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| 4 | Do you have any male friends?My best friend is male. We worked in a traumatic work setting together (male dominated feild) and have a lot of friends in common. I am not really interested in overly girly things (fashion, make up) and he doesn't have overly masculine interests. But I helped him when he was recovering from alcoholism and he helped me when I lost my parents. There is nothing sexual at all, he is like an adopted brother. I do think working in a heavily male dominated field influences it though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 06:52 PM |
| 11 | Assuming this is not your first time meeting, is it always a red flag or deal breaker if the man does not pick you up for the first date?As others have mentioned there are other things I'd be concerned about, but to your question - I personally never ever ride with someone on the first date. Its a safety thing that I always have even if I knew him beforehand. You never know what kind of LV behavior might emerge when he thinks he is dating you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:39 AM |
| 8 | How big of an age gap in relationships is acceptable?I'm just above the same cusp. I will do up to 5 years older but would only go 1 to 2 younger because my upbringing is much closer to a millennial than zoomer and don't want to date a zoomer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:43 PM |
| 22 | Guys love it when they have an excuse to hit a woman.90% agree. Don't you dare tell me the cat stays outside ect. She's a housecat and doing anything that could hurt her is an automatic break up. I call her all kinds of names though 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 01:09 PM |
| 56 | Pick mes like this are the reason bisexual women have to hide our sexuality.This. I've never told a guy I dated I'm bi. I just avoid pronouns when talking about exs. Of course it helps I've never had a really serious relationship with a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:21 AM |
| 22 | Pick mes like this are the reason bisexual women have to hide our sexuality.This and the fact that we are a fetish are the reasons I've yet to tell a guy I dated my actual sexuality! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:20 AM |
| 28 | Another stage of the vetting process- are they there for you in times of grief?I had the guy I was seeing ghost when I told him my father had cancer and was dying. For vetting in the future I think I'm going to make sure I talk to guys about his illness and death just to see how they react | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:28 PM |
| 42 | How many red flags can you pack into 1 profile? LET'S COUNT!Notice he mentions she must be active (skinny) and have her life together twice but then only says he is fun! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 01:36 PM |
| 14 | Taylor Swift’s “All Too Well”Curiosity from a guy I'm talking to. What if a guy previously dated a much younger girl but is now dating older? Is it still a red flag? Or learning from mistakes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 05:14 PM |
| 73 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.This has got to be satire... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 12:21 PM |
| 164 | Who do you think is a High Value Woman TV female character?Elsa from frozen not dating while she tries to figure herself out and encouraging her sister to have higher standards than the average Disney princess - "you can't marry a man you just met". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 11:31 AM |
| 20 | “Men always complain about being friend zoned, but do they know how much it hurts to be fuck zoned? As if our friendship only had value to him because of possible sex?”This is so frustrating. I had (what I thought) was a good friend who I had rejected. We had stayed friends so I thought until one day I asked for his help with moving something (he had a truck and it was a 20 min job) and he bitched me out. Turns out he got a girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Be Wary of Male Therapists / PsychsI had something similar happen too. I was stuck with a male psychiatrist for a year who gaslight me, and basically destroyed the mental health I had when I walked in. It was terrible and haven't seen a therapist since. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:02 AM |
| 18 | Boomer pickmeisha blames women and feminism for men being "pushed out" of academiaSexism in STEM is still an everyday occurrence and many places are downright hostile to anything to do with family accommodations. But sure. Men are being pushed out. I DARE any of these scotes who think this to come deal with my day to day life.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 01:27 PM |
| 10 | I just…🤦🏻♀️oh my god TW: DVThat was my thought, especially when she got to the head banging tantrum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 11:57 AM |
| 34 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.I'm in for this women only country honestly. We can have a warm tropical island somewhere.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 12:33 PM |
| 88 | They even use our sexual boundaries against us to get offThat's disgusting and I would report that therapist! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 03:17 PM |
| 48 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳Her profile just has the number 18 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:46 PM |
| 58 | Thoughts on changing your name when you get married?My formal title is going to be Dr (Last Name) in the very near future, and it isn't going to change for anybody. If I ever marry I may socially go by my husband's last name but will not legally change it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:10 PM |
| 43 | Disney vs. Barbie princess moviesI did think Frozen was a step in the right direction. The main relationship is one of sisters and Elsa outright mocks Ana for being a pickme. Then Ana meets an actual HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Take your pick, ladies! - *sobs*That's what I should have done. I just couldn't believe he was starting on a first date. He then had the nerve to ask how I thought the date went at the end! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 09:41 PM |
| 12 | Take your pick, ladies! - *sobs*Seriously. I recently went on a first date with one of these types and it was the worst date I ever went on. We ended up arguing politics the whole time. The food even sucked but at least he paid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Take your pick, ladies! - *sobs*This is way to real.... and why I'm single 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:34 PM |
| 101 | I said what I said.Perhaps if you are so insecure about your kink that you can be "shamed" its because deep down you realize wanting to beat your girlfriend during sex isn't acceptable 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 18 | Anyone who knowingly interacts with pedophiles cannot be trusted. Pedophiles routinely exploit their social networks to access children. Their judgement and motivations will always be suspect. Thoroughly vet everyone in your life and DO NOT IGNORE RED FLAGS.The fact that this even needs to be said is disgusting on a level I haven't fully processed... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 01:21 AM |
| 12 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape PornYeah there is no way they didn't know. This person's been a mod for a long time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 13 | Your life does not end at 18 nor your worth as a womanYeah honestly this was my thought this person (who I'm not entirely convinced is actually female) has some serious mental health issues well above reddit's pay grade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 12:22 PM |
| 9 | Decline alcohol on a first date!This has been one of my hard limits for a long time. Both for the vetting and just because I see it as a safety thing (I have also been roofied) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 9 | Males pretending to be women so they can get an FDS Newbie flair trying not to mansplain so they don’t get caughtLooks like you have a flair... I think you just keep commenting? That's what I'm doing anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 04:45 PM |
| 6 | "SWERFs" don't harm sex workers. You wanna know what's actually harmful to sex workers? Doing sex work.Why would they have to do something for them? Most people don't get extra support when they leave a job /s It almost nauseated me to even sarcastically say that.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Re-connecting with womenI've been lurking for a while and recently started commenting too. I feel this. I was already doing a lot of the things listed here too, but still have alot to work ok. But this site does create a lot of solidarity. Before finding this I often felt like I was "damaged" or "broken" for not trusting men and feeling uncomfortable with the things they do. FDS is starting me on the journey of recognizing that ALL women do experience these things and I shouldn't have to fix myself to accept male depra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:10 PM |
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