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I've never seen it that way man lol. Pretty good point, I like how you used economic theory to make your point lol keep it up! :)
/r/seduction11/03/14 03:25 AM
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Call her back, be a man of your word. Yeah you seemed anxious but being vulnerable in this situation will help you out (she'll think you're endearing). Next time you call a girl, just call and if you get anxious, tell her the truth and be: "Hey it's (your name), we met place, listen I'm kinda nervous calling you because you're really beautiful, but I was gonna go catch a movie and wanted to invite you..." Think of it this way: If you had the balls to call her (no matter how scared you were) you …
/r/seduction04/03/14 07:15 AM
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No because she ONLY calls/text you when she NEEDS something from YOU (that's manipulation man) From what I'm reading, she's being selfish and just using you. Ignore her and see other people. If she asks where you were, tell her the truth: On a date, out with some friends, etc. This might turn the tables and have her seeing you in a new light. This article helped me out a lot http://www.flirtgeek.com/how-to-text-a-girl/
/r/seduction04/03/14 03:14 AM
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Good luck :)
/r/seduction04/03/14 02:31 AM
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I think this video might help, I ran across it while on youtube. It talks about how some lesbians have/had sex with men. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jtsqciPLwfU
/r/seduction04/03/14 01:43 AM
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That's the same thing as my psychiatrist! Is yours a CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Psych)?
/r/seduction04/03/14 01:37 AM
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Have you tried mindful meditation? If not, try calm.com or just focus on breathing (it helps me with being calm). But if you don't want to do that, you can always call other people first and just get used to talking on the phone. Another is to go to a place where you'll feel social. For me (and I know it's funny) is my bank. I go in there and have a nice conversation with the cashier and get out feeling talkative lol. Short: Just get in a talkative mood (whatever works for you) and then call her
/r/seduction03/03/14 05:32 AM
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Socially awkward as in asperger's syndrome?
/r/seduction02/03/14 06:07 AM
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The beauty of CBT is that they don't do medication, it's all "cognitive" aka your thoughts. I suffered from anxiety really bad, so about 1 year and a half to be fully "cured". But I had severe anxiety. But seeing dramatic changes say...about 2-3 months (for me). Just remember that everyone's different, but the thing that helped me the most is WANTING to get better, which made me courageous to confront my fears.
/r/seduction02/03/14 06:05 AM
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This might help...I mean it helped me a lot! http://www.flirtgeek.com/how-to-text-a-girl/
/r/seduction24/02/14 03:47 AM
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Just read both parts...RESPECT MAN! It's gets me pumped! Keep it up man, I can't wait to hear more.
/r/seduction21/02/14 08:19 AM
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There is...mostly is being the life of the party. In other words: Make lots of friends, throw parties OR set up meet ups (bowling, mini golf, bball tournament, etc.), have at least 80% of those friends/acquaintances be girls. You just have to be a popular guy, have a fun laid back attitude, and approach people. You have to learn to walk before you can run.
/r/seduction21/02/14 07:55 AM
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Amen brotha! I completely agree
/r/seduction20/02/14 06:21 AM
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"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting different results." You should stop "asking" them out. Try something like, "Hey [insert girl's name here], I'm gonna go catch a movie, wanna go?" Don't ask her out. The "I'll think about it" is a close cousin of the "let's just be friends." Don't be clever, just be real
/r/seduction20/02/14 06:05 AM
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I've suffered from social anxiety for the past 4 years man. I'm 5'7 skinny and crooked teeth. Something that takes a blow at my confidence. I'm jealous...but I still get girls. I've been seeing a therapist that practices: cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). I'm happy to say that I'm finally getting out of my shell, I'm more assertive and happy. I believe that anybody who suffers from depression or anxiety should try cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) , because it does work. If you can't afford a…
/r/seduction20/02/14 05:57 AM
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Glad I could help dude
/r/seduction20/02/14 05:43 AM
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Great idea, but here's some advice (I'm purely direct game). Instead of just popping the question, first do some small talk. "Hey how's your day going?" blah blah blah "Yeah, well I really liked (whatever you liked from your last dance class) blah blah blah You know, you're really cute, what are you doing after this? BAM! You're in!
/r/seduction19/02/14 05:10 AM
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Been there, done that. Flirt and go out with other women. She's does enjoy your company, but at this point, she's not gonna change for you. You can't change peoples minds.
/r/seduction19/02/14 04:56 AM
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Vulnerability is the ability to have the courage in showing others (in this case, a woman) your "flaws" or things that you think are "low value" such as being nervous or scared of approaching her. It's seen as an attractive quality because women are programmed to like guys who are SOCIAL risk-takers. In other words: You're willing to get rejected or get laughed at by doing said action (approaching her).
/r/seduction19/02/14 04:10 AM
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