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| 38 | One thing you you should understand | Fundamentals | throwaway1236373 | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 06:16 PM |
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| 2 | Let the success go to your headYeah I agree. The most important mindset to have is understanding failure will occur and all you have to do is accept it there and move on. Failures not out to hurt you but simply is a means for you to improve at that skill set. Also with your point about understanding it’s part of the process, I would say it’s also preparing your body emotionally to deal with rejection. As much as your mind is in control of interaction just is your emotional awareness/intelligence and hormones. You need to expo… | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 01:23 AM |
| 11 | Let the success go to your headI like the post but at the same time if you don’t have a core confidence and you start letting external things impact your mindset then it will become easier to get In a negative mindset from failure. Failure will happen at some point and if you let external positives affect you then what’s to say external negatives won’t affect you | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Should I text her this?Go for it dude! Wish you all the best just gotta wait till the date | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Should I text her this?I wouldn’t text that. To me it just comes across weird. If you wanna show you’re interested just be direct and ask her on a date and flirt with her. “Wanna hang out and do xzy and get know eachother?” | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Im one step away from the final and I'm too scared.Just slap yourself into the mentality that you’ve fucked loads of girls and be confident. Ask her what she’s into etc and just have a good time | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Advice on picking up girls on outdoor activitiesYou’re playing too much into the idea of not putting a woman on a pedestal. As long as the whole interaction isn’t it’s all good. | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 11:00 AM |
| 29 | Do you ever lose the social skills that you've gained?I’d say I have since quarantine but my theory is it’s similar to muscle memory and when you start being more social again it’ll just click and you’ll become your better self quite quickly | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 02:52 AM |
| 0 | Advice on picking up girls on outdoor activitiesDo the intro then say if I do a cool trick you give me your number ok? Deal? Shake on it etc. This is purely from YouTube videos so whether it works or not would be cool to find out. | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Am I all good??What exactly do you think different to dating and being friends then progressing into a relationship? I don’t understand why you’d rather go into a friendship platonic then romantic. Unless you’re just referring to not liking hooking up then relationship | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 12:23 AM |
| 4 | 28 year old guy who has not been nor done anything with a girl. About to give up, if I haven't already.First of happy birthday dude! DM me and I’m sure we can have a productive convo | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Hold your frameYeah dude I understand that aspect of finding what you do well and keeping to it but my point stands that if you don’t know how to throw a ball it’s totally acceptable for someone to teach you the better more correct way. Self-loathing is the hatred of oneself. So no understanding you have been socially conditioned to be one way and deciding you wanna be the better way to improve your life (not just getting laid) is not self-loathing. Personally, I agree that you are recognising bad things about… | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | General Sense of Frustration and Approach anxietyGood luck brother. You seem like the type of guy to follow through with his word. Keep me updated how things go! | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | General Sense of Frustration and Approach anxietyI’m in a similar scenario when it comes to anxiety but less so for approaching. I would recommend thinking to yourself “3,2,1 go” no matter what you start walking and keep walking to the person. Also, remember your intent and your goal. Define to yourself your goal, whether it be getting her number or just talking to improve social skills. Then when you’re about to approach you can think to yourself “I’m not going to worry about approaching instead I’m gonna count down to 1 then approach her, tr… | /r/seduction | 20/05/20 02:06 PM |
| 1 | General Sense of Frustration and Approach anxietyDude it seems you’ve already got your answer. You clearly wanna give it a shot again so I would do it! If you wanna maximise results you could start cold approaching but stick with online dating too. Then you ensure your texting skills stay at a decent standard for when you get numbers. Good luck bro | /r/seduction | 20/05/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Hold your frameNot sure why you brought up “getting” or “girls” all I said was your advice is practically useless and implies we should all just be ourselves even if we were socially conditioned to be the worst version of ourselves. You seem to be attacking this as if I’m saying you shouldn’t be unique and authentic. What I am saying is changing something such as your ability to hold frame is improving a skill and as such doesn’t mean you’re inauthentic or not genuine. When you understand that a behavioural sk… | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Hold your frameOk I’ll check it out cheers lad. | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Hold your frameNo one has a set frame that you get when you’re born, you get your frame from social conditioning and the way you’re brought up. Therefore there’s no frame you should stick to. Your advice is on the same level as “Just be yourself and you’ll get girls”. | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Hold your frameAlright gotcha bro. Do you recommend any videos of his in particular? | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Hold your frameYeah I’ll have to check him out. I learnt from how to be a 3% man but you never know I may learn something new about this skill. | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 01:23 AM |
| 2 | How to go about asking someone to hookup over text?Make the convo more sexual. It’ll be obvious if she’s down especially if she’s playing into it. I wouldn’t recommend being too direct as in “wanna fuck” most girls prefer to be indirectly down to fuck e.g “wanna come round for some wine and fun?” Maybe you wanna fuck but they have plausible deniability that it’s just wine etc not just sex. Lastly build up sexual tension and gradually sexualise a convo then you can fluidly and smoothly say stuff like “I just got some massage oil, you free” etc. | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How to spark interest in a girl over text only?In a sense be the guy she dreams of. Text her for a bit but then go do something else with your day. You want to give her attention but then leave before she gets bored of it. If you leave her in a state of always wanting more of your attention you’ll have a fair shot at dating her vs the other guys. Try keep the convo flirty and lighthearted too. Once it gets too a high in the convo suggesting meeting up when quarantined over then text her and there. Make her feel that you’re a mystery and she … | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | What are some fun ways to practice seduction during quarantine?Thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 02:54 AM |
| 2 | One thing you you should understandTook long to read. Give a condensed version and I can possibly give my opinion | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | One thing you you should understandHappy cake day bro! | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 01:15 PM |
| 2 | One thing you you should understandAgreed! | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Good games/things you can do online with a tinder match?What specific thing does it violate? | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 02:14 AM |
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