| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 119 | I’ve been around the block (36F), let me give you some advice... | LEVEL UP | throwaway818111010 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:17 PM |
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| 1 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.Because it’s a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Do 'average' Women just bring more to the table today than 'average' Men?Evolve=This is due to technology and social media. YouTube and Instagram allows me to be able to do my makeup & hair like a professional, dress like a celebrity, know the best foods and workouts, find the best surgeons in the world…ect. We can maxxx out our beauty faster and persevere it longer than ever in history. This is definitely an advantage men don’t have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Do 'average' Women just bring more to the table today than 'average' Men?Wow. I know from experience that this is 100% spot on. Don’t let anyone tell you different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestThat’s helpful. Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 03:57 AM |
| 2 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestWhat do you mean by how to enjoy hunger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 08:19 AM |
| 11 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameI’m self aware enough to agree with you. The difference is that I have easy access to men that not even that long ago, I wouldn’t have known existed. This by default increases my standards because I have so many options now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 11:57 PM |
| 4 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameMy advice for that “average man” is to become “niche” in something manly and unique. Yes: Chop wood. Sharpen knives. Horror Artist. No: Video games. DnD. Star Wars Legos. Does it take work? Yes. Lots. And I empathize that it gets exhausting. Do you have any other viable options if you actually want success with the average and above women online? Unfortunately, no. Or you can just complain about it to strangers on the internet. Reality: Women’s attention spans are that of a gnat now. What makes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 11:49 PM |
| 32 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameYou make really good points but they are a tad bit exaggerated from reality. I can admit as a woman that my standards for men are up significantly since OLD despite being older (37), divorced, AND I have a young child. But it’s because I can be. The amount of attention online I get allows me to be selective. I’m in a happy relationship now but at any point I can download Hinge and all my social/romantic/self esteem needs can be met instantly. I can completely understand why “average” men are fru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 11:05 PM |
| 2 | I’m confused - why very attractive women stick around dating apps?Preach! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Can someone please give me some good reasons why any financially successful man (or woman) should ever get married in today’s day and age?Both very true! I’m thinking if you want to max out in “societal status.” Otherwise I agree, it’s not necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:32 AM |
| 6 | Can someone please give me some good reasons why any financially successful man (or woman) should ever get married in today’s day and age?Only reasons I can think of are these… If the woman you choose to marry is financially similar to you, (spending habits, salary, tax benefits) then it would be beneficial to marry because you could leverage your collective monies together. The other reason is kids. But that’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:24 AM |
| 1 | what do you think is the main reason for men giving commitment to one girl, but not the other?You are looking at yourself through your eyes. Through his eyes, you are a queen. You make him happy. Thus his “status” is increased. Proving my point. “Status” can mean different things but it’s always highly positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 07:50 AM |
| -1 | what do you think is the main reason for men giving commitment to one girl, but not the other?I put status in quotes for that very reason. It’s bespoke to each individual man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 07:41 AM |
| -2 | what do you think is the main reason for men giving commitment to one girl, but not the other?Does she increase his “status?” Yes? LTR No? P&D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Divorce is worse for children than never having married/two parent householdAlso to add to that, my experience as a kid. My dad told me in 7th grade that he would have divorced my mom a long time ago if it weren’t for my sister and I. He truly stayed together for the kids. My mom is a toxic B and it would have been horrible if he left us. So I agree with you. If it’s a healthy experience through the child’s eyes, married or not, the parents breaking up when the child is accustomed to that way of life, is very traumatic. The more years of this healthy experience, the mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Divorce is worse for children than never having married/two parent householdFrom experience, I’m glad I got a divorce when my daughter was younger (5) vs. older. Kids are able to adapt much better when they are younger. She adjusted very well and is thriving. If she was 13 and we divorced, it would have been much harder on her since she was used to the my-parents-in-the-same household dynamic for so long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 03:59 PM |
| 6 | I watch this video from time to time whenever I need to be reminded about the good in the world. I've watched it over a dozen times and bawl my eyes out, start to finish, every single time 😭😭😭 love is a beautiful thing, when shared with the right personBest 99¢ I’ve spent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Dating women who have advanced degreesI can relate to you so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical?Exactly. Humans (non-linear) in a on-line (linear) environment. It’s just like trying to jam a square peg into a round hole. Does it fit? Barely. And it takes work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 11:52 PM |
| 2 | People lower their looks standards to get what they actually want.Preach 🙌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 12:05 AM |
| 29 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!That’s so great and I’m super happy for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:27 AM |
| 250 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!He knows that I absolutely love flowers and the one day out of the year you would think he would get me some is Valentine’s Day? But nope. A cheap card with a certificate to dinner at a later date and a sucker. I couldn’t hold back the tears because he really is a good guy (smart, hardworking, kind, decent lover) but can’t be romantic to save his life. He is all about saving money and wanting to retire early so I guess anything that’s not practical is a waste of money in his eyes. I hate myself … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:23 AM |
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