throwaway1084567 Archive

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1	According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships? What do you mean by "things are going to work out?" Some guys' idea of things working out is a roof over their head and food on their plate and free time to do as they please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/19 05:10 PM
1	Maybe some men just weren't meant for hookup culture I have no idea if he’s happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/19 12:21 AM
1	Study finds facially unattractive adolescents lose social popularity when they act aggressively, but facially attractive ones do not lose popularity when they do it Lifting made you ugly? I actually found people started treating me better once I started lifting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 09:53 PM
1	Maybe some men just weren't meant for hookup culture IDK, I used to date a completely filthy slut, and now she's married to kind of a simp and has kids, and something about the thought does sort of depress me, although I can't put my finger on it. Just the idea of the way this poor guy must think of his wife vs how she behaved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 09:47 PM
5	Maybe some men just weren't meant for hookup culture " Girls who want to sleep around literally avoid church guys, nerds , guys who are too clean cut .....not because they aren't attractive .....but because they might look down on them/ think less of them. " I question this premise, and given that you have a male name handle I doubt it comes from anything other than speculation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 09:44 PM
1	According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships? I'm confused as to why you equate not caring about money with spending all day smoking weed and playing video games. Correlation maybe, but I know a lot of guys who just have other pursuits that are interesting to them that don't happen to involve making money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 08:41 PM
1	According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships? Honestly what is my money for other than taking care of my family? Do I need a mercedes when a honda gets me there? Do I need to preen around on a beach in fiji when I like the local ones just fine? Do I need to join a country club when I hate golf and would rather just hike a public trail? Do I give a shit about designer clothing? After a certain level of material comfort and financial security, all that shit is totally meaningless to me. I don't even care that much about traveling abroad when …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 08:39 PM
2	The N-Count and Pairbond debate IDK the science behind the "pair bonding" thing if any. But putting that aside, my concern is not that women with high n-count "can't" bond, it's more a question of how fickle they will be. Like, in your case, my question wouldn't be whether she really loves you, it's just what is her attitude going to be when the initial lovey dovey feeling inevitably wears off? Will she stand by you because she believes in commitment or look for an excuse to upgrade? I think it's more likely that high n-counts…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 06:57 PM
1	Purple Pillers, why are you in the middle instead of Blue or Red? I'm increasingly red-leaning, whereas I used to be very blue-leaning, but redpill as an absolute lens through which to view everything (1) just doesn't ring true for me (2) seems to justify a lot of shitty behavior (3) is excessively full of jargon (4) is too reductive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 06:49 PM
1	Purple Pillers, why are you in the middle instead of Blue or Red? I'm increasingly red-leaning, whereas I used to be very blue-leaning, but redpill as an absolute lens through which to view everything (1) just doesn't ring true for me (2) seems to justify a lot of shitty behavior (3) is excessively full of jargon (4) is too reductive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 06:49 PM
7	Explain the rise of the manosphere philosphy Society has evolved in a way that eliminates most of the advantages of being male while elevating the advantages of being female. I can't say for certain whether these changes are absolute or just relative, but either way they have happened very quickly, leaving men bewildered. E.g. there were once a lot more jobs for ordinary guys who could do physical labor -- no college degree needed, no need to sit down and focus on a screen ten hours a day, no need for excessive detail orientation and organ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 06:47 PM
1	Explain the rise of the manosphere philosphy Weird that this is the top comment, as it explains nothing. The fact that internet and discussion groups exist does not explain why their content is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 06:41 PM
2	According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships? If you're that cold, calculating and cynical then tbh you will probably be ok. A lot of women have inflated romantic ideas about things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 06:38 PM
0	According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships? It's not necessarily "hard," it's just that after a certain point your options will get less and less attractive by the year the longer you wait. I can't tell you how many women I have watched marry substantially less appealing versions of the guys they used to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 03:49 PM
6	According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships? You're talking about the absolute elites of society, maybe the top .001% of people. It's not that meaningful if you want to talk about where overall demographic trends are going. Not that I think that redpill pseudo-sociology is correct, necessarily, but the OP is really more about women of a more average white-collar kind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 03:42 PM
3	According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships? lol this is my former boss exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 03:37 PM
8	According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships? As a man in a white collar job (lawyer), I find that women are much better suited for many of the organizational and detail-oriented aspects of the job, and some of the absolute best people I work with are women. At the same time, it's still the men who seem to have the icewater-in-the-veins ability to make tough decisions, cut through the crap, play hardball in negotiations, take big risks, etc. Many of the women I've worked with fall apart from anxiety, overthink things, are overly deferential…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 03:37 PM
1	According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships? Boyfriend =/= husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 03:31 PM
1	"What happened to 'happy wife happy life'?" Has to be a shitpost.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/07/19 03:07 AM
5	Her last relationship probably ended because that she wanted to focus on her career and become a partner in her lawfirm. Now she is 43 and wants to settle down. devastating	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/07/19 02:53 AM
1	36 Year old single mum now ready to ‘settle down’. It’s ok thought cause she’s ‘easily pleased’ by ‘nice cars, nice hotels, nice holidays and shopping’. This was the thing that stuck out to me -- you're getting two for the price of one!	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/07/19 02:49 AM
6	What measures do you take to prevent the idea of cheating from becoming a reality? Make sure not to insert my dick into orifices not belonging to my wife. Jesus, what's hard about that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/19 10:52 PM
3	Wife wants an open relationship, stuck in marriage and living in the same house. IMO, play along with it until you get the green card. Agree to it ostensibly but emotionally divorce her in your mind.	/r/askTRP	19/07/19 02:31 PM
1	Have you ever – in real life – witnessed a relationship that was turned into an "open relationship" and worked out for the couple? I know all relationships eventually end, but I have to say that so far in my married life all the scare stories about how common divorce is just haven’t born out. I barely know anyone divorced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/19 01:54 AM
1	CMV: The Woman A Lot Of Men They Claim To Desire Here Is Most Likely Very Clingy Ah yes, it’s “eight year old boy needs” to want love and loyalty. I’ll bet you’re a great catch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/19 04:05 PM
3	What happens if you focus on your own mission and stop chasing women, but women still don't come to you? I mean, you still need to put yourself in situations where you interact with women and then go interact with them, they're not just going to show up at your doorstep. I think the point is that if you focus on self-improvement and self-fulfillment, you will present better to women when you do interact with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/19 03:27 AM
1	Sleeping with 500 men is feminist, not slutty. I guess I don't understand what she means by "doesn't make me a slut." That is the literal definition of a slut. What makes someone a slut if not that? Now maybe she's saying "there's nothing wrong with being a slut." And in some sense, there isn't. You can live your life any way you want and it doesn't make you less of a human being. But it also might make me not want to date you, and no blog post will convince me otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 08:19 PM
1	Sleeping with 500 men is feminist, not slutty. I've met guys who sleep around a bit, but if a friend was racking up hundreds of partners I'd probably think they were either a narcissist or trying to run away from some internal problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 08:17 PM
3	CMV: The Woman A Lot Of Men They Claim To Desire Here Is Most Likely Very Clingy Who's "she"? I said above that I'd prefer someone tilted to the clingy side vs the free-spirited side. But "clingy" inherently implies to an unhealthy degree, and some people are just more attachment-oriented without being clingy. EDIT: tbf I guess you say "a bit" clingy, so I think we basically agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 08:14 PM
3	CMV: The Woman A Lot Of Men They Claim To Desire Here Is Most Likely Very Clingy Believe it or not there might be women who fall somewhere within the space between this extreme and having slept with dozens of guys a year for 10 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 07:56 PM
3	CMV: The Woman A Lot Of Men They Claim To Desire Here Is Most Likely Very Clingy FWIW, I don't accept your premise at all. You're basically implying that a woman either has lots of sexual partners or else she must be insecure and stalkerish. That's absurd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 07:54 PM
3	CMV: The Woman A Lot Of Men They Claim To Desire Here Is Most Likely Very Clingy I'd take clingy over the jadedness/wanderlust that seems to come from having a fifteen-year "hoe phase"	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 07:53 PM
1	Q4BP: Do you expect TRP men to shoot themselves in the foot? Settle down buddy, I'm really not trying to take shots at you. I don't know what you personally do, I was using "you" in the general sense. Replace it with "one" if it makes you feel beter. I don't know if lying gives you an advantage. Maybe some women have good lie detectors and don't fall for it while others do. These kinds of blanket statements about human behavior that present themselves as a priori deductions are not very useful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 07:50 PM
1	Have you ever – in real life – witnessed a relationship that was turned into an "open relationship" and worked out for the couple? Ok here's the survey evidence I remembered: https://www.bustle.com/articles/109606-women-are-twice-as-likely-as-men-to-suggest-open-relationship-new-survey-finds-plus-3 "The interesting thing is that in a recent survey of their members they found that more women want an open relationship than men. In two-thirds of relationships, it was the woman who suggested opening up the relationship. "	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 07:40 PM
1	Have you ever – in real life – witnessed a relationship that was turned into an "open relationship" and worked out for the couple? https://jezebel.com/are-women-more-into-polyamory-than-men-1795171754 "One of the interesting things Dominus began to note in her interviews was that the majority of the heterosexual couples opened up their relationships at the instigation of the women, including Daniel and Elizabeth. Of the 25 couples, only 6 of them were opened up at the man’s suggestion, and even in cases where it was mutual, the woman were generally more sexually active outside the relationship."	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 07:39 PM
1	Have you ever – in real life – witnessed a relationship that was turned into an "open relationship" and worked out for the couple? I don't think all the couples she interviewed stayed together, but i'd have to go back and find it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 07:37 PM
1	Q4BP: Do you expect TRP men to shoot themselves in the foot? IDG why you need to actively lie to hook up with someone. Most people don't know for sure in advance whether they will want a relationship with someone they are hooking up with, just get out there and date people. Also, there are all kinds of things you could hypothetically do to increase your chances of sex. At the extreme end, for example, you could drug someone or rape them at gunpoint. But don't you want to be able to look yourself in the mirror and feel ok about the kind of person you are? …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 07:36 PM
1	Q4BP: Do you expect TRP men to shoot themselves in the foot? This is a little hard to respond to because it's so vague that I'm not sure what's being talked about ("manipulation" is not further explained, for example). But assuming we're talking about "creating dread" meaning using PUA type tactics to create insecurity in a partner, I'm going to give a similar response to the one I give to a lot (though not all) "PUA" advice: If your goal is just to "get laid" or to "get a girlfriend," well there are a lot of women out there, and PUA tactics will work on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 07:31 PM
3	Have you ever – in real life – witnessed a relationship that was turned into an "open relationship" and worked out for the couple? When the NY Times ran a big magazine piece on open marriages, the author blogged that in the vast majority of the couples she interviewed the woman had initiated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 07:19 PM
4	Have you ever – in real life – witnessed a relationship that was turned into an "open relationship" and worked out for the couple? I've never seen a really good study on this, but I've definitely seen semi-informal studies showing it's like 2-1 women wanting to open it vs men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 02:48 PM
2	Sexually liberated women will make bad wives I think there is something to a lot of what you say. I also think our society promotes the illusion of endless choice and the lack of limits. Women get restless in their marriage because they got used to having new men every time they got a little dissatisfied or bored. The opposite extreme isn’t good either — a woman who never learns what she wants or enjoys and then spends marriage quietly depressed and not even knowing or understanding why. But we have gone too far in the direction of needing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/19 01:44 PM
3	Are swinging/open relationships/group sex bad ideas? First of all, each things you named is different. I agree with the poster who said you should do what you enjoy. However, every straight man should be aware of how open relationships stack the odds against them and in favor of women. So you have to be extra-enthusiastic about the idea and willing to put up with that disparity, or else you're just going to wind up home a lot of nights tweedling your knob while she's out banging other dudes.	/r/askTRP	23/05/19 05:23 PM
6	Are men conditioned by women and society to be slaves? There is something to this, but I also observe plenty of women who get the short end of the stick in relationships and are more the “slave” than the man, eg earn the higher salary and still do more at home. That said, I have heard these women express how they wish they could just be home with the kids and have a male provider whereas I have never heard a man express equivalent feelings. I’d sometimes very much like to be doing something else than working hard for my high salary, but I’m so cultu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/19 01:24 AM
1	CMV: Modern marriage removes the ability for men to "cut and run" while preserving the ability for women to do so. In my state there is no full alimony. Spousal support payments continue until the divorce is final and depend on the length of the marriage, who earned more, and other factors. They can continue in some cases after the divorce but I think that's increasingly rare, and if the wife earned more she'd be paying the husband. I thought that more states had become like this today but I don't really know the law in each state. I think alimony is not as common as you think anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/19 02:49 PM
1	Under what conditions would you be in a non monogamous relationship? How can a guy know if he can win a sperm competition? I don't think strongest sperm is necessarily correlated with biggest/strongest/handsomest man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/19 01:42 AM
43	"I rode that good ol' cock carousel for a while, & now that I found a sucker to trap, he wouldn't let me. Feel bad for me everyone!" -translated from the original Humans of New York post (by me). GYOW. "It's frustrating, after traveling, camping and working temp jobs for fifteen years I finally decided to settle down and become an investment banker making $200k. But Goldman Sachs won't hire me!"	/r/MGTOW	04/12/18 04:26 PM
1	Comments will give you cancer. Yeah, that was me. I lurk in those forums try to reason guys like OP against getting suckered. Didn’t expect it to be top comment, figured I’d get downvoted.	/r/MGTOW	04/12/18 04:01 PM
1	Comments will give you cancer. No joke I was about to post the same thing and then I was like “nah, I’m not going to shit on this sad character.” But I guess he would have liked it!	/r/MGTOW	04/12/18 03:57 PM