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I can do that, I'm just not sure how to do the cool down part without being rigid
/r/seduction11/04/13 12:49 AM
-1

...are you mocking me?
/r/seduction11/04/13 12:48 AM
1

I could go out more.. the issue here is that I live in a foreign country and when my 5 friend are all busy I just stay in. How do I meet guys out when I'm solo?
/r/seduction10/04/13 08:15 PM
1

learn to heat up and cool off (if things go too fast learn to slow things down and heat up slower next time) Thanks a lot. I need to learn more about this...
/r/seduction10/04/13 07:01 PM
0

It's not hard for girls all you have to do is sort through the crap. Oh boy
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:52 PM
5

If I stood a guy up for a legitimate reason, I would make SURE to let him know I was sorry and the reason. You're just wishfully thinking, bro... don't do it!
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:52 PM
7

no show and no call? That's just a rude thing to do no matter what the occasion is. Even if she was caught up in the moment, she should definitely call and apologize or text after whatever emergency has passed. move on.
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:37 PM
3

wow, you hold women in such high esteem.
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:35 PM
-1

What makes this game is that she chose him and got him, at least for the night.
/r/seduction10/04/13 04:37 PM
8

Why is it always "oh, what guys can take away from this girls experience?" why can't readers give this girl feedback on what she did and what you think she could do better? I'm a woman and I try and offer advice like that, instead of putting myself in the position of whatever girl is the subject of the FR...
/r/seduction10/04/13 04:34 PM
1

Exactly. Everyone is saying "oooh girls can get laid without even trying." Sure, if you have no standards. The impressive thing is that the girl zeroed in on the guy of her choice. That does take skill for women.
/r/seduction10/04/13 04:03 PM
1

I think that just like game, writing up a FR is also a skill. You can tell if someone has written up a few versus when it's someone's first. Just calm down. It wasn't great by any means, but just take it for the content it does have and hopefully she'll use the feedback in here to write a better one next time. If she ever does post again after getting roasted...
/r/seduction10/04/13 03:57 PM
1

You've certainly got the lingo down... I think it's kind of lame that he gave you his number instead of the other way around. Did you ask for it or what? I wouldn't call him either, he sounds like a great looking guy with no personality...quite possibly the only thing worse than a good looking gay guy... was he just a complete dud or do you think he just wasn't very attracted to you and just rolling with it? You're bold! It's not quite my style, but I admire it!
/r/seduction10/04/13 03:54 PM
8

Sounds like the best first date of all time
/r/seduction10/04/13 03:51 PM
-2

Excuses excuses...
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:36 PM
-1

And all the negative comments will scare her away so she won't post again. Well done, everyone.
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:35 PM
4

Also, are you a natural or did you actually study up and work to improve your game? Anything you wish you did differently that night?
/r/seduction10/04/13 12:19 PM
0

Get it girl!
/r/seduction10/04/13 11:45 AM
2

That is great and way to keep it light hearted after the rejection! If they break up in a few months, she'll likely think of you. If you sulked, you would just be some butthurt loser with a sensitive ego in her mind
/r/seduction10/04/13 10:51 AM
1

So basically neg'ing is just another way to break somebody down? Wow, great
/r/seduction10/04/13 10:45 AM
-1

Was I whining? No, I was simply stating what my experience has been.
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:20 AM
2

Thanks, will do
/r/seduction09/04/13 06:05 PM
-1

If I could upvote this a thousand times I would.
/r/seduction09/04/13 06:04 PM
2

Exactly, and not to mention the constant assessing of other people's "value" probably doesn't do much for game. Intuition tells me the most charismatic people just don't view the world or other people that way at all.
/r/seduction09/04/13 05:28 PM
-7

I am the exception ;)
/r/seduction09/04/13 05:25 PM
8

Will do. Also, I never saw you comment on this issue anywhere else, otherwise I prob wouldn't have posted this.
/r/seduction09/04/13 05:15 PM
0

Confidence is about how you treat yourself, and how you think of yourself. Arrogance is about how you treat other people. Confidence is about raising your own value. Arrogance is about lowering other people's value. This is golden. Everything else you wrote is horse shit. What a crappy way to go through life-- trying to figure out if someone has a higher or lower value than yours. Trying to figure out what "value" people have. I believe all humans have the same value. That is not to be confused …
/r/seduction09/04/13 05:14 PM
6

Agreed. There are a lot of people looking for foul-proof techniques here. Such things don't exist because all men and women are different.
/r/seduction09/04/13 04:52 PM
-3

Good point, and I don't always, but I do think age and gender both provide context. If I have any questions, the advice from a 28 year old is taken much differently than advice from an 18 year old
/r/seduction09/04/13 04:50 PM
-1

If you make a Q&A I'd participate
/r/seduction09/04/13 04:33 PM
15

Thanks. I actually didn't know about the "report" system. I've received a few nasty PMs, is there anything to do about those besides block?
/r/seduction09/04/13 03:51 PM
1

Whatever you say, it doesnt even matter, just put a smiley face in it. That's all you need
/r/seduction09/04/13 02:19 PM
6

This works both ways though I think about it more as "this person isn't treatin me/acting with respect toward me. I'm going to take a big step back and give them space to think. I'm not going to reward bad behavior with attention."
/r/seduction09/04/13 02:12 PM
2

They probably won't come walking up to you, but if you approach them first.
/r/seduction08/04/13 10:44 PM
2

Can I ask what city you're in? I'm in Europe too
/r/seduction08/04/13 03:35 PM
8

Having a girl who looks attractive and normal vouch for you by being willing to just be near you for an extended period time is a huge endorsement in a setting where there is alcohol, loud music and everyone is making snap judgments of everyone else. AFC's on here always try to police my behavior when I write a guy off as "creepy" but what they don't realize is the numerous times I've given the wrong guy "a chance" and he has followed me around all night. So many times I talk to a guy for a few …
/r/seduction08/04/13 03:30 PM
2

I really do think there is a generation gap in this one. I'm f/24 and it really annoys me when a guy is texting me all the time. I will think about you a LOT more if you seldom text or not at all.
/r/seduction08/04/13 03:21 PM
14

"Girls have a 'girl to girl network' to communicate the status of guys to others girls". This is true. Source: I'm a girl.
/r/seduction08/04/13 03:19 PM
2

Being someone's rebound sucks. Good for you, knowing what you want out of sex and relationships and not compromising it for this girl or anyone else.
/r/seduction07/04/13 08:46 PM
13

It's quickly becoming evident that there are two kinds of guys here: guys who want to attract a woman who is self confident and intelligent guys who just want to attract a woman. And the same can be said about women who just want a guy
/r/seduction07/04/13 04:19 PM
2

Like I said, it's all in the expression. Very little to do with appearance.
/r/seduction07/04/13 01:12 PM
2

5'7" is completely fine
/r/seduction07/04/13 01:11 PM
2

I actually laughed out loud at this! Thanks for the input
/r/seduction07/04/13 02:42 AM
2

I think everyone here is rooting for American because they see themselves in this guy. He's a person I like most of the time, but sometimes he does stupid shit. Idk, he's a very insignificant person in my life, I can't believe I've been writing so much about this guy! I think it'd be awkward for me to initiate clearing the air, but I would like for him to make a direct move so then we could talk about it and hopefully if I didn't damage his fragile ego we could still be friends
/r/seduction07/04/13 02:41 AM
3

And yes, if the "right guy" approached me I would have definitely given him my number
/r/seduction07/04/13 02:36 AM
3

Not a big shit eating grin, but yeah. Like you laugh hard at a friend's joke and then as the smile is leaving your face you just happen to make eye contact with a girl
/r/seduction07/04/13 02:29 AM
2

What seems vulnerable about what I wrote?
/r/seduction06/04/13 07:22 PM
2

Challenge accepted
/r/seduction06/04/13 07:20 PM
17

Good question. The answer is pretty intangible. It's mostly in expression, I think. Like a stare that is dominant, sexually charged or almost like glare. Anything that makes me think this guy sees me as an attractive piece of meat. Other factors would be a greasy Euro hairstyle, too short, etc. I welcome approaches from guys who look friendly, happy, fun, not wasted and in my general age range.
/r/seduction06/04/13 07:14 PM
3

Hmm. What should I have done when he just handed it to me?
/r/seduction06/04/13 07:06 PM
12

So interesting. Great points. Definitely don't want to be an energy vampire, I'll think more about these things
/r/seduction06/04/13 07:05 PM
10

Goddamit, I was so proud of my first and only neg! Yes, I'm sure. I think I have a lot of confidence in who I am, but just find it exhausting to be around people I don't know all the time
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:53 PM
2

Become more charismatic and confident in meeting new people
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:50 PM
2

Haha I can't do that :P. I'll say this, I like my face and my body
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:50 PM
1

Haha, thanks so much for all the advice, you're hilarious btw. I'm 5'4" so I love how I look in heels, but get pretty self conscious really quick in them.
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:47 PM
1

Could be. I don't mean to sound bitchy at all, but so many people are criticizing me for this aspect. Honestly, I HOPE that was his motive
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:37 PM
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Meh, maybe. I don't take on charity cases
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:35 PM
4

No, not Spain or Prague and I'm not teaching english anywhere either. Please don't try to guess, I want this to be anonymous.
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:19 PM
0

Thank you, that's a huge compliment. I definitely have become much more assertive. At home if someone asked for my number and I didn't want to give it to them, I had different responses. Here, I kind of have to be more vigilant and guarded with people. I have less patience as well. If someone asks for my number and I don't want to give it to them, I say, "no". Groundbreaking revelation, really. I also pay better attention to body language and less to words because if I'm talking to someone who s…
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:17 PM
8

I know haha I love it
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:11 PM
11

I thought it might qualify as a FR because I used, or attempted to use techniques like Negs, DHV and watching my posture and body language. As someone else suggested, maybe I will migrate to r/socialskills instead
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:10 PM
23

Exactly, especially if that something is sex
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:06 PM
2

Perhaps you're right. Thanks
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:02 PM
3

1) Just regular social interaction. It's draining for me, to be honest, and I don't really put forth my "best" trying to smile and engage with other people. 3) Exactly. 4) Very true. Will be trying again. 6) I think that is correct for some girls. However, I'm conscious of the fact that I don't owe a guy anything, especially sexual, just because he spends money on me without me asking. Honestly, I felt like it could contribute to some very strange fall out between us, since he likes me. I would …
/r/seduction06/04/13 05:30 PM
3

Yes, that's it. But the kisses range from 1-4, as far as I know, and I didn't want to give away where I was by saying the #. It was strange to me to kiss the American though, because we're both Americans and we don't do that in the US. It felt more natural to have hugged him goodnight.
/r/seduction06/04/13 05:18 PM
12

Also, the part about wingwomaning was interesting. Hadn't consider it. I know I'll be out with this guy again and instead of deflecting/ignoring his behavior throughout the night, I think I'll try that. Honestly, I'd much rather just have a good friendship with this guy. We're really similar and I like him as a person, I just don't see him like that.
/r/seduction06/04/13 05:16 PM
26

You could have chatted with them for 5-10 minutes and then leave them. A lot of those guys would have been pushing themselves to open you like that, and its kinda disheartening if you just say thanks, and then leave it at that. I know, and honestly, before I went out, I had every intention of doing that. A few things happened. 1, I made the snap judgment a few guys were "creepy" and 2, my social anxiety got the better of me. It's hard to talk to new people, lesson learned and I'll try to do bett…
/r/seduction06/04/13 05:14 PM
32

I know that. But as with every interaction, context is everything. This guy usually buys me drinks and doesn't ask first. He just hands them to me. I don't owe him anything and it's his problem not mine if he's trying to make advances with me and his strategy of paying for things without my asking isn't working for him. He doesn't have to do these things and honestly, after 8 months, he should know I have no interest in him.
/r/seduction06/04/13 04:57 PM
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