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#KickHimOut2020throwaway56662/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 04:32 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEthrowaway56662/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 02:57 AM
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Thank you for saying this. I’ve always felt the rhetoric was for women to shape their behaviour and whatever else to be seen as valuable. This type of validation and way of thinking is exhausting, personally speaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:52 PM
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Let him go. Block everywhere. Eventually you’ll get tired and regret the times you’ve wasted with these Lvm. Speaking from experience & currently feeling this regret now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:50 AM
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Sooooo true especially the last part
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:15 AM
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I don’t get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:16 AM
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Entirely and ego thing. The rush they get. They probably didn’t bag women in their younger years but want to make up. Harsh judgement but their intentions are so trivial. Men your own age will at least be in the same journey and path as you. Less baggage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:42 AM
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Why: -low confidence, self esteem and self worth. -loneliness. -no passion / lack of hobbies. -lack of stability (emotional and mental) looking for someone to give me “safety” -pain from past experiences -not a close / personal relationship with my family. they are lovely but living a double life has made it seem like we’re strangers. All this can really make you an easy target for men, literally a gold mine to them to use and dispose you. Abstinence is a good step but a lot of work; unfortunate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:41 AM
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I’d honestly tell any young woman to avoid older men. In my early 20s i was with a man in his 40s. Charming as hell but heartbreak and tears are only inevitable. These men typically do not want to settle and will waste your time if you allow them to. Emotionally unavailable. They appear to be stable because of their finances and experiences, so you’d miss the red flags and start to view them and their actions in rose-coloured glasses. You will always be one of many and will only be a play-thing,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:32 AM
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Same boat. Feel angry for letting myself be used when I’m worth much more than how I allowed myself to be treated. I became abstinent and began focusing on myself, my career and addressing my core issues (answering the question on why I sell myself short). It isn’t easy but keep reminding yourself that you are worthy and work towards making yourself a stronger person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 02:12 AM
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I knew a man who said this as well but he was financially well off and had a high level position. He’s in his 40s and I’m in my 20s. Pure bachelor. I interpreted this as an extension of his work image (having a woman close to his age range, in a powerful position) as well as financial dependency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 02:00 AM
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If you’re in a serious and healthy relationship with a HVM and you’re a HVW, there would be open communication and honesty. Not anything you described in your post as it seems manipulative / childish (200 texts). This seems controlling and insincere. In dating, he should chase - and once you know he’s a HVM and it’s official between you two (serious) I would think that you’d get past the who texts who first phase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 10:53 PM
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I get that too but for me personally I think makeup and dressing up is to have fun with myself and to express myself, for my personal enjoyment. In the professional atmosphere of course I dress to impress and I am cautious; particularly since the industry I’m in is heavily male dominated and I’m a young, attractive and single woman. Personally, Women or men may not agree with my style but I know what works for me and I enjoy expressing myself in the way I choose to. I’ve often had either family …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:25 AM
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The number of times I’ve heard men say they like the “natural” look because they know “who they wake up to” in the morning. Incredibly shallow. They fail to realize the fun we have with our makeup and our fashion is for us and not them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:16 PM
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Don’t react with every emotion, take a step back and think about things before responding. Look at your previous relationships, you’ve cried, begged for other chances and have survived and eventually found peace. You can control your emotions and how you respond, just be aware of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:27 PM
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Good luck and stay strong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:59 AM
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I find it problematic that you said “you gave him head because that’s probably what he came here for” I used to sound like this and it has to do with having zero self worth. You’re concerned for a lvm who treats you like a cum dumpster. Don’t confuse this for care & affection. My advice to you is to stay away from men and sex until you start loving and knowing your worth. You’re better than this. Strive towards making a change and break what’s likely a cycle/pattern of self defeating behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:42 PM
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My issue all the time. Placing on a pedestal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:43 PM
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He’s bored / no one else is entertaining him at the moment. You respond and he’ll become dry once someone new comes in. Then when they leave you’ll get a “hey stranger” or a random emoji text. You’ll never be first priority, you’ll just be an “in case”. Not worth responding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:24 PM
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How did you overcome it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 01:26 AM
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