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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 24 | Ready to commit and then they bail (AKA THE REASON TO DATE MULTIPLE MEN AT ONCE AND PROPERLY VET)No to military men. Lots of misogyny there. Plus, domestic abuse rates much higher among military families, coupled with hectic schedules, uncertainty if they’ll return home, and an uninvolved spouse. I find that the nerdy, unattractive guys are oftentimes worse than the attractive ones - they expect beautiful women to fall head over heels for their “personality” because they “bring the brains to the table.” As a consequence, these men will pursue gorgeous women who they think are dumber because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 10:21 AM |
| 126 | Weird "Male oppression" myths on redditI run from any man who says sex is a basic human need. Sex is NOT a right. When these men complain about “male oppression,” it really harkens back to “horny and no gf halp.” They see in all women they’re attracted to the women who rejected them; they are incapable of having healthy relationships with women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 10:13 AM |
| 8 | You are not just your attractiveness. Don’t let anyone reduce to that.This needs more upvotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:09 AM |
| 55 | That last conversation won't give you closureDeep down, he knows the truth. You being indifferent and thriving without him will hurt him the most. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 01:17 PM |
| 2 | How far would your ex have gotten with you if you'd been following FDS principles then?I’d be relationship-less 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!Modern men are experiencing an identity crisis. Their predecessors provided women with material worth. Now that women are no longer shut out from paths to power and wealth, modern men have nothing to offer women except dick and their problematic personalities. This is fear talking. A woman who rejects a man romantically rejects all he has left to offer her. He is effectively useless to her afterward. Men are afraid of feminism for this very reason: if women didn’t need men, patriarchy would coll… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:26 PM |
| 45 | Would this be considered a pick me mindset? I used to think this way when I was a pick me. When I stopped caring about or catering to the male gaze, I stopped wanting male attention all together. Especially while minding my business.Plugging this quote even though it has been brought up many times on FDS: “Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it's all a male fantasy: that you're strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren't catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you're unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | How to reject men without fear of violence?Sadly, the most surefire way I’ve found is claiming to be the property of another man aka the “I have a boyfriend” line | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Dad is a creepy LVMTake the loans and GTFO please please please please. Your dad is grooming you and THIS IS NOT THE END. It WILL escalate. No amount of money is worth your sanity, mental health, and bodily autonomy. A life free from abuse with student loans is infinitely better than one with abuse and without loans. Your dad is not just a LVM. He is a predator and his behavior will only get worse. Please please get out ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Well. There you have it ladies.Lol if Reddit NVM say you’re the asshole then that’s a whole iceberg situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:23 AM |
| 133 | Stop normalizing men’s immaturitySociety will take men’s faults and find a way to turn them into an advantage/convenient excuse. “Men are simple and one track minded” turns into “How am I supposed to know to do housework without being asked? How was I supposed to know she didn’t consent to anal sex?” “Men are immature” turns into “He’s allowed to treat you like shit because he’s a man” “Men are visual creatures” turns into “You will be rewarded for catering to their gaze”. “Men are uncomfortable expressing their emotions” turns… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:18 AM |
| 16 | The reasons behind the myth of short men having a “hard time” dating is other men, their own insecurities and how vicious they are to a taller woman who dares to show any interest.This. I’ve been attracted to shorter men before until finding out they were insecure about their height relative to mine, at which point my own height became a focal point and made me feel uncomfortable about it. Now I follow 6/6/6 :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:10 PM |
| 32 | When Gail talks, people should listen.She said she once interviewed a pedophile in jail, and he told her that “the culture did most of the grooming” for him. Some days, I just can’t get this out of my mind. Absolutely sickening and heartbreaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:15 AM |
| 39 | Just sharing my favorite gem from a scrote (before I disabled my chat) Their definition of HV cracks me upa. Notice how he used high value female instead of high value woman. Red flag 🚩 that he sees women as sex objects. b. He doesn’t make any effort to understand why we say to wait at least 3 months before sleeping with a guy. It’s to screen him for commitment and make sure he views you as more than a sex object or pump and dump opportunity. Then this guy purposely misinterprets that rule so that he has the opportunity to compare FDS to male incel communities because FDS is wrecking his chances wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:28 AM |
| 15 | A new question for your vetting process and general discussionThis is a nice question! I think that if their stress capacity is below their hours then definitely decrease hours. But I also think that stress capacity can change and that giving a person whose stress capacity is above their current working hours more hours would be wrong. So I think it should only apply in the case to make life easier | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 04:53 PM |
| 67 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘I’d like to propose an edit to the ranking system. -9 to 1. Asymptotic behavior as value of man approaches 1. 95% of men fall within 2 standard deviations of the mean, which is in hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:54 AM |
| 63 | A lot of criticisms of women are just male projection when you really think about it.“Women talk so much” vs “women should communicate more” The issue is, we are communicating with them. They’re choosing not to listen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:26 AM |
| 42 | Women’s bodies are not put on this Earth to be bought and sold under an artificially created capitalist systemNeeded to read this. Even Reddit can be problematic but my feed is basically FDS and embroidery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:14 PM |
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