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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Girls with abandonment issues and mostly male friends		throwaway8675309einn	/r/seduction	20/02/17 12:48 AM

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1	Girls with abandonment issues and mostly male friends They certainly do have to be worked from the inside. It almost felt like during the few arguments/fights we had, she was still very much thinking about the awful things her exes did to her, which she didn't ever go into detail about. She had seen a therapist once and said that it was a waste of time and didn't want to go back. However, I do think she may be seeing a therapist at this point now (something she told me she was going to do because of our breakup). It really would've been too much wo…	/r/seduction	20/02/17 08:40 PM
1	Girls with abandonment issues and mostly male friends Oh, so true. The one I was dating was incredibly sweet. She may have had a decent amount of partners in her past (I was the 5th dude in two years), but her attention/approval seeking were just too much BS for me to want to put up with. This girl was a plus 1 on a wedding with a guy friend. They had planned this well before I was in the picture, so I was cool about it. She did spend the night at this hotel with this guy, but she told me it was two bedrooms. I know what you're thinking, but I don'…	/r/seduction	20/02/17 01:53 PM
1	Girls with abandonment issues and mostly male friends She did bring exes up a bit, and what they did in their relationship. When someone does this and brings up exes regularly, it most likely means that they haven't healed from their past and are very much still thinking about them often. Also, she did want attention from the guys Snapping her. I still have feelings but I don't want to re date her, and she doesn't want to be exclusive anyway. Good for your to figure out what's best for you in the long run. You don't need that type of shit, and it s…	/r/seduction	20/02/17 01:48 PM
1	When I touch girls they aren't often comfortable - how to move past this sticking point Perhaps the issue may be before you get to the point of touching. Are you noticing that their body language is standoffish or is it open and relaxed? Perhaps listen to what your friend says/does/stands when he's talking to girls. This can at least give you an idea of what gets them wanting you to touch them. Good luck.	/r/seduction	20/02/17 03:42 AM
1	When I touch girls they aren't often comfortable - how to move past this sticking point Rather than an arm around her, perhaps try just placing your hand on her shoulder for a maximum of like two seconds. Not like a graze, and not like a grope--this is in between that. There long enough for her to notice and then gone. What were you talking about when you put your arm around her? Did you maybe put your arm around her one too many times?	/r/seduction	20/02/17 12:52 AM

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