throwaway165393 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Great marriage but, I realized I'm gay and I fell in love with a friend. I don’t think that’s fair to either one of you. You deserve to be happy as does she. Talk to her of course. Be honest, open and at least give her a choice as to what she wants to do. Right now she doesn’t have all the information and that’s not fair to her.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/22 07:38 PM
13	Great marriage but, I realized I'm gay and I fell in love with a friend. Possibly start with a genuine apology to her since you’ve been having an affair (emotional or otherwise) for 2 years. Then divorce ASAP. You both deserve have someone that loves you. Wouldn’t waste any more of anyone’s time. It will all work out in the end. Take care	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/22 06:22 PM
9	How do I protect myself? Make sure they make the same or greater income.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/22 06:05 AM
7	Consequences of surprising my STBX at mediation by bringing counsel. If +20k in her favor is your line in the sand and she's still asking for more, then you don't have much of a choice other than to bring counsel. Spend that $20k on a lawyer and get a better deal for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/22 08:32 PM
9	Consequences of surprising my STBX at mediation by bringing counsel. What's the dollar value between what your offering and what she is wanting? 2k? 5k? 15k? What's it worth to you to try and keep things amicable for kids sake? I had a line in the sand, it was in her favor up to a point. After that line I was prepared to spend everything we had on lawyers.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/22 08:28 PM
6	can we have a discord or chat room? 100%	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/22 07:27 PM
13	So, I had an affair… Own it. Let them use it as a life lesson. Decisions have real life consequences and be remorseful (if you are). What's other option? Let their mom tell them and now looks like you were hiding it from them? Maybe wait until they start dating. I plan to tell my kids when they are older. Not to make them resent their mom, but to teach them a life lesson. #1 don't cheat, end marriage first, then go and #2 if you get cheated on, don't stay with that person. And I'll tell them that their mother isn't …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/22 08:08 AM
7	She’s moving out today Mine moved out today. Kicker is I have a 26ft box truck stuck in my driveway waiting for a tow truck in the morning. Lol. Nothing can be easy my man. It's been an emotional ride today. You're not alone. 👊	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/22 07:48 AM
1	Did you want the house? If it was financially driven I'd find a trailer on 20 acres for half the price and dump everything else into retirement I guess. Lol	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/22 07:36 PM
8	Did you want the house? If you like the house and can afford it, buy it out. If mortgage is something crazy like 30%-50+% of your monthly income, then yeah, sell it. I'm keeping it. For me it was my dream home out in the woods with a big detached garage for toys. Only house my kids have ever known, and I feel like it will give them a sense of security. It's completely an emotional decision, I know that, I've identified that and I'm at peace with that. Financially it's not a stretch and hopefully recover the premium I'm…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/22 04:05 PM