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ra-por :D
/r/seduction30/10/15 07:55 PM
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gl hf :D
/r/seduction30/10/15 05:50 PM
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rapport*
/r/seduction30/10/15 05:13 PM
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Actually it's a mistake native speakers make more often because the sound is so similar.
/r/seduction26/09/15 06:22 PM
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might have*
/r/seduction26/09/15 04:40 PM
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The best part is there's a similar typo in this thread.
/r/seduction19/04/15 10:30 PM
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Being "alpha" isn't something you have or don't have. It's something you work on yourself to get to. It's the "be the best you you can be" mantra. Change what you don't like about yourself. Read the op again and apply it to anything that cannot be changed. When you like yourself and what you do, you gain confidence. And confidence with the ability to back it up is what being "alpha" is all about, isn't it?
/r/seduction19/04/15 06:27 PM
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In case you mean "hum with your mouth shut and modulate your tone until your lips start to resonate", that would make me talk in a rather hit pitch.
/r/seduction19/04/15 06:22 PM
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my brace face Brilliant. On a serious note, next time you ask yourself why anyone would like you, answer that little nagging voice with some good things about yourself. Tell it to shut the fuck up and watch you get with this woman.
/r/seduction19/04/15 06:20 PM
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buff the gender Brilliant.
/r/seduction19/04/15 06:14 PM
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She suggested a second date. You know where you stand with her. Grats :D
/r/seduction19/02/15 11:49 PM
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Dance like nobody is watching! I stopped giving a shit years ago, because I just love dancing so much. Never took lessons or anything, just letting the music move me. Closing your eyes helps ;) And this is the perfect subreddit to learn how to approach :D
/r/seduction07/12/14 04:02 PM
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'Hey you look nice. I am SharpieMarkerRandom, what's your name?'
/r/seduction10/09/14 07:54 PM
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Actually I am not even a native speaker and his story isn't that hard to understand.
/r/seduction29/07/14 01:02 PM
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There are people who don't want sex with anyone but their SO. Exclusive relationships are great for them. There are people who want to have sex with people other than their SO too. Open relationships are great for them. You can't make yourself not want it, all you can do is not act on it.
/r/seduction25/07/14 12:44 PM
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No! Bad! You can tell her. You choose not to. Go. Do it!
/r/seduction09/07/14 07:05 PM
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You can either try and make it happen or be open and talk about it. There is always a risk she freaks out and things go sour, however being friends with someone you love but can't tell them will not make you happy.
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:07 PM
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Congrats :D Situational opening is really the best.
/r/seduction02/07/14 11:46 AM
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Imo it's ok to open with 'You're cute and I would like to get to know you'. That way she knows your intent (see her 'my boyfriend' response) and if she's up for it, things are very easy. I generally like situational openers better though. There is always something she is doing, or something that is happening around you that you can open with. Example: Today I went to the supermarket and all the bike stands were full, so I had to park my bike on the street next to the sidewalk. A woman (I'm old) …
/r/seduction23/06/14 07:12 PM
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Smiling is good. Smiling is contagious. Smiling makes everything better :)
/r/seduction21/06/14 05:05 PM
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Tbh 9 times out of ten it will probably just sound really cheesy. I was glad she found it funny too.
/r/seduction08/06/14 02:59 PM
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I asked her 'do you even remember my name? You just called me 'oh god' all night.' She didn't XD
/r/seduction08/06/14 11:42 AM
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Different strokes for different folks. I very much prefer without.
/r/seduction28/05/14 12:38 PM
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Almost had something similar happen. She had been sleeping in my bed while I was still playing a game with a buddy. When he left and I went to bed she went 'Oh I'm not tired anymore'. She had to crawl onto me before I decided that yes, it's actually on, because I was thinking 'Damn, what if she really just wanted a place to crash, must suck that every guy always tries to get some...' and so on. Since then I heard the saying 'Women will forgive you for escalating too fast, but not for escalating …
/r/seduction02/07/12 03:53 PM
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Living up to your name there.
/r/seduction02/07/12 03:49 PM
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What does this have to do with the OP?
/r/seduction02/07/12 03:38 PM
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A long term relationship with your dream-girl will not seem like squandering your prime in hindsight. Go get her.
/r/seduction27/05/11 10:00 AM
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And if you want to be extra sure that they're not expecting exclusivity, talk with them. Let them know what kind of relationship -if any- you want.
/r/seduction23/05/11 07:24 PM
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Next time you're about to pussy out, remember how it felt after the last time you pussied out. Then Just Fucking Do It.
/r/seduction02/01/11 09:38 PM
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My first reading (when I still thought it was a man) was 'if one more pua tries to open me for social proof with a bs question, I'll throw my drink on him'.
/r/seduction02/01/11 11:36 AM
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I think by seddits standards or anyone he just had a gross misapplication of the learning material Yet you still say that what he is trying to make you become is what one will become if one follows seddit's advice. "You are not good enough" See Mat_Cauthon's reply. To me 'Be yourself' also means you should stay congruent. Lead an interesting life so you can enjoy it more and make others enjoy your company, but don't wear a mask, don't bend yourself and don't pretend. men need to build this grand…
/r/seduction01/01/11 03:02 PM
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Yes, building confidence in yourself is the first part. Then comes building attraction, then comfort. During the attraction and comfort building phase you build up sexual tension, and if appropriate you act on that tension by kissing her and/or taking her to bed (or the next available secluded spot). Seduction in a nutshell. Seriously, I don't see where you get your ideas about 'becoming a copy of them' or becoming 'a person designed to pick up girls for one night stands'. I mean any god dam sel…
/r/seduction01/01/11 05:41 AM
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I didn't bother to read further than your first three paragraphs, because you don't seem to get seduction. For one, one of the major mantras of seddit is 'Be yourself, but be the best possible self you can'. It's not about 'becoming a copy of them', it's about being confident in yourself because you know you are awesome, because you are leading an awesome life. You don't 'become a person designed to pick up girls for one night stands', you learn how social interactions work, how to convey how aw…
/r/seduction31/12/10 07:09 PM
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Read the explanation of the HB scale please. It's not entirely about looks and conveys more than subjective beauty. And the concept of IOIs gives you an idea of whether you are imagining things or getting genuine indication of interest (duh). I see a lot of posts like 'is (s)he being friendly or flirting?'. Look out for IOIs and you know.
/r/seduction31/12/10 06:54 PM
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Very basic tips. Relax, smile, it's not what you say but how you say it, have topics ready. Your voice is quite nice, as long as you don't crank up the sleaze (like you did in the opening of the vid ;) )
/r/seduction23/12/10 02:11 AM
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Maybe you are judging your own value/worth by the success you have with women. Get yourself an interesting hobby where you can excel, something competitive. Or do some honorary/social work. Both will improve the value you give yourself, and they'll be dhv if they come up while you game. Win/win :D Work on your outcome-independence, too. Auto-suggestion might help.
/r/seduction23/12/10 02:04 AM
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You do know you can even watch it in isometric view now? StoneSense.
/r/seduction23/12/10 01:48 AM
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at this point she gives me her full name and tells me to look her up on Facebook. Make sure to only use it to escalate to texts/dates.
/r/seduction22/12/10 11:48 PM
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I was getting more at the 'have her take your offered hand instead of taking hers', but yeah just leading her establishes/reinforces your being alpha.
/r/seduction22/12/10 11:40 PM
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If you are regularly pulling 7s and 8s you must be doing something right. how do you get over this initial hump and start to internalize the attitude you're cultivating Inner game, psyching yourself up. I am awesome. If she doesn't see that, her loss. If you get blown out, remind yourself she rejected the approach, not me, because she doesn't even know me yet. I am awesome, if she knew me she wouldn't have blown me out. And above all, think of the dwarf fortress mantra: Losing Is Fun!
/r/seduction22/12/10 11:13 PM
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To transition from dancing to conversation you can suggest getting drinks. Then offer your hand to her and lead her to the bar.
/r/seduction22/12/10 11:07 PM
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Thanks for posting :D Don't drop the ball on the 7 now, ask her out/over to your place while the attraction is still there. Apart from that, nothing I could pick on ;)
/r/seduction22/12/10 10:56 PM
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The Berenstain Bears Fuck Shit Up.
/r/seduction22/12/10 12:12 AM
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Followed by "I'll be meeting friends at [club] at [time] tonight. Feel free to join us."
/r/seduction20/12/10 09:53 PM
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Beach House, Bonobo (or most any Ninja Tune stuff), Beirut, Air, Blockhead, Bratsch, Goldfrapp, Portishead, any Salsa, Merengue or Bachata.
/r/seduction20/12/10 09:31 PM
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Intjpua and cheddarchexmix get my vote.
/r/seduction19/12/10 12:40 AM
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Weaponized_Dairy retired.
/r/seduction19/12/10 12:38 AM
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At least it would be all downhill from there, you know? While I know what you are trying to say there... That saying doesn't mean what you think it does.
/r/seduction13/12/10 01:52 PM
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No, a German. -edit- Parent asked if this was a troll.
/r/seduction13/12/10 12:02 AM
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New phones can save a photograph with the contact. When I am approaching people that can't see me and want them to know I am there i just let one foot slide over the ground once while I am still at some distance.
/r/seduction12/12/10 11:36 PM
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Birthday girl probably wanted to get with you from the beginning, hence why you were invited. She probably thought you were interested because you kino'd her on the way back. Leading someone on works both ways, don't do that if you can help it. She put herself out there and got shot down. Hopefully she has read some pua material and learned to accept rejection. That said, nice FR. You could've tried to #close the 7 with something like 'We should meet up for another round of pool'.
/r/seduction10/12/10 01:39 PM
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Ask her name. Don't tell her she's adorable.
/r/seduction10/12/10 01:05 PM
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Well put, and probably really helpful for those in the fledgling stages who still struggle with AA. However, your third lesson is something you will find a lot in seddit. The advice is not to 'pretend you're a social animal', but 'become the best self you can, and then be yourself'. Self improvement is not about putting on a mask. And complacence about your self is not helpful. Regarding your fourth lesson, that's what FRs are for. Ideally you do list what went wrong, then reflect on it and then…
/r/seduction10/12/10 04:57 AM
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I'm sitting next to Donna and my kino, which is a very weak part of my game, is working well - arm touches and the occasional knee grab. Always check if she reciprocates. If she does, escalate. You probably could've come further than that. Otherwise, great FR.
/r/seduction09/12/10 02:45 PM
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He explains the different openers ok, but his examples seem overly cheesy. Also I'd leave the 'You're adorable' part out of the direct opener.
/r/seduction09/12/10 02:38 PM
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I think it's not his body language, but his face. The way he clenches his lips, how his eyes seem sad. I get the vibe that he has/had self-esteem issues.
/r/seduction09/12/10 02:36 PM
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Spot on. If she is 'clearly interested' she will be glad to follow you out of the group for most any reason. Let's go grab some snacks from the supermarket. Let's check out this great gadget/book/picture I drew in my room. It's hot/cold/boring in here, let's go outside.
/r/seduction09/12/10 02:30 PM
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Great FR, thanks for posting. You opened the night very well, kudos for having the chuzpe to go up first. This causes the two HB9s to walk away. Just like that? Seems strange. Either something happened that you didn't mention or they were not cool. Didn't they say anything before leaving? I keep talking with HB7, trying to DHV I think at that point there was no need to DHV anymore, because she already came after you. You up on the stage was a massive DHV. Your number close was spot on, having he…
/r/seduction09/12/10 02:23 PM
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Tilt your head left and point to your knees/lap with your eyes, then look back at her.
/r/seduction08/12/10 12:52 PM
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Just eat some fruit every day. Tastes better too.
/r/seduction08/12/10 03:20 AM
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Sorry, no constructive critique, but this: jam friend decides to rub it in, in his drunken, percocet addled mind. "SO WAIT WE'RE DRIVING YOU TO BANG SOME DUDE HAHAHAH" Made me laugh out loud.
/r/seduction07/12/10 11:22 PM
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Lay it out beforehand instead of afterwards. Better Karma ;)
/r/seduction07/12/10 11:11 PM
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Her: hug you're suck a dick :3 Paging Dr. Freud, paging Dr. Freud.
/r/seduction06/12/10 03:09 PM
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Don't neg on something she can't change easily (crooked teeth). Negs like that tend to hit harder than planned, even if the girl doesn't let it show. I can fix that Too outcome oriented / needy maybe. That said, it seems she called you out on your game ('Once you start negging me properly.')
/r/seduction06/12/10 02:23 PM
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Bah, if she doesn't read Adams she's not worth picking up anyway.
/r/seduction06/12/10 02:18 AM
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'Go your way and you will meet people going in the same direction.'
/r/seduction06/12/10 02:13 AM
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Did she reciprocate at all?
/r/seduction06/12/10 02:08 AM
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afcanonymous' formula is great. Just make sure to avoid closed (yes/no) questions as openers, because it can be hard to follow those up.
/r/seduction06/12/10 02:02 AM
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Regarding the cupcakes, thaeds response is good. But yeah you messed up on the mexican food offer.
/r/seduction06/12/10 01:57 AM
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Then ask her to come with you grab some more because it was de-fucking-licious.
/r/seduction06/12/10 01:54 AM
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One thing I learned from seddit is to 'offer' your arm/hand by just laying it down palm up. Most of the time, an interested girl will take it. If she doesn't you don't even have to feel too awkward because you have plausible deniability.
/r/seduction06/12/10 01:49 AM
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I tend to use either situational/observational openers or 'Hi I am throwaway42, what's your name?'
/r/seduction06/12/10 01:35 AM
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Some general things one can usually find in here: be yourself Yes, be yourself, but have that self be awesome. Get yourself an interesting hobby (that interests you of course) like climbing. You will meet interesting people and you will have something to talk about with other people you open. I have a hard time even finding girls I can approach IRL, and need a lot of IOIs Always assume attraction. You are awesome! Of course they want to get to know you. I feel if I don't handle this, it will cau…
/r/seduction06/12/10 01:22 AM
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Win some, lose some, it's all the same to me! Hopefully she'll feel more comfortable giving me her number next time. Maybe instead of asking for her number again ask her to grab a bite/drink with you after the workout. You don't want this to become a running gag where you ask for her number after every workout.
/r/seduction05/12/10 05:46 AM
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Thanks for claryfing. Congrats on the female wing, train her ;) If she confirms you before sunday evening and you see her online, do a short fb chat with her where you tell her where to meet next time. Keep it short, saying something like 'I need to go meet up with my friends' or something. I probably wouldn't reference the 'playing music together' but more the dancing in the bar afterward. There's a lot of solid advice on first dates on seddit, like don't sit opposite if it's a dinner date, bou…
/r/seduction05/12/10 05:27 AM
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Wait... You didn't take her back? What happened between 'We made out' and 'She left without me'?
/r/seduction04/12/10 09:04 PM
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Woop woop!
/r/seduction04/12/10 02:47 PM
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Nice FR, thanks for posting. I tell her that she should text me next time she's going running. She has me program my number into her phone. Next time get her number and tell her when you're going running, saying she's welcome to join you. "Don't I even get a good night kiss?" Either just go for a good night kiss or be all cool about her leaving. Being pouty is not cool. (I tend to mess this up too.) "you're cute, but you're gay!" How'd you react to this? I would've probably blatantly sexualized …
/r/seduction04/12/10 02:20 PM
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Just experiment with your voice while doing chores when nobody is around. Sing, try to impersonate your friends, see what strange noises or phonems you can produce. Get to know your vocal chords ;)
/r/seduction03/12/10 01:32 AM
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Or, you know, read the fucking manual once? Acronyms/abbreviations are a good way to communicate established concepts without having to write a paragraph each time.
/r/seduction02/12/10 11:16 AM
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Cheddarchexmix and intjpua.
/r/seduction02/12/10 11:14 AM
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Things to improve: Try and text less before you've established a good connection, easy to lose attraction by texting. Don't go to a movie on the first date. At least you had dinner before ;) When she throws you something like 'you like the same stuff as my parents', try and make light of it, or don't react to it at all. Sounds a bit like a shit test to me, to see how well you have your shit together. Instead of saying you were tired, you could've said something like 'oh sorry I was thinking abou…
/r/seduction26/11/10 05:13 AM
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If I had a rommate and it was a good friend, he'd be pissed if i didn't take him. Just make sure he doesn't interfere, like minny said.
/r/seduction26/11/10 04:17 AM
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Make sure to keep the party concentrated in one or two rooms. They'll probably expect a short tour, just be modest about the house. Later on, if you've established good rapport with her you can try and take her by the hand to lead her to your room. Everything i've posted here should be taken with a grain of salt, I'm obviously no pro-pua. Always consider her feedback and the general situation.
/r/seduction26/11/10 03:59 AM
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Firstly, you know her, so depending on what's customary in your circle of friends you could hug her for a greeting. While going out of the hug let your arm rest on / slide down hers for a moment. Since it is your house, you can tell them to come with you to where the drinks are. Offer your hand to her, see if she takes it. The bar/kitchen is hopefully crowded/loud, so you will have to be close to each other. Stand by her side rather than in front of her. If it's loud enough to warrant it, lean i…
/r/seduction25/11/10 08:35 PM
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saying they must be good friends because they mirror each others' facial expressions I wasn't too sure about that part, everything else sounds well done though. Picked up on IOI, push-pull, starting out with kino, more push-pull, picked up on reciprocating, escalating aand close. Congrats :D
/r/seduction25/11/10 05:55 PM
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If it's a bar with a dancefloor, try and get them to dance with you. Smile at them openly and make a come-hither gesture. If there is no dancefloor, try and get them into your group, for example with an opinion opener.
/r/seduction25/11/10 04:01 PM
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Read up on kino escalation, for example the Vin di Carlo escalation ladder. Be a good host in that you make sure everyone enjoys the party, get yourself in a high energy state and just radiate with positivity. Make sure you are not all over her, but give her attention on and off.
/r/seduction25/11/10 03:56 PM
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When I was dancing in a club all night with friends, and at the end of the night some random girl walked up to me and chatted me up. I thought I sensed interest and went into kino overdrive, escalating really fast from hands to hands on her back to grinding (luckily she was drunk and looking for a lay). First time I did some grinding, usually I dance for myself. She told me she liked how I had been spreading a good mood all night.
/r/seduction25/11/10 02:51 AM
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And no, I'm not a good catch yet, having only succeeded with one out of how many ever hundred. That is not a belief I hold but a fact supported by data. I think you're misunderstanding 'good catch' in this context, as DCMurphy has pointed out. What it means is that you need to internalize that you have value, that you are a person the girls should be after, and if they blow you off, it's their loss. They don't know you, they don't know what a great person you are, but if they did they'd want you…
/r/seduction23/11/10 11:11 PM
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Keep practicing and reflecting on it. What did you say that turned her away? Why did it affect her like it did? What might have worked better? If you practice enough while being very conscious / aware, it will come naturally over time.
/r/seduction23/11/10 12:08 PM
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if you have trouble with the smile, remember that she named her dildo after you and imagine her masturbating with it. Thanks for another surefire way to put a smile on my face. But I have to say that if the girl is interesting, the smiling comes naturally.
/r/seduction22/11/10 01:03 AM
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Dance like nobody is watching. I never learned anything about dancing proper, I just move to the music.
/r/seduction22/11/10 12:58 AM
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Responsible? No. But will you be able to look yourself into the eyes?
/r/seduction22/11/10 12:50 AM
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Pro: She might be cool with it. Con: She might not and you wouldn't get any. The last fwb girl I told about that other girl I was sleeping with was not cool with it, even though we made it clear from the outset that there would be 'no obligations, no disappointment'. Took a whole night of sweet-talking until she would let me again.
/r/seduction16/11/10 12:34 AM
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You can have your cake and eat it too no problem. The problem arises when you want to eat your cake and have it too. -edit- But seriously, keep telling them that yes, you are sleeping with somebody else until you find one (or more) that are ok with it.
/r/seduction05/11/10 03:02 AM
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Good on you :D I found The SIRC guide to flirting via seddit, and it contains a lot of useful information. If you haven't read it yet, it might help improve your game.
/r/seduction12/10/10 11:18 AM
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Well, did you man the hell up and went out there to make it happen?
/r/seduction11/10/10 07:17 PM
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We didn't talk for a few days, and then I texted her saying something along the lines of well I guess it isn't going to work out, huh? Don't do this if you're not really sure you want to end it. And even then, just end it.
/r/seduction11/10/10 07:16 PM
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