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He gaslighted you with confusing words. He was not attracted to you and just used you for sex. After he got sex, bye bye.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 07:08 AM
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It is better to separate divorce and infidelity. The marriage means shit if contaminated with infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:19 AM
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What makes her a hoe? If we know this, it will be a great tool for vetting, if you still believe in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:29 AM
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Care to elaborate more on the mentality and quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:49 AM
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I always think that virginjty is a measure that lowers the risk of infidelity, not completely. Just because he or she is virgin, does not mean they will not cheat. If they want to cheat, they will cheat. That being said, if you do not want to be cheated, you need to assess other variables. Her personality, her views on things, her values, her selfishness level, those impact the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:48 AM
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The case is backward. Instead of being a hoe and then get married, this time it follows the "right" convention: married as a virgin. However OP found that this is also not a variable to make a a loyal wife, since he found an instance where she just delayed her hoe phase. He then posit that hoe phase is inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:36 AM
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Is it the mentality to get the best you can have, the FOMO culture, to be in the trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:31 AM
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It can be genuine, but also not. It is subjective. At the end of extreme spectrum, the excuse can be used to conceal her hoe phase, since she is not attractive enough to secure guy she desired in her 20s. Realizing her youth is depreciating fast, she tries to quickly secure a mate, albeit lower to no physical attraction. This results the man ends up being just an ATM. I mean, this scenarjo can happen. But it can also that she has not genuinely found the right guy. As we all know, dating is a cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:45 AM
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I suspect something fishy from him. It ia good you know you are not sexually attracted to him. Do him the favor. About the money, do not let it push you to be with someone you do not want. This usually ends up in an abuse marriage. Better work it by yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 04:50 PM
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It is different since people are individuals. It is just if you take a look at bigger trend, which might not applicable to certain people, it shows the said narrative. You and your friends are so lucky to meet guys you want and want you back, but not all women are that lucky. More often than not, they settle down because she doesn't want to be left alone, but not attracted to their partner. This is what men try to avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:21 PM
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It is not about getting older. It is about options. Young women have many options to pick men she wants, and if she settles down early, that means it is more likely he is what she wants all along. This is in contrast to settling down later. There is a possibility that she settles down because she is running out options and her current mate might not be what she wants. However there is a risk if she breaks up with him, she might end up alone forever. This is comparable when you have plethora of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:18 PM
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Isn't a double-edged sword? What makes women feel safe can also go against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:19 PM
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As a straight male, I support this. However I see this will not long last. Assume no rape or sexual harassment done by male, other females will harass each other due to competition. Most boobs are not as pretty as we can see on web. Not all female have instagram worthy boobs. Some are flat to just a budding, some are there but the shape is not attractive. Some are big but saggy. Straight men are happy to see boobs, however competition to get female with the best shaped boobs available will incre…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:23 PM
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Some men do think it is important, some men don't. From my experience, it depends on whether they are religious, easy to get laid, media consumed, and circle of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:36 PM
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You may regret hooking up with a stranger and it lowers your chance to get high value male.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 10:45 AM
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Is this another word for wanting rich men? From men who want thin women, big boobs, pretty face to women who want tall, broad shoulder, rich man, this has been the case for centuries. The problem this does not always give optimum satisfaction is because some important factors are overlooked.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 04:31 PM
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The physical attractiveness is unique for women in their 30. Even though some are still pretty, but they lack this youth look. Even compared to younger women are less pretty, because they still have the youth look, i find them more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:56 AM
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There is a study that says the more sex partner you have, the more likely you to divorce. Men avoid divorce because of its financial repercussions, and they heard stories of being in bad marriage, then the author said to not marry women with high n-count. So being a rational being, these men calculate a simple cost/benefit and decide not to engage if the current trajection is better, compared to marrying women with high n-count. Those folks at redpill see a future where no man wants to commit wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:47 PM
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Well since men are susceptible to coolidge effect, there is a higher risk (please note this is a risk, it might or might not happen) of cheating.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 06:33 AM
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From strategy pov, this is not a good thing. You basically shoot yourself in the foot. Maybe you think if you are gonna get rejected anyway at the end, why not being rejected now. You do not want to waste your time. There are some men who might appreciate it, who want it safe. But there are men who believe past stays in the past. You might test the water to ask his belief. If he thinks past matters, tell him. It does you and him good.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 01:22 AM
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Is that what you think of pregnant women? Men and women have preferences. Why is it wrong for men to prefer marrying virgin women? Men do not need to explain why most men find virgin women attractive, same.as women do not need to explain why most women prefer tall guys. Well as always, the party who gets hurt will scream out loud, be it men or women. That is being said, good luck for men to find virgin women nowadays in US. Men need to be wise about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:53 AM
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It is something that I notice during masturbation that I can get hard and orgasm faster if I find the girl attractive. However, if she is not, I will lose hardness. So I keep rubbing, but even it feels not complete. Even if I orgasm, it is just something is missing. Maybe the culprit is attractiveness, which is a total black box. I plead to great redditors here to enlighten me some lights on this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:39 PM
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For me, once I learned that being in a relationship may result in unhappiness, suddenly being single is not that bad if your quality of life is higher than being in a relationship. Sure it could be better if you have a good relationship. But why would I trade a higher quality of life to a lower one just to be in a relationship. It does not make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:32 PM
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It could be that these high body count girl knows how to stimulate her and she is also attracted to her mate. So for you it could be, even though you are attracted to your mate, however you have yet to know to stimulate yourself. Assuming what OP said is true, then the women who can't get off is likely not attracted to her husband. Attraction is the spark to start sex, then right stimulations result to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:26 PM
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It usually happens to women who can't bag alphas they are currently having sex with. Usually starts at late 20s where they feel they are running out of options, but it can be as early as early or mid 20 although it is quite rare since they think they can still find and bag alphas. It is great if you have not seen it in your circle, that means you have a high quality circle. However please note that there are more circles. Your experience might differ from others. Just because it does not happen …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:34 PM
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The reason this does not work is because of behavioural issue. Say that she is lucky enough to get a man who are traditional, masculine and accepts liberal left wing women. Say that he is rich enough to pay for a cook and a maid, baby sitter and so on. Do you think she is going to be happy and grateful for him? Do you think she is going to be faithful? There is a possibility for that, but more often than not she will cheat on him. It is the "i want only the best no compromise." mentality. No man…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 02:36 AM
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At the beginning, men are faced with two possibilities: I believe she will reciprocate in her own way. Or Just use me as an ATM. If men do not see the first possibility to be an option, what do you think the men will end up doing? Eat the whole loss? No way. Curb the loss. It worked for you because you showed a quality that it is not going to be a one sided relationship. It is better to tell her how to signal that the relationship is going to be mutual, instead of denying guys who do not want to…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 03:35 PM
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You do not want to hold the monetary risk, do you think he wants to hold the monetary risk? You spend your time, energy, opportunity cost. Do you think he does not lose the same thing? What do you offer anyway? What quality do you show as a potential mate? You might think you and your friend are highly desirable, but men do not agree with that. Then as you get older you lower your standards, you start bottom feed. We all know how this ends. Men notice this. One of the reason men are more incline…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 02:22 PM
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They are in a "relationship" or at least that is what thry think, but when they ask more, they will get dumped. This is when they realize they were just used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:36 PM
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I don't know why a psychological analysis or an explanation is needed It comes from manosphere. Those men did not get sex, so they tried to understand the situation, hence all ofvthese pyshcological reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:58 AM
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If most women do not derive pleasure from hooking up, is there some kind of pyshcological gap that only sex can fill it? It is just I was told the basic is there is a need to satisfy the urge to have sex with men that they (women) find fit, and why does the urge come from? Lo and behold: evolution. It is just for me the explanation is not satisfying enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:37 PM
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The word "scam" is after the fact. What boggles my mind is why did they not think that before doing the deed? I mean what happened and what was their thinking? Were they told that free sex had not effect? It is like saying "oh this product is a scam" but that is after they bought it and it did not work as they hoped. Is the logic the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:30 PM
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Please post it again. I'm interested too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:26 PM
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I heard the pill is the turning point. Before the pill, women was worried about getting pregnant out of wedlock. With the pill they do not have to worry anymore. They can get what they truly want in sex arena, which is to have sex with men who have high sexual quality without getting pregnant. This is a game changer because before the pill they needed to compromise. The best "sexually" man does not necessarily the best "resources" man. If they get pregnant and keep the child, no man wants to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:08 AM
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What I understand is there are two high level variables: sex and relationship. Both are independent. A woman can go to guy A to have some good sex, but go to guy B to have a relationship. This is why there is an adage: alpha fucks beta bucks. The Alpha Widow is when a woman can't find a man that can give her higher or same level of sex pleasure, be it may from physical attractiveness, technique, or others. Heartbreak comes first after breakup, but it becomes alpha widow when the woman has found …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:19 PM
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If you do not want to be auditted, you should not be in business to begin with. You mean to not enter relationship with someone you do not trust. Problem is, there is an instance when you trust your partner completely because you do not find any indications of cheating whatsoever, but then you find out your son is not yours. So what is your solution for those who want to be in a relationship but always second guess? How to alleviate that feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:29 AM
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Finally a balanced reply. If I may, allow me to add a bit of my understanding. Even though these women did not know at first the true cost of engaging the hookup free sex culture, however the damage is done. The damage can be physiological (body) and psychological (brain). Physiological can be easily audited by third party, I am referring to STD test. But pyschological, that is a complicated mess. We do not much about this. What I understand is brain has a big influence on our sex drive. The rew…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:42 AM
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Is not value derived by what one's can provide? I mean is not just money, but even something that can't be given like personality affects decision making algorith , which have an impact on day-to-day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:12 AM
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What I understand from religion's POV about no divorce is: what is the point of marriage if you can divorce anyway? Divorce cheapens marriage's value. But then again it is not that simple. There is a reason why no-fault divorce exists in the first place. The downside is, it can be exploited. I agree with you. The way religion teaches virginity is really bad. It is like they can't even bother to find out why and use silly terminology. In my case, I was told that sex is a beautiful thing if done i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:11 AM
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This is very interesting and something I am struggle to understand, but what I can gather is, if the female stays virgin, she will be less likely to divorce. It seems that if the female has tasted the ideal mating partner (to reproduce), when she gets marriage with lesser ideal male, she won't be satisfied ( in reproduction arena), hence the deadbedroom. Some even say that it is the same with food. We often compare food of the same category from different restaurants and usually stick with the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:55 AM
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Consult to fertility doctor.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 12:43 AM
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Question is, do hvm want career women? What women want is not the same of what men want because they have different interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:49 PM
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