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throwaway52114/r/seduction06/01/15 08:00 PM
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throwaway52114/r/seduction31/03/15 04:39 PM
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I get why you should always be seeking to improve yourself, but if you adopt a mindset where you are never satisfied with where you are at then how can you genuinely be happy?
/r/seduction07/01/15 07:18 AM
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How can one convey that you want her and not just to have sex with her? Is this already evident to her if you're dating?
/r/seduction07/01/15 05:28 AM
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The third date was a movie at my place. I made a move. We were making out, I tried to escalate further but she nodded her head. I said fuck it and continued to make out with her, it was still great.
/r/seduction07/01/15 05:20 AM
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I appreciate the advice, but I don't think this method is for me. I put my work before everything, so I already don't have much time to date and add to that the fact that I'm a perfectionist. I have a group of close friends that I cherish very much, and don't want to forget about them either. Dating on girl at a time may be more inefficient, but alas, what can you do?
/r/seduction07/01/15 05:02 AM
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So you're saying, become a more well-rounded individual? Is the best way to do this by focusing on areas that I would like to improve in? And I'd just like to add, I don't think anyone has "true confidence" if by that, you mean perfect confidence. Chances are, everyone has an area of their life they are insecure about. It's different for everyone. But it's there, it's part of being human. You can't be completely perfect in all aspects.. I've tried.
/r/seduction07/01/15 04:59 AM
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I know confidence is a big thing. But if a girl is into you, does it really matter how much confidence you have?
/r/seduction07/01/15 04:51 AM
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Interesting, thanks for your perspective! So you guys went out, thought it wasn't gonna work out and then decided to try NSA?
/r/seduction07/01/15 04:48 AM
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I'll keep that in mind. I'm not denying the possibility that there was something wrong with my behavior, perhaps I just wasn't assertive enough with what I wanted. Thanks!
/r/seduction07/01/15 04:46 AM
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No thanks, I value myself enough to hold my own life to a pretty high standard. It may set myself up for disappointment, but I don't settle for mediocrity.
/r/seduction07/01/15 03:45 AM
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A month total time, but we only went out on 3 dates. We still talked a lot during the time. The problem was we met before Thanksgiving break, then we had exams and such. I may have been a bit clingy, but I don't think I over did it. Date ideas were good, but nothing out of the ordinary. And I'm not sure if she was seeing anybody else, but I don't think so.
/r/seduction07/01/15 03:39 AM
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Lol you assumed I'm one of those guys at parties who whips his guitar out and starts annoying everyone with wonder wall. I've studied music theory for several years. I actually write my own songs, I rarely play the material of others. I think I'm already good on the standing out department, but thanks.
/r/seduction07/01/15 01:48 AM
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Wow that really put things into perspective. Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction07/01/15 01:42 AM
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Well excuse me for having my own opinions and approaches to seduction. There's not one single correct way of doing it all. And I may be a bit entitled, but there's no need to be a dick about it. And I know, I'm able to handle it for the most part. But there are times when it gets to me, and it's hard to deal with. Anyways, thanks for the last bit of advice.
/r/seduction07/01/15 01:37 AM
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Okay yeah, I see the pros. But how would you even fit that into a busy schedule? Even dating one girl, at a time, I'd probably only be able to take her out once or twice a week in order to complete my work at a satisfactory level. If I'm dating 5 girls at once I'd be going out on a date nearly every night. I don't have time for that.
/r/seduction07/01/15 01:32 AM
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Wow. That actually makes PERFECT sense, and I now think I understand why she doesn't think we're compatible. While we have a lot in common and similar life goals/trajectories, we simply have too different ideas of fun. That's not to say we can't have fun together. I enjoy getting inebriated a lot with my friends, she does nothing of the sort but respects people decision to do so. We were compatible, definitely, just maybe not as compatible as she was looking for. Thank you for explaining it to m…
/r/seduction07/01/15 12:45 AM
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I'm sorry, I'm not doing anything? What exactly should I be doing then? When I said I'm being myself, I meant I present myself genuinely to girls. I don't try to bullshit. "Interesting" is something that is subjective; different people find different things interesting. I present myself genuinely because I want to attract a specific kind of girl. The kind I succeeded in attracting but failed to keep. Maybe some people want to live a life of adventure. I have no qualms with adventure, but I prefe…
/r/seduction07/01/15 12:37 AM
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That's a good analogy and I see how that would work well. What if I only want to focus on one girl at a time (for simplicity's sake)? Am I doing myself a disservice?
/r/seduction07/01/15 12:27 AM
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Actually, wow that makes sense. I do recall that this girl was a bit self-absorbed. In other words, she wouldn't reciprocate asking as many questions as I did about her.
/r/seduction07/01/15 12:24 AM
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Fair enough, I suppose I could accept that. And I think I may have come off a bit needy, but I don't think I ever showed more neediness than she did. So should I just not give a fuck if a girl likes me? I'm not sure if I could do that completely.
/r/seduction07/01/15 12:21 AM
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Thanks for the consolation. I think maybe part of the problem was that I invested too much, way too early. We matched on tinder during an exam week, and we couldn't meet until the end of the week. So we just talked and I found out we had a lot of in common. So I just keep talking to her until the first date, and that's where I went wrong I think. It continued way too much even after that. I texted her too much, maybe creating a false image of her in my mind. She wasn't turned off by the texting,…
/r/seduction07/01/15 12:19 AM
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Fine. But what is compatibility? Clearly I don't grasp the concept as well as I thought I did.
/r/seduction06/01/15 11:39 PM
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I mean isn't that what happens in all human interactions? You don't walk up to a stranger, hoping to make a new friend, and open with "hi, I'm xxxxx and I'm a depressed and socially anxious individual. By the way, I also love music and science blah blah blah." I accept she's not perfect, that's part of being human. But regardless of her imperfections, she's pretty damn cool. I don't think she's flawless, and that's not what attracts me to her.
/r/seduction06/01/15 11:38 PM
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What reading list?
/r/seduction06/01/15 11:35 PM
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Yeah that does sound really familiar. She didn't say that she sees me as a friend, but she said that after hanging out with me those times she realized it wasn't gonna go anywhere for her. Whatever the fuck that means. Why does that happen? And that bit on enjoying life rather than living inside your mind.. Surely there are ways to achieve that aside from approaching many women, right? I've held thus mindset for periods of time but I find that it doesn't seem to last. Eventually, I'll retreat ba…
/r/seduction06/01/15 10:11 PM
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Yeah I think I do. Thanks, I'll check out the article.
/r/seduction06/01/15 10:02 PM
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But what the fuck is compatibility? I mean, I sure as hell thought I was compatible with this girl. Another thing, how do you push yourself to keep dating people if I'm hung up on this particular girl?
/r/seduction06/01/15 10:00 PM
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