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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Is TRP suppose to work like this?		throwaway0987666	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 03:39 PM

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1	Is TRP suppose to work like this? Interesting to have you call it "mental abuse", I referred to it as "emotional abuse" in another reply, and someone gave me a hard time for calling it that.	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 08:46 PM
1	Is TRP suppose to work like this? I guess part of this issue is that I am not able to have children, so I do not think about that (never considered adopting) just figured I will never have children. So I do not view marriage as important as other people might since there is no potential for children to be involved. I do need to determine some long term goals for myself since I am not apparently not doing the whole married with children thing. I used to think that my fiancee was the person I'd be happy with for the rest of my lif…	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 08:22 PM
1	Is TRP suppose to work like this? I guess I was just raised and taught to never give up on something and to always try to make everything work out. I know it has become a shitty situation, but there has not been anything like cheating, lying, physical abuse that would be a solid "this is not going to work" or a "this is no longer fixable", so I have never really thought of leaving as an option. I guess I am just really used to putting my wants and needs aside to take care of others that I never realized what I was doing to mysel…	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 08:17 PM
1	Is TRP suppose to work like this? I've always found these kinds of scales troublesome just because of different perspectives, tastes, and valuing certain features as attractive over others. I think he is a handsome man, a bit overweight but I have always liked bigger men. I'm very short, and curvy but not overweight at all. If you are trying to determine who is more attractive he will even say that I am. Instead of 1-10, I will say if I am at a bar I will get hit on, he generally does not, but if he does it is not by anyone I wo…	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 08:07 PM
2	Is TRP suppose to work like this? If I try to talk to him about something he is doing that is mean or that I don't like he tells me I'm hamstering and that he does not care about my opinion because he does not agree with it. He tells me because TRP made him realize he is an alpha that he no longer has to deal with me questioning him. Tells me if I don't want to put up with him I can go find a beta. Tells me I am not a unique snowflake. (Trying to avoid specifics since he reads TRP, and I really would prefer to not have a huge fi…	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 06:55 PM
1	Is TRP suppose to work like this? A tiny amount, but everyone always used to tell me I was too skinny and unhealthy looking. He always compliments my appearance, (I am always done up nice), sometimes he even tells me it would be nicer to see me less done up. When he is not jerking off or watching porn as often he has a much higher sex drive, it just seems that he picks that even if I just tried to have sex with him, he says they are two different things and he can be in the mood for jerking off and not in the mood for sex. And h…	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 06:47 PM
1	Is TRP suppose to work like this? 28	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 06:33 PM
1	Is TRP suppose to work like this? Tried this. And he is only ok with being touched when he is ready for it, I have to wait for him to give me the green light to touch his stuff otherwise I get yelled at being too touchy feely and fondling him. But how else am I suppose to get it started if im not allowed to use words or touching?	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 06:06 PM
1	Is TRP suppose to work like this? No confirmed date. In fact he always talks about how he is just fine with being where we are at, and that there really is no need to actually get married because he said he is too afraid of loosing half his shit if we got divorced. (probably should note that I do not even have a ring and most the time he just calls me his girlfriend even though he did propose to me at a time when we did not have a lot of money which is why i never got a ring, but I am not materialistic and generally do not care …	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 06:03 PM
1	Is TRP suppose to work like this? He hates his job. We have more than enough money between our two incomes, I pay all the house bills, etc. Whats the best way to go about having sex with him then? I've tried talks, if I bring it up anymore he just freaks and will not have a conversation with me.	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 04:56 PM
1	Is TRP suppose to work like this? Most sterotypical answer ever, he did not used to be like this. It has become much worse here recently (why I am posting) and since he was not like this and has become this way, am I stupid to think he has the possibility of changing back to how he was before this? He never used to be this lazy, this has just been slowly getting worse and building.	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 04:55 PM
1	Is TRP suppose to work like this? Did you spend 30-45 seconds reading anything on The Red Pill before asking whether your fiancee's behavior is what TRP is "suppose" to be? Yes I did. But since he is always putting me down and quoting TRP, I wanted to make sure that I was not misunderstanding because it seemed to me like he had it all backwards. I needed to hear someone else tell me that I am not getting this wrong. I really take offense to how easily women throw around the "abusive" label. If being a jackass and arguing with yo…	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 04:52 PM
1	Is TRP suppose to work like this? I know I can do better, but I have always felt so guilty about it that I have stayed with him. Everyone always says how they do not believe him when he tells people i'm his fiancee. They think he is joking. I even make more money than he does! Leaving sounds so much easier than it is in real life.	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 04:20 PM
2	Is TRP suppose to work like this? I have always felt like I was the guy in this relationship, I always want sex but he never wants it, he likes to jerk off and look at porn instead.	/r/askTRP	01/07/14 04:08 PM