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Lol what makes you say this about lesbians? Do you know any in real life? Have you been friends with one? Do you realize that they’re individuals who exist in their own sexual worlds that have a lot of nuance that goes beyond gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:51 AM
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That totally makes sense! Can I ask what brings you here? It seems like you know a lot about all of this so your perspective is much appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:47 AM
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That’s a really interesting stat. Wish I had known that earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:20 AM
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But then how does being here factor in? Is there a different reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:19 AM
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That’s really good advice. It makes sense to look from as many angles as you can to make the best decision
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:18 AM
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Does your wife to be know that you chose her mathematically? Or statistically? Do you think that people can make rational decisions without knowing the science behind it? I feel like it’s hard to make calculated decisions with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:18 AM
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I thought those were social sciences! Sorry! Can you tell me what you like about esp evolutionary psych and behavioral economics? Those are fields I’ve heard of before but I don’t know very much. Is there anything I should read?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:16 AM
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Do you think that means that the statistics are more true than people think they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:15 AM
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I didn’t know that people could be part of that community for such a long time! Idk I thought it was newer or something. I can totally see how it might become subconscious. Also, I guess I’m wondering about the early trp theories. Which one is the truest in the nightlife scene?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:14 AM
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That seems like a really balanced way to parse all the different information
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:13 AM
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“What women are like” is an interesting statement. I guess maybe the point of the numbers or trends is to find ways that groups are similar to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:12 AM
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This is a great answer. Can you tell me more about neurochemicals and decision making? Are you talking about things like dopamine feedback loops or oxytocin for bonding? Or are there other chemicals?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:11 AM
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What field are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:09 AM
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This is super interesting! What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:09 AM
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I totally get that. Do you ever do that? I feel like if I knew the statistics or trends I’d follow them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:16 PM
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I think I mean science more like the “idea that something is scientific” or factual or proven or true within some empirical framework? The concepts and products more than the method if that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:15 PM
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I wish I could like, interview you (or idk what to call it, I’m not a journalist or anything) about all of this. It seems like you’ve thought about it so much and I haven’t really seen this perspective before but it’s fascinating. So you’re saying that in the past women weren’t able to express the full range of emotions or make the full range of choices but now they can and it’s revealing to men that the constant emotional availability was a type of facade before? Do you feel like women have bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:39 PM
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What parts of PUA did you adopt?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:06 AM
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Again, a really fascinating comment. It’s interesting to think about the way grief and age can modify masculinity because I guess obviously they just change you. It makes sense that gender isn’t stagnant because if you can learn it, it isn’t innate. I’ve heard some smart older people in my life, like my parents, say that feeling emotions and identifying them is almost skill. I guess I’m wondering, and I know it’s personal so don’t feel obligated to answer: did being laughed at change your view o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:46 AM
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Do you think the care that women take responsibility for is more or less visible than the way men express caring?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:24 AM
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I guess my question is do you think that people know that evolution is driving their behavior with romantic or sexual partners? Do you factor in like idk evolution into your decision making? Does it make you make better choices do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:22 AM
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You raised so many insightful points here. I didn’t realize how much generation could factor into what kind of man you learn to be. I also think it’s really interesting that you describe feeling maybe like grateful but a little sad that your father was harsh with your sensitivity and how it’s impacted your emotional closeness with him. It’s like you’re close by action but can’t express your closeness by real intimacy. Or am I wrong and the emulation is intimacy of a different kind? Do you wish y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:20 AM
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What do you mean by this? That it’s painful to become a man? Or that pain is how you know you’re a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:16 AM
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It seems like college is where a lot of people figure identity stuff out. You’re right that it’s probably about being on your own. Do you think you’re similar to people you went to college with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:51 PM
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This is an amazing answer and so well thought out. So this might be a dumb question but you said that the idea of learning to be man is a cause of angst. does that mean you don’t like being a man? Or just that the process of it is hard and not consistent?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:27 PM
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That sounds really nice— like it’s not an exact rule book but instead like gentle guidance. Does/did your uncle know how important he was to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:23 PM
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So do you feel like trp explains things in a way that’s honest? Is that because it matches your experiences (like with your friend) or because there’s a lot of theoretical background? Do you feel like it provides rules to live by or a template? Sorry I have so many questions I’m just really curious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:22 PM
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This is such a complete and thoughtful answer, thank you! Can I ask how your father relates to your other siblings that seem to be less like him? It sounds like he was a really good role model for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:19 PM
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So you felt like you had a definite mentor that you emulate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:15 PM
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That definitely makes sense. I guess I had that too. Was there ever a moment where you were like “damn I just really figured something out about being a man” or was it always continuous? I think I’ve had a mostly continuous experience which seems lucky I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:14 PM
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How did things change?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:04 PM
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That’s so interesting. Do you think that there’s part of being a woman that is about taking care of things or is that a universal adult experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:04 PM
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This is really interesting because most people on the thread are saying that they learned by addition but what you’re saying sounds more like you learned from subtraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:03 PM
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So do you feel that you had to seek out information on how to be a man? How old were you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:02 PM
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I am really interested in how religion taught you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:01 PM
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This is a really good answer. So you feel like you learned by observation and because of your proximity to other people and didn’t learn explicitly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:01 PM
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This is super interesting! Can you say more about how this taught you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:27 PM
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