I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives But the discussion is about how OP is better handling women and relationships and which approach is more useful- not to entirely drop out the race. So I assumed we were still on track with OPs discussion lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 08:39 PM
8	I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives That was my thought too. It feels like born again Christians who say Jesus saved their life when in reality, all they needed was someone to give them purpose. Glad it worked for OP, but without a solid sense of value and self awareness, the inevitable roll of cultish following is to be expected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 08:29 PM
5	I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives How else would you afford to have a sahw if you don’t go to college or grind for years before marrying? Jumping into a marriage with no school or work experience is a great way to end up 50/50 the rest of your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 08:23 PM
–	Women don't make real dating goals they make fantasies. I see what you’re saying but my argument is that goals can be obtained at any point in life. I have a lot of goals but ultimately want to live on a farm. I can’t do that unless I save enough money for the land and the hundreds of other things that come with it. I can’t do that unless I work, most likely in a city. I can’t do that unless I finish my degree. I can’t finish my degree unless I wait to have kids. The end goal is still the same, it’s just such a big step that it requires decades of wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 03:12 PM
–	Women don't make real dating goals they make fantasies. Yeah exactly. It always made me laugh with the man vs bear scenario and all the guys saying the man would be useful… he most likely wouldn’t be dangerous but also very likely useless	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 10:24 PM
–	Women don't make real dating goals they make fantasies. What’s the alternative? Should she make a smart goal with each step of how she’ll obtain said goal? I’m confused as to how this is even an issue. I have always had the goal to live on a farm and off the land as much I feasibly can. I don’t know every step of the way forward and I wouldn’t think it’s important enough to share on a dating profile..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 08:04 PM
7	Should virgin women over a certain age just “give it up”? What age does it become weird for a woman to be a virgin? Ala Pearl Davis’s argument Then she’s not very traditional if she’s putting her career over marriage and children. So she’s either a femcel that no one wants or she is really playing mgtow lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 04:18 AM
5	Should virgin women over a certain age just “give it up”? What age does it become weird for a woman to be a virgin? Ala Pearl Davis’s argument How many of them go back to working tho? Many women would love to take time off of work but only those in higher career positions can afford to do so without sever repercussions to their careers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 03:03 AM
9	Should virgin women over a certain age just “give it up”? What age does it become weird for a woman to be a virgin? Ala Pearl Davis’s argument I think she’s unmarried by force and not by choice so maybe she’s projecting and making herself seem more attractive to men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 03:01 AM
–	Why do some men care so much about body counts? And that’s why I asked you to explain more so I wouldn’t assume your intentions behind holding statements like this and we could actually discuss it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 10:00 AM
–	Why do some men care so much about body counts? Because it is a grade level analogy that implies a woman’s value is predominantly based on how much of a service she can be for you. It implies she is an object who can expire. It implies she is negatively impacted by the amount of sex she’s had. Since you don’t want to answer the question I’m assuming you agree with all these statements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 09:53 AM
–	Why do some men care so much about body counts? Explain how a woman is a car, please	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 09:38 AM
–	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high The implication of one or other was applied	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 01:43 PM
0	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high lol you really thought you did something there. Just say you’re a cubicle Carl and move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 08:05 PM
0	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high Ohhh ok we’re victim blaming women who experience abuse from serial abusers because they didn’t settle for a boring man they’re not attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 07:42 PM
6	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high Women’s choice to unknowingly engage with a bad man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 06:19 PM
13	Q4W: Would you rather reach your 40s alone or being a single mother to 2 severely autistic kids? I don’t think this is a fair comparison. You’re asking mostly childless people if they’d rather be single for another 15-20 years or a single mom with 2 very dependent and disabled children during the one of the worst points in her life. That could happen to anyone and is just luck of the draw tbh. Of course I’d never wish to end up that way but it’s pretty unlikely most of us would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 08:46 PM
–	Q4w: do you still take female beauty standards seriously? Yes and no. I do everything I can to be naturally pretty but I would never get surgery to fix something about myself like my nose, boobs, or Botox for the sake of a trend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 11:28 AM
3	Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ? I don’t play video games at all but my bf does every single day. He only plays at night and after asking me if I need anything so it’s just our routine at this point. I like the me time anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 01:22 AM
1	If there is "someone for everyone out there" how do so many men struggle to find one (1) woman that likes them back? I'm also engaged to an introverted, short gamer. I think a lot of men assume women's standards start with looks and that’s why there are incels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 07:33 PM
2	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men Yeahh. It’s weird because I don’t know any woman who would want to date a man who only wants 18 year olds. Most are simply worried about the young girl and not about that type of 35 year old being off the market	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 07:04 PM
4	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men Because she’s easier.. that sums up what you just wrote. Date a 20 year old because you’re too insecure to handle other men being with her and are afraid someone was better somehow. Another weird reason to only date young women. The 35 year old has the maturity and resources to date any woman at any age but chooses the most immature and easily manipulated person he can. Her insecurities from other men shouldn’t be placed on you but you can place yours on her? Are you not the old jaded unmarried …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 02:02 PM
2	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men So you’re upset I fear teenage women are more vulnerable to abuse and manipulation because the men that want to date them, in their words, only care if she’s hot. A 35 year old man not caring about anything else and is targeting teenagers fresh out their parents household.. is a problem. Your question isn’t genuine and if you don’t want a different opinion then don’t post about it on the internet. Again. This is not something I hear anything about unless a man brings it up here or a woman asks a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 01:50 PM
3	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men How do you differ 16 year olds from 18 year olds? Or are you just looking at the entire senior class? Her only qualification is to be hot shows how little you care for her a person. You care more about how she can physically gratify you and that’s the entire problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 11:32 PM
2	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men Yes to everything you said. I know many age gap relationships and was in one myself. The ones that aren’t creepy are the ones that end up together unexpectedly and not to intentionally form an age gap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 11:28 PM
-2	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men Quite the reach on your “rebuttals”. Control freak degenerates is craaaaazy lol You can, in fact, have it both ways and society is set up to ensure the transition into adulthood is staggered like drinking/smoking, credit, nightclubs, renting a car, etc. I’d love to see an 18 year old try to commit to anything lifelong. Isn’t it normal for them to change their minds frequently? I would absolutely interfere in my 18 year old son or daughter’s relationship with a 35 year old… you wouldn’t? If you t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 10:54 PM
6	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men What exactly inclines a 35 year old man to date an 18 year old?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 10:34 PM
19	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men And if you’re not ugly they attack your man or standards or anything they can think of to discredit your viewpoint.. sigh. He seems like the type that has to date younger girls because women his age hate him	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 06:41 PM
16	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men The problem is what’s stopping a 35 year old from dating a 16 or 17 year old. The only argument is “they’re of age” but an 18 year old is still or very recently no longer under their parents care, in high school, not paying bills, no job, no real life experience. The problem is the 35 year old has the ability to shape the TEENAGERs world perspective because he has twice as much experience as she does and could be her dad. The implicit authority exchange between a man that old and a woman that yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 06:39 PM
2	The double standards around male standards That means the positions open!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 02:56 PM
0	Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2) Ok and that’s why different forms of self care aren’t marketed to men because they’d be made fun of. That’s the point. Women can pretend to be more attractive because we don’t care if another woman has fake nails, lashes, hair, or whatever. If it looks good, it’s good. We can also get into the expectation of women to wear make up but that’s a different argument. If men had the freedom to experiment with more than basic hygiene and skincare, I’m sure many more would wear make up to cover acne, us…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 02:51 PM
0	Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2) The point of the entire post is to say women aren’t naturally prettier than men and the original comment said we put in effort to be more attractive than we naturally are. It doesn’t matter if you personally think their make up is ugly. It doesn’t change the fact most men find most women attractive and if it’s not naturally, it’s because of effort. How do you know gay men don’t have many female admirers when you’re neither a female nor a gay male? I mentioned a beard pen, eyebrow tinting, and ot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 01:39 AM
4	Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2) And aren’t those women prettier? Isn’t it because they put in effort to make themselves a different person with make up? That’s the entire point you missed. Effort is attractive. So many gay men have a line of women because they literally just put effort into themselves. Based on your assumption no man calls them stupid and feminine, I assume you and many around you use traditionally feminine products to looksmax? If so, please visit any comment section of a product like a pen to fill in beards …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 10:20 PM
4	Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2) It’s fake but it makes women look better to themselves and society. When self care is marketed to men, they make fun of it and say it’s stupid even if it will make them look better like shapewear, beard and brow tinting, skincare, fashion, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 09:05 PM
3	What Educational Reforms Would You Advocate for to Address Any Pill-Related Concerns/Problems? You will absolutely have a harder time but you can still go to school, get a job, find love, and have kids. There’s a lot of ugly men who are happy and content with life. It’ll never be the same life as a male model but you can still be happy. Again, not all ugly teenagers grow up to be ugly adults so telling them they’re ugly and have no chance at life would help how exactly? Racism is combated with compassion and a firm stance on who you want to be in the world regardless of what others think …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 05:22 PM
3	What Educational Reforms Would You Advocate for to Address Any Pill-Related Concerns/Problems? I think every ugly teenager knows they’re ugly and doesn’t need to be told. Wouldn’t teaching them that they’re less valued by society cause them to feel extreme insecurity, isolation, and depression? If they’re taught to feel wronged by society, won’t that discourage them from participating in activities they otherwise would enjoy? I fear teaching that rhetoric would create a lot more hostility and extremism in young boys and increase the suicide and/or homicide rate. I think you can teach the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 05:08 PM
1	Are women less capable if introspection than men? Yeah I know, but online the woman holds the upper hand when there are so many men willing to throw money for a simple conversation or “personal” pictures/video. Hopefully not a lot of women are going on these trips because that’s 100% the best way to become a trafficking victim since irl is where men have the upper hand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 04:51 PM
15	Are women less capable if introspection than men? Guys will fawn over any woman they KNOW is out of their league but is giving them the time of day. Ive had men offering to fly me out to “spoil” me after 2 days of casual talking and no flirting from my side. Im not into OF and stuff but sheesh they make it too easy to get taken advantage of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 04:39 PM
2	Guy is bullied while on a date skit - thoughts on how it was handled? I think he handled the situation as best as he could. He’s like 40. He couldn’t have beaten up a group of high school bullies and like he said, he has kids and can’t risk their livelihoods. I think she handled the situation as fine as she could as well. She told him exactly what it was that gave her the ick and acknowledged he couldn’t have won either way, so now they can part ways and find other people. I wouldn’t have gotten the ick and don’t think it’s fair she did though. The guy had no othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 05:25 PM
1	Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average men Well, yeah, if he’s not sexually attractive, he needs to find other ways to make me attracted to him. It can be personality-related or, at far fewer times, career/income. Speaking for myself, why would I sleep with an ugly dude who’s also an asshole? If he’s an asshole, he could bring me down, use me for his weird fantasies, and degrade me because he knows only shitty women should be with him. If he’s insecure, you can guarantee he won’t stop calling, love bombing, or begging, which is also high…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 03:28 PM
11	Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee dates Fr I've never heard of anyone doing that irl or online. That's an insane amount of money to spend on a first date! That would make me uncomfortable	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 05:00 AM
2	Us women always have orbiters, yes us older ones too It really can be both. It’s not really based on mood but how you perceive the person approaching you. Unwanted male attention is when it becomes annoying but every woman’s standards are different, so men can compliment or offend depending on what she expects from men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 08:17 PM
6	Us women always have orbiters, yes us older ones too I’d agree with this. No disrespect to OP but this post screams insecurity and vindictiveness masked by bluster. It’s NORMAL and expected to be 41 and have less opportunities than a younger woman but to say she has just as many..? I don’t see why that is significant in the slightest. I don’t agree with the “wall” but more of a slow fade as we age so it’s strange that, as a blue pilled woman, instead of arguing the right for women to exist without being a sex object, she’s arguing women are still …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 07:07 PM
0	Dealing with the upper bound of self improvement Yeah I was also surprised to hear what he is and what he wants. I wonder if he’s too online and doesn’t know many of the women on there are heavily edited. Or he lives around a ton of very attractive people but that’s less likely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 07:45 PM
2	Dealing with the upper bound of self improvement That’s so true but then again that only benefits him if that area is his type.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 07:39 PM
0	Dealing with the upper bound of self improvement I mean not to be weird but you can posts pics or send me a dm and I can try to help spot some ways to improve from a woman’s perspective	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 03:08 PM
7	Dealing with the upper bound of self improvement I think it depends on why you’re doing it. If it’s to get women then the goal is limitless because you can’t appeal to everyone. I think people tell men to work on themselves because not being able to find a match means the women you want don’t want you. You HAVE to become better overall to appeal to the women you want or you will be forced to settle, which I assume you don’t want to do. Imo, if you feel you’re at your max, you’re in a good spot to find your passion/niche/preferred position. You…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 04:37 AM
0	There is nothing “creepy” or “predatory” about 30-40 year old men wanting to date or sleep with 20-25 year olds, it isn’t men’s fault women don’t age well So true. The most compliments I get are from older men and I still have only ever been with one older man as he was a “high value man”. If you’re an average guy then put on a beer belly or go bald, you have even less of a chance than you did before. Still, older men try way more often than men my age	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 02:17 AM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? Your singular experience doesn’t create the rules for life and dating. “Basically only happens in America” ok then case closed. You agree it happens in America where I and most of Reddit is. Stop dabbling in a discussion you don’t know anything about. Me and the guy I responded to agree it’s hypergamy and the reasons of why that could be. You’re the only one getting your panties in a bunch over this. It sucks for everyone and a lot of women are mad to HAVE to put off kids and go to work to survi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/24 02:37 PM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? What happens if she can’t return to work due to compilations with herself or baby? Can the family survive on just your salary? Does the baby only need its mom for the first 6-18 months?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 11:23 PM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? Ahh ok yeah I’ve only ever heard it used, albeit incorrectly, in terms of dating or sleeping with multiple people. I agree with this and again think that society rn has really fucked all of us by forcing women to work just as much as men but still telling each side to practice their gender roles. It leaves women burnt out and frustrated with men who feel confused or emasculated. Most of our grandparents/parents had very traditional roles but we’re now expected to pivot into a completely new way …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 06:22 PM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? Women’s standards also haven’t changed. They’ve always wanted someone in a better standing than their own. The problem is women being forced to work at the same rate in the same jobs as men. The problem is the capitalist economy we’re in requires women to do the same jobs as men so the need for a man is less important now more than ever. Women want their“high value” man the same as they did before, but now she has a higher standard because she’s doing half the work for the man. That’s why woman …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 05:42 PM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? But wouldn’t that only be if she leaves her current man? Maybe I just don’t understand what hypergamy is	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 05:31 PM
1	Why do men insist women are too picky? Yes more and more but why is that? Because relationships aren’t stable, because she has to work just as much as a man, because she needs a lot more money than ever. Find more to offer if you want those women. I know a lot of short ugly men dating literal model women because they have more to offer than looks. Women also want eye candy and will take it whenever they can, the same as men. Why are you upset certain women are chasing a superficial situationships when men want to do the same thing bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 04:58 PM
7	Why do men insist women are too picky? I personally don’t think it’s hypergamy but that women, especially women who want kids, will eventually need to take time off for the numerous health issues that women have to encounter during pregnancy, childbirth, nursing, menopause, etc. I wouldn’t feel comfortable dating someone making less than I do (or working towards it) because I need him to make enough if I were to ever have to leave my job. The growing number of women making more money because school is more tailored to women is a very…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 04:54 PM
3	Why do men insist women are too picky? I think it’s also because women carry a lot more risk with sex. There’s a chance she can get hurt mentally and/or physically, get pregnant, or looked at differently by society so that can also sway women’s decisions to have a lot of casual sex. Men don’t have as much risk and really only get brownie points for sleeping with a lot of women so there’s usually no reason to not have sex with whoever they want esp if they’re not in a relationship. Obviously men can and do get hurt during sex and ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 04:44 PM
1	What is the bare minimum for a woman in a relationship? I don’t think you understand what this sub is about..	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 08:27 PM
0	What is the bare minimum for a woman in a relationship? I’m questioning what you think “emotional” means if me explaining why I did the bare minimum is emotional	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 08:23 PM
0	What is the bare minimum for a woman in a relationship? I did do the bare minimum because I’m working and it’s your responsibility to be understood by the person you’re replying to. If you didn’t want to explain further my point would still stand but yours wouldn’t with the one person you’re trying to converse with..	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 06:56 PM
5	Women, what percentage of you would "pursue your own pleasure" while your country collapsed (due to your refusal to give up some of your own time / effort to do something that would stop the collapse)? I sure hope OP is on the front lines of the military or works as a civil servant or some other much needed job	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 06:41 PM
3	What is the bare minimum for a woman in a relationship? Damn it. I’m ashamed of myself for not catching it 😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 06:27 PM
7	What is the bare minimum for a woman in a relationship? I don’t understand your parallel	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 06:20 PM
3	What is the bare minimum for a woman in a relationship? That’s why I listed other qualities as well. The bare minimum still needs to be met. The rest is up to you	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 06:16 PM
62	What is the bare minimum for a woman in a relationship? I think it’s the same for men and women. Find someone who makes you happy and contributes equally in your eyes (traditional or modern). My perfect man is different than my sister’s perfect man. Your partner should respect, cherish, appreciate, enjoy, and love you. They should be attracted to you (and you them) and attentive to your relationship to make you feel secure in your standing. Other than that everything is subjective. Hobbies, interests, intelligence, gender roles, job, personality, cle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 01:56 PM
–	CMV: Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive men Yeah but I’m saying why women says confidence is sexy. I think there’s confusion about being ugly, unfit, and unkept with confidence and pulling girls but that’s not the case	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/24 01:45 PM
–	CMV: Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive men Idk I think confidence can be magic and turn a 4 to a 7. Confidence shows up in more ways than personality. Men take care of themselves more by dressing better, standing taller, doing a skin routine, working out more, etc. He will approach more women and flirt without seeming desperate so he also gets bonus cool points (obviously not every time). Confidence is so hot. Fake confidence wont get you far but I think true confidence can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/24 06:23 AM
–	Hypothesis on the Bear Situation. Choosing Bear is a statement, not a real life decision. I think it’s any man and because of the size and aggression difference plus a dash of experiencing this helplessness. It’s not political and it’s not about white men only. It’s about the fear of the worst torture imaginable	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 02:52 PM
–	Hypothesis on the Bear Situation. Choosing Bear is a statement, not a real life decision. Yeah the amount of men that are getting so emotional about the worst of their kind being feared more than a bear is… weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 02:34 PM
–	Hypothesis on the Bear Situation. Choosing Bear is a statement, not a real life decision. What does Palestine have to do with any of this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 02:31 PM
5	Why do people, especially women, have such a hard-time accepting that humans are also animals? The specific example op gave was men abandoning their kids. I hope you’re giving the example of attraction and not the act of dating barely legal women because you like the innocence and ease of their nature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 11:53 AM
32	Why do people, especially women, have such a hard-time accepting that humans are also animals? There’s being similar to other primates and there’s not taking responsibility for any of your actions because we’re technically just animals. Animals don’t live in capitalized environments separated from nature and act like they can’t control a singular aspect about themselves that conveniently allows them to ignore their responsibilities to the society they, otherwise, are glad to be in. If you want to forfeit your mental capacity to that of an animals, I better see the results in other areas b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 03:55 AM
1	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. You said a fight between a man and woman is a fair fight and women could easily kill a man with training.. which is not true.. Having the mental ability to avoid harming someone doesn’t negate the ability to harm	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 12:09 AM
1	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. Okay so she should choose the bear over you. Glad we agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 11:12 PM
1	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. If that’s what you want to hear then so be it. You’re not even trying to see the bear side because you’re so hung up on how it hurt your feelings	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 11:11 PM
1	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. That’s not true. You can’t just make claims that go against biology. Men are biologically different than women. How is that false in any way? In absolute terms of total force exerted--as in the tug-of-war example--men are stronger than women. Studies indicate that among a group of men and women, each weighing 140 pounds (to even the odds somewhat), the women's upper-body strength will be about half of what the men's is. The greater gender difference in upper body strength can probably be attribu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 11:10 PM
3	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. That’s entirely unbased and not true. I didn’t know my mentality was keeping me physically smaller, weaker, slower, and less aggressive than men. The fact that women HAVE to train and condition themselves just proves the point that we are not on equal grounds in a fight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 07:14 PM
3	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. How is that projected onto others? It’s a personal preference for her death and being cautious of strange men is an evolutionary advantage to keep us from dying far more often than we do. Fatal bear attacks happen a handful of times a year worldwide. How many women are killed by men a year? See the issue? Even if the odds to being mauled by bear were the same as being killed by man, to what extent will I suffer by each? The bear would hurt me, the man would hurt me, the bear would fatally wound …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 03:24 PM
4	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. Ok and those who are dealing with trauma from men are wrong for that experience changing their perceptions of the dangers men can be and the expectations for them? How is that not men’s fault for putting women in that situation? How is being so traumatized HER fault?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 03:15 PM
0	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. So I have weapons now?? It’s. Not. About. All. Men. It’s about the capabilities of bad men. Idk why you guys are so pressed about this issue. Read my other comment if you actually want to know why women feel this way. It’s not because we’re only around bad men and it’s not because of how we were raised. I was a military brat and went in myself as an adult, I am fitter than most people, I’ve trained martial arts, and I know how to use many different weapons. None of that matters. You pair me with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 03:05 PM
1	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. And again, not reading anything I said above but wanting to argue about a hypothetical scenario that’s based on personal preference and NOW we can’t debate feelings because you’re in yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 02:47 PM
3	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. So you default to someone else’s argument instead of even trying to learn the position of the person you’re arguing against? Yeahhh ima head out. This is the reason there’s a “gender war” about this. We’re telling you and you won’t listen because it hurts your feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 02:42 PM
-1	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. How likely is it that I’d defeat a random man I’m paired with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 02:39 PM
1	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. Again you’re saying it makes no sense but I just explained why most would rather die by bear attack than die by human attack. The reality is that it doesn’t matter if the guy is nonviolent. Do all men have survival training? We’d be on equal footing so cool, he can keep me company. If he was a bad man, women would rather encounter anything else. For the last time, it’s not about you. It’s about bad men and their capabilities. If you don’t want a woman’s opinion, use AIs directly “Both can be dan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 02:36 PM
-4	Everyone is safer with bears than they are with humans. It. Is. Not. A. Personal. Attack. On. Men. You are the one on a personal quest to be clever. Married women, single women, younger women, men with daughters are all having the same dilemma weighing the odds. Coming to the conclusion that we’d rather subject ourselves to a possibly fatal attack over dying by the hand of a man is not to be clever, it’s a personal preference. It should open your eyes to the fear women live with, being the physically smaller and weaker gender but you guys are the one…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 02:12 PM
2	Lets redo this bear vs man thing. "Ravenously hungry Polar bear with a history of killing people" VS "Jacked up 6 foot 6 350lbs Prisoner serving a life sentence for raping and murdering several women" Noo he called you ~juicy~ 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/24 09:23 PM
2	Lets redo this bear vs man thing. "Ravenously hungry Polar bear with a history of killing people" VS "Jacked up 6 foot 6 350lbs Prisoner serving a life sentence for raping and murdering several women" I think the polar bear would be preferable to being brutally raped and murdered BUT I assume that big ass dude can’t run more than 100m at a speed of anymore than 10 mph. Polar bears can run 25 mph and if I’m encountering one I assume it’ll be in an area with no trees so I’m going gigantic prisoner on this one. If he could somehow keep up with me, I’d choose the bear and just end it quickly. Can we add a third option self destruct?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/24 09:19 PM
–	Would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear? A thread about being in the place where bears just happen to be and encountering one vs a man who’s wandering around the woods by himself in the middle of the night.. If he happens to be bad, I will be tortured and killed. If the bear happens to be chasing me for whatever reason, I will die anyway but quicker. Bears aren’t safe but they’re not likely to SEEK you out and are easily deterred. You act like I’m saying I’d rather live with a bear than a man or that all men are as dangerous as a bear.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 01:35 AM
–	Would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear? Not even close to a femcel and don’t even participate in those discussions. I’m not saying all men are bad. I’m saying the reason so many women fear men, even when we are statistically less likely than ever to be harmed by one is because our mothers and grandmothers were and are now raising us to be cautious. Also bear attacks are VERY uncommon and can be avoided. Maybe you just don’t know much about bears and their behavior and that’s why you’re so afraid of them. Also the comparison between a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 12:02 AM
–	Would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear? I doubt it lol. I think they hear bear and assume I hate and/or am afraid of all men. I also could be choosing a bear because I live in an area where it’s common to camp with bears in the area and the most you bring with you is bear spray and flash lights to deter them. It could also be because I’m reading a book on how humans went from prey to predator and why we were so successful in our transition without predatory features like claws and teeth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 11:49 PM
–	Would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear? Love your flair I think that’s where women and men differ in the thought that either one could be a fair fight. Obviously a bear is WAY scarier than a normal man but as a small woman, I have to hide and pray I don’t die either way so I think I’d take my chances with something that will chase me out of it’s territory then leave me alone vs a very intelligent being that’s capable of planning, deceiving, manipulating, and controlling me to the extent of his power, which will always be more than min…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 11:05 PM
–	Would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear? It’s a really scary thought to be alone with some random ass man. The only stories you hear about a woman in the woods alone with a strange man are scary stories of men following, attacking, raping, and killing women there. It’s the same principle of never being alone with a woman in a closed space like an office because she can cause great harm to you by lying. Women are taught never to be in a dark area with strange men because they can cause great physical harm. You also have to consider that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 10:43 PM
2	The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is... Evidence for either claim??	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 03:24 AM
–	The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egos Yeah OP seems like the exact guy who would get a fake number. Creepy af thinking it’s them and not him	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 09:07 PM
16	The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egos And we are usually much smaller and weaker than men so we err on the side of caution because the outcome can be fatal for us. If this man is coming up to me on the street and fighting my ‘no’, it shows he doesn’t respect my answer and he’s comfortable making me uncomfortable. It’s not like every man that goes up to a woman gets an emphatic yes and a fake number. It’s the men who are already showing signs of a hurt ego, which like you said, are often more aggressive	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 08:14 PM
13	The way women test their Lover's love is so wrong For real. And even ND women have vastly different experiences and personalities. I’m also very trusting of people and it got me into A LOT of bad situations. I’ve never once tested my bf with fake scenarios but rather stood back and observed his actions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 05:38 PM
2	Has a Redpill concept ever protected or broken your heart in dating? Like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 04:12 PM
4	Has a Redpill concept ever protected or broken your heart in dating? It just shows that you are emotionally available and in tune with her, which is attractive, but that’s usually when you’re already dating or talking. It’s not that she doesn’t want to solve her problems. She most likely can solve what she’s upset about and she’s just using you to test if her logic makes sense. So when she says “you know what I mean?” Or “but I think…. Right?” She’s not asking you to solve it for her. She’s using your reactions to see if she’s out of line someone and will adjust …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 04:10 PM
16	Why should women take advice from people who loathe them? My personal opinion is that those women like the upper hand they have on other women because of what men and the church tell them. I used to be uber religious and fought with myself perception because my husband wasn’t cooperating no matter how many books I read about being the perfect wife. Everything I read was turned around on me being less than adequate so I tried harder and harder to fit the standards my church had. I naturally started looking down on other women for living so loosely and c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 02:33 PM
1	Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claim Why are you still responding stupid points that add nothing to the conversation? Tuck your pride, and consider you don’t know more about what women want than the women you’re hitting on at a bar. It’s ok and normal to be rejected, esp at a bar. I’ve rejected many very attractive men because I’m having a good time with my girls. I’m there for them, not for you. Idk how attractive you are.. I’m there to dance and have a good time. Also it’s absolutely hilarious to me that you think you’re not the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 02:01 PM
4	Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claim Right we’re only talking about one specific scenario where the friends intentions were bad and out of jealousy so you can have your point. The thing tho is that’s rare and it’s not the main reason women do this for each other but whatever you want to believe my guy. Continue to be rejected and think it’s someone else’s fault	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 02:53 AM
10	Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claim The presumption is that you think you know more about what she wants than she and her friends do. Who cares if you were hitting it off. She could just be nice or have a bf or just recently was broken up with. Just because a woman is nice and talkative doesn’t mean she wants to go home with you. Unless she’s shooing her friend away to stay with you, she was never interested in the first place. (Does not apply to drunk girls)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 11:23 PM
2	Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claim Patterns of behavior seen by your limited knowledge, experience, and views. You can’t tell someone else what shade of blue THEY see. Also, you’re assuming men are the only ones capable of seeing what’s going on but how does that even make sense if you think all women do is scheme? If they can read and manipulate people and the situation, they know exactly what’s going on and what to do. If all women do it, why is the ugly one the only one lying in this scenario? Or maybe the pretty one is lying …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 09:42 PM
11	Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claim She said she didn’t want to be hit on. A lot of dudes hit on pretty girls at the club. Literally dozens a night. Any guy that approaches will be pushed away. The ugly friend probably also doesn’t want to be hit on or she would get with the guy she got set up with. Maybe the ugly friend felt the dude was creepy. I assume all those guys are intending to treat her well and cherish her? She’s probably seen guys like you before hurt her friend. The reason the ugly friend is always the one to interven…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 09:21 PM
6	Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men? And that’s why there are safety parameters around driving and walking in a parking lot. There’s no safety parameters around men so we have to create our own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 04:13 PM
9	Do the plethora of choices in men when it comes to online dating and social media make it more difficult for you to commit to one man long-term? Same. Found my bf after like 40 dates with other dudes. He’s amazing and I dropped everyone just a couple days after he and I met.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 07:24 PM
2	It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide. I guess I’m just not understanding what you expected her to do besides be there for you emotionally and sexually satisfy you? If that’s all you wanted, did you expect her to not ask anything more of you? Or are you upset because they broke up with you for not doing more for them? I don’t think most men are leeches that use and exploit women, just a fraction really, but that there are ingrained stereotypes that women are expected to uphold while working in a man’s world. Two worlds coming togethe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 02:34 AM
6	It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide. How did you get the idea that women use men for their resources when you’ve dated many women that save every penny because they’ve been taken advantage of? Shitty women exist. It’s not BECAUSE they’re women, it’s because they’re shitty people that happen to use their feminine edge. Every demographic will have shitty people. Women get used sexually and manipulated into being modern day mommies to grown men that complain about paying for… his wife and children’s needs..? That’s not to say you have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 04:25 PM
9	It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide. Ok so I think this is a common issue that stems in the misunderstanding of women. I’m speaking about women I know and women I’ve heard about but usually, it’s not about the gift or price tag. It’s about showing her you care and are LISTENING. Women are known to do more home chores so she is taking on more of the “us” chores while you only do “your” chores. She’s using her energy for you, her, the house, the pets, the kids. She’s statistically, most likely, doing them before or after work, all fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 04:14 PM
4	"You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse." That’s a really good point. I don’t know many women who didn’t have a side hustle of some sort	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 09:54 PM
121	"You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse." I’m convinced a lot of men haven’t actually talked to their grandmas about this. Just because their grandpas were happy with the relationship doesn’t mean it was the ideal dynamic. I mean who really wouldn’t want a person to deep clean your house every week, do all your laundry, raise the kids, handle all household admin duties, iron and lay out your work clothes, have breakfast/dinner cooking when you get up/come home, and send you to work with a home cooked meal? And all you had to do was work…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 02:10 PM
–	One of the biggest eye openers of Tinder is seeing how rapidly women age There’s so many sources that explain the basic anatomy and biology of the lifetime of boobs. Look literally any form of your question up on google and you will be met with every level of detail you wish to read/watch/listen to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 04:58 PM