throwaway66368 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Dating is a nightmare Your entire message resonated so much with me and my own experience.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/24 10:59 AM
2	Barely surviving Thank you! You’re damn right about that. When things get too overwhelming, I try to slow things down and focus on right now. I’ve been taking things day by day for the most part and I think it’s definitely the way to go. I’m thinking of doing that as well. We’ve got this!!	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/24 12:50 AM
1	Loneliness Good for you! I’m thinking of doing the exact same thing.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/24 12:46 AM
7	Barely surviving Relatable. I’m coming on a year post separation. There has been ups and down but currently hitting a rough patch. My motivation is at an all time low and I feel like I’m just going through the motion and surviving. I miss being in a good relationship so much. I miss the company, the mutual support, the fun activities, the intimacy, the partnership, mutual goals and projects and nustbthe excitement for the future. I go to the gym, I go to therapy but idk it just all feels pointless. I am dreading…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/09/24 05:19 PM
5	Loneliness I was at a bar Friday night by myself and had lunch by myself yeaterday at a restaurant. There are days where I really enjoy my own company and solo outings. Other days, it can feel a bit depressing. I’ve been living by myself for almost 10 months for the first time ever. It’s definitely an adjustment.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/24 05:23 PM
2	Idk anymore I’m in a somewhat similar situation although I’m a bit older than you. At first, any woman showing me attention was enough to get me excited about a new relationship. Then I found someone I could really open up to and we dated for a brief time but she didn’t want to commit to anything more and was also dating other people. That was like another tough heartbreak after my divorce and I still have strong feelings for her. We’re still close friends but it almost hurts more than anything sometimes. A…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/24 05:16 PM
1	Divorce 🎁 presents for yourself? You can’t go wrong Hamilton! I’m thinking of adding a speedmaster or Cartier Santos to the collection. Not sure I want to stretch the budget either after the divorce though. I’m enjoying my Explorer and a few Breitlings right now. It’s a fun hobby!	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 12:02 PM
1	Some great advise I found for those of us that feel completely alone I think we all need to hear this! Thanks bro!	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 01:12 AM
2	Divorce 🎁 presents for yourself? Fellow watch enthusiast here! I’m definitely thinking of getting a new timepiece. What did you get?	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 12:34 AM
2	20 Months Post Separation, 7 months after divorce final Love it! I needed to hear this, I’m having a bit of a rough night. Thanks for sharing!	/r/Divorce_Men	17/04/24 01:35 AM
2	Dating after 1.5 years of being divorced When I’m in a relationship, I tend to be perfectly happy with only spending time with my partner. I made that mistake in my marriage as well. It’s not healthy. Not for you, not for her. I learned that lesson the hard way. Her wanting to spend time with her friends should not be seen as a red flag… Part of this journey of self discovery post divorce is to be able to spend time by yourself and not constantly need to be with a partner. It’s hard and it’s a struggle, at least for me. But it’s the on…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/24 01:32 PM
6	How do you cope with the lack of affection? I experienced some of the same things in my marriage. You know how you deal with it? Find someone new who gives you exactly what you need! I recently dated someone who was the complete opposite of my ex wife and gave me so much attention, affection, touch, hugs, kisses and genuinely cared about my feelings. It was amazing and opened up my eyes to a whole new world. I will never settle for anything less.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/24 12:19 PM