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CMVthrowaway3649_/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:54 AM
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CMVthrowaway3649_/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:07 PM
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Well we're already about halfway there, take a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:32 PM
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Women get nothing which is why they dont, that is the entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:22 PM
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... and you wrote this comment as an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:21 PM
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Truth overcomes all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:01 PM
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Find me better evidence against and I'll believe you. Should be a piece of cake, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:00 PM
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You will jerk off in a corner and you WILL like it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:58 PM
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brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:58 PM
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Tell me you agree without telling me you agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:56 PM
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Agreed, its beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:55 PM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:51 AM
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Question to all the women on here - you think men and women can be just friends? Text your male friends "you dtf?" and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:21 PM
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Traditional belief systems rely on you wanting to believe in them. The Blackpill isn't something you want or choose to believe in, it is forced down your throat until you choke and swallow it. That is how you know it is true, because everybody who encounters it desperately tries to disprove it before being forced to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:44 AM
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Lol based
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:07 PM
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Incels with good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:10 AM
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you obviously can't fuck 'em all citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:48 AM
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Ah yes, millions of ethnic men are all the same and deserve the fate decades of targeted media campaign have brought upon them. Meanwhile you cannot generalize all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:41 AM
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The closer you get to the truth the louder they scream.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:37 AM
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You're trivializing and watering down the black pill when describing it, then using a hyperbole to ridicule blackpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:35 AM
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Your only argumment is creating a hyperbole out of what I said and attacking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:30 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:15 AM
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Women are hoe I dare you to find a single post or comment by me which says that. Also, just because you are not attracted to a persons body doesn't mean you cannot enjoy sex - stimulating the sex organs releases dopamine which is pleasurable in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:11 AM
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99% of what redpillers claim about women are merely products of a low sex-drive fundamentally incompatible with the male one. This is the true blackpill - anything else is bullshit Yep, simply treat women as virtually asexual and suddenly everything will make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:20 AM
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The only world in which a species improves is one where the women are cold and frigid and only dole out sex to the winners. A woman's virtually non-existent sex drive and repulsion to men actually fits well into evolution. Can you imagine a world where women were physically attracted to men? No sexual selection or actual progress would get done, everybody would be fucking all the time. That is the fundamental fantasy in porn. Its not really about hot women, note the milf and other similar catego…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:18 AM
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Bring on the immersive VR porn lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:17 AM
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A wise man once said, "A woman is an asexual being in a sexual body and a man is a sexual being in an asexual body.". When you say "us as a society", I think you overestimate the power of the masses. They will not let this happen, and by They I mean the Industries. Countless trillions of dollars are spent annually because of a belief and They don't want this to change. This is money earned by men and spent either in the pursuit of, or on women. Buying himself products and clothes to look good, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:42 PM
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It has nothing to do with sex drive, it has to do with women being pickier. Do you seriously think there is no corelation between sex drive and being picker? Men are not more violent, they just commit more violent crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:05 PM
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Trust me bro I'm starving but I don't eat anything but the best prepared sushi.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:02 PM
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I agree 100% with this and so does every other man. Thank you for providing some credibility to something humans have known for hundreds of generations. The only people claiming "sex is a social construct" are women (because they are virtually asexual themselves) and brainwashed bluepilled feminist males (I refuse to call them "men").
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:13 PM
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Most women are asexual, the rest are borderline asexual lesbians. The act of sex is pleasurable of course, (its a dopamine explosion) but there is no attraction to the male body, only repulsion. Hell, most women would rather make out with an average woman than an average man. So yes, sex IS a social construct... for women!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 04:24 AM
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If women are super nice to you right from the start, they don't see you as a potential partner, or even as an equal friend. You're like a child to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:05 AM
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Are you happy with dating every single man who has normal social skills and has a decent job and is a decent person? Because thats the definition of a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:31 PM
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Step 1: The guy obviously has 10 other options, just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:15 PM
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OP thinks men are abstaining from having sex. Let that sink in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:33 AM
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Most women would never have had a one night stand with their long term partner while the reverse is not true at all. Makes you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:43 AM
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Because sexual attraction is biological, you can choose not to act on it and instead pair up with a (lets say somehow) more deserving gay man... right? If you don't do that, you are no better than an animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:07 PM
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Moral values are a human construct, many of which we evolved to "feel right" about The lines between free will, environmental conditioning and biological predeterminism is blurry at best and completely opaque at worst Lets for a moment assume that genetics can indeed make somebody more likely to commit a crime. Is it their "fault" for succumbing to their flawed biology? Would you be able to resist that kind of biological drive? If a person has an unfortunate and deeply traumatic childhood and gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:02 PM
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"Women competing sexually like males do" thats enough internet for today
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:36 AM
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When we talk about raw "capability" no doubt almost every job today that doesn't involve heavy physical labor can theoretically done by women. That video looks like an attempt at gatekeeping, all the jobs mentioned are male dominated but I dare say if a man and a woman were to learn those things from scratch the result would be more or less identical. However, as long as men and women compete in an egalitarian market, men will always dominate stressful and higher up positions simply because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:34 AM
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Everything you just described can be perfect but if the woman is not physically attracted to the man he will only be a very close friend. So bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:08 AM
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A father and mother taking care of their child is a relatively new concept, humans (like other apes) have evolved to live in tribes where the tribe takes care of families.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:01 PM
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Nope, if anything that number is underestimated. Humans have been around for 300,000 years. Lets assume civilization really kicked off about 8000 years ago. World population before 4000 B.C was in the tens of millions. This means almost all humans (99%) who have ever been born were born in a civilization, which means the 1 to 1 pairing was enforced. Even after this, 1 man reproduced for 2 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:59 PM
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Did you ever consider the fact that females evolved to be sexually attracted to that top 5% of males who bred them? This is a phenomena not unique to humans, many mammals close to us only have a tiny % of successful males compared to the majority of females.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:11 PM
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At first I was confused by your comment then realized the last line could be misread. By 1:1 I meant only 1 in 2 men will ever reproduce/have a meaningful relationship. Edited the last line to avoid confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:09 PM
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To appreciate the finer things in life one must first have the coarser things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:04 PM
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Literal opposite take. 8,000 years ago civilization wasn't a thing. As time passed, civilizations flourished when beta men - the other 16 men not getting any until now - started providing labor in exchange for the concept of marriage, essentially 1 to 1 pairings of men and women. This is completely artificial, no other animal close to us has such a pairing ratio. Only men are happy with 1 to 1 pairings - modern civilization is the proof of their toil. Women are not attracted to most men and are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:52 PM
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I know this is a troll comment, but just curious as to what you think, do guys "lack a purpose" because of their biological makeup itself (i.e males are somehow biologically inferior in this aspect) or because society has brought them up in a wrong way (failed them). If its the first one, how can you assign a moral value to biology? (and imagine the outcry if I said women are inferior in planning and strategy!) If its is the second one shouldn't society focus on young men more? What do you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:28 PM
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It is ridiculous to expect the purely biological sex drive to be equal in both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:24 PM
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Women much more often than men feel stifled in a long term monogamous relationship. (and evolution even helps us understand why)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:28 PM
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What are the "above comments" and which of them don't apply to women above 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:02 AM
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Thats called a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:16 AM
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I solve captchas so... no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:25 AM
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You simply cannot assign a moral value to biology, it is what it is and blaming a person for something out of their control is dumb. Agree 100% with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:25 AM
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Loool agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:29 AM
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I feel like a lot of men judge themselves based on their ability to have, and provide for a family. That they rely on that validation to make their lives worthy. And that when they can’t achieve that — they become miserable. Arguably, men apply almost no weight to how much validation they get. Its just single men get almost no validation at all in comparison to single women, so only one gender is "looking" for validation, the other already has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:39 AM
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Nope, we're talking about things that the vast majority of men agree on. Its a gender debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:19 AM
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Women are people. Nobody said otherwise. You can be a valuable friend to anyone. Sure everyone’s replaceable, but that doesn’t discredit the value of it. My car is replaceable, but still holds incredible value. My friends (regardless of gender) are valuable to me. And I’m valuable to them. If there is a huge cost incurred when replacing your car or your friends, so its not "easily replaceable". The frustration men feel isn’t a gender debate — it’s a nihilistic one. Nope, men inherently value com…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:16 AM
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owever, the same can be said about women needing to bring something of value to the relationship that the man values, otherwise why would either of them choose the relationship. Men dont have as easy an access to companionship, intimacy and sex outside of a relationship, so a woman brings that "base" value at the very least. Since neither person is obligated to be in a romantic relationship they need to make the other’s life better or happier or more fulfilled in some way compared to being singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:12 AM
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What do men provide that a modern career woman cannot provide herself with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:47 AM
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it said CMV not “explain in detail why i’m wrong” You've not given a single counterpoint. well then that’s shitty bc i’m telling you, as a gay woman, my sexuality is not fluid. and i’ve met v many hard-core straight women who would never be interested in another woman. This is the textbook definition of word of mouth. And you being gay is literally adding credence to the "fluid sexuality" aspect. there’s 60 my dude. Aight you got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:39 AM
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There was another comment chain about the value of a father, might want to check that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:37 AM
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Lol so you're saying the only value men have to women is contributing to sperm banks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:34 AM
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You could've titled that better lmao. Men not having value to women doesn't mean they have no value. Yep, bad title, the first sentence is what should have been the title. I'll specify in OP. This seems like a whole lot of projection. Not sure what you mean. I'm a perfectly straight male.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:34 AM
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Yep, its possibly a circular feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:31 AM
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I'll comment back when I'm earning 240k
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:30 AM
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Nope, you're world view is fucked if you think every single mental trait is perfectly balanced in men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:30 AM
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Literally what. What value do men provide that women cannot?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:29 AM
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You've not explained anything. idk who told you women have “fluid sexuality” Not relying on word of mouth here. does it matter? Lol it certainly does to a lot of people, there are hundreds of commentators here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:22 AM
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For a man, having no wife would mean no one to provide to. No motive basically. No family And this is not true today? It is a good thing for men and women not to depend on eachother. I can agree with that. You tie too much of your value onto having a woman to yourself. Youre entitled. Nope, men do not have easy access to companionship, attention, intimacy and sex outside of a relationship. I'd go so far as to say men are far happier without these things than women are. Its just that "single" wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:19 AM
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What value do you provide to a woman as a man that she cannot get outside of a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:17 AM
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You made a strawman and then tried to tear it down. If I don't like X but I like a very special subset of X, its perfectly valid to say I don't like X. Neither women in general, or Stacy in particular, or society can really forgo male investment altogether Why is this? When you distill it down to its essence, there is nothing that differentiates a male from a female apart from their sex organs. Anything a man can do, a woman can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:32 PM
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Literal opposite thinking, this thread is about what value men bring, you didnt answer the question. Also, I'm a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:51 PM
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Noooooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:33 PM
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Let me get this straight, you're saying the only value a man can provide is earning money the 9 months a woman is pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:26 PM
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Well then, its just inertia still keeping it afloat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:25 PM
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Please explain how a man have value to a woman that cannot be acquired outside of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:24 PM
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This so much. Dating is literally integrated into society and popular media.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:20 PM
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Yeah, humans have evolved to have one man impregnate a dozen women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:16 PM
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Hmmm yeah this is probably the one situation in which they provide value indirectly to a woman, fathering her children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:09 PM
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Men are born with no value and it grows with age - provided you don't end up a drug addict. What is this "value" men bring? Why can women not develop and grow this value themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:04 PM
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Men have value in what they can provide Its in the OP, what can men provide that women cannot provide themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:04 PM
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And even in dating men still have value, otherwise no one would ever date them. Yep, this value has been propped up by society, the bubble is going to burst.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:57 PM
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"value" isnt something that matters for human beeings. The 164 comments on this post say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:52 PM
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You've not given any counterargument. In fact you're saying you dont care if you have value or not. Where is the discussion here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:44 PM
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other people like me Clearly not enough to not get triggered by this post and post a useless reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:39 PM
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Pseudo apex fallacy. Heavy equipment workers, construction workers, miners, truckers, basically every trade, police and military, lawyers, managers at every singe level, economists, basically entire stem and tech industry, I could go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:37 PM
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I'm saying men can't have value. Anything you think a man can "make for himself" can be done by a woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:28 PM
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In my parent comment I said as much, no point in discussing a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:20 PM
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You say this as if men haven't been extremely loud and hateful about women for years. So what, we react. Should women politely sit quietly while men talk trash and actively come after women for all sorts of depravity Just a heads up, I think you're spending too much time on the internet mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:18 PM
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Nobody said women dont or cant like sex if by sex you mean stimulation of sexual organs. Now whether women like it nearly as much as men and whether they are sexually attracted to men (or anyone at all) is a whole other argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:11 PM
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Stop being entitled, all you need to survive is food, water, oxygen and a 3m x 3m room. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:09 PM
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I'm sorry man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:04 PM
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No, its a "base" value which all women build upon. Of course companionship, emotional bonding and all the other goodies exist but men dont have this "base" value to provide. Also, what differentiates a man from a woman apart from his sex organs?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:03 PM
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The worlds oldest job - prostitution, twitch thots, instagram "influencers", hentai, only fans and multi billion dollar pornographic industry weren't hints enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:59 PM
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Weak argument, why can I not love a man as a straight man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:49 PM
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Lions eat deer in the wild everyday... therefor the deer evolved to like being eaten? All scientific data we have so far show womens opinions were irrelevant for hundreds of thousands of years of humans and many more millions in earlier species, men competed with other men to breed beautiful women. As a result we have beautiful women and average looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:46 PM
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Relationships predicted success in other areas of life. For example: The 58 men with the best scores for warm relationships made an average of $243,000 a year; in contrast, the 31 men with the worst scores for relationships earned an average maximum salary of $102,000 a year. Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha correlation does not imply causation. Have you ever considered it might just be the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:43 PM
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The gays never got the straight memo either, no point in discussing a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:42 PM
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Like I said earlier, it is a defining prerequisite
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:38 PM
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You didnt answer the question, what part of "sex" and "affection" requires a man. Not even accounting for the massive imbalance in the desires of men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:29 PM
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Men can provide many things - company, comfort, fun, conversation, cuddles and affection, and yes even sexy stuff What part of this requires a man? Or even an SO?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:22 PM
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I think I'll clarify in OP, of course women getting fundamental rights, freedom and egality is great. Men just need to evolve past thinking a paycheck is their entire worth. Women had to learn charms and be likable, men can too. This issue with this is a man is not inherently sexual, so nothing differentiates a man from a woman, to a woman. Hence the post title.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:17 PM
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Arguing against "Men have no value for women" is a lost cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:10 PM
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Strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:04 PM
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This isnt the 60s grandpa. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:53 PM
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The dumb thing about this is we could all explain the reality of the situation to you and you still wouldn’t get it. The reality of the situation is you haven't explained jackshit. something something emotionally stunted, incapable, lazy, insecure, cry about not getting pussy, lonely, sad and addicted to being a victim. Thats a whole lot of adjectives assigned to males and you've still not explained jackshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:51 PM
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Well then, I guess short men and ugly men are just naturally worse at providing romantic affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:46 PM
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I'll take that as a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:41 PM
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A woman who dates you because she wants to What would make a woman "want you"? Sexual attraction is a necessary prerequisite which throws out 50% of men. With the best personality they are only friends. And I agree with you when you say being with a person who "needs" to be with you is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:36 PM
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If people are dating that's because they want to The defining prerequisite to "want to" is sexual attraction. Most healthy male bodies are not sexually attractive in the slightest. OR they could be dating. Like 69% of american adults This is like saying nokia phones are here to stay because almost everyone uses one just a year after touchscreen smartphones have been invented.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:33 PM
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Thats called friends and flatmates. Men don't have to be able to do something women can't, the same way women don't have to be able to do something Men can't There is nothing one gender can do that the other cannot. Why do women need men? There is a clear reason men need women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:17 PM
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Sexual attraction is a prerequisite, not the entirety. Might as well become gay if its not. Smart men have changed their game from being needed to being wanted. You never explain this. My entire post is about there being no "want" which men satisfy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:14 PM
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Know how much a woman costs? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:03 PM
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Only the wealthy have the luxury of viewing as art what others view as essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:59 AM
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AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA god I ducking hope this is a meme post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:08 PM
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To accept and to admit are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:04 AM
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A guy who expects me to be submissive in any sense is not one I want to date. There is a subtle catch in this statement which allows it to be interpreted this way - You don't want to "be submissive" for a guy because that would mean he is not naturally dominant. What you're looking for is a guy who is dominant so as to automatically make you submissive in comparison, without you having to explicitly "be submissive" for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:39 PM
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Don't project, 80% of healthy women are perfectly attractive to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:06 AM
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and regret as you become increasingly invisible to the other sex Most men are invisible to women, so technically most men cannot hit "the wall".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:43 PM
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Almost all women are asexual, so not really
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:21 AM
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Find me a man who doesnt want to have sex today and I'll find you a pink unicorn with a golden crown. So why aren't folks having sex? You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:10 PM
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While a straight man is attracted to the female body and repulsed at the thought of sex with another man, no such attraction or repulsion exists for the straight woman. What arouses a woman is the thought of the act of sex not the physical male body itself. Because of this, nothing specifically tethers women to have sex with exclusively men. Beautiful healthy bodies and faces are present in both genders, all humans appreciate the golden ratio and good skin/hair etc, and there are beautiful men o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:07 PM
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Its much more palatable to believe that good things happen to good people and bad things happen to people because they are bad and that they somehow deserve it, that life isn't just the toss of a coin, that there is meaning to all this madness. Humans love the illusion of control and the concept of honour and karma. Accepting privilege is a hard pill to swallow. It is as they say, "The Germans will never forgive the Jews". Read that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:41 PM
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Honestly though, how strong is that feeling... and do you think it is socially ingrained in you/women in general? I wish I could choose to stay alone and be happy, but I know my brain and hormones won't allow me the luxury of that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:44 PM
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That is an interesting take, why would somebody even want a man in todays society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:36 PM
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Agree with you on everything except this Many average men who can’t or don’t improve themselves consider it unfair and complain. The vast majority of things that matter in this specific scenario cannot be "improved". I find it mildly disturbing how you call it "improving" without giving it much thought. They consider it unfair? Really? Clearly enough men care about this across cultures and times to call it a "social pressure", so we know its biology. Can you assign a value judgement to biology? …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:35 PM
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Women are into physically attractive men, the thing with those "sad boys" is they're physically attractive... well, at least the ones you're likely to see/know. The sad ugly men live a miserable life on the fringe of society with no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:52 PM
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TIL real life is a dating sub on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:25 AM
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just as wide a range You dont understand statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:17 PM
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I wish I was a woman... without a sex drive I would be ultra productive. And to answer your question, there would be no strategy because there would be no dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:07 PM
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I'm going to die alone. This seems to be the growing sentiment for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:59 AM
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Artificial intelligence and displacement of large chunks of the workforce (truckers, service sector jobs, doctors, lawyers, everyone really) will force countries to implement UBI Nobody with half a brain wants to marry or have kids 50% of men will remain virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:19 AM
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tldr; if you're not sure, you're not a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:57 PM
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One turns a man on, one doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:56 PM
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Men want to see sexy models. Women actively dont want to see sexy models. Its really not that hard to guess why.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:37 PM
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Homo sapiens have been around for 300,000 years so I'd say we're good
/r/BlackPillScience29/06/21 05:32 PM
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I didnt say anything about commiting, just highlighted the funny way in which you use the word "coping". Are people who eat at a high end restaurant coping because its not a three michelin star restaurant? And if you cant have that is every other restaurant the same, all the way down to a fast food joint? Are people who live in a decent house coping because its not a 10 million dollar beachside villa? And if you cant have that does it not matter if you live in a slum? Are well off people coping …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:13 PM
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A womans value decreases as her N count increases, a mans value increases as his N count increases, within a reasonable limit. This is biological, sexual partners affect fertility, bonding and emotional health in females and signal virility, success and acceptance in males. According to you, any deviation from perfection is "coping", which is retarded. It is less preferable, yes, but far from "coping".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:48 AM
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Correlation does not imply causation. A sizeable percentage of men (I'd say close to 50% if not more) have never gotten complimented on their physical appearance and see their body as an asexual object. Quoting Mark Twain, "I can live for two months on a good compliment". Men usually remember compliments for years because they are so rare. This and their "sexual failure" has the same underlying reason - they are not attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:14 AM
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Men are attracted to the average healthy woman, so technically yes, you are right in a way, but not the way you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:58 AM
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Imagine spending years in complete isolation where the only human contact you have is occasionally exchanging pleasantries with strangers. Your phone is always silent, you get no calls, no messages, only junk notifications. You have no social media because a man without a friends circle is seen as a creepy loser and is ignored on the internet... besides you look like hideous in pictures. You can try going to public places but then you just feel alone in the crowd, you're too broken inside to kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:31 AM
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I still would not date a men who thinks going to a sex -worker is fine Would you date a man who is a 28 year old virgin? (this is a rhetorical question) Agree with you on all the other points you make, I'm just trying to highlight the situation of the bottom 30% men who basically have a very low chance of getting sex without directly paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:21 PM
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Its not a stereotype, its a biological fact
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:53 AM
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Strawman, nobody said women aren't people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:27 PM
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I wouldn't give much credit to a response from a user called gimpgirl555 with the tag "Pick Me" for a question about what men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:08 PM
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Agreed, this whole post sounds like a satire against women (with then genders reversed for comedic effect).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:06 PM
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This, OP is framing questions from a womans POV. Men are actually very attracted to average healthy women and "trading up" generally doesnt even register as a strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:05 PM
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You'd be surprised to find out what rich people consider "depression".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:58 PM
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Its sad how this is even a question, men are capable of forming strong emotional bonds and at that point physical appearance takes a backseat. This is true moreso for men than women because men are attracted to almost all healthy women. Also, the range of purely physical attraction men feel is much narrower than what women feel for men, at least from what I have observed. Personally, every girl I've been strongly attracted to was average, it was something else entirely that stood out. Will avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:55 PM
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Chad sleeps with Stacy. Chad doesn't sleep with unattractive women. Why would he, if he can get Stacy? It's not rocket science. Men have a huge sex drive in comparison to women and rate women much less harshly, so only a very tiny % of healthy women are actually "repulsive" enough to not sleep with. But there's so many attractive women in the world. I see less Chads, more Stacys. You're just judging the men much much harshly, this further corroborates what I said earlier. 81% men are "below aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:57 AM
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Women are ok with N count men because they have been accepted by other women and that is assurance enough they are high quality (women replicate the acceptance/rejection of other women). Men want low N count women because they have the highest chance of raising healthy offspring. This is not a social concept, its basic biology replicated across the animal kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:24 AM
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Gotta love soyddit. It really is an echo chamber of massive proportions and makes me worry about the future of free speech on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:20 AM
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You heard it here first bois, the solution was staring at us right in the face! Just go have more sex lol, its that simple. Theres dozens of girls waiting outside your door and bursting in your dms, surely you can give one of them a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:14 AM
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Gay men are attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:00 PM
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I wish I was gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:46 PM
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Virtually every man is stronger than every woman, not to mention men are more violent, sexually driven and almost always up for sex. Because of these reasons a woman sexually assaulting a man is only possible in a very narrow set of situations. That being said, when it does happen (usually adult female/male on minor male and male on male rape) it will be underreported or not taken as seriously because it is so rare. P.S - Your first mistake was taking a talk show seriously. You know those are sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:26 PM
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OP must have messed up the title, here is the corrected version Men who are more attractive have higher standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:13 PM
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...to make money which you then leverage for everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 09:27 AM
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Yeah I see what you mean but social shifts such as this will affect humanity as a whole, and just because you are directly not affected means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 06:47 AM
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All the masculine traits you described will always be present more in men than in women and vice versa for the feminine traits because of biology - differences in brain structures and hormonal balance. Men will always be more driven to do things and women will always be more gentle and nurturing, its basic biology and funny how it needs to be stated instead of being obvious. Maybe in the future we will have ways of artificially bridging these differences but for now we're stuck with them. As for…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:13 PM
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Rich people are the winners in life and anybody claiming otherwise is deluding themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:59 PM
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Beautiful. I was going to write a paragraph stating how stats like "X% men are married", "Y% men die virgins" are meaningless because the problems we're discussing apply more to men in their 20s (and below) but I'll rest in peace now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:53 PM
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After all, isn't that what big schools are for? You wont find anybody disagreeing that universities are for studying, hobby groups are for discussing hobbies, travel trips are for travelling, friendship groups are for making friends and restaurants are for eating food. But what is your point? That this undeniably massive social shift is somehow meaningless or is a positive thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:23 PM
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Welcome to the 2020s where everybody is a capitalist, from the multibillion dollar corporations right down to the individual selling themselves for jobs, friendships and yes, you guessed it, sex. Everybody is a salesman, women are just selling their product. Women's dresses have gone from modest to slutty in a few decades, what is important to note is that this change didn't happen overnight. It occurred as a series of tiny changes every few years, each making dresses skimpier and targeting a yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:14 PM
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I can agree with that viewpoint, "culture" is something that results from humans in reaction to the environment and is constantly changing. But then, EVERYTHING humans do is because of "mother nature" and nothing is artificial! Also, I was born and brought up in a third world country myself, so I can appreciate different cultures and have a "foreigners insight" that natives often lack. Most women who aren't very talented or academically gifted very often tend not to have many choices other than …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:07 PM
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Yup, throughout most of human history only a fraction of males reproduced for every female. This is consistent with our other animal species close to humans. Society artificially balanced this by making women dependent on one man (for money, land, rights, etc and by making marriage a social necessity) but now this has broken down. Most men born after 2010 will never be fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:58 AM
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This is a beautiful answer, one I plan to quote often :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:53 AM
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I think most of us understood how things were right from school. Guys had crushes on different girls. Almost all girls had crushes on the same few guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:49 AM
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Not sure where you got that "70%" number from. Well, if you mean obesity rates, I'm fit myself so I'm in the "top 30%" myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:37 AM
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Unhealthy or unhygienic. Literally anything else will work if we vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:02 PM
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The simple fact is for some reason most men are simply not meeting a woman's "average" criteria. You could of course blame an entire gender for being "lazy" and the argument would end there, OR, you could accept that most men are naturally not meant to mate- that is how it has been for hundreds of thousands of years for humans and that is how it is in our closest animal species. Regardless, your argument can be easily debunked because there are tons of healthy well educated yet hopelessly single…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:18 PM
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Contrary to popular belief of "nobody cares", I think this phenomena is VERY important to a wide variety of players who are carefully analyzing what is happening and I'll tell you why The government because it cares about social stability, taxes, education, population and security Big corporations because every event can be be turned into profits. Tinder gets money, social media has more activity, pharma sells more drugs, real estate and the auto industry cares about families vs singles, insuran…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:15 PM
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might be part of the problem. I wasn't aware there was "a problem".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:40 PM
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Then this should be a no issue. Choose one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:57 PM
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I'll try to be more sensitive about the rich millionaires and perfect-lifers who happen to chance upon my humble posts and feel marginalized or discluded. My apologies for being insensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:51 PM
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I think I spoke for most people here when I said "life is not a romantic novel" but... congratulations I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:08 PM
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Taking your hand at the precisely when you want to, locking eyes and smiling exactly when you feel like doing the same, ordering the perfect dish for you, bringing your favorite flowers, wearing the dress you like the most, keeping the conversation alive by perfectly predicting what you want to hear, pausing at the right times and for the right duration, knowing exactly when and how to kiss you, where to touch etc etc would make for a great experience no doubt. But life is not a romantic novel. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:01 PM
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There is no view to change here, I think everybody agrees. You can flip the genders and this will be true as well (albeit less special because the male orgasm is far easier to achieve) You decide if you're good with being an ok, forgettable lover or the guy she never forgets. Is it really that simple? No man is born with the exact knowledge of how to make a woman orgasm, its a learned process.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:26 PM
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You are calling for a shift in the attitude of billions of people. If we had the capacity to coordinate such numbers we'd have solved far greater problems like poverty and hunger by now. Women are just much much more attractive to men than men are to women. No amount of social engineering will change that, its biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:20 PM
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People who eat a healthier diet grow taller. This doesnt change the fact that men grow taller than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:27 AM
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One of the reasons is because they're attracted to each other Women are barely attracted to men. This is the reason society artificially created a reason for women to need men in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:38 PM
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based in no science Just checking, are you a stem major? Are you just repeating based in no science because thats what you saw other people saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:35 PM
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1/4 women are on anti depressants yet women make up 80% of consumer spending Spending actually can increase with depression. Agree with you on everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:29 PM
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No man wants a slut because we have evolved that way for millenia, this goes all the way back to the animal kingdom. Males want to spend resources ONLY on their own offspring to propagate his own genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:20 PM
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I think love as a concept matters lesser and lesser as you age. As a child the sky is the limit and you are taught to see anything as a possibility, as you age you close pathways and let go of dreams. Love is one of those things. Can a straight person love somebody of the same gender? No. Then for love to exist sexual attraction has to exist. This has been been more or less constant for the last few thousand years (negligible amount of "evolution" has occurred). So for "love" to have changed, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:37 AM
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Monkey girls and boys literally prefer dolls and trains.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:10 AM
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Short term tunnel vision. Men dropping out affects everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:08 AM
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Ok, "no man wants a slut". Its really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:50 AM
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Ngl I spat out my drink. Lets break this down one point at a time I mean there will be orgies and as much sex as you want Wrong, men want sex much more frequently than women. Women are repulsed by the bottom 50% of men and nobody will be having sex with them. no one will know who the child is so the whole community will rase it. Community will raise it is code for "we're going to forcefully tax men, a huge percentage of whom will never be partaking in sex to pay for our children" The child will …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:48 AM
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Most people you know arent Indian or Nigerian, but theres 1.5 Billion and 200 Million each of them. See the issue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:38 AM
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Women always give birth to their own children so they care very little about monogamy, especially when they no longer need the man to provide resources like today. A single man can breed an entire tribe of women. They dont care about what happens to 90% of men as long as that sweet 10% remain. In fact, most men are slightly repulsive to women so its a cause for celebration that their genes never propagate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:25 AM
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Calm down, no, men never stop caring about vaginas, women just happen to be attached to them. Prostitution ahoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:22 AM
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"People are dying of hunger in the developing world" "Sorry, children exist"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:19 AM
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Now that women no longer need men for things like income, they're pickier and would ultimately rather be alone. This precisely is what is happening. Women have something men want, sex. Men have nothing women want. Society was made by betas to control women by artificially restricting them from working, owning land, getting inheritance, power and by making marriage a societal need. That way men would have something women needed, money, thus equalizing the couple and stabilizing society as a whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:14 AM
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Tons of statistics all show an alarming trend. Declining marriage and birth rates, increasing divorce rates, increasing suicide rates, higher depression, massive increasing male and (to a much lesser extent) female virginity, fewer males working harder are just a few of the trends. The future is grim. "Just go out of your house and look at the street bro" is the stock market equivalent of "just look at the 1 hour change bro", when in reality you can predict a massive drop in value over a longer …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:29 AM
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Dating is working fine Working fine for who exactly? You? I think we all know your gender now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:26 AM
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Nice strawman, tons of statistics all show an alarming trend. "Just go out of your house and look at the street bro" is the stock market equivalent of "just look at the 1 hour change bro", when in reality you can predict a massive drop in value over a longer period of time based on a variety of factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:10 AM
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What the women thought of the man was never taken into consideration. If you beat a man in your tribe, you fucked his wives. If your tribe beat up another tribe you fucked their women. At no point were women chasing what they considered "attractive" men. It was men chasing women, it always has been that way, for the vast majority of humanity, and for all of time much throughout the animal kingdom. Because of this reason women today are the offspring of beautiful women (who were contested for and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:00 PM
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With today's effeminate men, you expect to see this? Meh, personally, I don't. Most men who have given up on society feel no need to "show off" their masculinity, either to attract women, impress friends etc. That may (in part) lead to your perception of "effeminate men".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:32 PM
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Ah my bad then. For the majority of human history (and possibly most of our mammalian history too) women had little say in mating, men competed with other men for beautiful women. As a result today we have women who are attractive to men and men who are not attractive to women. Now for the first time in the history of humanity women are actually choosing who they want to mate with. Interesting times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:11 PM
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This is why you take a class on evolution. Huge changes such as this take many generations, we'll likely see virtually no change in a few generations at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:02 PM
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Why do we behave that way and how do men not settle for some women? You don't call it settling when you've only got a few options. The fact that they failed to get a woman of a higher value proves that they, in fact, settled for their current partner. You're an idiot because by your argument nobody will ever not be settling. For everybody who "settles" there is somebody who "punches above". Settling in this context would mean matching up with a partner below yourself on a hypothetical scale. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:14 AM
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"How important is sexual attraction really?" Not very important for most men I'd assume because as an average guy I find 80% of healthy women in my age range sexually attractive, so the only thing that differentiates a woman most of the time is her personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:31 AM
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The first step in solving a problem is to recognize that it does exist. Only once it has been accepted will a larger number of people start looking for solutions, till then every random sjw will be able to claim these problems are "fake" and they will be ignored as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:52 AM
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All a virgin man needs to do is accept one of the 20 women pining for a relationship with him... oh wait. For a man to say no a woman actually has to ask him for a relationship and last I checked the vast majority of men arent flooded with requests for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:59 PM
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I look forward to it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:53 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex. The few men they allow through the gate then become the gatekeepers of a relation. All the other men arent gatekeeping anything lool.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:40 PM
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I am a male and I believe men currently in their early 20s (and all subsequent generations) should start preparing for a life of sexual solitude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:51 PM
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On tinder, the top 1% of men get 16% of all likes, the top 5% of men get 40% of all likes and the bottom 50% of men get 4% of all likes. Fair to say most men almost aren't in anybody's 20%. Judging by physical appearance alone, there is a very specific type of man women as a whole are attracted to. Yes, a variance exists and individuals may have varying tastes, sometimes very unique, but the large majority have a similar liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:33 AM
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So you're telling me there's a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:21 AM
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my argument is that this idea that women are asexual beings literally couldnt be further from the truth But OP didnt say that they are asexual, he said they are asexual compared to men. Most men have a very strong drive to have sex/orgasm if they havent for a few days while this is not the case for women. (Although to be fair, yes, it might be unfair to directly equate sexual drive of the genders this way) most women masturbate at normal levels What is normal? According to your "normal" males ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:03 AM
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Not trying to be rude, just pointing out the obvious issue here wdym I'm not hungry? I dont salivate at the smell of baked bread like you do, but I do occasionally feel like tasting some professionally prepared caviar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:41 AM
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This is interesting, what percentage of men do you find "repulsive" and does this change as you get to know them as a person? (Biology agrees with this "repulsion" feeling, many other animal species react the same way)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:36 AM
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Your argument further proves what I said Women can get sex in the snap of a finger simply because men have a huge sex drive and are almost constantly horny (not unlike OP, who is a normal 19 year old male). 99.9% of men can get themselves off within minutes just fine using their hands, the same cannot be said of women and this explains the sex toy purchasing disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:30 AM
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We dont rely on word of mouth or individual cases here. Anybody who thinks womens masturbation habits are comparable to men is either a sjw in denial of facts or an idiot. https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19910594/masturbation-study/ Regarding the highest-frequency masturbators, 5% of women ages 25-29 engage in solo sessions more than 4 times a week, while 20.1% of men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:17 AM
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Haha I know some people hate it when you add a /s at the end of an obvious troll post. So, to answer your question, "What is it like being a straight women sexually?", its like being in post nut clarity 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:25 AM
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No no no you're getting it all mixed up. Just because women see every single man on the streets as an NPC, are disgusted by male nude bodies while reacting neutrally to female nude bodies, barely masturbate or get aroused in comparison to all men, get disgusted at the thought of natural male sexuality and are the majority gender who turn down sex and get bored in long term relationships DOESNT MEAN THEY ARE ASEXUAL. Evolution stops at the neck, despite differences in brain size, brain structure,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:00 AM
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