throwawaySI_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Mistakes were made Recommend you check out the book No More Mr. Nice Guy. Read it and work through the exercises. It’s rough and it’s painful brother. But there is happiness and light at the end of the tunnel.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/21 05:25 AM
3	Mistakes were made Sorry to hear this man. This is a rough road. You’re going to see light at the end of this tunnel but it will take time. I think you need to work on setting firmer boundaries though. It sounds like you had set boundaries with your ex that were not respected. And then y’all coped through alcohol which didn’t help.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/21 07:39 AM
16	Am I doing too much? Yeah. You should probably try to get more custody. You’re enabling her to retain this level of custody by supporting her lifestyle.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/21 01:18 AM
2	What risk is there is broaching the topic before filing in the hopes that we can come to an amicable resolution? I mean it all really depends on her temperament. I don’t know about convincing her of anything though. That doesn’t sound super promising.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/21 10:25 PM
2	Guys that have had multiple marriages/divorces. Fuck man I’m going through my first divorce and it just sounds like it kept getting worse and worse for you. I’m sorry to hear this.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/21 10:21 PM
4	What risk is there is broaching the topic before filing in the hopes that we can come to an amicable resolution? Do you really think that she can be amicable? If there’s any doubt, I would assume conflict. The more you can negotiate and be amicable to cheaper and quicker it will be. She could definitely do what you’re saying. The DV charge makes things more complicated however. Have you talked to a lawyer?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/21 10:03 PM
2	Should I use my va loan to get a house when me and my wife on the verge of divorce Yeah bud cannot recommend buying a house and then getting divorced, makes the process way more difficult	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/21 01:26 PM
3	Post divorce relationship timing It should take you as long as it takes you, and no one else can say when that is but you. It sounds like this is going to be a sticking point between you. Especially with her desire to have more children. As another commenter said, go with your gut.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/21 03:22 AM
2	Anything I can do? bad bot	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/21 06:07 PM