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Healththrowaway67575753/r/MensRights22/01/22 03:56 AM
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I just had an argument with an individual recently who essentially summed up any issues with what men deal with as them being a problem all men have to unite to solve and since feminism strove to improve only women's lives they don't see why or how feminism harmed men in any way. ​ As it is every discussion i've had with either "middle ground" or feminists are that when it comes to what men deal with right now its "weak men who are incels who caused their own issues and they need to get off thei…
/r/MensRights05/12/22 12:50 AM
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in what uncertain terms is the rape victim responsible for being raped and the woman having a child? It is a punishment because it implies that someone is forced to do it as a result of their actions not because they are willing to support the child. Just because the state doesn't wanna be responsible doesn't make the rape victim either. punishment-suffering, pain, or loss that serves as retribution retribution- the dispensing or receiving of reward or punishment especially in the hereafter The …
/r/MensRights24/01/22 05:24 PM
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No, because it doesn't resolve the scenarios where men are shamed for expressing or gaining emotional literacy because of the fact that they aren't a woman so no matter what they wouldn't understand them. It's a call to action with no substance. How many times have we been told "it's ok to feel" but vice versa when feeling anything other than gratitude that women exist we get shamed for it.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 04:48 PM
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How do you take responsibility for a crime you didn’t commit, but someone of your gender did? You don't because that's illogical. The same way a black person’s righteous rage may land in the body of a white person and trigger endless shame, it is not about the innocent white person and their offence at the accusation of privilege. It is about the black person who is humiliated and enraged at having to navigate, on a daily basis, a system that was designed by white people for white people with th…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 04:45 PM
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Yeah, legitimate by putting the financial burden on a rape victim. It's a punishment no matter how you cut it. Give one legitimate reason the rape victim should take the pitfall for the child other than "its for the child". I'll take the asshole title today because fuck that nonsense. A financial burden for so many years in order to take care of a child they didn't have a willing part in creating is extremely cruel. Nothing legitimate about that at all.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 04:27 PM
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You say a man should have no responsibility when having sex bc he does not get pregnant?! Only the woman needs to use protection bc she gets pregnant? That would mean men could go and have sex without ever thinking aboit the consequences. You literally want to release men from any responsibility. That is very irresponsible. No, women are not forced to carry out a child if they have sex. You treat men like dumb children. Like they should be able to have sex with NO responsibility at all. Most peo…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 04:21 PM
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It is though? Someone gets raped and they are told they have to pay for a child they didn't even ask for or want. whereas the other part of this talks about the fact that men have zero freedom in determining whether a child exists or not but are somehow held responsible to make sure that said kid is cared for. it's disgusting.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 04:03 PM
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found out someone can't read sarcasm and reported this comment. Your reading comprehension skills are 1st grade if you genuinely thought I was being hateful with this.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 03:57 PM
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Who decides who is or isn't a creep??? I wouldn't figure that your point of debate is something people can generally agree on is not ok. I'm not here applying it to one specific gender just people acting in a manner that would be discomforting to most people. Really? Your world is a lot different to mine... 🤔 Dunno if you missed the sarcasm but here it is /s
/r/MensRights24/01/22 04:32 AM
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I've tried juxtaposing the 2 fields and didn't find conclusive proof that specifically one or the other was getting more support to reduce the disparity outside of the various blogsites and other forms of sites in which I didn't feel I could trust the sources. In terms of women's tech, there were a lot of online websites offering a significant amount of tuition reduction incentives and various boot camps whereas male nursing seemed to be more centralized on flat scholarships in which the amounts…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 02:06 AM
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here's an upvote for them
/r/MensRights24/01/22 01:56 AM
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I addressed that.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 01:52 AM
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Were or are they any programs dedicated to nursing for males at your schools?
/r/MensRights24/01/22 01:48 AM
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just gazing in general to me can be seen as discomforting especially if you are more aware of your surroundings. Applying gendered terms to things that both genders do is just fucking stupid. it absolves one group and punishes the other. Just don't be a creep in general and its fine. ​ Just don't be a creep in general and it's fine. Now apparently only men do it to degrade or objectify women despite it being something both genders do /s
/r/MensRights24/01/22 01:33 AM
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Yes.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 01:28 AM
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Anyone who uses the phrase "be a man" or "man up" is enforcing stupid gender roles and it's entirely misandristic. I know you don't mean it but I despise the phrase.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 01:25 AM
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this has always been about the tire mate lol, go back to my original response and you'll see thats what I was harping on - basic life skills - No, it's about expectations. Has been this entire time and using the "basic life skills" approach is dumb as shit. Have you not gotten it in your head that people aren't expected to know what you want them to know because it's just not feasible nowadays given the world has changed. Let's take another "basic life skill" such as cooking, neither gender is e…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 01:23 AM
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or white people to apologize for slavery, or Egyptians to apologize for the same thing. It's dumb as shit.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 12:15 AM
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they should be made fun of, how unacceptable for all of you to fight me on the basics of changing a tire. that's so utterly pathetic it's mind boggling It's not even about the tire and the fact that you can't see it is just insane. I just explained why it's not and you're running in circles with expectations that just are out of touch. I am a sexist, life is sexist, expectations are sexist, because the sexes aren't equal and never have been. The feminization of men and the masculinization of wom…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 12:12 AM
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I mean does the recent situation with AAA count? Because what you described is literally what just happened there.
/r/MensRights23/01/22 11:49 PM
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look mate, a man should know how to protect and provide for himself, that's a truth as old as time You do realize how entirely sexist that is right? I'm not here being butthurt, just pointing out that as a society we wished to demolish gender-specific roles or expectations in order to move forward and make a better place. Instead, you sit here and again try to push an expectation on men because men are seen as second class therefore they have to provide for themselves. ​ because if you see a wom…
/r/MensRights23/01/22 11:39 PM
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I'm just curious as to what defines casual prejudice? Is it examples of scenarios wherein normal social situations no one bats an eye to a woman doing it but will address a man for doing it? Or is it occasions where there's prejudice but not openly huge enough to where it's called discrimination? For that matter is vasectomy denial a prejudice or discrimination?
/r/MensRights23/01/22 11:27 PM
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ngl "free dinner strategists" made me spit out my coffee lol.
/r/MensRights23/01/22 11:22 PM
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To break it down for your simpleton brain, there is no realistic scenario where every man knows "how to do everything" and create a "lack of jobs" in the world. Time is finite, no man can master everything. But every man can learn the basics, such as changing a tire, so as NOT to require calling AAA and waiting on the side of the road twiddling his thumbs for 90 mins like a fucking idiot. I can't believe I had to spell that out for you AGAIN and thank you for admitting you don't acknowledge the …
/r/MensRights23/01/22 11:19 PM
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First and foremost as to your mother- she's convinced herself that due to whatever issues resulted in her relationships with men falling apart or being not as she liked that she's absolved of the blame in the manner because it's something men do only and she's having to live with it. As for your friends, it seems you aren't getting your needs met in the relationship while going forward and meeting their needs. Stern way of helping sounds more like "not as invested into the friendship" to me. A s…
/r/MensRights23/01/22 11:09 PM
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I never said it was anything great, but its an option as well. As a former youth I would definitely say its not something I wish entirely on someone, but the chance of finding a good family that likes you is still a chance.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 10:39 PM
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Not necessarily, but given if it was one or the other the victim shouldn't be forced either. there's no clear solution here.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 10:37 PM
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I mean ideally it is, as for that aspect that sucks in general that the victim is still responsible for someone else's crime lol.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 08:52 PM
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don't ask me, just pointing out my perceptions on discussing this.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 08:49 PM
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what? if you want to cut down then do both men and women not just men lol
/r/MensRights22/01/22 08:45 PM
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There's the option of foster care too.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 08:43 PM
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Your argument is that because the government is the proxy that enforces it someone isn't responsible for taking advantage of something like that. This argument that force is somehow only physical needs to die out. A king forcing his citizens to pay taxes isn't sitting there doing it physically.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 08:41 PM
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They can go into foster care or get adopted. The victim shouldn't have to parent them when they weren't willing to procreate and have a child in the first place.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 06:16 PM
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You aren't willing when you get raped so lets get that out of here and dissect your other argument A lot of individuals seek carnal pleasure and use preventative measures solely for that reason alone. This is why it's usually discussed beforehand the expectations in the relationship and when one partner ignores said expectations in order to force them into accepting a role they didn't want to take it's a horrible thing. Sex isn't entirely for child-making anymore and that's an old-school view.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 06:15 PM
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Unwilling parents shouldn't have to be forced to bear the burden of someone else's decision to ignore their consent and wishes. It's entirely harmful and toxic and creates 2 victims: the parent who got forced into it and the child.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 06:11 PM
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It shouldn't be put on the victim regardless of what happens to the child. The rapist should be forced to carry that burden as a consequence of their actions or put them up for adoption/FC. Dunno how you can reason the rape victim should be responsible for the child just because there is one.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 06:08 PM
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as is this?: I mean there is a child. Both biological parents should be equally responsible for said child. or this?: With that being said, if said child was conceived through less than scrupulous means, we need to consider that woman should not be the primary caregiver. I clearly stated that if you believe these apply to someone being raped then you are a horrible being and neither of these statements changes that fact. As for arguing in cases where it's not rape, it's a shit argument because t…
/r/MensRights22/01/22 06:01 PM
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I understand, I'm just expressing that the last time I tried to explain this concept to them it led to a vicious cycle.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 05:50 PM
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apparently making broad statements means everyone is included.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 05:45 PM
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good luck arguing that with this guy lol. Already did that.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 05:44 PM
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Even in being raped, do you feel that the father is responsible? Or are you discussing the first part? Because if you apply your statement to being raped you genuinely are a horrible being.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 05:32 PM
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this isn't about women collectively making the decision, why are you consistently in threads trying to absolve women as a whole as if people don't know the difference between individuality and advocacy/movement groups? The fact that it exists doesn't change whether women as an entire sex/gender wanted it. There's just discussion on why potentially it's perceived to exist even if it's to support the future child.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 05:28 PM
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we had this discussion in another thread about abortion and whatnot. The main tenants of the argument at least from seeing other people discuss it or arguing with specific individuals is that the expectation is on both parents to take care of the child and that usually boils down to men assuming financial responsibility for a woman's bodily autonomy. It's usually because of the child to them not because of the actual act of sex or what the relationship strength currently is. Do I agree with thes…
/r/MensRights22/01/22 05:25 PM
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I've found when arguing with people in general about issues they have feelings about they tend to not really acknowledge anything that doesn't confirm their own biased view, and this can be frustrating on so many fronts. Many arguments I get into literally tend to lead to them just throwing out your points and counterviews and then continue to argue their same core points even if you feel you have made an effort to debunk or counter them. And then the blame for issues or problems tends to be sol…
/r/MensRights22/01/22 05:21 PM
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If you think learning the basics of life requires you to be a "walking mechanic, DIY worker, plumber, and electrician" then you have a very piss poor sense of what the ask is here. they asked him to change his own tire mate, that's not rocket science. The basics of life aren't gender-specific, as the world grows and progresses and expectations for both genders change due to the things we used to do becoming obsolete or just no longer required solely by that gender to uphold, you can't expect men…
/r/MensRights22/01/22 05:15 PM
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I would still hope there are at least programs out there or even some respectable resources that could be seen as good for men who need mental health help. I'm not necessarily looking for things like MGTOW or whatnot but just generally good resources amidst all this consistent negativity out there that could keep people from going insane. I'd love it if you did post anything you've found helpful.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 04:28 AM
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I'm genuinely amazed I can tolerate Reddit in general.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 03:53 AM
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because paying for a service that an expert should be doing and having said expert tell you to do the job yourself because your a man is totally having a chip in your shoulder. Next time a woman wants her nails done or hair done and she gets told she's expected to know how to do it despite not knowing how they should just fuck off and look up a youtube tutorial instead of having the salon do their job. Really strong logic my guy.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 03:51 AM
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This isn't a gendered thing and the fact that you make it so is just blatantly ignorant. It's gendered expectations like these that get called out because that's why we have shit out there for services that both men and women can do. As a man, I shouldn't be expected to be a personal walking mechanic, DIY worker, plumbing, electrician, and other various male-centric jobs because I'm a man. If I knew how to do everything there would be a lack of jobs in the world and a lack of opportunities. Also…
/r/MensRights22/01/22 03:47 AM
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did you not read about how people can still hear in that same article?
/r/MensRights22/01/22 03:14 AM
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As far as I read the post was about a woman living a lavish life and people were judging her for it so they called it out. But looking at the comments is a different story, the amount of people making these generalizations is horrid. There's a lot to digest but it would be an essay chain i'd not like to make because its not worth it.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 03:11 AM
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not my problem good luck though.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 07:20 PM
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You literally went directly into insulting the OP in which the OP had done nothing to contribute to your reaction and then made the claim that downvotes are the norm because people just have something against you for "being right". Could you have been right? Might've but you don't see me ever going out of my way to insult people because I merely disagree with them unless we actively are trading blows and it warrants it. You say no one has the power to play with your emotions but on the flip side…
/r/MensRights21/01/22 06:59 PM
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I would reckon knowing how to do basic life stuff shouldn't be gendered and put into roles but I guess I'm dumb for expecting people to want to care about the what-if scenarios and having either or be prepared would be welcoming right? Heck if a woman knows how to change a tire why the fuck would anyone be complaining? Isn't it a good thing that someone has the bases covered? I personally think it should just be taught in general but instead education wants to focus on shit you don't use past hi…
/r/MensRights21/01/22 06:34 PM
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Them being butthurt about the sub they chose to be in and contribute their opinion to and then being hostile to people as a result isn't on you. You weren't wrong in responding about stat denials, they just interpreted what you said in a shitty manner. If they don't care to actually provide anything they can sit here and spin on their thumbs
/r/MensRights21/01/22 06:19 PM
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when you are making an active criticism of a sub, and then provide no instances of where these actions occur and don't provide counter-evidence to the comments even if you feel it might be doubted you aren't contributing anything to the discussion. Certainly asking sensible questions is fine, but actively attacking an entire sub and then playing the victim is just fucking stupid. Also, they asked if you agree to what the commenter said in general, which implies it's a free forum to decide which …
/r/MensRights21/01/22 06:18 PM
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what's up with the UK and their asinine misandrist practices? How is this productive in any form or manner? anti-social? Do people treat bathrooms as social hours? If I'm going to take a shit or piss I want people far as fuck away from me not trying to sit there and chat about my day when that's what recess is for. I'm not too sure even if it wasn't considered misandrist anyone female or male appreciates this at all? the school has refurbished and upgraded some of the facilities as part of an on…
/r/MensRights21/01/22 05:56 PM
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you do realize that they still have to financially support regardless right?
/r/MensRights20/01/22 07:42 AM
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I literally just had a chain of this argument in this thread trying to prove that point. Good luck trying to put any responsibility on feminists because they'll fight to the nail to not have any.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 07:41 AM
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No? There's a clear way out here for both, which is abortion. If women can decide based on a whim to drop the kid because of anything then men can too and the fact that everyone says they can't is sexist. You literally cannot force a child on someone regardless of gender/sex whether it's financial or physically. It helps no one here and perpetuates the issues even further.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 03:15 AM
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thanks for the correction on the wordage but you obviously got what I was going for so it achieves the point. I definitely am not anti sex or against birth control. I think people should take responsibility for their actions. You have set specific scenarios where it's acceptable to have sex and not. That's the issue here when the reality is not the case. I don't expect both parents to look after the kids when one parent doesn't want to and has put that out there in the world before the relations…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 03:12 AM
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You're suggesting that women choose between poverty or murdering their baby. You are doing the same damn thing here with men. Since when is being able to act like an adult a punishment? Idk, ask your statement about punishing women then. you have gone so far as to: minimalize men's role in a relationship and sex to just providing the semen tell them to act like an adult and grow up tell them they are immature man-children for wanting equal rights in terms of parenting or bust make statements abo…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 03:09 AM
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My age has no relevance to this discussion and the fact that you make the attempt to try to demean me by potentially using my age is just stupid. If you're not willing to accept the consequences of sex, you shouldn't be having it at all. That's not how the world works, this is why anti-pregnancy tools exist in the first place. Stop living in this fantasy world where you think somehow everyone has sex to have a kid rather than have sex to enjoy carnal pleasure. Men and women will explore in their…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 03:00 AM
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Women shouldn't get punished because birth control failed. Double standard again. Men shouldn't get punished either.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 02:45 AM
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You aren't entitled to dictate anyone's lifestyle and the fact that you do shows how you aren't looking at this with a clear unbiased scope of things. Don't have sex before marriage is a belief you are entitled to have but not push onto others in a progressively promiscuous society. It's just a shit point. Instead of reading you stick to your guns and don't even come to understand the scope of what you are asking someone to commit to. I've provided every reason why someone wouldn't be actively i…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 02:42 AM
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They CHOSE to have sex under the implication that THEY WERE UNDER PROTECTION and EXPRESSED THE DESIRE TO NOT HAVE CHILDREN. Do you not get how dumb you sound? I specifically pointed out the double standard in the agency department. Now go annoy another commenter because you clearly can't read worth a damn.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 02:28 AM
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I don't care whether you care or not, I didn't ask if you cared. I merely pointed out that being in a relationship is when your finances are tied together or you are typically obligated to contribute to your partner's life decisions. It has every bearing in the kid getting support, I'm not contributing to someone with who I have no relationship and have no desire to. If it's not possible to have men have a say in abortion, then it's not possible to expect men to be financially responsible. I do …
/r/MensRights20/01/22 02:26 AM
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His in what shape or form? You can't deny a father a right to a decision then act as if they are somehow responsible for someone going against their decision. Firstly, I'm nowhere near implying that someone shouldn't have to look over their children in a mutual relationship. You took your perception of it and ran with it. I'm saying that if I get zero say despite being forced to contribute financially to someone else just because I contributed semen accidentally in the equation and not because I…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 02:11 AM
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You're in a fucking marriage or relationship, it's not one versus one anymore. How am I immature for considering the impact and financial burden placed on men for women making a decision entirely on their own whim in a relationship disregarding someone's desire to live a healthy life without being burdened by something they have no say in whatsoever? I'm not going to my job to work hard to improve my life and pay some of that money to someone I'm not involved with because of the reasons outlined…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 01:54 AM
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A woman can get pregnant at any time and have the full power to get an abortion at any point regardless of what the man has to say. They also have the right to deny getting an abortion regardless of what the man has to say. This very fundamental fact that people keep spreading is entirely sexist and minimalizes the man in the relationship. The man is used as a bank to subsidize their partner's life decisions and the man has no way of overturning that with how society treats men and fatherly resp…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 01:43 AM
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this is discussing cases in which they did and the father didn't want the mother to and tried actively to prevent it. You are putting a needless financial burden because someone literally didn't wanna abort the child and one did so the one in the wrong somehow is the one who did. If the father gets no say in the situation the mother gets no money, it's just simple as that. Otherwise, what's the point of ever getting a relationship if men are just used as money banks even if they are young and wa…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 01:32 AM
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you can hold women responsible, simple as that. If you are going to give women the power to decide their life you give them the responsibility and outline the risks of abusing it. We both know that there are always without a doubt exceptions to every situation but the fact that everyone pins the men in the situation is just gross.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 01:22 AM
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I'm sorry but I find that the they deserve it argument is cruel and demanding of men to sacrifice for something they hadn't had a wish to procreate and it's again minimalizing men in the equation as money banks lol. Does she want the child? She can handle the financial responsibilities in the scenario I out listed above. I want to hold men responsible in scenarios where they are just popping babies, not where a partner is explicitly told no and then disregards that.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 01:20 AM
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Is it sad that because it's the UK I am not surprised?
/r/MensRights20/01/22 01:11 AM
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The issue here is the standard is different either way, men are literally forced to deal with it while women have the freedom to choose whether or not someone is responsible for something they want no part in. And certainly, I wouldn't be a happy camper being forced to stay with someone who I despise for making me take care of a kid I didn't ask for. Instead, I'd be told to suck it up and deal with it. Meanwhile, a woman can just up and say, I don't want this in my life get it aborted and I'm so…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 01:08 AM
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I mean is there really net merit to marrying other than the commitment for both sides? I genuinely wanna know, I've grown up taught marriage was a good thing for a fair amount of life so it's genuinely saddening to hear its vice versa as you get older.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 01:03 AM
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How about both parties take part in doing so and have birth control and no poking holes in condoms? Does that sound fair?
/r/MensRights20/01/22 01:01 AM
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A man cannot demand a woman has an abortion. That's the issue here, and in which case you suffer the asinine consequences of trying to make people responsible for something they wish to have no part in which leads to resentment towards everything and in fact harms the children more. It's a selfish decision in which people always think about what harm comes of men leaving, but imagine how the father would be if they stayed.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 12:59 AM
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What world do you live in where women are "praised" for getting rid of their child? This is not a thing that is happening. We live in a day and age which promotes the freedom of women in all capacities. Women are celebrated for pursuing freedoms in forms of sexual, financial, and education and while at base those are fantastic things to strive for when the actual argument boils down to when it comes to these pro-life vs pro-choice is that a majority of pro-choice is dependent on the idea that so…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 12:56 AM
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How would you explain or offer a perspective on issues that men live with in a way that can be explained to your gender without either coming off as attacking, insulting, or misconstrued in a way that downplays anything they live with or believe in? Certainly, I could go about not giving a fuck and just say it as is, but is that the best strategy or how would it come off to you if someone tried to explain a topic like this to you?
/r/MensRights19/01/22 04:19 AM
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No one has demonstrated that there is a proper number of men or women in any occupation or field. But the effect is always that there are not enough women. Genuinely have to ask what are you on? Here's the statistics for 2018-19 for education: https://nces.ed.gov/programs/coe/indicator/cta and here are the statistics for 2020-21: https://nces.ed.gov/pubs2021/2021144.pdf Both statistics show that there's a disparity in college education in terms of finishing education or in fields in which gender…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 04:07 AM
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I'm even more confused about how you managed to make this into a scenario where I specifically stated I'm against men when asking for the original comment I'm responding to what programs are dedicated to opening career paths for men to enter fields in which females massively dominate in. I'm even more confused when I specifically stated that the disparity is that men are failing in education on a wide scale and that's as a result of pushing men out of education with inadequate educational strate…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 03:15 AM
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I've tried to do some searching on google/duckduckgo but really it's hard to sift through all the other stuff that has no relevance to the topic. I usually check the government statistics on things but I couldn't find the site that reports this in comparison to the UK statistics which seem to be consistently available.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 02:58 AM
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I'm confused as to whether this is blatant sarcasm or you believe I believe in feminism.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 02:55 AM
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https://healthresearchfunding.org/8-false-rape-accusation-statistics/ https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21164210/ 0.01% is far removed from the actual statistic which is my issue here, even if it was low as 2% which is the average lowest reported. The issue is that when dealing with the stigma of false sexual assault allegations or anything of the sort it gets used as a coercion tactic in order to get men to comply with their wishes in fear of the social consequenc…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 02:53 AM
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The family courts thing is bizarre to me. Most cases are settled out of court, and most men who fight for custody get it. "60% of men get custody in contested cases." I've perused this same source and didn't find the sources cited for this. https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/ also carries statistics and says otherwise. I'm not denying anything because bias is bias and a lot of this information is heavily reliant on people who want to sell a narrative whether for or against. …
/r/MensRights19/01/22 02:40 AM
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From reading the article there's more to the story and I don't know the full context of this whole drama given only said context from the article but it seems they divorced and separated and he's overstepped his boundaries on several occasions and even Travis Scott had done the same by giving out the address. I might take flak for it but he's being an idiot over this because he's steamrolling an agreement they made.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 02:23 AM
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This is what pisses me off about the whole thing is that instead of pushing for reducing a disparity so that everyone wins they always push them down and then forget about them when it's not their problem. I'm all for women succeeding in college but when people complain about how men are not graduating at an alarming rate but don't do fuck all about improving it its ass backwards.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 01:59 AM
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Having a wall to bounce off of is important but at the same time, the issue is that they want to focus specifically on finding a program that centers on studying men's issues. Nowhere should feminism be applied unless the opinion was sought from an opposing mindset.
/r/MensRights18/01/22 09:22 PM
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Wanting to directly focus on a specific group without majorly focusing on another isn't avoiding opposing viewpoints. But going into a program that potentially requires you to self-study for what you paid to go to school for isn't the smartest idea in the book either. I can look at men's issues without focusing entirely on the negative aspects that women believe are men's issues. It's obviously important to gather or garner an outside perspective to see where the gap between issues lies. But the…
/r/MensRights18/01/22 09:20 PM
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I just love how these articles and studies are always written by women who genuinely don't understand the opposite gender.
/r/MensRights18/01/22 09:09 PM
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List cases where the opportunities offered by feminism have advantaged both genders rather than solely boosted the opportunities of one group with no regard. Where are the educational programs that reduce the disparity in educational fields by incentivizing all genders to succeed? There were studies done in regards to implementing a program centered on fathers to learn how to be proper parents but no support was directly offered to men and the program didn't gain any results. https://www.acf.hhs…
/r/MensRights18/01/22 09:07 PM
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The agency then writes that "men's violence against women" is an umbrella term, which in addition to domestic violence and honor-related violence also includes, among other things, sexual harassment and "commercialization and exploitation of the female body in advertising, media and pornography." Then comes the following wording: "By including the concept of domestic violence in the overarching concept of men's violence against women, violence in same-sex relationships, or for that matter women'…
/r/MensRights18/01/22 08:48 PM
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what the fuck is this even saying? You can be concise without using vocabulary that could be summed up as making an effort to be verbose to prove your point. I'm all for being eloquent in wording but this is way too much.
/r/MensRights18/01/22 08:44 PM
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Social equality when it comes to treating men as human beings and not fucking animals. There are so many examples of how often we get treated as dumbfucks who only think with their penis. Its genuinely degrading and shows what people think of us. Can't be around women in fear of sexual assault claims. Can't be around children in fear of sexual assault claims. Can't be considered a father because of the stigmas surrounding a father that dumb them down in the family roles. The fact that men are re…
/r/MensRights18/01/22 08:28 PM
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It's judges like these that make me question why we have a judicial system at all. If judges get to act like crazed beings instead of being held at a higher standard for being in a very unique position I really can't trust the courts. Seriously, wishing jail on someone for something like this and on top of not taking the fact that the defendant was living with cancer is ludicrous.
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:57 PM
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You must own the gold medal in it.
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:21 PM
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Disgusting, those Justices are enabling bad behavior and foregoing any due process because of their feelings. What happened to being neutral?
/r/MensRights13/01/22 05:23 PM
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You're an idiot who maintains a stance that's outdated at best because regardless of what you want the government most likely could have access to your DNA even without your consent. The fact that you are so against something that benefits everyone on a bodily autonomy stance shows how paranoid and foolish you are. Are you scared the government is going to make clones now? Also, I'm not blinded by rage and fear, you need to stop projecting.
/r/MensRights13/01/22 05:15 PM
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The government has no right to my money and time when its not my responsibility. Again, You can kick rocks.
/r/MensRights13/01/22 05:08 PM
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I despise both international days and mother's/fathers day because of the obvious discrepancies between the roles on average. Just have parents' day and removal international days and be done with at as a whole. You have many more useful holidays in which don't specifically isolate a gender to celebrate it. Christmas and thanksgiving are about being happy with the people you love even if that's yourself. Easter and Halloween are both spiritual and good kids' holidays for them to let out. What do…
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:41 AM
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The government has no right to make men pay for children that aren't theirs but they still do. You can kick rocks.
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:03 AM
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If you are going to post a video in which someone cherrypicks aspects of it to give a narrative I'd rather not be seeing it as a whole. I think veterans, like any other person who experiences forms of trauma, should have an outlet in which they find it productive to live with their experiences. Therapy is a good way to share it and have people acknowledge and offer perspectives, it's not a magical solution and no way has been presented as such. People living with trauma need to be accepted that …
/r/MensRights13/01/22 05:53 AM
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But I think it’s important that some of these discussions try to address what’s causing society’s problem, which I believe screws over both genders. Gonna play devil's advocate here and point out the fact that you only quoted the last part. As for examples in terms of specific instances, extremism of movements tend to affect both genders. Lack of empathy tends to affect both genders, in which one side tends to self justify their hatred by playing the victim consistently even when they aren't one…
/r/MensRights13/01/22 05:33 AM
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How so? They merely were implying that in modern society, the traditional expectations that men are to provide, protect, and serve are inherently sexist since those are solely expected of men and not women. Because we are in a world where women desire to remove the gender norms and roles in favor of progressing society this needs to be discussed whether or not you believe in it or not. How is discussing these social expectations equating to denying biology? I could say men aren't expected to die…
/r/MensRights13/01/22 05:25 AM
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Women are succeeding in encouraging women to do well in academia--where as here you are, as a man--not finding ways to encourage boys to succeed--but just to demonize women for being so successful and encouraging. I'm not here demonizing women, the fact that you take it as such shows there's no middle ground for us to speak on. Also encouraging isn't the same as pushing out other groups. Also, it's not on me to prove that guys can succeed in this scenario it's on you. I don't give the least of a…
/r/MensRights10/01/22 11:24 PM
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are we going to go back and forth being hypocritical or do you want the last word and I can go on "hating women" and being misogynistic now?
/r/MensRights10/01/22 11:15 PM
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yeah I gave it a read, still doesn't change what I said
/r/MensRights10/01/22 11:11 PM
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But go on with your day constantly trying to torture yourself here to validate some level of oppression for yourself. Need I say anything more?
/r/MensRights10/01/22 11:10 PM
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No you don't. You're not laughing, you're raging blindly. Why do you think that someone is so invested in what you say that they get angry over it? I am laughing because it's something I come across commonly when reading through. Sitting here finding it ironic that you have as much investiture into this to try to debate differentiating the 2 when the message is very clear that it's not a good thing. If I was raging blindly I wouldn't be here trying to write cohesive sentences engaging with you. …
/r/MensRights10/01/22 11:09 PM
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Oof. The worst of days is the day men discovered that pak choi is practically air, beanshoots are almost zero calories and substantial stir fries, if basically tasteless, are 700 calories and therefore good for fasting days. No woman knows the calories in a tiny squirt of chilli sauce. Men do. Objectively false, I don't watch my calories. You won’t catch a man missing a knock on in rugby, or the part where Paul McCartney talks about getting the piccolo player to hit the impossibly high note on T…
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:59 PM
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excuse my french but what the fuck are these?
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:50 PM
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Then you should expect to receive responses that aren't in you favor on the basis that you are in a sub dedicated to said group. If you just go "barf" you aren't engaging in a dialogue. If you don't care to have one then that's on you.
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:47 PM
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To suggest that women's success in academic spaces is indicative of prejudice against men is just patently false. With all the studies and discussions about men not going to college and succeeding and the number of people who have pointed out, there's a substantial push for women to enter fields that men have a huge amount of percentages in, where are the pushes for men to enter fields that women are in a high amount? I'll wait. Where are the behavioral groups that encourage understanding of you…
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:46 PM
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If this is a women-bashing sub, why the hell are you here entertaining yourself? What's your contribution to this sub that is the saving grace for it? Instead of saying "barf" with no reasonable explanation only to draw downvotes explain why you believe that having traditional dating value is somehow a bad thing. You posted a comment on a discussion thread and act butthurt when you get called out for your opinion. But go on with your day constantly trying to torture yourself here to validate som…
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:15 PM
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What's unhealthy sexual expectations? Why do you assume all men turn to drugs? Why are video games bad for men? Why is TV (even though a lot of us don't even use it) considered bad for men? Where do you think we fall short of the standards of women to be better partners? Also who said men don't have a choice entirely to make their lives better? This literally is gender bias, because all of these things can apply to women yet you phrase it as if these are native to men only. Why not treat these t…
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:11 PM
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The biggest obstacle to improving men's lives is not "women", but rather men ourselves, and the traditions and belief systems that lead us to being relatively in incompetent in a changing world-place. For example; women have a long established habit of practicing body positivity, where as men (in the U.S.) are deathly affected by homophobic sentiments--which does grow out of the same patriarchal norms that established the U.S. as a colonial and military superpower. The biggest obstacle to improv…
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:07 PM
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the only explanation i'll accept
/r/MensRights10/01/22 09:43 PM
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If you as a gigolo extend your services knowingly to a minor then it's on you, not the kiddies. That's why clubs and other stuff require you to be an adult, not a young adult. Your argument implies there are no morals with sex workers in general. You do not know that.
/r/MensRights10/01/22 09:41 PM
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No, it's really not. I always find it hilarious how hard people try to justify something even if it's legitimately not something you should be arguing to justify in the first place. When you try to apply specific labels over an action to divert the attention away from the main act like this you are trying to provide some way out for the individual. It doesn't matter the intent in this situation because the act is still considered the same as a whole. If as a man if I do the same thing for money …
/r/MensRights10/01/22 09:39 PM
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My farts are the force of a great typhoon. Does that count?
/r/MensRights10/01/22 06:29 AM
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The entire point of them being lumped together isn't about sexual maturity, its about the ability to be mentally mature and make prominent decisions about your sex life without the influence of someone older pressuring you into having sex with them because they are older and by relation having an advantage by being more mentally mature and able to manipulate you. When you talk about murder, there's tons of different factors that come into play to do that one very act which is killing. You could …
/r/MensRights10/01/22 06:22 AM
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Most of my best teachers were males besides one. So I really don't agree with this topic.
/r/MensRights10/01/22 06:13 AM
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I've never ever ever ever ever considered an active movement or collectivism in terms of certain aspects entirely for equality. You can take BLM for example where the idea is extremely righteous but the execution and end goal has been in many forms oppressive or downright horrible in certain circumstances. If people didn't have their own motivations they wouldn't be pushing for these things. Do not get me twisted, I know it never fits everyone and not everyone can be treated as greedy beings see…
/r/MensRights10/01/22 06:11 AM
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I read your entire post, but you still haven't responded past the part of what was your goal here by specifying other than personal gratification over a word aptly used to describe the same behavior? If you disagree wholeheartedly why even add to the fire by opening with a statement in which you argue semantics? What does your own practical experience add to this post? I feel for you, and life genuinely sucks at its points but you gave off a bad impression from the get-go with your comment.
/r/MensRights10/01/22 06:04 AM
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No, because being technical isn't helping the situation here. You realize that even arguing the definition is semantics and still proceeded to do so. I've been sexually abused for several years in my younger life, and while at that point it technically was pleasurable it doesn't excuse or understate the depravity at hand here. That's like arguing 2 different shades of blue that are extremely similar and held to the same usage but you want to specify the color just to be right. What does specifyi…
/r/MensRights10/01/22 05:53 AM
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WHAT? EXCUSE ME WHAT? How in the hell do you think this is not necessarily wrong if someone is glad it happened? This is literally normalizing the behavior because being sexually assaulted is somehow ok just because of the mentality of "getting lucky". I'm genuinely disgusted by the fact that anyone could even maintain this mindset as if young males who get sexually assaulted should be ok with it because of this mentality that they probably wouldn't get a woman any other way. We wouldn't be fine…
/r/MensRights10/01/22 05:48 AM
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I just don't believe that autism is the cause in comparison to general standards about mental health and the social stigma surrounding men who suffer from it in regards to their social ability and other stuff. If you were to claim that women do have an easier dating pool due to the standards for women being lower in general I would agree. I know plenty of guys who are willing to bang regardless, say what you will about that. I just have my personal lines in which I draw for reasonings men fail t…
/r/MensRights09/01/22 04:14 AM
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but I think it would be incredibly unfair to men who suffer from these issues to boil it down to "misogynist scumbags who are sad they can't bone supermodels". Yeah, I didn't wanna be input into this group merely because I experience something like loneliness. I don't carry a disposition against incels and if it brings better understanding to them as people I don't mind but when I read and came across that I was like "isn't this more about incels than men in general". Glad at least you explained…
/r/MensRights09/01/22 03:14 AM
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Discrimination, in this case, contributes to the disparity and is evidence as such. If you are looking to be contrarian here to prove a point you need to establish your guidelines on what you consider representative of discrimination. I'm not here to tell you to interpret these as discrimination because statistics can be analyzed in different forms and interpreted in said forms.
/r/MensRights09/01/22 03:06 AM
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Gave it a speedread, it seems disingenuous to title this as such when it discusses how this contributes to being an incel. I appreciate the work nonetheless though.
/r/MensRights09/01/22 03:01 AM
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See this I can take because it's technically true. However, saying it's solely autism bothers me. Also, AFAIK women are taught to have "standards" and men are taught to lower theirs because it's oftentimes too much to expect of women. It's a weird dynamic that makes no sense to me since the ideal would be to accept the faults of your partner or move on in general
/r/MensRights09/01/22 02:53 AM
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https://www.mindingthecampus.org/2019/01/03/why-men-are-falling-behind-in-schools/ https://www.theatlantic.com/education/archive/2013/09/how-to-make-school-better-for-boys/279635/ Schools actively carry support systems for young and adult women in many forms of assistance and priority education programs, especially at the college-age. This is something evident just in general if you look at the gender statistics of people who graduate or finish education in general seeing as the high school drop…
/r/MensRights09/01/22 02:44 AM
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https://www.mankind.org.uk/statistics/statistics-on-male-victims-of-domestic-abuse/ https://www.ncdv.org.uk/domestic-violence-against-men/ if you want news outlets in which you can argue bias then go search it up yourself. Here are 2 statistics you can cross-compare. The fact that I don't even live in the UK and could find this makes it even more laughable that they couldn't. If you doubt someone and aren't educated just look up either source confirming or not confirming what they say.
/r/MensRights09/01/22 02:32 AM
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https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/ Just to take the actual part I'm quoting 90% of divorced mothers have custody of their children. Over 79 percent of custodial mothers receive a child support award, while just under 30 percent of custodial fathers receive one. https://www.divorcelawyersformen.com/the-true-facts-of-child-custody-for-men/ Keep in mind the latter is somewhat more biased but does give statistical values for you to go by. ​ I wish you would instead ask these qu…
/r/MensRights09/01/22 02:22 AM
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The leap of logic here astounds me, those are not indicated specifically because you are autistic. They are also not solely associated with autism, and moreso connected to the actual sphere of mental health issues. When was the last time you heard a female, anywhere, be referred to as "creepy", "weird" or any other moniker? Plenty of times, it's even usually associated with stalker territory because that's deemed creepy. Neither of these terms is necessarily applicable solely because of someone …
/r/MensRights09/01/22 02:03 AM
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It must be nice to have the luxury of picking when and who to date. Some of us (mainly guys) would probably have to pay someone just to talk to us! You have the luxury to choose regardless of your autism. Your partner should accept whether or not they can deal with autism or not and if they are willing to be your partner make strives to learn about it and accommodate you for things you cannot help. Trust me when I say that that being autistic and living with it and the perception isn't relative …
/r/MensRights09/01/22 01:27 AM
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What's with people deleting their posts when faced with opposition?
/r/MensRights09/01/22 12:49 AM
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I don't think comparing hate is the best way to go about anything. It's a pissing contest where no one wins besides the people directly benefiting by spreading it. Also being encouraged by the education system to hate men? At what level of education? College? K-12? What resources can you provide that are programs where the intention is to provide direct material that promotes the hatred of men rather than proper education of interaction with men? Where would you consider the sources of this to b…
/r/MensRights09/01/22 12:33 AM
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Also finding anything regarding this is like a needle in the haystack just based on doing relevant searches. It doesn't even come up on the search bars if you try. After all typing misogyny instantly pulls up info versus misandry.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 11:41 PM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/287730483_Legalizing_misandry_From_public_shame_to_systemic_discrimination_against_men You can give this a look if you want.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 11:38 PM
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https://themalefactor.com/2019/10/03/37-ways-men-are-discriminated-against/ Anyone wanna give this a proofread in terms of the inherent bias and then confirm if these sources they list are true or relevant to this specific topic at hand? Even if it's 3 years old it probably maintains some relevance.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 11:25 PM
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When you visit the sub you can read the bio and see the type of sub it is. You are reading too hard into this. The sims is a wacky game where people do dumb stuff.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 08:08 PM
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Again, The New York Times reported, “The simple mathematics of more women than men earning college degrees means that many highly educated women will either have to partner with less-educated men, or forgo partnership,” resulting in a lower birthrate. How ironic if, after a half-century of historic, overdue progress integrating women fully into the nation’s economic, social and political life, we gave back the immense societal gains of that climb because men stopped holding up their end. So sudd…
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:39 AM
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I don't find hitting, in general, the best response unless it's literally combat-based media. I personally avoid those forms of anime because the guy is usually a caricature of a child wanting to be something more than what they currently are. A good manga/anime usually understands the strengths of both characters and usually makes it so they can work together despite their weaknesses without pointing out the gender difference as much. It's a matter of what you consume and while it is somewhat c…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:55 PM
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I never blamed feminism, I never implied any specific gender was responsible and in fact in other comments talked about how men contribute to this as well. I just maintain the mindset that in general sharing with people sucks because it's commonly taught that in 90% of scenarios you don't need to worry about other people's feelings. Also, why is it bad to want to be respected? I'm not out here looking to be put on a pedestal, merely wanting the respect I give out to be returned in kind and its a…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:48 PM
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Except finding friends who care in a general sense is like finding a needle in a haystack and takes the practice of building boundaries in which you still have to protect yourself nonetheless. As far as I am concerned most people don't sweat others which creates a rift between them at the outset. You can talk about something magically being the solution but in practice its not the same to me.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 07:32 PM
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Although women are more allowed to share their feelings in the media, how many times do we have to hear: “are you on your period?”, “stop being dramatic/emotional!”, “What a bitch”, “She has mental issues lol”. These are looked down upon and usually chastised by women and other groups to the point where this really isn't as much of an issue as it's being portrayed. I'm not denying there are people out there who probably think with this mindset but usually those are called childish people and are…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 07:27 PM
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What? You do realize that with abusers it's typically anywhere and anything goes for them right? You see to be zoomed in on something that really doesn't change the facts here. Stop being an apologist for people who clearly aren't good people. Abuse is bad in general whether it's verbal or physical and women are very good at verbal abuse that's not debatable.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 07:17 PM
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This is what I use as well. Luckily I have a good resource to do so, but depending on the therapist it could be bad or good. Just need to set those lines with your therapist. I've just had the misfortune of having people not respect me enough to consider the impact of what they say despite me following the golden rule of life. I'm nowhere near perfect but it genuinely makes me question people when we get into an argument and you use something I told you just to prove a small ass point about how …
/r/MensRights07/01/22 06:03 PM
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You proved my point with your response. Just have the kid and don't be the mother. "Ain't the end of the world." Do you see what a dumbass argument that is? Do you see how much that dusts over in favor of my opinion? Do you see how much you dust over in favor of yours? Regardless, I'm done here because you seem to not be interested in a dialogue. End of Story.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:57 AM
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Also, Huntington's Disease would be another reason here.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:39 AM
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I'm sure Watson can appreciate the logic you used there Sherlock. The entire point of this discussion is in the case of men who want to be the father but are denied the opportunity to because of reasons they can't control even if they have the drive or commitment to take care of the said child. He can always walk away and many do. Courts don’t even chase dead beats. So perpetuating an unhealthy response to an already immense issue in which men become deadbeats and absolve themselves of any paren…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:37 AM
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The idea at least from how I understand it is that surnames are misogynistic because it implies a lack of agency for the woman in the family dynamic. This means that because it comes from a guy there's some level of inherent evil for the fact that women didn't get a say in the past therefore accepting such a thing means you are bowing down to the man. I can't speak for that because obviously as a person I don't even carry my own family surname due to a lot of life issues. Someone else can correc…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 06:17 AM
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It's almost romanticized to me that feelings are a thing to be discussed and being open somehow will make a situation better. Oftentimes more than not my experience has been that instead of being beneficial, people tend to use your weakness against you regardless of whether they do it intentionally or not. I'm not saying having feelings is a weakness, but expressing your insecurities to people who don't relate to you can really put you in a vulnerable position because you wouldn't have a way to …
/r/MensRights07/01/22 05:25 AM
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I go into some of the subreddits partly because I have Reddit videos playing in the background as white noise when I'm cleaning, doing work, or anything of the sort. Part of what frustrates me is how predictable certain discussions are. I've seen my fair share of double standards but I've also seen some of the more fun stuff with Reddit like some of the big elaborate askreddit questions about cool stories. There are also the cool and funny subs like birdswitharms or some of the content creators …
/r/MensRights07/01/22 05:18 AM
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Uh, lets take the obvious one in the room and use slavery for example: The fact that people were freed was dependent on other people and their opinions pushing others to similar mindsets in favor of supporting their right to exist in a normal fashion. Let's take the even better approach on animal rights which LITERALLY depends on humans who fight for their right to exist. It's noble to argue the mindset of my world is controlled by me but at the same time it doesn't work when the goal relies on …
/r/MensRights07/01/22 12:54 AM
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They didn't institute it but actively aren't pushing to disestablish it because it inherently doesn't affect them. That's the issue with it.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 12:51 AM
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They often share the majority vote and bias in regards to parenting or anything of the sort on the basis that they are the birther of the child. This has been acknowledged as a right in regards to the family operation. Whether it's abortion to parenting values men are seen as less than human in regards to that because the presentation by women is that all men are assholes and sexual deviants alongside the "my body my choice movement" which creates a social dichotomy where men's rights to be a pa…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 12:47 AM
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I'm not here saying it's not because it is to smart people. However, not everyone believes everything is mutually beneficial, they get their position and don't want to lose it so why would they be actively interested in that? That's why people will push against it regardless of what you feel. Also HCD btw.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 10:13 PM
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I got a notification that made me think it was from my comment chain, apologies.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 09:55 PM
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If it wasn't a matter of being interactive with other communities and not risking a potential ban from them for interacting with this community and then the secondary factor of people I know knowing my main I would be here supporting fully. Unfortunately with life, you don't get what you want and I'd rather keep the peace.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 09:50 PM
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How do you get that from my post?
/r/MensRights06/01/22 09:47 PM
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Your initial post doesn't leave an opening for discussion it states something and people are free to disagree or agree but that doesn't change the initial statement to me. As Men's Rights I would think this sub would be more about male equality and empowerment rather than women bashing...to each their own I guess. When you open a discussion at least to me you end with a question, not a statement. I don't look at this and see you questioning why the sub is that way I see you stating how you feel …
/r/MensRights06/01/22 09:17 PM
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Being better than everyone else isn't necessarily harmful, it's being greedy about your current situation to where you see it as helpful to drag down others to better yourself instead of pursuing a path where not being like others can help you escape the pot you currently are in. The way I view treating people how you want to be treated is: Try hard not to make any assumptions about others because you wouldn't want to have people make them about you and move based on that. View things as if you …
/r/MensRights06/01/22 09:01 PM
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You don't have to hate to want to fix your scenario, sure having resentment can be a driving factor but for me, it's more of a future concern for my potential children that drove me to even talking about these topics. Teaching men to adapt to the current state and future state of society in regards to their rights/needs should be the overall goal. I just don't like a call to action where you point out the negatives and say we should focus on the positives but don't offer any viable solutions suc…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 08:50 PM
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It's always been looked down upon. If you point out something that doesn't benefit the people you are trying to engage with even if it's warranted you will be dogged for it.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 08:34 PM
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Although ASU touts retention, it did not report the rate of men who are graduating. Then what's the point of bragging about it? The entire reason you'd want to put this out there was to discuss the number of males attending and graduating rather than posting numbers of people potentially liable not to finish college. What are the programs there that make sure the males stay afloat when it comes to finishing and graduating? My concern would be that because you can say people are attending or retu…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 08:30 PM
11

Honestly, it's just because it's usually easier to point out the negatives rather than the positives that this occurs. I don't hate women either, I've accepted that it's just not realistic at my stage in life that interacting with them in the dating market would be beneficial to me due to what I currently live with. As for general rights, I'm usually discussing moreso the general topics that address the actual issues that men live with and talk about those rather than join in the "Here's a negat…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 08:24 PM
6

So if the woman wanted the kid, then none of these said factors would matter because it's what the woman wants. What I always find insanely hilarious is the double standard of responsibility versus freedom of choice in terms of relationship priorities. In all stances because of something men are unable to control or have any say in are still expected to be responsible for regardless of their wants/needs. If the guy wants the kid you have to consider all these extraneous factors but for a woman, …
/r/MensRights06/01/22 07:29 PM
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What's the point of hating on women? Why waste energy on something that means nothing? I still follow the golden rule of "treat people how you wanna be treated".
/r/MensRights06/01/22 07:21 PM
2

There should be dedicated boy groups that don't force girls into the equation under the guise of "anything men can do I can do better" when the clear reason into to detract from the female gender at all but to provide youth with a group of their demographic that operate similar to them in most things. I use boy scouts as an example because inherently it was an activity growing up dedicated to boys that had no interest in slighting women and in fact, sometimes had mixed-gender interactions during…
/r/MensRights05/01/22 05:24 PM
15

Part of what tires me is that women have nearly every tool nowadays to succeed given they have the drive yet still want to take down men. Women have for example: Hundreds of dedicated support programs for specifically their issues. An education system that actually works around their brain wiring. The full rights and privileges in regards to being a parent even if they aren't a proper one. A society in which uplifts and empowers them to the point where all social expectations can be lifted off t…
/r/MensRights04/01/22 01:22 AM
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What I appreciate is the fact that they specifically point out that when discussing anything regarding men's behavior or how to fix them it's always implied in a negative form or manner. How many times do you see commercials where they only feature women doing empowering things and almost all the time never men. Its just a weird breaking down of one side to build the other and its gone too far.
/r/MensRights04/01/22 01:11 AM
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