| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 237 | Beginner Sticking Points – Where Most Rookies Get Stuck [RSD Nation] | throwaway1234xxx | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 01:18 AM | |
| 13 | Simple Pickup [first] Uncut Footage | throwaway1234xxx | /r/seduction | 15/02/12 08:34 PM | |
| 2 | [FR] Did I do the right thing? Or am I taking the abundance mentality the wrong way? | throwaway1234xxx | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 06:30 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | The 10 Best Pick Up Artists of 2014Seems pretty incomplete or biased? Julien Blanc and Alex of RSD are fucking awesome too! | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 06:43 AM |
| 63 | The best opener I've ever heardMeanwhile I'm living with 4 girls in a shared house and have been on a dry spell since December of last year. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 04:57 AM |
| 1 | I'm a 22-year old virgin (m) and I've been asking myself his a lot lately...^ read later | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 11:07 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Field Report: Coffee shop daytime approach parlayed into insta-dateMore please. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 03:22 AM |
| 1 | How would an alpha confront the guy your girl cheated on you with? Advice from Seddit?He would dump the girlfriend and focus on living a good life. Plenty of fish in the sea, and no reason to get stressed or upset over something you had no control over (namely your girlfriend's actions). | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 07:51 PM |
| 3 | For newbies, here's how strip clubs can help youCan you elaborate more (anecdotes)? Or did you just follow the general guidelines in the OP. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 04:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seducing an Alpha Turkish girl.Too much texting? Push for more in person meets.... I just graduated (22) and your life sounds somewhat like the trajectory I want to take. Do you actually DJ and own a software company? If so, how old are you? | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Sorority Formal; Great Date but no contact or text! Help!thats how sorority dates work. she can get all she wants elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Female here. I'm looking for advice from the gentlemen of seddit. Rejection advice?Make okcupid work for you.....don't get hung up on some random dude. Abundance Mentality. Take initiative on okcupid and message guys that you'd be interested in talking to. Read the approach section on this post and go from there. Be the chooser. Go for guys that want a relationship....so don't put out till like the second or third date. Being a girl gives you immense advantage on okcupid in terms of pickiness so make it work for you. For generic stuff like this, read the side bar. Get your okc… | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone have any field reports on the success of the cube routine?It doesn't take much confidence to pull off. I usually do it with girls I have known for more than a few minutes and who i've already kinoed a little....so while cubing I kino them well and good on thighs, and hold hands and draw stuff with my fingers on them...you get the point...more often than not it always increases attraction even if the girls don't buy into what you are saying because sometimes I encounter girls that don't want to be easy to read. | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 09:13 PM |
| 2 | How do you utilize your pivots?STR? Nothing really changes much. I've been trying to follow the following pattern regardless of who I am out with. Assume Attraction Escalate Bounce & Bounce You could try having her introduce you to girls..."Have you met Ted?" Also I am not sure how guys giving you freeshit or having you tag along for 420 is helpful unless they are with girls that you are interested in her. Alpha is not about your perception of what other guys might think of you, it's what you are so that it comes across genui… | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 09:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] skee ball, cupcakes, f-close.Kudos man. | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 09:01 PM |
| 3 | [FR] How to initiate sex with a guy and get what you want (F-close)!I thought you wanted more from this? ...so just an fclose then? | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 08:58 PM |
| 1 | RSD Free Tour video on success - Failure is the fucking default if you don't take action!Amen brother! | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 07:15 PM |
| 3 | What now?It's all in the sidebar -> Text her: "Hey ice cream, thursday @6:00pm" and then lead her from there wherever you want it to go. She already likes you, don't be a pussy. Assume Attraction Escalate The thing with college girls is that you more often than not need to lead them more. So hold her hand, and pull her into you randomly on your day2 and kiss her. Then talk as if it was normal and do it again when she's not expecting it. Be funny and vague and don't give detailed answer to her shit tests.… | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Best way to spin this into something positive?: Girl I'm into found out about me hooking up with some one elsemeans a yes in this case. | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 10:35 PM |
| 8 | How do you initiate sex with a guy?Play the "Questions Game" and make Q8. "What would you do if I kissed you right now?" You need to keep solid eye contact & do the triangular gaze stuff where you look at his lips and eyes; you also need to be getting closer to his face. Wear sexy clothing. EDIT: or the question can be "do you want to kiss me..." while licking your lips subtly. | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 10:21 PM |
| 1 | How pick-up got me off meds and out of therapyYou could just upload the different files? or just convert it to pdf. A service like http://letscrate.com/ that lets you upload stuff without signing in would work best & you could just share the link. Also did you ever tell your SO all/some of the above? If so, what was her reaction? | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 02:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] This weekend was the epitome of self-amusement and reality destroying with my precious Phooterella.Now all I need is to find my balls. BRB | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 01:36 PM |
| 2 | How pick-up got me off meds and out of therapyKudos man. Care to share your OneNote Document? | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 03:27 AM |
| 8 | I'm not sure what to do anymore :/Stop playing safe and be exciting. Get your mind off of girls for a while and do stuff for your own pleasure. learn how to fly a plane boxing / martial arts / some other stupid stuff. get scuba certified get your skydiving license take salsa lessons (i am one ugly mofo and i still pull at salsa clubs) go join yoga classes. get into meditation. {google vipsanna and take their free 10 day course over summer} FIX YOUR INNER GAME IF YOU FEEL HOLLOW & SHALLOW & EMPTY you need to love yourself foremos… | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 01:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] BJ-Close after being ForeverAlone for 5+ years. If I did it, you can too.well regardless "you are a creep" doesn't do anything to alleviate the OP's problem. some constructive criticism would have been nice(r). | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 08:59 PM |
| 2 | [FR] BJ-Close after being ForeverAlone for 5+ years. If I did it, you can too.dude you don't have to explain yourself to everyone that is calling you out. besides, the iamagiraffe dude is probably a troll. this subreddit is lurked by pretty trolly people, so if you know you didn't do anything wrong, just chill and DGAF | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 01:15 PM |
| 2 | My thank you seddit rantOnce you taste a little bit of success, after years of AFCness, this quote really hits home while introspecting (anecdotal); you need to acknowledge what it's saying to get better from that point on. Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Yo… | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl at a bar last night, AWKWARD ensues, Captured her number. [LONG POST]don't buy the drinks (there are exceptions of course) read the threading article for threading conversations eye contact...don't be afraid of the silence. eye contact & smile avoid/never acknowledge the awkwardness. it makes it more awkward. approaching is good. read the sidebar. you don't have the basics down. | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Limitations of a Pick Up Bootcampok sure man PM me the link to download Models? | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Limitations of a Pick Up BootcampAnd what exactly is your affiliation with Mark, if you are not Mark's pseudonym already. Your entire submission history is postmasculine stuff. and you are such a fanboy that you were out promoting his book on /r/malefashionadvice ? Another POV: If I claim to have been impregnated by Justin Bieber, who gains from it? | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Limitations of a Pick Up BootcampI have no affiliation with RSD other than that I have torrented their stuff (Blueprint Decoded & The Jeffy Show). I enjoyed Mark's AMA here; however in general he seems to be really negative/disdainful of RSD [1]. He is probably more knowledgeable about pickup and stuff, so I am not sure why he is such a dick to a peer competitor. [1] http://www.practicalpickup.com/forum/showthread.php?tid=235 | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 01:09 AM |
| 1 | good adult dating sites for sexSpam with referral links. Please downvote! | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 05:17 PM |
| 1 | "The Game - the movie" (based off Neil Strauss's book) now has an empty Imdb page. Question is, how far will this go and how will it impact the PUA community?in "3)" when you say reach for the back/side of the neck, you mean with your hand correct? I usually use one hand to sort of brush her/their hair back, and pull them closer. But I've only kissed like 10-15 girls in my lifetime. | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 01:50 AM |
| 2 | "The Game - the movie" (based off Neil Strauss's book) now has an empty Imdb page. Question is, how far will this go and how will it impact the PUA community?Can you elaborate/write down the Kiss Gambit? | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 04:29 PM |
| 42 | [FR] Umm. Holy Fuck. F-close?Maybe she was psycho....maybe that's her routine...good you got out. Also, maybe the dirty talk that made her react that way. Usually with SNLs I think the words you use matter. Calling a girl you just met your "little bitch" or some other similar terms can be a turn on later into a relationship if she's more secure around you. Maybe that's where you fucked up, but regardless I think you just ran into crazy. | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 02:33 PM |
| 5 | Noob To Bar Scene : How an Introvert's First Night At The Bar WentYea man I am a huge introvert....and I sometimes dread going out to dance socials, etc (+ i am a beginner dancer), but after I convince myself to go, and force my self to get some momentum (the first few girls I dance /talk with), I am the most savvy guy there, with the exception of guys who dance really well. But yea going out is a lot like going to the gym. Sometimes you do not want to go, but after the first 15 or so minutes of your workout, you are ready to tackle your entire workout. | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 02:25 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Don't fucking overtext.In retrospect, I was coming across as needy, besides she was really closer to a 8.5 and if she lost like 10 pounds, she'd be a 9.5 so her phone was constantly exploding with texts as it is. Also learnt that sarcasm doesn't translate well over text (in that case atleast it didn't). This was all before I had read the text game from the sidebar. Her last text to me: "....you were charming, sane, decent and even funny but now this..blah..blah..please stop contacting me. thanks" Needless to say I did… | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 11:09 PM |
| 7 | PSA: Don't fucking overtext.I once ruined a perfect HB7.7 that I could have seen myself in a LTR with down the line by over texting. Still the biggest regret of the year, but I've done better since to try and forget. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 04:18 PM |
| 3 | "You're such a dick" Response"I try" with a smirk is also a good one. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 11:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] TofuTofu & TheEngDude pick up two 20 year olds in Pizzeria -> f-closed 'em both like bossesKudos. When are you doing an AMA TofuTofu? | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 09:01 PM |
| 1 | After text anxiety, anyone else experience this? Need help overcoming it, asap.dude i have the shittiest phone, so i hate texting for that too. yea i used to read my old texts too many times and try to analyze and find meaning in what was said and think for a long time about what i wanted to reply back. really "don't text too much" & "don't sound needy" rules are actually worth following if you are trying to set up dates. relationships maybe a different ballgame. focus on a./ and b./ timing is not that relevant in the grand scheme of things if you are using the textphone g… | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 08:53 PM |
| 6 | After text anxiety, anyone else experience this? Need help overcoming it, asap.The magic to texting is to text a small message to set up IRL meeting and stop texting once the meeting is set (except to reconfirm the day of or the day before). And make your texts sound not needy. I had a huge problem with texts too. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 06:39 PM |
| 1 | After text anxiety, anyone else experience this? Need help overcoming it, asap.Just yesterday I had a girl cancel on our date tonight, and wanted to reschedule for yesterday night. I had kinoed hard and developed a deep connection with her last week when I first met her and was expecting our date to lead to a F-close and I already had plans for yesterday night so I texted her: hey no worries. i have plans tonight. i'll text you later. she texted me a long apology after that. & this morning she texted me back about how she moved mountains so that she could hang out with me.… | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 06:30 PM |
| 2 | [txt] kept it short after blind date..... thoughts? [x-post from r/texttranscripts]your texts are too long man. fuck that shit. use text only to set up irl meets and if not, don't write essays for texts explaining every bit of what you think. its unattractive. read the text phone game ---> let this idle for a week or so, and then text her for a date or hangout. your third text should have been just to set up another meet. otherwise the whole texts are cute is over the top. | /r/seduction | 24/02/12 03:27 AM |
| 1 | A Short Beginners' Guide to Seduction (Probably all you need to get started!)Fluff piece really. Not enough meat to justify such a long read especially since it seems like the OP is trying to get a few sales for his books. If you are new, the sidebar has more comprehensive information. click there -------------> TL:DR Fix what you can fix (body language, voice, clothes, physique) Experience is the best teacher so go out and approach (find your style) Read sex guides once you start getting laid Other trivial stuff like buy the purple durex condoms. | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 03:53 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Did I do the right thing? Or am I taking the abundance mentality the wrong way?Definitely learnt the lesson the hard way. I didn't want to screw up by having mediocre phone sex to screw up the real thing, but I fucked that up too. Thanks for the encouraging words though, cause I really felt bad about my own stupidity. | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 01:10 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Did I do the right thing? Or am I taking the abundance mentality the wrong way?No I do not work. Also thanks a lot for the response. Advice noted for the future. | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 01:06 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Did I do the right thing? Or am I taking the abundance mentality the wrong way?In hindsight I realize I was an asshole. I did have the time set aside and I used that time for writing this FR and lamenting at how I handled the situation. So in hindsight there was no real upside in telling her off. However what about her respecting my time? Should I completely overlook that aspect? | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 09:17 PM |
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